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Casey Anthony’s Lies, Anger, and Self Concern in Jailhouse Tapes

Monday, June 6th, 2011

 

After listening to Casey’s jailhouse tapes where she is speaking to her parents and separately to her father,  it is now understandable why her parents wanted so much  to believe their daughter. If you just listened to these tapes without looking at her body language, Casey sounds very credible. She is fluent and rarely hesitates.She sounds bright and articulate and is very convincing.  But if you look at her body language while she is speaking,  it tells completely  different story.

Below are some of her statements along with tells of deception.

I’ve been asking every question I could possibly think of ( looks away shakes head no)

It’s the truth that’s all we want. (shoulder shrug)

I know she’s Ok (shakes head no)

Even on her birthday the entire day (flips her hair)

The only letters I’ve gotten have been very positive (shoulder shrug)

I want Caylee more than anyone can understand (shakes head no)

I told you everything ( shakes head no)

Little Caylee is like you and I (chuckles and shakes her head no)

All I want is to see Caylee( said with no emotion and shakes head no)

I wanna be there when she comes home (shrugs shoulder)

These are only a few of the signs she isn’t telling the truth about what she is really feeling. She speaks in a monotone a flat affect when discussing Caylee and trying to help find her.

CASEY EMOTES ONLY WHEN IT IS ABOUT HER

We  see an overly confident cocky bratty girl who  essentially runs her parents. She runs the show with jer  charm, manipulation and anger and good looks.  It is so easy to see why her family and friends and boyfriends  wanted to belive this confident sounding, pretty girl.

We hear her  parents  walk on eggshells with her. They use soft tones and terms of endearment to appease her. She seems to react well to that  tone at times. But other times we hear a harshness and an anger in her tone. It is as though there is a bipolarity in her speech pattern. Taht does not mean that I am diagnosing her as being bipolar. She may very well be bipolar among among other diagnosis like a  sociopath, but only proper testing  and a formal diagnosis by a psychiatrist could determine that for sure.

The other thing that I noticed in George and Cindy’s  communication behavior with Casey is that they give her agreat deal of power. They tell her that she is the boss and she is in charge. Perhaps it is their way of trying to get informaiton out of her. There are  alot of   “I  love you’s”  and tender words from her parents.

The truest sense of emotion displayed by Casey was when her father spoke of how people were so supportive of  finding Caylee and about the work by charity volunteers. at times Casey  was beaming a smile with pride. But then  she would begin to cry real tears and the she would get angry.  Casey broke down with real tears and real grief  emergerd as she knew Caylee would never come home, despite her father’s efforts.

Casey did display genuine emotion when it came to discussing herself and her needs as you can see by some of her statements below.

Cindy says “Dad boiled up at the media  Casey says(Yah I heard  (laughs)

(to Cindy) Do You understand how I feel? I’ve been here a month. (angry)

To George you says to Casey ” you are the boss “- Not anymore. No I haven’t been since I got here (angry)

Can someone let me speak? No one’s letting me speak. (angry)

I’ve spent the day all alone in bed with my head  under the covers (crys)

I read my bible almost the entire day, It was miserable  (angry)

 Cindy The latest is Casey drowned in the pool.  Casey( Surprise surprise) (sarcasm)

My entire life has been taken from me  (anger)

I have no one to comfort me but myself  ( sadness)

For this entire time I sat in my room I haven’t  been mad once but this one time –I;m so hurt by everything I don’t know what to say. (anger) NO remorse

 After listening to the tapes , we  can see how selfish and narcissistic Casey a person Casey seems.  She doesn’t seem to have feelings for anyone but herself.

It is heart wrenching to see how much Casey’s  parents really do love Casey and Caylee.  Afer listening to the tapes it doesn’s seem that George knows anything about Caylee’s death at the beginning stages. I can’t imagine him acting this genuine and concerned if he knew Caylee drowned and if he had some involvement.  He seems to be too desperate for answers. Both he  and Cindy seem desperate to find Caylee. As they consitently  speak to Casey in such loving terms,  the  hope that she will reveal  a kernel of information as to where Caylee is located.

These tapes are the most revealing of all the information thus far as far as the drowning of Caylee and the alleged collusion of her father. At this point it seems that all he wants is answers.  Casey’s cockiness and anger George’s deference to her  does not seem like the  communicaiton dynamic where Casey would protect her father in any way. As we see from her dialogue, the only person she would protect is herself .

As we see more and more of the  evidence presented in such a systematic way, we learn that things aren’t looking too good for Casey.  here seems to be less and less reasonable doubt that she caused Caylee’s demise. www.drlillianglass.com

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TOXIC Tweets by 50 Cent Reflect Racism, Sexism, and Ignorance As He Discusses Japan’s Earthquake/Tsunami

Monday, March 14th, 2011

One can tell a lot about a person in terms of what they say after they hear about a crises. When  rapper 50 Cent (Fiddy) responded to the Japanese earthquake and tsunami with sick  humor, it speaks volumes as to who he is as a human being-  a not a very sympatric or kind one in my view.

 Freud once said “there is no humor only truth.” I agree with that as there is truth in humor. But there was no truth in the humor that rapper 50 Cent put forth in a tweet.  

 

There is nothing more devastating than to have to have innocent  people lose their homes,

worldly possessions and most important their lives as a result of not one but multiple natural disasters- tsunami,  earthquake and  major aftershocks.

 

The nuclear plant explosions  and the radiation leakage are  no laughing matter and can cause devastation for generations to come with illnesses and severe birth defects.

 So when TOXIC 50 Cent made the following horrible  jokes on his twitter account,  it was adding insult to injury. He said

“Its all good Till b*tches see there christian louboutins floating down da street shit gone get crazy.”  

“Wave will hit 8am them crazy white boys gonna try to go surfing.”

“Look this is very serious people I had to evacuate all my hoe’s from LA,Hawaii and Japan. I had to do it. Lol”

To me this has  sexist and racist undertones and is despicable! There is nothing to Lol (laugh out loud) about. Instead there is a lot to Col about- CRY OUT LOUD!

 

There is nothing funny about people being washed to sea and seeing innocent men women and  children dying or become orphaned as the result of this natural disaster killing their parents . 

There is nothing funny about not having a place to live or not having enough to eat.

 But obviously ignorant  50 Cent failed to see the gravity of the situation before he let his fingers do the talking.   

What he said was unforgivable. It was disgusting and arrogant and nauseatingly  sexist as he spoke of evacuating his whores out of  LA Hawaii and Japan. Referring to women as whores is sexist and degrading to women!

Obviously 50 Cent realized he did a bad  thing after he got a myriad of  negative and hostile  responses. So he lamely tweeted

“sorry”

“Nah this is nuts but what can anyone do about it. Let’s pray for anyone who has lost someone.”

“Some of my tweets are ignorant I do it for shock value. Hate it or love it. I’m cool either way 50cent”

No Mr. Cent. You are not COOL either way. instead , I believe you are TOXIC either way! You have lost a lot of fans and a lot of respect.  You acted as a petulant immature child in making fun of  one of the most tragic events in the world for SHOCK VALUE- so people would notice and pay attention to your pitiful self.

If you want SHOCK VALUE how about going over to Japan on one of your private jets and seeing how these people are suffering beyond belief? No  disaster film could come close to this horrific reality.

You lame ‘sorry” will never cut it. If you want to show yourself as a real man and as a compassionate human being put your “sorry” into action and give up some of your millions to help these poor earthquake and tsunami victims rebuild their lives.  Get some food and stock up your private jet with it and parachute it down to stranded hungry people.

Your fellow recording artist  Lady Gaga  (with the emphasis being on the word “lady”) clearly showed compassion and class by encouraging her fans to donate money for the  the victims. She even designed a prayer bracelet to raise money for the Japanese victims. 

http://http://ladygaga.shop.bravadousa.com/Product.aspx?cp=14781_42444&pc=BGAMLG88

 In fact you can go to her site by clicking the link above to order the bracelet so that money can be raised for the earthquake/ tsunami victims  

Why don’t you follow suit and do the same. Only then will your lame “sorry” have any value.  And yes, Mr. Cent you had it partially right in your last tweet when you said your tweets are ignorant .It is YOU who are ignorant, not your tweets, so  man up and do something in your power financially as well as doing a concert to help someone other than your superficial self.  

www.drlillianglass.com

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Chilean Cheater Miner Body Language Shows A Conflicted Man As Lover Greets Him While Wife Is A No Show

Sunday, October 31st, 2010

When miner Yonni Barrios emerged from the capsule after being rescued from his 70 day stay in a cramped mine shaft, he  actually thought he would be greeted by both his wife of close to three decades and his mistress of a decade.

 There as a great deal of tension seen in his jaw as he was anticipating this awkward reunion where he assumed all would be forgiven and overlooked  simply because he survived.But he was mistaken.

 Only his lover Susana Valenzuela showed up to sob into his neck as she held on to him and hugged him for dear life.

She was there to reputedly kiss him on the lips.

But Yonnie Barrios did not reciprocate her affection . His body language was stiff  as he showed no emotion. In fact he whispered something to Susana which may have been for her to back off with all the hugs and kisses. As a result,  their embrace was quickly  broken and she went into the crowd while Yonnie greeted others and no doubt searched the crowd for his wife.  

His  mind must have been was preoccupied with wondering when his wife 56-year-old Marta Salinas, would now come forward.  But that was not to be the case.

THE GALL  OF A TOXIC MAN  

Marta  discovered  that Susana was also holding a vigil for her husband at the Camp Hope site. It was actually  mistress  Susana who broke the news to Marta  that there has been an accident at the mine. Apparently after Marta discovered her husband’s infidelity with Susana,  it was reported that they came to punches and had to be pulled apart.

To make matters worse, as Marta,  the wife started to get involved in his affairs on Camp Hope, Yonnie  instructed teams on the surface to only  deal with his lover Susana instead of his wife.

This no doubt devastated Maria. It must have taken her all of these days to wrap her mind around the situation that she was betrayed  and now discarded.

Then as the day of the rescue approached,  Yonnie asked Marta to greet him at the site. She was prepared to forgive him. She was planning to go, until she heard that he also wanted his mistress Susana there  to greet him as well.

MARIA IS A CLASS ACT

She refused to do so.  She even had some kind f words for him as she managed to tell the press  “I’m happy because he was saved. It’s a miracle from God. But I won’t attend the rescue.”

She let the other woman show up so there would be no problems. In fact the First Lady of Chile applauded her decision.

After the rescue took place, she was once again questioned by the press.  She is quoted as saying: 
‘I’m glad I didn’t go to the mine, it was the correct decision. It would have been wrong if the two of us were there – I have children and grandchildren. That kind of situation wouldn’t have been good for my family, and my sons come first.

Then she  gave him a well deserved zing  by stating  He is crazy and cocky to think I would do such a thing. I have a sense of decency.’

She m also said she would not be visiting him at the hospital. ‘If he wants to see me or talk to me he can come find me. Otherwise we will talk through our lawyers.‘I have his belongings and all these gifts people have sent him – he is welcome to have them.’

She said she is not bitter but had words of wisdom  for her husband and the other miners.

‘This is historic but soon it will be over to the next thing. People move on – in a few years everyone will have forgotten about this.‘They think they will all be millionaires overnight but it’s not like that. Only the skillful ones will make something from this.’

While Yonnie Barrios may have survived this ordeal as a hero, the real hero is Marta his wife. She serves as an inspiration to all women.

 She will not allow herself to be disrespected or humiliated.  At first, she was willing to forgive. But when she saw that Yonnie  was continuing to be disrespectful towards her,  she could no longer forgive. She is not bitter and  appears ready to move on with her life. She knows what is important in life- her children,  grandchildren and her self respect. www.drlillianglass.com

 

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Mel Gibson Could Have Easily Killed Oksana Gregoriova Based on What He’s Said and Out of Control Anger

Sunday, July 18th, 2010

 

 When I appeared on the Insider on CBS the other  night, I made the comment  “thank goodness this tirade was done over the phone because if Mel was in the same room as Oksana, he could have hit her.”  But after listening to the latest tape and analyzing all of the tapes thus far, I will take my statement a step further. Not only could Mel have hit Oksana, he could have easily murdered her!

There is now a lot of controversy over whether or not her above photo with broken veneers is retouched or tampered with. All I can say is that if you look at her eyes in the photo they have NOT been tampered with. They are puffy and red. Those are the eyes of a woman who  looks like they have been doing  a lot  crying .

Whether he hit her on the temple and the blow created   a chain reaction that caused damage to the teeth,as her dentist says,  the bottom line as we call heard on the tape, is that Mel admitted “ she deserved it.”

MEL’S VERBAL RAGE AND VERBAL ABUSE WERE NOT DOCTORED!

No one can deny the amount of rage and verbal violence that came out of Mel’s lips. We all heard it! Even if the tape was edited and doctored as some have reported, there is no way that his rage and verbal abuse was doctored.

Whether she stimulated or “egged him on” as people have commented,  there is still no excuse for Mel’s out of control behavior. When someone makes you that angry to the point that we have seen  Mel’s anger escalate,  you need to leave immediately. Get away from the  person , make a legal arrangement to see you child, and never look back at the relationship!

I am not definately  blaming the victim. Any relationship involves two people. I say the same to Oksana as I say to Mel. If she heard his rage escalate to the point that it did, she needed to have left him long ag. She needed to have hired an attorney and needed to have never looked back.

WHY ABUSED WOMEN DO NOT LEAVE RIGHT AWAY

 But unfortunately for Oksana, like so many abused women, most  do not leave right away. They stay and stay and stay, hoping things will change for the better and that things will work out. Studies show that it often takes an abused woman 7 to 11 times of breaking off and coming back to the  abusive relationship before she is out for good.

So the lame excuse that Mel’s camp gave that Oksana went away with him in January doesn’t fly. Just because she went back to Me after n abusive battle,  does not necessarily mean that things were fine and dandy. It means that she was doing what abused women do, especially ones with children. She was trying to make things work between them.  

MEL A CLASSIC ABUSER IN THE CYCLE OF VIOLENCE

When one looks at the Cycle of Violence common to abused women,  Mel Gibson, appears to fit the classic picture of an abuser to a tee. That picture of an abuser often ends in such physical violence that it can cost a woman her life.  Oksana could have easily been one more statistic to the millions of women murdered at the hands of a spouse, lover, boyfriend, or companion.

The name calling (cunt, bitch, whore), the  violent yelling and animal-like grunting and heavy audible respiratory patterns, the irrational comments, exaggerated claims and blame ( that he has no money- none  of the 900 million  dollars he allegedly has,  because he spent it all on her)  pushing, the hitting(allegedly damaging her teeth), lack of empathy (telling her she deserved it when she complained of his violence) the degrading control (demanding oral sex from her even though they were in conflict) life endangering threats (to burn the house down and to hit her head with a bat) are only a step away from killing a person.

If you think this seems far fetched, think again. This is EXACTLY what happened to Nicole Brown Simpson. This is EXACTLY what happened to millions of women who die each year at the hands of men they are either living with or married to. This is EXACTLY what happens to women all over the world regardless of race, religion,  culture, ethnic background, financial status, occupation, or physical appearance. 

WHO ARE THE ABUSERS WHO CAN KILL?

Anyone who exhibits the patterns that Mel Gibson exhibited can kill!  It doesn’t matter how rich or famous they are, if they have displayed the patterns that Mel displayed, they can definitely kill. Now I am not accusing Mel of being a murderer, but if someone is that consistently enraged and out of control  as we have heard Mel to be, then anything is possible.

He may be so angry that he could  strike a blow, hitting her in the head, causing  a subdural hematoma  where she would bleed into her brain, thus tragically ending her life. 

The verbally violent  tapes we have heard are not of just one conversation. They are of many conversations he had over time with Oksana. The red flag here is that Mel does not change his violent tone during any of the many different conversations we have heard.

 There is no point where his anger and rage is diffused. It is consistent and whenever you hear consistent rage like this that escalates, it indicates that danger is imminent.

Men who are control freaks, silent but deadly erupting volcanos, arrogant condescending know it alls often turn into both emotional and physical abusers. 

LEARNING TO READ THE WARNING SIGNALS OF A TOXIC KNOWLEGE OF A TOXIC ABUSER CAN SAVE YOUR LIFE

I have spent a lot of time studying the topic of abuse especially as it relates to men for my new book which will be on shelves this November called TOXIC MEN- 10 Ways to Identify, Deal With and Heal From Men Who Make Your Life Miserable.

This book is NOT a book about male bashing, nor am I an angry woman who hates men. On the contrary, as a heterosexual woman, I happen to love men. I just don’t love TOXIC MEN who abuse women. This book which is a sequel to my best selling book TOXIC PEOPLE which I wrote over 15 years ago, is designed to help save relationships and save lives.

The book is designed to help ANYONE learn to identify the red flags and the signals of any TOXIC MEN by learning to analyze their body language and looking for signals in the voice and speech patterns, (what they say and how they say it)  facial expressions and nuances, and body language and movement.

If you happen to be in  TOXIC  abusive relationship, unlike simply telling you to just to leave, it tells you that you have options 10  specific proven techniques to be exact in an attempt to  turn the Toxic relationship around.

And finally the book gives  you  some unique and unconventional ways to heal from any Toxic Relationship in which you nay have been involved.

The book is now available for preorder on Amazon.com  so if you would like click here

 http://www.amazon.com/Toxic-Men-Ways-Identify-Miserable/dp/144050007X  and you  will get a copy sent to you as soon as it is released.

WHY HOLLYWOOD IS SO QUIET ABOUT MEL?

One of the things that you are not hearing in the media is other celebrities speaking out against Mel with the exception of Barbara Walters, Joan Rivers and Joy Behar. They made is cler that Mel is not welocm on their shows.

The only ones who have spoken out in favor of Mel is Mickey Rourke and Whoppie Goldberg who is a friend of Mel’s. Her sticking up for him got her in a lot of hot water. Suddenly she became front page news as someone who stuck up for an abuser. While controversey may draw attention to Whoopie and the View and keep the show int he news, most performers don’t want to be associated with that type of news.

That is why most are steering clear of the Mel controversey. They don’t want the stink of Mel on them. They also know well enough that in Hollywood, anything can happen. Today Mel may be the biggest villan but tomorrow, the tide may turn. So that is why no one will stick their neck out.

Also Mel’s money makes him one of the most powerful people in Hollywood who with his alleged 900 million dollars can finance his own movie projects that would employ a lot of people and mean jobs for .  He could be behind the scenes as a director and producer so no one wants to make waves.

If they are forced to speak of him as James Brolin was on the Joy Behar Show, he remarked thaathe wanted to hug Mel who may have been dealing with a lot of childhood deamons to make him so angry. 

Personally, I think his career will take a huge hit. Becuase no matter how you spin it, we all  heard the verbally violent vitriol and that is now etched into our brain forever.  Even if he didn’t physically hit Oksana, he hit her verbally and he hit the baby verbally. Horrible words and emotional beatings are  are often more damaging than the physical beatings. Yelling at a mother with that serverity while she is holding an innocent fragile baby and emotionally frightening abd upsetting the baby is child abuse in my view. 

There is no more spin agent Ed Limato to help Mel out fo this mess. Personally I am boycotting any movie or project in which Mel gets involved. I have no tolerance for TOXIC PEOPLE who are  abusers (physical or emotional)  or racists who call people the N word or say abusive things about  Mexicans or Jews. That means you- Mel Gibson. www.drlillianglass.com


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Did George’s Defensive Body Language and Cindy’s WOODS Comment Early On Indicate That They May Have Known Caylee Was Already Dead When People Searched For Her?

Thursday, March 25th, 2010

If what River Cruz says is true and truly I believe it is, then George and Cindy may have wasted our precious time, our prayers, and the good will of humanity.

 If what River Cruz says is true, then I believe Cindy and George should be punished to the full extent of the law and serve a  prison term along with their daughter.

Lets go back and look at George and Cindy’s behavior and body language, vocal, and speech patterns while Caylee was allegedly missing.


DID GEORGE LASH OUT EARLY ON BECAUSE A PROTESTER GOT TOO CLOSE TO THE TRUTH?


During the time when people were searching for Caylee, George got violent and  was ready to hit a protester who merely asked George why he wasn’t out searching for Caylee?  George apparently  lunged  towards and tried to push the protester for  merely asking a legitimate question.

Is it possible based on  what we allegedly know from River, that  this question got him right where it counts?  Was it too much truth for him to bear? Was he not joining the search because he in fact knew his grand daughter  was already dead?

There was also a time when a protester yelled out that Caylee was dead and George got overly  upset saying that she as not dead, even though she as missing for over a month at the time. Being in law enforcement, George knew quite well that the longer a child is missing, the less the chances are of her being alive. Was he protesting too much because he in fact knew Casey was indeed dead?

In retrospect, was his reaction a signal of his guilt? Did he have something to hide?  Did he already know Caylee was dead and didn’t want people to go down that road? Did he want to build a case that Cayleee was alive by sending people on a wild goose chase to find her, when he may have known something different?.

It seems to me that this  makes  more sense now that River’s information has become public.

The fact that Cindy orchestrated all of George’s movements and comments on television is also a red flag to me. We saw by her grabbing his arm and signaling him. Did Cindy not want George to say or do anything that would indicate Caylee wasn’t alive,  so they their programmed verbal plan?

The fact that they would fly here and there using  who knows who’s money on Caylee  sightings is also sickening, especially if they did indeed know this little girl was dead all along.

I always thought it was odd when I saw the photos of the Cayalee look-alikes, that these grandparents  who lived with her since day one wouldn’t immediately  recognize that it wasn’t their grand-daughter.

CINDY’S SLIP  IN TALKING ABOUT THE WOODS AND TELLING SERGEANT ALLEN CASEY GOT HELP


Early on Cindy was  very convinced Caylee was alive and even knew where she was and where she wasn’t.  She says something that now may make more sense, now that we  know that Caylee was found in the WOODS.

Out of the blue Cindy says “ George and I don’t believe Caylee is in the WOODS … you know out there.”  Why in the world would she be talking about THE WOODS of all things during those early days? Her “you know” is an attempt to backtrack, verbally.   Why would ANYONE suspect Caylee was in the  WOODS when people were looking everywhere  for Caylee? Did Cindy know when she gave that interview that Caylee was already dead  in the WOODS?

The above statement Cindy made is also peculiar as was her looking up and to the right and left- signals of deception. How does she know they are getting close ?  Is this more of her  BS because she mayhave  known Caylee wasn’t alive at that point?

During that time Cindy made a call to Sargent Allen and left a voice mail where she said “  Casey had to have had help no matter what you think the scenario might be.”

Cindy’s voice quality reflected that she was very sure that Casey got some help. Was she the one who was helping Casey? Was it George or Lee? How was Cindy so sure Casey got some help?

WHY I BELIEVE RIVER IS TELLING THE TRUTH


River Cruz coming forward and revealing what she did, albeit reluctantly, may have possibly uncovered real truth in The Anthony saga.  It may have possibly  even saved her from “ being thrown under the bus” or “sold down the river”  by George and Cindy.

I say Thank goodness River Cruz’, George Anthony’s alleged mistress’ information is now on record stating that George told her Caylee’s death was an accident gone awry.

WHAT WAS THAT ALLEGED ACCIDENT?

I wonder if that” accident” was Casey giving Caylee too much chloroform when she put her  to sleep in her trunk and Caylee never waking up. I wonder if that “accident” was Casey putting duct  tape over Caylee’s mouth to stop her from crying or getting on her nerves and then putting it over Caylee’s nose as well until she stopped breathing.  In any event, the fact that George would think any of these egregious acts was an “accident” speaks volumes about him.

Anyone who doesn’t believe River Cruz is grossly mistaken in my view.  My body language and voice analysis of her shows no signals of deception in her spontaneous unplanned interview. Since she had no time to prepare or formulate her answer, her behaviors were raw and genuine.

SO WHAT IF SHE HAS AN ALLEGED ARREST RECORD! IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH HER TRUTHFULLNESS IN THIS SITUATION!

To anyone that tries to impeach her by saying she has an arrest record and used another name and that River Cruz is her alias, I say “So what”? It has absolutely NOTHING to do with her communication with George. The Anthony’s attorney Brad Conway has mentioned these things in the press as an attempt to punch holes in her credibility.

Bounty Hunter Leonard Padialla says he doesn’t believe River either, but he doesn’t know for sure as it is just speculation on his part.  

Keep in mind that when a person voluntarily comes forward they may have  another agenda like their 15 minutes of fame and getting that fame whether they tell the truth or not. But in Rivers case she did NOT want to come forward. She was forced forward by law enforcement and to me that is a big part of the truth equation,

Also both Leonard and Brad Conway were not privy to George and River’s bedroom talk!

Brad wasn’t there between the sheets with River and George and neither was Leonard, so they would never know for sure. Intimate talk happens when all of your defenses are down and when you usually naked. So that is another reason I believe River.

HER PAST HAS NOTHING TO SO WITH HER PRESENT

Also if someone gets arrested for let’s say a DUI or a doing something stupid when they were younger like shop lifting that doesn’t necessarily make them a liar. That doesn’t impede their credibility in my view. A liar is someone who is constantly caught in lies over and over again like Casey Anthony.

LOTS OF PEOPLE CHANGE THEIR NAME

As far as her name change, lots of people change their name when they become adults for a variety of reasons. Look at Hollywood actors and actresses. Along with their head shots  comes a change of name for many as they head into show business.

 Not that River is in show business, but I wanted to point out that  people do in fact change their names for a number of reasons. Psychologically it may be that someone wants a new start in life so it is a symbolic reason they may change their name- legally or not.

GEORGE MAY HAVE SOLD RIVER A BILL OF GOODS REGARDING THEIR RELATIONSHIP

And for those of you who point the finger at River because she had an affair with a married man, remember that SHE  was single. HE was married, not her. So if you are going to point the finger, point it at George before you point it at River.

We don’t know what bill of goods George sold River. We don’t know if he told her he would leave Cindy or even marry River or at least be with her for the long term. I suspect that may have been the case. She definitely, in my opinion, was told something about their relationship having a long future, otherwise she would have NEVER forked over 5K to him. Women  ususally do this when they think there will be a future with a man. They don’t often fork over money to any man with whom they think they won’t haver a future.

George was exceptionally needy from what we have seen. So he may have pursued River with  vengeance and promised her things he knew he had no intention of delivering,  just to get some TLC and some loving.  I wouldn’t  put it past him after seeing his Fox 35 interview where he portrays himself as   the perennial victim.

Since River is so adamant about not being in the public and seems like a reasonably intelligent woman, so  I doubt that she would have pursued a man with such high visibility. So that is what leads me to be believe that he was no doubt the pursuer.

Many women especially real  nurturing types of women, will open their  hearts an pocketbooks to men they think are in trouble to help them out.  Unfortunately it is a HUGE mistake as River found out.

MAKING MONEY FROM AN INTERVIEW

If River was interested in making money off the case then she no doubt would have come forward by  herself and not waited for law enforcement to track her down from George’s phone records. ‘

She would have  been all over the media capitalizing on her association with George and her secret information.

Instead, she was reluctant to come foreward.  We all saw her practically  in tears as she walked away from the interview saying that she didn’t ask for this and didn’t want all this publicity. That is a HUGE signal that someone is NOT into this for the money or for the fame.

As far as the Enquirer goes and whether or not she got paid, from what we know it was her sister who may have approached them. The Enquirer like many media publications,  does offer to pay for exclusive high profile stories.

In fact,  for a magazine spread they did on Rachel Uchitel, OK Magazine paid a lot of money to Tiger Woods’ sex partner. Most high profile actors and actresses are paid huge sums of money by magazines  for exclusive wedding or baby photos. So what is the difference here?

The Enquirer may jack up a headline or two to whet reader’s appetites. But the content of their stories are checked and fact checked for the most part. Sometimes they do fall through the cracks and when they do, they are often sued. No one wants to be tied up in litigation so they are very careful. Since this is such a high profile case, you had better believe they were careful. You can be sure they had their team of attorneys just like most magazines have, checking things over.

Also we just learned that ABC paid Casey 250 K for photos and licensing of materials. So why get upset because River or her  sister may have possibly  received some money  for an exclusive article?

RIVER MAY HAVE SAVED HER OWN LIFE

There is another reason I am happy River came forward. She may have saved her own life. From what I understand she is a mother and she in essence saved her life for her children’s sake. How did she save her own life?

We know from Cindy’s past and ruthless   behavior that she tried   to throw several people under the bus  to save her Casey.  Look at what she tried to do to innocent Jesse Grund, Casey’s early on boyfriend, and to his family. They tried to accuse him of being involved in Caylee’s death. Look what they did to Amy Huizinga.

Did George tell Casey about River and describe River to Casey? Did they both collude to make up a  Zanny the Nanny  character who looked exactly like River? Was Cindy in on it?

I found it odd in her deposition that Cindy had such a detailed description of  Zanny the Nanny when she said she  never saw her. In fact Cindy obnoxiously said that Zanaida was a 10 and that the  Zanaida who sat in front of her was definitely not a 10. This cruel statement   devastated the poor innocent young lady. How was Cindy so sure how the real Zanny the Nanny looked?

George followed suit in his description, as he described Zanny as well.

Casey said Zanny the Nanny was a  Latina, had dark skin, wore her hair curly and then straight, had kids of her own, had a sister, had a mother, was about 5 foot 6,  had nice teeth,  had an Asian tattoo, and was a 10!

That is the exactly the description of River Cruz!

Now that this detailed description Casey gave of  “the last person who saw  Caylee” was documented to law enforcement   and validated in the depositions of George and Cindy , what is to say that George and Cindy could not have come forward during Casey’s criminal trial and  pointed the finger at River Cruz?

After all River has the same identifying characteristics as Zanny the Nanny, right down to her Asian tattoo.

What would  prevent them from saying that River was the real culprit who kidnapped Caylee and killed her? What would prevent Casey from saying that River falsely told her that her name was  Zanaida Gonzalez and that she was a babysitter who babysat for Caylee for years?

While it may seem like a  far fetched scenario, anything is possible with Cindy and George in my opinion. Always remember what Cindy tried to do to innocent Jesse Grund.

Could River have been used to create a reasonable doubt so that Casey could get off scott free?

Well now that River’s affair with George  it is out in the open this could never happen. But what if it wasn’t out in the open? Could she have been used as an escape goat for Casey?

WHY CINDY AND GEORGE NEED A LAWYER

The bottom line is that George and Cindy need to be investigated to the point that there is no stone that is unturned. If they knew that Casey was dead while others tried their best to find her, then they should be given no mercy in a court of  law.

I always wondered why George and Cindy had a lawyer. It didn’t make sense to me  that innocent grandparents would have to have an attorney. But after River’s statement which indicates that George may have known Caylee was dead while he allowed others to search for Caylee,  I now see why they definitely need a lawyer.

CINDY AND HER BRA


In my last blog I said that Cindy needed to invest in a bra. I was not being petty. I was being honest and observant. The way a person dresses and comports him or herself is also a  part of body language analysis. Just as Cindy’s gum smacking during her deposition showed disrespect, her lack of wearing a bra or one that fits properly, speaks to her lack of self- respect in my view.

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