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Haleigh Cummings Father’s Vocal “Tells” in His Jailhouse Interview Show Guilt, Resignation, and Ambivalence Towards Misty

Tuesday, February 2nd, 2010


Ronald Cummings, father of the missing 5 year old Florida girl, Haileigh Cummings, is now in jail for trafficking prescription drugs. In his exclusive jailhouse interview with Florida Times- Union reporter Dana Treen, Cummings had a lot to talk about.  His vocal tells and the content of what he said spoke added volumes.

SIGNS OF REMORSE AND RESIGNED HE WILL BE GOING TO PRISON

His voice appeared strong and definite as Ron seemed resigned to the fact that he will be going to prison by firmly stating “I’m going to DOC (Department Of Corrections). I’m going to prison, no ‘ifs, ands, or buts.’” His voice showed that he clearly knew what was going to happen to him and that he was accepting of that fact.
He also showed remorse at the close of his interview as he said “This is a setback in my life,” “When I come out, it will remind me what I should be doing, not what I was doing, or accused of doing.”

FEAR OF ISOLATION

In his vocal tone you can hear the uneasiness and extreme discomfort he is feeling while being isolated in jail. His voice reveals his frustration as he graphically describes how it is too much to bear by saying, “ nobody on either side, nobody nowhere around, nothing but a hallway.”

“You know what’s bad? I don’t look forward to breakfast, lunch, or dinner. I look forward to after breakfast lunch and dinner, ’cause after breakfast lunch and dinner, the one trustee has to come through here and pick up the trash. Well, they bring the trash right through the back door right past where I’m at, so he has to come right by me, so I get to see him for 3 minutes in the morning, 3 minutes in the afternoon, 3 minutes at night,”

VOCAL RAGE AS RLASHES OUT ABOUT ALLEGED PERSON WHO TOOK HAILEIGH

Ronald’s voice becomes suddenly enraged when he talked about what he would do to the person who abducted his daughter. There is a harsh edge to the tone as he speaks with a bravado and says “It’ll be justifiable homicide. I don’t care if they get me with unjustifiable homicide. I don’t care, if I find out what happened to my youngin’ it doesn’t matter to me. It’ll be worth life without parole or the death penalty or whatever”.

RON STILL LOVES MISTY BUT SHOWS AMBIVALENCE AND CONFUSION TOWARDS HER


The most interesting part of his jailhouse interview was when he discussed his former wife and now girlfriend Misty Croslin, who was also arrested and was last person thought to have seen  HaileighCummings before she disappeared almost a year ago.
On the one hand he says, “There really isn’t a relationship I guess, just ex-wife, slash friend.” But then at the end of his interview in his final message he said “I want my girlfriend to know I love her.”
As further indication of his ambivalence and confusion about Misty he says, “Of course, I want to know if she knows anything. It’s hard to believe that she don’t know more, but it’s also hard to believe that if she did know more she didn’t already talk.”

RON IS IN DENIAL

While he has shown remorse and is resigned to that fact that he will be spending time in prison, he is obviously in denial in terms of how much time he will be spending in prison.
It could be the major portion of his life- 43 years if he is convicted of all charges levied against him. As further evidence that he is still in denial and has not yet fully processed what has happened to him, Cummings told reporter Treen that the charges are “a setback in my life.”
Once he realizes that he may be spending 43 years in prison, he will see that this is not a mere “setback” in his life. It is in essence, the end of his life as he knew it.

WHAT HAPPENED TO HAILEIGH?


Several months back on September 18, a letter allegedly written by a friend of Misty Croslin’s who was in the Putnam County jail, Kristina “Nay Nay” Prevatt allegedly send to her boyfriend a letter stating that a man named Joe told detectives that Haileigh ingested some Oxycontin and died and accused her and Misty and a man named Greg of being there when it happened. The alleged letter also said Greg put Hailey into a bag and took her to a pond.

Although Kristina Prevatt denies her involvement in her alleged letter to her boyfriend, which can be seen on http://www.cayleedaily.com/2009/09/read-letter-about-haleigh-cummings-overdose-on-oxycontin-drug/ Kristina allegedly was known to hang out with Misty and was allegedly at the Satusuma home last February when Haileigh vanished.

Six months ago, this may have seemed like a far – fetched scenario where someone may have made up those claims to get their 15 minutes of fame, but now that Misty has been accused of prescription drug trafficking, and if she is found guilty, it may seem like a plausible scenario . Of course we don’t know for sure.

On the other hand, the way Ron was speaking in his jailhouse interview, it seemed as though he is convinced that someone actually took  Haileigh and may have her as he describes what he would do to the person who took Haileigh. But then again, this is the same man who says he “loves” his girlfriend and says “ but it’s also hard to believe that if she did know more she didn’t already talk.” www.drlillianglass.com

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Paris and Prince Jackson’s Body Language Show Great Self Confidence and Michael’s Love. They were NOT Exploited By Appearing At the GRAMMY’S

Tuesday, February 2nd, 2010

Michael Jackson not only left a legacy of phenomenal music and entertainment but he left beautiful children with so much love and self-confidence as they appeared on stage at the Grammy’s to accept their father’s Lifetime Achievement Award.

As soon as Paris and Prince Michael came on the stage accompanied by their very handsome cousins, for moral support, they each gave Lionel Richie a very warm, loving and heartfelt hug, with their arms fully embracing Lionel as they wrapped them around Lionel’s shoulder and neck.

This loving gesture indicated that Michael definitely gave these two a lot of affection throughput their young lives.Otherwise they would not be able to demonstrate it and give it so freely to others. You can fully give what you received and these two clearly received love and affection.

PRINC’E’S  SPEECH

Prince spoke eloquently. His tones reflected self the confidence that would make Michael proud. Paris reflected the same self- confidence through her body language- her impeccable straight and solid posture. As Prince spoke, he embraced the award as lovingly as he no doubt embraced his dad when he was alive. What was even more impressive was that Prince spoke from the heart, without using a teleprompter. By thanking God for watching over him and his siblings for the past 7 months, reminded us how long Michael has been that Michael has not been with us. He also let us know that he was well taken care of by adding the special thanks to his grandparents.

When she first acknowledged his grandmother, his cousins nodded in agreement, indicating their love for her as well. He reiterated Michael’s message – “love” and said how he would continue to spread his father’s message and help the world as he further embraced his award as though he was symbolically embracing his father. After Prince was finished speaking, he went back to the loving arms of his cousins who embraced him, showing him their support for a job well done.

PARIS’ SPEECH

Then beautiful young lady, Paris with her impeccable posture and equally eloquent, rich, resonant voice, which depicted self- confidence and self – awareness spoke. She added a more personal touch in the few seconds she had to speak. She reminded us indirectly that although Michael won a Lifetime Achievement Award and was a great performer- he was still” daddy.” Her impromptu message came from the heart and was not teleprompted. She let us in on how “daddy” was supposed to perform last year but couldn’ t (and obviously couldn’t perform this year either due to his untimely death).

THE CHILDREN WERE NOT EXPLOITED FOR THE GRAMMY’S

When I read the following headline on the Drudgereport, GRAMMY EXPLOIT: THE KIDS MICHAEL JACKSON PROTECTED SO MUCH– PUT OUT FOR SHOW… I was very disturbed by this headline.

Having served as a Governor of the Grammy Organization for four years, I know exactly what goes on in that Grammy Organization – or NARAS as it is formally called. I have seen  in it up close and personal and they would not exploit anyone. Their aim is to fairly and properly honor those who have shown exceptional talent.

The Lifetime Achievement Award was NOT given to Michael Jackson because he died and to exploit his children to garner ratings. The decision as to who would receive the award was made well before Michael’s death seven months ago. In fact it was made well over a year ago. Therefore, this headline is ridiculous.

Initially, The Grammy Organization had no intention of having his kids up on stage to accept the award. They intended to have Michael accept the award for his exceptional talent throughout his life. Since he was no longer with us, who best to receive the award on his behalf other than those who were an extension of Michael- his cherished kids whom he loved and adored more than anything in the world. It made the moment very special.

As far as being protected when they were young children and not being exposed, the operative words are “ young children.” That is no doubt why young “Blanket” was not up there with these two mature “tweens.” Michael’s 11 year old daughter and 12 year old son were NOT exploited. They came there willingly and spoke willingly, based on the tone of their voice and content of their speech and their body language.

I am sure that they cherished the opportunity to speak those beautiful and loving words about their father. I am also sure that since Michael was not there to accept the award, that along with his mother whom he loved dearly, he would have been proud to have his offspring accept the award on his behalf and speak the words they spoke. www.drlillianglass.com

 

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