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Kim Kardashian’s Botoxed Facial Language Alienating People?

Tuesday, December 27th, 2011

Look at Kim  Kardashiasn’s facial expression.  She is sitting on Santa’s lap and is supposed to be happy. But her facial expression says something entirely different. While her lips are parted and teeth are  teeth showing to indicate a  smile, there is something odd about the lip area as there is  no muscle movement seen. When you smile, there is muscle  movement in the lower jaw and at the side of the lips .

In this photo taken earlier in Kim’s life, you can see what I am talking about. There is a slight lower jaw tension and lines at the sides. The naso-labial folds course downwards as they should be. She looks natural and engaging.

But now there is none of that.In addition absolutely no other facial movement in her Santa photo. Her upper face is essentially frozen in a manaquin like position.

In a normal genuine smile there would be a crinkling of the forehead  and definite crinkling around the eyes  or some slight wrinkling under the eyes. But in the Santa photo you see none of that which makes her look wax-like. While she is pretty, there is an unnatural  non-human quality to the look.

Asa body language expert it is disturbing , because you cannot read anything from Kim’s face other than BOTOX. I am not sure Kim has used botox as I haven’t seen anyone shoot it into her face. But in my view, it sure looks like she has been heavy on the syringe lately.

Personally I find the natural look (wrinkles and crinkles) more beautiful  in people. There is nothing wrong with plastic surgery or  enhancing your appearance in my view. But there is a lot wrong when it interferes with your nonverbal facial  communication.

The repercussions are that people tend to turn off to you and they don’t relate to you. Facial expression and body movement are essential for good communication, especially of you want to relate to others. That is why I am not a fan of Botox.

Back in the day, Botox was used on patients who had vocal cord problems and muscle spams in the vocal cords where they could not speak without loosing their voices mid sentences. In that case Botox was a good thing.

It has also been used with cerebral palsy patients to release the muscle constrictions. In fact, I know of a prson who has cerebral pasley who uses Botox for this purpose and it is now difficult to tell if she has Cerebral Palsey as the Botox helped her previously uncontrolled head movement.

But when too much Botox is used to eliminate facial activity it is a bad thing in my view. While Kim’s wedding was a joke as you could tell it was not genuine from  her body language,  fans have rebelled. They have even called  to boycott Kim and the Kardashians all together. But perhaps  they may be rebelling  against Kim in particular for an additional reason as well. Perhaps they can no longer relate to Kim. Perhaps they  find her lack of facial animation unrelatable and a turn off.

Her monotone, nasal, non animated voice matches her now matches  non animated face and that is a very bad thing in terms of image, like ability and relate-ability.

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Omar Sharif’s Toxic Body Language Typical of An Abusive Man

Friday, October 28th, 2011

When I saw the video of icon and leading man heartthrob back in the day, Omar Sharif of Dr. Zhivago fame ,I was beyond shocked. He abusively slapped  a woman simply because she wanted to have her photo taken with him. It was appalling. What was more appalling was looking at the video frame by frame and seeing how he gets enraged, slaps her, goes off on her, feels guilty about it, tries  to make nice but he is still  angry as he considers her the catalyst  for making him angry.

Meanwhile, like many abused women, she smiles through it all an accepts it. But the smile is tense and a smile of embarrassment.  Her body language reveals fear. As he tries to make nice, she backs off. He agrees to take a photo with her but his body language shows that he still habors resentment towards her.

Several years ago a study was done which showed women in Qatar tend to overlook when they are abused. That is devatsating news. The woman Sharif slapped seems to demonstrate this .

Below are the shocking series of events.

Sharif’s body language shows he is enraged  as he slaps this poor woman and yells at her that she needed to wait her turn to have her photo taken with him.

The woman fears him and his rage as she holds up her hand defensively.

The woman smiles and continues to smile throughout the ordeal.This is typical of abused women who may believe that they “deserved” it. No one deserves this kind of treatment-EVER!

He continues to berate her.He gestures wildly to ask her what he was thinking. All she did was try to get a photo with  him. An Egyptian, Sharif is considered one of the biggest  Middle Eastern  actors of all time. So for this woman to get a little excited and perhaps not wait her turn to get his photo is understandable.

He continues to berate this poor woman unmercifully. It is so embarrassing that the woman standing next to him who is most likely a handler bows her hed in shame as she wears an ambivalent smile.

Sharif now has a sudden change of heart as he realizes what he has done in front of the cameras. Can you imagine what this Toxic man must do when there are no cameras present ?

You can actually see him thinking about what he just did as the expression on his face  dramatically changed. His handler on the right has now distanced herself from Sharif as she looks downa nd away. Meanwhile the abuse victim continues to wear a mask like smile of embarrassment in order to save face..

As he has second thoughts as to what he did he bows his head in sham and walks over in the slapped woman’s direction. The photographer in the corner appears to be nervously amused and surprised . Hence the tense  ambivalent smile. He wonders what Sharif will do and whether there will be some more berating or slapping.

He comes over to her and this time the abuse victim cannot even beaar to look at him as she holds up her hand with the palm of her hand showing in an defensive gesture. He looks at her with hate and disdain. She creates a barrier between them with her hand as she looks away , yet continues her ambivalent smile. In essence she is guarding herself from another potential slap and or verbal abuse from Sharif.

He tried to “make up” by allowing her to have a phot with him. She obliges as that is what she wanted in the first place. She continues smiling her mask like smile as she did throughout the entire ordeal.  Meanwhile he turns his body away during this photo op as he really doesn’t want to have his photo taken with her but he does it to make himself feel better in trying to right his wrong in slapping her.

He now turns to look at her and says something in Arabic which causes her  to have a genuine smile. Look at the crinlking around her eyes. It is no longer mask like. She is  clearly taken aback as you can see by her retracted chin. This leads me to believe he may have even apologized to her. This is tyoical behavior of so many abusers. They las.h out, feel guilty and try to make things right.

Now they get ready to pose for the photographer. The woman is back to her mask like smile. He leans in for the phoo and looks at her to see how she is reacting to all of this. There is a look of  remorse  on his face  as he leans into her and looks directly at her. She does not look at him. Instead she looks in the direction of the photograher. Even though she has a slight smile on her lips, her eyes reflect sadness.

The photo is snapped and the woman is elated. Here she wears a genuine smile. It was a huge price to pay, but she finally got what she wanted- a photo of her with Omar Sharif. He leans in but does NOT smile. He is not happy with himself that he acted like a complete jerk for the world to see. His hunched over shoulders show embarrassment,  He feels even worse that this woman seems so happy now that the photo is taken, despite her slap.

The woman is so pleased and says thank you to him several times. In true Toxic Man form he turns away from he  and doesn’t even acknowledge her  thank you. He can’t wait to get away fast enough.

This is HORRIBLE! He is lucky the slap took place in Quatar. had it happened in the US, this woman would be very rich and he would be facing criminal charges as he would be hauled off to jail.

Having written the book Toxic Men which was released last year, I can assure you that Sharif shows all the characteristics of an abusive man. Here we all saw it frame after frame. Having seen the real Omar Sharif, there is no way I would even consider viewing any film he was in. This image of him slapping a woman is in my mind forever and that is the image I would see every time he would come on the screen for his acting scene.

This incident shows up a lot. It shows us how we idolize people for no good reason. We idolize them simply because they were in a film or on TV or they played well in a sport we like. If we admire and look up to  someone we should know a lot more about them-like their character. Apparently this was no an isolated incident.

Apparently Sharif has a long history of  getting physically abusive  with people  . In fact less than a decade ago, he attacked a policeman in a Paris casino and four years back, he pleaded no contest to” misdemeanor battery” for beating up a Beverly Hills parking attendant.

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Casey Anthony’s New Look And Body Language and Seriousness of Judge Perry

Sunday, May 22nd, 2011

It seems that Jose Baez and the defense team may be taking my blogs to heart when it comes to Casey as there has been a dramatic change in Casey both dress wise and in her courtroom body language and demeanor.  

There has been a dramatic shift in her appearance from Day 1 to Day 11. 

From an image point  view Casey looks  much better in the black pants complete with matching black flat ballet type shoes. It gives her a more mature look. The black top underneath with the ruffles work. Image wise it says a lot. Black speaks of mourning. Even if she isn’t mourning for Caylee, she is mourning for herself and that at least keeps it real.

If she wore  a black suit jacket with the blouses she has underneath them it would be a sign of respect on her part and  would also distance her from the party girl image.

 Her hair also looked much better – away from her face and de-Snookied. She looked serious and ready to face her jurors without a manipulative baby style that would subconsciously anger jurors.

Casey deserves a fair trial and if she keeps dressing as she did when the jurors were sworn in, along with a black jacket to go with her black pants, I believe she is  more likely to get that fair trial. As she keeps it real, the jury can focus on what is really important and not be prejudiced by her look or appearance or, behavior.

On day one, Casey cried like a baby and she didn’t look at the jurors. Whether Jose said or didn’t say to Casey to not act like a two year old, the bottom line is that she got it that the baby behavior would not be tolerated by him. As a result she bucked up.

As the jurors were being sworn in, she looked  directly at  all of them and she didn’t cry.  But, it  may be too little too late for some of the jurors who  may remember their first impression of her of not  looking at them.

This time around, her behavior was appropriate. She looked directly at the jurors. The reality of her situation began to  set in.

The only time she flinched a bit was when she rose and  they walked out of the jury room. She could see concrete evidence that these 12 people had her life in their hands.

She also seemed a lot more comfortable, once again sitting  between Mason and Baez.

 The outburst at the trial by the woman who was mentally ill  appeared to surprise  Casey as it did everyone else. The woman was lucky that she just got 2 days in jail instead of the 179 days. The whole incident was sad and sickening to watch, especially as she nervously  plead her case to Judge Perry. She obviously had no business  being in the courtroom.

Personally I thought she should have just been admonished and pay a fine because of her condition. I felt sorry for her especially when she was up there terrified and shaking and couldn’t speak. But no doubt Judge Perry felt he had to make an example of her. After all, she did  a really bad thing which could have done irreparable harm  to the case. It seems that due to her condition and medications she may not have her filters working well so she burst out whatever was on her mind.

Maybe this incident will help her to get more sorted out in her life. No doubt someone in the media will interview her after she gets out of jail and perhaps pay her  for an interview or  even give her a licensing fee for photos of her  two year old Apparently  it has been reported that the  Anthony’s  have  made money this way-selling photos of Caylee to the media.

Maybe  the press will spin the story as the ” outburster”  being  a sympathetic character who couldn’t contain her own emotions because she too was a mother of a 2 year old and could never hurt her child. So  there may silver lining for her after all.

 ATTENDING THE CASEY ANTHONY TRIAL AT YOUR OWN RISK

What  happened in the courtroom was a preview of  what could happen to anyone sitting  in the audience. If  citizen, a   journalist or reporter whispers or makes any comments that can be heard  or  makes facial expressions, they could not only be booted out of the courtroom, they could be fined and sentenced as well. If  you come to the trial,  it is  at your own risk. So mind your behavior.

Judge Perry already warned about people in the gallery making facial expressions when witness testimony would be given. That particularly applies to George and Cindy who requested being in the courtroom throughout the trial, even though they were both witnesses as well.

Early on, George  had  been seen shaking his head “no” and mugging and smirking “ when Yuri Melich was on the stand. If he pulls that behavior again, Judge Perry will not stand for it. If he does it, we may very well see George getting thrown out of the courtroom, admonished, fined, and perhaps  sentenced as well. The same applies to Cindy as well.It may be  especially very very hard for her to contain herself as she hears Jose and his team throw her and George and Lee under the bus for being such poor parents.

Judge Perry does not want this overt expression because he does not want the jury to be influenced in any way.

 

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Autopsy Photos of Caylee Marie May Shock Cindy, George, and Lee Anthony Into Reality So They Stop Defending Casey

Tuesday, April 12th, 2011

 

The prosecution filed a motion to include images of babay  Caylee Anthony’s remains.When a jury sees them, Casey will no  be sentenced to death in my view (unless of course there is a someone on the jury who will be the lone holdout because they have a crush on her).

That is the only thing that concerns me  and makes me wish I was doing jury selection for the prosecution.

If Cindy sees the autopsy photos of Caylee,  perhaps she will finally   stop saying that she thinks Caylee is still alive.

These  photos will give her the reality check she so desperately needs. They may  help her to get in touch with her real feelings towards Casey and out of denial.

She will no doubt hate Casey for getting back at her by killing Caylee so that she couldn’t have Caylee.  While Cindy  should hate herself for pushing her aberrant daughter over the edge by saying I will throw you out and keep Caylee, she is too narcissistic and controlling and self-absorbed to be that introspective in my view.

Like Casey, Cindy  has shown that she loves all the media attention and has tries to manipulate it to her end since day one.

The photos may  also  shock her into reality in terms of her  being such a “stubborn mule”  and not trying to locate her allegedly beloved Caylee.   Cindy  had never been away from Cayleee for that long- 31 days But to show Casey a thing or two, Cindy’s  pride got in the way. She refused to try and contact Casey,  thinking that it is Casey who needs to come crawling back home and apologize , not Cindy.

Well Casey did come back home  31 days later,  without Caylee. If Cindy had not been so stuck on being prideful and stubborn,  perhaps Caylee might still be alive.

George needs to see the autopsy photos to stop defending Casey and realize what a she devil he spawned or created, especially if he sexually molested her, as Casey  has repeatedly claimed.

If he sexually molested Casey or Caylee for that matter,  he needs to rot in hell. He needs to never show his face in the courtroom unless he is the defendant for his alleged egregious acts.

If  he did not molest Casey as she said, then these photos will shake him up so much that he will see how evil Casey is and how she has no soul.

He will see that she coldly killed her baby and coldly accused her own father of molesting her, especially  if it is not true. That is when he should never show up in court except to on the  last day to hear the words” Guilty” and “Sentenced to Death by Lethal Injection or Electric Chair.

Whether or not he molested her, those explicit photos will shake him to the bone in terms of  how he non- parented Casey, and let her get away with so much. Casey’s words “Act like a father for the first time in your life” will resonate loudly when she sees those autopsy photos.

Lee needs to see the photos  as well. He needs to see what CMA, the sister he loves so much in every way did to an innocent soul. He needs to get that he can’t play two sides of the fence and coöperate with Law enforcement for his own selfish needs to become a PI and then sit in a courtroom and inappropriately mouth the words” I love you, like some star-crossed lover.

If he  actually molested Casey  as she said  on numerous occasions. he needs to see how his actions contributed to her deviant actions.

And of course Casey needs to see it. These images need to be etched into her brain forever. She needs to see what she  allegedly did  to this innocent baby.She needs to see the actual fruits of her labor.

When Casey  last saw Caylee, Caylee has skin on her body and was a whole intact person. She also last saw Caylee with duct tape over her nose and mouth.

Now Casey can see how Caylee’s body morphed into bones and a skull with hair with the  duct tape over what used to be Caylee’s nose and mouth, but are now only bones.

Of course Casey  will cry,  but not for Caylee.  Instead, she will cry because she got busted and is now in big trouble. She will cry because of what Caylee did to her by messing up her life and being born in the first place.

Caylee will never accept responsibility for Caylee’s death. A sociopath she can only blame others and can never look at themselves. They are not capable of feeling remorse or guilt.

We will no doubt see some crocodile tears or a look of anger when Casey views Caylee’s remains.But rest assured that we will never see remorse, or genuine emotion for anyone other than Casey.

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Dr. Lillian Glass 2010 Ten Top Favorite and Inspiring Gifts

Monday, December 27th, 2010

With  Christmas over and the New Year approaching, it is time for me to look back on this year and to reflect on what were some of my best gifts. These best  gifts  are  my happiest  moments for which I am so grateful. As you will see from my list, the gifts of communication, being able to express myself, and being proactive, are some of the most important gifts for which I am grateful. Here is my list for 2010:

 1. The gift of Truth and Justice and the knowledge that  the American Justice system works as I  won a copyright infringement trial against Marsha Petrie Sue who not only copied my materials word for word but who also had the audacity to call her 2007 book Toxic People, the same name as my 1995 book Toxic People.  It was the best gift in the world to see that people like her cannot get away with this and that they must be held accountable for their actions and that everyone must know it.

2.  The next gift was  the enormous outpouring of the  public response, support  and touching comments of how I inspired so many people by going the distance and  fighting for my rights against people like Marsha Petrie Sue who take what you created and claim it as their own and how it inspired them to fight for their rights as well. The gift of their beautiful words are forever in my heart .

  3. The   powerful and healing words Eric Bjorgum,  my wonderful intellectual property attorney so  eloquently spoke in the US Federal courtroom is another gift I will carry with me forever.

 4. The gift of seeing how many people have already been impacted by reading my TOXIC MEN book is also a huge gift to me. The moving feedback of so many readers along with the support of Patti Stanger, BRAVO’s Millionaire Matchmaker, Dr. Laura,  Dr. Robi Ludwig,  and  Robin Sax, and of course  SNOOKI have meant so much to me.

 5.The gift of working with Nancy Grace and being a regular contributor  to her HLN show as well as to her Swift Justice Show. Being around Nancy  Grace, a woman with a mission who’s dedication to justice and to helping crime victims continues to inspire me.

6.  The gift of working with Adams Media and F and S Publications and  in particular the  wonderful people who have been so supportive of me and  my books and allowing me the forum to express myself so that I can get my message across to others.

 7.The gift of being able to regularly  express my thoughts and share my knowledge throughout the media from having my own body language column in Cosmopolitan Magazine to appearing  as a resident body language expert on such shows as  Millionaire Matchmaker and Dr. Phil as well as other television, radio , magazine, and internet outlets on a regular basis. I count my blessing daily.

 8. The gift of giving back is one of the things for which I am most grateful. Every week my family members and I travel around town to find those in need and provide them with a few things which can make their lives a little easier on the streets , from fresh warm blankets, to warm socks,  and tee shirts and sweats . Seeing bright eyes and smiles on faces that haven’t smiled for a long  time,  makes life worth living and is the best gift I can ever receive.

 9. The gift of new friends who seem like old friends ( ie.  Michael, Cat, Deborah,  Ree, Lois, Art, Jim, Steve,) and my old friends who have been renewed ( ie. Jan and Dave,  Reba, Martha, Elis, Chopsey, David,  Bob and  Stacy,  Susan, Shar , Ilsa, Robert, Teri, Nancy,  Donna , Jennifer,  Gloria, Rolanda, Carrie,  Mark, Bob, Phyllis, Suzy  Connie, Chris, Donna, Katiem Kerry,  Janet Victor David W, Motty, Shadoe, Brian, John, Gail)    and to FB for now allowing me to keep in touch.  I am grateful for all of my FB friends and friends on Twitter and most of all my very close and special  friends who add to the beauty of my life.

 10.And last but not least I am grateful for the gifts that my beautiful family has given me throughout my life and continues to give me- their  integrity, honesty, sincerity, continued love and support which I truly cherish.

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    Did Ronni Chasen’s Agressive Communication and Body Language Anger Someone Who May Have Murdered Her?

    Wednesday, December 1st, 2010

    The question on most people’s minds in the entertainment industry as well as those who live or work in Beverly Hills is who killed publicist Ronni Chasen and why?  Was she specifically targeted or is everyone in danger in Beverly Hills?

    CRIME LIKE THIS DOES NOT HAPPEN IN BEVERLY HILLS

    In a town where there is little crime and no murders in 2009,  people are very frightened and on edge.  The reason people are so spooked is because there is little to no crime here. That is due to the Beverly Hills Police Department, who is next to none. They are the crème de la crème.

    They watch this town like a hawk with surveillance cars and constant patrolling and monitoring. If they are called for any 911 emergency, they will promptly be at the scene within 60 to 150 seconds. So that is all the more reason people are freaked out by what happened to Ronni Chasen.

    POSSIBLE THEORIES FLOATING AROUND AS TO WHY RONNI WAS MURDERED

    There have been many theories floating around as to the motive of killing Ronni Chasen from

    a) a gang initiation

    b) a professionally jealous colleague jealous of her successful Oscar campaigns

    c) someone whom she leaked bad press about to media outlets that cost them a relationship or a business deal

    d) someone who wanted to stop her from doing her job,  which was to create publicity campaigns in an attempt to persuade the judges of film awards like The Oscars to choose her clients above the rest which would result in big money

    e) gambling debts and refusing to pay up

    f) someone whom she cut off in traffic six minutes before she was killed because she was talking on her cell phone and leaving a “to do list” on the other end while perhaps not paying attention to the road

    g) an art deal gone wrong

    h) a mob killing linked to investors on one of her many movies

    i) a psychopathic serial killer on the loose

    j)        a disgruntled  former client

    k)        a disgruntled  former employee or housekeeper

    j) someone whom she snubbed, disrespected,  humiliated,  belittled or  screamed and yelled at because they didn’t do  what she wanted or do things her way

    PR PRAISES ABOUT RONNI FROM THE TOP OF THE LINE PR PROS

    When it was first in the press that Ronni has been murdered  only her fellow PR colleagues like top of the line veteran PR people like Paul Bloch, Stan Rosenfeld, Howard Bragman, and Michael Levine spoke out and sang her praises in true Hollywood PR fashion.

    They  stated  that she was the sweetest woman alive and that everyone loved her and she had no enemies. Powerful Hollywood journalist Nikki Finke spoke  lovingly and kindly as did other journalists who were interviewed.

    But as the days have passed, while her clients have also  attempted to say positive things   about her in the press, they also  managed to  leaked out another side to Ronni’s persona that may give us some insight into her personality which may have alienated the wrong person.

    THE OTHER SIDE OF RONNI REVEALED BY FRIENDS AND COLLEAGUES

    Here are some  other revealing comments and descriptions  from her clients, friends  and colleagues:

    She was persistent” Peter Hamond

    doggedly determined”person Eddie Kalish

    “She was known for her “fast-talking, old school, New York aggressiveness on behalf of her clients and was not a person one quickly forgot after meeting. Peter Goldstein

    Songwriter Diane Warren paints a picture of a publicist who was determined to get what she wanted and who was  ”fiercely protective” of her clients.

    When it came to Ronni getting a photo op with celebrities Diane reported  Ronni said” “(Chasen) goes, ‘I don’t care what I have to do – I’m getting that picture,’ ” Warren explains. “That was Ronni — she had something she wanted to do… and she got that picture.” “She really cared, her clients were like family to her,” says Warren. “She’d tell you what to do and people listened to her.”

    At her funeral service her  turbocharged drive in a segment of the business never known for the faint of heart was mentioned. Eulogists all described Chasen’s forceful personality.

    At the funeral service her close friend Vivian Mayer-Siskind’s seemingly lighthearted comment  about Ronni revealed even more about her and her personality that some would not find so  appealing as she said “Ronni came to me last night and was pissed as hell. ‘Now you get me a free Armani suit.’

    Perhaps the most revealing insight into Ronni Chasen;s personality came from Producer Irwin Winkler of Rocky fame who said that when his 2004 film “De-Lovely” was not nominated for a Golden Globe, Chasen “was furious.”

    “She screamed and yelled at (members of) the Hollywood Foreign Press (Assn.),” the group that puts on the annual awards show, Winkler told The Times.

    While she may have been consistently pleasant to her friends and colleagues  and  described as fiercely protective over her  clients who clearly  paid her large amounts of money, the real question is  how was she to others who were not  A list paying stars or movie studio executives?

    DID SHE YELL AND SCREAM AT THE WRONG PERSON?

    While friends colleague and clients may have appreciated her being pushy and having too much chutzpah,  and sense of entitlement, traits that obviously work in Hollywood,  perhaps there were others who were equally so put off with her  relentless behavior, that they may have found her  to be one of the most Toxic People.

    When someone yells and screams at others like Irwin Winkler  reported Ronni  did to the Hollywood Foreign press because her client didn’t get nominated for an award,  it makes you wonder about who else she yelled at because she didn’t get her way or get what she wanted.

    Did she scream and yell at the wrong person? Did she humiliate them? Did they harbor such ill feelings  towards her and allow them to fester to the point  they wanted her dead? Did they hate her that much that they took their fantasy of wanting her dead and turned  it a reality by driving up to her car  and shooting her five times in the chest?

    SHOOTING SOMEONE 5 TIMES IN THE CHEST SIGNIFIES SEVERE HATRED TOWARDS THE PERSON

    Apparently she had been shot while traveling to her home in Westwood  after attending the premiere of Burlesque, a new film starring Cher, and an after-party at the W hotel. The person or people who shot her obviously had such disdain for her that they shot her in the chest not one time- but five times.

    That screams of hatred and rage. In a random drive by shooting there would usually be one shot. But for someone to keep their finger on the trigger and shoot five times, it means they were  furious with her. They wanted to make sure she was dead!

    While we know that the shooting was from one car to another, as of today there are still no suspects, no motive, no witnesses according to Beverly Hills Police Department Lt. Tony Lee.  So the mystery remains.

    The one thing that gives hope  in solving this tragedy is that the well respected  Beverly Hills Police Department is on top of it and they will leave no stone unturned until the killer or killers of Ronni Chasen  are found.www.drlillianglass.com

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    Casey Anthony’s Body Language Showed Her Tears Were Fake in Court

    Wednesday, July 21st, 2010

    FAKE NON TEARS FOR CASEY

    Contrary to news reports which stated that Casey Anthony  cried in court, my intensive  body language observations were that Casey did NOT  cry in court . Sociopaths are incapable of real tears. Since Casey is a sociopath in my view, she did not cry any  real tears.

     News accounts said that Casey broke down as soon as her brother Lee took the stand. But that was not the case at all. Her facial expression  especially her mouth, did not indicate a person who was sad or grieving or crying.

    As you can see in the photo above she is wiping a way a non- tear. Her facial expressions consistently do not show the mouth and eye movement that is present when a person is truly crying.

    But before  I discuss Casey’s reactions  when when her mother Cindy took the stand and her reactions when Lee took the stand, I want to discuss her courtroom demeanor in general

    A HAPPY SMILING CASEY ENTERS THE COURTROOM

    While Jose Baez has apparently done a good job in coaching her to stop the laughing and smiling, her smirks still manage to leak out as you can see in the photo below when she entered the courtroom .

    Maybe she is smiling and smirking because she is so happy to get out of her jail cage where she has to remain 23 hours a day.

    Maybe she is smiling and smirking because as a   self consumed  narcissist, she gets to have all eyes focusing on her and that makes her happy.

    But in my view one of her major reasons for her genuine smile is that she  is  about to take her seat at the defendant’s and  gets to sit next to her crush and attorney- Jose Baez.

    UNBUTTONING THE BUTTONS, SHOWING SOME SKIN AND SEX APPEAL

    There is no question in my mind,  now that her former death penalty attorney Andrea Lyon is no longer in the picture and  forcing her to wear those   unsexy ruffly clothing  she hated, Casey is now dressing with  Baez in mind.

    Now there is a sexier look as she is now longer buttoned up. She is now showing a lot more flesh as she unbuttons her blouse to show Jose that she still has it. She still has cleavage and still  wants him to know that she has sex appeal.

    But at this point, Jose could care less . The only thing he is focusing on is keeping afloat and doing his best to adequately represent this aberrant creature.  He has no interest in her or her cleavage or her sex appeal.

    The only interest he has is doing everything possible so she won’t get a lethal needle. For the most part he comes across collected and in control, but there are times where he  is overwhelmed and his nervous energy leaks out  in his body language.

    We can often  see his finger tapping and pen tapping, and fidgeting. He moves around a lot physically.  But in  listening to Cindy’s testimony,   Jose was  clearly  uncomfortable  body language wise. We  saw evidence of a dry mouth and snake like side to side   lip licking as seen below.

    This  indcated that his mouth was dry and he was no doubt feeling  a bit unsettled  and uncomfortable.

    But Jose is not the only one showing nervousness and discomfort as she listened to Cindy;s testimony .Veteran attorney Cheny Mason was taken aback as well. He appeared to be very concerned , I have no doubt that he was wondering what in the world he was going to do in order to try and defend the sociopathic mess sitting next to him. He furrows his brow and covers his mouth, which indicates that he has no words to express  what he just heard from Cindy.

    He  he has no idea what to say or do as he is speechless. When a person places their hands or fingers  over their mouth,  it indicates that they are  speechless and don’t know what to say.

    Note the contrast in Casey’ demeanor. She looks blank as if she was listening to a benign weather report as she listeed to her mother .

    As the proceeding progressed, Cheney Mason’s body language did not change much from his hand over his mouth position .

     But there was a time as you can see in the photo above that is finger landed in his mouth. This indicated that he was flabbergasted by what he heard. His even more furrowed brow shows extreme concern as to how in the world he was going to defend Casey.

    His rounded shoulders showed submission and that he was humbled after listening to the 911 tape. 

    His body language was a far cry from the  cocky Cheney Mason with squared shoulders and an arrogance  when  he said that he and Casey  would walk out of the courtroom arm in arm with Casey a free woman. After getting more involved inthecase    I doubt Cheney feels the same way he did when he first began the case.

    CASEY’S REACTION WHEN CINDY WAS ON THE STAND

    When Cindy  was on the stand Casey  could care less. There was no outward reaction whatesoever. However, there was a lot more hair grooming than usual as you can see below.

    Casey repeated hair grooming in her mother’s presence clearly  reflected her insecurities about her physical appearance .

     We know that Cindy has put a premium on Casey’s looks, telling her how beautiful she looks in her jailhouse letters to Casey. So Casey’s grooming is no doubt an automatic reaction towards making  sure she looks “beautiful”  in front of her mother  Cindy.

    CASEY’S  STICKING HER FINGERS IN HER EYES AND NON TEARS WHEN LESS WAS ON THE STAND


    As soon as Lee hit the stand and obnoxiously and inappropriately he words mouthed the words “  I love you”  to his sister who twice accused him of sexually molesting her, Casey began to stick her finger in her eye in an attempt to draw liquid int the form of a tear.

    Jose Baez put his arm around her as of to comfort her. In reality, it   was in my view  to encourage her  fake boo hooing in an attempt to make her look more human than the automaton emotionless freak of nature that she appears to be.

    As you see int he photo above, Casey’s fingers are curved in a claw like fashion. The positioning of her fingers are not the position fingers should be in when a person is wiping away their tears. Instead, the fingers should be flat as the tears

    are wiped away.

    In this photo above we clearly see Casey sticking her finger inside her eye in an attempt to cause irritation of the eye and cause the eye  to tear.

    Casey not only uses her fingers, she uses her thumb as well. Here she is sticking her thumb into her eye in an attempt to casue irriation and elicit redness as well as a tear.

    CASEY’S FAKE CRYING RITUAL

    Cheney Mason hands her a Kleenex. She then tried to fold the Kleenex. Note that she is focused on the Kleenex. There is no crying facial expression, which indicates that Casey must have trouble doing two things at the same time -crying and folding a Kleenex.

    She attempts to wipe a non tear. She misses and wipes the non year off of the bridge of her nose. Once again, note the non crying facial expression.

    Then she wipes the other non teary eye  with the Kleenex.

    In summary,  first she wipes a non tear on one side and then wipes another non tear on the other side.  It;s all ridiculous as no one cries  and tears one eye at a time . When people genuinely cry. they cry with both eyes at the same time, not one at a time as Casey’s behavior reflects.

    Then she looks at the non tear on her hankie.

     Then she grooms her hair one side and then grooms the other side. When someone is that distraught, the last thing they are thinking about is how their hair looks.

    BROTHER AND SISTER SHARE A CHUCKLE

    Besides brother Lee Anthony’s inappropriate  mouthing  of “I love you” to his sister who twice  accused him of sexually molesting her. another sickening thing to witness was their shared smiles chuckles at the expense of Cheney Mason and his hearing aid issues.

    When Lee didn’t focus on Cheney Mason’s question,  he attempted to make  a joke by saying that there was static  is his ears too. He proudly laughed at his own joke.

    Sister Casey was also  enjoying the laugh as well,  as you can  see in the photo below.

    Casey is clearly enjoying Lee’s attempt at a joke as she smiles, while at the same time tries not to show her repaired dental work. This speaks to her vanity and narcissism. She stifles her  laugh and smile,  only  because she is self conscious of her dental condition. The fact that she is laughing at all is very disturbing to me .

    There is absolutely NOTHING funny about the fact that she is in this courtroom. She always  needs to be reminded  that she is there for the fight of her  life.She always needs to be reminded that she is there because the state believes she murdered her innocent daughter.

    She always needs to be reminded  that if she loses that fight and gets the lethal needle, it will not feel very pleasant.

    Jose Baez needs to stop coddling her and give her a sober reality check concerning her courtroom behavior.

    He needs to tell her that she will be scrutinized from every angle by the jurors and they will be taking everything she does very seriously. He needs to tell her that if she  wants a fair trial she needs to take everything that goes on in the courtroom very seriously  and wipe off any smirks or smiles for good.

    And while he is at it, Jose  needs to tell her to stop the boo hooing it. It’s not working and  people see through it. It’s fake and odd looking. While at first glance she may look like she is crying , if a jury is stuck looking at her for weeks and notices her every move and every nuance of her behavior, they will pick up on how fake it is. It does not elicit pity for her. In fact is has the opposite effect. It makes her even more disliked and even hated.

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    Joran Van Der Sloot’s Psych Tests Reveal His Sociopathy, Violence, and Disdain for Women, As He Claims He Was Forced to Confess And Continues to Play “Victim”

    Tuesday, June 22nd, 2010

    First and foremost the results of Joran van der Sloot’s psychological tests have been made public. Some of the results reveal that he has a hair trigger temper, doesn’t value women, has many anti social behaviors, can only make superficial relationships, has no empathy and feelings towards others, and is narcissistic .

    All of his behaviors scream that he is a Sociopath.

    HOW WAS JORAN TRICKED INTO SIGNING A CONFESSION WHEN  IT WAS ALL VIDEOTAPED?

    Now  Joran van der Sloot  claims he was tricked into confessing to Stephany Flores’ murder. He says  that  the Peruvian authorities told him that if he signed the papers they gave him, he would be transferred to the Netherlands.

    If  what he is saying is true( and I doubt it), then the  Peruvians may have given lying Joran a taste of his own medicine.

    All he has done over the past 5 years is lie about Natalie Holloway. If they did happen to tell him that he would be deported back to the Netherlands if he signed the confession that he made all by himself, then I say,  good for them.

    In truth, I doubt they told him this for a number of reasons. First of all everything was captured on video and secondly they did not have the authority to extradite him to the Netherlands as Peru and the Netherlands do not have that type of an agreement.

    Joran tells the Dutch newspaper   Da Telegraaf, “In my blind panic I signed everything, but never knew what was written on them.”

    That is another ridiculous lie out of Joran’s mouth. Of course he knew what was written on them. We saw him taking his time during the confession and reading everything slowly and carefully  before he signed anything.  If he didn’t understand something in the confession, the Peruvians  also had someone from the Dutch embassy available to translate it for him

    WHY DOESN’T JORAN EXPLAIN “NOW”  INSTEAD OF “LATER “?

    “I was tricked,” the paper quoted Van der  Sloot as saying of Flores’ killing. “I’ll explain later how it all happened.” Of course he will explain “later” because he needs time in his criminally sick mind to make up a plasuble sounding story.

    When people tell you they will “ tell you later”, it usually means they  need the time to think about what lies they are going to make up.

    PERU IS NOT GOING TO PLAY JORAN’S GAMES

    Joran  may have toyed with Aruban authorities by  his giving and  and retracting admissions concerning his involvement in Holloway’s disappearance. But the Peruvians will not stand for it as we are witnessing.

    Attorney Maximo Altez  who said van der Sloot’s statement in court will focus on how his rights were violated during the investigation. In my view, he  is barking up the wrong tree . Peruvian police have defended the interrogation and said van der Sloot’s confession was acquired legally.

    And far as rights go, where were Stefany’s rights? Those rights- especially  her right to life- was clearly violated.

    JORAN’S POOR JUDGMENT IN NOT SPEAKING TO THE JUDGE

    So for now, Joran has refused to speak to the judge about the case until it is determined if he confessed with his rights intact.

    I believe what he said in his confession was accurate in terms of how he killed Stefany. I believe that her injuries via the  autopsy reports will no doubt validate everything  he said.

    I do not believe  for a moment that Stefany used his computer  and looked at his email without permission as to the reason why he killed her.

    Wouldn’t she need a password to get into his email account?  I   believe the killed her because  she refused to have sex with him. Otherwise why would she have been found with her jeans off?

    I believe that Joran’s not speaking to the judge wil result in a harsher sentence for him. He needed to admit what he did and take responsibility for his actions.

    LIKE MOST SOCIOPATHS JORAN SEES HIMSELF AS THE PERPETUAL VICTIM

    We can see Joran’s classic  sociopathology  clearly at work  here as he makes himself out to be the poor victim  who was forced to sign the confession of  words which he manufactured which only  came out of his own  mouth.

    The Peruvian authorities didn’t put those words in Joran’s mouth. Joran put them there himself.

    Joran also wants you to feel sorry for him because he now has to live with rats that come out through his toilet hole at night.

    So now there are small rats in his cell and a huge one- Joran. He should feel right at home with his new pets. But he lets this information out to Da Telegraaf newspaper in an attempt to get people to feel sorry for him in his substandard living conditions.

    ENABLER MOTHER ANITA PLAYS THE  VICTIM ROLE AS WELL

    Anita van der Sloot  says her poor Joran was traumatized by the Natalie Holloway  ordeal and should have gotten psychiatric help but refused.“Joran is sick in his head, but he wanted no help,” his mother said.

    This statement  shows how  Anita is an enabler.  Who cares whether Joran wanted that help or  not. She was the mother and needed to see to it that he got that help no matter whether Joran liked it or not. Joran was  16 or 17 at the time- an under age  boy. She refers to Joran as a  ’Sweet boy’ in the newspaper interview she did with Da Telgraaf. The operative word  here was “boy”.

    Joran was  a boy and she was the adult when she needed to insist he go into therapy during the Natalie Holloway situation. She needed to have laid down some boundaries- such as “no gambling at the casinos until he had therapy.”

    His father Paulus certainly  had enough pull on the island to call every casino in town and tell them to not let his son into them. He could have reinforced  the “no casino and gambling  until you get into therapy” boundary for Joran.

    Then Anita  wants to evoke even more  pity on her poor Joran by starting that he blamed himself for his father’s unexpected death  earlier this year.”Two days Joran cried. He even hung over the coffin, sobbing.

    It’s my fault, Dad,” he said. “I have caused your heart attack.

    This behavior Joran exhibited at his father’s death  is yet another reason Anita should have insisted he get therapy to help him with his grieving. Technically, Joran didn’t cause his father’s heart attack. It was obviously caused by a malfunctioning heart. Maybe his father didn’t go to a doctor for regular checkups od maybe he had an undiagnosed heart disease.

    That certainly wasn’t Joran’ fault even though the  added stress Joran caused in his father’s life may have added to stressing out his father’s heart.

    As soon as Anita  noticed how severely Joran was grieving, that is when Anita needed to have put down an ultimatum to her son who immediately  moved in with her  after his father died. She needed to say “you can only move in with me if you go into therapy.”

    His father was dead four months when Anita  says “But then one day he left, flying to Peru for a poker tournament” She says this in order to make herself look like a victim.”  His mother  had four months to make sure and insist he went into therapy and did not do so.

    During those four months, Anita needed to bring a therapist to their home if Joran wouldn’t go. If he was having such strong guilt feelings, and was so deponent, she needed to do whatever she had to do an WOMAN UP and tke care of her son’s emotional health. I am sure if Joan’s leg was bleeding uncontrollably , she would  have taken  him for  immediate help. Likewise,  mental health was figuratively bleeding uncontrollably  and she needed to so the same thing and get him help asap.

    Her final statement “If only he had listened to his mother. Then, this would have never happened,” is not only a statement which reflects her being a victim of her son’s not listening to her but said to invoke sympathy and at the same time give herself a pat on the back that she was a good mother. If  Joran’s mother  would have been more proactive and set boundaries that insisted he go into therapy and under psychiatric care, then all of this may never have happened.

    JORANS PSYCH REPORT MAY GIVE CLUE AS TO WHY MOTHER ANITA  CANNOT HANDLE JORAN

    After reviewing Joran’s psych report it is now even  more  understandable as to why Joran’s mother had such little control over him. The report says that Joran does not value the  female role and disrespects women.

    It also stated that he gets violent when contradicted. So if his mother whom he disrespects did insist on his going in to therapy and he didn’t want to go and she persisted and argued with him about it, perhaps Anita would have ended up in the same position and Stefany Flores.Perhaps she knew better than to antagonize Joran.

    That may be why she merely suggested that he go for therapy  and did not pursue it further She may have been very intimidated and afraid of what Joran would do to her. So she no doubt  kept a low profile around him.

    The fact that Anita has not yet shown up in Peru speaks volumes. It says that she has clearly abandoned her son this time around. There is no doubt that Anita knows who her son is. She knows he is mentally sick as she said and knows about his temper and violence.

    Now  it is clear that she wants no part of him . She has washed her hands of him and now  he is completely on his own as far as she is concerned . Daddy had died and is no longer there to help him. In Joran’s mother’s eyes , see also sees  Joran as dead and as she too is no longer there to help him   . www.drlillianglass.com

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    Casey Anthony’s Body Language in Latest Court Appearance Still Shows Grooming Behavior and Detachment

    Monday, May 10th, 2010

    The last time Casey was in court   all noticed a definite change in Casey Anthony’s body language.  Casey Anthony appeared more stoic and less smiley. Although she did manage to eek out a giggle and an inappropriate smile or two  at the beginning,  for the most part she had a serious facial expression.

    In her latest  court appearance,  we clearly see how the body doesn’t lie. Casey could not stop herself from her ritualistic grooming behavior as she sat alone and waited for the court  proceedings to begin. She looks down and begins  to dust herself off at the thighs as if to get rid of  this horrible situation in her life. Her grooming is an attempt to literally clean herself off from what lays ahead of her.

    We now see Casey tugging on her blouse and making sure it fits right so she looks good. This speaks to the narcissistic self oriented behavior we have seen in almost all of her appearances. We definitely saw her narcissism up close and personal during her jailhouse tapes.

    Casey still continues to groom herself as she tugs at her collar . She makes sure it looks good. Because  she spends most of her time in collarless prison scrubs,  perhaps she isn’t used to wearing upright collars. So the constant tugging and grooming , may also be a signal of insecurity in her new duds.

    There also appears to be a  definite a discomfort level with her clothing which also causes her to tug at them constantly. When people  don’t feel comfortable in what they are wearing you often see them tugging at their clothes. which indicates that they feel they don’t look good in what they are wearing. The tugging is a subconscious attempt to rearrange the clothing or to change it.

    From what we have seen in Casey’s  wardrobe based on all the previous pre- courtroom photos, Casey  seemed very comfortable in  low cut clinging tops and skin tight form fitting dresses. So needless to say her courtroom attire,  complete with ruffled top is not her style.

    Before Andrea Lyons came into the picture and it was just Jose Baez, her tried to change her image and it failed .

    Initially he made her wear the black glasses so she would look smart and educated and not like the loser high school drop out that she was.  He used gave her a corporate look with conservative white long sleeved button down blouses and  fake glasses.

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    Then the first time he brought Casey onto the courtroom her made her wear an over sized jacket  with her hair pulled back in a bun like a school marm librarian who could never get a date.  It was l so laughable that Jose didn’t let her come to court looking  like that anymore.

    Based on my observations of her attorney Andrea Lyon’s wardrobe, it is highly possible that she may not only be  serving as Casey’s attorney but as he wardrobe consultant as well. In fact, during one courtroom appearance they both wore an identical odd shade of green as  you can see above.

    Andrea may think that the jury will look more favorably at a buttoned up ruffled innocent plain looking woman who is nothing like the hottie  party girl  image the will be seeing in her evidence  photos.

    Personally I think Andrea should  let  Casey’s dress in her clingy low cut  outfits that she appears to be more comfortable wearing.

    After seeing the photos of her draped in an American flag,skimpy outfits and a

    sleeveless tank top as she is seen with her  head   in the toilet  vomiting, no jury is going to buy the sweet ruffle plain girl image. In fact it will piss them off  because they will feel that they were being manipulated.

    Now we see Casey hacving a facial  expression we have never seen previously. She is tight jawed and purses  her lips. This is a far cry from the previous photo pictured  above where she is all smiles  wearinbg a green tank top.

    Her facial language shows a great deal of tension and stress,. Perhaps the reality and the gravity of the situation has finally hit her and has begun to sink in.

    As she sates ahead expressionless we see the tension in her temples and in her shoulders which are now hunched over. It is though there is literally a weight on her shoulders. She dis not have this posture previously, She would sit upright which indicated that she was fu of confidence.  It was a smug and arrogant type of posture. but now Casey appears to have  been humbled,  posture-wise.

    Perhaps it was the recent punishment which she may possibly be receiving for her jailhouse  letters. Perhaps the two years she has already spent in jail are finally getting to her. Whatever the case, her body language indicates that there has been a significant change.

    When Casey was in the courtroom she barely moved. She just looked straight ahead with an expressionless face.  Was it due to the fact that there was a new judge and she didn’t want to do anything to have him perceive her in a negative light?  Is she being coached by one or all of her attorneys as to how to behave? Have they coached her to not move a muscle in the courtroom and to completely wipe any emotion off of her face?  Or is Casey finally on some type of anti- anxiety medication that causes her to space out, sit still and not display any emotion especially happy emotions?

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    Tiger Woods Body Language During Master’s Presser Shows Spin, Manipulation, and Anger During Questioning About Elin, Who’s No Show Speaks Volumes

    Tuesday, April 6th, 2010

    Tonight at 7:30 PM  on CBS on  The Insider You will see my exclusive body language coverage regarding Tiger Woods body language during his press conference Where he was asked some major questions regarding his relationship and his past behavior.

    It is clear that Ari Fleisher is new SPIN advisor did his job and told Tiger how to spin it. However, there is no way the public will ever buy Tiger’s spin. It is completely manipulative- especially when he plays the “poor me victim look how injured I was card in an attempt to feel sorry for him, all the while avoiding he real question about his past egregious behavior.

    POOR TIGER MISSING HIS SON’S FIRST BIRTHDAY

    If his surgeries and knee problems weren’t isn’t enough to try and garner public sympathy as an excuse for Tiger’s bad past, he does a mea culpa on how all of this caused him to miss his son’s first birthday.

    He says that missing his son’t first birthday hurts and hurts a lot, as he looks down and says so in a monotone voice. PUHLEEEZ!! Why didn’t he think of his son’s first birthday when he was in bed with all of his sex partners?

    There is no question that his spinmeister threw in his son’s birthday as a ploy to try to tug at emotional heartstrings as he mentions it three times. This is another clue that it is spin. When someone repeats something  that often, it usually does not ring true.  The SPIN did NOT work! The publc is NOT stupid and there is no way that they are buying it!


    REHAB SEEMS TO BE  THE LAST THING ON TIGER’S MIND ACCORDING TO HIS BODY LANGUAGE

    Tiger was ever evasive when asked about his rehab with constant uh ums and shoulder shrugs  and  looking down. There is clearly no continued rehab schedule on the books.

    Here’s a clue that all of this is BS and Spin. No one gets rehabbed for sex addition or pain pill prescription addiction in 45 days. It takes a lot longer. That is why I believe all of this was spin from the beginning, The fact that Tiger went into rehab was ONLY because he got caught with his pants down- literally ! If he didn’t get caught the word REHAB would never have crossed his lips.

    Tiger has all the rhetoric down- all the buzz words-  like the word  “entitlement” and all the 12 step lingo. But to me they sound like words. The do not ring true.

    WHAT’S ENTITLEMENT?

    Case in point. When a reporter asked him if he felt entitled, Tiger immediately  asked the reporter what he meant. If Tiger was really sincere about his entitlement issues, he would have answered it with the same rapidity and confidence he answered questions concerning his golf game.

    THE ONLY TIME TIGER’S SPEECH RANG TRUE

    The only time Tiger sounded confident, where his speech was  at a rapid clip and he showed a verbal bounce devoid of uhms and hesitations, but rather life and enthusiasm in his voice,  was when he was talking about getting back out there and playing golf.

    In doing so, he was radiant! He glowed as he smiled  a  huge bright genuine smile when he talked about his favorite subject.


    READ THE POLICE REPORT!!!!!!

    The most arrogant part of his presser was when asked about his accident. He was evasive, as he essentially said to read the police report. That spoke volumes. It as a though he was trying to distance himself  from what happened and make it OK. No doubt  his new spinmeister Ari Fleisher told him to do this.

    It was obvious what he was doing in this regard. The only problem is that no one can forget that he was lying on the ground snoring with a fat lip according to the police  report to which he is referring.

    IS TIGER WEARING BRACES OR A DENTAL SPLINT?

    And speaking of fat lips and mouths., it was interesting to note that as Tiger smiled he was wearing invisible  braces over his front teeth. Tiger had the most perfect teeth in the past.  So why is he now wearing clear plastic  invisible braces  on his teeth? You really see it when he smiled brightly when talking about getting back into his golf game. .

    Did Elin really hot him with a golf club as the  rumor goes and really  give him a fat lip and knock his teeth out of alignment to boot?

    If so, is he  perhaps  wearing dental braces for that purpose- to realign and straighten out  the teeth she may have allegedly damaged teeth?


    ELIN NOT COMING TO THE MASTERS AND TIGERS FACE SHOWS ANGER AT BEING ASKED THE QUESTION


    Tigers steely glare and his tight jaw were the signals of anger that he let out when he  asked if wife ELin was coming to the Masters. He said she was not. To me that said it al!!! This is ois comeback and the most important Golf Tournament of his life at this time.

    When we do not see Elin’s support, it is very difficult for us to support Tiger as well. While he may be a great golfer, the respect for him is completely gone as far as Elin is concerned in my view. Otherwise, she would be standing my her man’s side.

    But obviously she has enough self respect and self dignity to not show up to be on display to help her husbands tarnished image.

    TIGER SHAKING HIS HEAD NO WHEN   HE SHOULD BE SHAKING IT SHAKING IT YES

    Tiger has still not taken full responsibility for his actions even though he says he has,. His head shaking  No when he said “I take full responsibility for what happened,”  should have been shaking  Yes.

    To me that spoke volumes. It speaks to the fact that while he has al the right words and the right rhetoric, he is clearly  something completely opposite. He still hasn’t fully embraced what he has done, as he is till in denial body language-wise.


    TIGER HUNGERS FOR THE PUBLICS ACCEPTAC E AND ADULATION BUT THERE ARE PROBLEMS  WITH HIS PEERS

    Tiger kept mentioning how the fans were accepting of him. He appeared to be very concerned about this. He knows how vilified he has been recently. So now,  to see smiling fans,  no doubt made him feel better about himself.

    Maybe this experience himbled him. Maybe he will be more respectful to his fans,.He certainbly took them for granted in the past. Now knowing that there are some people out ther who don’t vilify him and accept him may allow him to gain a newfound appreciation for those who are in his corner.  His body language shoed genuine excitement and enthusiasm when disccussing his fans.

    But when asked about how his peers were towards him, His body language  spoke volumes. Even though he said how excited he was that he receivd hugs from his peers and seemed surmised at how well he was accepted and received  by his peers as he mentioned it several times. When someone mentions things several times like Tiger demonstrated it is often  a way of convinncing themselves that what they are saying is true.

    The bottom line is that his body language revealed the truth. His shoulder shrugs and tight smile indicated that a lot of his peers weren’t so accepting to him and he very well knew it.

    SPONSORS AND ENDORSEMENTS- THE REAL REASON FOR THIS 4TH MEA CULPA

    When Tiger goes on to say how ell her represented his sponsors in the past, It became clear to me what this presser was all about –Sponsors and trying to get them back on the bandwagon.

    To me that was the bottom line. He already gave one lame public apology that didn’t ring true, with his mother hugging him at the end showing that all is forgiven. Then he did  another one for ESPN and  yet another one for the Gold Channel with controlled questioning by tame  Tiger friendly interviewers.

    Now he does a forth lame interview  and opens up the questioning to all journalists. Why? In my view it is all about sponsors. It all boils down to dollars and sense and that his why Ari Fleisher suggested that he bite the bullut endure some intense and uncomfortable moments  of questioning in hopes that he would persuade public opinion and get more endorsers on the gravey train.

    Maybe some sponsors will see fit to take Tiger back if she wins the Masters. I personally will have no respect for them if they do that. I strongly feel that no one should be rewarded for bad behavior . I will see those companies as hypocrites and it will not make me want to use their products.  Their taking Tiger  back will have the opposite effect on me that they intended it to have.


    WILL ALL BE FORGIVEN IF TIGER DOES WELL IN THE MASTERS?

    For some people, all that matters os whether Tiger can play golf. If she succeeds many will turn a blind eye.But for man,y the fact they they were duped with his cookies and milk pure squeaky clean image can never be forgotten.

    My view is that no matter how well he plays his image will be tarnished forever. No matter how many pressers he gives witrh mea culpsas that don’t ring true, what he did will never be forgotten.


    ELIN’S FORGIVENESS IS ALL THAT REALLY MATTERS AND HER NO SHOW AT THE MASTERS SAYS ALL IS NOT FORGIVEN

    The fact that his wife Elin is not showing up says it all in my book. She is the one who really matters in all this. Unlike the wives of past cheaters . who have  stood by their men for whatever reason like Hillary Clinton and disgraced ex- governor Elliot Spitzers wife, Elin has refused to do so.

    I must say that U admire her for it.  He fooled her and destroyed their family.Whether or not she  allegedly got physical with him and engaged in domestic violence  is another matter, Many can’t blame her if she did. Others are appalled. We will never know the true circumstances of what really happened- at least not yet!

    But her  not showing up at his most important gold game and making his debut may hiry Tiger more than any alleged golf club to his mouth. Her no show says

    : I will not be made a fool of. I will not subject myself to being used any longer so you Tiger can gave a clean image again. It says while you go out there and try to regain  your crown of glory on the golf course, I too am maintaining my  crown of clory as as woman with self esteem wgho can hold her head high because I am not a hypocrite and doing something I don’t want to do – show phony support for you.”

    No Ari Fleisher or any spin meister can spin what is real and what is in someone’s heart. And via  Elin’s no show, we clearly see what is not in her heart as far as Tiger is concerned-  her forgiveness for his degrading her. She is saying that she wants no part of his spin and for that I have tremendous respect!  www.drlillianglass.com

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