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John Edwards Flirty Body Language With Alternate Juror My Come Back To Haunt Him

Friday, May 25th, 2012

As a jury consultant I can assure you that Jurors look at everything- especially when their fellow juror or an alternate is flirting with the defendant. Apparently this  seems to be the case with a dark haired very attractive alternate juror whois flirting with the defendant.

Journalists and everyone else, including attorneys watching the trial can’t help but notice the flirting dynamic between Edwards and one of the female alternates. In fact, the flirting between the two  is so blatant that several reporters have observed it. The Washington Post reported

“One of the alternates, an attractive young woman, has been spotted smiling at Edwards and flipping her

hair in what seems to some to be a flirtatious manner.”

Apparently the juror has been doing it for days and s the one who instigated the exchanges by  smiling at him.  Edwards then smiles back at her as she giggles and he blushes.

Allegedly the flirtation has become so obvious that even Edwards’ attorneys have to work to suppress their laughter at the absurdity of it all.

My first question, is does the judge not see this and if the judge does not see it, why hasn’t someone brought this to the judge’s attention. Why is this woman not removed from the courtroom? In my view it could taint the jury’s vote.

Some of those  the jury who see the flirting may become even angrier at  Edwards,  who cheated on his cancer victim wife and fathered an illegitimate child. The juror may resent his  present behavior and see his disregard for courtroom decorum as  yet another example of his inappropriate behavior. If the juror is undecided, this may be the thing that pushes them over to the side of convicting Edwards.

The outcome of Edward’s trial is so serious that flirting and laughter should be the last thing on Edward’s  mind. The reality is that he may face the rest of his life in prison. But obviously he is too narcissistic and entitled to realize the consequences. He may actually believe that everything will be fine and he will go about his merry way when the trial is over. In his twisted perception, he may also perceive this flirting as a signal that the rest of the jurors like him and that they will not convict of any wrongdoing.

Edwards is accused of  the serious crime of using nearly $1 million in presidential campaign donations to cover an up affair with a campaign videographer, which resulted in illegitimate  child.

Since Edwards obviously doesn’t have the common sense to conduct himself in a professional manner in the courtroom, one would think that his attorneys would tell him to cut out the flirting or responding  to the alternate’s flirting,  instead of “suppressing their laughter” at the absurdity of the situation.

The bottom line is that this type of body language is not adding to a jury’s  positive perception of  Edwards. As a trial attorney, he should now better than to respond to the juror and to flirt. But as a self entitled narcissist with an out of control ego, he apparently can’t help himself.

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John Edwards Tries To Read Jury’s Body Language As Jury Goes into Fourth Day of Deliberation

Thursday, May 24th, 2012

John  Edwards is still  up to his manipulative ways as he tried   to make eye contact with each juror as they filed into the courtroom on their fourth day of deliberation before they headed home for the day.

There is an old courtroom adage that jurors who return the defendant’s gaze with a quick smile or a nod may be leaning toward acquittal, whereas those who turn away could be signaling guilt. This is not the case. In the first place all of the jurors know that all eyes are upon them and that this is one of the most high profile cases in the country. No juror would want to place themselves or the trial in jeopardy so I have no doubt that none of the jurors returned Edward’s gaze or aknowleged him.

His behavior once again demonstrates his arrogance. While he may have done this jury eye contact game  as a trial attorney, it won’t work when he is the defendant.

Most of these jurors are no doubt petrified to leave any stone unturned. May are tense and in knots at knowing that their decision can potentially put the defendant behind bars for life. Therefore it would be very difficult at this point in time to get an accurate  reading  body language, facial expression and  and demeanor.

As proof that this jury is taking their job extremely seriously,  they asked for office supplies and a stack of trial exhibits that included copies of handwritten notes from the 101-year-old heiress Rachel “Bunny” Mellon, one of two wealthy political donors who provided the nearly $1 million used to help hide the Democrat’s pregnant mistress as he sought the White House in 2008.

Only when the jury comes into the room after they have made their decision, can one get a glimpse of what will be in store for Edwards. If they appear relaxed, and they don’t look down as they enter the room, and look in Edward’s direction, their decision will most likely be in Edward’s favor.

If they look tense and don’t look in Edwards direction or have furrowed brows, fidget, bite their lips or have extraneous hand or foot movements, things will not be going in Edward’s favor.

There was also speculation that because  the jury foreman was wearing blue jeans that  a decision was still at least a day away. The thinking on this was that people dress up more when they think they might be photographed. This I not the case. The jurors are not on trial and don’t feel they have to impress anyone, so their attire is irrelevant. For many,   jeans have become acceptable standard attire. This may be the case for those who may have dressed in jeans as part of their daily attire such as the plumber, railroad engineer ad the two mechanics who sit on the jury. The fact The corporate vice president and a retired accountant who are on the jury  will no doubt provide some strong financial and business insight as they make their decision about Edward’s fate..

If Edwards is to be convicted the U.S. District Court Judge Catherine C. Eagle’s instruction to the jurors was that they must conclude beyond a reasonable doubt not only that the candidate knew about the secret payments made on his behalf, but he knew the cover up was illegal and that he went ahead anyway.

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John Edwards Parent’s Body Language Says It All

Thursday, May 17th, 2012

Seeing John Edward’s parents accompanying him to the North Carolina courtroom was was heartbreaking as hearing about Elizabeth Edward’s reaction to John’s betrayal. His parents looked broken. His mother looked stunned as his father appeared  to hang his head in shame. While John tried to steady his father by placing his arm in back of his father, his father appeared unresponsive. His mother walked ahead of him  as he did not reach out to touch her as seen in the photo above.

As they left the courtroom as you can see in the photo above, his mother walked well ahead of her son as his father trailed behind. This photo speaks volumes to me in terms of his parent;s literally distancing themselves from their son. As the defense rested, they are fully  aware of the possible outcome and they are keeping a physical and emotional distance.

John was once the apple of his parent eyes. He was their hope and dream. They raised him with proper Southern values. They gave him the best education and provided him with a positive role model. No doubt they were so proud of his success as an accomplished attorney, his marriage to an bright “equally accomplished  wife, his giving them grandchildren, and his venturing into politics as a Senator, VP Candidate, Presidential Candidate and possible President of the United States.

But all of their hopes and dreams for their golden boy vanished when his ego and entitlement and poor judgement got in his way. He cheated on his  cancer stricken wife, lied to the nation,fathered an illegitimate child with a mistress,  and created so much stress in wife Elizabeth’s life that her health suffered as she succored to her cancer.  His actions not only devastated Elizabeth and his older daughter Cate, but as we see in the photos has devised his parents as well.

If convicted of  improper use of  campaign funds, he may be sentenced to prison for the rest of his life. No doubt his parents are well aware of what may happen to their son and it clearly shows  in their body language.

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John Edwards and Daughter’s Troubling and Strained Body Language During trial

Sunday, May 6th, 2012

Like any loyal daughter, Cate Edwards, the eldest daughter f John Edwards was willing to stick by her dad  former Senator John Edwards and provide him all the support he needed during this emotion packed  trial which would  decide whether he spends the next three decades behind bars.

It could not have been easy for her to stand by her dad  and learn all the details of how he betrayed her beloved mother via an affair which produced another baby sister. If her father is convicted, she will  become the instant parents to her other two younger siblings, no doubt putting an additional strain on her new marriage.

When there was testimony concerning her mother and how she found out about the affair, it was very humane on the part of the witness who asked if Elizabeth wanted to leave the room. With tears dripping down her cheeks, Cate left the room as her father was heard calling her name “Cate, Cate” as she left the room. It was a great thing that she left the room so she would not have to hear how her mother curled up into a ball on the floor when she found out and how she opened her shirt and showed her father her deformed chest and said “You don’t see me anymore.” This gut wrenching testimony has no doubt left an indelible mark in the minds of every juror.

On that horrible day as John and Cate left the courtroom, he was seen  rubbing her back and heard saying” I wish they hadn’t brought up your mother.”  Cate did not respond and instead stoically entered the waiting car. The photo of the two of them as she heads towards the car speaks volumes about her disdain towards her father as she literally gives him the cold shoulder with a disgusted look.  John, on the other hand doesn’t even look at his daughter but looks ahead with  the look of  a “poor me victim’.

The photo at the top of this blog also speaks volumes. Cate’s cupped fist shows anger as does her pursed lips. She walks several steps in front of her father as if to distance herself from him.

Since the beginning of the trial there has been no connection between the two as you see here. The look of hurt and heartbreak on Cate’s face is devastating.

Cate usually walks ahead of her father, literally showing her back to him.


The emotional pain Cate has to face with regard to her beloved mother’s passing and now  father’s humiliating trial filled with talk about  his mistress and  their illegitimate child  must be unbearable. Thank goodness she is able to seek the  comfort  and support of her loving new husband, surgical resident Dr. Trevor Upton after she leaves the courtroom .

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Body Language of Audience Speaks Volumes About Newt Gingrich’s Performance

Tuesday, January 24th, 2012

When you see an audience like the one pictured above who listened to Newt Gingrich speaking last evening and you  examine their body language,  you can see that most are showing signs that they are not  really that into him. Leaning over to he side, hands over mouth, chin jutting forth, arms crossed, lip biting, hand and finger biting and  recoiling backwards are not good signs when it comes to listening to  a potential Presidential Candidate.

Newt Gingrich’s performance was a far cry from his performance where he let CNN’s John King have it. You can’t blame his less than stellar performance ont the crowd. A crowd is only tough when they don’t like what you have to say or they loose respect for you and / or don’t like you.

Gingrich  was on the  defensive as opposed to being on the offensive as  Mitt Romney  hammered  him,  from his work at Freddie Mac to his sudden and abrupt  departure from Congress.

There was no humor, no charm, and no stimulating or rallying the crowd this time around.  He also seemed to look down a lot which does not display a lot of  confidence.

His attempt at humor by in essence wishing Fidel Castro to go to hell was  very lame and uncalled for.  There are much more dangerous and formidable enemies he could have targeted  by  this comment He could have mentioned   other world leaders  who are  truly very serious threats to the US.

At this point in time and in history , Fidel Castro is not the threat he was was  once thought to be. In over 50 years he has never attacked anyone on US soil.if you are going to send anyone to hell, why not mention Al Qaeda who are much more of a threat than 80 something year old Fidel Castro.

It was so obvious to me that by invoking Fidel Castro,  he was  clearly pandering to the very wealthy Cuban Americans, most of whom are Republicans, who fled Cuba back in the day. To me it was very manipulative.

Could  his tepid reception have something to do with the personal controversy surrounding him with his ex wife last week? Ever since his ex wife went on camera to let everyone know that Newt was not Presidential material and had no morals, initially  many chalked it up to a spouse scorned. But as they listened closely they heard something that did not sit well with them. Besides his alleged request for an open marriage, he apparently  began cheating on her and essentially left her after he discovered she had health problems- MS. This gives his ex- wife’s story a whole different perspective.

Then we have come to find out in various news reports  that this seems to be a pattern with Newt as this was not the first time he allegedly left a wife for health reasons. Apparently he hightailed it out of his first marriage after he discovered that his wife had breast cancer.

That is the lowest of the low. It is every spouses’s nightmare. While it is one thing to cheat and have an affair, it is another thing to cheat and have and affair and leave when your spouse is seriously ill and needs you there more than ever.  This did not happen one time. It happened twice. It shows a serious character flaw in my view. It shows that the man  ”goes” when the “going gets tough”.

What would happen when something really gets tough in our nation? Will he do the same?  Will he hightail it out of there like he did when he abruptly stepped down as Speaker of the House ?  Things were tough then back in the late 90′s  when members of the House  turned on him after unexpected losses in an  election. Instead of sticking it out and fighting and facing his adversaries head on, he hightailed it out of there.

This behavior and the  alleged behavior with his two  ex wives seem to reveal that in Toxic People terms, Newt is a “Runner” and not in the positive sense. I am not talking about a  a runner for an office,  or an athletic  runner . I am talking about the type of” runner” who runs away when things get too tough for him.

In this  last debate,  he seemed to verbally and communication wise,  run away. In my view this is not what we need to see in a future leader. We need someone who can withstand the heat and withstand the discomfort of dealing with any negative situation if they are to be our leader. Being a President is all about dealing with negative issues and handling them. Running away  in any shape or form is not an option.

There seems to be a pattern here and it is a very bad pattern that we are witnessing.

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Gingrich Straightforward Body Language Calling CNN “Despicable”and Lack His of Deception When In Denying Allegations

Friday, January 20th, 2012

Gingrich won over a lot more voters in South Carolina  by telling it like it is and speaking the truth against CNN and not candy coating it. He called them “despicable”  as he pointed his finger and spoke his mind. In this day and age people respect straightforward talk and saying it like it is. So that is why Newt was so well received.

After his ex wife  Marianne went on camera a day earlier  to say how he cheated on her and wanted an open marriage, CNN’s first question to him was about her allegations. Gingrich chastised  CNN Chief National Correspondent John King for asking that  as a first question in a Presidential debate . Hegot even angrier when King tried to pawn off the reporting of the story on another network.

His  response elicited loud applause from the audience as they showed their disapproval of CNN’s questioning.If you would ask most ex spouses or ex boyfriends and girlfriends about a sour relationship very few would have good things to say. So one cannot take as gospel what either side says. It takes two to have a relationship and obviously something went terribly wrong in their communication and in their relationship.

Gingrich denied the allegations and reported that his daughters contacted ABC to pull the story. But the low point was when King tried to cover his back andf protect his network by saying that they werent the ones to first report the story.

The fact that they are perpetuating the story by asking the question says it all . The public is not dumb and not buying the “blame game” so they look clean.Newt in essence busted them and called them out and people loved it!

Relationships fail as people change and  communication disintegrates. The heartbreak can be unbearable- worse than any possible physical pain. No one Knows what happened in Newt’s and Marianne’s relationship except them. They obviously have different perspectives . With time their perceptions and perspectives  often take on a whole new meaning, especially if one of the parties has done better than the other, healthwise, careerwise,finacialLy or socially.

On the other hand we as voters  do have a right to know all sides (the good and the bad)  of our candidates and give the ma chance to adresss allegations to see if they are tellingt he truth or not.

In my view, Gingrich did not show any signals of deception when he denied the allegations made by his ex wife, He looked confident and straightforward as he confidently  denied what was said about him. There was no leakage of deceptive tells and he spoke in a voice indicative of someone telling the truth. He did not deny that he had an affair when he initially listened to the question as she shook his head yes in agreement as John King made a statement about this before asking  his question. Gingrich’s body language confirmed that he did indeed have an affair and was not denying it. But he was denying the allegations about an open marriage.

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What Kind of Leader Will Kim Jong Un Be? North Korean’s Body Language Show They Are Afraid

Tuesday, December 20th, 2011

Now that Kim Jong-il, has died his youngest son Kim Jong Un is the new Successor. The above photo says it all.As you can see Kim Jon Il is clapping with his non genuine  mask -like smile with teeth clenched together. If he was living in the US many would deem it to look like a socioopathic smile.

The soldiers in the photos are clapping along with the Successor  and looking at him and doing exactly as he does,  but none of them are smiling. In fact they are looking quite scared. They don’t know what to expect and neither does anyone else. The older soldiers dressed in uniform show a great deal of tension in their faces which indicates nervousness and uneasiness.

The truth is that they  should be scared and we should be scared as well . After all these are soldiers of the Korean People’s Army, where they no doubt have spent a lifetime being soldiers. Now their  28 year old new leader, who never served in the army and was only home schooled in Computer Programming  has risen to the rank of what is equivalent to a  Four Star General. To the Korean military and to everyone else , it is scary that someone who never served in the military is now  running the military.

In fact he was only carted out publicly a year ago when he attended a political party meeting and sat two seats away from his father. Photos were taken which were  designed to give the public spin that this youngest son was important politically.

Before he died Kim Jong Il made people swear an oath of loyalty that they would support his son, but now that he is dead, will they carry out that oath? Apparently he also encouraged citizens to support his son by singing a newly composed song of praise to his son.

SIMILAR TEMPERAMENT IS A BAD THING

Based on reports of his personality traits his younger son has the same temperament as his father, which is not a good thing.

That means he most likely will rule as his father did with an iron fist.

SHYNESS –  MAY BE  A DETRIMENT

But unlike his father he is reported to be of very shy  temperament and not very social. Apparently he has been like this since childhood according to sources.  As he grew older his shyness became more evident as it was reported that when he was in school in Switzerland he has little to do with other students and has his own chaperone all the time.  Since one does not always outgrow their shy behaviors, his alleged shyness may be a  very bad thing on the world stage.

It is a bad thing because there is no room for shyness and non communication  when dealing with world leaders. It is also a bad thing in that his shyness ( if he still has it) will continue to keep him and his country isolated from other world leaders which will interfere with the peace process.

On the other hand, he may be verbally shy or socially shy but not computer shy perhaps he feels more comfortable communicating online. As a person who was educated in Computer Programming his shyness may be irrelevant, especially if he communicates via the internet. This may serve as  a shield to mask his shyness and thus enable him to communicate with others more freely.

FLUENCY IN ENGLISH  AND LOVE FOR NBA MAY BE A GOOD THING

On a  positive note,  besides being internet aware, unlike his father he

  1. speaks fluent English as he was educated  at the English-language International School of Berne, Switzerland,
  2. is a huge  basketball fan and loves the NBA Michael Jordan and a few other players and even allegedly had his photo taken with certain players.

These two things, along with his internet awareness  may have positive affect on how the views the world . It may makes him less isolated and more connected to the outside world and the people in it.

Because he is fluent in the international language- English he is much   better equipped communicate  directly with international leaders  than his father was and not lose the impact of what he and other leaders are saying because of any loss of meaning in the translation process.

The fact that he that he loves basketball and certain players is also an excellent thing. If things get tough the US in particular  can send over Michael Jordan  and the NBA  as an ambassador to make to make things right. One often listens more readily to those they trust, like and respect.

NOT BEING  SOCIALIZED IS A BAD THING

But on the negative side, even with his English he does not seem socialized or equipped to deal with those in the West. In fact it has been reported that while he was In Switzerland studying English, he  was not social and  did not associate with the other students, In fact it was reported that he  was constantly chaperoned by an older student throughout his stay.

BEING A BIG DRINKER AND NEVER ADMITTING DEFEAT IS A BAD THING

According to his late fathers personal chef named Fujimoto, Kim Jong un has superb physical gifts, is a big drinker and never admits defeat.”

Perhps the physical gifts he is referring to is Kim Jon un’s size as he is big and tall and apparently strong and athletic.

But even so , it has been reported that he too suffers from the same health issues as his father- diabetes and hypertension.

The fact that he is a big drinker is very very bad for any world leader. It can affect his judgment and perception. His anger can be induced via alcohol which would be a disaster in terms of his international decisions. It may make him more aggressive and irrational towards other countries he perceives as enemies. If someone is a big drinker at 28, unless they stop drinking or get help for their drinking they will most likely continue to drink. This is also not  good sign as his drinking may get worse as he ages.

When someone on the world stage cannot admit defeat or cannot see the other side there is no room for growth or compromise. That is a bad thing. In fact it is a very, very bad thing in terms of never being able to compromise or to work towards world peace.

HE  ONCE REVEALED COMPASSION WHICH IS A GOOD THING.

Even though it allegedly happened ten years ago when when Jong-un was 18, Fujimoto, his father’s chef  described an episode where Jong-un questioned his lavish lifestyle and asked, “We are here, playing basketball, riding horses, riding Jet Skis, having fun together. But what of the lives of the average people?”[29]

If this is true  and he did actually make this statement , it shows that Kim Jong un  may have much more compassion than his father. On the other hand, it was allegedly said a decade ago and much can change in a person’s viewpoints during that period of time, especially of they are indoctrinated.

He was obviously indoctrinated by his father as he was hand picked to become the Successor when his father realized his failing health.

In 2009, however he was elevated to a mid-level position in the National Defense Commission, a branch of the North Korean military and a year later elevated to the equivalent of a Four Star General when he in fact never served in the military.

POSSIBLE MUTINY?

To further promote his son as  a leader he made his son’s birthday a national holiday. Also in 2010 he made sure his sone was named as the Vice Chairman of the Central Military Commission and appointed to the Central Committee fo the Workers Party which was a sign he would be the successor.  To conform his son’s position on the political stage, his father mad sure a lot of press was present to document his son’s presence at the worker’s Party’s 65th anniversary where he was seated near his father.

But none of that may matter now that his father is dead. His extreme inexperience may be a huge detriment in his leadership which may cause a mutiny of sorts or  it may cause him to make some very wrong decisions in leading a country as volatile as North Korea has been in the world.

Since North Korea is a highly militarized state, Kim Jong-eun faces the  Herculean task of holding  everything together and maintaining it as it was. But since he is inexperienced militarily, the big question is how can he even think of running a highly militarized state? No doubt there will be resentment at his never having served in the military or knowing much about the military which could lead to internal struggles within the country.

THE CITIZEN’S  ANGER AS PART OF THEIR GRIEVING PROCESS


There is also the psychological issue that the citizens will face in grieving the loss of his father whom they loved and reveared.

Statements  heard on video reports made by the citizens  such as  Why did he leave us like this?” or “How could he leave us now?” may reflect the anger stage in the grief process that the citizens will go through. In mass, this may  possibly create a rebellion and  mutiny among the citizens of North Korea.

Stephen Bosworth, who was the US envoy for North Korea policy until  this past October said “The young man will not take office with the same authority his father had,”.

That is a hugely significant statement from someone in the know. It means that his son will not have the same  respect of the people or the military that his father had which may translate into a weaker leadership and a rebellion.

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Ginger White’s Body Language Tells The Truth – Still Harbors Feelings for Cain While He Shows Signals of Deception

Monday, December 5th, 2011

As I said previously , my blogs have no political or any other agenda. I just report objectively what I see and hear. This blog confirms   my lack of showing favoritism towards any candidate.

When Sharon Bialeck  came forward with Gloria Allred in tow as she who claimed  Herman Cain sexually harassed her, I observed many signals of deception and a story that made absolutely  no sense to me when she told of how Cain allegedly put his hand up her skirt and her mere reply was “You know I have a boyfriend.”

Most people would say something like  ”Stop it” or What do you think you are doing?”  They wouldn’t bring up their boyfriend as an excuse.

Then when I saw the interview that Cain’s wife did with  Greta Van Sustern  as she  who “stood by her man”  I saw  a  sweet and well meaning  woman with  down to earth demeanor as she vehemently insisted her husband was innocent and the Herman Cain she knew was not the one portrayed by these women. She strongly claimed that the Herman Cain described is not the one she knows for all these years and that she is not one of the wives who is the last to know.

Well unfortunately after hearing what Ginger White had to say and studying her body language, poor Mrs. Cain is indeed the last to know.

I observed that body language wise, Ginger White was forthright in her admission that she had an affair based on her body language Ginger was pained as she spoke. She was telling he truth.

She showed no deception when she said she  did Not want to come forward. It showed in her face,  She looked terribly pained . Look at the lines of emotional agony in her face. Look at the vertical line above her brow which screams distress.

There is no doubt that Ginger came forth because she was outed and because her who family was being harassed. She is not enjoying this media blitz. She is the opposite of Bialeck who was loving every minute of it based on her genuine starry eyed smiles.

CAIN SHOWS DECEPTION

When Cain says I have never acted inappropriately with anyone, the first tip off something is wrong is that he is reading  this statement from his script. He is looking down  t his notes.  If he was being sincere and speaking from the heart, he  definitely didn’t need notes to speak those words.

Also look at his hands , they are cupped in anger – anger  no doubt at having to defend himself. His palms are  down, not up. If the palms were up he would be openly and truthfully saying these words.

Here  we see that there is a  mechanical choppiness to this gesture which shows shows  that he is being over the top in making his point which may often  point to deception.

GINGER IS HONEST AND IN  EMOTIONAL PAIN

Ginger in  contrast is pen and honest and speaks in a modulated tone . As to why she had the affair . she said it took her away fro her humdrum life and it was exciting. As she said this there was a sight eyebrow  rise which means that she meant what she said.

Then for the first time during her interview,  we  notice that she had a slight smile when she said  he was confident and the same as he is on the campaign trail. Her demeanor  leads me to believe that she still may have feelings for him.

But then she quashes her feelings by saying  Herman Cain loves Herman Cain WOW!  In essence she is saying Herman Cain didn’t  love her, he  loves himself. In essence she is outing him as a narcissist.

So why would she put up with an alleged narcissist as she see it, The reason is simple, she benefits financially and she gets to have ex with a powerful man which may turn her on physically and make her feel like she is special to have such a man attracted to her.

His book CEO of Self  now  seems to have a whole different meaning in light of the narcissism comment by White.

Her comment was a clear dig at Cain. She is angry. She is hurt and it shows. She is angry at the fact that perhaps he was indeed having affairs with other women besides her. The fact that all of these women came forth may have put her in the same emotional shoes as Ms. Cain. The only difference is that Ginger knows first hand that he is a cheater. While some of the women may be fabricating their claims, she may believe that there are others who are not lying.

SADNESS AND PAIN AT RELIZATION RELATIONSHIP IS  OFFICIALLY OVER

Looks pained as she stammered  as the interviewer asked if the relationship is going on now. She said it  Well um and stammered and breathes a sigh and  looked very pained as she said well its safe to say that after  this interview I guess this will be the end of it.

She still harbors feeling as she is emotional as she says these words.

HELPING HER FINANCIALLY

When confronted as to why he had Ginger White’s number,  he said he had her number because he was trying to help her financially

WHAT?? Doe he think we are that stupid. Was he  getting something in return for helping her out financially. No one gets financial help unless they are your family member, getting paid for a service rendered, getting a loan, or receiving a Pell grant.

CAIN IS BUSTED AND SUSPENDED!!!

After listening to Cain’s suspension speech and hearing his arrogance in his tone  and  loud defensiveness  and watching his body language there was  no question that the man was busted! Ginger White’s interviews and her public admission along with the phone record evidence did in Cain’s campaign.

What  the public initially liked about Cain was his open demeanor and his candidness. But he wasn’t being that candid  when he was busted by Ginger White or during his  Campaign Suspension speech.

The last thing the American public needs or wants is a candidate without integrity or moral turpitude. In these crucial times we are looking for a leader we can trust. We have to trust that leader to do right by us. If someone lies about their personal affairs, what will they lie about when it comes to the public’s affairs?

Ginger’s admission was no match for Cain no matter how he tried to spin it. Body language wise it showed he was involved with him and had feelings for hm. She may have thought she was special to him and that she was his only dalliance. But as more and more women came forth, she realized that perhaps where there is smoke there is  most likely fire. She stated she came forth because of the allegations of the other women. Perhaps she also came forth because there were other women besides her and that angered her.

The bottom line is the public will not welcome a cheating leader in or out of the bedroom.


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Cain Accuser Bialek’s Body Language Screams Signals of Deception

Friday, November 11th, 2011

As you know by now I cannot stand SPIN, fakeness, phoniness, lies and manipulation. I hate  it when people think that the public is dumb and will buy any story put in front of them.

As someone with no  political agenda I am able to see things objectively and clearly . So no matter who the candidate is,  I don’t like what is being done to them.  That is the case with candidate Herman Cain and his latest accuser  Sharon Bialeck. Her accusations were made at the side of  strong Demoratic supporter Gloria Allred, who made sure she stood breast to breast with Sharon, to insure she got  into every photo op shot of the two of them together.

So what is wrong with this picture (besides the fact Gloria Allred is in it)? What is wrong with the picture is that

  1. Bialek’s  body language , speech and voice scream multiple signals of deception and
  2. her  story makes NO sense whatsoever as she inadvertently ends up painting herself as the aggressor  and not the victim

BIALEKS’  BODY SAYS OF TELLS OF DECEPTION

Body language wise, as I watched her over the top recitation at the presser,  it wasobvious  to me that she was  most likely in my view making this stuff up. If she is telling some truth then she is disgruntled because

  1. she hit Cain up for a job when she was fired and he didn’t come through for her,
  2. and or someone put her up to this (like perhaps Gloria Allred who may possibly have solicited her as a client) ,
  3. and or she is desperate for her 15 minutes of fame in hopes that it will help her career.

The fact that this allegedly happened 14 years ago is suspect in itself . Why did she not come forward then? And don’t tell me she  is a victim of sexual harassment who suffered from Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome.

She didn’t look much like she had PTSS when she smiled and showed the most incongruent elated facial expression at the end of her speech as she  implored Cain to make things right. Then she gives a political speech about the times we are in and the leaders we need. People with PTTS don’t talk like that. There is clearly an agenda here in my view.

Look at Gloria, who can’t even look at her client.  In fact, she  doesn’t look at Bialeck throughout the whole presser. Allred clearly  knows the drill and has obviously orchestrated all of this public zoo like drama as looks down making  sure Sharon is following the script she most likely  wrote for her.

Bialeck Initiates and Instigates By  Flirting and Flattering Cain

Bialeck  begins by saying  how she met Cain and how he sat next to her at the National Restaurant Association convention . She slips up by saying’ During the conversation” and then corrects her self by saying “ the convention “ rather. When someone stumbles like this it is usually a signal of deception. She is reading words which are not heartfelt and most likely not from her directly.

Then she  relays she thought  that Cain was an inspirational  speaker. She said to him “When are you running for President?” As she relays this, she shakes her head “No “ and purses her lips and looks down which most likely means that she did not say that. So there is another signal of deception here.

If this occurred 14 years ago as she said, the thought of a Black man running for President was not even a consideration as it is now. So that means if it did happen she was merely flattering him, toying,  and flirting with him becuase she knew quite well that during those days,  a decade and a half ago, a considering a Black man for President was not a reality.

She then says he invited her and her boyfriend to attend an exclusive party and says she felt “honored to be included.” That means she didn’t deserve to be included  and knew deep down she didn’t belong there, but felt grateful  she could attend. Also the use of the word honored means that she allegedly held Cain in high esteem.

Fired From Her  Organization, Allegedly  Manipulates Head of Organization , Cain To Get Her  Job Back

Then she said she was let go (FIRED) by the Foundation and was  devastated. WHY was she let go? That is the burning question. She said she was devastated. Why was she devastated ?

She then puts blame on the organization by stating that she felt she was doing well in the short time she was there in terms of fundraising. Well maybe her definition of well and her bosses deinition of  “doing well “well were two different things.

As she describes her personal story of being” let go” FIRED , there is a marked difference in her delivery. She is fluid and fluent and isn’t reading from the script. So it rings true she was  indeed fired and that she was indeed upset by it.

Allegedly her “boyfriend”  said for her to reach out to Cain, as she, he  saidHerman seems to think kindly of you. WHY would he think so kindly of her after sitting next to her at dinner for a few moments?  Is it  because she was flirting and flattering him to death. Most likely.! It’s called kissing up to the head of the organization- the  boss.

She said she called Cain and he took her call and she told him she was let go and he said he was not aware if it. Don’t you think that if the head of the organization heard their employee was let go, they would want to know WHY that person was  let go?

Don’t you think that after he found out  what she allegedly did, he would want nothing to do with her?  Cain was a political person back then, so why would he make waves in the politics of his own organization and re hire a fired person? It does not make sense. Also it is suspect to me to call someone for  a job and just happen  tell them the name of the hotel you are staying at.

SHE Instigated The Alleged Meeting- NOT Cain And Shows Many Signals of Deception.

SHE then explains since she was unemployed,  her boyfriend booked a room for her at the capital Hilton. Isn’t that a bit piggy of her? If you are unemployed and have no money and someone else pays for you to stay at the most expensive hotel in DC, wouldn’t you  let them know you couldn’t accept it because it was too pricey and

Relaying to the public that she took the room so freely sounds like she feels entitled to it and smacks of  a “gimmie gimmiegold digging” mentality

She asked where they should meet,  another aggressive act. She relays he said they meet at the hotel lobby bar. This means that he was not having hanky panky  or ulterior motives on his mind as he allegedly suggested   an open  public place.

When she discusses the suite  that she was arranged by Cain she shows deception as she explains that she thought it was her boyfriend trying to surpsise her That is too much information and indicative of deception.

Body language wise she he looks down and lip purses, further indicating signals of deception.’

Being in the restaurant hotel business, herself,  she could have finagled an upgrade all by herself. What would be the motivation of a man whom you met once upgrading you when he allegedly doesn’t know what you want or why you are coming to see him.

She says he  took her to dinner  and  he promptly said WHY ARE YOU HERE? Isn’t that odd that someone would ask you why you are there when you yourself set up an appointment to meet them and they meet you for a drink? Also if HE asked why  she was there, it indicates that he did not have any ulterior motive with her. He had no idea what she wanted from him.

Thus, we have seen  yet  another aggressive pattern by Bialeck. Did  she finagle him to buy her a dinner saying how hungry she was?  Did she flatter and flirt. Was she flattering and flirting  so much at dinner that he had to say WHY ATRE YOU HERE ?  Was he thinking, what in goodness sakes do you want from me? Are you a hooker or something?

If she wanted a job all she had to do was call his officemeet with him in his office and ask him for a job in his office. The operative word here is office .Done and  completed!  But her drink and dinner BS may have been leading him on to make him question her as to why she was really there.

HARRASSMENT SCENARIO MAKES NO  SENSE AND SHOWS MANY  SIGNALS  OF DECEPTION

Then she says she asks him to help her get her old job back  or get a job in a different department as she allegedly hits him up for a job.

So did he say, yes or no or maybe? The fact that she doesn’t relay what he said is suspect in itself.

She then reports he  allegedly takes her in his car and drives her to the National Restaurant Association and sexually harasses her WHAT ??????????

If he allegedly upgraded her to a suite  as she said earlier, don’t you think he would harass her in her upgraded suite he allegedly secured and NOT in a car.

She described what she wore and said he had a suit with his shirt open. WHAT??? What happened to his tie? And why was his shirt open? Did did she open it? Was she flattering and flirting  and unbuttoning his shirt?  This sounds like BS to me. If a man is interested in having sex with you, he di going to unbutton his PANTS not his SHIRT? And did he do this when he was driving her around DC when they were stopped  at traffic lights ?

She does NOT say he parked in front of such and such building and attacked me. This is nonsense.

This  most likely NEVER happened as she stutters on her words while she relates he had with his shirt with his shirt open ,, When people repeat  significant words they are usually lying .

She looks down as she said he was going to show me around the offices . She touches her nose just like she did in the above photo when discussing the hotel drinks they most likely did NOT have.  Look at Gloria flowing the script along with her client.

As  Bialek describes  what she wore , she interjected UM’s  ( a huge signal of deception. As she said  instead of going in the office he reached over and…..   she SWALLOWS HARD- another huge signal of deception . As she says that he reached over and he put his hand on my leg , she has a shoulder shrug which screams LIE!

Also as she discusses how they met for a drink, she covers up her mouth as you can see in the photo. That is a signal of deception. Cain claims he never met the woman, let alone met her for a drink. Her tell certainly  may indicate this.

Also her response to Cain’s allegedly putting her hand up his crotch sounds bogus.

She asks him “What are you Doing ? You know I have a boyfriend? WHAT???????? Does that mean if she didn’t have a boyfriend it would be fine to touch her crotch?  Her response sounds very off. One would say STOP, DON’T , NO! One would not give the reason to not continue  as to their having a boyfriend. It makes no sense .

She also showed no anger or upset as she relayed this moment and in essence relived it.  That is another HUGE signal of deception.

She said she told her “boyfriend” and  a mentor and that she was embarrassed. Of course she didn’t tell them the details because nothing probably happened because she told them nothing.  If  something sexually inappropriate  really happened and your alleged boyfriend was the one who supposedly suggested you set up the meeting, don’t you think you would tell him everything?  And who is this “boyfriend”?

Then she leaks out the above facial expression which is inconsistent with what she is saying. Her eyes needed to be open wide and eyebrows raised as she spoke of ‘surprise”. Instead she makes a closed off disgusted look with head cocked to the side which is another huge signal of deception.  Also she minimizes what she says by saying  “kind of normal”.

Bialeck  Beams and Smiles At Her ALLEGED  “Harasser” 14 Years Later?

Her face literally   lights up whens he said she saw him again. She said in an upbeat voice  as she said you remember me? He obviously didn’t remember  her  among the  hundreds of thousands he has met over the past 14 years.

As she describes his speech, he says as he spoke he had the same infectious presence when she first heard him. She lights up and  beams a huge smile as she says this. Here is a HUGE clue of deception in my book. When  you have been sexually harassed by someone,  he last thing you do is flatter them publically or even go to see them.

The last thing you would do is light up and beam a smile. Instead your brow would furrow and you would have a look of disgust and anger on your face. Bialeck had a beaming smile instead.

Does This Smack of  A Political Agenda  or Setup?

She said that when she asked if he remembered her,  she wanted him tocome clean for HIS SAKE AND FOR HIS CANDIDACY When someone is harassed they are not thinking of the other person’s sake ortheir candidacy. She also self corrects which is another signal of deception.

Then she gives some altrusitc BS by saying she is the face  and voice behind women who are afraid to come forward voice.  Puhleeeze!!!!!!  Now I am convinced that this must have been written by  by Gloria  or her minions as the rhetoric sounds way too familiar. It sounds like what  many of her other clients have all said in their pressers as she sttod breast to breast with them in front of the microphones.

When she starts her final statement with a political message of  how America is in turmoil and what kind of leader we need, I am even more  convinced someone put her up to this. If you are harassed you are not thinking about your country in turmoil.  She  also smiled as she said this. This is incongruent behavior with someone who was harassed.

In the above photo she scratches her face and looks down at significant points in the speech. This usually indicates deception.

She claims it happened 14 years ago . Why come out NOW when he is running for office? It is because she and those who most like likely wrote this speech want to smear up his candidacy.

Based on her body language, voice and speech tells this is NO shrinking violet. She seems like a strong willed aggressive woman who speaks her mind.  She is no shrinking violet or some little victim.

On the contrary, she is a woman who LOVE, LOVES, LOVES the media attention!!!  She was beaming on all the morning talk shows


In these above photos this look like a sexually harassed woman who was traumatized by what Cain did to her 14 years ago. To me she is the voice and face of someone who finally got her 15 minutes of fame or infamy.www.drlillianglass.com

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Despite John Edwards Smile, His Mug Shot Reveals A Depressed, Tense John Edwards Who May Possibly Be Wearing a Toupee

Thursday, June 16th, 2011

 

If you look closely at the  frontal facial photo, you will discover that he has a very tense smile that is not genuine. His eyes are not smiling as his cheekbones aren’t raised. 

 In essence, this is a nervous smile. In his profile shot you see him purse his lips which indicates that there is a greaat deal of tension.

 He is also  perspiring profusely which confirms  that he is nervous. You can  even see the beads of sweat on his chin area. His forehead is also glistening with perspiration. His profile shot is where you can really see his perspiration on his temple and cheek area.

His skin has broken out in little bumps on his forehead and cheek area which tends to happen when people are under a great deal of stress. 

His teeth also look yellowed and appear to have some debris on them. This is a far cry from the meticulous white toothy grin we saw when Edwards was running for the  office of President. When someone neglects their hygeine it usually means they are experiencing depression.

His shoulders are rounded which indicate that he is feeling insecure and defeated. His rounded shoulders are evident in his profile  shot as well.

Since we discovered how phony Edwards was with his lying about his affair and about beingt he father of the baby, I wonder if his hair was phony as well. Was it a toupee? It was never out of place and if you look closely, it seems to be a different color than his natural hair.It looks as though a wig or toupee is placed on top of his natural hair. You can really see the contrast in the profile view of his mug shot

Even though he is  smiling  on the outside  as his his mug shot was taken,  the truth is that former Senator John Edwards is not smiling on the inside. In fact he is very depressed and feels beaten down.

When Eduards was a VP Candidate and a Presidential contender his look was immaculate. He spent  lot of time and money on his hair, He also has a bright white toothy grin as you can see in the photo above.

In this photo we see a lying John Edwards. He showed  numerous signals of deception from lip licking to shoulder shrugging, to looking down to giving way too much unnecessary informaiton.

 In fact, I  was the first one to bust him on national televison as I uncovered that he was not telling the truth about his affair with Rielle Hunter and about fathering the baby.  Click on the link below to read more about it.

http://drlillianglassbodylanguageblog.wordpress.com/2009/08/16/dr-lillian-glass-body-language-expert-was-the-first-to-reveal-john-edwards-was-lying-about-his-paterniy/

John Edward’s mug shot reveals a lot about his psyche. It says that he wants to look good to others at all times as he is concerned about appearances. That is why he chose to smile.  He knew that this photo would be released around the world. So he tried make sure he looked his best. But as we have see, he isn’t at his best. Instead, he is at his worst and it clearly shows in his mug.  www.drlillianglass.com

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