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Lindsay Lohan’s Mug Shot Gallery- How Many More Will Be See Now That She Has Bailed Out of Jail? Lohan Mom and Dad May Be Source of Her Self Destruction

Saturday, September 25th, 2010

 

When you look at the above composite compiled by TMZ  of Lindsay Lohan’s current  mug shot and the shots  from days gone by, we  cannot help but wonder when we will see more  mug shots  of her.  While Lindsay has  now gone to an appeals court which granted her  bail to get  out of jail for 300,000 dollars until her sentencing on Octber 27th.

 I believe that  until she works out her inner demons that have a lot to do with her mom and dad issues, we will most likely see more of these unflattering headshots of her,  with her eyes gazing upwards as she looks directly at the jail camera lens.

And please don’t say that she is now an adult  and shouldn’t blame her parents.  I say until she works out her deep-rooted issues that involve a hostile and betraying father and an enabling mother, who both try to eek out yet another 15  minutes of  camera time and fame on her coat tails , Lindsay will continue to spiral down the path of self-destruction.

In looking at the above photo, where Lindsay is seen peering out the car window after she was whisked away from the Lynwood Correctional facility, it appears that her few hours behind bars took a  physical  toll  on her. You  can see the bags under her eye and stress in her facial muscles.

 Maybe the fact she initially received no bail and was  sent directly to jail sent her a clear message. Maybe she will be grateful now that she has a few weeks of freedom. On the other hand her reaction may be the complete opposite.

 Lindsay has been told that as  part of the conditions  of her being  bailed out, she  is  not  allowed to be in bars or clubs, she will be  subjected to random drug  searches  and tests, and that she wear  a SCRAM bracelet. If he violates any of these rules she goes back into her cell.

Apparently Lindsay has told her friends that she needs to  be in rehab- not jail. So she may very well attempt to prove that point and mess up once again so that the judge will send her to rehab and not jai the next go around. For Lindsay’s sake I hope that is not the case because her distorted  thinking will backfire on her.She will be  back in jail sooner than she thinks and for much longer this time around.  

JUDGE FOX SAID “NO” TO CELEBRITY JUSTICE AND DID THE RIGHT THING TRYING TO SAVE LINDSAY FROM LINDSAY

I happen to know Judge Eldon Fox, of  the Beverly Hills Superior Court who sentenced Lindsay  to jail without bail . I think he did the right thing. She not only broke the law once but twice with a dirty drug tests. 

A week ago  it was reported throughout the  news  that while Lindsay was driving her car, she  clipped a baby stroller  with the baby in it. She drove away and the baby was unharmed. But what if her reaction time and driving abilities ares so distorted because of her drug use that she ends up seriously hurting someone while she is behind the wheel?

 Just for that reason alone,  I think Judge Fox made the correct decision to take Lindsay off the streets and put her away for her own safety and the safety of others. Perhaps in the time she would have been  jail awaiting her sentencing, she would have been at least  30 days off drugs and alcohol and cocaine and more clear-headed to deal with her future. No doubt he would have then most likely sentenced her to rehab only.

But now that he will be sentencing her next month , I wouldn’t be surprised if he makes her serve the entire 60 days, If she can get more than 60 days,  hopefully he will give her the maximum sentence. This would show her that she can’t manipulate the system no matter who she is.  I also hope  that he  sentences her to a year of rehab that she has to pay for it out of her own funds.     

I hope that  Lindsay takes this golden opportunity to really straighten out her life once and for all. She needs time to do that. I hope she doesn’t get to skirt the system like she has done in the past just becuase of her celebrity status. If so, it will destroy her in the end.

WHY SHOULD LINDSAY, A ONE TIME CHILD ACTRESS WHO CONTRIBUTED  NOTHING OF VALUE AS AN ADULT, GET ANY SPECIAL TREATMENT ?

 Why is Lindsay s special?  In such  a crowded system, why was her appeal heard  so quickly when anyone else would have sat in jail for days if not weeks  until they were et free on bail? 

Why did Lindsay get such special treatment? She has not developed a cure for cancer, She did not give her time and effort to raising finds for a charity to help others. She has done  NOTHING of value on this earth as an adult. Only when she was a child she starred in a remake of Parent Trap and a film called Freaky Friday where she sang a tune.

She was an animated  red-headed,   freckled-faced   kid who’s pushy mom got her into showbusines. That is it!   She had talent, but so do a lot of other kids who weren’t lucky enough to be chosen for  the role. The films were moneymakers but they would have been moneymakers whether Lindsay starred in them or not. Case in point is that the  original Parent Trap made a star out of Haley Mills. Freaky Friday was such a cool concept of a parent and child changing roles that any singing teen  could have become its breakout star.

Having worked with some of the world’s best actors and actresses I am not overly impressed with Lindsay bcuase I have not seen enough of her work as an adult actress. As a child actress she was  animated and could  deliver the right emotions to  the role. So can other young actresses.  But Lindsay was made  popular by the press because of all of her off screen behaviors, drug use and   her TOXIC family members. She is NOT known for being a  great actress who can deliver her skills to any role.

STARRING IN A FILM ABOUT A  FAILED PORN STAR FAMOUS FOR ORAL SEX WILL NOT RESSURECT LINDSAYS FAILED CAREER OR ENHANCE HER IMAGE

Word has it that the producers of her Linda Lovelace film will wait around until Lindsay is available  for the film , This is in order for  them to  reap the spoils off of the enormous PR she will get after her release from jail, rehab, or both.  There are hundreds of actresses who could do justice to the role but they are waiting for Lindsay only because people will be curious to see Lindsay’s work after her jail term.

 In all honesty, who cares about an unglamrous,  former porn with a troubled life. who  was  known for having oral sex in a movie called Deep Throat some  4o years ago? Back in the day oral sex and deep throating may have been a bid deal. Today it’s old news thanks to Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky. 

 Without the big studios  behind the film,  audiences who  simply don’t care about Lindsay or are fed up with her and her shananigans, and those with a strong religious conviction who would never want to see a film about a porn star, one doubts how successful the film will be in the end.

 Also this is not a great career move if Lindsay wants to resurrect her reputation or her career. On the other hand this may be her ony option since she is uninsurable for other films and no one want to take a risk with her.

LINDAY’S  FATHER IS A MAJOR PART OF HER PROBLEM

Lindsay’s  father Michael Lohan’ behavior  was egregious as  he spoke to reporters  while Lindsay skirted off to jail .  His  angrily yapping and  shouting out hostile threats  to Lindsay’s Lawyer  like there was some sort of  a showdown was appalling.

 This time instead of bringing his  lawyer Lisa Bloom  to court as a prop, he  now had another prop- a  clown of a minister whom he paraded in front of  the cameras. It was like watching a bad actor playing a badly cast  minister in a bad movie of the week or in a bad episode of Jerry Springer.

This TOXIC MAN will stop at nothing to get press and to get in front of cameras as she uses his daughter as the vehicle to do so. No wonder, as esteemed televison  reporter Jim Moret revealed , Lindsay walked by Michael Lohan  and ignored her father  as he said the words “I love you” to her. 

 What doesn’t Michale  understand about Lindsay’s not wanting anything to do with him?  Having zero to do with him is the best thing she is doing in my view. However, she has apparently taken all of her  inner anger  that she harbors towards her repulsive and disgusting father and turned it inwards.

Normally I believe that it is a good thing to heal all kinds of rifts, especially those involving ones parents.  But when ultimate betrayal has taken place,  like a parent sharing your personal information in the form of secretly  audiotaping  yourpersonal  conversations and sharing them with the world,  the rift can NEVER be healed. That TOXIC person must be  out of your life forever!

I hope that Lindsay never lets her father near her under any circumstances, especially if  she gets off of drugs and alcohol. What he has done to her is unforgivable. He may end up trying to regain her confidences only to tape record his  conversations with her  and sell those tapes to the press  to make some money. He has done this to so many people in the past. Who is to say he won’t do it in the future?  Lindsay does not need to interact with him to find out the answer.

LINDSAY’S MOTHER IS ALSO A HUGE PART OF THE EQUATION AS TO WHY SHE IS IN TROUBLE

Besides her Toxic dad, her Toxic and  enabling mother who thinks everyone is wrong except for Lindsay should be out of Lindsay’s life if Lindsay finally gets well.  

Dina Lohan has been riding  on Lindsay’s coat tails for years, to get some fame of her own .No doubt she tried to put that deal together for  her and Lindsay to do a national radio show. It was done for  her own good, not Lindsay’s good. Neither of them has the ability or bring anything to the table. So it would just be for PR sake. Once again, it is yet another parent (under the guise of manager)  making  money off  their  daughter and using  her  like they have done her entire life.

Hopefully as Lindsay gets sober , she will clearly see Dina’s negative role in her life and not allow her in her life to run her career or her businesses.

THE ONLY THING THAT CAN HELP LINDSAY STAY SOBER, DRUG FREE, AND MENTALLY HEALTHY IN THE LONG RUN

The bottom line is that all the rehab in the world isn’t going to help Lindsay until she gets to the root of her issues Mom and Dad.If not, she will continue to relapse and have mug shots of her arrests taken over and over , until it will be too late

Fulfilling every day of her up coming jail sentence along with a year of rehab and a year at sober living facility with NO contact with her mom or dad could finally straighten Lindsay out. Look at how well Redmond O’Neil is doing now that he is away from his dad and is not permitted  around him. The same thing could happen for Lindsay.

She would learn to respect herself and serve as role model to others. She would let people knwo wthat you have to unplug or  cut anyone from your life who uses or abuses you even if they happen to be  your parent.

So she is free for now. On Oct 27th she will be sentenced . I hope she gets the full 30 days for each crime- 60 days  if not more and doesn’t  get out for any good behavior or for  time served. I also hope she in the general population where she gets  a dose of reality.

When she does go into rehab and hopefully a sober living home, she  needs to have a restraining order against her father and mother  so that they  don not speak of her publicly and try to make money from her. Personally I think every media outlet should boycott Michael Lohan and Dina and  never allow him any face time because they are the main reasons she is such a mental mess.

SISTER ALI NEEDS TO GET A REAL EDUCATION IN A REAL SCHOOL AS SHE MAY NEVER BE A FAMOUS CHILD ACTRESS OR SINGER 

instead of focusing on Lindsay as her meal ticket, Dina needs to find her own way in life and focus on doing something constructive that doesn’t involve her kids. She also needs to send Ali  back to school to get a real eduction and not continue with her bogus home schooling. She needs to do it asap so Ali doesn’t end up like Lindsay.

And Dina  also needs to get a reality check when it comes to Ali.

Ali  is an OK looking girl, average,  not  pretty,  but OK. She   looks out-of-place  and awkward   as a 16-year-old when dressed  up in Lindsay’s freebie designer clothes and makeup. She has nothing to bring to the table no education, no brilliance, and no overwhelming acting talent and no spectacular singing ability.

She is simply OK and  OK does not cut it in Hollywood.  I am not  being  mean, but Ali doesn’t stand a chance in the competitive world of show business looks wise or talent-wise . There are too many others who surpass her and Dina needs to spare this child tis emotional trauma.

  If she was a good singer she would have already been  signed to label, cut some hit songs,  and gone on tour. InsteAd, I believe she needs to go to school and find something to do with her life other Than show business  and trying to follow in Lindsay’s footsteps as a child star. It’s too late. 

 Lindsay was at the right place at the right time with the right child’s  look  in the right roleS . She grew into a very attractive young lady who had a shot at stardom in her transition from child actress to adult actress.

 But that  window is short-lived as any non working actress who was once an always working 20 something actress will tell you. Lindsay has wasted away a large part of that crucial window of time, where the momentum could  carry her from one role to another.

At the press conference, Lindsay’s sickening father mouthed the AA rhetoric of  people,  places and things. As far as the people part goes, he is clearly one of those people whom I believe Lindsay should  never allow into her  life is she if she  to heal. There is no hope for him in my view. 

 His issues seem to involve  serious character flaws that are scary and dangerous -from his violence verbal and physical,  to his secretly betraying others by taping them or taking nude  photos of them while they are sleeping like he diD to his former fiancé Kate Majors. 

Dina is also one of those people Michael mentioned, who Lindsay needs to stay clear of , if she finally heals.

The bottom line is that unless Lindsay gets some great therapy to deal with her underlying pain involving her  mom and dad issues to along with her rehab she  is doomed. If not, we can expect to see more photos in the  gallery of Lindsay’s mug shoots www.drlillianglass.com.

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Jesse James Body Language Shows He Was Lying About His Racism. His Voice and Speech Indicates He’s Detached From Little Louis

Sunday, May 30th, 2010


NO SPARKLE IN JESSE’S EYES OR VOICE WHEN DISCUSSING BABY LOUIE

When a person really adores someone, whether it is a love interest or a baby, their eyes literally  light up. It actually looks there is a spark in the person’s eye because physiologically their pupils are dilating, so their eyes suddenly change. This subtle and immediate change makes their eyes look bigger and brighter This bright eyed look was completely lacking with Jesse when she spoke of baby Louie.

In fact when Jesse spoke of Baby Louie, he looked away as a form of detachment when discussing Baby Louie.

When the interviewer asked  if there was any reason he and Sandra decided to adopt a black baby, in a dull ,matter of fact, unemotional  expressionless tone,  with a shoulder shrug, he replied “ I don’t care what color the baby is”. The shrug gave it all away. So did his looking away. He looked up and away as though he were attempting to come up with the right politically correct sounding statement.

Of course he cared what color the baby was!.

If he really didn’t care what color the baby was, his demeanor would have been a lot different. He would have  faced the interviewer directly (who happened to be black) and looked right into her eyes as he told her this. His looking away indicated a non- truth tell. His body language showed that he was clearly uncomfortable with the thought baby Louie being a black baby.

LOUIE’S  FUTURE WITH A RACIST DAD

Jesse says he is doing the interview because he is mainly concerned about the racism perception. But when he looks away he isn’t very convincing. There does not appear to be sincerity in his facial expression or in his tone of voice.

When a person allegedly grows up spouting off the N world as his step mom reported to RadarOnline and has done that since childhood, no doubt their racial views are deep rooted.

Because of that , it would no doubt be difficult for these racially charged feelings to not surface.  This would no doubt be a huge emotional adjustment for Jesse to wrap his mind around the thought of having a black son.

On his next breath he says in a dull rehearsed monotone that his only prerequisite was that “ I want a  baby that needs us the most.” As she says this we see a smug smile as though he is pleased with himself for  giving he right politically correct answer.

Well here is a news flash Jesse- EVERY orphan needs a parent. EVERY baby needs someone to love them! And every parent NEEDS a baby to love. This statement concerned me because what if Louie grows up not “NEEDING,”  What if Louie turns out to be is an independent type of little guy and Jesse views it as his being ungrateful. There could be huge conflict and major issue  as the baby matures in my view.

WHERE IS THE LOOK OF SADNESS THAT LOUIE WILL NOT BE ON YOUR LIFE?

Then the interviewer asks Jesse, “How do you feel that the baby will have her name and not yours>”

Jesse once again looks away in trying to come up with the right answer.He then  says with no hint of sadness in his face or in his vocal tone but rather in a flat monotone and mono face. “ It made me sad.” He certainly didn’t look too sad. Instead, he looked rather relieved.

His facial expression was in marked contrast from the facial expression seen above when he found his lost pit pull. He had more excitement and facial animation towards his dog than he did when speaking about his “”son.”

“HIM” HAS A NAME- LOUIE

When a person calls a  new baby an “it” or a “them” or a “him” or a “her
and doesn’t refer to the baby by name, especially in the specific context where a name could be used, it means that the person is detaching  and objectifying the baby.

It can also mean that bonding has not occurred. I have no doubt that this is the  case with Jesse. It may seem like a picky thing but it speaks volumes.

Jesse  no doubt hasn’t bonded with Louie or he would have called him by name.  In contrast, Sandra called Louie by name when she spoke of him in her most recent interview.

In trying to describe how Sandra so readily  took to mothering, he relayed “as soon as she picked “HIM  up…” He didn’t call the baby by name and say as soon as she picked Louie up.”

WHAT WAS SANDRA THINKING??

After watching Jesse on the Apprentice play the game so passive aggressively, discovering his egregious Nazi like actions, and now hearing him speak, up  I can’t help but wondering.  what  WAS Sandra thinking when she got involved with him?

He seems so limited and so different from the person she not only portrays on screen but from who she is. I k ow several people who know Sandra and they rave about her. So what happened?

I will tell you what happened and I will tell you even more about what happened when my new book comes out in Novemebver called TOXIC MEN- Identify, Deal With and Heal From Men Who Make Your Life Miserable (Adams Media).

Sandra  is not alone;  Like so many women, she got   involved with a TOXIC MAN for a myriad of reasons.

  1. Perhaps she saw who he was  but felt that with a lot of love she could be the one to tame him and change him. This is a huge mistake that so many nurturing types of women make, to their detriment.
  2. Perhaps she felt needy as her mother had passed and she wanted someone with whom she could bond a share a life.
  3. Since Jesse  had a ready made family, perhaps  she thought she could easily involve herself and contribute a lot to his  children.
  4. Perhaps she got sexually turned on by his bad boy” image and persona.
  5. Maybe was great in bed,
  6. Perhaps she was sick of  dating or being alone,
  7. It is possible she wanted a man to complete the package of her image
  8. It could be that she wanted someone to love and would do anything and put up with anything in order to make that happen.

And the list goes on and on.  One of the things I share in my new book is ways people can learn the signals of dealing with a Toxic Person like Jesse James you jump in and get involved.

WHAT??? JESSE HAS TO LOOK AT THE PHOTOS  OF HIM IN NAZI GEAR TO REALIZE THAT IT WAS A JOKE !!!!‘

The first thing Jesse says to the interviewer with regard to the photo of himn in the Nazi hat and salute is that he doesn’t remember taking that photo. As he says this his eyebrows are raised and he cocks his head to the side. This is a pleading facial language.

In essence he is pleading for the interviewer to ‘lease believe him. When someone is showing their  head cocked to0 the side and their eyebrows are raaised they are really saying that they know that they won’t be believed, They know that the person won;t buy what they are saying so they are in essence pleasing that they will buy it via their facial expression.

Unless he was drunk or high out of his mind or has Alzheimer’s, of course he remembers taking the photo. Wearing a Nazi had and doing a Nazi salute is a memorable event. If he doesn’t remember taking the photo, perhaps it is a commonplace event in his life, perhaps he made that salute all the time and wore the hat around the house all the time so he may not have remembered that a photo was taken of him doing what he always did.

Then with open eyes and looking directly ate the interviewer, he has the audacity to say that he could tell by looking at the photo that it was a joke.

The more Jesse spoke the more disgusted I became with him. I don’t care what anyone says, the fact that a person would don a Nazi uniform and give a salute and actually think it was a joke shows what a disturbed person he is  .

There is absolutely NOTHING funny about wearing a Nazi hat and emulating a Nazi leader who caused havoc on our world six decades ago. The repercussions of  Hitler’s actions still exist to say and it is NOT a laughing matter by any means.

It would be the same thing as someone putting on black face makeup and putting a noose around their neck. That would be the biggest insult to any African American who suffered this horrible  during one of the ugliest times of our history when blacks were slaves andf were lynched for no reason at all.

Lamely, Jesse says “it was funny for a minute, but now looking at the context  in my life now its not funny.”

All of this was said in a boring nasly monotone which make you wonder  how Sandra could have listened to his irritating  voice for all these years.

When someone uses the word funny in the same sentence as Nazi  there is something seriously wrong with them in my view.

FURTHER OBJECTIFING LITTLE LOUIS BY CALLING HIM “THAT BABY”

As he talks about Sandra and Louie he continues to depersonalize  Louie by saying : “As soon as  she put THAT BABY  on her hands it was automatic and amazing” The fact that he didn’t call little Louie by name speaks volumes to me.

Louie is NOT “THAT BABY ”, He is a person with his own identity and his own name. If Jesse looked at him as a an actually person he would have called Louie by his name.

Then with regard to Sandra Bullock  he  further added “ I found a new trust for her, like I knew she wasn’t going to leave, and our relationship blossomed.”

WHATT??? What does that mean” Does that mean that she was planning to leave him at one time?

SHOWING NO SADNESS WHEN TALKING ABOUT BEING SAD ABOUT BEING CALLED A RACIST.

The one thing that rubbed a lot of people the wrong way was the fact that Jesse showed no remorse. Even though he said he was sad, he showed no signs of sadness in his expression as he spoke these words:

“There’s not a racist bone in my body.” I think out of everything, this is why I’m doing this interview the most, because you know, dealing with losing my marriage and my son and embarrassing everyone and decimating my life, but to be called a racist on top of that is, it makes me really sad.”

When people’s emotions  are incongruous with their words it disturbs people. It is what a lot of sociopaths do. They speak the right words yet they show no signs of emotion to go along with those words. His vocal t9nes do sound like those whoa re sociopaths. It makes me wonder if Jesse is indeed a sociopath.

His  stepmother said in an interview that he liked to kill small baby animals. If that is the case  he scares me to death. All I can say is thank GOD little Louie does not have  Jesse’s last name and  Jesse  will not be raising him.

I hope and pray that Sandra never allows Jess  back into her life.  But I am sure  that she will allow Jesse back in some capacity the sake of Jesse’s  little  daughter Sunny and his older son.

That would be a huge mistake  to let  Jesse  back into her life as her significant other  or her love interest, not only for her sake  but for Louie’s sake .

Jesse’s body language screamed  racism and if that is the case what is to say that he  may very well take out  his inner hatred towards minorities like Jews and Black’s on innocent  black baby Louie.

It may not come out directly and it may not come out for a while . In fact, because of all of the exposure, Jesse  may  very well be on his  very  best behavior around Louie. But eventually your true feelings about Blacks will most probably surface . It may may manifest in his  tone of voice , in what he says and how he acts towards   Louie. as Louie gets older.

I preay that Sandra allows this child to have nothng whatsoever to do with Jesse . If what  Jesse’s  step mother said  is true and he said the N world frequently without batting an  eye as a child and if  he  harmed and killed baby animals  like his step mother alleges m then he is  a seriously disturbed and sadistic  person who in my view  should not only  be shunned by Sandra  but by  everyone else.

ENJOYING BEING THE MOST HATED MAN IN THE WORLD

In the photo above Jesse shows a very genuine smile complete with raised cheeks, lips apart and   teeth showing. This expression was seen right after he corrected the interviewer that he was not the most hated man in America, but rather the most hatred man in the world.

Based on his facial expression he seemed rather pleased with that title as he continued to smirk.

But Jesse may be the only one who is please with his new title.  Most people are not pleased as no one can ever embrace a  person who is  racist, a liar, a person who shows no remorse, and a baby animal killer if what his stepmother says is true. www.drlillianglass.com

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