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Did Ronni Chasen’s Agressive Communication and Body Language Anger Someone Who May Have Murdered Her?

Wednesday, December 1st, 2010

The question on most people’s minds in the entertainment industry as well as those who live or work in Beverly Hills is who killed publicist Ronni Chasen and why?  Was she specifically targeted or is everyone in danger in Beverly Hills?

CRIME LIKE THIS DOES NOT HAPPEN IN BEVERLY HILLS

In a town where there is little crime and no murders in 2009,  people are very frightened and on edge.  The reason people are so spooked is because there is little to no crime here. That is due to the Beverly Hills Police Department, who is next to none. They are the crème de la crème.

They watch this town like a hawk with surveillance cars and constant patrolling and monitoring. If they are called for any 911 emergency, they will promptly be at the scene within 60 to 150 seconds. So that is all the more reason people are freaked out by what happened to Ronni Chasen.

POSSIBLE THEORIES FLOATING AROUND AS TO WHY RONNI WAS MURDERED

There have been many theories floating around as to the motive of killing Ronni Chasen from

a) a gang initiation

b) a professionally jealous colleague jealous of her successful Oscar campaigns

c) someone whom she leaked bad press about to media outlets that cost them a relationship or a business deal

d) someone who wanted to stop her from doing her job,  which was to create publicity campaigns in an attempt to persuade the judges of film awards like The Oscars to choose her clients above the rest which would result in big money

e) gambling debts and refusing to pay up

f) someone whom she cut off in traffic six minutes before she was killed because she was talking on her cell phone and leaving a “to do list” on the other end while perhaps not paying attention to the road

g) an art deal gone wrong

h) a mob killing linked to investors on one of her many movies

i) a psychopathic serial killer on the loose

j)        a disgruntled  former client

k)        a disgruntled  former employee or housekeeper

j) someone whom she snubbed, disrespected,  humiliated,  belittled or  screamed and yelled at because they didn’t do  what she wanted or do things her way

PR PRAISES ABOUT RONNI FROM THE TOP OF THE LINE PR PROS

When it was first in the press that Ronni has been murdered  only her fellow PR colleagues like top of the line veteran PR people like Paul Bloch, Stan Rosenfeld, Howard Bragman, and Michael Levine spoke out and sang her praises in true Hollywood PR fashion.

They  stated  that she was the sweetest woman alive and that everyone loved her and she had no enemies. Powerful Hollywood journalist Nikki Finke spoke  lovingly and kindly as did other journalists who were interviewed.

But as the days have passed, while her clients have also  attempted to say positive things   about her in the press, they also  managed to  leaked out another side to Ronni’s persona that may give us some insight into her personality which may have alienated the wrong person.

THE OTHER SIDE OF RONNI REVEALED BY FRIENDS AND COLLEAGUES

Here are some  other revealing comments and descriptions  from her clients, friends  and colleagues:

She was persistent” Peter Hamond

doggedly determined”person Eddie Kalish

“She was known for her “fast-talking, old school, New York aggressiveness on behalf of her clients and was not a person one quickly forgot after meeting. Peter Goldstein

Songwriter Diane Warren paints a picture of a publicist who was determined to get what she wanted and who was  ”fiercely protective” of her clients.

When it came to Ronni getting a photo op with celebrities Diane reported  Ronni said” “(Chasen) goes, ‘I don’t care what I have to do – I’m getting that picture,’ ” Warren explains. “That was Ronni — she had something she wanted to do… and she got that picture.” “She really cared, her clients were like family to her,” says Warren. “She’d tell you what to do and people listened to her.”

At her funeral service her  turbocharged drive in a segment of the business never known for the faint of heart was mentioned. Eulogists all described Chasen’s forceful personality.

At the funeral service her close friend Vivian Mayer-Siskind’s seemingly lighthearted comment  about Ronni revealed even more about her and her personality that some would not find so  appealing as she said “Ronni came to me last night and was pissed as hell. ‘Now you get me a free Armani suit.’

Perhaps the most revealing insight into Ronni Chasen;s personality came from Producer Irwin Winkler of Rocky fame who said that when his 2004 film “De-Lovely” was not nominated for a Golden Globe, Chasen “was furious.”

“She screamed and yelled at (members of) the Hollywood Foreign Press (Assn.),” the group that puts on the annual awards show, Winkler told The Times.

While she may have been consistently pleasant to her friends and colleagues  and  described as fiercely protective over her  clients who clearly  paid her large amounts of money, the real question is  how was she to others who were not  A list paying stars or movie studio executives?

DID SHE YELL AND SCREAM AT THE WRONG PERSON?

While friends colleague and clients may have appreciated her being pushy and having too much chutzpah,  and sense of entitlement, traits that obviously work in Hollywood,  perhaps there were others who were equally so put off with her  relentless behavior, that they may have found her  to be one of the most Toxic People.

When someone yells and screams at others like Irwin Winkler  reported Ronni  did to the Hollywood Foreign press because her client didn’t get nominated for an award,  it makes you wonder about who else she yelled at because she didn’t get her way or get what she wanted.

Did she scream and yell at the wrong person? Did she humiliate them? Did they harbor such ill feelings  towards her and allow them to fester to the point  they wanted her dead? Did they hate her that much that they took their fantasy of wanting her dead and turned  it a reality by driving up to her car  and shooting her five times in the chest?

SHOOTING SOMEONE 5 TIMES IN THE CHEST SIGNIFIES SEVERE HATRED TOWARDS THE PERSON

Apparently she had been shot while traveling to her home in Westwood  after attending the premiere of Burlesque, a new film starring Cher, and an after-party at the W hotel. The person or people who shot her obviously had such disdain for her that they shot her in the chest not one time- but five times.

That screams of hatred and rage. In a random drive by shooting there would usually be one shot. But for someone to keep their finger on the trigger and shoot five times, it means they were  furious with her. They wanted to make sure she was dead!

While we know that the shooting was from one car to another, as of today there are still no suspects, no motive, no witnesses according to Beverly Hills Police Department Lt. Tony Lee.  So the mystery remains.

The one thing that gives hope  in solving this tragedy is that the well respected  Beverly Hills Police Department is on top of it and they will leave no stone unturned until the killer or killers of Ronni Chasen  are found.www.drlillianglass.com

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Lindsay Lohan’ s No Show In Beverly Hills Court Confirms Mother Dina is An Enabler Who’s Recent Body Language Reveals She’s In Denial

Friday, May 21st, 2010

I just drove by the Beverly Hills Courthouse  on Burton Way  my way to my office this morning  only to see a string of TV mobile units  from every network lined up outside the courthouse.

I recognized some of my cameramen buddies from the various news outlets who were gathered around in a circle for what looked like was a presser. One of the cameramen walking near my car  told me that all of the press commotion  was for none other than Lindsay Lohan.

Apparently Lindsay did not show up to her court hearing  so there was a bench warrant issued for her arrest. Lindsay was full of excuses for not getting back in time, like losing her passport in Cannes, even though French police had no report of a stolen passport.

My first thought is why didn’t someone help her out?  Why didn’t her own mother /manager make sure Lindsay would be back from Cannes in time for her daughter’s court date? But that was just a fleeting thought. Lindsay isn’t the only one who is full of excuses. It is her number one enabler  her own mother/manager Diana who doesn’t seem to realize that she is not helping her daughter when she is not allowing Lindsay to take responsibility for her actions and face the truth.


Dina and Lindsay were recently featured on ET and I was appalled at Dina’s  excuses making for her daughter’s disturbing behavior. Dina’s laughter and  casual interjections and dismissal of her daughter’s serious issues was appalling.

LINDSAY’S DEFENSIVENESS SAYS SHE’S NOT BEING TRUTHFUL

Samantha Harris asked Lindsay point blank whether  she had any problems with drugs, alcohol or prescription medication, Lindsay defensively stated , “No, I don’t. I work.”

” What??  What does work have to do with whether she takes drugs?

Then she adds way too much information with a very defensive sounding toine attached to it. She says “ And if I go out with my friends, I’m 23 and I’m allowed to do that. I don’t go out when I’m working.”

When someone sounds that defensive and when they give out additional information that has nothing g to do with the question being asked it usually means they re not telling the truth.

Another “tell” that indicated Lindsay may not be telling the truth was her constantly looking away and diverting her eyes as she was unable to literally face and look at the truth.

CONTINUED DEFENSIVENESS TOO MUCH INFORMATION AND EXCUSES

When asked about recent tabloid photos of Lindsay  falling in the street, She replies  “I’m the most clumsy person in the world. I do trip a lot. I fall. I walk into walls sometimes.”

She says in in an anry and hostile tone. There was also shoulder shrugging as she said this- a classic signal of deception that occurred as she consistently diverted her eyes and looked away.

Then she adds “When did I stop being okay?” “I am fine. I am happy and I am working. And I’m good. And I’m surrounded by great friends now. You know, I have weeded out a lot of people in my life.” As she says this she doesn’t look very happy. Instead, she looks angry and hostile.

Once again when someone gives you that much unsolicited information, chances are they are not “good” and that something is very wrong with them. When someone is “very happy” as Lindsay says she is, their facial expression usually matches their words, which was not the case as Lindsay spoke these words.

DINA LOHAN-  THE  NUMBER ONE ENABLER OF HER DAUGHTER

If anything tragic happens to Lindsay like OD’ing on drugs  or alcohol or getting onto an accident and hurting herself or worse killing someone,  I will hold her mother Dina equally responsible.I will hold her responsible for making statements like this when discussing her daughter:

“But everyone does that,”. “That is like normal growth; she’s 23.”

A 23 year old girl repeatedly falling down is NOT normal growth! Unless she has a neurological problem  or running in six inch heels, 23 year old girls do not typically fall down unless they are drunk or high.

If she does have a neurological issue, then her mother needs to make sure she is  medically checked and treated appropriately . If she doesn’t have a neuromotor  issue, then she needs to get sorted out in terms of her alcohol or drug use.

“We are just very misunderstood,” adds Dina. “And, when I read it, it breaks my heart because it is not true. I am going to cry. I’m really going to cry. … She has the biggest heart of anyone on the planet.” Dina says as she praises  Lindsay.

Dinal will really be crying when something tragic happens to her daughter because of her enabling Lindsay and not facing the truth about her daughter.

LINDSAY IS   ALSO IN  DENIAL ABOUT HER MOM  AND CAREER

In her ET interview Lindsay says that she and her mom   “We fight like friends do. “ She says Not every mother has to read false stories about their daughter. It’s nice to know she has sat by me through all of that. She knows what is really happening in my life.”

First of all , Dina  is her mother not her friend , She is her  mother needs to act like a mother  of a daughter who is in desperate need of help.  She needs to take charge and give Lindsay a reality check.

If she really knows what is really happening in  Lindsay’s  life as Lindsay says, then her mother needs to be supporting  an intervention and getting her daughter into rehab as fast as her feet will carry her.

Dina does not need to be laughing into the camera and making a joke that herr daughter falls a lot. It was sickening to hear her say something like that. No doubt, her words will definitely come back to haunt her.Her daaughter’s falling is NO JOKE!

LINDSAY CANNOT SEE  IT IS NOT THE BAD PRESS THAT WON’T LET HER BE HIRED, IT’ IS  HER OWN DESTRUCTIVE BEHAVIOR

Then Lindsay continued to put her head in the sand and to not look at the  reality of her problems. She makes excuses for people not hiring her.

She says that she doesn’t  pay attention to the bad press,but adds “. … The only problem is that it distracts from me getting jobs, and that is when it hurts me.”

Well here is a reality check Lindsay. It is not the bad press that  prevents you from getting jobs. It is the fact that no one will hire you until you clean up your act because now you are  not insurable.

No one wants to hire a drug addict or an alcoholic who will create problems on a film set  and who  may not be  complete their filming under  the terms of their contract.

BEVERLY HILLS JUDGE  MARSHA REVEL   MEANS BUSINESS

While the  judge mentioned that she believed that Lindsay had a substance abuse problem, it di not stop her from issuing a bench warrant to Lindsay for not showing up this morning.

This  means  that as soon as Lindsay Lohan arrives on US soil, she will be detained by US Customs authorities .  Because she now has a bench warrant  for her no show, LAPD or the LA Airport Police will haul her off to jail.

PERHAPS THE 180 DAY SENTENCE WILL HELP HER SORT HERSELF  OUT

I don’t think that Linday will be getting out of her 180 day sentence so quickly.  I think that she may very well have to server her full sentence.

Perhaps the 4 12 moths behind bars will give her the time to straighten herself out and get off of the drugs she is allegedly  on. Perhaps the situation will also give her enabling mother Dina a reality check as well. Perhaps  now she won’t be laughing  and making a joke of the  fact that “Lindsay falls down a lot.”

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