Once again Bobbi Kristina Brown’s adopted “brudder” now alleged fiancé is loving the limelight as he comes out of Starbucks carrying two coffee cups laden with creme. His posture is ramrod straight and his head is up, indicating lot of self confidence.
Here he checks out all the papas taking his photo and seems to be in awe of all of the attention bestowed upon him. There is a look of contentment and an ever so slight smile as it is evident that he is really enjoying this.
He doesn’t even acknowledge Bobbi Kristina s they leave the store. He looks to the right at the papas. 
She reaches out to grab his hand, indicating her neediness, something we saw on their last outing. He now ;ooks up at all the papas to the left while she looks down. He doesn’t hold her hand tightly. Instead he lightly holds it along with is iPhone . He doesn’t even move the iPhone to his other hand in order to grasp her needy hand. That is very telling.
Now Bobbi Kristina breaks away from his non-hand holding and lights up a cigarette. She is obviously letting everyone know (now that she has a photo forum) that yes, she can smoke and so whatever she wants and no one can tell her what to do.
She allegedly made that comment verbally as well, earlier today as she responded to her grandmother Cissy’s comment that she was committing incest with her “adopted ” brother. She apparently said that she didn’t need Crissy’s blessing and could do whatever she wants to do.
Cissy no doubt wants to step in but her self destructive granddaughter is over 18 so there is little she can do. She is trying to get the estate to kick the “adopted” brudder out of the house he is now living in with Bobbi Kristina.
It is so obvious to see what is happening. This child is going through her anger phase in her grief process. She is taking her anger out on her grandmother and doing some very self destructive things like allegedly doing drugs, hooking up with her adopted brother,smoking and who knows what else.
She has every right to be angry. her world just fell apart with her best friend and confidant- her mother. Her father essentially abandoned her when she needed him the most . Most likely grandma Cissy has her own set of issues in dealing with her beloved daughter’s grief, so she can’t focus on Bobbi, ( who doesn’t want to be focused upon) full-time . Now she appears to be acting out like a rebellious teenager.
I wish she had a responsible adult in her life to go i and take charge but it does;t seem like there is anyone there. When Britney Spears had her meltdown form years back, it was her father who stepped in. That is why she is doing so great now. Too bad Bobby her father hasn’t demonstrated he is man enough to do the same. So Bobbi Kristina in looking for that adult male figure has turned o someone 3 years older than he who may very well be as messed up as she is, of not more messed up. he has no life experience and does not know what is best for Bobby Kristina.
When he was asked questions by the papps he kept saying ” No comment” to whatever question they asked. But then he shared that Bovi Kristina was” staying strong.: He looked very proud as he said those words. The last thing Bobbi Kristina needs to do now is stay strong. She needs to grieve. She needs to be that little girl. She needs to be weak and have someone strong and responsible there for her to guide her into her next phase of her life. That phase is NOT marriage to this unaccomplished, uneducated , jobless man who is in he life.
This is the worst train wreck waiting to happen. It is classic in terms of what will most likely happen. As he gets more enrolled in this vulnerable naive child’s life, he will gain more control. If he marries her he will have more control of her finances. he will have control over what she does and dent do and who to who she can’t associate with. Since her family has rejected him publicly, no count he will keep them away from her. When she does finally grow up a bit and try to step out on her own, it would come as no surprise if verbal or physical violence did no . t ensue. She may end up with a relationship very similar to the one she saw growing up with her father Bobby and mother Whitney. Since Nick lived in their home as well, he too must have seen the same thing as Bobbi Kristina did in terms of a bad relationship role model. This cannot turn out well in my view.
I so wish she had someone to come into her life and insist she get educated, go to college and help her develop her talents through proper training and coaching. But at this juncture it does not look as it will happen. Seeing Bobbi Kristina light up a cigarette in front of the papas tells us everything. It’s a symbol of rebellion. Unfortunately she needs to rebel against the lifestyle her mother and father led. She needs to rebel against self destruction. Unfortunately this will not happen. I pray she does not have a tragic end like her mother.
