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Casey Anthony’s Body Language Showed Her Tears Were Fake in Court

Wednesday, July 21st, 2010

FAKE NON TEARS FOR CASEY

Contrary to news reports which stated that Casey Anthony  cried in court, my intensive  body language observations were that Casey did NOT  cry in court . Sociopaths are incapable of real tears. Since Casey is a sociopath in my view, she did not cry any  real tears.

 News accounts said that Casey broke down as soon as her brother Lee took the stand. But that was not the case at all. Her facial expression  especially her mouth, did not indicate a person who was sad or grieving or crying.

As you can see in the photo above she is wiping a way a non- tear. Her facial expressions consistently do not show the mouth and eye movement that is present when a person is truly crying.

But before  I discuss Casey’s reactions  when when her mother Cindy took the stand and her reactions when Lee took the stand, I want to discuss her courtroom demeanor in general

A HAPPY SMILING CASEY ENTERS THE COURTROOM

While Jose Baez has apparently done a good job in coaching her to stop the laughing and smiling, her smirks still manage to leak out as you can see in the photo below when she entered the courtroom .

Maybe she is smiling and smirking because she is so happy to get out of her jail cage where she has to remain 23 hours a day.

Maybe she is smiling and smirking because as a   self consumed  narcissist, she gets to have all eyes focusing on her and that makes her happy.

But in my view one of her major reasons for her genuine smile is that she  is  about to take her seat at the defendant’s and  gets to sit next to her crush and attorney- Jose Baez.

UNBUTTONING THE BUTTONS, SHOWING SOME SKIN AND SEX APPEAL

There is no question in my mind,  now that her former death penalty attorney Andrea Lyon is no longer in the picture and  forcing her to wear those   unsexy ruffly clothing  she hated, Casey is now dressing with  Baez in mind.

Now there is a sexier look as she is now longer buttoned up. She is now showing a lot more flesh as she unbuttons her blouse to show Jose that she still has it. She still has cleavage and still  wants him to know that she has sex appeal.

But at this point, Jose could care less . The only thing he is focusing on is keeping afloat and doing his best to adequately represent this aberrant creature.  He has no interest in her or her cleavage or her sex appeal.

The only interest he has is doing everything possible so she won’t get a lethal needle. For the most part he comes across collected and in control, but there are times where he  is overwhelmed and his nervous energy leaks out  in his body language.

We can often  see his finger tapping and pen tapping, and fidgeting. He moves around a lot physically.  But in  listening to Cindy’s testimony,   Jose was  clearly  uncomfortable  body language wise. We  saw evidence of a dry mouth and snake like side to side   lip licking as seen below.

This  indcated that his mouth was dry and he was no doubt feeling  a bit unsettled  and uncomfortable.

But Jose is not the only one showing nervousness and discomfort as she listened to Cindy;s testimony .Veteran attorney Cheny Mason was taken aback as well. He appeared to be very concerned , I have no doubt that he was wondering what in the world he was going to do in order to try and defend the sociopathic mess sitting next to him. He furrows his brow and covers his mouth, which indicates that he has no words to express  what he just heard from Cindy.

He  he has no idea what to say or do as he is speechless. When a person places their hands or fingers  over their mouth,  it indicates that they are  speechless and don’t know what to say.

Note the contrast in Casey’ demeanor. She looks blank as if she was listening to a benign weather report as she listeed to her mother .

As the proceeding progressed, Cheney Mason’s body language did not change much from his hand over his mouth position .

 But there was a time as you can see in the photo above that is finger landed in his mouth. This indicated that he was flabbergasted by what he heard. His even more furrowed brow shows extreme concern as to how in the world he was going to defend Casey.

His rounded shoulders showed submission and that he was humbled after listening to the 911 tape. 

His body language was a far cry from the  cocky Cheney Mason with squared shoulders and an arrogance  when  he said that he and Casey  would walk out of the courtroom arm in arm with Casey a free woman. After getting more involved inthecase    I doubt Cheney feels the same way he did when he first began the case.

CASEY’S REACTION WHEN CINDY WAS ON THE STAND

When Cindy  was on the stand Casey  could care less. There was no outward reaction whatesoever. However, there was a lot more hair grooming than usual as you can see below.

Casey repeated hair grooming in her mother’s presence clearly  reflected her insecurities about her physical appearance .

 We know that Cindy has put a premium on Casey’s looks, telling her how beautiful she looks in her jailhouse letters to Casey. So Casey’s grooming is no doubt an automatic reaction towards making  sure she looks “beautiful”  in front of her mother  Cindy.

CASEY’S  STICKING HER FINGERS IN HER EYES AND NON TEARS WHEN LESS WAS ON THE STAND


As soon as Lee hit the stand and obnoxiously and inappropriately he words mouthed the words “  I love you”  to his sister who twice accused him of sexually molesting her, Casey began to stick her finger in her eye in an attempt to draw liquid int the form of a tear.

Jose Baez put his arm around her as of to comfort her. In reality, it   was in my view  to encourage her  fake boo hooing in an attempt to make her look more human than the automaton emotionless freak of nature that she appears to be.

As you see int he photo above, Casey’s fingers are curved in a claw like fashion. The positioning of her fingers are not the position fingers should be in when a person is wiping away their tears. Instead, the fingers should be flat as the tears

are wiped away.

In this photo above we clearly see Casey sticking her finger inside her eye in an attempt to cause irritation of the eye and cause the eye  to tear.

Casey not only uses her fingers, she uses her thumb as well. Here she is sticking her thumb into her eye in an attempt to casue irriation and elicit redness as well as a tear.

CASEY’S FAKE CRYING RITUAL

Cheney Mason hands her a Kleenex. She then tried to fold the Kleenex. Note that she is focused on the Kleenex. There is no crying facial expression, which indicates that Casey must have trouble doing two things at the same time -crying and folding a Kleenex.

She attempts to wipe a non tear. She misses and wipes the non year off of the bridge of her nose. Once again, note the non crying facial expression.

Then she wipes the other non teary eye  with the Kleenex.

In summary,  first she wipes a non tear on one side and then wipes another non tear on the other side.  It;s all ridiculous as no one cries  and tears one eye at a time . When people genuinely cry. they cry with both eyes at the same time, not one at a time as Casey’s behavior reflects.

Then she looks at the non tear on her hankie.

 Then she grooms her hair one side and then grooms the other side. When someone is that distraught, the last thing they are thinking about is how their hair looks.

BROTHER AND SISTER SHARE A CHUCKLE

Besides brother Lee Anthony’s inappropriate  mouthing  of “I love you” to his sister who twice  accused him of sexually molesting her. another sickening thing to witness was their shared smiles chuckles at the expense of Cheney Mason and his hearing aid issues.

When Lee didn’t focus on Cheney Mason’s question,  he attempted to make  a joke by saying that there was static  is his ears too. He proudly laughed at his own joke.

Sister Casey was also  enjoying the laugh as well,  as you can  see in the photo below.

Casey is clearly enjoying Lee’s attempt at a joke as she smiles, while at the same time tries not to show her repaired dental work. This speaks to her vanity and narcissism. She stifles her  laugh and smile,  only  because she is self conscious of her dental condition. The fact that she is laughing at all is very disturbing to me .

There is absolutely NOTHING funny about the fact that she is in this courtroom. She always  needs to be reminded  that she is there for the fight of her  life.She always needs to be reminded that she is there because the state believes she murdered her innocent daughter.

She always needs to be reminded  that if she loses that fight and gets the lethal needle, it will not feel very pleasant.

Jose Baez needs to stop coddling her and give her a sober reality check concerning her courtroom behavior.

He needs to tell her that she will be scrutinized from every angle by the jurors and they will be taking everything she does very seriously. He needs to tell her that if she  wants a fair trial she needs to take everything that goes on in the courtroom very seriously  and wipe off any smirks or smiles for good.

And while he is at it, Jose  needs to tell her to stop the boo hooing it. It’s not working and  people see through it. It’s fake and odd looking. While at first glance she may look like she is crying , if a jury is stuck looking at her for weeks and notices her every move and every nuance of her behavior, they will pick up on how fake it is. It does not elicit pity for her. In fact is has the opposite effect. It makes her even more disliked and even hated.

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Joran Van Der Sloot’s Psych Tests Reveal His Sociopathy, Violence, and Disdain for Women, As He Claims He Was Forced to Confess And Continues to Play “Victim”

Tuesday, June 22nd, 2010

First and foremost the results of Joran van der Sloot’s psychological tests have been made public. Some of the results reveal that he has a hair trigger temper, doesn’t value women, has many anti social behaviors, can only make superficial relationships, has no empathy and feelings towards others, and is narcissistic .

All of his behaviors scream that he is a Sociopath.

HOW WAS JORAN TRICKED INTO SIGNING A CONFESSION WHEN  IT WAS ALL VIDEOTAPED?

Now  Joran van der Sloot  claims he was tricked into confessing to Stephany Flores’ murder. He says  that  the Peruvian authorities told him that if he signed the papers they gave him, he would be transferred to the Netherlands.

If  what he is saying is true( and I doubt it), then the  Peruvians may have given lying Joran a taste of his own medicine.

All he has done over the past 5 years is lie about Natalie Holloway. If they did happen to tell him that he would be deported back to the Netherlands if he signed the confession that he made all by himself, then I say,  good for them.

In truth, I doubt they told him this for a number of reasons. First of all everything was captured on video and secondly they did not have the authority to extradite him to the Netherlands as Peru and the Netherlands do not have that type of an agreement.

Joran tells the Dutch newspaper   Da Telegraaf, “In my blind panic I signed everything, but never knew what was written on them.”

That is another ridiculous lie out of Joran’s mouth. Of course he knew what was written on them. We saw him taking his time during the confession and reading everything slowly and carefully  before he signed anything.  If he didn’t understand something in the confession, the Peruvians  also had someone from the Dutch embassy available to translate it for him

WHY DOESN’T JORAN EXPLAIN “NOW”  INSTEAD OF “LATER “?

“I was tricked,” the paper quoted Van der  Sloot as saying of Flores’ killing. “I’ll explain later how it all happened.” Of course he will explain “later” because he needs time in his criminally sick mind to make up a plasuble sounding story.

When people tell you they will “ tell you later”, it usually means they  need the time to think about what lies they are going to make up.

PERU IS NOT GOING TO PLAY JORAN’S GAMES

Joran  may have toyed with Aruban authorities by  his giving and  and retracting admissions concerning his involvement in Holloway’s disappearance. But the Peruvians will not stand for it as we are witnessing.

Attorney Maximo Altez  who said van der Sloot’s statement in court will focus on how his rights were violated during the investigation. In my view, he  is barking up the wrong tree . Peruvian police have defended the interrogation and said van der Sloot’s confession was acquired legally.

And far as rights go, where were Stefany’s rights? Those rights- especially  her right to life- was clearly violated.

JORAN’S POOR JUDGMENT IN NOT SPEAKING TO THE JUDGE

So for now, Joran has refused to speak to the judge about the case until it is determined if he confessed with his rights intact.

I believe what he said in his confession was accurate in terms of how he killed Stefany. I believe that her injuries via the  autopsy reports will no doubt validate everything  he said.

I do not believe  for a moment that Stefany used his computer  and looked at his email without permission as to the reason why he killed her.

Wouldn’t she need a password to get into his email account?  I   believe the killed her because  she refused to have sex with him. Otherwise why would she have been found with her jeans off?

I believe that Joran’s not speaking to the judge wil result in a harsher sentence for him. He needed to admit what he did and take responsibility for his actions.

LIKE MOST SOCIOPATHS JORAN SEES HIMSELF AS THE PERPETUAL VICTIM

We can see Joran’s classic  sociopathology  clearly at work  here as he makes himself out to be the poor victim  who was forced to sign the confession of  words which he manufactured which only  came out of his own  mouth.

The Peruvian authorities didn’t put those words in Joran’s mouth. Joran put them there himself.

Joran also wants you to feel sorry for him because he now has to live with rats that come out through his toilet hole at night.

So now there are small rats in his cell and a huge one- Joran. He should feel right at home with his new pets. But he lets this information out to Da Telegraaf newspaper in an attempt to get people to feel sorry for him in his substandard living conditions.

ENABLER MOTHER ANITA PLAYS THE  VICTIM ROLE AS WELL

Anita van der Sloot  says her poor Joran was traumatized by the Natalie Holloway  ordeal and should have gotten psychiatric help but refused.“Joran is sick in his head, but he wanted no help,” his mother said.

This statement  shows how  Anita is an enabler.  Who cares whether Joran wanted that help or  not. She was the mother and needed to see to it that he got that help no matter whether Joran liked it or not. Joran was  16 or 17 at the time- an under age  boy. She refers to Joran as a  ’Sweet boy’ in the newspaper interview she did with Da Telgraaf. The operative word  here was “boy”.

Joran was  a boy and she was the adult when she needed to insist he go into therapy during the Natalie Holloway situation. She needed to have laid down some boundaries- such as “no gambling at the casinos until he had therapy.”

His father Paulus certainly  had enough pull on the island to call every casino in town and tell them to not let his son into them. He could have reinforced  the “no casino and gambling  until you get into therapy” boundary for Joran.

Then Anita  wants to evoke even more  pity on her poor Joran by starting that he blamed himself for his father’s unexpected death  earlier this year.”Two days Joran cried. He even hung over the coffin, sobbing.

“It’s my fault, Dad,” he said. “I have caused your heart attack.”

This behavior Joran exhibited at his father’s death  is yet another reason Anita should have insisted he get therapy to help him with his grieving. Technically, Joran didn’t cause his father’s heart attack. It was obviously caused by a malfunctioning heart. Maybe his father didn’t go to a doctor for regular checkups od maybe he had an undiagnosed heart disease.

That certainly wasn’t Joran’ fault even though the  added stress Joran caused in his father’s life may have added to stressing out his father’s heart.

As soon as Anita  noticed how severely Joran was grieving, that is when Anita needed to have put down an ultimatum to her son who immediately  moved in with her  after his father died. She needed to say “you can only move in with me if you go into therapy.”

His father was dead four months when Anita  says “But then one day he left, flying to Peru for a poker tournament” She says this in order to make herself look like a victim.”  His mother  had four months to make sure and insist he went into therapy and did not do so.

During those four months, Anita needed to bring a therapist to their home if Joran wouldn’t go. If he was having such strong guilt feelings, and was so deponent, she needed to do whatever she had to do an WOMAN UP and tke care of her son’s emotional health. I am sure if Joan’s leg was bleeding uncontrollably , she would  have taken  him for  immediate help. Likewise,  mental health was figuratively bleeding uncontrollably  and she needed to so the same thing and get him help asap.

Her final statement “If only he had listened to his mother. Then, this would have never happened,” is not only a statement which reflects her being a victim of her son’s not listening to her but said to invoke sympathy and at the same time give herself a pat on the back that she was a good mother. If  Joran’s mother  would have been more proactive and set boundaries that insisted he go into therapy and under psychiatric care, then all of this may never have happened.

JORANS PSYCH REPORT MAY GIVE CLUE AS TO WHY MOTHER ANITA  CANNOT HANDLE JORAN

After reviewing Joran’s psych report it is now even  more  understandable as to why Joran’s mother had such little control over him. The report says that Joran does not value the  female role and disrespects women.

It also stated that he gets violent when contradicted. So if his mother whom he disrespects did insist on his going in to therapy and he didn’t want to go and she persisted and argued with him about it, perhaps Anita would have ended up in the same position and Stefany Flores.Perhaps she knew better than to antagonize Joran.

That may be why she merely suggested that he go for therapy  and did not pursue it further She may have been very intimidated and afraid of what Joran would do to her. So she no doubt  kept a low profile around him.

The fact that Anita has not yet shown up in Peru speaks volumes. It says that she has clearly abandoned her son this time around. There is no doubt that Anita knows who her son is. She knows he is mentally sick as she said and knows about his temper and violence.

Now  it is clear that she wants no part of him . She has washed her hands of him and now  he is completely on his own as far as she is concerned . Daddy had died and is no longer there to help him. In Joran’s mother’s eyes , see also sees  Joran as dead and as she too is no longer there to help him   . www.drlillianglass.com

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Casey Anthony’s Body Language in Latest Court Appearance Still Shows Grooming Behavior and Detachment

Monday, May 10th, 2010

The last time Casey was in court   all noticed a definite change in Casey Anthony’s body language.  Casey Anthony appeared more stoic and less smiley. Although she did manage to eek out a giggle and an inappropriate smile or two  at the beginning,  for the most part she had a serious facial expression.

In her latest  court appearance,  we clearly see how the body doesn’t lie. Casey could not stop herself from her ritualistic grooming behavior as she sat alone and waited for the court  proceedings to begin. She looks down and begins  to dust herself off at the thighs as if to get rid of  this horrible situation in her life. Her grooming is an attempt to literally clean herself off from what lays ahead of her.

We now see Casey tugging on her blouse and making sure it fits right so she looks good. This speaks to the narcissistic self oriented behavior we have seen in almost all of her appearances. We definitely saw her narcissism up close and personal during her jailhouse tapes.

Casey still continues to groom herself as she tugs at her collar . She makes sure it looks good. Because  she spends most of her time in collarless prison scrubs,  perhaps she isn’t used to wearing upright collars. So the constant tugging and grooming , may also be a signal of insecurity in her new duds.

There also appears to be a  definite a discomfort level with her clothing which also causes her to tug at them constantly. When people  don’t feel comfortable in what they are wearing you often see them tugging at their clothes. which indicates that they feel they don’t look good in what they are wearing. The tugging is a subconscious attempt to rearrange the clothing or to change it.

From what we have seen in Casey’s  wardrobe based on all the previous pre- courtroom photos, Casey  seemed very comfortable in  low cut clinging tops and skin tight form fitting dresses. So needless to say her courtroom attire,  complete with ruffled top is not her style.

Before Andrea Lyons came into the picture and it was just Jose Baez, her tried to change her image and it failed .

Initially he made her wear the black glasses so she would look smart and educated and not like the loser high school drop out that she was.  He used gave her a corporate look with conservative white long sleeved button down blouses and  fake glasses.

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Then the first time he brought Casey onto the courtroom her made her wear an over sized jacket  with her hair pulled back in a bun like a school marm librarian who could never get a date.  It was l so laughable that Jose didn’t let her come to court looking  like that anymore.

Based on my observations of her attorney Andrea Lyon’s wardrobe, it is highly possible that she may not only be  serving as Casey’s attorney but as he wardrobe consultant as well. In fact, during one courtroom appearance they both wore an identical odd shade of green as  you can see above.

Andrea may think that the jury will look more favorably at a buttoned up ruffled innocent plain looking woman who is nothing like the hottie  party girl  image the will be seeing in her evidence  photos.

Personally I think Andrea should  let  Casey’s dress in her clingy low cut  outfits that she appears to be more comfortable wearing.

After seeing the photos of her draped in an American flag,skimpy outfits and a

sleeveless tank top as she is seen with her  head   in the toilet  vomiting, no jury is going to buy the sweet ruffle plain girl image. In fact it will piss them off  because they will feel that they were being manipulated.

Now we see Casey hacving a facial  expression we have never seen previously. She is tight jawed and purses  her lips. This is a far cry from the previous photo pictured  above where she is all smiles  wearinbg a green tank top.

Her facial language shows a great deal of tension and stress,. Perhaps the reality and the gravity of the situation has finally hit her and has begun to sink in.

As she sates ahead expressionless we see the tension in her temples and in her shoulders which are now hunched over. It is though there is literally a weight on her shoulders. She dis not have this posture previously, She would sit upright which indicated that she was fu of confidence.  It was a smug and arrogant type of posture. but now Casey appears to have  been humbled,  posture-wise.

Perhaps it was the recent punishment which she may possibly be receiving for her jailhouse  letters. Perhaps the two years she has already spent in jail are finally getting to her. Whatever the case, her body language indicates that there has been a significant change.

When Casey was in the courtroom she barely moved. She just looked straight ahead with an expressionless face.  Was it due to the fact that there was a new judge and she didn’t want to do anything to have him perceive her in a negative light?  Is she being coached by one or all of her attorneys as to how to behave? Have they coached her to not move a muscle in the courtroom and to completely wipe any emotion off of her face?  Or is Casey finally on some type of anti- anxiety medication that causes her to space out, sit still and not display any emotion especially happy emotions?

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Tiger Woods Body Language During Master’s Presser Shows Spin, Manipulation, and Anger During Questioning About Elin, Who’s No Show Speaks Volumes

Tuesday, April 6th, 2010

Tonight at 7:30 PM  on CBS on  The Insider You will see my exclusive body language coverage regarding Tiger Woods body language during his press conference Where he was asked some major questions regarding his relationship and his past behavior.

It is clear that Ari Fleisher is new SPIN advisor did his job and told Tiger how to spin it. However, there is no way the public will ever buy Tiger’s spin. It is completely manipulative- especially when he plays the “poor me victim look how injured I was card in an attempt to feel sorry for him, all the while avoiding he real question about his past egregious behavior.

POOR TIGER MISSING HIS SON’S FIRST BIRTHDAY

If his surgeries and knee problems weren’t isn’t enough to try and garner public sympathy as an excuse for Tiger’s bad past, he does a mea culpa on how all of this caused him to miss his son’s first birthday.

He says that missing his son’t first birthday hurts and hurts a lot, as he looks down and says so in a monotone voice. PUHLEEEZ!! Why didn’t he think of his son’s first birthday when he was in bed with all of his sex partners?

There is no question that his spinmeister threw in his son’s birthday as a ploy to try to tug at emotional heartstrings as he mentions it three times. This is another clue that it is spin. When someone repeats something  that often, it usually does not ring true.  The SPIN did NOT work! The publc is NOT stupid and there is no way that they are buying it!


REHAB SEEMS TO BE  THE LAST THING ON TIGER’S MIND ACCORDING TO HIS BODY LANGUAGE

Tiger was ever evasive when asked about his rehab with constant uh ums and shoulder shrugs  and  looking down. There is clearly no continued rehab schedule on the books.

Here’s a clue that all of this is BS and Spin. No one gets rehabbed for sex addition or pain pill prescription addiction in 45 days. It takes a lot longer. That is why I believe all of this was spin from the beginning, The fact that Tiger went into rehab was ONLY because he got caught with his pants down- literally ! If he didn’t get caught the word REHAB would never have crossed his lips.

Tiger has all the rhetoric down- all the buzz words-  like the word  “entitlement” and all the 12 step lingo. But to me they sound like words. The do not ring true.

WHAT’S ENTITLEMENT?

Case in point. When a reporter asked him if he felt entitled, Tiger immediately  asked the reporter what he meant. If Tiger was really sincere about his entitlement issues, he would have answered it with the same rapidity and confidence he answered questions concerning his golf game.

THE ONLY TIME TIGER’S SPEECH RANG TRUE

The only time Tiger sounded confident, where his speech was  at a rapid clip and he showed a verbal bounce devoid of uhms and hesitations, but rather life and enthusiasm in his voice,  was when he was talking about getting back out there and playing golf.

In doing so, he was radiant! He glowed as he smiled  a  huge bright genuine smile when he talked about his favorite subject.


READ THE POLICE REPORT!!!!!!

The most arrogant part of his presser was when asked about his accident. He was evasive, as he essentially said to read the police report. That spoke volumes. It as a though he was trying to distance himself  from what happened and make it OK. No doubt  his new spinmeister Ari Fleisher told him to do this.

It was obvious what he was doing in this regard. The only problem is that no one can forget that he was lying on the ground snoring with a fat lip according to the police  report to which he is referring.

IS TIGER WEARING BRACES OR A DENTAL SPLINT?

And speaking of fat lips and mouths., it was interesting to note that as Tiger smiled he was wearing invisible  braces over his front teeth. Tiger had the most perfect teeth in the past.  So why is he now wearing clear plastic  invisible braces  on his teeth? You really see it when he smiled brightly when talking about getting back into his golf game. .

Did Elin really hot him with a golf club as the  rumor goes and really  give him a fat lip and knock his teeth out of alignment to boot?

If so, is he  perhaps  wearing dental braces for that purpose- to realign and straighten out  the teeth she may have allegedly damaged teeth?


ELIN NOT COMING TO THE MASTERS AND TIGERS FACE SHOWS ANGER AT BEING ASKED THE QUESTION


Tigers steely glare and his tight jaw were the signals of anger that he let out when he  asked if wife ELin was coming to the Masters. He said she was not. To me that said it al!!! This is ois comeback and the most important Golf Tournament of his life at this time.

When we do not see Elin’s support, it is very difficult for us to support Tiger as well. While he may be a great golfer, the respect for him is completely gone as far as Elin is concerned in my view. Otherwise, she would be standing my her man’s side.

But obviously she has enough self respect and self dignity to not show up to be on display to help her husbands tarnished image.

TIGER SHAKING HIS HEAD NO WHEN   HE SHOULD BE SHAKING IT SHAKING IT YES

Tiger has still not taken full responsibility for his actions even though he says he has,. His head shaking  No when he said “I take full responsibility for what happened,”  should have been shaking  Yes.

To me that spoke volumes. It speaks to the fact that while he has al the right words and the right rhetoric, he is clearly  something completely opposite. He still hasn’t fully embraced what he has done, as he is till in denial body language-wise.


TIGER HUNGERS FOR THE PUBLICS ACCEPTAC E AND ADULATION BUT THERE ARE PROBLEMS  WITH HIS PEERS

Tiger kept mentioning how the fans were accepting of him. He appeared to be very concerned about this. He knows how vilified he has been recently. So now,  to see smiling fans,  no doubt made him feel better about himself.

Maybe this experience himbled him. Maybe he will be more respectful to his fans,.He certainbly took them for granted in the past. Now knowing that there are some people out ther who don’t vilify him and accept him may allow him to gain a newfound appreciation for those who are in his corner.  His body language shoed genuine excitement and enthusiasm when disccussing his fans.

But when asked about how his peers were towards him, His body language  spoke volumes. Even though he said how excited he was that he receivd hugs from his peers and seemed surmised at how well he was accepted and received  by his peers as he mentioned it several times. When someone mentions things several times like Tiger demonstrated it is often  a way of convinncing themselves that what they are saying is true.

The bottom line is that his body language revealed the truth. His shoulder shrugs and tight smile indicated that a lot of his peers weren’t so accepting to him and he very well knew it.

SPONSORS AND ENDORSEMENTS- THE REAL REASON FOR THIS 4TH MEA CULPA

When Tiger goes on to say how ell her represented his sponsors in the past, It became clear to me what this presser was all about –Sponsors and trying to get them back on the bandwagon.

To me that was the bottom line. He already gave one lame public apology that didn’t ring true, with his mother hugging him at the end showing that all is forgiven. Then he did  another one for ESPN and  yet another one for the Gold Channel with controlled questioning by tame  Tiger friendly interviewers.

Now he does a forth lame interview  and opens up the questioning to all journalists. Why? In my view it is all about sponsors. It all boils down to dollars and sense and that his why Ari Fleisher suggested that he bite the bullut endure some intense and uncomfortable moments  of questioning in hopes that he would persuade public opinion and get more endorsers on the gravey train.

Maybe some sponsors will see fit to take Tiger back if she wins the Masters. I personally will have no respect for them if they do that. I strongly feel that no one should be rewarded for bad behavior . I will see those companies as hypocrites and it will not make me want to use their products.  Their taking Tiger  back will have the opposite effect on me that they intended it to have.


WILL ALL BE FORGIVEN IF TIGER DOES WELL IN THE MASTERS?

For some people, all that matters os whether Tiger can play golf. If she succeeds many will turn a blind eye.But for man,y the fact they they were duped with his cookies and milk pure squeaky clean image can never be forgotten.

My view is that no matter how well he plays his image will be tarnished forever. No matter how many pressers he gives witrh mea culpsas that don’t ring true, what he did will never be forgotten.


ELIN’S FORGIVENESS IS ALL THAT REALLY MATTERS AND HER NO SHOW AT THE MASTERS SAYS ALL IS NOT FORGIVEN

The fact that his wife Elin is not showing up says it all in my book. She is the one who really matters in all this. Unlike the wives of past cheaters . who have  stood by their men for whatever reason like Hillary Clinton and disgraced ex- governor Elliot Spitzers wife, Elin has refused to do so.

I must say that U admire her for it.  He fooled her and destroyed their family.Whether or not she  allegedly got physical with him and engaged in domestic violence  is another matter, Many can’t blame her if she did. Others are appalled. We will never know the true circumstances of what really happened- at least not yet!

But her  not showing up at his most important gold game and making his debut may hiry Tiger more than any alleged golf club to his mouth. Her no show says

: I will not be made a fool of. I will not subject myself to being used any longer so you Tiger can gave a clean image again. It says while you go out there and try to regain  your crown of glory on the golf course, I too am maintaining my  crown of clory as as woman with self esteem wgho can hold her head high because I am not a hypocrite and doing something I don’t want to do – show phony support for you.”

No Ari Fleisher or any spin meister can spin what is real and what is in someone’s heart. And via  Elin’s no show, we clearly see what is not in her heart as far as Tiger is concerned-  her forgiveness for his degrading her. She is saying that she wants no part of his spin and for that I have tremendous respect!  www.drlillianglass.com

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George and Cindy Anthony’s Body Language Shows Trouble in Their Relationship

Tuesday, March 23rd, 2010

PHONINESS  IN HAND HOLDING

 George and Cindy Anthony can hold hands all they  want and even smile as they  pretend everything is fine between them, but THE BODY DOESN’T LIE AND NEITHER DOES THE FACE OR THE VOICE. They can get all the image consulting they want but eventually the truth will leak out in the way they move and speak.

I know this for a fact as I have spent over two decades helping people how to improve their image, the way they speak  and their body language. While it may work for a movie role and even for a job interview, in order for it to stick on a long term basis and become a part of you there has to be a significant change in your psyche. It takes considerable  time and effort.

So, when I see this  photo of George and Cindy holding hands and Cindy smiling like she doesn’t have a care in the world, she and George are NOT fooling anyone. I see right through them.

In this photo we see too much physical distance between them. When a couple is connected even if they are an old married couple who have been married for decades, the physical distance between them is not as great as we see with Cindy and George.

George is stiff in his body language as you can see by the rigidity in  his muscles. When people are that tense looking around one another it usually means that they don’t really like one another that much.

Also George is looking down ands she is giving a phony smile for the cameras. When a couple isn’t looking in the same direction, it means that they are not like minded. George”s facial ecxpression shows a phoney smile as well. His lips are tight and pursed  which actually shows anger. The furrowed brow and tension in his eyes also show upset. So this is NOT a happy man around Cindy.

When people really like one another they tend to gravitate towards each other like magnets. In this case George and Cindy’s upper and lower  bodies  appear to repel one another.

50 SOMETHING YEAR OLDS NEED TO WEAR  BRAS 

On a side note, Cindy should really invest in a bra. To me it doesn’t look as though she is weraring one and  if that is the case it speaks volumes. She is not  a teenager or a woman in her 20′s who may not need one. She is in her late 50′s and definately needs one.

 If  by chance she is wearing a bra, she needs to stop putting money into Casey’s monthly jail account so Casey can buy herself snacks and spend that money on buying herself a proper fitting bra so she doesn’t look so sloppy.

THE COLD SHOULDER

We have all heard the expression “giving them the cold shoulder.” It is not just an expression. It is a reality. This is exactly how it looks. When people’s shoulders are raised around another person, it means that they are distancing themselves from that person. In essence, the are forming a barrier betweenn themselves and the other person.

In this photo we see George  literally giving  Cindy  the cold shoulder as they walk together. Once again they are looking in different directions which  shows that they are not in synch with one another.  George looks down and he looks pained.

The cold shoulder senario continues in the  courtroom. Only this time it is Cindy who is cold shouldering George as you can see. George seems to be in his own world and isn’t even aware of  Cindy as you see.

Cindy  looks upset and disconnnected from George. Her upset can be seen in the tension around her jaw area.  

TURNED HER BACK ON HIM

In the courtroom, Cindy turns around to speak to the person in back of her. In doing so he turns her back to George. This is extremely rude and is a hostile act.

We have all heard the expressed “he turned his back on him or her.”There is a lot of truth to that. When you literally turn your back to someone it means that you reject them and are blocking them out.  That is what Cindy is doing to George.

 Then Cindy had to leave the room and didn’t tell George that she was leaving. She just got up and walked it front of him as though he wasn’t even there. This is yet another indication that she is turned off with George.

FACES DON’T LIE

Cindy is pissed off at George and it shows facially as well. She is angry. Now that we know about his alleged affair with River Cruz, it makes a lot more sense as to why he didn’t return her ‘I love you too.”

When Cindy mouthed the words “ I love you” to George when she was sitting next to him in the courtroom the time Casey was giving her lame and phony apology to Amy Huizenga. George sat there like a bump on a log and ignored her.

All of this sudden hand holding is clearly for show. George has been outed for his alleged affair with the Zanaida prototype River Cruz and he and Cindy are trying to BS everyone and make like they are so in love and together. But it is clear BS  and it is not working !  

GEORGE MAY BE AS TOXIC AS CASEY

If it is indeed true that George had an affair with River Cruz, the Zanaida prototype during the time everyone went frantically searching for Caylee, I feel like to vomit on him. HOW DARE HE!!! 

And if what River and her sister Skye say is true that George knew that Caylee was dead and that it was an accident gone awry, then he needs to be prosecuted to the full extent of the law and  be put into a cell forever.

I don’t buy the Anthony’s attorney Brad Conway’s statement that River and Sky had rap sheets and aliases and that is what makes them non credible. That has nothing to do with anything in my view.

Skye and River did not come to the press first. Law enforcement came to them and that is how they were found out. If they were after money they would have come foreward ahead of time.

If this is true, can you imagine how much time and effort George WASTED? People are genuinely good and beautiful.They want to help. They give of their time, their pocketbooks, and or their hearts.

Millions of people all over the world gave of their hearts. They  wanted Caylee to be alive. They prayed for her . They held vigils. The prayed she was alive but  were even  prepared if  Caylee was no longer  alive.

They  prayed that her little body would be found so that she could have a proper burial with respect and dignity.

So if  George was that TOXIC to toy with the public’s heart and good humanity, I say punish him to full extent of the law. There is NO excuse for this! This weak spineless hypocrite who worked in law enforecement and said that he knew the smell of a dead body, knew EXACTLY was was going on.

Cindy and her pizza box theory is no better! She too must have known something. She  was pretty descriptive when she put that poor real Zanaida Gonzalez down and told her she wasn’t a 10. Her behavior has been horrible throughout this ordeal.

One one level I can understand why George may have wanted to get away from Cindy and her constant harping and control. We certianly saw how she controlled him like a puppet during the Larry King interviews.

But George needed to man up and walk away from Cindy. He didn’t need to lie and cheat and have a mistress and act like a spineless wimp if what River says is tue.

CASEY HAS MOVED ON AS FAR AS CINDY AND GEORGE ARE CONCERNED

  There is no question that Casey has moved on as far as her parents are concerned. And who can blame her. How could George and Cindy claim they love Casey and NOT visit her. Who cares what the public thinks!  Who cares if Casey is scrutinized by me or anyone else?

They needed to go into the jail and tell her they loved her and leave . They didnt have to speak about the case.

Casey doesn’t even acknowledge them when they are in the courtroom. It was actually sad to see George and Cindy standing up and trying to get Casey’s attention as she left the courtroom. Casey could care less. She completely ignored them. She has no use for them and is no doubt upset that they never came to visit her.

Maybe George and Cindy not visiting  Casey in jail  becuase they are afraid they will be scrutinized  is just an excuse.

 Maybe they really don’t want to see her up close and personal becuase they know in their heart of hearts what she did to their beloved grand baby.

GEORGE AND CINDY NEED TO GET REAL

In any event, I think that George and Cindy  need to get real and stop playing games and trying to pull one over on the public that all is well between them and they are so lovey dovey when they are not! Their  body language says it ALL!

They are better off showing up in court separately becuase no doubt  when this is all over and Casey will be sitting in her new prison cell on Death Row, both George and Cindy will no doubt, go their separate ways. 

They will most likely write their separate books and do their separate TV appearances.

 Since he wouldn’t be with Cindy anymore, George  wouldn’t have to sneak and lie and hide and have a mistress. Instead, he could have a bona fide girlfriend. Perhaps he might even start a new family and learn some valuable lessons from what he did to this family.

The one lesson he should have learned is that when you raise a child you need to set boundaries and not let them get away with their crap. Otherwise you create another Casey Anthony.

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Casey Anthony’s” All Smiles” Body Language Shows She’s Feeling Confident With New Lawyer Cheney Mason on Team While Jose Baez ‘s Body Language Shows Some Distancing

Sunday, March 21st, 2010

Casey Anthony’s body language was all smiles as she walked into the courtroom and she  continued to smile. You could tell she was pretty excited to be in the courtroom as she was taking a lot of deep  upper chest breaths  are  indicative of  excitement.


So why is this woman, who is going to be on trial for murdering her daughter smiling and breathing so heavily with excitement ? It is because she is feeling very confident now that a new attorney has been added to her defense team.

CASEY’S NEW  ATTORNEY  CHENEY MASON HAS BOOSTED HER EGO AND HOPES


Cheney Mason, a long-time Orlando defense attorney, has joined Casey’s  defense team and  told the court that he would defend Casey at no charge. He then  made the following statement to  WESH 2 News ,”This case is going to be fun to try, and we’ll walk out of here with Casey in arm.”

With that kind of rhetoric, he no doubt has boosted up his client Casey’s confidence and ego regarding the case, by assuring her that she will be able to walk out a free woman.

My view is that the only way Casey will walk out a free woman is in her dreams. Mr. Mason must think he is the fictions Perry Mason of the popular television series back in the day , who never lost a case.

Cheney Mason is no Perry Mason and he will definitely lose the case in my opinion. When Casey “walks out in arm”  it will be on the arm of  marshalls who will be escorting her to prison for life or do be executed for her crime.

CASEY RUBS HER HANDS TOGETHER WITH  GLEE


Caseycontinued to smile her smug Cheshire cat grin as though she knows something no one else knows,  as she  rubbed the palms of her hands together rapidly. This is what one does  when they are excited or they are  anticipating something good to happen.Obviously she has bought into Mason’s false  prophecy that she may soon  soon be a free woman.

She is also no doubt  happy and confident  about the fact that they will  find her to be  indigent so she can get a free ride as she has done her entire life.

JOSE BAEZ MUST HAVE TOLD HER TO STOP THE SMILING

Jose  Baez must have noticed that his client  was smiling so much and acting way too happy so he whispered something to her  like “ stop smiling”.

Casey tried to oblige, but she just couldn’t shake that Cheshire cat grin off her face.

Besides her buying into  Mason’s  false  optimism , she is probably smiling because he is happy that she has been freed from her jail cell for a few hours. She is probably thrilled to experience a  change of scenery.

BRUSHING AND GROOMING  BEHAVIOR


One of the things we often  see with Casey’s body language is her grooming behavior. She is always brushing herself off.

When someone is showing deception they often do this. It is also a signal to psychologically clean one’s self off.  Perhaps it’s her way of cleaning herself off for doing the dirty deed of killing Caylee.

This gesture in combination with her smiles indicates that she also subconsciously feels that her new attorney will “clean her  off” so that she can leave this Caylee mess behind her.

But Casey and her new attorney are living in an illusion, No one will be able to clean her off. No matter how many times she brushes herself off she is still dirty with the knowledge of what she did to little Caylee.

The constant  grooming  with her hair indicates Casey’s narcissism of always wanting to look her best. It also speaks to  her low self esteem and deep  insecurity of being consumed with her looks and appearance , regardless of  the situation she is in.

$200,000 FROM ABC, BUT  WHAT ABOUT OTHER MAGAZINE, INTERNET,AND  TELEVISION OUTLETS?

I can’t believe that ABC was the ONLY media outlet who paid for a licensing fee for Caylees photos . They Something seems strange to me in this regard. Maybe the other outlets paid it to George and Cindy and not to Casey.

Maybe Casey gave George and Cindy Power of Attorney so they can collect the money and not her. Anyway the whole thing is upsetting that this trial will be paid for with taxpayer’s money now that Judge Strickland has officially  declared Casey to be indigent, after asking Casy’s defense team to provide an itemized list, of how their attorney’s fees have been spent.

BODY LANGUAGE OF C ASEY”S ATTORNEYS

CHANGE IN JOSE BAEZ’ BODY LANGUAGE

Casey’s lead attorney Jose Barez used to be all over  Casey. He was affectionate and often could be seen giving her  tender and loving touches. But nor anymore. You can see the distancing taking place, He rarely smiles at her, whereas before he always seem3ed to be smiling at her and with her.

But now, his body language is showing that he;s keeping his distance from her and dealing with her very professionally, something he didn’t do in the past. In fact he was allegedly called out for being too affectionate and hugging his client during their jailhouse visits early on.

I am sure Jose isn’t doing any hugging any more now that the case is beginning to unravel and he no doubt is the only one who is privy to the real truth.

In fact look at this photo above. His upper body is rigid and he is talking to he from the side where there is a lot more physical distance between them then we had seen early on.

Also look at the way his hand is cupped on her shoulder.

It is a more  forceful grip than we have usually seen him do with Casey. His fingers are curved as though he is pressing down  on her shoulder . You can also even see the tension in his fingers.

That usually means anger. When you see a hand cupped along with tension in the fingers it says body language wise that the person is not too pleased with the person they are grabbing.

ANDREA LYONS BODY LANGUAGE IS CONSISTENT AS MOTHER HEN

The only attorney on her team who seems to be consistent affection- wise is Andrea Lyons. She has a casue  which is anti death penalty, and Casey is representative of that cause.

So she is espewcially compassionate to Casey who may very well be put to death- somethin Andrea is vehemently against.

To me it looks like the case is really wearing on Andrea as she looks more drawn and seems to have lost a good bit of weight.

CASEY IGNORES MOM AND DAD ON THE WAY OUT

Linda Kenny Baden was very professional body language wise as she kept a professional distance when she bent her head down to speak to Casey, who looks diminutive next to all her attorneys.

No doubt  Casey is loving  all the attention from her lawyers and  and loving the time she is spending away from her boring jail cell.

So when it came time to be escorted back to her cell, there were no more smiles, What was also telling  as she turned around to head towards the door was that she did not look at her parents.

They certainly looked at her but she did not respond in kind. To me that says she is not longer bonded with them, The  time and distance between them has left its mark.

We know from their history and seeing them interact on the  jailhouse tapes that there was no love lost between Casey and Cindy. So it is understandable twhy she didn’t look at Cindy.

But she always seemed close to George. So to not acknowledge him at this pount speaks volumes. maybe she got wind of his affair or maybe she is pissed that George told his  Zanaida Gonzalez prototype  something Casey may  have told him in confidence So she is ticked off at  George.

Maybe Casey  lied to George that it was an accident that went awry and George shared that information with River Cruz and now the whole world knows. Maybe this revelation will screw uo her defense so she is pissed at dad for spilling the beans.

Personally I think she was selling George a  bag of BS. Putting tape over a baby’s mouth is not an accident. It is not a game. It is evil and malicious and sadistic.  can’t imagine what game was played or what accident occurred that invoved duct tape over anyone’s mouth and nose. It  seems to me that this “accident” was  done on purpose.

If George really  believes that what happened to Caylee was an accident,  then he is in extreme denial or is one of the dumbest people on the planet.

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Casey Anthony’s Body Language Appears to Support New Evidence By Prosecution That Duct Tape Was Weapon Used to Murder Caylee

Friday, February 19th, 2010

New evidence by the state is that they believe that the duct tape is considered the murder weapon  Casey Anthony to smother her own daughter Caylee with premeditation and willfullness.

In fact a strip of duct tape found on Caylee’s mouth is one of  three,  prosecutors believe were critically placed  by Casey Anthony to suffocate her daughter and blocking her air passages.

When prosecutor Jeff Ashton graphically laid out his theory Casey had a significant physical reaction body language wise .  Casey didn’t react physically until Aston spoke the following words-

“Maybe her killer saw her eyes as she applied one piece, then two, then three so that no breath was possible,”

That is when Casey no doubt heard the truth verbalized for the very first time in terms of what she actually may have done to Caylee. The truth was no doubt was too much for her to heart  as she retreated into attorney Andrea Lyon’s protective embrace.

That is when she  asked Andrea to make the pain of hearing the truth stop.  She said “Tell him to  him stop.” Andrea of course replied, “I  can’t.”  So for perhaps the very first time in her life,  Casey was forced to hear the truth  about  herself. She was forced to hear what she most likely did with the duct tape.

The rare Henkel brand of duct tape found on Caylee’s  skull was evidently the same type of tape was used by the Anthony family to put up fliers of Caylee when she was missing.

Now that we now know that the duct tape is considered a possible murder weapon, it is understandable why Casey reacted as she did upon hearing the prosecutor describe her actions with the duct tape. This once again confirms that “the body does not lie!” www.drlillianglass.com

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Tiger Wood’s Cheating Taking It’s Physical Toll On Wife Elin’s Body Language

Wednesday, February 3rd, 2010

ELIN NORDEGREN WOODS BEFORE

This is a photo of Elin Nordegren with her husband Tiger Woods, before she had any clue he was having sex with mistresses, hookers, whores, or escorts.“Before” she looks like  a stunning 20 something year old, bright- eyed and fresh- faced. Her facial muscles are relaxed and she looks pleasant and healthy. Her jaw looks relaxed as does her forehead, indicating no tension and both her eyes and her lips are smiling as she shows teeth. This is a clear indiction that Elin looks happy.

ELIN NORDEGREN WOODS AFTER

In this photo,  you can clearly see what I have always said regarding body language  and the voice. What goes on in your head and your heart comes out in the way you look and speak-how you act, move,  behave and talk.

In only a few short months in her “ After Leaning About Tiger’s Affairs Photo,” Elin looks at least a decade older, with puffed bags under her eyes. She looks gaunt and her jaw looks tense, indicating a lot of internal anger.  

 Even though Elin is trying to put on a brave front in this photo by projecting a smile, it isn’t working. The half-smile, the lip tension and the lack of smiling around the eyes clearly shows her unhappiness and inner turmoil.  There is also tension in her forehead, further indicting the anguish she is experiencing.

 This has aged her tremendously. There has been a considerable weight loss and she looks like she has spent a lot of hours crying and in a lot of internal turmoil.

While Elin has not yet filed for divorce and is doing her best to try and work things out with Tiger by showing up at his Sex Addiction Rehab sessions in Mississippi (which personally I feel is bogus and a PR ploy in Tiger’s case) it has clearly affected her in a very bad way.  And who can blame her?

It was bad enough to discover that her husband was having an affair, but to discover that he was cheating with whores, hookers, and escorts was even more degrading.

Adding insult to injury, was her discovering that Tiger was telling these mistresses,  unbeknownst to Elin,  that their marriage was a sham, that he never really loved Elin and loved them more.

WORDS HURT EVEN MORE AND HAVE A LASTING EFFECT

Just knowing that would take its toll on anyone. It is not only feeling betrayed by Tiger’s cheating with which Elin has to deal. It is these words resonating in her head. As time passes, and the more time she spends alone, physically away from  Tiger, these words, no doubt get louder and louder. They resonate deeper and deeper as they burrow into her psyche.

How can she erase the thought that Tiger thought her marriage was a shame when she put so much into it? How can she stop thinking about him telling another woman with whom he was having sex that he loved her more, that he never really loved Elin, or that his marriage to Elin  was a marriage of convenience only?

 How can she ever forget that he told Rachel Uchitel, (who got millions of dollars from Tiger with the help of her attorney  Gloria Allred and who had the nerve to  get upset by Joy Behar’s comment “You ca tell she’s a hooker” as a play on her last name Uchitel) that he loved her more than he loved Elin and wanted to spend the rest of his life with her?  

The answer to these question, is you can’t forget these words. These words are the lasting effects of the affair. Unless there is joint therapy on a regular basis with both parties present a great and qualified therapist that has BOTH your interests at heart in terms of healing your marriage ,this marriage is doomed.

CORE OF THE HURT

No matter if Elin stays for the sake of a) the kids, b) the money c) her wanting to save face, d) her love for Tiger,e) all of the above, or f) any number of the above, the marriage will eventually disintegrate unless these words are addressed and dealt with immediately.

This is the core of the hurt.  While knowing that your husband had sex with another woman is bad , What is worse is hearing or reading the words that your husband loved another woman more than you, that he never really loved you, and that your marriage was a sham, especially after you just produced two beautiful children out of love.

JAIME GRUBBS APPOLOGIZED TO ELIN BUT JAIME  JUNGER REFUSES TO DO SO

Of all the mistresses, hookers, and escorts, the one who showed any humanity thus far was Jaime Grubbs. She was the first to apologize to Elin early on, on national television. Her body language revealed that she felt bad about the whole affair and she showed genuine remorse. Recently she even had a few choice words to say to Tiger with an unflattering label which he clearly deserved.

But escort Jaime   recently refused to apologize to Elin, stating that she had nothing to apologize for. Below are her exact words when asked if she owed Elin an apology.

No, I don’t,” “I feel like that’s his — that’s his business. Everybody makes mistakes. This wasn’t something that I did yesterday or a month ago or a year ago. This was years ago. I was younger. And I’m not saying that what I did then was right. But — I’m certainly not gonna say that it was wrong. … I don’t believe that I owe her an apology.”

Well this certainly reveals a lot about Jaime Junger – an excuse maker who by her comment seems self- righteous, entitled, and heartless.

Perhaps if she saw this Before and After Photo she might change her mind and have some more compassion. It doesn’t matter that if her affair was yesterday, a month or a year ago, or years ago when she was younger. What matters is that she had an affair and that affair hurt another person. When you hurt someone you apologize. The fact that she says she doesn’t owe a person whom she hurt and apology, speaks volumes about Jaime.

While Jaime was the most defiant thus far, except for Grubbs, it speaks volumes  about all the other sex partners. They  were all so quick and eager to gain their 15 minutes of fame,

 (especially Rachel Uchitel wh gained the most- millions, an undeserved apology from Joy Behar, and a photo spread in OK Magazine complete with showing off her nicely decorated home and dogs).  

They were ALL willing to get media attention through paid interviews and/ or  free PR on national shows oe magazines, but yet were not willing to say two very powerful words which could have made a huge difference to Elin- “I’m sorry.” www.drlillianglass.com

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Casey Anthony’s Body Language in Court Reflects Phony Non- Tears, Fake Sniffles, and An Empty Apology

Saturday, January 30th, 2010

 


CASEY’S ENTRANCE
Casey Anthony  entered the courtroom with a nauseating smirk. The smirk and smile did not leave this  sociopath’s face as she looked “excited” to have all the attention focus on her. She was wide-eyed and consistently maintained her smile, as she finally said to Andrea Lyons “I’m excited.”
Even though the sound wasn’t up for anyone to hear, my Utley lip-reading skills that I learned about as an undergraduate speech pathology major, back in the day,  stood me well.
I was able to read Casey’s lips as she mouthed those words, as she smiled all the while. At first, I didn’t believe that I actually read those words on her lips, so I rewound the video. Low and behold, my eyes were not playing tricks on me after all.  She definitely spoke those words. I was even more nauseated and disgusted by Casey Anthony then ever before.
EXCITED ???????EXCITED ABOUT WHAT???
Was Casey EXCITED by the fact :

  1. that she stole money from her  best friend and ran  up her bills and was now on trial for doing that ?

that  she is now a full  fledged felon????
that she is the center of attention?
that she had some lines to memorize, courtesy of “screenwriters” Andrea Lyon and Jose Baez and didn’t want to flub those well rehearsed lines during her verbal  acting debut in court.
that she had her lines down pat and was excited to recite them in court???
All of the above ???
VOCAL “TELL”S OF DECEPTION
When anyone is not being forthright or sincere, you can hear it in their voice.
One of the main “tells” is that pitch of their voice raised, It goes up an octave or two like you just heard in this video when Casey spoke.
Her high-pitched voice was a far “cry” (we’ll get to the crying bit in a moment)) from the lower tones we all heard while she was sending officers on that infamous wild goose chase and when she was telling them about the fictious” Zanny the Nanny.”
Next, when someone is not being sincere or forthright, you hear the voice closing off and cracking. It is the vocal muscles way of shutting itself off from the obvious lie.
THE BODY’S GIVEAWAY COMPLETE WITH UNCONTROLLED HEAD JERK AND GULP

In Casey’s case, you even see this visually. As she speaks a few words, out of the blue, her head jerks itself  back.
In essence it is her body’s visceral reaction to her lies and rehearsed lines and insincerity. You even see her gulp. Her vocal muscles are betraying her and staring to close off as she recites her ”bullshit”  (sorry, if I offended anyone by saying “bullshit” but that is the only word that best describes what was going on here.)
When she says “I take full and complete responsibility”  with her raised eyebrows it is a clear signal of deception and a clear indication that she is saying something she does not believe at all.

When Casey says “I’d like to sincerely apologize to Amy , and wipes away a non tear on her cheek you can see right then and there it is a fake apology.  There was no tear so why was she flicking away a tear before one emerge?
It was because of what came next. Her following rehearsed line was “I wish I would have been a better friend.” Puhleeeeeeez.  Then we see more fake non tears and the book hooing it. The cracking of the voice when she says this shows how the body is closing off as it doesn’t want to speak those lying words.
Casey was only a friend to Casey. Casey only thought about Casey. The only friend Casey could have is a friend she could use, manipulate  and of whom she could take complete advantage.
One more thing, you see a lot of upper chest breathing in this non apology Casey made This is the body working overtime and trying to oxygenate itself. She is” excited” at having to perform and this is her body’s way of trying to maintain a homeostatic balance in the body. It is also an indication that she was clearly not being sincere in what she was saying.
INSINCERE TONE AND FACIAL TELLS
There was no sincerity to her apology as indicated by her voice tone. It sounded like she was asking a question with her upward inflection. Her raised eyebrows indicated that it was new information that her body was processing.
It was foreign to her system and as a result her body language reacted in a questioning manner, complete with raised eyebrows and upward inflection. Her body and her system was not used to this foreign experience  of apologizing or taking  responsibility for anything. This was no doubt the first time she ever did anything like that and it clearly showed in her body language.
JOSE BAEZ LOOKS ON LIKE A PROUD PAPPA AS HE MAKES SURE SHE DOESN’T FLUB HER  LINES
As Casey was reciting her lines of bullshit, Jose Baez’s eyes did not leave Casey’s face. He looked like a proud papa at a grade school play, making sure that his kid didn’t flub her lines. Casey may have memorized her lines and not flubbed them verbally, but she sure flubbed them vocally and body language wise.
LIP PURSING AT THE END OF HER BS REHEARSED SPEECH

Whenever you see someone purse their lips after they tell you something, they are usually lying. It’s the body’s way of closing off.  That is what Casey did. She pursed her lips after her rehearsed lines.
CASEY’S “ SIX STEP BOO HOO RITIUAL” COMPLETE WITH  NON TEARS, NON MUCOUS, FAKE AUDIBLE SNIFFLES, AND HAIR TOUCHING
If listening to Casey’s fake apology wasn’t bad enough, it was even worse having to endure looking  at her obsessive ritualistic behavior in the courtroom with regard to her boo hooing it. Here is what she does:
1 She wipes away non tears either with her finger or with a kleenex
2. There is no facial distress often associated with tears.
3. Then she looks at her finger or her kleenex for non- liquid that comes out of her non- tears.
4. Then she sniffles audibly so that everyone can hear her.
5. Then she dabs the non- mucous and non- liquid from her nose where she makes her fake sniffle noises
6. Then she touches her hair, pats it or flips it.
She  repeats this ritual ad nauseum.
JOSE IS SOOOO OVER CASEY’S FAKE TEARS HE IGNORES HER, BUT ANDREA PLAYS MAMMA HEN
As soon as  Casey sat down after her rehearsed bullshit  apology, Andrea Lyons  acted like the mother hen as she put her arm around Casey. Casey ignored Andrea’s  nurturing and maternal attempts as Casey began her Six Step Boo Hoo Ritual  complete with non tear wiping and tissue examining.

My Utley Lip Reading Skills were used once again as Andrea mouths the words to Casey asking her is she was OK? Casey ignores Andrea and continues her ritual, Andrea asks her again and Casey is way too busy with her ritual to answer. She finally nods her head as if to indicate she is OK after her rehearsed “apology” debut.
Casey’s non- answer speaks volumes. It shows how very much into herself she is and how self- absorbed she is.

Meanwhile Jose could care less. He’s seen it all before. He’s heard it all before. He’s hip to the fake tears  and fake sniffles. He doesn’t even look at her.
At first he used to be very attentive to Casey—maybe too attentive! Now he would never think of comforting her let alone touching her. That’s the last think he needs to deal with in regard to this Casey Case.

There was a point where Jose has his hand on his forehead as if to nonverbally say” how did I get myself into this mess representing this sociopath next to me with her fake tears. I wish she’d stop already. I told her to show some emotion but this is ridiculous already!”
Then Jose’s hand leaves his forehead and his hands now appear on his desk in a lawyerly stance. He back to the reality of defending this miscreant and probably thinking “ What the heck, it’s been good PR for my career. I’ve got to do everything possible to defend her because everyone in the world is watching  me”
CASEY’S ICE FACE

Halfway through the tape around 13.00 you see the real Casey Anthony up close and personal. You see what I call her ICE FACE. There  is no reaction. It is scary to look at. It is devoid of emotion. It is for lack of a better word”creepy.” Her ice face reflects what is really going on inside of her- nothing!
There is no reaction except for some grooming behaviors where she pats her hair or straightens her collar.These grooming behaviors reflect her narcissism and  wanting to look good to others- something sociopaths often do.
CINDY ANYTHONY’S  TEAR WIPING AND LOOKING AT HER OWN HANKIE
The apple does not fall from the tree. Cindy Anthony does the same thing Casey does, except her tears are probably  a bit more real than Casey’s. They may be tears of guilt for letting her sociopathic daughter run her all these years and  stear from her and her own mother (Casey’s grandmother) not putting a stop to Casey’s aberrant  behaviors.
They may be tears of reality that her daughter is now a convicted felon and that this little court date will be a piece of cake compared with what is in store in the murder trial.
The bottom line is that no matter what kind of tears Cindy had, she too examined them just like Casey does.
GEORGE DOESN’T RESPOND TO CINDY’S I LOVE YOU” IN THE COURTROOM
George looked like a miserable mess with puffy eyes so you know his tears were for real.
My Ultey Lipreading Skills came into use once again as Cindy as she mouthed the words to her husband George- “I love you.” He didn’t respond.  He didn’t say I love you too or I love you back, He said nothing and looked ahead.
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OSE BAEZ’ BODY LANGUAGE LEAKED THAT HE DIDN’T BELIEVE CASEY WAS   TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR HER ACTIONS
Watching and hearing Casey speak and watching her fake boo hoos in the courtroom and her  ritualistic behavior were both sickening and maddening.
It was maddening to see the obvious manipulation by the attorneys in making her apologize to Amy for not being a better friend. Puhleeze!

What was even more maddening was when Jose Baez (whom I must admit does look rather dapper and handsome and does try to maintain his professional composure  through his  well spoken sonorous voice)  spoke to reporters outside the courtroom. He  continued his manipulation as the cameras were pointed at him. But no matter how clever or convincing he thought he was being, he clearly leaked out his true thoughts and feelings  the end.
As his final words said that Casey’s apology showed that she was taking responsibility for her actions, his head shook ‘NO” when it should have been nodding “YES ” in the affirmative. So Jose’s body language betrayed him. It revealed that he knows very well  that sociopaths NEVER take responsibility for their actions.
He knows very well that he put those  words of apology  in her mouth for her to regurgitate.
While Casey  may have regurgitated  his words, no matter how many times she rehearsed them, her body language and voice spoke the truth! Her apology was insincere and contrived! www.drlillianglass.com

 

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