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River Cruz Reaches Out to Dr. Lillian Glass To Thank Her For Exposing Her Credibility Through Voice and Body Language Analysis

Friday, March 26th, 2010

WHY I AM SHARING THIS I

I debated whether or not to release the information I am about to share with you in this blog.  I decided to do so because  I believe that it is essential that the public should know everything related to the Casey Anthony Case and anyone that has any association with it.

George Anthony’s alleged mistress,  River Cruise called me up two days ago to thank me for writing the blog I did where I discussed how her body language and her voice and speech content appeared to  credible to me.

Because  I am not River Cruz’  licensed therapist, psychologist, psychiatrist, or any one else’s for that matter, and have never met or treated River,   I am not bound by any confidentiality. So there is no issue here.

But as a voice and body language expert and a media personality, I am bound by the truth. I have no special interest  or agenda  as to  why I support her statement,  other than to state that based on my years of experience as a body language , voice and speech analyst,  it seems to me that she was and is telling the truth. The circumstances of  how she revealed the information also adds to her credibility in my view. She didn’t seek it out. Instead, she was sought out by law enforcement, so she felt compelled to come forward with all that she allegedly knew.

 I also wanted to let the public know about the devastating effects of  what can happen when people are suddenly thrust into the limelight unprepared and having to fend for themselves. Listening to and reading all of the hostile feedback can be devastating as River discovered and wrote on her twitter page.

                                     A PHONE CALL TO ME  FROM RIVER CRUZ

Last Wednesday, I received a phone call in my Beverly Hills office from River Cruise. We spoke at length and she thanked me sincerely for being the only one in the media for coming to her defense in believing that she was telling the truth about George Anthony, who allegedly said to her that Caylee’s death was an” accident”.

 A few days earlier,  I had written a comprehensive blog based on River’s interview which   she had done in the press. I stated that in my view, as a body language and communication expert,  River  was definitely telling the truth and was not lying when she discussed what  George Anthony has told her.

 In analyzing her interview, I  saw no signals of deception.  Furthermore,  I saw a woman who was reluctant to come forward until she was forced to so  by law enforcement. I saw a woman who did not welcome the media attention and who was not out to make a quick buck off of the Caylee Anthony tragedy. These factors also added to her credibility.

My phone conversation with River validated that she was indeed credible and had nothing to hide. I found her to be a very warm and sensitive person who was in a lot of pain over the public’s skepticism.

HOW THE MEDIA ATTENTION AFFECTED RIVER

During our conversation,  River  revealed how difficult all of this media attention has been for her in terms of no one believing her and  the  public’s  being very harsh on her over the internet.

She even mentioned that people in her community were particularly  mean to her and pointing the finger at her  and how her child was even affected by all of this in school.

She felt embarrassed and ashamed that she every got involved with George and felt very bad about it.

RIVER NOT WANTING TO LIVE

She then mentioned to me that she didn’t want to live and began to cry. I told her that she had a lot to live for and that the truth would prevail. I also told her that she did a wonderful thing by coming forward  because she presented information that may be very important in terms of  seeking justice for Caylee.

I also told her that she had a lot to live for because of the people that loved her like her sister and her children and the rest of her family.

 I asked her if I needed to call her sister and let her know she had these thoughts of not wanting to live she said no. I asked her if she had someone there so she wouldn’t be alone. I encouraged her to contact her sister.

I asked her if she was serious about not wanting to live and she assured me that she was not going to do anything to harm herself or to take her life.  Based on the tone of her voice which she exhibited at that particular time, I believed that she did not appear to be in imminent danger at that moment.

She then shared how terribly difficult this has been with people making horrible comments about her over the internet and being so mean to her. She was upset that people accused her of lying when she was being honest.

 I encouraged her to not  take these comments to heart because these people  didn’t know what they were talking about and that she knew the truth and that is all that counted.

ENCOURAGING RIVER TO GET PROFESSIONAL HELP

I then told her that she did not have to suffer through this alone and I strongly suggested  that she see a professional – a therapist to help her during these very difficult emotional times.

She told me that she didn’t want to do so because the attorneys might use it against her to destroy her credibility.

 I told her that she was more important than what any lawyer thought and that she must definitely get some help. I told her that she didn’t have to suffer in silence and that there were people who could give her some help and provide emotional relief.

I also asked her if there was a church nearby and she mentioned that there was one. I  suggested that she contact the minister immediately as he could offer her some immediate  emotional support. She said she would look into it.

To reassure her that she was not alone, I  told her that  appeared to me like a warm and wonderful person and had a lot to live for and encouraged her  to not read these nasty internet comments from “haters” or take them to heart because they don’t know what they are talking about. After all, they didn’t know what she allegedly  knew.

TALKING ABOUT GEORGE

River opened up to me about what she shared with the press and reiterated what George had told her about Caylee’s death being an”accident”. Apparently  according to her , he knew Caylee was dead all the while. As she said this no me over the phone her voice sounded forthright and there were no signals of deception which I picked up.

I was livid when she told me this. I said to her  “ If he knew Caylee was not alive all along, how dare him prey on the hearts of beautiful people out there who took their time and effort to go out and search for Caylee! He should be investigated and be held accountable for his actions if he did in fact know Caylee  was alive all along!”

THE”  ACCIDENT”

Maybe Casey told George it was an “accident”  and George told River. Obviously George  chose to believe his lying daughter. Perhaps  the thought of  George thinking it was an “accident” rather than Casey actually smothering her child  to death and placing duct tape over her mouth and nose  was easier visual for him to handle. So that is why he may have shared ridiculous “accident” story with River, in my view.

Maybe Casey held Caylee under the water in the pool for too long until she drowned. Or maybe she pushed Caylee in the pool and let her down or maybe she gave Caylee too much chloroform which put her to seep for good. In any of these scenarios, I personally  fail to see any “accident.”

 Perhaps convincing himself that it was an accident is George’s way of  being able to live with himself and not seeing himself as some sort of freak who spawned a monster who killed his granddaughter on purpose. Since he was now in the arms of another woman, River,  he wanted to look his best in her eyes.

So,  he may have told her the “accident” story so that he could be viewed the “victim” who’s  granddaughter who died in an “accident” as opposed to being murdered by his own daughter. Perhaps he thought that this scenario would make him seem more palatable  to River  Cruz.    

   Personally I don’t see that Caylee’s death accident. The fact that George could even think that what Casey did is an accident is completely distorted thinking in my view.   No one puts duct tape over a baby’s nose and mouth and a little heart shaped sticker over it in an “accident”.  But I do believe that this is what he told River –that Caylee’s death was an accident.

GERORGE’S PREVIOUS ACTIONS BEGINNING TO MAKE SENSE

To me, based on River’s comments about George , all of this now started  seeming to make sense as to  perhaps why George wasn’t out there “beating the bushes” and  searching for Caylee like everyone else was.  Most parents and grandparents would be the first ones out there searching and leaving no stone unturned.

It also started to make sense to me as to why perhaps Cindy was so awful to Tim Miller of Equisearch, who along with his army of volunteers  tried his best to find Caylee and how Cindy essentially threw  him out.

 All of the contradictions and body language “ tells” that I observed  over these years regarding George suddenly began to appear to  make more sense to me in light of River’s allegation.

All of George’s overreacting and lunging towards someone in anger and wanting to hit them for merely asking George why he wasn’t searching for Caylee. Now it made sense to me why he possibly got so upset and shouted in anger  that” Caylee was alive”  when a protestor said Caylee was dead.  Was George’s reaction like what Shakespeare referred to when he wrote in one of his plays “ me thinks thou dost protest too much”? Anyone who worked in law enforcement as George did early on would know that the longer a child is missing, the greater the possibility of their not being alive. Why would he get so upset by this reasonable comment?

CINDY’S SLIPS OF TELLING EARLY ON CAYLEE WAS NOT IN THE WOODS AND BACKTRACKING

Then  River shared with me the fact that Cindy had a Freudian slip on camera on a news show  where she spoke about Caylee being in the WOODS. River then emailed me the link to a video which documented this. This was at the  time when the WOODS  weren’t even a consideration because everyone was out searching for Caylee everywhere possible.

As I watched  the video, in light of what River said about George and Cindy knowing what happened to Caylee , it appeared now make even  more sense to me.  There as Cindy talking about WOODS when people were just searching for Caylee and wondering where she was. Then Cindy backtracks with “uhms” and  “like you know out there”.

 Then  I listened to the audio  of Cindy  leaving a  massage to Sergeant Allen and saying how she was sure Casey got help ..Cindy’s voice sounded sure and definite. How could anyone in the early days of Caylee going missing sound so sure of anything, let alone getting help! Why was she so sure? Was she so sure because she may have possibly been the one helping Casey? Was she shop sure because  it may have possibly been  George or Lee that helped  Casey? Why was her voice so definite sounding?

I raised these questions in my blog yesterday (Thursday) as I shared this new insight based on the link to the press interview that River sent me, which by the way she also said was on her twitter account as well.

RIVER GIVING GEORGE MONEY

As we continued to speak River shared how she gave George money because she felt sorry for him. This made me even sicker hearing about George. Based on how he came off vocally, speech wise and body language wise  as  Mr Victim, Nice Guy I Want to Be Liked on his Fox 35 interview, where he  seemed to wan everyone to feel sorry for him and blamed the world,  I could only imagine the sob stories he told River to get her to cough up the money. Now hearing it from River’s mouth,  my thoughts of George being a TOXIC MAN are confirmed.

ZANNY THE NANNY RIGHT DOWN TO THE ASIAN TATTOO

We also discussed the fact that she looked so much like the fictious Zanny the Nanny character description  that Cindy and George and Casey referred to . River agreed and even said that she had an Asian tattoo like the one they described.

We even talked about her hair and I told her that one time when I was on Nancy Grace’s show, Nancy was saying how Casey kept saying  that Zanny had curly hair and then she had straight hair and how it was all confusing. Then River told me how she had curly hair but usually wore it straight.

I then  mentioned how descriptive Cindy had been in her deposition and was so sure Zanny was a 10 as she cut down the woman named Zanaida Gonzalez and told her she was not a 10 like the real Zanny. I   River asked if she had ever met Cindy and she did and that she knew Cindy .

Then I started feeling even more nauseated as all these thoughts raced through my mind.    Everything now really seemed to make a lot more sense to me.

Since George and Cindy BOTH  knew River, in my view,  they both obviously used her as a visual  for the prototype of the fictions Zanny the Nanny. That may have been  why Cindy sounded so confident and didn’t skip a beat when she described Zanny to a tee and verbally beat up the innocent Zanaida Gonzalez telling her in such a condescending tone that she was definitely not a 10 like the real Zanny. 
I told River that she  did the right thing in telling all that she knew  because it seemed to me  in my opinion that she may have very well saved her own life, which she agreed.

FINAL WORDS

I assured  River that she was not alone and there were people out there like me who did believe her and not to worry about the naysayers. I told her to stop reading the nasty comments over the internet . I also made her promise me that she would seek out some professional  help and at the least call the minister. I told her that she was free to call me anytime.

 POSTING OF MY BLOG AND POSTIVE COMMENTS

The next day, I posted my blog about looking  at  George and Cindy’s past behavior in light of what was revealed by River. The feedback I received from those who read my blog  was extremely supportive of River.

MY REACHING OUT TO RIVER

Because I knew how upset River was by people’s negative comments, the day before, I called her up to reassure her and to give her some positive feedback. I wanted to  let her know that there were people out there who were indeed supportive towards her. I wanted her to read some of the  positive comments on my latest blog post so that she could feel reassured that she wasn’t alone.

RIVER’S SUICIDE ATTEMPT

But when I called, it wasn’t River who picked up the phone. It was Skye, her twin sister. I told Skye that I was Dr. Lillian Glass and that River had reached out to me the day before.  I  said that I was calling to let her know that I posted a blog where the comments about River were positive so she wouldn’t feel that the whole world was against her.

Skye informed me that it was too late because River  was in the hospital and attempted suicide. I was absolutely shocked! I relayed my prayers to Skye to give to River and told her to tell River that there were a lot of people in her corner and to hang in there, which she appreciated. She said that she woulkd relay the message to River.

As soon as  I got off the phone I received numerous emails from people  who sent me River’s twitter message which said the following:

SUICIDE PACT!!!
I CANT TAKE THIS ANYMORE NOONE UNDERSTANDS WHAT ITS LIKE TO B CONSTENTLY CALLED A LIAR AND B TORN APART BY THE MEDIA
about 8 hours ago via web that whole family knew what happened with caylee~IM TIRED OF ALL THIS I NEVER WANTED AN OF THIS~~~SO NOW ITS TIME

Another person sent me the following messge

“ Dr.Glass you need to contact this woman personally ..she has said somethings regarding suicide..she seems to be exrtremely depressed about all the negative comments being said about her, and the shame she feels for getting involved with geo . I think river could benefit grealty from hearing from you”.

I was so upset the entire night that I could barely sleep. I wished River would have called me. I wished we would have spoken before she made a suicide attempt. Thank God the suicide attempt didn’t work.

THE NEXT DAY

I called River’s phone number  the next day morning and her sister Skye  answered. She told me that  had has visited her sister in the hospital and said she may be  released. I then relayed my prayers and good wishes to both Skye and to her sister River.

 In addition I emailed River and  wrote  her what I  initially wanted to share with her in the phone a day earlier.  about how people were supportive of her and  in her corner. In my email I encouraged her to  hang in there and not pay attention to the negativity and to the haters out there.

MY PRAYERS AND SUPPORT FOR RIVER

River had nothing to gain by coming forth.   In fact she chose to take this information to her grave.  It was only when law enforcement contacted her that she reveal the information she was told by George.

She has not been gallivanting around in the press since she gave that initial interview,  which is further indication that she isn’t out to make  a quick buck off of Caylee’s death. After my conversation with her I found her to be a very lovely  and sensitive woman and  I am even more convinced that she was telling the truth.

I continue to pray for River. Maybe this suicide attempt is a blessing in disguise. Maybe it afforded  her the help she desperately  needed  including  possible medication to help her cope with this trying situation.   www.drlillianglass.com

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River Cruz Reaches Out to Dr. Lillian Glass To Thank Her For Exposing Her Credibility Through Voice and Body Language Analysis

Friday, March 26th, 2010

SHARING MY EXPERIENCE WITH RIVER CRUZ

  I decided to share my experience via a phone conversation with River Cruz because  I believe that it is essential that the public should know everything related to the Casey Anthony Case and anyone that has any association with it.

George Anthony’s alleged mistress,  River Cruise called me up two days ago to thank me for writing the blog I did where I discussed how her body language and her voice and speech content appeared to  credible to me.

Because  I am not River Cruz’  licensed therapist, psychologist, psychiatrist, or any one else’s for that matter, and have never met or treated River,   I am not bound by any confidentiality. So there is no issue here.

But as a voice and body language expert and a media personality, I am bound by the truth. I have no special interest  or agenda  as to  why I support her statement,  other than to state that based on my years of experience as a body language , voice and speech analyst,  it seems to me that she was and is telling the truth.

The circumstances of  how she revealed the information also adds to her credibility in my view. She didn’t seek it out. Instead, she was sought out by law enforcement, so she felt compelled to come forward with all that she allegedly knew.

 I also wanted to let the public know about the devastating effects of  what can happen when people are suddenly thrust into the limelight unprepared, and have to fend for themselves. Listening to and reading all of the hostile feedback can be devastating as River discovered and wrote on her twitter page.

    A PHONE CALL TO ME  FROM RIVER CRUZ

This  Wednesday, I received a phone call in my Beverly Hills office from River Cruise. We spoke at length and she thanked me sincerely for being the only one in the media to come to her defense in believing that she was telling the truth about George Anthony, who allegedly said to her that Caylee’s death was an” accident”.

 A few days earlier,  I had written a comprehensive blog based on River’s interview that she had done in the press. I stated that in my view, as a body language and communication expert,  River  was definitely telling the truth and was not lying when she discussed what  George Anthony had told her.

 In analyzing her interview, I  saw no signals of deception.  Furthermore,  I saw a woman who was reluctant to come forward until she was forced to so  by law enforcement. I saw a woman who did not welcome the media attention and who was not out to make a quick buck off of the Caylee Anthony tragedy. These factors also added to her credibility.

My phone conversation with River validated that she was indeed credible and had nothing to hide. I found her to be a very warm and sensitive person who was in a lot of pain over the public’s skepticism.

HOW THE MEDIA ATTENTION AFFECTED RIVER

During our conversation,  River  revealed how difficult all of this media attention has been for her in terms of no one believing her and  the  public’s  being very harsh on her over the internet.

She even mentioned that people in her community were particularly  mean to her and pointing the finger at her  and how her child was even affected by all of this in school.

She felt embarrassed and ashamed that she every got involved with George and felt very bad about it.

RIVER NOT WANTING TO LIVE

She then mentioned to me that she didn’t want to live and began to cry. I told her that she had a lot to live for and that the truth would prevail. I also told her that she did a wonderful thing by coming forward  because she presented information that may be very important in terms of  seeking justice for Caylee.

I also told her that she had a lot to live for because of the people that loved her like her sister and her children and the rest of her family.

 I asked her if I needed to call her sister and let her know she had these thoughts of not wanting to live  and she said no. I asked her if she had someone there so she wouldn’t be alone. I encouraged her to contact her sister.

I asked her if she was serious about not wanting to live and she assured me that she was not going to do anything to harm herself or to take her life.  Based on the tone of her voice which she exhibited at that particular time, I believed that she did not appear to be in imminent danger at that moment.

She then shared how terribly difficult this has been with people making horrible comments about her over the Internet and being so mean to her. She was upset that people accused her of lying when she was being honest.

 I encouraged her to not  take these comments to heart because these people  didn’t know what they were talking about and that she knew the truth and that is all that counted.

ENCOURAGING RIVER TO GET PROFESSIONAL HELP

I then told her that she did not have to suffer through this alone and I strongly suggested  that she see a professional – a therapist to help her during these very difficult emotional times.

She told me that she didn’t want to do so because the attorneys might use it against her to destroy her credibility.

 I told her that she was more important than what any lawyer thought and that she must definitely get some help. I told her that she didn’t have to suffer in silence and that there were people who could give her some help and provide emotional relief.

I also asked her if there was a church nearby and she mentioned that there was one. I  suggested that she contact the minister immediately as he could offer her some immediate  emotional support. She said she would look into it.

To reassure her that she was not alone, I  told her that  appeared to me like a warm and wonderful person and had a lot to live for and encouraged her  to not read these nasty internet comments from “haters” or take them to heart because they don’t know what they are talking about. After all, they didn’t know what she allegedly  knew. They weren’ t there. Instead, she was there.

TALKING ABOUT GEORGE

River opened up to me about what she shared with the press and reiterated what George had told her about Caylee’s death being an”accident”. Apparently  according to her , he knew Caylee was dead all the while. As she said this no me over the phone her voice sounded forthright and there were no signals of deception which I picked up.

I was livid when she told me this. I said to her  “ If he knew Caylee was not alive all along, how dare him prey on the hearts of beautiful people out there who took their time and effort to go out and search for Caylee! He should be investigated and be held accountable for his actions if he did in fact know Caylee  was alive all along!”

THE”  ACCIDENT”

Maybe Casey told George it was an “accident”  and George then River.

Obviously George  chose to believe his lying daughter. Perhaps  the thought of  George thinking it was an “accident” rather than Casey actually smothering her child  to death and placing duct tape over her mouth and nose  was easier visual for him to handle. So that is why he may have shared ridiculous “accident” story with River, in my view.

Maybe Casey held Caylee under the water in the pool for too long until she drowned. Or maybe she pushed Caylee in the pool and let her down or maybe she gave Caylee too much chloroform which put her to seep for good. In any of these scenarios, I personally  fail to see any “accident.”

 Perhaps convincing himself that it was an”accident” s George’s way of  being able to live with himself and not seeing himself as some sort of freak who spawned a monster who killed his granddaughter on purpose. Since he was now in the arms of another woman, River,  he  noi doubt wanted to look his best in her eyes.

So,  he may have told her the “accident” story so that he could be viewed the “victim” who’s  granddaughter who died in an “accident” as opposed to being murdered by his own daughter. Perhaps he thought that this scenario would make him seem more palatable  to River  Cruz.    

   Personally I don’t see that Caylee’s death accident. The fact that George could even think that what Casey did is an accident is completely distorted thinking in my view.   No one puts duct tape over a baby’s nose and mouth and a little heart shaped sticker over it in an “accident”.  But I do believe that this is what he told River –that Caylee’s death was an accident.

GERORGE’S PREVIOUS ACTIONS NOW  BEGINNING TO MAKE SENSE

To me, based on River’s comments about George , all of this now started   to make sense as to  perhaps why George wasn’t out there “beating the bushes” and  searching for Caylee like everyone else was.  Most parents and grandparents would be the first ones out there searching and leaving no stone unturned.

It also started to make sense to me as to why perhaps Cindy was so awful to Tim Miller of Equisearch, who along with his army of volunteers  tried his best to find Caylee and how Cindy essentially threw  him out. Did she already know Casey was dead?

 All of the contradictions and body language “ tells” that I observed  over these years regarding George suddenly began to appear to  make more sense to me in light of River’s allegation.

All of George’s overreacting and lunging towards someone in anger and wanting to hit them for merely asking George why he wasn’t searching for Caylee. Now it made sense to me why he possibly got so upset and shouted in anger  that” Caylee was alive”  when a protestor said Caylee was dead.

 Was George’s reaction like what Shakespeare referred to when he wrote in one of his plays “ me thinks thou dost protest too much”? Anyone who worked in law enforcement as George did early on would know that the longer a child is missing, the greater the possibility of their not being alive. Why would he get so upset by this reasonable comment?

CINDY’S SLIPS OF TELLING EARLY ON CAYLEE WAS NOT IN THE WOODS AND BACKTRACKING

Then  River shared with me the fact that Cindy had a Freudian slip on camera on a news show  where she spoke about Caylee being in the WOODS. River then emailed me the link to a video which documented this. This was at the  time when the WOODS  weren’t even a consideration because everyone was out searching for Caylee everywhere possible.

As I watched  the video, in light of what River said about George and Cindy knowing what happened to Caylee , it appeared now make even  more sense to me.  There was Cindy talking about WOODS when people were just searching for Caylee and wondering where she was. Then Cindy backtracks with “uhms” and  “like you know out there.”

 Then  I listened to the audio  of Cindy  leaving a  massage to Sergeant Allen and saying how she was sure Casey got help .Cindy’s voice sounded sure and definite.

 How could anyone in the early days of Caylee going missing sound so sure of anything, let alone getting help! Why was she so sure? Was she so sure because she may have possibly been the one helping Casey? Was she so sure because  it may have possibly been  George or Lee that helped  Casey? Why was her voice so definite sounding?

I raised these questions in my blog yesterday (Thursday) as I shared this new insight based on the link to the press interview that River sent me, which by the way she also said was on her twitter account as well.http://twitter.com/RiverC01

GIVING GEORGE MONEY

As we continued to speak River shared how she gave George money because she felt sorry for him. This made me even sicker hearing about George.

Based on how he came off vocally, speech wise and body language wise  as  Mr Victim, Nice Guy I Want to Be Liked on his Fox 35 interview, where he  seemed to want  everyone to feel sorry for him and blamed the world,  I could only imagine the sob stories he told River to get her to cough up the money.

Now hearing it from River’s mouth,  my thoughts of George being a TOXIC MAN are confirmed.

ZANNY THE NANNY RIGHT DOWN TO THE ASIAN TATTOO

We also discussed the fact that she looked so much like the fictious Zanny the Nanny character description  that Cindy and George and Casey referred to . River agreed and even said that she had an Asian tattoo like the one they described.

We even talked about her hair and I told her that one time when I was on Nancy Grace’s show, Nancy was saying how Casey kept saying  that Zanny had curly hair and then she had straight hair and how it was all confusing. Then River told me how she had curly hair but usually wore it straight.

I then  mentioned how descriptive Cindy had been in her deposition and was so sure Zanny was a 10 as she cut down the woman named Zanaida Gonzalez and told her she was not a 10 like the real Zanny. I   River asked if she had ever met Cindy and she did and that she knew Cindy .

Then I started feeling even more nauseated as all these thoughts raced through my mind.   Everything now really seemed to make a lot more sense to me!

Since George and Cindy BOTH  knew River, in my view,  they BOTH obviously must have used her as a visual  for the prototype of the fictions Zanny the Nanny.

 That may have been  why Cindy sounded so confident and didn’t skip a beat when she described Zanny to a tee and verbally beat up the innocent Zanaida Gonzalez telling her in such a condescending tone that she was definitely not a 10 like the real Zanny. 
I told River that she  did the right thing in telling all that she knew  because it seemed to me  in my opinion that she may have very well saved her own life, which she agreed.

FINAL WORDS

I assured  River that she was not alone and there were people out there like me who did believe her and not to worry about the naysayers. I told her to stop reading the nasty comments over the internet .

I also made her promise me that she would seek out some professional  help and at the least call the minister. I told her that she was free to call me anytime.

POSTING OF MY BLOG AND POSTIVE COMMENTS

The next day, I posted my blog about looking  at  George and Cindy’s past behavior in light of what was revealed by River. The feedback I received from those who read my blog  was extremely supportive of River.

MY REACHING OUT TO RIVER

Because I knew how upset River was by people’s negative comments, the day before, I called her up to reassure her and to give her some positive feedback.

 I wanted to  let her know that there were people out there who were indeed supportive towards her. I wanted her to read some of the  positive comments on my latest blog post so that she could feel reassured that she wasn’t alone.

RIVER’S SUICIDE ATTEMPT

But when I called, it wasn’t River who picked up the phone. It was Skye, her twin sister. I told Skye that I was Dr. Lillian Glass and that River had reached out to me the day before.  I  said that I was calling to let her know that I posted a blog where the comments about River were positive so she wouldn’t feel that the whole world was against her.

Skye informed me that it was too late because River  was in the hospital and attempted suicide.

 I was absolutely shocked!

 I relayed my prayers to Skye to give to River and told her to tell River that there were a lot of people in her corner and to hang in there, which she appreciated. She said that she woulkd relay the message to River.

As soon as  I got off the phone I received numerous emails from people  who sent me River’s twitter message which said the following:

SUICIDE PACT!!!
I CANT TAKE THIS ANYMORE NOONE UNDERSTANDS WHAT ITS LIKE TO B CONSTENTLY CALLED A LIAR AND B TORN APART BY THE MEDIA
about 8 hours ago via web that whole family knew what happened with caylee~IM TIRED OF ALL THIS I NEVER WANTED AN OF THIS~~~SO NOW ITS TIME

Another person sent me the following messge

“ Dr.Glass you need to contact this woman personally ..she has said somethings regarding suicide..she seems to be exrtremely depressed about all the negative comments being said about her, and the shame she feels for getting involved with geo . I think river could benefit grealty from hearing from you”.

I was so upset the entire night that I could barely sleep. I wished River would have called me. I wished we would have spoken before she made a suicide attempt. Thank God the suicide attempt didn’t work.

THE NEXT DAY

I called River’s phone number  the next day morning and her sister Skye  answered. She told me that  had has visited her sister in the hospital and said she may be  released.

 I then relayed my prayers and good wishes to both Skye and to her sister River.

 In addition I emailed River and  wrote  her what I  initially wanted to share with her in the phone a day earlier.  about how people were supportive of her and  in her corner.

 In my email I encouraged her to  hang in there and not pay attention to the negativity and to the haters out there.

MY PRAYERS AND SUPPORT FOR RIVER

River had nothing to gain by coming forth.   In fact she chose to take this information to her grave.  It was only when law enforcement contacted her that she reveal the information she was told by George.

She has not been gallivanting around in the press since she gave that initial interview,  which is further indication that she isn’t out to make  a quick buck off of Caylee’s death.

After my conversation with her I found her to be a very lovely  and sensitive woman and  I am even more convinced that she was telling the truth.

I continue to pray for River. Maybe this suicide attempt is a blessing in disguise. Maybe it afforded  her the help she desperately  needed  including  possible medication to help her cope with this trying situation.   http://www.drlillianglass.com

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Tiger Wood’s Sex Partner Rachel Uchitel’s Image is Beyond Repair No Matter If She is Called A Slut, Whore, Hooker, Mistress or Liar!

Sunday, March 21st, 2010

STOP THE BS ALREADY AND CALL IT LIKE IT IS!

There is nothing I hate more than PR Spin and bullshit and pretending something isn’t so when it is.  Remember the story about The Emperor’s New Clothes? It was a story where no one in the kingdom wanted to offend the king, so they  kept telling  him that he had on nice clothes. The truth was that the king wasn’t wearing any clothes. He was nude. But his subjects told him what he wanted to hear even though it wasn’t true, as not to offend or upset him.
Well I refuse to  play that game with regard to Rachel Uchitel, a  woman who initially lied to the press  that she did not have an affair with Tiger Woods when she flew to Melbourne Australia to be with him. This is the same woman who was paid millions of dollars from Tiger Wood’s camp (thanks to her enterprising attorney Gloria Allred) to keep quiet about the affair and all that she knows about Tiger.

Now she has her panties in a bunch because Jeff Beacher, a Vegas entertainer has referred to her as a SLUT and a WHORE. In fact,  she and Gloria just sent him a cease and desist letter saying that he defamed her character by referring to her in these defamatory terms  on his Facebook page. They threatened Jeff that if he didn’t take down his post, he would be sued.

Personally I think that Jeff  should leave it up and them sue him because this will no doubt be thrown out of court as a frivolous case. Then he can sue them for malicious prosecution.

RACHEL UCHITEL DEFAMED HERSELF BY HAVING SEX WITH MARRIED TIGER WOODS

In my view, Jeffn  Beacher’s attributing these adjectives to Rachel Uchitel is not what defamed her. What defamed Rachel Uchitel was her cheating with a married man and lying to the press that she didn’t have an affair with Tiger. What defamed her was getting millions of dollars from Tiger to keep quiet about an affair she initially said she never had.

According to Webster’s dictionary a “whore”  refers to someone who is an immoral woman. Wikipedia refers to a “slut” as a person of low character.

Wouldn’t you say that a woman who knowingly had sexual intercourse with a married man, who happened  to have a wife, a toddler and an infant at home to be an “immoral  woman” who had “low character?”  I think most people would say that. In fact based on the  comments made by the over 300 respondents on TMZ, it appears that most seem to agree with the dictionary definitions in  classifying Rachel as a slut and a whore.

RACHELS IMAGE AS A SLUT AND A WHORE  IS IRREPARABLE NO MATTER HOW HARD SHE TRIES TO SPIN IT

Whether you call her a slut or a whore or a mistress, it’s still the same situation. If you put a dress and lipstick on a pig, it’s still a pig underneath the dress and the lipstick.

No matter how you spin Rachel’s image or what you call her, she will always be perceived as  an opportunistic  woman who has sex with a  rich and famous married man, who had a wife and two babies at home, who initially lied to the press about the affair and then was  was paid millions of dollars to keep her mouth shut .

THE LAME PHOTO SPREAD FOR OK MAGAZINE WHERE SHE FORBID THE MENTION OF HER AFFAIR


Rachel has no doubt worked hard to repair her image, but it is  clearly not working. First there was that lame photo spread in OK Magazine of her and her dogs and her apartment. No one was buying her glamor girl star- like image The ONLY reason she was in the magazine in the first place was because of her affair with Tiger, yet she did the shoot under the condition that she would not be asked about Tiger. That was the only pertinent information. Who cared about seeing  her with her dogs and how her apartment was decorated and reading the BS about her being a homebody when in a previous magazine article in Blackbook a year earlier, she described her jet set lifestyle with the rich and famous.


THREATENING TO SUE  ABC AND THE VIEW IF JOY BEHAR DIDN’T APOLOGIZE FOR SAYING “YOU KA TELL SHE’S A HOOKER”

Then there was another attempt to repair her image  after comedian and talk show host Joy Behar made a play on Uchitel’s name and said “You ka tell she’s a hooker. ” She and Gloria Allred threatened to sue ABC, the View, and Joy Behar unless Joy apologized on the air. Even though Joy was forced to apologize, her body language reflected that she was seething underneath.

RACHEL’S HORRIBLE NASAL WHINEY AND ARROGANT SOUNDING INTERVIEW ON EXTRA

In yet another attempt to repair Rachel Uchitel’s image she opened up to Mario Lopez in an interview on Extra. In my professional opinion as someone who has worked with thousands of celebrities and on camera personalities over the years to get them camera ready, Rachel’s appearance on Extra did further damage to her already damaged image.

In my view she did not come across as likable, but rather as harsh and unsympathetic. Her nasal, whiny, monotonous, and  uninflected voice was off-putting, not to mention what she talked about. When she spoke about being an original mean girl she was a complete turn off.

NO ONE WILL EVER RESPECT A LIAR

Nobody respects a liar. Once you blatantly  lie to the media, as Rachel did when she initially denied her affair with Tiger, no one ever believes you or trusts you again. As soon as Rachel opened her trap, pre Gloria Allred and lied to the press about her not having an affair her credibility was gone for good.

Rachel can have an army of Gloria Allreds and sue every single person on the planet who says something bad about her but it still won’t change how the public perceives her.

WHAT RACHEL NEEDS TO DO NOW

In my view Rachel should take the millions she made off of Tiger for  keeping quiet  and go away and get a life.

She should stop threatening to sue people for saying derogatory things about her. The more she does it the more it will confirm in people’s minds that she may very well be  that slut whore or hooker she so vehemently denies she is. She needs to  leave it alone and get above the situation. She needs to move on.

This is America and we have First Amendment Rights to say as we please as long as it is true. According to the definitions provided by the various dictionaries it seems to me and to others that Jeff Beacher  may have been  telling the truth as he described Rachel Uchitel.

The bottom line is that Rachel needs to get a reality check that  she will NEVER be respected  for what she did and her image  will NEVER be repaired no matter how much spin she or Gloria put on it. The fact that she has yet to apologize to Elin or to the public for her indiscretion  speaks volumes. Even if you call her a mistress instead of a whore, slut nor hooker, no one respects a mistress either. www.drlillianglass.com

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Michael Jackson’s Bodyguards Body Language Reveals Their Anger At Not Getting Paid. Are Their Public Revelations Their Way of Finally Getting Paid Big Time?

Saturday, March 13th, 2010

As Michael Jackson’s body guards continue to spill the beans about Michael’s personal business, it is now very evident to me why they did such an egregious thing. Their body language said it all. They were angry that they did not get paid so now they are retaliating and telling things they should never have been telling anyone.  Look at the clenched fist of Bill Whittfield in the middle. Look at Mike Garcia  on the left looking down and his chin which juts forward. Look at Javon Beard on the right with his furrowed brow and angry look in his eyes. They each demonstrate signals of anger as they discuss their former employer Michael Jackson.

BODYGUARD PULLING A GUN ON RANDY AND RANDY’S THREAT TO CALL THE PRESS

Their telling about how Michael’s family came to his home and how  Michael refused to see the, They spoke of how Randy crashed the gates and how Michael refused to see him.

Now that we know a lot more about Michael and his alleged drug issues, to me this revelation  actually spoke to how Randy was  concerned for his brother’s welfare .

To me it showed that he  loved Michel enough to demand to crash his gate in order to  see him.  It seems to validate what we have heard, that the family may have  realized Michael had an problem and were reaching out.

The fact that bodyguard Bill  Whitfield pulled a gun on Randy and didn’t know he was Michael’s brother after two years of working with Michael, speaks volumes to me. Perhaps he needed to ask who he was before he pulled a gun on him. Randy threated to call the press if Bill didn’t put the gun away.

As Bill relayed the story bodyguard Javon Bears is head saying “ It was unbelieveable.” No doubt he as referring to Randy’s threatening to call the press. What I think is “unbelieveable” is the bodyguards response and action in this alleged situation.  Based on what we now know, it may very well be that  Michael refused to see his brother because he knew that  Randy was probably  there to give him a reality check.

WHY DID MICHAEL HAVE   EVERY PIECE OF PAPERWORK GO THROUGH AN UNQUALIFIED BODYGUARD

Bodyguard Javon proudly revealed “  there isn’t one piece of paperwork that didn’t go through this man,” pointing to Bill Whitfield.  My question is WHY? This obviously spoke to Michael’s not making the best judgments during that time. He needed to hire a professional assistant, not a bodyguard to sort through papers and meetings and deem what is important and what is not.

A professional assistant would never think of revealing the information that is currently being revealed publically. They know better. They know that if they did what Bill Whitfield is doing,  this would be their kiss of death and that they could never work in the capacity of assistant again.

Bill ‘s behavior is what happens when one is not dealing with a professional . In his interview, he has the audacity to publically  admit  that he had very very  personal information which he is now cavalierly sharing with the public.  This very very personal information  was NOT meant for anyone’s knowledge, but Michael’s. If Bill was the gatekeeper he needed to keep that gate locked in Michael’s death, just as he did during Michael’s life. As the saying goes, Michael is “ rolling over in his coffin at this point.”

BOTTOM LINE IS THEY ARE ANGRY BECAUSE THEY FEEL  EVERYONE GOT PAID BUT THEM

Bill revealed that he saw all the money going out “with lots of zeros” He said that the money was going out faster than it was coming in. Once again I ask, why in the world was an untrained bodyguard privy to Michael’s finances? Why wasn’t anything financial handled by A CPA or business manager? Bodyguard Bill even had the never to tell everyone what the money was being spent on attorneys.

Now here is where their body language spoke volumes. Bill spoke of how they waited to be paid. There was an in genuine  tense smile on his face as he said this,  which belied how he was really feeling. In actuality, this body language tell indicated that he was feeling anger- anger that he was not being paid while everyone else was paid.   You can see a flash of anger on his face as she says”  10 million 20 million and I’m seeing all these zeros. Then Javon say” I can’t get my little 5,0000 dollars.”

So there it is! The truth is revealed along with their motive of being post mortem blabbermouths.

BLABBERMOUTHS REVENGE

With blabbermouth and unqualified Whitfield was the gatekeeper, it certainly seemed in my view to add to Michaels situation. No professional would admit their client was “always getting sued”. But as an unqualified  personal assistant. Bill had no qualms about revealing this very personal information.

Bill reveals. “he was always getting sued and we  were at lawyers from 10 AM till midnight. “ He then goes on to tell how Michael  got so frustrated that he threw Bill’s phone out the window. He then smirked  as he shared Michael’s words “ Bill you’re gonna need a new phone.

I am a  million percent sure Michael would not ever want this incident revealed to his fans and to the world . It shows that he had a temper and that was not in control. This is a man who preached love and kindness. The last thing he would want anyone to know is how he throw someone else’s cell phone out the window when he was enraged.

THROWN OUT OF HOTELS FOR  NON-PAYMENT OF BILLS

The bodyguards claim that they are setting the record straight and that they are doing this in defense of Michael, is total BS. If you were doing something in defense of Michael you wouldn’t be revealing that he had a temper tantrum or that his credit cards were declined to the point that he was asked to leave various hotels.

Apparently this took place four times according to Bill. He even said how Jesse Jackson put up his credit card for Michael and his entourage to fly to his birthday party because Michael couldn’t afford it. By his body language, Bill seemed thrilled by the perk at being able to attend Jesse Jackson’s soire as well.

“NO DRUG PROBLEM, YET  ‘HE LOOKED LIKE HE WAS ON SOMETHING”—WHICH IS IT?

Ashley Banfield asked  Bill,  Did it seem like Michael had a a drug problem?   Bill responded with “No not a problem… “

But during the first interview Bill clearly says  that he “noticed Michael looked like he was on something.” In this second interview he contradicts himself.  If you look like you are on something and especially given the fact that you have young kids around the house, to me that spells a drug issue.

Mike Garcia’s foot shaking and  foot tapping were huge giveaways body language wise. He also closed his eyes as the discussion of Michael’s alleged drug problem was going on.  This indicated his extreme discomfort with the topic and perhaps his knowing deep down that he may have known quite well that Michael may very well have had a drug problem.

Then they told how Michael would ask about marijuana. Javan’s body language as he looked down, said it all. To me it seemed rather  obvious  based on Javan’s body language reaction, that Michael may have asked if he could get some marijuana or someone could get some for him.

BODYGUARD’S POINTING THE FINGER AT OTHER DOCTORS

The bodyguards speak of Dr. Conrad Murray who has been accused of killing Michael .  Bill said about Dr. Murray “ When he came on the scene he was taking care of the kids.” Then Bill drops a BOMBSHELL!!!

He says “   I never thought it was the  fault or hands of one person.”  WHAT???? Then he  looks down at his hands. When a person looks down after saying something they know they shouldn’t be saying it is because they are embarrassed at what they said. Bill may have realized that this was way too much information and that now he was  now treading on legal territory.

I am sure that someone’s attorney will be deposing Bill and his fellow bodyguards to further clarify this statement which seems to implicate others. Maybe Dr, Murray’s  attorney  will use this information as a means of  trying to point the finger at other doctors who treated Michael  and not Dr. Murray.

By looking down body language-wise it also speaks to Bill’s  demonstrating a signal of deception. Hee obviously knows he is not telling the truth here, Of course Michael died at the hands of one person- Conrad Murray. If Dr. Murray would not have given Michael propofol and would not have left Michael alone while he gabbed away on the phone to a girlfriend  and properly monitored him Michael would be alive today.

TRASHING THE CELEBS AT MICHAEL’S FUNERAL

Bill says “ I looked around and saw all these celebrities.”  Ten he angrily says. “ Where were they? They  turned their back on him.”

Well maybe they turned their back on him because no one could get through to Michael because of Bill the gatekeeper. Maybe Michael  was indeed “on something” as  Bill initially said and he didn’t want others to see him that way . Maybe he had no desire to see anyone. Maybe he as content with just being alone with his kids.

SILENCE IS NOT GOLDEN IN THIS CASE

The bodyguards were quite talkative and yacky and bean spilling until Ashley asked them the following question, “  What do you want to say to the kids ?”

These three secret telling  opportunists sat there like three  bumps on  along and said absolutely  NOTHING !!!! That spoke volumes to me. They sure were chatty when it came to sharing the kid’s dirty laundry like their  manipulating them for cookies or their dad getting mad at Prince.  They could speak ABOUT the kids, but when it was time to directly SPEAK TO THE KIDS they were suddenly silent? They obviously had not rehearsed this part of the interview.
Why were they SILENT? It was because they had an agenda in my view .That agenda  is loud and clear to me . It is  to get back not only the money they feel they are owed for doing jobs that weren’t in their job description and spending so much time with Michael for nothing.

They didn’the camera and sincerely say to the kids “You’r daddy loved you so much.” OR t look into Why nor say You daddy loved you. “  or I know it is so hard for you but your daddy is proud of you.: They could have said ANYTHING. But instead, they said NOTHING!!!!!!!!! It said to me that this interview is ONLY about THEM and a POTENTIAL BOOK DEAL and MONEY!!!

Mike Garcia was the only one who eventually showed some humanity as his cheeks were stained with tears. Then Javon sheepishly looked into the camera and said “were proud of yall were proud of you guys…”  But to me it was too little too late!

STICKING AROUND FOR THE PERKS AND PICKING THE BONES AFTER DEATH LIKE A BUZZARD

Ashley point blank asked them why they were sticking around if they hadn’t been paid. Thy hemmed and hawed until they eeked something out like they were doing it for the kids.” I don’t believe that for  moment! If that were the case, they would never have waited an eternity in television time. They would have immediately looked into the camera and told the kids how much they loved them and how they were there for them and are still there for them if they are ever needed.

No doubt they stuck around to see if Michael would pay them and perhaps for the perks. After all they went to Jesse’s bash for free. Maybe it was the free food, room and board, going to exciting places with Michael and living in luxury for doing  little work. Maybe they had no place else to go. They clearly were not the magnanimous good  guys they portrayed themselves to be. No good guy would tell all of his employer’s most intimate secrets to the world after he died. To me it is like a buzzard – a scavenger devouring the meat of a carcass after it died. It makes me sick! What these three did makes me just as sick!

And if you don’t believe me, what “good guy”  would discuss his employers paranoia like  Michael’s avoiding mirrors or telling the world that Michael had a  briefcase filled with cash or telling everyone he ordered from ebay at all hours.

No doubt they wished Michael would have opened his suitcase full of cash and paid them a hefty sum. No doubt they wished Michael would have stopped his ebay obsession and paid them instead of spending his money on ebay.

Instead of speaking up and telling Michael they needed to be paid, they acted passive aggressively when he was alive. They said and did NOTHING! They just seethed on the inside. But now it has all come to the surface. They are determined to do in Michael’s death what they couldn’t so when he was alive-  and cash in time ! http://www.drlillianglass.com

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Michael Jackson’s Bodyguards Body Language Shows Signals of Discomfort Discussing Michael’s Love Life as They ” Set the Record Straight” For Their Own Personal Gain

Thursday, March 11th, 2010

 TRUSTED BODYGUARDS?

I am very troubled by three ex body guards  Bill Whitfield, Mike Garcia ,and  Javon Beard, whom Michael Jackson  entrusted with his most intimate secrets, now  revealing  very personal information about Michael and his children  after his death.  Based on all that we know about  Michael’s desire for privacy and protection for his children, here is no question that Michael would have been 100 per cent  against what these bodyguards are doing .

orThey openly admit they plan to write a book which they plan to call “In Defense of the King.” So they are apparently out there now fishing for a publisher in their attempt to cash in big time on Michael’s death if their book is sold.  Based on how they came across body language –wise  and what they said“setting the record straight” in  speaking out on Michael’s behalf, it seems to me that it is  merely a ploy for them to fill their pockets and cash in on Michaels death.

THEY ARE NOT  TELLING US ANYTHING WE DON’T ALREADY KNOW FROM MEDIA ACCOUNTS

They are not really telling us anything we don’t already know. We know a lot of the information they have divulged, like how polite and smart Michael’s kids are  based on media accounts and by the accounts of those who have interacted with the children. 

They admit that they only worked with Michael for 2 years. So there are things which may or may not have taken place prior to those 2 years which they are not privy. Therefore, they may not know everything they are claim to know about Michael. 

THEY ARE TELLING US  IS THAT THEY ARE UNPROFESSIONAL AND CANNOT BE TRUSTED

Who are these “bodyguards” to set the record straight about Michael?  Who made them Michael’s spokespeople. I am sure that Michael would be livid if he knew they were doing this. These men were paid employees who needed to keep their mouths shut about Michael and his family whether he was alive or not.

 I have no doubt with Michael’s intelligence and savvy, not to mention his  having been burned by others in the past, that he would have made them sign some type of confidentiality  agreement. I hope that those in charge of his estate will come across those agreements and stop these three in their tracks. 

TROLLING FOR A PUBLISHER

The only reason they came forth  now and put their faces in front of the media is in my view to troll for a book deal. They even have  a title picked out for the book before it is written. They want to see how much interest there is. That is they spilled the beans now.

But obviously they aren’t  that savvy or as clever as they think.  They told way too much already.  No publisher in their right mind would give them a book deal and expect the book to fly off the shelves. Why? Because  they already revealed everything  already in Ashley Banfield’s  very thorough ABC  interview where she left no stone unturned. left no she unturned. So who needs a a book? We know all they have to say.  You get your face in front of the media AFTER you have a book deal and have written it in order to PROMOTE it.

So if they did get  a book deal, wrote the book or had someone write it for them,  and then  appeared on TV again to promote it would be OLD news. No one is interested  in what they have to say anymore.

 WERE THEY TELLING THE TRUTH?

Although I found each of them despicable for getting on front of the media and sharing Michael’s personal  life which he guarded so privately, to the point of wearing masks and disguises and having his kids do likewise,  I wanted to  scrutinize any  “tells” which may have given away their true  motives . I also wanted to see if there were any” tells” of deception or nervousness or discomfort.

It was interesting to watch all three of them sitting together as they were interviewed. It was also interesting to watch them separately  in order to see if one or more showed signals of deception .

For the most part, they were in all synch. Whether it was rehearsed or not, they were all on the same page.  For the most part it seemed like they were telling the truth.  But I think they told way too much of the truth. They had no business revealing the details about the kids and their behavior, especially the description of Princes behavior when he tried to manipulate cookies out of them.  This was not setting the record straight. This was setting their sights straight on to a potential book deal to make money for themselves.

RED FLAG TELLS OF DISCOMFORT   ABOUT MICHEAL’S PEDOPHILIA ALLEGATIONS  AND REALTIONSHIPS WITH WOMEN

There was one area where they were clearly uncomfortable and it showed in their body language. It was when they were discussing  their views on Michael’s alleged pedophilia. Their body language showed that they  over compensated by giving way to much information. They were asked if Michael was a pedophile. Then bodyguard  Bill Whitfield  says that he’s a man and he knows that Michael is interested in women just like he is. You can see his facial expression change as he looks away and his forehead get’s furrowed. He also pulls his head back and there is a shoulder shrug . This indicates signals of discomfort.

 Mike Garcia also shows signals of discomfort when the “pedophilia” question comes up. He shakes his leg indicating “I want to get out of here.”

The three gave way too much information as Bill speaks about curtains in the limousine being  drawn in the back of a limo, and sucking noises being made.  To say this was inappropriate on their behalf is an understatement. The question was about pedophilia.  All they needed to say was they didn’t witness any acts of pedophilia or that it was their opinion that Michael wasn’t a pedophile. But their going off on a tangent and talking about Michael’s  girlfriends was a red flag.  One had nothing to do with another. Their over compensated answers in giving too detailed information made it seem like they  both “doth protest too much”.

I am not saying that they think Michael is or isn’t  a pedophile. I am saying that they showed signals of discomfort when this topic was brought up by Ashley Banfield.

Other than that, there body languages showed that they were open and they seemed forthright. When they answered, most of the time all three of them appeared to answer in unison. With the exception of the time they discussed Michael’s  intimate life, where they showed major signals of discomfort, they   sat  confidently with their legs apart in an open position with upright straight posture with their  heads  erect.

MICHAEL VENTED TO THEM  PRIVATELY NOT PUBLICALLY

Bill Whitfield said that there were times that Michael vented and “vented loudly” I cringed. Michael  may have vented loudly but he did it  privately. Michael  projected an image of a person who was always kind with a loving soul.  He never showed anger in public. He worked hard at getting that image across. So to hear them say Michael “vented loudly” is to take away from the public image that Michael worked so hard to cultivate. If he “vented loudly” he did it only for their ears- not the public’s  As Bill  said this I automatically cringed.

 While these men  are not doctors or health or legal professionals who have to abide by the  law to keep secrets ( unless they signed a non -disclosure clause before working with Michael) technically they don’t have to keep quiet about Michael. But  ethically I believe  it is a different matter. I believe that they should keep things about Michael confidential in his death just as they did in his life.

Michael trusted them with his life and his kids and as Bill Whitfield said, they became more than security.  Javon Beard interjected that they were more like personal assistants and Mike Garcia said that it was not their job but since there was no entourage it was just them, they hand to handle everything.

 IF MICHAEL HATED HIS VEGAS HOME BECAUSE OF PAPPS, WHY DIDN’T THE BODYGUARDS DO ANYTHING TO STOP THE PAPPS AND FANS ?

I think that it was way too much information to reveal that Michael hated his Vegas mansion because of all the papps. If these men  were HIS  bodyguards as they claim to be,  why didn’t they keeps the papps AND FANS away? Why didn’ they do whatever it took to make sure Michael had the best security so that the papps and fans wouldn’t  invade his home ? That statement alone turned me off.

THEY ALL BELIEVE MICHAEL AS AN AWSOME DAD

When asked if he was a good dad, they all replied in unison awesome!  Their body language  showed that all three of them strongly believed that Michael was a great dad.  Mike Garcia shared how the children would constantly say I Love you daddy and that they were like the four buddies as  Bill Whitfield appropriately shook his head yes and smiled a huge genuine smile.

They also spoke of how protective he was of his kids seeing his bad press as he turned over newspapers so the kids wouldn’t see negative headlines about him. It showed that Michael’s first and foremost concern was for  his kids.

They also nooded and spoke in unison as to Michael’s being successful at shielding his kids from the media.  Each one’s  body language were in synch as they appered to be  in agreement that Michael didn’t think what he did was weird. In fact Javon shook his head “no”   as confirmation while Bill Whitfield explained this. 

REVEALING  INAPPROPRIATE  INFORMATION ABOUT THE KIDS

They spoke of the kids with pride as there were genuine smiles as they said that the kids were regular kids and how they  were very polite and well mannered, something we have all herd before. All three of them shook their heads  “yes”  in agreement as this information was relayed.

But then when they showed a note Paris wrote to Bill thanking him for getting cat food, I though that was a bit too invasive. Even if it was a polite gesture, I don’t know how Paris would feel about having her personal handwritten note to Bill  exposed for the world to see. It was for Bill not for the world to see with her little heart over the “I” as she signed her name Paris.  I didn’t think that was necessary to do.

Then Javon also revealed WAY too much information as he shared how Prince would say “ Daddy wants you to get some cookies for us, indicating their mischief  in tricking the bodyguards into getting them cookies. I dounnt these kids or Michael would want that information exposed.  This is exactly what Michael hated. He didn’t want anything personal about these kids revealed and there is no doubt Michael would deem  this story about Prince as being WAY too personal in nature.  

Then he added that he asked Michael (the client) if he wanted him to go get some cookies for the kids and in a loud voice, Javon  mimicked what Michael would say “ Prince get up here!” “Why are you telling them that?”

While it showed that Michael set limits and boundaries for the kids, it was still way too much information  about the kids that we don’t need to know. Unless the kids decide to speak about their experiences with their dad or write a book, no one has any right discussing them.

If these kids were paraded around like some others have been by their parents  and publically expoised and exploited as  many have mentioned. Then perhaps they would be fair game, but not in this situation. Michael went out of his way to  shield his kids from the press at all times.  Therefore,  I believe these body guards have broken the confidence of their client by sharing intimate personal stories about the kids like this one which may not put Prince in the best light.

FAST FOOD RUNS WITH MICHAEL

They also shared how Michael liked to go through the drive through at fast food places  with the kids. I found that unacceptable as they shared what Michael said  as he ordered the meal which was” If these people only know who ordered the meal.”

Both Bill and Javon said it in unison so there was no doubt based on other body language signals as well that this  was definitely  a true incident. But maybe Michel didn’t want the word to know that he fed his kids fast foods or that he even ate fast foods. Maybe he wouldn’t want his private comment shared.  Maybe it was his one personal moment to feel like a normal person and order fast food without anyone knowing. Maybe that was his personal little thrill . They had no right to share this personal moment with anyone in my view..

What the bodyguards said was true as they once again spoke in unison that people “never knew that Michael Jackson was the one ordering  the food.  In fact Javan imitated Michael ‘s high voice as said “ One cheeseburger please” While there is no doubt they were all telling the truth, there is even less doubt that Michael would have wanted this information revealed to the world.

 PEDOPHILE RUMORS

Something really strange happened body language wise when Ashley Banfield asked them if they thought Michael  was a pedophile?  They were clearly uncomfortable with this question as each one of them squirmed and had various body language tells which illustrated their discomfort with this area of questioning.

Why did they show such signals of discomfort? Only they know. Michael  may or may not have been a pedophile and Michael was the only one who could attest to those allegations. Just for the record a person can still like women and have girlfriends and  still be a pedophile. Look at how many married men with families who are even pillars of their community. Look at all the married pedophiles with their own families who have been caught on NBC’s “To Catch a Predator.”

They very well may  or may not have seen any evidence that Michael was a pedophile during the two years they spent with him.  I am not saying that Michael is or isn’t a pedophile but these body guards may not know for sure. Their discomfort was very visible in their body language as this was the first time throughout the entire interview that they weren’t as confident verbally, vocally or body language-wise.

As examples of what I am saying, bodyguard Mike Garcia pursed his lip and moved around more, Bill Whitfield looked down, and Javon Beard  had a tight  ingenuine smile, unlike his previous smiles throughout the interview.  

MICHAEL’S NOISES  IN BACK OF THE LIMO WITH A WOMAN

How dare them discuss that there was a curtain in the backseat of the limo and that Michael was with a girlfriend back there.  Rule number one of any limo driver, let alone any body guard is shut up about your client’s intimate goings on.

 As this story was revealed there was an observed shoulder shrug. That is a signal of deception. There was also a nervous smile- another signal of deception as well as discomfort, In their attempt to set the record straight, they gave way too much information that I am sure Michael would have objected to. If he wanted anyone to know he was with a woman at any time, he would have shown her publically. If the curtain was allegedly drawn he obviously didn’t want anyone to know who he was with or what they were doing.

Then Ashley being the great interviewer that she is remarked “it’s like  you were chaperoning two teenagers back there making out ”. She was simply probing to see where they would go with it.  They shook their heads and agreed as it was a way out for them. Then the unconscionable happened. Bill  revealed that he heard loud sucking noises as his eyebrows were raised. This made me suspicious as to whether this incident really happened? Since  Michael was as  shy and paranoid about anyone knowing his business in a limo I am sure that he would have a limo with a sound proof glass partition. I have never seen a limo with only a mere curtain and I have ridden in many limos in my lifetime.  

MICHAEL’S BANAIDS WERE NOT HIS  DISGUISE AS A”BURN VICTIM”

When  Bill said that Michael’s bandages were worn for him to be disguised as a “burn victim” I knew for sure that they were full of it. Even Bill knew that he was full of it  as his body language showed his head jerking back and eyebrows being furrowed and looking away.

Michael wore many bandages around his face because of the numerous office surgeries and Botox and Restalyn treatments he had at Dr. Klein’s office, his dermatologist that often left bruising on various areas of his face. The band aids were to cover up the bruises. If Bill was around Michael as much as he said he was or escorted him to the doctor in the limo, he would have seen the brusing and  the redness and swelling.

They were not worn as a disguise for him to appear as a burn patient. If that was the case Michael would have wrapped his whole head in gauze or worn a silicone  burn mask.  

Then when Ashley proved and asked why they didn’t ask why Michael was “disguised like that,” Javon said “How can you tell him that?” He’s coming down with the kids, how can I say,  What the hell have you got on sir?”

Javon’s statement as well has his referring to Michael as “sir”  shows that he respected the boundaries with Michael as his “client” which he referred to earlier. This means he respected his “client” to not interfere, judge or question what he was doing. In my view he needed to show that same respect now and not reveal anything about his “client” no that he is no longer with us.

In my view one has to treat someone who has died with the same respect they treated them when they were alive. If they kept their confidences when the person was alive they need to do the same thing now that the person is dead and no longer here to defend themselves or to sue for defamation.  

TALKING ABOUT MICHAEL’S DRUG PROBLEM

When Bill revealed that it appeareard that Michael was on something indicating that  Michael was on drugs I thought this was out of line.  If this was the case and he was his body guard, why didn’t he do something to help his “client?” After all he was supposed to protect his client at all costs. If Michael was drugged up as Bill said, how could Michael function properly as the  “good father? ”If his client was so out of it, why didn’t he try to get his “client” some help? Why didn’t he encourage his client to get help?

The answer is obvious. He needed the job and the money  didn’t want to make waves so he turned a blind eye. The operative word here is “money.” To me this is what this is all about. It sickens me that anyone who was entrusted to caring about a person and protecting them  in life, would now peddle that same person’s dead flesh in hopes of scoring a  book deal and making money off of them. http://www.drlillianglass.com

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Kate Gosselin’s Body Language Shows Poise and A Softer Side on Jimmy Kimmel Live

Friday, March 5th, 2010

After watching Kate Gosselin on Jimmy Kimmel Live the other night I can say that she is coming across a lot more polished and a lot more poised. She looked absolutely beautiful with her softer hairstyle, toned body and gorgeous dress.  Her posture was excellent. This was clearly  her best  television appearance  yet. She was actually very pleasant, cordial and laughed appropriately at Jimmy’s jokes and at herself. She was even humble when she said she couldn’t dance.

But then at the end when she said”  I am  going to win,” it seemed like it was right back to the old Kate. If she hadn’t said that, I would have rated her performance on Kimmel Live as a near perfect. She needed to say that she would try her best and hope that she would win, not that she will win. Being  cocky like that does not put anyone in a good light, let alone Kate.  Kate really needs to work on her humility in my view. If she does that, she will be so much more appealing to audiences.

 There are obviously some changes taking place with her not only on the outside but on the inside as well. No doubt her handlers  are working to get her more likeable  and camera ready for her upcoming show.

 That is no doubt why she is doing Dancing With the Stars- one of the highest rated shows. It will let more people see her who haven’t seen her and it will allow those who have seen her to see her in a different light-hopefully in a better light.

At first I was concerned that she would be doing a show that demanded so much and that she would be away from her kids. But she explained on Kimmel Live that her partner (Tony Davolani) will be coming to her home in Pennsylvania to work with her in her basement so she won’t be away from the kids. Then she will be coming to LA once a week to do the show. I think that is GREAT! Being away from her kids for so many weeks was my main concern for her in doing DWTS. But now I think it will work out well.

Kate also mentioned how positive Tony is. That is exactly the type of person Kate needs to be around. Perhaps some of his positivity and kindness towards others will rub off on her. There was no doubt that being around Jon for all of those years brought out the worst in her and vice versa.

After witnessing Jon’s immature and self-destructive behavior and how he treated his girlfriends, it is no wonder that Kate had so many issues with him.

Hopefully her being around a positive kind dancing partner like Tony will  contribute to the positive changes that seem to be taking place with Kate. http://www.drlillianglass.com/

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Nadya Suleman. Octomom Showed TV Promise, Despite LOUD Over the Top Nervous Laugh on Jimmy Kimmel Valentine Dating Skit

Monday, February 15th, 2010

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Tiger Wood’s Mistress, Rachel Uchitel Needs Voice Work For Her TV Gig. Mean Girl Revelation and Body Language Signals of Deception Speak Volumes

Thursday, February 11th, 2010

RACHAEL’ S VOICE IS DEFINITELY NOT CAMERA READY FOR TV

As someone who has spent a lot of her professional life helping actors and on camera talent have a better speaking voice and become camera ready. I can assure you that no matter how well known Tiger Wood’s sex partner is, she won’t last on TV for long.

Her voice, in my opinion is downright annoying! The extreme nasal quality and the boring monotone,  throatiness and uptalk at the end of sentences may be appealing in Tiger’s bed, but they are not appealing over the airwaves.

The harsh glottal attacks which reveal an inner anger and defensiveness were also off putting. Her throaty closed off vocal quality was also a major turn off to one’s ears.

YOU KA TELL SHE LOOKED LIKE A HOOKER ON EXTRA

Her physical image with her now darker hair to apparently de-bimboize her, gives a conflicting message when paired with her ultra- short skit and very low cut top  revealing her separated cleavage, often indicative of breast implants.

If she wants to not be regarded as the” ho” people think she is for cheating with a married man, then she needs to  revamp her dressing style in my view.

This is the same woman who got her panties in a bunch when Joy Behar kidded around and said “YOU KA TELL SHE”S A HOOKER”. Well her getup on Extra certainly made Joy Behar’s words ring true as the way she was dressed  certainly helped make her  like a “hooker” in my opinion.

YOU KA TELL A LOT ABOUT HER CHARACTER AS” MEAN GIRL”  RACHEL BULLIED THE “UNCOOL” GIRLS
IN HIGH SCHOOL AND HATED HER CLIQUE

There was also a type of arrogant quality as she spoke to Mario Lopez about her life. I particularly did not find her likeable or watchable, especially when she spoke of what she was like in high school,

She described herself as being an original “cool”  Mean Girl. As soon as she said that, she completely turned me off!

To me, it spoke volumes about her character- purposely being mean to others and bullying them  for no reason, other than she may have felt that someone was beneath her or that they were not “cool!” Hearing that made me sick!  The fact that she would even admit this to the world, made me think that she is really not that bright.

Obviously Rachel hasn’t changed much as an adult, as she has continued to hurt people and not think about their feelings and the consequences of her ugly actions. After all look what she did to Tiger’s wife and the wives of the other married men with whom she was allegedly involved.

This woman with ugly character  in my view, also has the audacity to tell the word how even in her “cool “ clique hated each other. How disgusting! She obviously didn’t learn loyalty. By her own admission,by hating her “friends” she learned early on how to be two faced, duplicitous, and deceitful.

Then this woman who  got her panties in a bunch for Joy Behar calling her a hooker, got paid millions of dollars to not discuss Tiger or write a book about him. Just as hookers make money for doing a sexual service, she received money for doing the service of not revealing their sexual escapades to the public.

Rachael then told of how the girls she bullied turned out to be beautiful and successful and how she would see them in the street and  apologize to them 25 years later. Even if this ugly bully Rachel  apologized to them, her ugly words and bullying behavior no doubt left emotional scars on her prey. She even laughs as she said this making her look sadistic and witch-like.

WITH FRIENDS LIKE YOU KA TELL YOU DON’T NEED ENEMIES

Then “You Ka Tell”, outs her “friend”by telling the world the friend was suicidal because the friend’s boyfriend broke up with her. She didn’t need to add that bit of personal information. But she obviously thought it would make her look “cool” and like a good friend as she demanded her “friend”  “get into the car with me and dive across country.” If Rachel was a real friend and not the selfish Toxic person she has revealed she is, she would have taken her friend to a clinic or to a doctor if she was suicidal.

Also what if it comes out in public who this “friend” is who went on this road trip with her. That would be horrible. Now, thanks to her “friend” Uchitel,  everyone would know she tried to kill herself over a breakup when she was younger.

911 SELF CENTEREDNESS

Rachel also sickened me when she describes how her fiancé died in 911. Her selfishness and self- centeredness is out front and in the open as she says “ I lost my future.” What about her fiancé? He lost his life, for God’s sakes! She doesn’t talk about that.

Then she says there is nothing I couldn’t handle because of that.  Again I I I I I I and ME ME ME ME ME patterns emerge!

When she spoke of “Andy” it was in a matter of fact monotone voice like it was just another experience in her life to get her where she is today.

RACHEL’S  BODY LANGUAGE TELLS OF BS

She is completely bullshitting as she describes herself as a homebody and saying she doesn’t venture out much. This is Miss NY Night Life Who is the  VIP Care Taker.

Her lip licking tell gave her statement away as  away  BS in her attempts to de-hookerize her image.

BIKING ALONE ACROSS MOROCCO…..RIGHT!!!!!

She is also a contradiction of  terms as she describes herself as a homebody and then tries to sound like Miss Adventurer as she describes  how she biked across Morocco by herself for 14 days.  You can’t have it BOTH ways! You can’t be a homebody and an adventurer!

Having been to Morocco and seeing firsthand how women are often harassed and mistreated and knowing a lot about the culture, I seriously doubt she was out biking alone without being harassed.

No doubt she was visiting someone, like perhaps a lover, and was biking on the premises of an exclusive resort where the two lovebirds were staying! As she tells this BS story in my view,  she pulls her head back and jerks her body back which is often a tell of deception. This is what people usually do when they aren’t being forthright and when they are lying.

HAIR TOSSING  TALKING ABOUT THAILAND

Now we really see and hear her bullshit as she says she travels a lot alone. There are several hair tosses which is often associated with deception.

You see it when she talks about her trip to Thailand and how she went alone. She may have flown there alone but in my opinion based on all the hair tossing, head jerking and  downward head movement , that  I doubt she was completely alone when she was in Thailand.

You see a significant body language “tell” as  she pulls back and says how she studied for two weeks with the moi toi kickboxing team.

She bends  head down and looks down and  her vocal “tell” of inflecting her voice  upward as if she knows what she is saying is not totally true, is evident.

Maybe she went with a guy who was on the team or  who studied there. Perhaps she went along with him. Perhaps he is a married man like Tiger so this information can’t be verified.

Also how does a nightclub worker in the VIP section of a club who essentially guards the VIP rope, have all this time and money to travel to these exotic places so often and stay for weeks at a time? Could it be that some VIP who got through the velvet rope is paying for her to accompany them to these exotic places on perhaps exotic trysts?

IN TEN YEARS RACHEL SEES HERSELF WITH A FAMILY OF HER OWN, HAPPY, PROUD AND EXCITED

Finally, Rachel says she would like a family of her own. Wouldn’t hat be something is she had a family of her own and some ho, hooker, mistress, call girl or prostitute  did the same thing to her that she did to Elin Wood- cheating with her married husband. Wouldn’t that be karmic justice if she found out about it the same way Elin found out about their affair?

Rachel  then said she wants to be at that point in her life where she is happy and proud and excited. Well she may be there now. She may be very happy that she is now a household name. She may be very proud that she with the help of her attorney  sucked out millions from Tiger’s wallet  as a payoff for her silence about their affair. And finally she may be excited that she has millions of dollars to her name so she never has to scramble for money again, and equally  excited about the fact that she has a TV gig on national TV.

GETTING REWARDED FOR EGREGIOUS  BEHAVIOR- A HORRIBLE MESSAGE FOR YOUNG GIRLS

I hate the fact that Rachel Uchitel, a sex partner to a married man who got her panties in a bunch because a comedian called her a  hooker, a moniker that  many people have called her, has now been rewarded for her bad behavior.

This is a horrible role model for young girls to see. I cannot stand the fact that young women are seeing this woman extort  millions of dollars from Tiger just for keeping quiet about the details of their affair. I detest that she now has a   TV gig with no professional training and without paying her dues, just  for sleeping with a rich and famous guy and getting caught!

It is sickening and sends a horrific message to young women.  I hope that her TV career lasts for  15 minutes  so that young women can see that even though someone may be infamous and be out there in the limelight, they don’t have staying power when they have no qualifications and a horrible speaking voice to boot! www.drlillianglass.com

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