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Producer Scott Sternberg’s All Time Low Peddling Casey Anthony Interview for Three Quarters of a Million Dollars

Thursday, December 15th, 2011

I can’t think of anything more repulsive than hearing anything out of  liar Casey Anthony’s mouth besides producer Scott Stenberg trying to cash in on the action and make a quick  buck off her back and the back of a dead baby. If he sells it I am boycotting it and him to boot.

Acquitted or not, no one deserves to make money off of  a dead baby- Caylee Marie Anthony. We have wasted enough time  dissecting this case. We have heard ALL that Casey Anthony has to say with her body language and repeated verbal and vocal  lies.

We have  even heard her repulsive mother  Cindy lie repeatedly  on the stand and in the media. We have heard the same lies from her father and brother.  It is over! Let this precious baby rest in peace.

If Scott  whom I happen to know personally sells this sleeze for the quarter of  the quarter of a  million he is asking for  it, Casey doesn’t deserve to get a cent and neither does he. As far as I am concerned it is nothing more than blood and death  money. Scott obviously knows its sleazy  otherwise he would be pitching the show openly and not” quietly” as  the Hollywood Reporter quoted.

While Scott asks for his hefty sum of up to  $750,000  for a promised no holds barred Casey Anthony interview, thankfully no  network is touching his offer. They know  that it will be a disappointment  mainly because the know  Casey will never tell the truth and they will receive severe backlash from the public and national outrage news

In fact, according to the Hollywood Reporter Anthony’s pariah status has already spurred divisions to publicly disavow the common and age-old practice of licensing personal photos and home video from interview subjects as a fig leaf to paying outright for interviews. And ABC News, CBS News and NBC News all have stated adamantly that they would not pay for an Anthony interview specifically.

Any advertiser who would put their product in a show featuring Casey Anthony would run the risk of having their products boycotted as well just by the negative association.

And what does  Scott Sternberg have to say about all of this?  As the Hollywood Reporter quotes “He declined to comment. ” To me that says it all!

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Did Kim Kardashian’s Body Language Smell Contribute To Her and Kris Humphries Breakup?

Thursday, December 8th, 2011

Body language wise when two people just get married and are in the Honeymoon phase with one another they can barely keep their hands off of one another. When you see photos or videos of them, there is no physical space between them as they are joined together like Siamese twins.

So when I watched Kim Kardashian and Kris Humphries take their vows on television some 70 something days ago and saw too much space between them, and an awkwardness, I knew something was way off. When I was asked to analyze their body language by the media I knew something was seriously wrong and they would NEVER last long as a couple.I was clearly right in my assessment as they soon announced that they would be divorcing.

But when Kris Humphries, on the second installment of Kris and Kourtney take New York, said to Kim as they were horsing around on the bed “Your armpits smell like a combination of fish and hot garbage.” it revealed a lot.

In so many photos Kim literally seemed repulsed by Kris as I even mentioned this on Hollywoodlife.com But Kris’s statement about Kim’s smell reflects that he too may have been repulsed by her and her smell and her pheromones.

PHEROMONES SPEAK VOLUMES

Research has shown how powerful pheromones can be in terms of physical attraction. If you have ever been madly in love with someone you can’t get enough of them. When they are not around you miss everything about them- even their smell. You may even resort to sleeping with their tee shirt just to get a blast of their pheromones they left behind. Pheromones are what is referred to in common terms as “chemistry”. You have it or you don’t. And Kim and Kris obviously don’t have it.

And please don’t write t tell me Kris was only kidding. He could have kidded by saying something else. But to actually describe the smell of Kim’s pits so graphically also giving choices – “fish” or “hot garbage” it is clear that it was a smell thing. That does not mean that Kim stinks or has a body odor.

Obviously Reggie didn’t think so, or maybe he did as they are obviously not together. But it does mean that Kim’s pheromones were not compatible with Kris Humphry’s pheromones. There relationship or lack therof, shows us that there is a lot more that goes into a relationship than money, power, looks, or status. It involves smell. Animals know it better than anyone. They either like ort dislike another animal based on their smell. We are just the same, only we try to disguise it with all of the other things mentioned above.

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Ginger White’s Body Language Tells The Truth – Still Harbors Feelings for Cain While He Shows Signals of Deception

Monday, December 5th, 2011

As I said previously , my blogs have no political or any other agenda. I just report objectively what I see and hear. This blog confirms   my lack of showing favoritism towards any candidate.

When Sharon Bialeck  came forward with Gloria Allred in tow as she who claimed  Herman Cain sexually harassed her, I observed many signals of deception and a story that made absolutely  no sense to me when she told of how Cain allegedly put his hand up her skirt and her mere reply was “You know I have a boyfriend.”

Most people would say something like  ”Stop it” or What do you think you are doing?”  They wouldn’t bring up their boyfriend as an excuse.

Then when I saw the interview that Cain’s wife did with  Greta Van Sustern  as she  who “stood by her man”  I saw  a  sweet and well meaning  woman with  down to earth demeanor as she vehemently insisted her husband was innocent and the Herman Cain she knew was not the one portrayed by these women. She strongly claimed that the Herman Cain described is not the one she knows for all these years and that she is not one of the wives who is the last to know.

Well unfortunately after hearing what Ginger White had to say and studying her body language, poor Mrs. Cain is indeed the last to know.

I observed that body language wise, Ginger White was forthright in her admission that she had an affair based on her body language Ginger was pained as she spoke. She was telling he truth.

She showed no deception when she said she  did Not want to come forward. It showed in her face,  She looked terribly pained . Look at the lines of emotional agony in her face. Look at the vertical line above her brow which screams distress.

There is no doubt that Ginger came forth because she was outed and because her who family was being harassed. She is not enjoying this media blitz. She is the opposite of Bialeck who was loving every minute of it based on her genuine starry eyed smiles.

CAIN SHOWS DECEPTION

When Cain says I have never acted inappropriately with anyone, the first tip off something is wrong is that he is reading  this statement from his script. He is looking down  t his notes.  If he was being sincere and speaking from the heart, he  definitely didn’t need notes to speak those words.

Also look at his hands , they are cupped in anger – anger  no doubt at having to defend himself. His palms are  down, not up. If the palms were up he would be openly and truthfully saying these words.

Here  we see that there is a  mechanical choppiness to this gesture which shows shows  that he is being over the top in making his point which may often  point to deception.

GINGER IS HONEST AND IN  EMOTIONAL PAIN

Ginger in  contrast is pen and honest and speaks in a modulated tone . As to why she had the affair . she said it took her away fro her humdrum life and it was exciting. As she said this there was a sight eyebrow  rise which means that she meant what she said.

Then for the first time during her interview,  we  notice that she had a slight smile when she said  he was confident and the same as he is on the campaign trail. Her demeanor  leads me to believe that she still may have feelings for him.

But then she quashes her feelings by saying  Herman Cain loves Herman Cain WOW!  In essence she is saying Herman Cain didn’t  love her, he  loves himself. In essence she is outing him as a narcissist.

So why would she put up with an alleged narcissist as she see it, The reason is simple, she benefits financially and she gets to have ex with a powerful man which may turn her on physically and make her feel like she is special to have such a man attracted to her.

His book CEO of Self  now  seems to have a whole different meaning in light of the narcissism comment by White.

Her comment was a clear dig at Cain. She is angry. She is hurt and it shows. She is angry at the fact that perhaps he was indeed having affairs with other women besides her. The fact that all of these women came forth may have put her in the same emotional shoes as Ms. Cain. The only difference is that Ginger knows first hand that he is a cheater. While some of the women may be fabricating their claims, she may believe that there are others who are not lying.

SADNESS AND PAIN AT RELIZATION RELATIONSHIP IS  OFFICIALLY OVER

Looks pained as she stammered  as the interviewer asked if the relationship is going on now. She said it  Well um and stammered and breathes a sigh and  looked very pained as she said well its safe to say that after  this interview I guess this will be the end of it.

She still harbors feeling as she is emotional as she says these words.

HELPING HER FINANCIALLY

When confronted as to why he had Ginger White’s number,  he said he had her number because he was trying to help her financially

WHAT?? Doe he think we are that stupid. Was he  getting something in return for helping her out financially. No one gets financial help unless they are your family member, getting paid for a service rendered, getting a loan, or receiving a Pell grant.

CAIN IS BUSTED AND SUSPENDED!!!

After listening to Cain’s suspension speech and hearing his arrogance in his tone  and  loud defensiveness  and watching his body language there was  no question that the man was busted! Ginger White’s interviews and her public admission along with the phone record evidence did in Cain’s campaign.

What  the public initially liked about Cain was his open demeanor and his candidness. But he wasn’t being that candid  when he was busted by Ginger White or during his  Campaign Suspension speech.

The last thing the American public needs or wants is a candidate without integrity or moral turpitude. In these crucial times we are looking for a leader we can trust. We have to trust that leader to do right by us. If someone lies about their personal affairs, what will they lie about when it comes to the public’s affairs?

Ginger’s admission was no match for Cain no matter how he tried to spin it. Body language wise it showed he was involved with him and had feelings for hm. She may have thought she was special to him and that she was his only dalliance. But as more and more women came forth, she realized that perhaps where there is smoke there is  most likely fire. She stated she came forth because of the allegations of the other women. Perhaps she also came forth because there were other women besides her and that angered her.

The bottom line is the public will not welcome a cheating leader in or out of the bedroom.


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Groom’s Body Language During Wedding Before Committing Suicide Says It All

Wednesday, November 23rd, 2011

Fernando Brazier , 28 committed suicide just a few hours after his marriage ceremony to the mother of his two children Trudian Hay.

This photo of the two of them walking down the isle is haunting. Look at Fernando’s body language. He is stiff. He leans away from his bride. There is no smile on his face. He is wide-eyed and there appears to be an enormous amount of tension around his mouth and shoulder area a he awkwardly hold his bride’ hand. He does not look like a man who is happily in love or happy to be married.

Trudian Hay, who is also the mother of his two young daughters has no clue what he was about to do a few hours later.In contrast, she appears to be elated and in a world of her own. She is laughing. Her head and body  is turned away from Fernando as she  has no clue that he  looks extremely uncomfortable, upset  and  almost on a state of shock as he completed  saying his vows and walked down the isle.

No one seemed to notice Fernando’s misery as he and the bride kissed as they all looked on , sharing in what they thought was the couple’s mutual joy. If you look closely at their post marital kiss he is stiff and non responsive.

It is Trudian who appears to be more dominant in reaching up to kiss him as indicated by the way she is straining and elongating her neck. He doesn’t bend down to meet her kiss. He is ridged  in his posture and there appears to be no joy expressed in his face. It is the complete opposite facial expression that his bride has on her face.

Trudian leans into fernando but he looks pained . he looks as though he is about to cry- and not from happiness. He looks terribly sad as he shows no affection and does not reciprocate the leaning in towards Trudian. His shoulders are slouched and he looks severely depressed.

Apparently Fernando was so upset over feeling forced into getting married by Tudian , according to his sister, Shawna Weeks that hejumped into the Harlem River  and ended his life.

According to his sister, Fernando came to her home every week after work to talk about his concerns – and stated his eyes were eyes “blood shot” and in a state of despair. She said he shared with her that he and Trudia “had nothing in common and .”That’s why they postponed the wedding a year ago. He was being pressured into it.”

And that  Tudia was a to be a “great person,” but “just not for him.”

HE  WENT THROUGH WITH THE MARRIAGE

But  unwillingly he went through with the wedding anyway.Perhps he didn’t know how to say no to Trudia, that he didn’t want to marry her. Perhaps the fact that he reportedly dated her since they were teenagers made it more difficult to break it to her that he didn’t want to spend the rest of his life with her. Maybe he felt obligated  to go ahead with it because they had a two and a five year old together. Maybe he didn’t want to upset their families who knew one another for so many years.

But Fernando’s tragic act has now ended up hurting EVERYONE- his bride, his family, her family, their friends and most of all their babies who now have to grow up fatherless.

He was  clearly depressed. His sister confirmed it. He reached out to his her but unfortunately he wasn’t equipped to say No. He took the cowardly way out  in my view. He did a very TOXIC and  passive aggressive act. He went ahead and married and gave Trudian what she wanted but then he in essence said, I’ll show you, I’ll marry you but that’s it. There is no living happily every after with us.

LESSONS TO BE LEARNED

This tragedy upsets me on so many levels. It upsets me that poor Fernando didn’t see a professional who could have saved his life by either giving him needed medication or by teaching him how to stick up for himself and his needs and say NO to the marriage.

It upsets me that Trudian will  now be traumatized for the rest of her life as will her children.

All Trudian  most likely  wanted was happiness and the dream of having her man. Who knows if she gave him ultimatums like so many women and men unfortunately do-  marry me or you won’t see the kids or marry me  or……. (fill in the blank).

I don’t know if Trudia did this but Fernando; sister seemed to imply that she as the one who pressed him into marriage. If that is the case it upsets me on yet another level.

For decades , there have been  books written on how to get your man to marry you. SO many of them are filled with techniques of how to manipulate your man to get them to marry you  ( they can apply to gettingyour woman to marry you as well). I have always been in opposition to these books and the authors who write them .

While you may very well get someone to marry you by following their cookbook approach. But will you get that person to stay married to you? The answer is a resounding NOOOO!

Fernando’s story  is one  tragic way out but there are others- from violence to abuse to living separate lives to cheating to being miserable.

If one of the parties does not want to marry you, you can’t manipulate or force them. It HAS to be mutual or chances are it won’t end well. You can’t clap with one hand and you can’t marry with one partner being all for it an the other one being unwilling.

I am sure there are stories out there of the reluctant bride or groom who ended up being married for 50 years But were they happily married?  Most likely they were not and for whatever reason the reluctant bride or groom adapted.

The bottom line is that you can’t manipulate for force anyone to do anything- especially marry you or it might end up like Fernando and Trudian’s tragic story. And most important of all JUST SAY NOOOOO if you feel something isn’t  right and TALK to a professional. If Fernando did this he may have been alive today.

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Guilt and Deception in Jerry Sandusky’s Voice During Bob Costa Interview

Tuesday, November 15th, 2011

Bob Costas asked Jerry Sandusky if he ever touched the genitals of any boy. As Sandusky replied  that he didn’t,   his voice quality sounded shaky and tentative.

Then Costas said if this is not so,  then you must be the unluckiest man and most persecuted man we have ever heard of.

Jerry pauses for several seconds and then chuckles. This reaction is contrary to anyone who was not guilty. An innocent person  would immediately jump in with no pause time ans say YES, I AM,  using a very formidable  and unwavering tone.

Costas then says it again and Sandusky pasues for five seconds and chuckles a nervous laugh and  immediately releases a burst of air. Needless to say this question has taken literally taken the wind or the air out of him as you literally hear it in the audio.

Then Sandusky says in a weak tone, “ I don’t know what you want me to say WHAT????? Want you to say????  This is a signal of guilt. He is now depending on what others want him to say and does not relay what he needs to say. In essence he    nothing  to say except that he is guilty.

You can believe that his attorney is helping him to spin what to say. Also why is this man doing interviews if he has an attorney? Is he defying his attorney? Is he defying his attorney? What kind of attorney wiuld allow his client to speak out at this point?

Sandusky’s voice quality and speech behaviors alone are incriminating him in my view.

Then he says  I don’t think theses have been the best days of my life as he burst out air . This air  burst indicates that he is having a hard time coordinating his breathing with his talking which is a HUGE indicator of nervousness and deception. His statement also minimizes the serious of what is happening to him which indicates that he is in the initial shock phases and in a state of denial.

Costas then asks him a great question. Costas asks  how would you define the part you played?  What are you willing to concede  that was wrong and   and you wish you hadn’t done it?

Sandusky once again takes a gulp of audible air indicating that this question has once agin knocked the wind out fo him. He then practically wispers and mumbles his answer , which is an  indicator guilt and shame . He says   I  I  should have   (long pause) showered with those kids. The telling part here vocally speaking is that he goes up at the end of the sentence on the words  kids as though he was asking a question.  The empahasis on the world kids means  that deep down he really didn’t think it was wrong to shower with those kids. It’s only wong because he got busted.Also the hesitation is a signal of extreme distress.

Then he mumbles a guilty sounding you know so . In essence , he is trying to minimize his actions and seeking reassurance with the wordsyou know . He ends his statement on the word so because he has nothing else to say .

Here is the give away “tell” or signal  that says it all.  Costas asks him if he is a pedophile. Sandusky  immediately replies  No! Then Costs rephrases the question ands says Are you sexually attracted to young boys? Just so you are aware, this is how sociopaths often respond to questions. You may ask them a direct question and get a completely different answer than when you rephrase the question.  Sandusky also  parrots the question and repeats Am I sexually attracted to young boys?

When someone answers a question with a question or repeats your question, they are  usually GUILTY!!! That is one of the biggest tells of deception.

Then Sandusky further inceiminates himself verbally by  contimuing on and saying  sexually attracted.  I I enjoy young people.’

His repetion of the words sexually attracted thrown out there  without a pronoun or a verb speaks volumes, Singling these two words out as a phrase in itself ndicates that  he very well may be  sexually attracted to them.

Then he says I I love to be around them . But no I’m not sexually attracted to young boys. He dies off at the end of his statement which is very significant in my view. As he in essence is swallowing his words and swallowing the truth. Note how he calls young boys them . It illustrates how he has objectified his victims.

Jerry Sandusky shows us that no matter who a person is or what their position is, it in possible to find pedophiles in any walk of life  and in any socioeconomic group or social strata. Even pillars of society who do charity work can be sexual deviants. We need to stop playing The Emperor Has New Clothes when he in fact is not wearing any. We need to see what is,  not what we want to see. As soon as we see this behavior we need to make sure the person is held accountable for their actions.

There is no question in my mind that he is acting like a person who has a lot of guilt , shame, and embarrassment  at being exposed and who most likely is guilty.

After reading the Grand Jury transcript I felt like throwing up. This is an extremely deviant and sick man.  True they are just allegations and he has not yet been found guilty by a court of law at this time. But in reading these allegations , it appears that they all have a pattern to them that is both shocking and sickening. He is either wrestling, showering,  or cracking some young boy’s back. Like most predators he has followed a similar ritual in abusing  his victims.

There is no rehabilitation for a pedophile because they are imprinted with this sexual perversion forever.He needs to be locked up forever with no possibility of parole. He has essentially  murdered the souls and the psyches of these young boys, many who have now grown  into  young  men.

All the millions of dollars he has earned during his coaching years needs to go for psychological treatment for these boys because after he got his hands on them, they were never the same. What makes matters even worse is that he took full advantage of young boys who were troubled and/or disadvantaged. That makes his crime even more egregious.

I say lock him up and throw away the key and make him do some hard labor in prison instead of  his sitting around doing nothing on the taxpayers money. I say get as much use out of him, whether it be  making license plates or some other item that is made in prisons.

He needs to be released into the general population so he can see what it feels like to be helpless and victimized. No doubt  if this is the case, he will not  survive long which may actually  be a blessing to all.

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Conrad Murray Devoid of Emotion But Sweats and Breathes Hard As Jury Is Read- Is He A Suicide Risk?

Tuesday, November 8th, 2011

Conrad Murray found guilty in death of Michael Jackson

Just before the verdict was read, the only thing which gave Conrad Murray’s emotions away  as he awaited his fate, was  his upper chest breathing. You could see the heaving of his chest and his heart no doubt beat double time.

However his facial expression belied the anxiety he was really experiencing. He wore the same  mask like facial expression that he wore throughout the trial which I am certain did not further endear him to jurors.

As the word Guilty was read there was a slight movement however the facial expression did not change. He showed no emotion whatsoever.There was no forehead crinkling, no tears, no lip pursing or eye movement. There was nothing. He was void of emotion. But there was profuse sweating in his temple  and upper forehead region.

He was also void of emotion as he was remanded into custody. He looked as though he was in a state of shock as he was cuffed and lead away. No doubt this was surreal for him.

When you see someone who shows absolutely no twinge of any emotion whatsoever, it is often a red flag for a suicide watch. The trial has obviously taken a physical toll on Murray as seen by the hollowed out appearance under his eyes and the puffiness  in his midface. He may very well have been medicated during the trial as his eyes looked at half mast often and he appeared to be nodding out.

Oftentimes people do this when the information and truth is too much to handle emotionally. Thus it could be safely said that Conrad Murray appears to be the type of person who keeps his emotions in check and does not wear them openly.

But when the medication wears off and the reality sets in, emotions may take a tool on him and he may react self destructively in the form of a suicide attempt.

As he finally realizes all that goes along with his being a convicted felon in killing Michael Jackson, life may be too hard to handle. The public vitriol, the  loss of his medical license, and financial troubles may force him into a state of hopelessness.

So being remanded into custody may be saving his life for the time being as he will no doubt be placed  on a major suicide watch. But if he is intent on killing himself, his being a physician and knowing what to do to end his life may make suicide watch a futile process.

He appears to love his little child so that may give him some hope and may deter thoughts of his ending his life. If he thinks rationally and maintains his wits he will see that his 4 years may be cut in half and because  of the  prison overcrowding factor he may even get home confinement, according to TMZ.

Personally I believe that justice was served greatly and that it is a wakeup call to all physicians who put money and greed above the welfare of their patient. I have seen the starstruck physician who caters to the patient and does all that the patient wants . Even if Michael wanted propofol  and  insisted on it, he needed to have the integrity and ethics to  say NO!

And if he said YES, he needed to stay by Michael’s  side  to make sure Michael was monitored. If  Murray had to go to the bathroom, he needed to have a cup or a pail in the room as not to leave Michael alone.  And if Michael had a weak system or had drug issues, he  especially needed to be by his side to monitor him.

For the Jackson family, it is bittersweet. It is sweet that Justice was served and bitter that Michael is no longer alive. I know exactly how they feel. When my own precious brother was killed at the hands of an incompetent physician  who intubated him wrongly so that he became a vegetable and died, it was sweet that we settled the medical malpractice case, but it is a bitter pill for me which I have to swallow for the rest fo my life that my Manny is no longer alive.

Just as Michael Jackson was an extraordinary person, so was my brother, he was funny and  provided me with lots of belly laughs (something I have done little of since he was killed). He was warm, upbeat, kindhearted,  really cared about people, highly intelligent, honest, and had a great deal of integrity. He was talented and creative and not just my brother, but my best friend. His death at the hands of an incompetent doctor is unbearable.

I am sure that is how the Jackson family feels about Michael. I  had a vicarious thrill seeing Conrad Murray be cuffed and lead away. I wish that this would have happened ot the doctor who killed my brother . It didn’t . The  cold hearted emotionless doctor who was only a doctor who seven months when he ended my brothers life is now back at the same hospital  in New Jersey practicing as a bona fide physician. It galls me that this is the case.  So it was a catharsis for me to see a physician get what was due to him. www.drlillianglass.com

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Dr. Lillian Glass Weighs In On the Baby Lisa Case

Saturday, October 29th, 2011

So many of my precious readers have emailed me and asked me my thoughts on the body language of  Baby Lisa’s parents.After analyzing the Anthony case in such great detail only to see a child killer ( intentional or not) go free and watch the killer’s repulsive  parents exploit the media and  make millions off of a dead baby, the last thing I wanted to do was to get involved in yet another story of a disturbed mother and her missing child.

The Anthony case was upsetting in so many ways, from

  1. the judge;
  2. to the jury;
  3. to the unlikeable and arrogant male  prosecutor,
  4. to a  certain member of the media who sensationalized the case as “entertainment” with her dramatic  ”bombshells’  in her   career move as she nauseatingly “kissed up” to Cindy Anthony claiming she  identified with Cindy as  a “mother” when perhaps her actual  motive was to “dance” around Cindy in hopes she would appear her show;  to watching her try to redeem all the negative public  backlash against her result of this case  by embarrassingly dancing her way with the stars;
  5.  to watching the Anthony’s continue to manipulate and deceive both  on and off the stand while making millions of dollars and avoiding  jail for lying on the stand;
  6. to knowing that after her year of probation, Casey Anthony can leave the state of Florida or  the country,  erase her past and  start a new free life  with no consequence and no remorse, even though she allegedly took a life.

  I want no part of this or  any of the people involved.  Nor do I want any part of the Baby Lisa case.

But because so many of you asked and because I respect you and your wishes, I will respond. I will share my thoughts but I will not report on the Baby Lisa case regularly. It is way too distressing and that is not what I choose to do with my time.  What I am about to share says it all.

 

Similar Patterns Seen in Missing Baby Cases Where The Outcome Is Tragic  

First and foremost, after weighing in and analyzing the body language of so many of these “missing baby” type cases throughout the years from Susan Smith to Andrea Yates to Casey Anthony, I discovered that there are certain patterns or tells when a parent is up to no good. Debbie Bradley, Baby Lisa’s mother shows many of these patterns.

  1. First there are the crocodile tears and the ability to quickly turn the waterworks on and off. I noticed this with Debbie Bradley.r Look at this photo above. Who wipes their eyes at their temples? Someone who isn;t really crying!

 Here is more of the fake boo hooing. She rubs her eyes with both hands like someone does when they are over tired. She is not wiping away tears. When she removed her hands from this position, there were no tears which could be seen which indicates she was faking it in my view.

2.The lack of cooperation with law enforcement or the on and off cooperation with law enforcement is another signal. When someone has nothing to hide, they tell ALL and they do EVERYTHING to help law enforcement help them.  No matter .how tough the police get with them, they always cooperate if they have nothing to hide.

 3.Another pattern is when a story ill. She changed. Debbie Bradley changed her story and that is a huge sign something foul must have happened.

4. The justification syndrome is another tell. Admitting she as drunk helps appease her guilt and may justify her actions in her own distorted mind as she may  think ”Well I was drunk- so I am not responsible if anything happened to the baby.”

5. The Adding Clue Syndrome. Debbie maintained all along that three cell phones were taken along with baby Lisa. When someone is trying to create an alibi and take the onus off of themselves  they will  often give out additional information in an attempt to distract.

First of all who would kidnap a child and take not one , not two, but three cell phones? Were the cell phone sall in one neat place or did they have to go around the house to search for  them. If they went around the house searching or cell phones, wouldn’t she or the boys have heard this? The answer is obviously yes.

 Debbie clearly did not think this all the way through when she mentioned the robbery of the  cell phones. Of course they went missing, She didn’t want any evidence on them.

 6. Another pattern is the baby snatching window story. This is a very common theme among so many who report their babies missing, only to find that they have harmed their child in some way.

People don’t usually come into one’s home in the middle of the night to snatch a child. It is rare There is  noise when someone opens a window or cuts a screen. There is also the noise of movement  from the child or their  crying or whimpering after being disturbed from their sleep.  

Usually the homes where these children are allegedly snatched are small like the Debbie Bradley’s home,  so it would be easy to hear and see an intruder. As you can see this is not a  two or three story mansion where you may not hear noise. But of course if you are drunk or passed out you can conveniently say you didn’t hear or see anything.

7. She is way too prepared to be charged with a crime. She said she  expects she will be for something she didn’t do. An innocent person would never say this. They would demand their innocence.

 8. They will not allow witnesses which are their two young sons to be questioned the night Baby Lisa went missing. When Elizabeth Smart went missing her parents allowed her young sister to be questioned. As a result of what her sister told them, they were able to identify the kidnapper.

 When a parent does not cooperate this is a huge signal of guilt in my view. People who are not guilty want you to speak to everyone who can give information. They have nothing to hide. It seems like Debbie and her husband clearly have something to hide by not allowing these boys to speak to law enforcement.

 9. When lawyers are in the picture and lawyers quit forced out   that is not a good sign. Usually they quit because they have an uncooperative client who doesn’t heed their counsel or they know their client is guilty and don’t feel in good conscience they can defend them. Also why would anyone need a lawyer if they were innocent?

 

10..When the mother goes on a press junket and starts looking better and better in terms of  her  appearance, makeup and dress it usually indicates that are loving all the attention, which they obviously  lacked and needed in the first place.

They begin to feel like celebrities with all the media attention and  newfound money - lots of it . Those photos you see of baby Lisa on the news arenot free. They   are licensed out to a photo agency who pays huge money to Baby Lisa’s parents. The news venues then pay a  to the agency to use the photos. So everyone gets rich.

 Suddenly Debbie is not so sad because all the new found photo money just made Baby Lisa’s “disappearance” a lot more easier to deal with. The more Debbie evades and denies, the more the story stays on center page and the more photos are used.

11. Baby Lisa’s  father has no emotional reaction. He sits there stoic  like a bump on  log. And please don’t waste your time to tell me people grieve differently. There are universal reactions and he shows none of these reactions,  which in my view means he must know something is amiss. At first there was the arm around Lisa.

 As time passes he grows more and more physically distant as we see above. He leans away from hre. His hand is hiding in his pocket indicating that he isn;t revealing all of his true felings to her.

He even walks way ahead of her. This is a very bad sign body language wise as it means he is distancing himself from Lisa. Don’t be surprised if he suddenly jumps ship and spills it all out.

So what happened to Baby Lisa? We can speculate all we want from

  1. Debbie rolling over on the baby while she was sleeping and drunk or perhaps sitting on the baby while she was drunk and suffocating Lisa,
  2. to  shaking the baby in anger if Baby Lisa cried,  in the middle of the night,
  3.  to plain out maliciously  killing the baby  because she was angry at the father. Maybe she didn’t like that he took a new job where he had the night shift.
  4. Maybe she has post partum depression. Her drinking may be a form of self-medication.
  5. Maybe her two boys got too rambunctious with the baby and accidently killed her. Also why were these two boys conveniently sleeping with her in her bed? Was Baby Lisa in the bed too?  Did she get crushed?
  6. Cadaver dogs hit a cadaver on  Debbie’s bedroom floor. Did the baby fall off the bed, hit the floor and die or was she killed on the floor?  If Debbie was in her bedroom sleeping with the boys and someone allegedly took the baby, did they kill the baby on her bedroom floor while she was asleep in the bed with the two boys  before they snatched the baby?

 Needless to say,  body language and communication wise something is very very  wrong. I am not accusing Debbie or her boys of killing the baby accidently or on purpose. I will however say that just as Debbie marked to the press,  I  too would not be surprised if she eventually ends up behind bars.

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Omar Sharif’s Toxic Body Language Typical of An Abusive Man

Friday, October 28th, 2011

When I saw the video of icon and leading man heartthrob back in the day, Omar Sharif of Dr. Zhivago fame ,I was beyond shocked. He abusively slapped  a woman simply because she wanted to have her photo taken with him. It was appalling. What was more appalling was looking at the video frame by frame and seeing how he gets enraged, slaps her, goes off on her, feels guilty about it, tries  to make nice but he is still  angry as he considers her the catalyst  for making him angry.

Meanwhile, like many abused women, she smiles through it all an accepts it. But the smile is tense and a smile of embarrassment.  Her body language reveals fear. As he tries to make nice, she backs off. He agrees to take a photo with her but his body language shows that he still habors resentment towards her.

Several years ago a study was done which showed women in Qatar tend to overlook when they are abused. That is devatsating news. The woman Sharif slapped seems to demonstrate this .

Below are the shocking series of events.

Sharif’s body language shows he is enraged  as he slaps this poor woman and yells at her that she needed to wait her turn to have her photo taken with him.

The woman fears him and his rage as she holds up her hand defensively.

The woman smiles and continues to smile throughout the ordeal.This is typical of abused women who may believe that they “deserved” it. No one deserves this kind of treatment-EVER!

He continues to berate her.He gestures wildly to ask her what he was thinking. All she did was try to get a photo with  him. An Egyptian, Sharif is considered one of the biggest  Middle Eastern  actors of all time. So for this woman to get a little excited and perhaps not wait her turn to get his photo is understandable.

He continues to berate this poor woman unmercifully. It is so embarrassing that the woman standing next to him who is most likely a handler bows her hed in shame as she wears an ambivalent smile.

Sharif now has a sudden change of heart as he realizes what he has done in front of the cameras. Can you imagine what this Toxic man must do when there are no cameras present ?

You can actually see him thinking about what he just did as the expression on his face  dramatically changed. His handler on the right has now distanced herself from Sharif as she looks downa nd away. Meanwhile the abuse victim continues to wear a mask like smile of embarrassment in order to save face..

As he has second thoughts as to what he did he bows his head in sham and walks over in the slapped woman’s direction. The photographer in the corner appears to be nervously amused and surprised . Hence the tense  ambivalent smile. He wonders what Sharif will do and whether there will be some more berating or slapping.

He comes over to her and this time the abuse victim cannot even beaar to look at him as she holds up her hand with the palm of her hand showing in an defensive gesture. He looks at her with hate and disdain. She creates a barrier between them with her hand as she looks away , yet continues her ambivalent smile. In essence she is guarding herself from another potential slap and or verbal abuse from Sharif.

He tried to “make up” by allowing her to have a phot with him. She obliges as that is what she wanted in the first place. She continues smiling her mask like smile as she did throughout the entire ordeal.  Meanwhile he turns his body away during this photo op as he really doesn’t want to have his photo taken with her but he does it to make himself feel better in trying to right his wrong in slapping her.

He now turns to look at her and says something in Arabic which causes her  to have a genuine smile. Look at the crinlking around her eyes. It is no longer mask like. She is  clearly taken aback as you can see by her retracted chin. This leads me to believe he may have even apologized to her. This is tyoical behavior of so many abusers. They las.h out, feel guilty and try to make things right.

Now they get ready to pose for the photographer. The woman is back to her mask like smile. He leans in for the phoo and looks at her to see how she is reacting to all of this. There is a look of  remorse  on his face  as he leans into her and looks directly at her. She does not look at him. Instead she looks in the direction of the photograher. Even though she has a slight smile on her lips, her eyes reflect sadness.

The photo is snapped and the woman is elated. Here she wears a genuine smile. It was a huge price to pay, but she finally got what she wanted- a photo of her with Omar Sharif. He leans in but does NOT smile. He is not happy with himself that he acted like a complete jerk for the world to see. His hunched over shoulders show embarrassment,  He feels even worse that this woman seems so happy now that the photo is taken, despite her slap.

The woman is so pleased and says thank you to him several times. In true Toxic Man form he turns away from he  and doesn’t even acknowledge her  thank you. He can’t wait to get away fast enough.

This is HORRIBLE! He is lucky the slap took place in Quatar. had it happened in the US, this woman would be very rich and he would be facing criminal charges as he would be hauled off to jail.

Having written the book Toxic Men which was released last year, I can assure you that Sharif shows all the characteristics of an abusive man. Here we all saw it frame after frame. Having seen the real Omar Sharif, there is no way I would even consider viewing any film he was in. This image of him slapping a woman is in my mind forever and that is the image I would see every time he would come on the screen for his acting scene.

This incident shows up a lot. It shows us how we idolize people for no good reason. We idolize them simply because they were in a film or on TV or they played well in a sport we like. If we admire and look up to  someone we should know a lot more about them-like their character. Apparently this was no an isolated incident.

Apparently Sharif has a long history of  getting physically abusive  with people  . In fact less than a decade ago, he attacked a policeman in a Paris casino and four years back, he pleaded no contest to” misdemeanor battery” for beating up a Beverly Hills parking attendant.

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Dr. Lillian Glass Message to Body Language Blog Readers

Thursday, October 27th, 2011

To all my wonderful Body Language Blog Readers:

I wanted to let you know that the reason you haven’t seen a lot of posts from me lately is because I have been working on my books and doing TV show pilots. I just finished the final touches on my upcoming book called, See Something, Hear Something, Say Something! Guide to Identifying Body Language of Terrorist. My co-author, is Vincent Sullivan, a  former Special Agent with the FBI and former member of the Joint Terrorist Task Force. The book is awesome with a lot of original research and new data about how to recognize terrorists. I am certain It will help save a lot of lives and we are so proud of this venture.

Next, I have been working on another book where I will tell you everything I possibly know about reading body language and voice and speech tells so that you can use the information to gain that added advantage in your life. I will give away all the secrets so you will know it all.

Then I  participated in several television pilots. Hopefully the one for my own show will come to fruition, so keep your fingers crossed.

So now I have some more time to give you  more blogs on  my views about news makers from my body language , voice. speech  and psychosocial perspective. Eventually I also plan to do some video blogs for you in the future and I am working on making that happen. I seem to do much better with the spoken word than the written word.

For those of you who complain about my spelling and grammar, my apologies. I got a new Mac book Pro, so hopefully there will be less spelling errors. As far as grammar goes, I purposely write these blogs exactly as I speak, so you will feel as though you and I are having a personal conversation. I don’t apologize for that.

As you know from reading my previous blogs, I am quite direct, candid and hate spin, phoniness and BS. I also have no issue with anyone who disagrees with me or shares a different view. But I do take issue with those who do it disrespectfully and in a Toxic and nasty  and hateful manner as they  hide behind their moniker of anonymity. I do understand that a lot of topics generate a lot of fierce emotion like hate. But don’t collapse your hatred about those who are featured in these posts on to  me. Instead put your hatred where it really belongs- not the messenger.

Now  I would like to say some final words about the Casey Anthony  case.  I have to admit that reporting so intensively on the Casey Anthony trial and analyzing all the players involved took its toll,  especially after the verdict was read. I was beyond shocked when  I saw justice not served. When I recently read that Judge Perry  released the jailhouse videos of Casey  upon discovering that Caylee’s body was found and that he did not allow jurors to  see this, it confirmed my view that Perry in essence  was more concerned about himself in not having to re-try the case.   I also believe that the jury liked Jose Baez a lot better than the prosecuting attorneys and that was a large part of why the verdict turned out as it did in my view. I also believe that the jury wanted to go home. It was 4thof July and they wanted out! Analyzing the body language and speech and voice patterns of Cindy and George Anthony on Dr. Phil repulsed me. I adore Dr. Phil. I know him personally and think the world of him and felt that he asked great probing  questions which allowed us to see who these Toxic people really are. He gave them enough rope and they hung themselves for good.  He was a lot more diplomatic with them than I would have been.

I would have let them have it. But then they probably would have walked off the show and there would not have been an interview. I detest liars and these two liars lied in these interviews based on the tells I observed, just as they lied on the stand. That is unforgivable! Why aren’t these people held accountable? Anyone else who lied on the stand would be in jail. Why aren’t these people in jail. And YES I hold them as responsible for Caylee’s death as I do Casey. They knew who their daughter was, yet chose to enable her.

I am boycotting the Anthony’s along with a lot of other people out there. I don’t care what more they have to say. I hate that the despicable Cindy and George have made millions off off this poor child’s death and have manipulated and used the media to their benefit.  They said it all with their body language.

Now people are asking me to weigh in about the baby Lisa case. After the Casey Anthony case, the last thing I want to since do is spend time analyzing a mother and father of a missing baby. But since so many of  my precious and loyal readers asked for it,  I will share my views about Baby Lisa’s parent’s body.

While I will always discuss the body language of news makers who happen to be in high profile criminal cases, I don’t plan to make it my focus. fact I stopped doing over the top sensational crime oriented shows which appear to be  designed for” entertainment”. The “bombshells “ rudeness” “unleashing” and “ugliness” are too manipulative and too disturbing. So, along with the criminal cases, you will be reading a lot about celebs politicians, sports  figures and world leaders as they  will  all be put under the Dr. Lillian Glass Body Language microscope. Good to be back.  www.drlillianglass.com

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Casey Anthony’s Body Language on Recently Released Jailhouse Tape Shows Extreme Signals of Anxiety Associated With Guilt

Sunday, October 9th, 2011

In the words of Casey Anthony “ Surprise! Surprise! ” Her body language tells during the recently released  videotape when she  discovered Caylee was found  dead, show a person who is in extreme anxiety and screams guilt!

These body language tells say it all. Casey Anthony’s autonomic nervous system is in full gear as her breathing if affected. You can physically see her chest heaving as she hyperventilate. This is the result of her respiratory system trying to oxygenate itself.

In the above photo we see her first learning Caylee’s remains were found. She is hunched over as though the wind has been knocked out of her, which is the case. Her mouth is agape, indicating surprise.

Look at her mouth. It is wide open. Her jaw has literally dropped as she finds out that she is not so clever after all and that Caylee’s  body was discovered. When people are in shock at a discovery,  the muscles holding up their jaw slacken and the lower jaw literally drops.

The expression on her face suddently turns to fear and anxiety as her jaw now tightens and her brow area tenses. She holds on to her arm for self comfort and self protection and support.

In this photo we see the extreme  extent of her anxiety and her feeling vulnerable as she literally throws her head back and exposes her throat. When someone does that it is a huge sign of guilt.   You often see this position when someone is caught at something they should not have done or they are exposed. It is  a common body language positon seen in failed suicide bombers who are caught in the act.

Casey holds on to herself tightly as if to protect herself. Her feet begin to move as though she wants to get out of there. Her legs are apart and she is hunched over as though she is resigned to her fate. Her facial expression transforms to a very serious one. She also developes a case of the itchy scratchies which means her autonomic nervous system is kicking in once again. Her capillaries  have expanded due to the anxiety. The sudden  blood flow changes create discomfort. Hench the itch and the scratch.

Here she literally  doubles over in cramp like style (which she also pulled early on during her trial). Her digestive juices are increasing, due to the high level of stress and anxiety ,which happens when people have suddently learned of  some very bad news. This often results in their physcially feeling as though they want to defacate.

Oftentimes those who are guilty who are interrogated by law enforcement, will suddently lose bowel and or bladder control. This is what happened to the Underware Bomber when he was interrogated.

Here Casey’s body language retreats into a fetal position. It is the ultimate signal of guilt. Ther person is so overwhelmed thatthey want to escape by wanting to retreat back into the womb and hide. It is a very primative and self protective body tell.

In her fetal position she   begins to self comfort by rocking her self  back and forth.  In doing so she is attempting to sooth the intense physical feeling she is no doubt experiencing. You often see this with criminals who are suddenly left alone  in the police  interrogation room as  as they are observed through video or a two way glass. It is often a signal that they most likely  had something to do with the crime.

Next we see her muscles stiffen but as she is lierally paralyzed by fear. She does not move for a long time.

Here is Casey in true form with angry raised fists  as though she wants to punch or physically  beat on somene. She is pissed off. She is angry in a major way. She is angry that the remains were found and angry at herself or at the person who  helped dispose of the body,  as Cindy has always mentioned. Was that person Lee or George? Was she angry at them for perhaps not doing a better job of hiding Caylee’s dead body?

If the jury saw this this tape Casey would have been on Death row.  This tape angers and sicken me. To me it is clear evidence that Casey is guilty

Seeing these tapes make me detest Cindy Anthony more than ever. She absolutely knew what was going on, yet she lied  on the stand and in the Dr. Phil interview to protect Casey . But what about Caylee? doesn’t her life and her memory  count for something?

Judge Perry was not the great judge in my view that has been reported by so many. I think he was thinking about his retirement and bending over backwards so there would not be a retrial and he could wash his hands of this case. I have no doubt he is thrilled it is over and he has nothing more to do with it. I find it insulting for him to have released this tape now  instead of during the trial where the jurors could have seen it.

And on the subject of Judge Perry, I am appalled  at his judgement  when he sent that mentally disturbed woman to jail for her outburst early on. She needed a verbal reprimand and then needed to be banned from the courtroom, not put in jail, especially since she had a baby to care for.

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