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Dr. Lillian Glass Annual Top 9 Favorite Gift Ideas for 2011 Including the BEST Body Language Gift

Wednesday, December 21st, 2011

Each year around this holiday time I like to share my thoughts on what special gifts to get yourself, your  family, friends,  loved ones and even those whom you may not know personally ,who  could benefit from your love and kindness.  You can give or get these gifts all year round as well.

1. The best  Body Language gift to give anyone you care about is a  genuine sincere uninhibited heart to heart hug where your chest (outside where your  heart  is located) is on the other person’s  chest where their heart is located  . Oftentimes, you can feel your hearts both beating together as you hug. Most people don’t give good and meaningful hugs.

They stand too far away or they are at an awkward angle because they feel uncomfortable or inhibited. As a holiday gift to yourself and someone you love, get comfortable real fast  and get rid of any hang ups.  This hug takes between five to 10 seconds to do as you continue your hug for that long.  This hug will be remembered forever. Its a hug you need to do with your husbnd, wife, lover, kids, parents and best friends.It speaks volumes. It says that you really LOVE that person with all your heart. While it may be free, it is actually priceless.

2. The warmest and plushest blankets. Get several for and yourself, your  family  and friends so you  will keep cozy as you are tucked in your bed all year round.

I often keep several of them in the trunk of my car so I can pass them out to those  I see in the street who may  happen to be homeless. Seeing them smile makes me smile and that is the best gift of all.

You can get them at any drugstore or discount stores in you area for a very reasonable price.

3.Not Just A pillow By Suzy Smith

2. 3.      Its Not Just A pillow by Suzy Smith

Suzy Smith is an amazing artist and she will custom make ANY pillow for you that you want. Whether it is your pet, family member, love of your life, you or anything  else you like, she will use her amazing creative skills to make something special.  She will match your décor and make it in any materials or colors you like.

Besides pillows she has other very personalized products like table runners and so many other things. Her prices are very reasonable and you can either email her or speak to her personally to let her know what you want.

She importalized my precious dog Lambear a lhassa apso in pillow form which is proudly displayed in my living room.Visit her website at http://www.facebook.com/notjustapillow

5 .UGGS Slippers. For men and for women I love the way they look and feel. The cool thing about them besides the fact that they  cuddle your feet  all day long, is that  you can wear them indoors and  outdoors.

You can get  black and grey and tan for men and women  and there is also a really cool pink purplish pink color for women which I own and which you can see above .

They are around a $100  and  you can wear them all year round as well.

So you get the real deal and so you won’t get ripped off  with knock off’s  go  to the official UGG site at

http://www.uggaustralia.com/on/demandware.store/Sites-UGG-US-Site/default/Search-Show?q=slippers

6. Anythng Polka Dot and I mean Anything!

It does’t matter if it is a coffee mug, sheets, underwear, pillows, a keychain, a shirt, pajamas,  a dress or a tie , polka dots make you feel happier. If they are colorful they especially put you in  a better mood.

Maybe it is the contrast of circular shapes that brings us back to our childhood. Maybe it is the fun we associated with polka dots as children like when we saw  clowns or  played with toys in that pattern.

Polka dots say fun and  playfulness. They usually make me smile.

7. My Best Selling Book TOXIC PEOPLE

This book can change your life. I wrote it back in 1995 and the information applies to this very day. It has literally helped millions of people around the world as it is translated into practically every language around the globe. Learn how to deal with the people who make you miserable. Learn the techniques to use that actually work and can change your life and turn it around for the better. Never be a victim again. Now you will learn you have choice.

Whatever you do  I would not recommend your ordering   copyright infringer Marsha Petrie Sue’s version of  the book  with my same title . She had the audacity to not only call her book by the same name as mine Toxic People but she had the audacity to copy my actual material word for word. Last year I sued her in US Federal Court in California and won .

So nowMarsha Petrie Sue  is officially a bona fide copyright infringer.  She has suffered the repercussions of her actions as this Arizona public speaker was kicked out of the National Speakers Association and she was stripped of  honor as a Certified  Speaking Professional this year.

My biggest gift last year was seeing justice served in a US Federal Court  against Marsha Petrie Sue for her egregious behavior. It is also a gift to all of you who are in any creative field of endeavor. No one has a right to take your materials and claim them as their own. You never have to be a victims as the law is on your side.

To get the real TOXIC PEPOLE and not  Marsha Petrie Sue’s copyright infringed version, clck her ego order from Amazon

http://www.amazon.com/Toxic-People-Ways-Dealing-Miserable/dp/0312152329

8. Everlast Cardio Punching Bag

To go along with my Toxic People book,  get an Everlast Cardio Punching bag. They stand upright and you can punch away as you use my fantasy technique which I describe in my book Toxic People.

Just  fantasize who’s head you would like to punch off. Never use  actual physical violence on anyone because you don’t want to ever get yourself in any trouble. But you can certainly fantasize about what you would like to do to that person.  Just don’t ever carry out your fantasy in real life. The bag is enough to get out all of your frustrations.  It sells between $61 to $100 and you can get it  at various places on the internet.

Beth Bath and Beyond has also sold them so that validates that it is  a useful item to have around  your home.

9.ORCHIDS 

If  you are a flower giver or getter orchids are the best flowers ever because they last a very long time if you care for them properly. You have to water them and keep then out of the direct sunlight. I love them.  the purple ones are gorgeous and there are others a well with all kinds of beautiful patterns.

They last all year long if you care for the and they create an elegant addition to any room in any home or in any office. But they aren’t cheap and can run up to $100 with a nice vase attached but they are worth it. I have several orchid plants around my home and one  in my office.  They make me happy to look at  as they are so visually pleasing.

1o. Colorful Wall Clocks

The best way to add some fun and excitement to any room is with a colorful wall clock. They don’t have to be expensive. They just have to be colorful. Ikea one of my favorite stores and  favorite places to eat ( I love the Swedish meatballs and lingen berries and mashed potato lunches for $5) has them in various colors. You can put different colored clocks in very room and  the colors will make you happy.

A lot  has been written about the psychology of color and I am a huge supporter of this theory. I have experienced it on a personal level. That is why my office and my home are decorated in specific colors to bring out the various moods I want in each  living and working area.

Here is a little  color gift for you. If you are dieting or don’t want to eat a lot,  keep your kitchen blue . If you have a red or orange kitchen it tends to stimulate your senses as well as your appetite.

So there you  have it.  The best gift would be to get yourself all of these gifts I suggested. Maybe you can get yourself one each month so every month is a holiday  for you except for the real holiday months of November and December.

Have a great one and I want you all to know to I love you and thank you from the bottom of my heart for all of your love and support on my blogs. And for all you haters– well there is that Everlast Cardio Punching Bag! (LOL)   Merry Christmas and the Best New Year Ever!

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Fake Tears While Casey Anthony Hears Charges Against Herself Once Again As She Fails To Look At Potential Jurors

Friday, May 13th, 2011

 

Casey looked a lot better today as she entered room , appearing more refreshed. This indicates that she must have had a shower and more sleep. pont She also spend mort time grooming her hair coiffed into a split ponytail with hair around her face.

  Once again she was  not seated between  Jose Baez and  Cheney Mason .  Instead  she was  situated between Ms. Finnell and Baez’ attorney Ruiz with whom Casey has developed good rapport. 

While it was reported in the press that that Casey was crying, Casey was  clearly NOT crying real tears! They were not genuine tears.  Instead,  they were her usual manipulative fake non liquid tears we have consistently seen her use for manipulation . The reason I say that they are fake is because there is no liquid coming out of her eyes and that people do not cry one eye at a time.

Yes her nose was red but anyone’s nose would be red if someone wiped it consistently. As the first few charges were read,  Casey does not put her Kleenex up to  her face. She does breathe heavily as she pushes out a burst of air through her mouth. She also shakes her head “No” as the beginning charge is read.

 Ms. Ruiz is disturbed about Casey’s alleged crying behavior as she writes frantically on her notepad with her red pen. Casey finally reads the note and stops her fake crying as she continues to look down, away from the jury pool.

Jose Baez gets wind of what Casey is doing as well. He turns over to look at  her and he is clearly annoyed about it.

What Casey does not realize is that she has already began digging her own grave with her negative first impression. She has made all the jurors feel  uncomfortable. They feel uncomfortable enough just being in a courtroom and now seeing Casey look like she is boo hooing it makes them feel even more uncomfortable, therebty adding to their stress levels.

What is even worse is that  by her behavior of not having any eye contact with the jury pool as the charges were read, Casey has essentially told potential jurors  she is” guilty” by not looking at them. www.drlillianglass.com

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Casey Anthony’s Body Language Signs When Learning a Child’s Body Was Discovered Speaks Volumes

Saturday, November 6th, 2010

After reading the report from  Lt.Tammi Unser  at the correctional facility  which described what Casey did when she watched the television report concerning Caylee’s remains, it is apparent  to me that Casey’s  body language spoke volumes about what she knew about Caylee and whether or not she was guilty.

1, Casey falls into the chair. She is  obviously weak  in the kness here and is physically unbalanced as she falls instead of sits in the chair .

2.She began doubling over and begins to breathe rapidly. This is a telling signal in that it means that her autonomic nervous system is taking over. She can no longer control her breathing.

3.She asks for her belly chains to be loosened as she felt they were too tight. In essence her abdominal are is working overtime as she begins  hyperventilating. Thus  the air in her abdominal area expands and makes her feel like the chains are getting tighter. No doubt she also felt pressure in her stomach region as she quickly realized  that she could no longer get away with her lies .

4.She lifted her head up and leaned back in the chair, however her eyes were closed. The lifting up of her head was an automatic reaction to open the airway to get some air into her system.The leaning back in the chair was a type of resignation that she was now caught. The fact that her eyes were closed is very significant. It says that she didn’t want to see or acknowledge what she allegedly did to Caylee. It was a form of denial on her part.

5. She stated Oh No when she learned the location on the news and that it was the body of a small child. At this point no one knew that it was a little girl’s body. The fact that she didn’t say” I hope it;s not Caylee” or something to that effect  says a lot.  A simple Oh No may  likely reflect  ”Oh No I’m busted” or  ”Oh No  how could they find  her?
 

6. Began pulling at arm and fidgeting with hands says it all, This is not only a signal of deception This is often a signal of guilt and self mutilation when someone is found out.  Pulling  and wringing of the hands usually  signifies that someone is extremely worried about something.

7.She said she wanted to speak to her attorney. If someone wasn’t guilty about something  and  simply distraught about thinking a found body might  be their daughter’s body,  why wouldn’t they immediately want to speak with a mental health professional as opposed to their attorney? One would want to confide in a person who has the ability to comfort them and help them cope with a potential loss? But no. Casey wanted  to speak with Jose Baez. She wanted her attorney because she knew that the finding of the body and where it was found required the help of an attorney, not a psychologist.

8. She continued breathing rapidly and fidgeting with her hands when talking to him. (Dr, Branch) Here is where you see how the body doesn’t lie. Her autonomic nervous system has taken over and is in full force with the rapid breathing and uncontrollable nervous hand gestures and movements.

9. She assured  both of us she would not hurt herself. Of course Casey would not think of hurting herself. She is too much of a narcissist and a coward. She said hurting herself would not solve anything.Here we see how she is for the first time coming to grips with the reality that she must now have to deal with the problem of Caylee’s remains being found.  She did ask of she could get a sedative to relax. Here we see how Casey is thinking about Casey first and foremost. She feels uncomfortable and doesn’t like that feeling so she wants to numb herself. She is in fear and wants something to calm her fears so she does’t have to deal with that emotion.

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11.It was too early to cry and she was not going to break down. What???? To early to cry???? If someone was distraught about the possibility that the body that was found was her child,  they couldn’t stop crying! They would be inconsolable. The fact that she used the words too early to cry screams manipulation. If anything points to Casey being a sociopath, this is it! She is devoid of any true or real emotion.

11, She appeared to have red eyes from cryingHer breathing was normal No doubt if Casey was crying  any real tears those tears were for herself and not for Caylee. She was most probably crying about what was going to happen to her.On the other hand, maybe she had no tears. After all she was not  actually seen crying by  Lt. Unger based on how Casey was positioned. So perhaps Casey was doing her old “stick her finger in in eyes to make them red and wipe away the non tears act “which we saw  so often in the courtroom. Why did she suddenly conjure up some  red eyes? After all there were no tears initially. If someone really loved a child and had an inkling the child found may have been theirs, they would surely shed real genuine tears. They would keep shedding those liquid tears and would not stop shedding them. They wouldn’t just have red eyes.

12 Her stomach no longer hurt and she didn’t feel like throwing up.Of course not. Her ice cold system was back to it’s normal state. Her autonomic nervous stem was no longer on active duty. Most people would still feel queasy or uneasy if they thought it was their child who was found. They would feel enraged that someone could  do something like that to a child who could be theirs. Their stomach would be in knots. But not case;s stomach. She was fine. Maybe Jose reassured her that he would save her and that there was no evidence that she killed Caylee and that they would have to prove it for her to be guilty. So she no doubt felt like she was going to get away with everything.

13. She asked if she could take a shower which she was given. She felt calmer after her shower. Of course she felt calmer. She in essence washed away her sins. When a sexual predator says that they took a shower or washed themselves off, chances are they are guilty. They are washing away the evidence and their guilt.  Similarly Casey’s  request for a shower and washing away her guilt over allegedly killing Caylee is quite symbolic. 

14. Her eyes appeared red however she had a calm demeanor Please tell me how you can have red eyes from all that crying and still have a calm demeanor. You cant! You can only have a calm demeanor when you are not crying real tears but you are sticking your fingers in your eyes or rubbing them a lot. the calm demeanor is disconcerting, True she took a sedative. But even so, there is no calmness if you thought the child you loved so much was murdered by someone else.

To me this report says a great deal.  It says that Casey cannot feel real feelings. It says that she may indeed show signals which reflect her upset about being found out  about allegedly  killing Caylee. It shows that she is manipulative and that her main concern is about self. It would be very interesting to see Dr. Brand the mental health professional’s report and the report from Ms. Pat.  I wonder what she said to them and how she looked and sounded when she said what she said to them. www.drlillianglass.com

 

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Tiger Wood’s Mistress, Rachel Uchitel Needs Voice Work For Her TV Gig. Mean Girl Revelation and Body Language Signals of Deception Speak Volumes

Thursday, February 11th, 2010

RACHAEL’ S VOICE IS DEFINITELY NOT CAMERA READY FOR TV

As someone who has spent a lot of her professional life helping actors and on camera talent have a better speaking voice and become camera ready. I can assure you that no matter how well known Tiger Wood’s sex partner is, she won’t last on TV for long.

Her voice, in my opinion is downright annoying! The extreme nasal quality and the boring monotone,  throatiness and uptalk at the end of sentences may be appealing in Tiger’s bed, but they are not appealing over the airwaves.

The harsh glottal attacks which reveal an inner anger and defensiveness were also off putting. Her throaty closed off vocal quality was also a major turn off to one’s ears.

YOU KA TELL SHE LOOKED LIKE A HOOKER ON EXTRA

Her physical image with her now darker hair to apparently de-bimboize her, gives a conflicting message when paired with her ultra- short skit and very low cut top  revealing her separated cleavage, often indicative of breast implants.

If she wants to not be regarded as the” ho” people think she is for cheating with a married man, then she needs to  revamp her dressing style in my view.

This is the same woman who got her panties in a bunch when Joy Behar kidded around and said “YOU KA TELL SHE”S A HOOKER”. Well her getup on Extra certainly made Joy Behar’s words ring true as the way she was dressed  certainly helped make her  like a “hooker” in my opinion.

YOU KA TELL A LOT ABOUT HER CHARACTER AS” MEAN GIRL”  RACHEL BULLIED THE “UNCOOL” GIRLS
IN HIGH SCHOOL AND HATED HER CLIQUE

There was also a type of arrogant quality as she spoke to Mario Lopez about her life. I particularly did not find her likeable or watchable, especially when she spoke of what she was like in high school,

She described herself as being an original “cool”  Mean Girl. As soon as she said that, she completely turned me off!

To me, it spoke volumes about her character- purposely being mean to others and bullying them  for no reason, other than she may have felt that someone was beneath her or that they were not “cool!” Hearing that made me sick!  The fact that she would even admit this to the world, made me think that she is really not that bright.

Obviously Rachel hasn’t changed much as an adult, as she has continued to hurt people and not think about their feelings and the consequences of her ugly actions. After all look what she did to Tiger’s wife and the wives of the other married men with whom she was allegedly involved.

This woman with ugly character  in my view, also has the audacity to tell the word how even in her “cool “ clique hated each other. How disgusting! She obviously didn’t learn loyalty. By her own admission,by hating her “friends” she learned early on how to be two faced, duplicitous, and deceitful.

Then this woman who  got her panties in a bunch for Joy Behar calling her a hooker, got paid millions of dollars to not discuss Tiger or write a book about him. Just as hookers make money for doing a sexual service, she received money for doing the service of not revealing their sexual escapades to the public.

Rachael then told of how the girls she bullied turned out to be beautiful and successful and how she would see them in the street and  apologize to them 25 years later. Even if this ugly bully Rachel  apologized to them, her ugly words and bullying behavior no doubt left emotional scars on her prey. She even laughs as she said this making her look sadistic and witch-like.

WITH FRIENDS LIKE YOU KA TELL YOU DON’T NEED ENEMIES

Then “You Ka Tell”, outs her “friend”by telling the world the friend was suicidal because the friend’s boyfriend broke up with her. She didn’t need to add that bit of personal information. But she obviously thought it would make her look “cool” and like a good friend as she demanded her “friend”  “get into the car with me and dive across country.” If Rachel was a real friend and not the selfish Toxic person she has revealed she is, she would have taken her friend to a clinic or to a doctor if she was suicidal.

Also what if it comes out in public who this “friend” is who went on this road trip with her. That would be horrible. Now, thanks to her “friend” Uchitel,  everyone would know she tried to kill herself over a breakup when she was younger.

911 SELF CENTEREDNESS

Rachel also sickened me when she describes how her fiancé died in 911. Her selfishness and self- centeredness is out front and in the open as she says “ I lost my future.” What about her fiancé? He lost his life, for God’s sakes! She doesn’t talk about that.

Then she says there is nothing I couldn’t handle because of that.  Again I I I I I I and ME ME ME ME ME patterns emerge!

When she spoke of “Andy” it was in a matter of fact monotone voice like it was just another experience in her life to get her where she is today.

RACHEL’S  BODY LANGUAGE TELLS OF BS

She is completely bullshitting as she describes herself as a homebody and saying she doesn’t venture out much. This is Miss NY Night Life Who is the  VIP Care Taker.

Her lip licking tell gave her statement away as  away  BS in her attempts to de-hookerize her image.

BIKING ALONE ACROSS MOROCCO…..RIGHT!!!!!

She is also a contradiction of  terms as she describes herself as a homebody and then tries to sound like Miss Adventurer as she describes  how she biked across Morocco by herself for 14 days.  You can’t have it BOTH ways! You can’t be a homebody and an adventurer!

Having been to Morocco and seeing firsthand how women are often harassed and mistreated and knowing a lot about the culture, I seriously doubt she was out biking alone without being harassed.

No doubt she was visiting someone, like perhaps a lover, and was biking on the premises of an exclusive resort where the two lovebirds were staying! As she tells this BS story in my view,  she pulls her head back and jerks her body back which is often a tell of deception. This is what people usually do when they aren’t being forthright and when they are lying.

HAIR TOSSING  TALKING ABOUT THAILAND

Now we really see and hear her bullshit as she says she travels a lot alone. There are several hair tosses which is often associated with deception.

You see it when she talks about her trip to Thailand and how she went alone. She may have flown there alone but in my opinion based on all the hair tossing, head jerking and  downward head movement , that  I doubt she was completely alone when she was in Thailand.

You see a significant body language “tell” as  she pulls back and says how she studied for two weeks with the moi toi kickboxing team.

She bends  head down and looks down and  her vocal “tell” of inflecting her voice  upward as if she knows what she is saying is not totally true, is evident.

Maybe she went with a guy who was on the team or  who studied there. Perhaps she went along with him. Perhaps he is a married man like Tiger so this information can’t be verified.

Also how does a nightclub worker in the VIP section of a club who essentially guards the VIP rope, have all this time and money to travel to these exotic places so often and stay for weeks at a time? Could it be that some VIP who got through the velvet rope is paying for her to accompany them to these exotic places on perhaps exotic trysts?

IN TEN YEARS RACHEL SEES HERSELF WITH A FAMILY OF HER OWN, HAPPY, PROUD AND EXCITED

Finally, Rachel says she would like a family of her own. Wouldn’t hat be something is she had a family of her own and some ho, hooker, mistress, call girl or prostitute  did the same thing to her that she did to Elin Wood- cheating with her married husband. Wouldn’t that be karmic justice if she found out about it the same way Elin found out about their affair?

Rachel  then said she wants to be at that point in her life where she is happy and proud and excited. Well she may be there now. She may be very happy that she is now a household name. She may be very proud that she with the help of her attorney  sucked out millions from Tiger’s wallet  as a payoff for her silence about their affair. And finally she may be excited that she has millions of dollars to her name so she never has to scramble for money again, and equally  excited about the fact that she has a TV gig on national TV.

GETTING REWARDED FOR EGREGIOUS  BEHAVIOR- A HORRIBLE MESSAGE FOR YOUNG GIRLS

I hate the fact that Rachel Uchitel, a sex partner to a married man who got her panties in a bunch because a comedian called her a  hooker, a moniker that  many people have called her, has now been rewarded for her bad behavior.

This is a horrible role model for young girls to see. I cannot stand the fact that young women are seeing this woman extort  millions of dollars from Tiger just for keeping quiet about the details of their affair. I detest that she now has a   TV gig with no professional training and without paying her dues, just  for sleeping with a rich and famous guy and getting caught!

It is sickening and sends a horrific message to young women.  I hope that her TV career lasts for  15 minutes  so that young women can see that even though someone may be infamous and be out there in the limelight, they don’t have staying power when they have no qualifications and a horrible speaking voice to boot! www.drlillianglass.com

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