PR machine ,Kim Kardashian has hooked up with another PR machine- Kanye West. After only a few weeks together there is  now talk of merging both of their PR machines with a wedding- complete with cameras and a televised wedding. This would be a dream come true for momager Kris Jenner . It will give their brand more of a storyline as people will want to see the ins and outs of this “marriage” and potential baby.

From a PR standpoint,  Kanye’s marriage into the Kardashan family may indeed  help Kanye’s Toxic and  hateful selfish narcissistic image. It will  also give him more exposure to millions of viewers and help sell his music.

From Kim’s standpoint, marriage to Kanye won’t make her appear like such a loser in love and will get the haters off her back (at least for a while) for her alleged television sham wedding to Kris Humphries.

But no mater how much PR spin is forced down the throats of the public, the bottom line is that these two in my view  may very well be friends but as far as romance goes, it does  not appear to be the case. Body language wise we see the true story emerging. While there may be numerous photos of the two of them holding hands and posing for cameras there, is no love to  be seen.

Just look at the above photo. There is no smiling on Kanye’s face and they are looking in the opposite direction. This is a bad sign as far as romance goes. When you are in love you can’t wipe the smile off your face. Also look at Kim’s hand on Kanye’s neck. It is cupped in a fist like position and it is facing towards her.  She’s not even touching him. This gesture often means anger and being closed off and distant. It is interesting how the fist is pointing back at herself. Kanye’s hand is also in a fist. He appears angry as well. His angry  closed off fist is consistent with his angry facial expression.

Here is another posed and phony photo where Kanye is is ” angry not in love  with Kim”  . He looks sad as well. Look at the downturned mouth. Kim is kissing air and posed. There is also a lot of tension in her neck. Look at the pull of her  neck muscle. She doesn’t cup his head in affection, but  instead poses her fingers on the back of his head as though she was  doing  photo shoot.

While Kanye is smiling, it is not a genuine love filled smile. Kim is not smiling and does not lean into Kanye.She is making sure she is front and center of the camera. Her head is not leaning in towards his head  or  his shoulder  as there is a mask like expression on her face.

Here we see the two of them  posing for cameras with no  genuine love between them. Kim has a non genuine tense smile as he leans away from Kanye. . His body is away from her and does’t face her belly to belly which is a bad sign in the love department. And of course he is not smiling which means he is not happy. Look at their arms as well. They do not touch one another. Their arms are at their respective sides. This is not a good sign either. Also notice Kanye’s posture. It is hunched over. Perhaps he is showling signs of intimidation with regard to the Kardashian PR machine , that he has stepped into.

This shot  says it all. It is not about the two of them  showing love for one another together. It is about each of them showing love for themselves. Kim is preening and her body is pulled away from Kanye. Her legs are crossed and  her hip and legs positioned away from Kanye in a protective stance. Kanye also shows a protective gesture as he crosses his arms and covers his torso . he is hunched over and although he is smiling, he is not smiling at Kim as he looks in the opposite direction.

And finally, this shot says it all as well. Kanye is preoccupied and not paying attention to Kim. They are completely disconnected.. Kim is looking in the opposite direction.

These are only a few of he countless photos I have examined when it comes to Kim and Kanye.It proves once again that the body does not lie. No matter how they pose or try to convince one another  that they are a loving couple, their body and face  language say the opposite.

When Kanye was dating  former girlfriend Amber Rose, there was a lot of genuine affection between the two as they appeared to be in synch with one another  as you can see in the photo above. Kanye  showed more genuine smiles and they even walked in step. There was a lot of passion and heat in photos between the two in so many of their photos.

The same holds true for Kim and Reggie Bush. They were very much in synch and appeared  genuinely in love based on their body language. So she is quite capable of being loved and being loving just as we see in the photo above.

But it does not appear that she has that same chemistry with Kanye’s. Kanye’ body language with Amber Rose and Kim’s body language with Reggie Bush  show the sharp contrast that they have with one another in so many of their photos.

So if they end up together  it is not a great idea in my view.They don’t seem to have much in common and that s a bad thing for any relationship.  In addition, Kanye is super intelligent and highly talented which is the opposite of Kim. Kanye is also very much the controller type which may not work well with Kim and her momager, Kris. Kanye has a mind of his own and to get involved in the Kardashian fray may dwarf his power , much like it did to Bruce Jenner. It may also be a huge distractions career wise as it has been for Lamar Odom .

For the short run, seeing them wed on camera or produce an offspring may work well for ratings but  for the long run it  may very well turn out to be a disaster.If they are having this much negative body language interaction so early on in their romance, it does not bode well for a long term future together.

After vehemently swearing that she would never pose nude , even after Vivid offered her a million dollars to do so,  Octomom Nadya Suleman went back on her word and posed nude (albeit) semi nude  for a European publication for only 8 K. Worse than the awkward body language in the unretouched  photos,  Nadya Suleman went back on her word and began to rationalize she merely did it for her kids and she is destitute.

She has also been making the rounds of TV shows defending herself for going on welfare an stating that she will be on it for two months, which is ridiculous, unless she knows she will receive a financial windfall very soon.  She states that she is only on food stamps but she is most likely also on Medi-Cal as well  to help pay for her children’s medical bills.

She swore that she would never be on welfare and stated that she is ashamed to be on welfare and that she has received death threats fromt he public  for going on welfare.

This has obviously taken a huge toll on Nadya body language wise as the reality of her situation has finally set in three years later. When we first met Nadya in the media she looked rather glamorous with her flawless makeup.  She was fully groomed Her eyebrows were arched. She had full eye makeup complete with fake lashes every time we say her. her lips were filled with filler and she wore extensions and acryllic  impeccably manicured nails.

She looked very happy and seemed to b enjoying all of her newfound media attention. People compared her to an Angelina Jolie wanna be and she loved that comparison as we always saw a huge smile on her face whenever it was brought up.

But now her body language is telling a different story. She looks exhausted and puffy (and understandably so). Gone are the arched brows and collagen filled lips. Gone is the makeup and manicured nails.

The  reality that she can no longer focus on herslef and her looks when there are 14 mouths to feed. Looking very Groucho Marx like, her eyebrows are not shaped as she has appeared to have grown her thick brows out . Her cheeks seem to have a downward slope to them as do her eyes. The circles underneath  them  reflect how  her lack of sleep has finally caught up with her. And her nails are now cut to a practical length where  she no longer has to worry about breaking a nail as she cleans up after her brood and feeds them.

When she recetly appeared on the Today Show, she looked terribly sad. Unlike her  once confident and somewhat cocky posture as she always seemed to wear  low cut revealing cleavage showing tops, her shoulders were hunched over and she dressed more conservatively with a tank top and  tailored blouse over it .

As she spoke to Matt Lauer she looked intimated, sad, and embarrased as she sat with her hands folded on her lap  for self comfort and  appeared rounded shoulders.

In listening to her interview it appears that she has done a lot of self reflection and has also sought the advice of professionals who convinced her to put her pride aside when it came to going on welfare  and  to think of her children first. It is impressive that she finally listened to them.

Nadya has now realized the realities of her  isemination and  unlike Kate Gosselin she was not able to think on her feet or make good decisions at the time when she was offered some pretty lucrative assignments like a reality tv show. While she vehemently stated she wouldn’t do a reality show because she refused to parade her kids around on TV,  she ended up doing it anyway on Oprah and over the internet for little or not money. While she screamed she would never pose nude when Vivid offered her a million dollars, she ended up doing it anyway for the European publication and doing some porn like spoofs on TV for very little money.

In my view Nadya needs to get stop defending herself  and stop making the media rounds unless sh has something to promote.

She has 14 mouths to feed and needs to figure out a way to make all of ther lives easier. If she does porn or puts her kids on TV  in a reality show, who cares if people don’t like it . Kate Gosselin didn’t care and now her kids all have enough money for allt he rtoys they will ever want, clothes and food and even college funds. The reality show experience allowed her kids to take vacations and experience new things. In my view Nadya would be wise to take a lesson from what Kate Gosselin did to support her kids.

While she admits it was a mistake to  have the kids it really doesn’t matter. They are here now and she needs to do what is best for them and  to deal with the situation she created .  They do not need to suffer. Watching her body language was of great concern to me because  she looks very depressed and worn down. if she breaks down, there is no one to care for her kids.

The most powerful aspect of the Today show interview  when Matt asked her if she feared her kids would be taken away from her. While she said that it would never happen, her throat  muscles seemed to close off  as her tones were very creaky as she croaked out her words. This is very telling communication and body language wise as it reflected her true emotion of fear. While her words said one thing, her voice said that this is a reality  that she  greatly fears.

During the Oprah interview , it was very clear to me that Pat Houston’s body language showed a lot of signals that did not match her words.  One of the most disconcerting things we heard was how she tried to blame outside influences for the demise of Whitney and Bobby Brown’s marriage and minimize their issues. Above we see her with cocked head, body pulled back and a monotone breathy voice which may very well indicate signals of deception as she speaks. Throughout the interview her body language and voice showed that she was very guarded in what she said,

Now that we have come to find out that Whitney Houston’s death was the result of drowning suggesting  a heart attack was most likely triggered by cocaine, thereby causing  her to  drown in her bathtub.

Her sister in law, Pat Houston  is the  second wife of Gary Houston who was arrested  in 1996 for possession of crack cocaine.  Right after Whitney’s death, Pat  went to court and had herself named executor, replacing the assigned executor of Whitney’s estate.  Now it makes a lot more sense as to why she may have shown signals of deception. She clearly has Whitney’s image to protect especially since the estate is currently making   more money from Houston’s songs than when Whitney was alive.

When Oprah asked Pat point blank Was drugs an issue for her before her death?

Pat Houston replied “ I don’t think drugs were an issue for her before her death…High, absolutely not. Leading up [to her death]? I would say no.

In analyzing her statement we can see signals of deception here. She gives too much information as she volunteers “High, absolutely not.” She also speaks in fragments Leading up? Also look at the words leading up. Oprah asks if drugs were an issue before her death but Pat get specific and volunteers a more specific time line  by  using the term  leading up as oppose to using before.

How could she says he was so close to Whitney and be her manager and closest confidant and not know she wasn’t doing drugs when acute use of cocaine,  as well as marijuana, Flexeril, and Xanax were discovered in her system.

WAS THE DREAM SHE WAS CHASING RAY J

Pat  was deceptive when she told Oprah that it wasn’t drugs that killed Whitney but that she  was “She was chasing a dream.”Perhaps that is true as she did not show signs of deception s she made this statement. She spoke clearly and directly.

Perhaps she was referring to chasing the dream as Whitney’s having  a serious relationship with  younger man Ray J  Brandy’s brother and  Kim Kardashian sex tape partner, and seeing Whitney’s   confrontation with the  X Factor contestant  over Ray J.

When this was going on we see photos of Pat Houston on TMZ looking very upset and annoyed as she even admits to Oprah she was mad. Yet she doesn’t explain what she was mad.  As part of her entourage and Whitney’s team, it seems she was mad that the X Factor star was allegedly  having designs on Whitney’s man and causing Whitney to get so upset in public.

Did Whitney indirectly die of a broken heart by  trying to feel  good and  numb her emotional pain after realizing that her man may  possibly have not have been being faithful to her? It sounds as though Pat believes this is the case based on her statement about Whitney chasing a dream. All of Whitney’s dreams came true with fame and fortune. So what was left was the dream of love which she may have though she found with Ray J.

Apparently, according to sources,  Whitney had been doing very well and was drug free  when she worked  the  film “Sparkle” after doing intensive rehab with Warren Boyd.There were three months between when  the filming “Sparkle” ended and when she died.

She clearly relapsed. Surely Pat Houston, her alleged close confidant must  have known this but chose not to  share it with Oprah during the interview.

It may be that Pat has attributed Whitney’s search for the “impossible dream” with a younger man as the underlying  cause for her death and not the cocaine.

While Ray J has vehemently denied doing drugs with Whitney. But maybe  Ray J’s presence in her life was the catalyst for her relapse. Maybe that fateful night when she ran into the woman she believed was flirting with Ray J caused her heart to break . Maybe that drover her over the edge towards self destruction.

My only hope is that  Pat does not engage in denial with Bobbie Kristina  and gets her the help she needs, especially now that she is the executor of  Whitney’s estate.

Once again Bobbi Kristina Brown’s adopted “brudder” now alleged fiancé is loving the limelight as he comes out of Starbucks carrying two coffee  cups laden with creme. His posture is ramrod straight and his head is up, indicating lot of self confidence.

Here he checks out all the papas taking his photo and seems to be in awe of all of the attention bestowed upon him. There is a look of contentment and an ever so slight smile as  it is evident that he is really enjoying this.

He doesn’t even acknowledge Bobbi Kristina s they leave the store. He  looks to the right at the papas. She reaches out to grab his hand, indicating her neediness, something we saw on their last outing. He  now ;ooks up at all the papas to the left while she looks down. He doesn’t  hold her hand tightly. Instead he lightly holds it along with is iPhone . He doesn’t even move the iPhone to his other hand in order to grasp her needy hand. That is very telling.

Now Bobbi Kristina breaks away  from his non-hand holding and lights up a cigarette. She is obviously letting everyone know (now that she has a photo forum) that yes, she can smoke and so whatever she wants and no one can tell her what to do.

She allegedly made that comment verbally  as well, earlier today as she responded to her grandmother Cissy’s comment that she was committing incest with her “adopted ” brother. She  apparently said that she didn’t need Crissy’s blessing and could do whatever she wants to do.

Cissy no doubt wants to step in but her self destructive granddaughter is over 18 so there is little she can do. She is trying to get the estate to kick the “adopted” brudder out of the house he is now living in with Bobbi Kristina.

It is so obvious to see what is happening. This child is going through her anger phase in her grief process. She is taking her anger out on her grandmother and doing some very self destructive things like allegedly doing drugs, hooking up with her adopted brother,smoking and who knows what else.

She has every right to be angry. her world just fell apart with her best friend and confidant- her mother. Her father essentially abandoned her when she needed him the most . Most likely grandma Cissy has her own set of issues in dealing with her beloved daughter’s grief, so she can’t focus on Bobbi, ( who doesn’t want to be focused upon)  full-time . Now she appears to be acting out like a rebellious teenager.

I wish she had a responsible adult in her life to go i and take charge but it does;t seem like there is anyone there. When Britney Spears had her meltdown form years back, it was her father who stepped in. That is why she is doing so great now. Too bad Bobby her father hasn’t demonstrated he is man enough to do the same. So Bobbi Kristina in looking for that adult male figure has turned o someone 3 years older than he who may very well be as messed up as she is, of not more messed up. he has no life experience and does not know what is best for Bobby Kristina.

When he was asked questions by the papps he kept saying ” No comment” to whatever question they asked. But then he shared that Bovi Kristina was” staying strong.: He looked very proud as he said those words. The last thing Bobbi Kristina needs to do now is stay strong. She needs to grieve. She needs to be that little girl. She needs to be weak and have someone strong and responsible there for her to guide her into her next phase of  her life. That phase is NOT marriage to this unaccomplished,  uneducated , jobless man who is in he life.

This is the worst train wreck waiting to happen. It is classic in terms of what will most likely happen. As he gets more enrolled in  this vulnerable naive child’s life, he will gain more control. If he marries her he will have more control of her finances. he will have control over what she does and dent do and who to who she can’t associate with. Since her family has rejected him publicly, no count he will keep them away from her. When she does finally grow up a bit and try to step out on her own, it would come as no surprise if verbal or physical violence did no . t ensue. She may end up with a relationship very similar to the one she saw growing up with  her father Bobby and  mother Whitney.  Since Nick lived in their home as well, he too must have seen the same thing as Bobbi Kristina did in terms of a bad relationship role model. This cannot turn out well in my view.

I so wish she had someone to come into her life and insist she get educated, go to college and help her  develop her talents through proper training and coaching. But at this juncture it does not look as it will happen. Seeing Bobbi Kristina light up a cigarette in front of the papas tells us everything. It’s a symbol of rebellion. Unfortunately she needs to rebel against the lifestyle her mother and father led. She needs to rebel against self destruction. Unfortunately this will not happen. I pray she does not have a tragic end  like her mother.

When I saw the photos of  Donald  Trump sons facial expression of glee as they posed in front of dead animas and carried a beautiful dead leopard, I was sick to my stomach. There happiness spoke volumes. Real men dont delight in their kill. Men who are trying to pose as macho men do this becuase they are so weak as men.

Their father Donald Trump  says that he  divides people into 2  categories as winners and losers.While Donald is a winner in my view his animal murdering sons are losers. And PLEASE do not tell me they killed these animals to feed a village in Africa, That is insulting! The press release on this is a joke. The public is not dumb! They get it! They get that these are two weak nurds with no athletic prowess or intellectual prowess who need to feel macho and important so they go to Africa to kill innocent and beautiful animals. HOW DARE THEM!

Eldest son Don would be nothing in the world if not for Donald. He is not an asset to the show  as he speaks in his boring monotone and sits there so stiffly like a manequin. He displays no personality and no charisma. He has lived a very sheltered life coddled by his father.  The other son is groomed by Donald to take over some of his businesses as is Ivanka.

What they have done is unforgiveable. To see these two losers smiling and thrilled with the kill as though this is the most manly thing they ever did in their coddled lives,  is devastating. It makes me never want to look at the Apprentice show again to see TOXIC Donnie’s face.

Look at how  TOXIC loser Donny rests his body on the dead carcass of the innocent water buffalo. There is even blood dripping out of the poor animal,  near Donny’s hand. Wouldn’t that be  great karma if Donny contracted some disease from this dead animal’s blood that he accidently touched. The smile on his face is beyond repulsive.

The other Toxic Trump son Eric tweeted that the elephant he killed fed the village for weeks. Well Villagers don’t eat elephants. They are sacred! How dare him kill an innocent Elephant!!!

As I write this blog I am so angry. I have been to  Kenya, Africa and I have been in the Tsavo on a safari to see the beautiful wild animals . I have seen the elephants up close and personal walking with their lovely families, guiding adorable  baby elephants in the pack. The thought of a baby elephant losing it’s mother or father due to these Trump boys makes me furious.

I love what Peta said

“Like all animals, elephants, buffalo, and crocodiles deserve better than to be killed and hacked apart for two young millionaires’ grisly photo opportunity,” a spokesperson from PETA exclusively tells us exclusively. “If the young Trumps are looking for a thrill, perhaps they should consider skydiving, bungee jumping, or even following in their anti-hunting father’s footsteps and taking down competing businesses — not wild animals. If the Trumps want to help villagers, they have plenty of resources at their disposal.”

If the Trumps want to help the Africans, then  build them homes and fly in food daily. Put in money to get them proper hospitals with proper doctors and money for medicines. Put money in African education against AIDS and HIV. Fund AIDS research so children wont have to die of the disease and be orphaned at such early ages.

While it has been know that Donald has created a lot of controversy to keep himself relevant in the press,it is no doubt that his boys have followed in his footsteps. But being the most hated young men in America now is not the press they need.  There is so much bad Karma  for them associated with this egregious act.

When I look at the facial expression of  these two Toxic Trump son’s with their cheek raised,  eye squinting , teeth showing smiles indicating they are thrilled to be in front of  a helpless crocodile , tortured with a stick in it’s jaws, I am livid.

Here is where I walk the walk and employ my Fantasy Technique from my Toxic People book and  form my latest book TOXIC MEN- (who Eric and Donny appear to be) book. I fantasize that the crocodile  in the photo somehow gets a huge burst of energy and is able to dislodge the stick in it’s mouth and has Donny and Eric for lunch!.

I am officially boycotting all things Trump after seeing these sadistic horrific photos. And don’t tell me that Donald didn’t know what his sons were up to. He knows everything about his family. He controls everything Trump. He may have even put them up to this to generate his name in the press.

If we see a statement from his disavowing what his sons did and taking issue with them, you will know it is contrived. Donald always says that you can’t trust anyone , not even your family. He has now proven this fact by setting his sons up. There is no way they would do this without his blessing as the Trump brand is controlled and micromanaged. Controversy like this doesn’t happen unless it is planned.

The only thing is,  that it backfired on  Donald and his sons. They  underestimated the public reaction. It is not just the “crazy” PETA people that they assumed would get bent out of shape with these photos and in turn generate loads of publicity. It is people like me who love animals and support humanity and humane acts. This is inhumane. Torturing an animal and smiling in a photo with your kill  to enhance your own lack of masculinity is atrocious.

There is a karmic justice when you torture  and bother animals. Look what happened to Steve Irwin – Crocodile Hunter. He was disturbing and  bothering these poor animals for years until one animal- a sting ray  had enough of him and stung him and killed him.

It is understandable that she is lonely and confused and scared  and very needy at this juncture in her life. She is so needy that she has sought comfort in the arms of her “brudder” as she calls him- Nick Gordon. Apparently, they share a bed together as she revealed on twitter.

Video was released on TMZ which shows the two of them together. What struck me body language wise, was just how physically needy she appeared to be in making the first gestures for Nick’s affection.

Her we see how Bobbi reaches out and  grabs Nick  hand to hold.

Next we see how she pulls his hand  in order to  place it  in back of her

as she succeeds in  pulling his arm and hand all the way back so he essentially rests it on her lower back on her buttock.

She then pulls him closer to her body and reaches up to kiss him on the lips for all to see,  as they enter a store.

As they leave the store, she grabs a hold of his arm. It is not Nick that is reaching out to Bobbi Kristina,  but Bobbi reaching out to him.

These little body language nuances mean a lot when you look at her emotional state. She is literally reaching out to the closest person to her because she is so needy. This is very understandable in light of the tragic circumstances she has been under.

Her family is allegedly upset about this relationship because it has been reported that they believe he is  a bad influence on her.Others feel that their engagement is Nick’s insurance policy that he will get some money. If Nick was “adopted” by Whitney, it strikes  me as a bit odd that she would not have left some money for him in her will.

Suddenly Nick released a statement to ABCNews.com that he is not dating Bobbi Kristina as he says ”

“We’re just close — just going through her mom’s passing and grieving together,” he said.

But he has given double messages on twitter as he recently tweeted :

“Yeah, we got a little closer and what!!!”

That was followed by ”

All the haters that don’t know us or the real story can’t unfollow me. I don’t give a f**k.” “I’ve proved my loyalty to her and the Houston family. I don’t owe any of you anything. Ha, I don’t even know y’all haters.”

“Some ppl [people] have no lives so they gotta be in ours,” he added as he made a point to say that he and Bobbi Kristina

are not related by blood as he tweeted

“For the stupid ppl out there, she gave birth to 1 child. And she trusted me with EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!”

He added, “She called me her “God Son.” I swear some ppl in this world act like they don’t have a brain …”

Perhaps all the “haters”got to Nick,  as he may have called off their engagement or their public romance by announcing that he is not dating Bobbi Kristina. There is no doubt that he  had had second thoughts on the matter. Perhaps that is why he was not seen making the first moves in their (PDA) public displays of affection seen in the above photos.

THE  REVEALING OPRAH INTERVIEW

In looking back at the Oprah interview with Bobbi Kristina you could clearly see this young lady is so fragile and so much in denial. She is confused and scared and alone. She had no business doing that interview at this time in her life. It was ALL about Oprah and Oprah’s ratings for her network. It was NOT about Bobbi Kristina.If it has been about Bobbi Kristina she would not have been there for the interview. I felt that it was exploitative and very disturbing to watch.

When Bobbi Kristina enthusiastically told Oprah she was still had a voice and was going to  sing and act and dance Oprah was not supportive , and rightfully so. Short of telling Bobbi Kristina that  she was delusional, she said to her  that she was putting a lot of pressure on herself.

This reality check is not what Bobbi Kristina wanted or needed to hear during this extremely emotionally volatile time in her life.

As I said on ET,  Bobbi Kristina stood during the whole interview and fidgeted. It was clear that she did NOT want to be there.

CONCERN FOR BOBBI KRISTINA

I am very concerned about this young lady. She has no one to give her the right guidance. She is 19 and a very young 19 at that. She was sheltered and coddled and was never independent. She never had to go out and get a job and fend for herself.

Nick is only 22 and  since he was raised by Whitney, it is like the blind leading the blind(no offense to anyone who is blind). Bobbi Kristina is blinded by her pain and neediness and has reached out to someone who is just as needy and in pain for a number of reasons from having  biological father in prison to not being mentioned in Whitney’s will.

Even though Bobbi Kristina was “groomed” by Whitney to become a singer she is NOT Whitney.  Not to be mean, she does not have Whitney’s looks or extraordinary talent or charisma. She thinks she is Whitney as indicated in the Oprah interview when she revealed she “Still had a voice.” Someone needs to set this poor child straight or she will be setting herself up for more disappointment.

Hollywood is one of the cruelest places on earth and is NOT for the emotionally fragile. First, there  is a lot of  pressure to look a certain way. Not to be mean,  but Bobbi Kristina was not blessed with Whitney’s genetics, looks wise. She is not attractive enough and makeup won’t do the trick. She needs a makeover which includes a nose job and dental work to balance out her features and perhaps a breast enhancement. Like it or not, the reality is that this is Hollywood and there are certain requirements one has to have in the public eye if they are to make it as an entertainer. It is way too competitive and you have to look your best.

Next  you have to have the talent to carry off your desires to be a singer, actress or dancer.  At 19 Bobbi Kristina is old in terms of starting out in the business. She has not performed publicly yet . She has not performed in any little clubs to develop her chops. She has not enrolled in acting classes or done any local theatre to get her chops.

Following her mother around  may have given her a lot of insight in terms of what is required of a star but it will never make her a star.

Her cover of Adele’s song on youtube was sweet for an amateur,  but she needs a lot of work with breath control and phrasing and pitch levels.

Being a dancer is another huge undertaking where dance routines can be grueling. It requires a lot of  daily practice and dedication and athletic stamina. Dancing starts at an early age with lessons and classes  on a regular basis.

The bottom line is that unless someone takes her under her wing like a major manager who  has her best interests at heart and instills in her the discipline it takes to accomplish her goals, she is setting herself up for another major disappointment. Someone needs to watch over her that all her investments are being handled well and that she is not going to be ripped off.

Someone needs to get this young lady to a professional therapist to help her and guide her. She needs t occupy her time getting a formal education and go to college where she should major in  business so she can learn  how to handle her finances.  If she is determined to sing and dance and perform, she needs to be in dance class, have voice coaching, and  take  acting classes  along with her studies.

She needs to focus on her healing and on developing herself so she can be the best she can be. Just being Whitney Houston’s daughter will not cut it  in terms of her success and future. She needs to prove herself on her own.

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The most telling thing is that Bobbi Kristina did the whole 10 minute interview standing up. No one does an intimate  interview standing up unless they are planning to hightail it out of there if the going gets rough or the interview is too much to handle.

Initially we see Bobbi with her hands on her hips  as you can see above, indicating a defensiveness and an anger as though she really does not want to be there. Even though her words said one thing, her body said another.  In my view she was not ready to open up and talk about her mother who tragically died less than two weeks ago. To me it was a very premature interview. Look at Bobbi’s hands on her hips. This indicates a defensiveness, a discomfort  and an inner anger at having to do the interview. There is a tight lipped smile as she shows her ambivalence.

It was also difficult for her to maintain eye contact with Oprah, which further  indicated her discomfort. When she told Oprah “I still have a voice.” it was a very revealing statement. The only time we have heard her voice was when she did a cover of  an Adele song and put it on youtube. We have not heard her perform publicly. He choice of the word “still” says a lot . It may reflect her enmeshing her identity with Whitney’s. Whiney is not longer alive and hence has no voice . But Kristina says of her self that she” still has a voice” indicating to herself at least on a subconscious level that  her mother will have a voice through her.

She then tells Oprah how she plans to acts and sing and dance. In essence Bobbi wants to carry on where Whitney left off. But can she?  Even if she has been groomed to do so by Whitney, the question remains as to whether she has the talent to do so in such a public an competitive arena. Even if she was groomed by her mother and even of she is taken under Clive Davis’ wing and given all the contacts to become a singer and an  actress, the reality is that she may not be able to pull it off for a variety of reasons.

Oprah knows this as well as she immediately replied “Don’t you think that;s a lot of pressure? ” Oprah is right. Bobbi is putting a lot of pressure on herself as she will never live up to what her mother did or take over and channel her mother as an actress and singer,  no matter how much she has been groomed.

It will take a lot of work and a lot of practice to get her chops in music and in acting, not to mention natural talent. She will have to do a lot of studying and will have to have a lot of focus.

Also there will be enormous pressure because the public will be highly critical. She is not Whitney nor does she have Whitney’s singing abilities or physical appearance. While Bobbi Kristina did a lovely job singing Adele’s song on youtube it was sweet and pretty but nothing remarkable. Her breath control needs a lot of work as does her phrasing. She is off key in many plaecs and as Paula Adbul used to say n American Idol she is “pitchy” , Her is the link for you to hear Bobbi and make a judgment of her singing for yourself. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GImAjkWMXgI

For every Natalie Cole who followed in her famous father Nat King Cole’s footsteps and succeeded, there are the Lisa Marie Presley’s who  for whatever  reason could never follow in her father’s footsteps, even though I personally love the way she sings. The post humous duet she sings with her dad Elivis “In the Ghetto” is awesome.

Not to be mean,  but the public is highly critical when it comes to physical appearance and presence and at this point Bobbi Kristina in my view needs a lot of work in that area from braces to close the gap in her teeth to perhaps some cosmetic facial refinement to balance out her features. She needs work on her posture and movement an stage presence

Almost everyone ha done this to make their brand even more appealing from Leanne Rhimes to J Lo to Madonna  to Jennifer Hudson, to Fantasia Barino. So Bobbi Kristinia is no exception. Even Adele who  publicly says she is happy with her looks allegedly took off some pounds for the Grammy ceremonies.

To illustrate Bobbi Kristina’s discomfort and uneasiness during the interview we constantly see her fidgeting and moving around. She plays with her hair and constantly pushes it off of her face. She fiddles with her clothes and brushes herself off. There is constant movement which indicates anxiety. There is also a lot of scratching. Oftentimes when a person feels anxiety their autonomic nervous system takes over and blodd flow starts to increase causing an itching sensation.

It once again confirms to me that she was clearly not ready to do any interviews about her mother and how she is doing. In watching this interview once can see how she is doing. She is not doing well. How could she do well?

Her best friend and mother died so unexpectedly and under such tragic circumstances.  They were so close that she and her mother even napped together  as she indicated.

Her flesh and blood father has not been there for her in the moments she needed him the most. He was not there when she was taken to Cedars Sinai the second time. Instead he was out performing and feeding his own ego. And most of all he a not there to sit by her side and hold her during the memorial and funeral. Instead he chose to let his ego get in the way, leave and perform the evening he left.

So essentially she is an orphan now. She has no mother and no father to speak of.

Also she said she has been staying in Whitney’s house- alone. Personally I do not think that is very healthy,. I think she not only needs her family’s help, she need s professional help from a licensed therapist and grief counselor to help her through her hard and impossible days.

It is going to take a long time for Bobbi to cope with this. So far she has allegedly coped by getting high as it has been reported that she was high at the funeral. Is she still getting high to cope with the intense pain? Several have questioned her fidgeting and constant movement on the Oprah interview and wondered if it was related to any drug use.  I don;t know the answer to that but it certainly may be a possibility.

This young lady has a lot ahead of her and needs someone who is stable and has a level head  and who is drug free to guide her. I hope that she does set up with someone who can get her to a great therapist as she desperately needs one.

While Rush Limbaugh’s words may have indicated he was sorry for referring to  the 30 year old law student  as a “slut” his body language said something entirely different. As you can see in the photo above he is looking down and reading his apology. When you give a heartfelt apology you don’t look down and read it. You speak it form your heart.

Next his voice was monotone and devoid of emotion. When you apologize there is the sound of contrition in your tones. There was none here. Then as we see in the photo above there was a lot of lip pursing. This means that Rush was angry that he had to apologize at all.

Now look at Rush’ hand as he apologizes. The palm is down and fingers are splayed. This body language gesture means that he is not being sincere.

As he continues we really see his anger through his body language a he makes a fist when he apologizes. When someone makes a fist as they speak to you, they are angry. Rush was angry that he was forced to apologize. No doubt he meant every word he said about the young woman. He just was angry that the advertisers were pulling out and that he had to succumb to an apology.

When Rush said that the advertisers no longer wanted to advertise on his show, while he indicated he didn’t mind through his matter of fact  intonation, his  body language said the opposite as he pursed his lips and swallowed hard.

You could actually see him gulping. This indicates that he was indeed upset about what was happening.  As you can see below, the names of some of the advertisers are pretty significant such as AOL and  Allstate. They did NOT want their reputations tarnished by the Toxic fallout of  Rush’s hateful  words.

While Rush was filing during his apology, it was not a sincere one. The apples of his cheeks were not raised and his eyes were not smiling  which one sees in a genuine smile. His teeth were also clenched as you can see int he photo above.

Rush tried to brush this incident off as comedy. But there was nothing comical in his tone or in the punch line or in what he said. While he is entitled to agree or disagree with the issue at hand like any talk show commentator does, he is not entitled to name the woman and refer to  her as a slut or a prostitute. That is hateful and harsh.

It also reflects in my view some major deep seated  hateful feelings towards women- strong women – formidable women with opinions and with a voice. And please don;t tell me that he has no issues with women because he got married recently. He got married four times so there is obviously some major issues with women going on here.

Back in the day, he called Sally Jesse Raphael who at the time was a powerful women with her own talk show, a Femi- Nazi. That was harsh back then and it is harsh now when he used the term over a decade later. It shows rage towards women. Just putting the word Nazi attached to women is offensive in itself. It is hateful and hostile.

While over 15 million people listen to Rush and he represents a significant voice in the conservative circles, that voice can be silenced as well. No one is beyond public opinion or the law. Look at what is happening to Rupert Murdoch and al of the investigations and arrests in his media empire for allegedly  doing the wrong thing and illegally wiretapping people.

It is interesting to listen to all of the politicians and supporters of Rush pussyfoot around and play The Emperor ha new clothes when he is intact naked.” Those who don’t come out and say this is uncalled for or unacceptable show weak character in my view. they don;t want to alienate or upset the 15 million supporters so they pussyfoot around it. To mea that is just as bad a Rush.

They could say that they like and repeat Rush but have to take issue with how he referred to this young lady. When they say it was a bad joke or humor or start going on the offensive and saying how the liberals can say the C word and speak similarly about others and nothing happens to them, it makes you think less of the politician and shows you that they are weak and wimpy  and kiss ups that have their best interests at heart. But their non commitment to saying what is really wrong backfired on them.

I am not political a you know from reading my blogs. I say it like it is regardless of the party or who is involved. This is wrong. It is so insincere and the fact hat he apologized so insincerely makes him look even worse. The woman whom he insulted doesn’t even want his apology. In fact there was some talk by Geraldo Rivera on his new radio show that this was slander and libel and that she could sue him for thee things.

While that may be an option for her to remedy her situation, the good news is that it put her issue in the forefront so that she has a bigger voice to speak her mind and to let the public know her viewpoint. Once again I am not saying that I agree or disagree with her as that is not the point. The point is that while you may be angry with a person’s point of view and what they say, you should never call them out for being a slut or a whore , especially when you don’t even know them.

This was clearly a personal attack on this woman that was not deserved. While he could attack her ideas, he should never have attacked her moral character.

Next month  my book TOXIC MEN will be out in both the paperback and the ebook edition http://www.amazon.com/Toxic-Men-Identify-Miserable-ebook/dp/B0049P1YWK. The book can also apply to women as well s there are  indeed TOXIC WOMEN. In the book I discuss TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS.

Perhaps no better example of a TOXIC RELATIONSHIP  is that  of Bobby Brown and the late Whitney Houston. The poor woman had not been in her grave more than 24 hours when we learned that  her ex husband Bobby Brown is ready to release a tell all book about their relationship to capitalize on her death. That is just the tip of the iceberg. This is the same man who did NOT immediately  hop on a plane to see his daughter as soon as he got word that Whitney had died. Instead he proceeded with his performance in Mississippi, soaking up all the sympathy and  attention milking it for what it was worth.

Then this TOXIC MAN shows up at the memorial service only to create some more drama  and attention to himself  by leaving. He uses  a lame excuse that the security people told him to move three times. Well if he read the invitation, it did NOT say to bring 9 members of his entourage. He needed to walk up to the front like a man and sit next to his daughter whether the family liked it or not. He needed to be there to hold this child’s hand and comfort her, instead of thinking about himself and his ego. I doubt any security would keep a father away from his daughter during her time of need.

Even if he was moved 20 times, he needed to have stuck it out for the sake of his daughter. Instead of sticking around and greeting Bobbi Kristina afterwards, he hightailed it out of there on to a plane where he headed for his concert where he performed evening. It makes one wonder if he didn’t plan this all along.

Bobbi Kristina  has taken her mothers death very hard and rightfully so. He was NOT there to immediately comfort her when she was taken away to Cedars Sinai Medical Center on a gurney the second time. He was NOT there when she needed him most at the memorial.

He was NOT  there when her mother was being buried. In fact she was so distraught that she was said to have taken drugs to cope with the pain in an attempt to self medicate. People at the funeral allegedly reported that she appeared to be high and out of it.

TOXIC Bobby Brown blamed security for his leaving. What a lame excuse! Nothing should have made him leave if he really loved his daughter. But as he has shown, he loves himself more.

Now I will show you just how TOXIC Bobby Brown was to Whiney and still is in her death with his attempts to publish a tell all book.

There are so many things I disucss in my book TOXIC MEN  book which apply to Bobby such as being jealous of a woman and subsequent violence. In a 2002 interview with Diane Sawyer, Whitney was asked many hard hitting questions. She asked Whitney if Bobby was jealous of her. Whitney looked directly at Dian and  told the truth. She  said “Sometimes.”

Here you can see her  straightforward and honest  facial expression in response to the question which she answered  in a deep rich resonance tone. Then Bobby comes into the room and yelled NEVER! as he hears the question. Whitney turns to him and i a sheepish tone with a raised octave  with upward infection at the end of the sentence . she says ” Sometimes I hit him ” as the word “him” inflecting upwards. ”

Whitney is clearly uncomfortable as Bobby says this as she rocks back and forth and leans into Diane and puts her hand up as if to say “STOP!” Diane then then invites Bobby on to the coach to interview him directly.  Whitney is not happy about this based on her nervous laugh.

Here Bobby tells Diane” Marriage is turbulent.” Look at their body language as they are seated together. It says it all. Bobby  has his shoulder up towards Whitney literally giving her the “cold shoulder .” He fans away form her and cocks his head in defensiveness. She is tight lipped and there appears to be a lot of facial tension indicating discomfort .

Then Diane bluntly comes out and says Have you ever hit her? He squints and you can see the disdain at her question as he replies No  no no no no, no no no. When someone says that many no’s chances are they are lying. Subsequently, we have come to know that he did indeed hit her and that she even called 911 on him.

Whitney looks away and fluffs her fair and makes a nervous laugh. her body language says it all as she tries to defend him.but knows this is the truth. As he speaks she continues to  pat her hair down in an attempt to self sooth herself .

Bobby goes on to say how he has four sisters and a mother and daughters and would never do such a thing. But as he says this we see him tug at his ear as his autonomic nervous system kicks in where the slight  blood flow changes create itching and tingling. Hence the ear pulling and scratching. He also looks away which is another signal of deceptions he says I would never raise my hands inane kind of way to them.

Then he stammers and says something that has nothing to do with the question Sawyer asked him. he says I love the beauty of women. Whitney clearly knows he is trying to pin it as he look son in disgust and literally gves hi the cold shoulder. This shows us how the body does’t lie. Even tough she was trying to defend him and let’s him literally take over her interview, he body  language speaks volumes  about how she really feels here.’ She also take a deep breath to oxygenate herself as she clearly knknew the truth. As Bobby goes on to defend himself. he grabs Whitneys thigh and says “This is mine.” That said it all! He looked at Whitney as his possession.

Then giant point blank asks if he is jealous of her. Whitney’s body language tells the answer. She puts her finger over her mouth which indicates she is guarding her tongue and not speaking about it and holding back. She turns her body away from him a s she leans back. there is also a great deal of lower jaw tension as we can see. She knows the truth as he denies his jealousy. Thenhe makes a chauvinistic statement “She is a female.” And no one can touch me as an entertainer ! ‘ In retrospect that says it ALL! It says that he did look at Whitney as less than him- as a female and though he was better entertainer. His statement that no one can touch him includes Whitney. In essence he is saying he is a better entertainer than her.

Now Diane literally turns up the heat as she ask him about his doing drugs. We see Bobby sweat as he tries to low key it. But the truth was that the morning of this interview he was arrested with drugs  (marijuana) in his car. When we see someone suddenly sweat it is often n indication of guilt and or deception. As he yes on to explain how drugs are still in his life, he stammers and stutters ,

He is defensive and crosses his arms over his body to show how he does not want to admit just how much drugs are a part of his life.  We can see his defensive head cock and Whitney’s  laughing at knowing just how much drugs are a big part of Bobby’s life . She may be subconsciously enjoying seeing him uncomfortable and squirming during Diane’s questioning.

He stammers and shoulder shrugs as she says he is a high strung persona nd bipolar and how drugs seem to help hm. Whitey really laughs as he says this as she probably realizes how lame he sounds. She knows the truth about him and her laughter says it all. It is a  nervous laugh of discomfort.

She leans forward  and then back and laughs as he describes how every now and then he smokes a joint to level him out.  She says it is not an every dayhting but interjects maybe every other day

When asked about other drugs Whitney’s demeanor suddenly changes as she looks somber and looks down as Bobby says he never has taken them and never will. The give away here is Whitney is shaking her leg repeatedly as he says this , which is often a signal of deception.  He goes on to lie that even though he was tested positive for cocaine as Diane pointed out it was not cocaine but a cocaine like substance like aspirin.

As we look at their wedding video shots we can clearly see that Whitney was very much in love with Bobby. She says in her interview with Diane that she learned so much from him like to not be so contained. Unfortunately  she learned the wrong things from him. her lack of constraint is what no doubt contributed to her early death.

Then the most revealing part of the interview is that Whitney said nothing is perfect.SShe says it several ties as she shrugs her shoulders and shake hr head. Diane then says so this is forever” Whitneys body language says something other than her words, as she replied Thats what I said. She shakes her head no and purses her lips and her voice goes up at the end. This once again verifies that the body does not lie. her body language said it all- that she and Booby would definaetly NOT be forever.

To see the entire video and Whitney and Bobby’s body language in action, click the link below

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=4evtIICA1II#!

Whitney’s life shows us what can happen when we get involved with a TOXIC MAN. Whether or not she took drugs before Bobby is not the point. The points that you can see the pain as expressed in her body language when she was married to this TOXIC MAN.