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Groom’s Body Language During Wedding Before Committing Suicide Says It All

Wednesday, November 23rd, 2011

Fernando Brazier , 28 committed suicide just a few hours after his marriage ceremony to the mother of his two children Trudian Hay.

This photo of the two of them walking down the isle is haunting. Look at Fernando’s body language. He is stiff. He leans away from his bride. There is no smile on his face. He is wide-eyed and there appears to be an enormous amount of tension around his mouth and shoulder area a he awkwardly hold his bride’ hand. He does not look like a man who is happily in love or happy to be married.

Trudian Hay, who is also the mother of his two young daughters has no clue what he was about to do a few hours later.In contrast, she appears to be elated and in a world of her own. She is laughing. Her head and body  is turned away from Fernando as she  has no clue that he  looks extremely uncomfortable, upset  and  almost on a state of shock as he completed  saying his vows and walked down the isle.

No one seemed to notice Fernando’s misery as he and the bride kissed as they all looked on , sharing in what they thought was the couple’s mutual joy. If you look closely at their post marital kiss he is stiff and non responsive.

It is Trudian who appears to be more dominant in reaching up to kiss him as indicated by the way she is straining and elongating her neck. He doesn’t bend down to meet her kiss. He is ridged  in his posture and there appears to be no joy expressed in his face. It is the complete opposite facial expression that his bride has on her face.

Trudian leans into fernando but he looks pained . he looks as though he is about to cry- and not from happiness. He looks terribly sad as he shows no affection and does not reciprocate the leaning in towards Trudian. His shoulders are slouched and he looks severely depressed.

Apparently Fernando was so upset over feeling forced into getting married by Tudian , according to his sister, Shawna Weeks that hejumped into the Harlem River  and ended his life.

According to his sister, Fernando came to her home every week after work to talk about his concerns – and stated his eyes were eyes “blood shot” and in a state of despair. She said he shared with her that he and Trudia “had nothing in common and .”That’s why they postponed the wedding a year ago. He was being pressured into it.”

And that  Tudia was a to be a “great person,” but “just not for him.”

HE  WENT THROUGH WITH THE MARRIAGE

But  unwillingly he went through with the wedding anyway.Perhps he didn’t know how to say no to Trudia, that he didn’t want to marry her. Perhaps the fact that he reportedly dated her since they were teenagers made it more difficult to break it to her that he didn’t want to spend the rest of his life with her. Maybe he felt obligated  to go ahead with it because they had a two and a five year old together. Maybe he didn’t want to upset their families who knew one another for so many years.

But Fernando’s tragic act has now ended up hurting EVERYONE- his bride, his family, her family, their friends and most of all their babies who now have to grow up fatherless.

He was  clearly depressed. His sister confirmed it. He reached out to his her but unfortunately he wasn’t equipped to say No. He took the cowardly way out  in my view. He did a very TOXIC and  passive aggressive act. He went ahead and married and gave Trudian what she wanted but then he in essence said, I’ll show you, I’ll marry you but that’s it. There is no living happily every after with us.

LESSONS TO BE LEARNED

This tragedy upsets me on so many levels. It upsets me that poor Fernando didn’t see a professional who could have saved his life by either giving him needed medication or by teaching him how to stick up for himself and his needs and say NO to the marriage.

It upsets me that Trudian will  now be traumatized for the rest of her life as will her children.

All Trudian  most likely  wanted was happiness and the dream of having her man. Who knows if she gave him ultimatums like so many women and men unfortunately do-  marry me or you won’t see the kids or marry me  or……. (fill in the blank).

I don’t know if Trudia did this but Fernando; sister seemed to imply that she as the one who pressed him into marriage. If that is the case it upsets me on yet another level.

For decades , there have been  books written on how to get your man to marry you. SO many of them are filled with techniques of how to manipulate your man to get them to marry you  ( they can apply to gettingyour woman to marry you as well). I have always been in opposition to these books and the authors who write them .

While you may very well get someone to marry you by following their cookbook approach. But will you get that person to stay married to you? The answer is a resounding NOOOO!

Fernando’s story  is one  tragic way out but there are others- from violence to abuse to living separate lives to cheating to being miserable.

If one of the parties does not want to marry you, you can’t manipulate or force them. It HAS to be mutual or chances are it won’t end well. You can’t clap with one hand and you can’t marry with one partner being all for it an the other one being unwilling.

I am sure there are stories out there of the reluctant bride or groom who ended up being married for 50 years But were they happily married?  Most likely they were not and for whatever reason the reluctant bride or groom adapted.

The bottom line is that you can’t manipulate for force anyone to do anything- especially marry you or it might end up like Fernando and Trudian’s tragic story. And most important of all JUST SAY NOOOOO if you feel something isn’t  right and TALK to a professional. If Fernando did this he may have been alive today.

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Cain Accuser Bialek’s Body Language Screams Signals of Deception

Friday, November 11th, 2011

As you know by now I cannot stand SPIN, fakeness, phoniness, lies and manipulation. I hate  it when people think that the public is dumb and will buy any story put in front of them.

As someone with no  political agenda I am able to see things objectively and clearly . So no matter who the candidate is,  I don’t like what is being done to them.  That is the case with candidate Herman Cain and his latest accuser  Sharon Bialeck. Her accusations were made at the side of  strong Demoratic supporter Gloria Allred, who made sure she stood breast to breast with Sharon, to insure she got  into every photo op shot of the two of them together.

So what is wrong with this picture (besides the fact Gloria Allred is in it)? What is wrong with the picture is that

  1. Bialek’s  body language , speech and voice scream multiple signals of deception and
  2. her  story makes NO sense whatsoever as she inadvertently ends up painting herself as the aggressor  and not the victim

BIALEKS’  BODY SAYS OF TELLS OF DECEPTION

Body language wise, as I watched her over the top recitation at the presser,  it wasobvious  to me that she was  most likely in my view making this stuff up. If she is telling some truth then she is disgruntled because

  1. she hit Cain up for a job when she was fired and he didn’t come through for her,
  2. and or someone put her up to this (like perhaps Gloria Allred who may possibly have solicited her as a client) ,
  3. and or she is desperate for her 15 minutes of fame in hopes that it will help her career.

The fact that this allegedly happened 14 years ago is suspect in itself . Why did she not come forward then? And don’t tell me she  is a victim of sexual harassment who suffered from Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome.

She didn’t look much like she had PTSS when she smiled and showed the most incongruent elated facial expression at the end of her speech as she  implored Cain to make things right. Then she gives a political speech about the times we are in and the leaders we need. People with PTTS don’t talk like that. There is clearly an agenda here in my view.

Look at Gloria, who can’t even look at her client.  In fact, she  doesn’t look at Bialeck throughout the whole presser. Allred clearly  knows the drill and has obviously orchestrated all of this public zoo like drama as looks down making  sure Sharon is following the script she most likely  wrote for her.

Bialeck Initiates and Instigates By  Flirting and Flattering Cain

Bialeck  begins by saying  how she met Cain and how he sat next to her at the National Restaurant Association convention . She slips up by saying’ During the conversation” and then corrects her self by saying “ the convention “ rather. When someone stumbles like this it is usually a signal of deception. She is reading words which are not heartfelt and most likely not from her directly.

Then she  relays she thought  that Cain was an inspirational  speaker. She said to him “When are you running for President?” As she relays this, she shakes her head “No “ and purses her lips and looks down which most likely means that she did not say that. So there is another signal of deception here.

If this occurred 14 years ago as she said, the thought of a Black man running for President was not even a consideration as it is now. So that means if it did happen she was merely flattering him, toying,  and flirting with him becuase she knew quite well that during those days,  a decade and a half ago, a considering a Black man for President was not a reality.

She then says he invited her and her boyfriend to attend an exclusive party and says she felt “honored to be included.” That means she didn’t deserve to be included  and knew deep down she didn’t belong there, but felt grateful  she could attend. Also the use of the word honored means that she allegedly held Cain in high esteem.

Fired From Her  Organization, Allegedly  Manipulates Head of Organization , Cain To Get Her  Job Back

Then she said she was let go (FIRED) by the Foundation and was  devastated. WHY was she let go? That is the burning question. She said she was devastated. Why was she devastated ?

She then puts blame on the organization by stating that she felt she was doing well in the short time she was there in terms of fundraising. Well maybe her definition of well and her bosses deinition of  “doing well “well were two different things.

As she describes her personal story of being” let go” FIRED , there is a marked difference in her delivery. She is fluid and fluent and isn’t reading from the script. So it rings true she was  indeed fired and that she was indeed upset by it.

Allegedly her “boyfriend”  said for her to reach out to Cain, as she, he  saidHerman seems to think kindly of you. WHY would he think so kindly of her after sitting next to her at dinner for a few moments?  Is it  because she was flirting and flattering him to death. Most likely.! It’s called kissing up to the head of the organization- the  boss.

She said she called Cain and he took her call and she told him she was let go and he said he was not aware if it. Don’t you think that if the head of the organization heard their employee was let go, they would want to know WHY that person was  let go?

Don’t you think that after he found out  what she allegedly did, he would want nothing to do with her?  Cain was a political person back then, so why would he make waves in the politics of his own organization and re hire a fired person? It does not make sense. Also it is suspect to me to call someone for  a job and just happen  tell them the name of the hotel you are staying at.

SHE Instigated The Alleged Meeting- NOT Cain And Shows Many Signals of Deception.

SHE then explains since she was unemployed,  her boyfriend booked a room for her at the capital Hilton. Isn’t that a bit piggy of her? If you are unemployed and have no money and someone else pays for you to stay at the most expensive hotel in DC, wouldn’t you  let them know you couldn’t accept it because it was too pricey and

Relaying to the public that she took the room so freely sounds like she feels entitled to it and smacks of  a “gimmie gimmie “gold digging” mentality

She asked where they should meet,  another aggressive act. She relays he said they meet at the hotel lobby bar. This means that he was not having hanky panky  or ulterior motives on his mind as he allegedly suggested   an open  public place.

When she discusses the suite  that she was arranged by Cain she shows deception as she explains that she thought it was her boyfriend trying to surpsise her That is too much information and indicative of deception.

Body language wise she he looks down and lip purses, further indicating signals of deception.’

Being in the restaurant hotel business, herself,  she could have finagled an upgrade all by herself. What would be the motivation of a man whom you met once upgrading you when he allegedly doesn’t know what you want or why you are coming to see him.

She says he  took her to dinner  and  he promptly said WHY ARE YOU HERE? Isn’t that odd that someone would ask you why you are there when you yourself set up an appointment to meet them and they meet you for a drink? Also if HE asked why  she was there, it indicates that he did not have any ulterior motive with her. He had no idea what she wanted from him.

Thus, we have seen  yet  another aggressive pattern by Bialeck. Did  she finagle him to buy her a dinner saying how hungry she was?  Did she flatter and flirt. Was she flattering and flirting  so much at dinner that he had to say WHY ATRE YOU HERE ?  Was he thinking, what in goodness sakes do you want from me? Are you a hooker or something?

If she wanted a job all she had to do was call his office, meet with him in his office and ask him for a job in his office. The operative word here is office .Done and  completed!  But her drink and dinner BS may have been leading him on to make him question her as to why she was really there.

HARRASSMENT SCENARIO MAKES NO  SENSE AND SHOWS MANY  SIGNALS  OF DECEPTION

Then she says she asks him to help her get her old job back  or get a job in a different department as she allegedly hits him up for a job.

So did he say, yes or no or maybe? The fact that she doesn’t relay what he said is suspect in itself.

She then reports he  allegedly takes her in his car and drives her to the National Restaurant Association and sexually harasses her WHAT ??????????

If he allegedly upgraded her to a suite  as she said earlier, don’t you think he would harass her in her upgraded suite he allegedly secured and NOT in a car.

She described what she wore and said he had a suit with his shirt open. WHAT??? What happened to his tie? And why was his shirt open? Did did she open it? Was she flattering and flirting  and unbuttoning his shirt?  This sounds like BS to me. If a man is interested in having sex with you, he di going to unbutton his PANTS not his SHIRT? And did he do this when he was driving her around DC when they were stopped  at traffic lights ?

She does NOT say he parked in front of such and such building and attacked me. This is nonsense.

This  most likely NEVER happened as she stutters on her words while she relates he had with his shirt with his shirt open ,, When people repeat  significant words they are usually lying .

She looks down as she said he was going to show me around the offices . She touches her nose just like she did in the above photo when discussing the hotel drinks they most likely did NOT have.  Look at Gloria flowing the script along with her client.

As  Bialek describes  what she wore , she interjected UM’s  ( a huge signal of deception. As she said  instead of going in the office he reached over and…..   she SWALLOWS HARD- another huge signal of deception . As she says that he reached over and he put his hand on my leg , she has a shoulder shrug which screams LIE!

Also as she discusses how they met for a drink, she covers up her mouth as you can see in the photo. That is a signal of deception. Cain claims he never met the woman, let alone met her for a drink. Her tell certainly  may indicate this.

Also her response to Cain’s allegedly putting her hand up his crotch sounds bogus.

She asks him “What are you Doing ? You know I have a boyfriend? WHAT???????? Does that mean if she didn’t have a boyfriend it would be fine to touch her crotch?  Her response sounds very off. One would say STOP, DON’T , NO! One would not give the reason to not continue  as to their having a boyfriend. It makes no sense .

She also showed no anger or upset as she relayed this moment and in essence relived it.  That is another HUGE signal of deception.

She said she told her “boyfriend” and  a mentor and that she was embarrassed. Of course she didn’t tell them the details because nothing probably happened because she told them nothing.  If  something sexually inappropriate  really happened and your alleged boyfriend was the one who supposedly suggested you set up the meeting, don’t you think you would tell him everything?  And who is this “boyfriend”?

Then she leaks out the above facial expression which is inconsistent with what she is saying. Her eyes needed to be open wide and eyebrows raised as she spoke of ‘surprise”. Instead she makes a closed off disgusted look with head cocked to the side which is another huge signal of deception.  Also she minimizes what she says by saying  “kind of normal”.

Bialeck  Beams and Smiles At Her ALLEGED  “Harasser” 14 Years Later?

Her face literally   lights up whens he said she saw him again. She said in an upbeat voice  as she said you remember me? He obviously didn’t remember  her  among the  hundreds of thousands he has met over the past 14 years.

As she describes his speech, he says as he spoke he had the same infectious presence when she first heard him. She lights up and  beams a huge smile as she says this. Here is a HUGE clue of deception in my book. When  you have been sexually harassed by someone,  he last thing you do is flatter them publically or even go to see them.

The last thing you would do is light up and beam a smile. Instead your brow would furrow and you would have a look of disgust and anger on your face. Bialeck had a beaming smile instead.

Does This Smack of  A Political Agenda  or Setup?

She said that when she asked if he remembered her,  she wanted him tocome clean for HIS SAKE AND FOR HIS CANDIDACY When someone is harassed they are not thinking of the other person’s sake ortheir candidacy. She also self corrects which is another signal of deception.

Then she gives some altrusitc BS by saying she is the face  and voice behind women who are afraid to come forward voice.  Puhleeeze!!!!!!  Now I am convinced that this must have been written by  by Gloria  or her minions as the rhetoric sounds way too familiar. It sounds like what  many of her other clients have all said in their pressers as she sttod breast to breast with them in front of the microphones.

When she starts her final statement with a political message of  how America is in turmoil and what kind of leader we need, I am even more  convinced someone put her up to this. If you are harassed you are not thinking about your country in turmoil.  She  also smiled as she said this. This is incongruent behavior with someone who was harassed.

In the above photo she scratches her face and looks down at significant points in the speech. This usually indicates deception.

She claims it happened 14 years ago . Why come out NOW when he is running for office? It is because she and those who most like likely wrote this speech want to smear up his candidacy.

Based on her body language, voice and speech tells this is NO shrinking violet. She seems like a strong willed aggressive woman who speaks her mind.  She is no shrinking violet or some little victim.

On the contrary, she is a woman who LOVE, LOVES, LOVES the media attention!!!  She was beaming on all the morning talk shows


In these above photos this look like a sexually harassed woman who was traumatized by what Cain did to her 14 years ago. To me she is the voice and face of someone who finally got her 15 minutes of fame or infamy.www.drlillianglass.com

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Dr. Lillian Glass Weighs In On the Baby Lisa Case

Saturday, October 29th, 2011

So many of my precious readers have emailed me and asked me my thoughts on the body language of  Baby Lisa’s parents.After analyzing the Anthony case in such great detail only to see a child killer ( intentional or not) go free and watch the killer’s repulsive  parents exploit the media and  make millions off of a dead baby, the last thing I wanted to do was to get involved in yet another story of a disturbed mother and her missing child.

The Anthony case was upsetting in so many ways, from

  1. the judge;
  2. to the jury;
  3. to the unlikeable and arrogant male  prosecutor,
  4. to a  certain member of the media who sensationalized the case as “entertainment” with her dramatic  ”bombshells’  in her   career move as she nauseatingly “kissed up” to Cindy Anthony claiming she  identified with Cindy as  a “mother” when perhaps her actual  motive was to “dance” around Cindy in hopes she would appear her show;  to watching her try to redeem all the negative public  backlash against her result of this case  by embarrassingly dancing her way with the stars;
  5.  to watching the Anthony’s continue to manipulate and deceive both  on and off the stand while making millions of dollars and avoiding  jail for lying on the stand;
  6. to knowing that after her year of probation, Casey Anthony can leave the state of Florida or  the country,  erase her past and  start a new free life  with no consequence and no remorse, even though she allegedly took a life.

  I want no part of this or  any of the people involved.  Nor do I want any part of the Baby Lisa case.

But because so many of you asked and because I respect you and your wishes, I will respond. I will share my thoughts but I will not report on the Baby Lisa case regularly. It is way too distressing and that is not what I choose to do with my time.  What I am about to share says it all.

 

Similar Patterns Seen in Missing Baby Cases Where The Outcome Is Tragic  

First and foremost, after weighing in and analyzing the body language of so many of these “missing baby” type cases throughout the years from Susan Smith to Andrea Yates to Casey Anthony, I discovered that there are certain patterns or tells when a parent is up to no good. Debbie Bradley, Baby Lisa’s mother shows many of these patterns.

  1. First there are the crocodile tears and the ability to quickly turn the waterworks on and off. I noticed this with Debbie Bradley.r Look at this photo above. Who wipes their eyes at their temples? Someone who isn;t really crying!

 Here is more of the fake boo hooing. She rubs her eyes with both hands like someone does when they are over tired. She is not wiping away tears. When she removed her hands from this position, there were no tears which could be seen which indicates she was faking it in my view.

2.The lack of cooperation with law enforcement or the on and off cooperation with law enforcement is another signal. When someone has nothing to hide, they tell ALL and they do EVERYTHING to help law enforcement help them.  No matter .how tough the police get with them, they always cooperate if they have nothing to hide.

 3.Another pattern is when a story ill. She changed. Debbie Bradley changed her story and that is a huge sign something foul must have happened.

4. The justification syndrome is another tell. Admitting she as drunk helps appease her guilt and may justify her actions in her own distorted mind as she may  think ”Well I was drunk- so I am not responsible if anything happened to the baby.”

5. The Adding Clue Syndrome. Debbie maintained all along that three cell phones were taken along with baby Lisa. When someone is trying to create an alibi and take the onus off of themselves  they will  often give out additional information in an attempt to distract.

First of all who would kidnap a child and take not one , not two, but three cell phones? Were the cell phone sall in one neat place or did they have to go around the house to search for  them. If they went around the house searching or cell phones, wouldn’t she or the boys have heard this? The answer is obviously yes.

 Debbie clearly did not think this all the way through when she mentioned the robbery of the  cell phones. Of course they went missing, She didn’t want any evidence on them.

 6. Another pattern is the baby snatching window story. This is a very common theme among so many who report their babies missing, only to find that they have harmed their child in some way.

People don’t usually come into one’s home in the middle of the night to snatch a child. It is rare There is  noise when someone opens a window or cuts a screen. There is also the noise of movement  from the child or their  crying or whimpering after being disturbed from their sleep.  

Usually the homes where these children are allegedly snatched are small like the Debbie Bradley’s home,  so it would be easy to hear and see an intruder. As you can see this is not a  two or three story mansion where you may not hear noise. But of course if you are drunk or passed out you can conveniently say you didn’t hear or see anything.

7. She is way too prepared to be charged with a crime. She said she  expects she will be for something she didn’t do. An innocent person would never say this. They would demand their innocence.

 8. They will not allow witnesses which are their two young sons to be questioned the night Baby Lisa went missing. When Elizabeth Smart went missing her parents allowed her young sister to be questioned. As a result of what her sister told them, they were able to identify the kidnapper.

 When a parent does not cooperate this is a huge signal of guilt in my view. People who are not guilty want you to speak to everyone who can give information. They have nothing to hide. It seems like Debbie and her husband clearly have something to hide by not allowing these boys to speak to law enforcement.

 9. When lawyers are in the picture and lawyers quit forced out   that is not a good sign. Usually they quit because they have an uncooperative client who doesn’t heed their counsel or they know their client is guilty and don’t feel in good conscience they can defend them. Also why would anyone need a lawyer if they were innocent?

 

10..When the mother goes on a press junket and starts looking better and better in terms of  her  appearance, makeup and dress it usually indicates that are loving all the attention, which they obviously  lacked and needed in the first place.

They begin to feel like celebrities with all the media attention and  newfound money - lots of it . Those photos you see of baby Lisa on the news arenot free. They   are licensed out to a photo agency who pays huge money to Baby Lisa’s parents. The news venues then pay a  to the agency to use the photos. So everyone gets rich.

 Suddenly Debbie is not so sad because all the new found photo money just made Baby Lisa’s “disappearance” a lot more easier to deal with. The more Debbie evades and denies, the more the story stays on center page and the more photos are used.

11. Baby Lisa’s  father has no emotional reaction. He sits there stoic  like a bump on  log. And please don’t waste your time to tell me people grieve differently. There are universal reactions and he shows none of these reactions,  which in my view means he must know something is amiss. At first there was the arm around Lisa.

 As time passes he grows more and more physically distant as we see above. He leans away from hre. His hand is hiding in his pocket indicating that he isn;t revealing all of his true felings to her.

He even walks way ahead of her. This is a very bad sign body language wise as it means he is distancing himself from Lisa. Don’t be surprised if he suddenly jumps ship and spills it all out.

So what happened to Baby Lisa? We can speculate all we want from

  1. Debbie rolling over on the baby while she was sleeping and drunk or perhaps sitting on the baby while she was drunk and suffocating Lisa,
  2. to  shaking the baby in anger if Baby Lisa cried,  in the middle of the night,
  3.  to plain out maliciously  killing the baby  because she was angry at the father. Maybe she didn’t like that he took a new job where he had the night shift.
  4. Maybe she has post partum depression. Her drinking may be a form of self-medication.
  5. Maybe her two boys got too rambunctious with the baby and accidently killed her. Also why were these two boys conveniently sleeping with her in her bed? Was Baby Lisa in the bed too?  Did she get crushed?
  6. Cadaver dogs hit a cadaver on  Debbie’s bedroom floor. Did the baby fall off the bed, hit the floor and die or was she killed on the floor?  If Debbie was in her bedroom sleeping with the boys and someone allegedly took the baby, did they kill the baby on her bedroom floor while she was asleep in the bed with the two boys  before they snatched the baby?

 Needless to say,  body language and communication wise something is very very  wrong. I am not accusing Debbie or her boys of killing the baby accidently or on purpose. I will however say that just as Debbie marked to the press,  I  too would not be surprised if she eventually ends up behind bars.

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Omar Sharif’s Toxic Body Language Typical of An Abusive Man

Friday, October 28th, 2011

When I saw the video of icon and leading man heartthrob back in the day, Omar Sharif of Dr. Zhivago fame ,I was beyond shocked. He abusively slapped  a woman simply because she wanted to have her photo taken with him. It was appalling. What was more appalling was looking at the video frame by frame and seeing how he gets enraged, slaps her, goes off on her, feels guilty about it, tries  to make nice but he is still  angry as he considers her the catalyst  for making him angry.

Meanwhile, like many abused women, she smiles through it all an accepts it. But the smile is tense and a smile of embarrassment.  Her body language reveals fear. As he tries to make nice, she backs off. He agrees to take a photo with her but his body language shows that he still habors resentment towards her.

Several years ago a study was done which showed women in Qatar tend to overlook when they are abused. That is devatsating news. The woman Sharif slapped seems to demonstrate this .

Below are the shocking series of events.

Sharif’s body language shows he is enraged  as he slaps this poor woman and yells at her that she needed to wait her turn to have her photo taken with him.

The woman fears him and his rage as she holds up her hand defensively.

The woman smiles and continues to smile throughout the ordeal.This is typical of abused women who may believe that they “deserved” it. No one deserves this kind of treatment-EVER!

He continues to berate her.He gestures wildly to ask her what he was thinking. All she did was try to get a photo with  him. An Egyptian, Sharif is considered one of the biggest  Middle Eastern  actors of all time. So for this woman to get a little excited and perhaps not wait her turn to get his photo is understandable.

He continues to berate this poor woman unmercifully. It is so embarrassing that the woman standing next to him who is most likely a handler bows her hed in shame as she wears an ambivalent smile.

Sharif now has a sudden change of heart as he realizes what he has done in front of the cameras. Can you imagine what this Toxic man must do when there are no cameras present ?

You can actually see him thinking about what he just did as the expression on his face  dramatically changed. His handler on the right has now distanced herself from Sharif as she looks downa nd away. Meanwhile the abuse victim continues to wear a mask like smile of embarrassment in order to save face..

As he has second thoughts as to what he did he bows his head in sham and walks over in the slapped woman’s direction. The photographer in the corner appears to be nervously amused and surprised . Hence the tense  ambivalent smile. He wonders what Sharif will do and whether there will be some more berating or slapping.

He comes over to her and this time the abuse victim cannot even beaar to look at him as she holds up her hand with the palm of her hand showing in an defensive gesture. He looks at her with hate and disdain. She creates a barrier between them with her hand as she looks away , yet continues her ambivalent smile. In essence she is guarding herself from another potential slap and or verbal abuse from Sharif.

He tried to “make up” by allowing her to have a phot with him. She obliges as that is what she wanted in the first place. She continues smiling her mask like smile as she did throughout the entire ordeal.  Meanwhile he turns his body away during this photo op as he really doesn’t want to have his photo taken with her but he does it to make himself feel better in trying to right his wrong in slapping her.

He now turns to look at her and says something in Arabic which causes her  to have a genuine smile. Look at the crinlking around her eyes. It is no longer mask like. She is  clearly taken aback as you can see by her retracted chin. This leads me to believe he may have even apologized to her. This is tyoical behavior of so many abusers. They las.h out, feel guilty and try to make things right.

Now they get ready to pose for the photographer. The woman is back to her mask like smile. He leans in for the phoo and looks at her to see how she is reacting to all of this. There is a look of  remorse  on his face  as he leans into her and looks directly at her. She does not look at him. Instead she looks in the direction of the photograher. Even though she has a slight smile on her lips, her eyes reflect sadness.

The photo is snapped and the woman is elated. Here she wears a genuine smile. It was a huge price to pay, but she finally got what she wanted- a photo of her with Omar Sharif. He leans in but does NOT smile. He is not happy with himself that he acted like a complete jerk for the world to see. His hunched over shoulders show embarrassment,  He feels even worse that this woman seems so happy now that the photo is taken, despite her slap.

The woman is so pleased and says thank you to him several times. In true Toxic Man form he turns away from he  and doesn’t even acknowledge her  thank you. He can’t wait to get away fast enough.

This is HORRIBLE! He is lucky the slap took place in Quatar. had it happened in the US, this woman would be very rich and he would be facing criminal charges as he would be hauled off to jail.

Having written the book Toxic Men which was released last year, I can assure you that Sharif shows all the characteristics of an abusive man. Here we all saw it frame after frame. Having seen the real Omar Sharif, there is no way I would even consider viewing any film he was in. This image of him slapping a woman is in my mind forever and that is the image I would see every time he would come on the screen for his acting scene.

This incident shows up a lot. It shows us how we idolize people for no good reason. We idolize them simply because they were in a film or on TV or they played well in a sport we like. If we admire and look up to  someone we should know a lot more about them-like their character. Apparently this was no an isolated incident.

Apparently Sharif has a long history of  getting physically abusive  with people  . In fact less than a decade ago, he attacked a policeman in a Paris casino and four years back, he pleaded no contest to” misdemeanor battery” for beating up a Beverly Hills parking attendant.

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Dr. Lillian Glass Message to Body Language Blog Readers

Thursday, October 27th, 2011

To all my wonderful Body Language Blog Readers:

I wanted to let you know that the reason you haven’t seen a lot of posts from me lately is because I have been working on my books and doing TV show pilots. I just finished the final touches on my upcoming book called, See Something, Hear Something, Say Something! Guide to Identifying Body Language of Terrorist. My co-author, is Vincent Sullivan, a  former Special Agent with the FBI and former member of the Joint Terrorist Task Force. The book is awesome with a lot of original research and new data about how to recognize terrorists. I am certain It will help save a lot of lives and we are so proud of this venture.

Next, I have been working on another book where I will tell you everything I possibly know about reading body language and voice and speech tells so that you can use the information to gain that added advantage in your life. I will give away all the secrets so you will know it all.

Then I  participated in several television pilots. Hopefully the one for my own show will come to fruition, so keep your fingers crossed.

So now I have some more time to give you  more blogs on  my views about news makers from my body language , voice. speech  and psychosocial perspective. Eventually I also plan to do some video blogs for you in the future and I am working on making that happen. I seem to do much better with the spoken word than the written word.

For those of you who complain about my spelling and grammar, my apologies. I got a new Mac book Pro, so hopefully there will be less spelling errors. As far as grammar goes, I purposely write these blogs exactly as I speak, so you will feel as though you and I are having a personal conversation. I don’t apologize for that.

As you know from reading my previous blogs, I am quite direct, candid and hate spin, phoniness and BS. I also have no issue with anyone who disagrees with me or shares a different view. But I do take issue with those who do it disrespectfully and in a Toxic and nasty  and hateful manner as they  hide behind their moniker of anonymity. I do understand that a lot of topics generate a lot of fierce emotion like hate. But don’t collapse your hatred about those who are featured in these posts on to  me. Instead put your hatred where it really belongs- not the messenger.

Now  I would like to say some final words about the Casey Anthony  case.  I have to admit that reporting so intensively on the Casey Anthony trial and analyzing all the players involved took its toll,  especially after the verdict was read. I was beyond shocked when  I saw justice not served. When I recently read that Judge Perry  released the jailhouse videos of Casey  upon discovering that Caylee’s body was found and that he did not allow jurors to  see this, it confirmed my view that Perry in essence  was more concerned about himself in not having to re-try the case.   I also believe that the jury liked Jose Baez a lot better than the prosecuting attorneys and that was a large part of why the verdict turned out as it did in my view. I also believe that the jury wanted to go home. It was 4thof July and they wanted out! Analyzing the body language and speech and voice patterns of Cindy and George Anthony on Dr. Phil repulsed me. I adore Dr. Phil. I know him personally and think the world of him and felt that he asked great probing  questions which allowed us to see who these Toxic people really are. He gave them enough rope and they hung themselves for good.  He was a lot more diplomatic with them than I would have been.

I would have let them have it. But then they probably would have walked off the show and there would not have been an interview. I detest liars and these two liars lied in these interviews based on the tells I observed, just as they lied on the stand. That is unforgivable! Why aren’t these people held accountable? Anyone else who lied on the stand would be in jail. Why aren’t these people in jail. And YES I hold them as responsible for Caylee’s death as I do Casey. They knew who their daughter was, yet chose to enable her.

I am boycotting the Anthony’s along with a lot of other people out there. I don’t care what more they have to say. I hate that the despicable Cindy and George have made millions off off this poor child’s death and have manipulated and used the media to their benefit.  They said it all with their body language.

Now people are asking me to weigh in about the baby Lisa case. After the Casey Anthony case, the last thing I want to since do is spend time analyzing a mother and father of a missing baby. But since so many of  my precious and loyal readers asked for it,  I will share my views about Baby Lisa’s parent’s body.

While I will always discuss the body language of news makers who happen to be in high profile criminal cases, I don’t plan to make it my focus. fact I stopped doing over the top sensational crime oriented shows which appear to be  designed for” entertainment”. The “bombshells “ rudeness” “unleashing” and “ugliness” are too manipulative and too disturbing. So, along with the criminal cases, you will be reading a lot about celebs politicians, sports  figures and world leaders as they  will  all be put under the Dr. Lillian Glass Body Language microscope. Good to be back.  www.drlillianglass.com

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Casey Anthony’s Body Language on Recently Released Jailhouse Tape Shows Extreme Signals of Anxiety Associated With Guilt

Sunday, October 9th, 2011

In the words of Casey Anthony “ Surprise! Surprise! ” Her body language tells during the recently released  videotape when she  discovered Caylee was found  dead, show a person who is in extreme anxiety and screams guilt!

These body language tells say it all. Casey Anthony’s autonomic nervous system is in full gear as her breathing if affected. You can physically see her chest heaving as she hyperventilate. This is the result of her respiratory system trying to oxygenate itself.

In the above photo we see her first learning Caylee’s remains were found. She is hunched over as though the wind has been knocked out of her, which is the case. Her mouth is agape, indicating surprise.

Look at her mouth. It is wide open. Her jaw has literally dropped as she finds out that she is not so clever after all and that Caylee’s  body was discovered. When people are in shock at a discovery,  the muscles holding up their jaw slacken and the lower jaw literally drops.

The expression on her face suddently turns to fear and anxiety as her jaw now tightens and her brow area tenses. She holds on to her arm for self comfort and self protection and support.

In this photo we see the extreme  extent of her anxiety and her feeling vulnerable as she literally throws her head back and exposes her throat. When someone does that it is a huge sign of guilt.   You often see this position when someone is caught at something they should not have done or they are exposed. It is  a common body language positon seen in failed suicide bombers who are caught in the act.

Casey holds on to herself tightly as if to protect herself. Her feet begin to move as though she wants to get out of there. Her legs are apart and she is hunched over as though she is resigned to her fate. Her facial expression transforms to a very serious one. She also developes a case of the itchy scratchies which means her autonomic nervous system is kicking in once again. Her capillaries  have expanded due to the anxiety. The sudden  blood flow changes create discomfort. Hench the itch and the scratch.

Here she literally  doubles over in cramp like style (which she also pulled early on during her trial). Her digestive juices are increasing, due to the high level of stress and anxiety ,which happens when people have suddently learned of  some very bad news. This often results in their physcially feeling as though they want to defacate.

Oftentimes those who are guilty who are interrogated by law enforcement, will suddently lose bowel and or bladder control. This is what happened to the Underware Bomber when he was interrogated.

Here Casey’s body language retreats into a fetal position. It is the ultimate signal of guilt. Ther person is so overwhelmed thatthey want to escape by wanting to retreat back into the womb and hide. It is a very primative and self protective body tell.

In her fetal position she   begins to self comfort by rocking her self  back and forth.  In doing so she is attempting to sooth the intense physical feeling she is no doubt experiencing. You often see this with criminals who are suddenly left alone  in the police  interrogation room as  as they are observed through video or a two way glass. It is often a signal that they most likely  had something to do with the crime.

Next we see her muscles stiffen but as she is lierally paralyzed by fear. She does not move for a long time.

Here is Casey in true form with angry raised fists  as though she wants to punch or physically  beat on somene. She is pissed off. She is angry in a major way. She is angry that the remains were found and angry at herself or at the person who  helped dispose of the body,  as Cindy has always mentioned. Was that person Lee or George? Was she angry at them for perhaps not doing a better job of hiding Caylee’s dead body?

If the jury saw this this tape Casey would have been on Death row.  This tape angers and sicken me. To me it is clear evidence that Casey is guilty

Seeing these tapes make me detest Cindy Anthony more than ever. She absolutely knew what was going on, yet she lied  on the stand and in the Dr. Phil interview to protect Casey . But what about Caylee? doesn’t her life and her memory  count for something?

Judge Perry was not the great judge in my view that has been reported by so many. I think he was thinking about his retirement and bending over backwards so there would not be a retrial and he could wash his hands of this case. I have no doubt he is thrilled it is over and he has nothing more to do with it. I find it insulting for him to have released this tape now  instead of during the trial where the jurors could have seen it.

And on the subject of Judge Perry, I am appalled  at his judgement  when he sent that mentally disturbed woman to jail for her outburst early on. She needed a verbal reprimand and then needed to be banned from the courtroom, not put in jail, especially since she had a baby to care for.

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Emotional Pain of Seeing Michael Jackson’s Dead Body Language During Opening Arguments

Friday, September 30th, 2011

Seeing Michael Jackson’s dead body language in this shocking photo which was  presented by the prosecution  on the first day of the  Conrad Murray is beyond devastating and painful for me. The photo says it all. In my view, it will also  have a lasting effect on jurors just as it has an indelible effect on me and anyone else viewing it.

It shows a helpless Michael Jackson  lying on a gurney covered with a sheet on the lower half of his body. It shows the results of the actions of a doctor who irresponsibly administered propofol when he should have known better than to give it to his patient.

So what if was reported  Michael demanded to have it.  So what of Michael allegedly had a drug problem and drug addiction issues. It was not Michael’s call. Michael was the patient and not the doctor. But unfortunately as we see here,  there are doctors who will do whatever a patient wants  simply because they are a star and can pay big money and they know they will get a lot of perks. Unfortunately this  goes on all the time in Los Angeles doctors who cater to the Hollywood community. In fact there is a vulgar name for these type of doctors who are often referred to as “STAR F***ERS. Unfortunately , this was clearly the case here.

Seeing Michael lying there so helplessly with his mouth agape brings forth a myriad of emotions. For me it brought forth a torrent of tears. It stimulated a personal memory of how sweet Michael was to a homeless woman just days before he died. Having my office on Bedford Drive in Beverly Hills, I was well aware of a sweet  woman who used to hang out in the street.  Many passers by, including myself often watched out for her, giving her food and money.

One day Michael spotted  her after he left Dr. Arnold Klein’s office  a block away on Roxbury Drive. He had his driver stop his black SUV and  summoned the woman to come inside his car where  she later shared that  Michael gave her words of  encouragement and inspiration and was so loving and generous. with personal gifts and money.

Seeing the above photo continued to make me cry as I thought of Paris and Prince having to see their beloved daddy this way for the last time. I thought of Blanket who is still as  traumatized now  as he was since the funeral.

The photo also brought forth anger in me . The anger is directed at Conrad Murray, a doctor Michael  trusted. That trust was betrayed as the doctor left the room to chat up his girlfriend while  Michael was in crises.

While Murray should have never administered the lethal drug outside of the operating room, let alone in Michael’s bedroom, the fact that he wasn’t there to monitor Michael with proper equipment and left Michael all alone is unconscionable.

Had he been there and he seen that Michael was in physical trouble, he could have quickly  revived him or he could have done  immediate  CPR measures to save his life. Michael died because of this doctor’s negligence in my view. Whether or not Michael had other issues or health related issues is irrelevant. In my view Murray’s negligence is what  put the final nail in Michael’s coffin.

Yes, everyone deserves a fair trial but what is fair about leaving a person alone to die by not monitoring them? It screams of incompetence, lack of humanity, selfishness, and sheer greed.

Watching all of the nuances and the verbal gymnastics by the defense is a waste of my  time and emotion. It hurts me deeply to watch this trial on a very very  personal level as well.

I know firsthand  what it feels like to lose a loved one at the hands of an incompetent negligent  doctor who  committed malpractice. My  own very beloved brother  Manny was killed at the hands of such an incompetent doctor who intubated him wrongly so that he became a vegetable and died. The doctor was only a doctor for seven months when he recklessly  and incompetently ended my vivacious brother’s life.

Thus,  I feel very deeply for the Jackson family (except for mercenary and obnoxious Joe). I feel for Michael’s kids the most and for his mother Katherine who not only  had to put up with Toxic Joe all her life, but now  continues to deal with the death of her  precious and loved son.

The doctor who actually  killed my brother due to his malpractice was found liable. Yet this miserable cold emotionless creature who showed no compassion  is still alive and well practicing in New Jersey at the same hospital where his incompetent hands ended my brother’s life. Whenever I think of  this fact, I am livid.

If I allow myself to think of the possibility that Conrad Murray may possibly  get away with Michael’s death and be allowed to resume practicing medicine as though nothing happened, I get sick to my stomach.

Just as my brother did not have to die, Michael did not have to die either. I hope that Conrad Murray is NEVER allowed to practice medicine anywhere ever again and that he spends time in prison for his actions.

If  Murray manned up and said he did wrong and was prepared to deal with the consequences I perhaps  would have a bit more respect for him ( not much  but a smidgen more than I do now). But instead he is blaming everyone else. Sure there are other doctors who enabled Michael. But it was Murray who left him alone to die. That in itself  is reprehensible!

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Dr. Phil Interview Part 3-George Anthony Divorces Casey, Cindy Defends Molestation And George Wimps Out Again

Wednesday, September 21st, 2011

In Part 3 of Dr. Phil. George Anthony has essentially said he has divorced Casey as he said he  believes it is impossible to reconnect with Casey.

 Shocked by the verdict, said he shook when he heard it. That means that his body language revealed that he was so  angry that he physically could not control what his body was doing. 

 He also said   he  believes Casey  should be held responsible for Caylee’s death.  This powerful statement to  Dr. Phil shows that George has finally taken off his blinders.

 

His statement  also confirms the body language that he showed in court  towards the end of the trial as he was leaving the  stand . As you see he  clasped his hands together and he vigorously  rubbed them as though he was  literally washing his hands of Casey. In my view this was the turning point for George and there was no going back.

His words during the interview  with Dr. Phil  where he stated  that he feels he was “played” by his daughter’s lawyers over the past three years of  thr trial mirrored his past body language  when he finally went eyeball to eyeball with Jose Baez at the end of the trial andliterally glared Jose down while  he walked off the stand.

As George was being interviewed  by Dr. Phil in the presence of Cindy his posture was different than it  had been in the past. He showed more of a self confident posture as  though as he was beinging to finally  stand up for himself against Cindy and notallow her to bulldoze and railroad his thinking.

 If this is the case , it  may very well be the beginning of the end of their relationship as Cindy Continuest o deny and defend.  If  Cindy welcomes Casey in their home George could never set footin that  home again as I see it. His strong conviction concerning Casey and opening his thoughts about the matter to Dr. Phil is a step in the right direction if he ever wants a chance at an inkling of happiness in his life as I see it. It was also a first step in his independence from Cindy and being under her thumb as I see it.

But if he does leave Cindy, chances are high in my view he will  most likely end up with another Cindy like character as he doesn’t seem to have enough moxie (balls for those of you who don”t know what moxie means) to be a real man in my estimation. As you read on you will see why I say this. It has everything to do with his statement to Dr. Phil where he doesn;t voice HIS opinion about Casey as a baby sister and leaves that opinion up to his son and Mallory.   

Was George a liar in the past in his interviews and on the stand when he spoke of River Cruz and their affair? The answer is YES. But did he lie to Dr. Phil now as he was discussing Casey? The answer is NO. 

There  is the  misnomer that “once a liar, always a liar.” That is simply not true. One can lie about one thing and tell the truth about about something else. While George lied about River Cruz as the jurors even stated, he was not lying about his feelings to Dr. Phil.

And please don’t waste your time and write me that you don’t believe River Cruz and George had an affair. I spoke to River at leangth. After learning the very very graphic details from speaking to her personally,  I am  completely convinced that they did have sex. Maybe George didn’t see it as a romantic relationship, but River  certainly did.  He came to her condo as surveillance tape confirms,  during an emotionally needy time. River began to care for George as he unloaded about Cindy and about the accident snowballing out of control.

 George now  said the same thing to Dr. Phil as he said that what happened to Caylee was the result of a chemical babysitter gone awry. So it is highly plausible that he told River th same thing. Actually when I spoke to her a year before the trial she told me  George said what  happened  Caylee was an accident that snowballed out of control. She used those same words to me that she used on the  stand. So while River lied  to police about her affair out of fear, she did;’t lie about the snowballing as George is now admitting it to Dr. Phil.

CINDY’S AMBIVALENCE ABOUT MOLESTATION ACCUSATIONS

When Dr. Phil asked Cindy if she is sure that  George did not molest Casey, while she spun it  verbally and said all the right words. Something about George’s demeanor was disconcerting.

As Cindy tried to defend him, George looked  away. He appeared disconnected as he and Cindy looked  in opposite directions. His  micro expressions as Cindy spoke  were also disturbing to me . Usually when someone is defending you when you have been accused of something so  serious, you tend to look at the person attentively. But George does not do so. He seems to be thinking about something else.

Now READ THIS CAREFULLY!  I am NOT saying he molested Casey NOR  am I saying that he did not molest Casey. I am sayingthat  ONLY CASEYAND GEORGE KNOW FOR SURE!  Even Cindy knows this deep down as her body language reflects this during Dr. Phil’s questioning.

 As Cindy tries to explain away why George could not have molested Casey,her  body language does not seem reflect her confidence in what she is spouting forth. Her rounded shoulders and bowed head and looking away says that deep inside she may be  unsure.

She then tries to spin it that when she was seprated from George it was Casey’s opportunity to tell her what happened, and to keep George away for good.

WHAT??? Casey NEVER told  Cindy anything about herself that was personal. She never told Cindy she didn’t graduate, that she no longer had a job, and most important of all that she as pregnant! So why would Casey tell her George molested her? Since Cindy appears to have ” selective believing”, she most likely wouldn’t believe Casey anyway.

According to reports,  Casey was apparently disturbed by her parent’s breakup and separation  and wanted them back together. So why would she add fuel to the fire and tell Cindy George molested her?  It does not make any logical sense. So once again Cindy’s spin and distorted reasoning shows.

As  Cindy says she is convinced George did not molest Casey, George does not look at her. That bothers me. Once again, I am not saying he did or he didn’t molest her , as only he and Casey know the answer to that.

And for those of  you who want to be contentious and say how you don;t beliveGeorge molested Casey, I say to you You do,not know and neither do I. But we both know that there are  people who were molested by a parent and you could swear that this seemingly  upstanding person ot pillar of society  could never do such as thing to their child, when in fact that did and are now  incarcerated for their actions.

However,  I will say that it is known in the psychological literature that when  a person is as promiscuous as Casey had been, chances are  they have been sexually molested . Casey not only accused her father of  sexual molestation, but accused Lee as well.

Cindy clearly has her head in a pipe when she says that she is convinced Casey feels remorse for  what she put George through. WHAT??? Remorse! Cindy needs to go back and look at the jailhouse tapes to see how much remorse Casey had for anyone other than herself. Throughout these three years she only cried and sighed when it was about HER  and never about CAYLEE!

  CASEY AS A BABYSITTER!  HIDE YOUR CHILD!!

Then  Cindy says she would have no issue if Casey was  babysittingLee and Mallory’s child. Dr . Phil was stunned! So was the world.  The thought of letting this irresponsible and  selfish creature alone  witha baby   is chilling. I am sure that even Jose Baez, who defended her staunchly would never leave his baby with Casey to babysit.

Then when George is asked this question he goes back to his wussy wimpiness as he said   it would be up to Lee and Mallory as to whether they would let Casey babysit the child.

What a passive agressive  TOXIC creature!   Here is a man who just told the world  he has cut Casey out of his life, yet he has NO opinion that he can voice like a real man. He suddenly cannot take a stand against his OWN future grand child and say “I would not like that to happen“or I would not feel comfortable about it. Instead,  he is back acting  like the clueless   little boy with no opinion of his own.

This is what sickens me about George. He is a TOXIC wimp with no spine in my view based on  his behavior. He reverts back to this behavior and smiles his goofy  Stan Laurel of Larel and Hardy fame stpid and goofy smile.  Whereas s ironic is that Stan Laurel’s character always would always cry  becuase he never knew what to do.  In Stan Laurel fashion, George doesn’t know what to do or say either.

That is why I believe that even  if he does leave Cindy which I hope he does for  his sake , he most likely could  not function in the world without a controlling  task master Cindy type . Let’s hope that George engages in  a lot of solid therapy so that he does not end up gravitating to the same TOXIC type of woman. I a m sure Dr. Phil can recommend some good therapists for George so George can man up for the first time in his life. Apparently he hod behind the badge of the law a police officer for all these years. He hd behind Cindy.  Now it is time he man up and hide behind no one.

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George And Cindy Anthony At Odds About What Casey Did to Caylee Which May Eventually End Their Marriage

Friday, September 16th, 2011

George Lies About River

As George Anthony appeared on the second installment  on  the Dr. Phil Show,    he lied once again, about his relationship with River Cruz (Crystal Holloway).  Dr. Phil asked him point blank  Did you have a romantic relationship with River Cruz? George  says No sir  and smiles his goofy fake Stan Laurel of Laurel and Hardy fame smile. He also swallows hard,  which is a major signal of deception, especially  in the context of what was asked.

Dr. Phil then told him that he didn’t want to play the semantics game and asked George if he had an intimate relationship with River. Once again he swallowed hard and blinked a lot indicating deception.

Dr. Phil then showed George the video of River’s testimony. He clearly looked very uncomfortable. Phil did not let him get away with it.

After speaking to River (Crystal) for several hours I strongly believe that she and George were sexually intimate based on the details of what she shared with me. Yes, she initially lied to law and  didn’t want their affair to be made public. Just because she lied initially, that does not mean she lied subsequently with regard to their affair. I questioned River extensively and she was always consistent  with what she shared. Her voice and speech tells showed no signals of deception whenever I spoke with her about that issue.

The jury even felt George was lying about not having an affair with River.And he was obviously lying now based on his tells of deception.

 

George Gets Real For Once

 Even though George was a liar about River, he did reveal the truth at one point during the interview with Dr. Phil. He said I blame my daughter for Caylee not being here.

In my view that is huge. He is not in denial. He did not bullshit. He told it like it is. He said that he couldn’t grasp  the fact that his daughter put Caylee in a laundry bag and put her in the woods. He said I can’t comprehend my daughter doing that to my granddaughter.

So George clearly has open eyes here. He gets it.  In essence, he is saying between the lines, that he knows Casey killed Caylee.

He asks how Caylee could have ended up at the end of their street.

Dr. Phil bluntly says You know what happened to Caylee don’t you! (yay Dr. Phil) George says that Casey may have given her too much Xanex or choloroform and he is convinced  Caylee was in the back of the car. He even mentioned that Casey may have used these substances as a chemical babysitter.

It is interesting to note  that when George is alone without Cindy he seems to tells the truth. During the police interview he said how he could never forget the smell of a dead body and smelled it in the car. He seemed forthright. He also seemed  to be afraid of Cindy as he told police that he didn’t want his wife to know he was there an talking to them.

Now when he was alone with Dr. Phil who was not going to let him get away with lies and spin, he appeared to come clean and did not show signals of deception.

This means that George is more of himself and more honest when he doesn’t have Cindy around.

George also comes clean about Casey shovel and realizes that Casey would have used it to bury Caylee in the woods and mentions the neighbor’s testimony.

 

Cindy Is Full of It!

Cindy is another matter. She is NOT in denial. She is in severe guilt as she knows she is the reason Casey did something to Caylee. After she told Casey that she would throw her out and keep Caylee, Casey left with Caylee in tow.

Cindy bullshits that she believes Caylee drowned while George was making faces as she was talking indicating that he was sick of her lies and was no longer going  along  with it and that  he refuses to drink the Kool Aid any longer . He knows Caylee didn’t drown and let it be known.

Cindy then says that something happened to Casey and she was different after her pregnancy and after Caylee was born. DUH!!  Of course Casey was different. She didn’t want Caylee in the first place and didn’t  even tell Cindy she was pregnant until she was in her last trimester. Of course she was different. She wanted to party hearty and didn’t want a baby cramping her style. She even wanted to give the baby away to a friend. But Cindy would have none of that and forced her to have the baby  and keep it. And even worse, Cindy forced Casey to care for Caylee like a real mother.

Cindy tries to spin it about the shovel. First she said how Casey used the shovel to break into the shed. Then Cindy goes on to spin how she herself  shovels in the summer. WHAT???? She shovels all right- she shovels bullshit!!

Then Cindy says something that is despicable! She trivializes Caylee’s death by saying when Casey was judged  not guilty, so  it was Caylee protecting Casey for something she didn’t do. She says how God wanted Casey to be free and  the verdict meant  Casey was innocent. WHAT??? This made no sense! It is clearly Cindy’s obvious sick spin.It is maddening that Cindy actually thinks we are that stupid to believe this nonsense.

It is obvious that Cindy is as messed up as Casey if not more in my view. I hold her accountable for Caylee’s death for a number of reasons. She was an enabler and she pushed Casey over the edge when she threatened to throw her out and keep Caylee. In my view this was the beginning of the end. Casey was pushed into a corner. She was the little princess all her life (even Cindy’s brother Rick Pleasea said this) and now Caylee  took over that role. Casey was jealous. Caylee was a burden and a competitor . So I believe she did Caylee in either consciously  or subconsciously .

 Cindy and George’s Miserable Future

As time passes and it is just George and Cindy looking at those four walls, it may be the end of their marriage in my view. When two people don’t agree on a very serious issue like what really happened to their granddaughter, the marriage will usually have a hard time surviving.

As George has more time on his hands to mull over what really happened and becomes more honest with himself as he showed on Dr. Phil, he may end up hating Cindy more and more as she spins the spin to protect Casey and make excuse after excuse. Being honest with himself will make him stronger and less likely to be as henpecked , bullied, and controlled by Cindy. He may get really angry at her attempts to boss him around and even violent towards her.

We have already seen glimpses of his violent side.

Apparently/ George wanted to leave on several occasions but finances held him back. Now that they both share the spoils of the millions that will be coming their way, George will have half of that money when and if  he leaves her. He can now support himself and finally get away from Cindy, who was supporting him financially through her nursing career.

It was fascinating to see how meek and weak he was when he was in Cindy’s presence during the Dr. Phil interview and how much stronger and more honest be became when he was not around her and when it was just he and Dr. Phil.  

While I am repulsed by George for a number of reasons, I do believe that if he leaves Cindy and   gets a lot of therapy, he may have a chance at a  more decent and livable  life. Of course the money will help but it won’t solve all his problems. He needs to come clean with a therapist and with himself and examine his role in why  this Casey nightmare happened. Maybe there will be hope for him to start a new life.

As for Cindy, I see no hope. She is s Toxic as they come. The continuous lies and spin and obvious lack of therapy will come back to haunt her in a huge way. For one, she has lied in a court of law. She has lied repeatedly. I hope that justice will be served and that she will have to pay the same  price that everyone else pays who perjures themselves on the stand. If not, there is karmic justice.

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George and Cindy Anthony Elicit Even More Public Hatred While Lying About Seizures And All Else on Dr. Phil

Wednesday, September 14th, 2011

Being a body language expert and watching Cindy and George Anthony tell lie after lie to Dr. Phil made  me livid. After watching their lies and deception  it is no wonder that Casey is such a mental mess. They may very well be the main  reason Caylee is dead  as they drove Casey to destruction. With all due respect, after watching these two , in the long run it is my view that  Caylee would never have had a chance in life to be a mentally healthy child with George and Cindy raising her.

And for those of you who share Nancy Grace’s opinion that these are just poor grandparents, I say you are misguided or or are kissing up to them so they will appear on your TV show. Watch the interview over and over. If their lying doesn’t make you angry then you are in denial or there is something wrong with you that you are identifying with them.

If anyone had to do the interview with these Toxic People I am glad it was Dr. Phil because unlike so many other interviewers, he did not kiss their asses He  continually busted them  and didn’t kiss their behinds. He asked hard cold direct questions. But they lied and lied and lied. He continually  reduced ugly Cindy to look  like a cowering hunched over deer in the headlights. He reduced George to showing what  a scared helpless little animal looking for mommy creature he was  as he kept looking over to Cindy for the answers.

Cindy’s ugliness on the inside  was reflected on her outside as she cried her phony tears< her crying did not elicit sympathy and empathy. Instead they elicited anger.

Dr. Phil asks  Cindy why Casey got a tattoo and partied  soon after Caylee died. Cindy looks down which is a huge signal of deception as she cannot look Dr. Phil in the eye. She  gives some bullshit answer as her voice gets quiet. She begins her bullshit by saying “  Talking to her friends” (WHAT FRIENDS,??? CASEY HAD NO FRIENDS AND JOSE BAEZ CONFIRMED THAT! SHE JUST HAD HOOKUPS AND PEOPLE SHE TOOK ADVANTAGE OF FOR MONEY LIKE AMY HUIZINGA.

Then this liar stays …one of the girls she was up there dancing did not show up . She looks away. This is a major  sign of deception. The reason  she is looking away is because she is  trying to manufacture something to say.

Then Cindy bullshits “they asked Casey to fill in and reluctantly she did.As Cindy the Liar says this her voice frys which means it chokes off so there is no airflow, which  another clear indicator of lying. RELUCTANLY???? When was show off attention- seeking Casey RELUCTANT to do anything that involved her body??

Then the liar says “This was not brought up at trial that Casey’s mood was KIND OF  subdued.WHAT????  KIND OF SUBDUED? What does that mean?  Jose Baez brought everything  up at that trial and if Casey’s mood was subdued he would have mentioned it. Does  Cindy think we are stupid  as we all saw extraordinary happy smiley Casey partying  and dancing in the blue dress?  Those photos indicated that she was anything BUT SUBDUED! Liar Cindy then takes a huge breath  in and then  says Casey’s mood was not subdued when she first got there. This is also  a signal of deception. She also frys at the  end of sentences as she says this which is yet another a signal of deception.

She further deceives by talking  too much and volunteering way too much information she was not asked about as she says  I’m not making excuses for her. When a person tells you they are not making excuses for someone, they usually are making excuses for that person.

Dr. Phil knows Cindy is‘ full of crap BUSTS her with regard to her excuses  and says  I THINK YOU ARE!(yay  Dr. Phil)  Dr. Phil then asks her if she thought George was hiding something  from his family, since he he hid things from her before.  Cindy  then kicks her foot as she bullshits that he would never to this to  his family. WHAT?? Didn’t he hide his alleged  gambling, , on line porn  and his affair with River Cruz all from his family?  As Cindy the lying enabler sits there defending George, like a guilty dog who pooed on the rug, he looks down in embarrassment. He knows full well what they truth was.

George makes his usual sickening   goofy pursed lipped face which indicates he is closing off and not telling the truth.

As  Cindy says George would never have put us through those six months of not knowing where Caylee was.

George continues to  looks down like a guilty dog.  To me it says that of course George knew something.

Dr. Phil  bluntly asks  How could you not know after seeing Caylee every day and then  not seeing her for 31 days and think she was with Zanny the Nanny , He goes on to say  you never met her , you don’t know who the father is, you don’t  know who she’s staying with,  you never verified her employment, her car has been impounded, you go pick up the car you say it smelled like a dead body and you go to work.

Cindy is clearly  uncomfortable  with  Phil’s direct confrontation as indicated by her kicking her  toes as though she wants to leave. She breathes heavily indicating discomfort with this line of questioning.

This photo says it all as she tries to hide from the truth. She shifts her eyes and  purses her lips and raises her shoulders and pulls her neck down in turtle like fashion as if to hide. It is like she wants to  sink into a hole and never come out.Also look at the muscle tension in her lip area.

Dr .Phil then  asks her What do you now believe the smell was from ? Cindy

then begins her sentence by pursing her lips which means she is holding back. Then she says the word TRUTHFULLY/ When someone starts a sentence with “truthfully” they are usually not being truthful. Then she says to this day I don’t know as she raises her hand with her fingers spread, also an indicator of deception. She certainly knew when she called 911. That was the most truthful she ever sounded and has never sounded as truthful since then.

Then as the liar purses her lips, she adds the words “to be honest.” When one says “to be honest” at the end of a sentence they are usually  NOT being honest.

Then sickening lying George goes off on a  tangent that has nothing to do with the question he was asked. He was asked if he knew this child was in the trunk. He makes his goofy purse lip face that looks like a constipated Stan Laurel in the old  Laurel and Hardy comedies and hems and haws and then says  says I know Caylee is not with us. He repeats it as he looks down.  These are HUGE signals of deceptions. Of course this miserable cheating liar knew Caylee was in the trunk.

I usually reserve the word HATE for, Hitler, Stalin and other terrorists. But now George and Cindy Anthony  belong on that to the list. After watching them speak with Dr. Phil and lie and lie and lie and lie and lie and lie HATE is the only emotion that one can have. They did not  elicit compassion or empathy or sympathy. Instead, they elicited anger. A baby is dead and they show no respect for Caylee. They only continue to make excuse after excuse to defend Casey. It is despicable.

The public HATES  liars. Cindy lied on the stand numerous times and so did George and now they were lying to Dr. Phil.

Cindy also bullshitted that Casey may have a brain tumor because she had seizures. This is total BULLSHIT considering that Cindy is a registered nurse and should know that   when there is no medical evidence of a tumor based on  all the tests that were run, THERE IS NO TUMOR! Yet she tried to spin it.

Dr. Phil says that Cindy is in denial. While I think the world of  Dr. Phil and have a tremendous  amount  for respect for him, ny perspective is different.  Cindy is in Bullshit not in denial. She is lying and so is George There is no denial there. She knows exactly what happened and  so does George. Cindy  bullshits so much because deep down she knows she is the reason Casey did whatever she did to that child.

Watching these two on Dr. Phil was even more disturbing when you think back to the lies they told on the stand. Why haven’t these two been  convicted of perjury?

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