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Eyebrow Troubles, Coldness and Ex Beau’s Lust Revealed in Casey Anrhony Trial

Tuesday, May 31st, 2011

When Tony Lazarro was on the stand,  Casey often looked away from him.  She did not focus on him directly. She showed little, if any emotion body language wise. But her upper chest heaving deep breathing reflected  her nervousness  and discomfort . 

When Tony said that they hit it off  the only emotion Casey leaked out was contempt. Look at how her angry eyed gaze and how one side of her lip is pulled to the right. It makes me wonder if she ever liked Tony but was simply using Tony for his club connections as a DJ along with a place to stay.

When Tony speaks of how Casey would initially just come over to his house, he was uncomfortable talking about it as you can see by his lip lick leak.

When he talks about how Casey brought Caylee with him when she came over, he appeared to leaked out that he may possibly not have been that  thrilled  about  it as he cocks his head to the side and purses his lip. One has to  admit that it is a bit awkward to begin a social relationship with a two year old in tow. No doubt Tony’s facial expression reflects this feeling.

When Lazarro says that she did  bring her daughter, he  literally jerks his body back . To me it reflects that he was taken aback at someone bringing their child on an initial date. While he may have welcomed Caylee he may have felt that it was unusual.

When asked if Casey stayed over his house during their initial interactions, he was uncomfortable and embarrassed  taking about it as evidenced by his lip licking and squirming It appeared that she may have just come over for a sexual liaison and left afterwards, not staying the night.

When Lazarro speaks Casey usually seems to look  off to the side, but she occasionally manages to sneak a peak. Casey’s eyebrows appear to be  mutilated. hey She may have over tweezed or shaved them. Oftentimes when people feel cornered, pressured or guilt they may “beat themselves up” or even engage in self mutilating behaviors. There is no question in my view that Casey may have engaged in this behavior with regard to her eyebrows. It appeared that she  tweezed or shaved  away of half of her brow on both sides,  giving her a devilish appearance in my view.

As soon as she sneeks a peek at Lazarro, she immediately turns  away from him as we see in the photo above.

Tony leaks out sadness when discussing Caylee being at the mall with Casey while he was there handing out leaflets. His pursed lips indicated that he didn’t want to discuss it as it no doubt brought back a sad memory.

Here we see Lazarro leak out some anger as he talks about how Casey talked to him about  the fictional people at work and mentioned Jeff and Zanny the Nanny. His curled lower lip shows upset at how he was duped by Casey.

When Tony mentions Zanny, Casey looks away and appears expressionless as she stares in the distance.

When asked if he cared for Casey he said he did but the give away was that he exhibited an immediate shoulder shrug. To me this shows that he may have cared for her but not that deeply. He sort of cared for her. He may have cared for her at that time but was ambivalent.

When their trip to Blockbuster was brought up Tony gets a case of the “itchy scratchies” which indicates that he is uncomfortable talking about it. This was the time that Caylee went missing and he was with an alleged murderer  who showed no difference in behavior and demeanor as they checked out movies.

 

His discomfort continues to be  evident as he discusses how Casey had nor change on her behavior and demeanor at the time they went to Blockbuster. He scratches himself in discomfort and his pursed downturned lips and curled back lower lip  shows that he is both  sad  and  angry about it.

As Tony says that he played hooky from school the next day because he didn’t want to leave the bed, we see him smiling and happy as he recalls his lustful sexual liaison with Casey during that time period. This is significant. Now that Caylee was no longer in the picture, Casey may have felt  more free to express herself sexually. Hence Tony’s intense sexual memories of Casey’s  hyper sexuality at time. It is interesting that he doesn’t express  his lust about her  when Caylee was with her and Casey came over for sex and left. But now that Casey was free of Caylee and  felt more free sexually, her  sexual freedom obviously left  such an indelible impression  in Tony’s mind that three years later as he recalls it, his face reflects the lustful memory.

When Tony is reminded by Jose Baez that in Tony’s deposition  he said that Casey warned Caylee to stay away from the pool, Casey showed emotion for the first time. She showed sadness as you can see above.  But it appears to be contrived sadness as her eyes look tense and sad but her lips are not downturned as one would normally see in a sad expression. To me it appears as though it is contrived.

No doubt, through  Tony’s statement ,  the defense got in their point in of how  great and watchful a mother Casey was and how Caylee seemed to always want to venture into pools by herself.  Now the defense  can easily make the leap that because  Caylee tried to venture into  Tony’s pool alone, she also ventured into the Anthony pool alone and drowned.   .drlillianglass.com

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Sandra Bullock and Jesse James’ Body Language Showed Marriage Trouble For A While

Sunday, March 28th, 2010

While everyone seemed to be  shocked that Sandra Bullock and Jesse James’ marriage is in trouble, with his alleged cheating with now four women,  I wasn’t at all surprised.

Why? In studying their photos, especially during this awards season, I  didn’t like what I saw with regard to their  their public interaction.

It seemed like Sandra was the last to know this as she thanked him at one awards ceremony by saying that she never knew what it was like for someone to cover her back.It was more like stab her in the back!

At the Academy Awards she was thatful for THAT as she pointed to a crying Jesse. But those were no tears of happiness. Those were tears of guilt and shame and knowing he did not deserve this accolade.

In my view, she inadvertently  picked the right work to call him-  a THAT!  A   Nazi saluting white supremacist loving cheater is definitely a  THAT !

INKING OF TROUBLE ON THE CELEBRITY  APPRENTICE

I knew something was really off with this couple during Jesse Jame’s appearance on the Celebrity  Apprentice. The purpose for being n the show was to raise money for your favorite charity. The celebrities have to use all of their high profile and rich contacts in  order to secure the money.  Jesse had one of the richest women in the world to ask- his wife Sandra Bullock, but he didn’t do so.

Donald Trump was surprised. But I wasn’t.e that there were clearly some issues going on in this marriage, perhaps his pride prevented him from asking his richer wife for a handout. While I could  well understand  that- I couldn’t understand why  he wouldn’t do it just for the purpose of raising money for a charity to help others.

BODY LANGUAGE” TELLS”  OF  A RELATIONSHIP  IN TROUBLE

If we go back and look up at the first photo posted in this blog, we will see something that is very telling body-language wise. Sandra is all smiles and happy and has her arm  affectionately around her husband’s neck. But he is not reciprocating her affection. Instead, he is pulling away and looking in another direction.

When couples so not look in the same direction it means they are not like minded. When he pulls his head away from her it is a signal of disdain.

In this photo, Sandra is all smiles again and happy. But she is walking in back of him, This is also a very bad sign for couples body – language wise. Unless you are in a culture where it is customary for the woman to always walk inback of her man, it is unacceptable.

In the photo he is not holding her hand and their facial expressions couldn’t be more diverse. That is also a bad sign. It means that they are not on the same page emotion-wise. It is clear that Jesse doesn”t want to be their based on his facial  expression.

His pursed lips show inner anger. Jesse is pout of his element and he clearly doesn’t like it. They are also looking in different directions which is also a bad sign relationship wise. Sondra is int he back  with his shoulder in front of her which is also not a good sign body language-wise.

Even when Jesse is in his element  and out of a tux and in his  regular casual gear, he is still  looking  in a different direction than Sandra, once again indicating their non-like mindedness. There is also too much upper body distance between them as well as lower body distance  which is also not a good sign. It shows that there may be intimacy problems here.

And here we really see the distance between them which may be indicative of sexual problems between the two and a lack of intimacy. His hand is cupped in an anger like position as is hers. This indicates that there is tension between the two.

Once again they are looking in different directions s she looks  down  nd he looks up, once again reflecting their non-like mindedness.

WAS SANDRA REALLY THE LAST ONE TO KNOW THERE WAS TROUBLE?

Perhaps Sandra was too busy with her filming and awards schedule to even notice there was a problem   between the two. Perhaps she knew all along and didn’t want to face it. Perhaps she was in denial like so many of us can be when we know the other shoe is about to drop.

The bottom line is that she tried and obviously wanted to make it work. He words at the Academy Awards and at Oprah Winfrey’s post Oscar show indicated that she was indeed in love with her man and was happy to have him in her life. In her interview to Oprah she saidf that even though they were different they were really very much alike.

But were they alike in her mind only or were they really alike in how they thought about  life and issues ? Did she know he was a Nazi loving saluting kind of guy? I certainly hope not!

OPTIONS FOR SANDRA

I think that the public humiliation and the betrayal not only speaks to Sandra but to all women. Most women were affected by this. In essence her marriage served as a role model for many oin that it said you can be very different and still find common ground and accept one another.

But this was not the case.No doubt Jesse was intimidated by Sondra’s  stellar success. Instead of making him feel proud and invoking more self esteem and self worth that he could attarct such an accomplished woman, it made him feel less than.

It affected his self esteem to the point that he had to allegedly  intimidate women so that he could feel more powerful and more in control. He allegedly had sexual liaisons with employees and with a similar looking like minded tattooed Hitler loving white supremesist.

It’s all very sickening in my view, While I am a proponent of couples working out their marriage and applaud couples who stick together and work things out, I do not think that in this case there is a goood future in this realtionship.

THE NAZI STINK OF TOXIC JESSE JAMES

Sandra worked so hard to develop her image which translates into box office success. Now that there is the stink of Nazism and white supremacy attached to her courtesy of Jesse James, she has no other choice than to leave this TOXIC MAN in my view.

Sandra is like so many women out there who see a “bad boy”  with a shaky past and think they can be the one to tame him. Well they are wrong as Sandra came to find out, Jesse  was previously married to a porn star and had a two tumultuous marriages.

He was imprinted to be with these type of women and not the” accomplished independent “good girl” type as Sandra.

That is why he was ni doubt drawn to his  stripper porn star Nazi loving mistress, who by the way would be the first one to be thrown int ot he ovens in Nazi Germany based on how she looks with tattoos engulfing her entire body.

Jesse obviously found someone like minded as he too has shown to be a Nazi sympathizer as he made the Sig Heil gesture with two fingers under his nose to signify Hitlers mustache. Little does  Jesse  realize that back in the day in WW2, anyone who  was all  engulfed in tattoos  like he wears and his sex partner  has, would  would be one of the first to be  thrown into the ovens,

Sondra , in my view has no choice other than to walk away from this distorted thinking TOXIC MAN forever and never look back. If she doesn’t, it will speak volumes about her.

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