As I said previously , my blogs have no political or any other agenda. I just report objectively what I see and hear. This blog confirms my lack of showing favoritism towards any candidate.
When Sharon Bialeck came forward with Gloria Allred in tow as she who claimed Herman Cain sexually harassed her, I observed many signals of deception and a story that made absolutely no sense to me when she told of how Cain allegedly put his hand up her skirt and her mere reply was “You know I have a boyfriend.”
Most people would say something like ”Stop it” or What do you think you are doing?” They wouldn’t bring up their boyfriend as an excuse.
Then when I saw the interview that Cain’s wife did with Greta Van Sustern as she who “stood by her man” I saw a sweet and well meaning woman with down to earth demeanor as she vehemently insisted her husband was innocent and the Herman Cain she knew was not the one portrayed by these women. She strongly claimed that the Herman Cain described is not the one she knows for all these years and that she is not one of the wives who is the last to know.
Well unfortunately after hearing what Ginger White had to say and studying her body language, poor Mrs. Cain is indeed the last to know.
I observed that body language wise, Ginger White was forthright in her admission that she had an affair based on her body language Ginger was pained as she spoke. She was telling he truth.
She showed no deception when she said she did Not want to come forward. It showed in her face, She looked terribly pained . Look at the lines of emotional agony in her face. Look at the vertical line above her brow which screams distress.
There is no doubt that Ginger came forth because she was outed and because her who family was being harassed. She is not enjoying this media blitz. She is the opposite of Bialeck who was loving every minute of it based on her genuine starry eyed smiles.
CAIN SHOWS DECEPTION
When Cain says I have never acted inappropriately with anyone, the first tip off something is wrong is that he is reading this statement from his script. He is looking down t his notes. If he was being sincere and speaking from the heart, he definitely didn’t need notes to speak those words.
Also look at his hands , they are cupped in anger – anger no doubt at having to defend himself. His palms are down, not up. If the palms were up he would be openly and truthfully saying these words.
Here we see that there is a mechanical choppiness to this gesture which shows shows that he is being over the top in making his point which may often point to deception.
GINGER IS HONEST AND IN EMOTIONAL PAIN
Ginger in contrast is pen and honest and speaks in a modulated tone . As to why she had the affair . she said it took her away fro her humdrum life and it was exciting. As she said this there was a sight eyebrow rise which means that she meant what she said.
Then for the first time during her interview, we notice that she had a slight smile when she said he was confident and the same as he is on the campaign trail. Her demeanor leads me to believe that she still may have feelings for him.
But then she quashes her feelings by saying Herman Cain loves Herman Cain WOW! In essence she is saying Herman Cain didn’t love her, he loves himself. In essence she is outing him as a narcissist.
So why would she put up with an alleged narcissist as she see it, The reason is simple, she benefits financially and she gets to have ex with a powerful man which may turn her on physically and make her feel like she is special to have such a man attracted to her.
His book CEO of Self now seems to have a whole different meaning in light of the narcissism comment by White.
Her comment was a clear dig at Cain. She is angry. She is hurt and it shows. She is angry at the fact that perhaps he was indeed having affairs with other women besides her. The fact that all of these women came forth may have put her in the same emotional shoes as Ms. Cain. The only difference is that Ginger knows first hand that he is a cheater. While some of the women may be fabricating their claims, she may believe that there are others who are not lying.
SADNESS AND PAIN AT RELIZATION RELATIONSHIP IS OFFICIALLY OVER
Looks pained as she stammered as the interviewer asked if the relationship is going on now. She said it Well um and stammered and breathes a sigh and looked very pained as she said well its safe to say that after this interview I guess this will be the end of it.
She still harbors feeling as she is emotional as she says these words.
HELPING HER FINANCIALLY
When confronted as to why he had Ginger White’s number, he said he had her number because he was trying to help her financially
WHAT?? Doe he think we are that stupid. Was he getting something in return for helping her out financially. No one gets financial help unless they are your family member, getting paid for a service rendered, getting a loan, or receiving a Pell grant.
CAIN IS BUSTED AND SUSPENDED!!!
After listening to Cain’s suspension speech and hearing his arrogance in his tone and loud defensiveness and watching his body language there was no question that the man was busted! Ginger White’s interviews and her public admission along with the phone record evidence did in Cain’s campaign.
What the public initially liked about Cain was his open demeanor and his candidness. But he wasn’t being that candid when he was busted by Ginger White or during his Campaign Suspension speech.
The last thing the American public needs or wants is a candidate without integrity or moral turpitude. In these crucial times we are looking for a leader we can trust. We have to trust that leader to do right by us. If someone lies about their personal affairs, what will they lie about when it comes to the public’s affairs?
Ginger’s admission was no match for Cain no matter how he tried to spin it. Body language wise it showed he was involved with him and had feelings for hm. She may have thought she was special to him and that she was his only dalliance. But as more and more women came forth, she realized that perhaps where there is smoke there is most likely fire. She stated she came forth because of the allegations of the other women. Perhaps she also came forth because there were other women besides her and that angered her.
The bottom line is the public will not welcome a cheating leader in or out of the bedroom.
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I really like reading Lilian Glass commentary because they are always insightful. On the other hand I feel compelled to respond to her comment about her “not having an agenda” and being unbiased in her commentary and analysis. I remember when Saddam Hussein was being interviewed on 60 minutes before the second invasion took place. Saddam Hussein was asked questions about whether he was hiding weapons of mass destruction. In watching the interview, I was hoping Lillian Glass would comment that he was telling the truth about not having WMD, but she stayed away from that and instead waited until they captured Saddam Hussein and talked about how much of a monster he was. So clearly Lillian Glass had an agenda and was biased in talking about Saddam Hussein. She (Lillian Glass) also avoided the senate hearings on Condelezza Rice… She showed deception all over the place when she was asked about WMD and the reasons for the Iraq invasion. Lillian Glass always avoids commenting on things like this. The Hermain Cain thing is just child’s play… there is nothing so suprising about him being a big liar and a bufoon.
Peter as I said I have NO AGENDA.You are being ridiculous and grabbing at straws. I report on various newsmakers when they are prominently in the news. I do not report on every news maker. As stated I do not put political bias on anything so don’t waste your time looking for something that isn’t there.
Someone else pointed out to me that when Cain was first confronted with the infidelity allegations that he said no while shaking his head yes. Fascinating how the unconscious always outs deceptions.
Cain is no match for Ms. White’s transparent honesty,insight and pain.
I love reading your blogs!!! I especailly like the ones on love and couples! If i may ask…what does it say when someone simply ignores you and does not return emails? Other than being rude. What is the person communicating?
I believe that Herman’s wife believes there is some level of truth to the allegations. Perhaps she is in so much shock right now to take it all in. The telltale sign for me was when Herman and wife were on Greta Van Sustern’s show, and Herman was asked about the allegations, his wife looked downward while Herman was speaking boldfaced lies about the women. She didn’t look at Herman, she didn’t look at Greta, she didn’t look into the camera. Meanwhile, Herman was busy proclaiming his innocence. Mrs. Cain is no fool, but she is standing by her husband and wants to keep the family in tact, as many women do when stuff like this happens. I’m sure that after the shock wears off (and after she gets a full accounting as to how much money Cain gave Ginger), she’ll deal with Herman behind closed doors.