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Dr. Lillian Glass Message to Body Language Blog Readers

Thursday, October 27th, 2011

To all my wonderful Body Language Blog Readers:

I wanted to let you know that the reason you haven’t seen a lot of posts from me lately is because I have been working on my books and doing TV show pilots. I just finished the final touches on my upcoming book called, See Something, Hear Something, Say Something! Guide to Identifying Body Language of Terrorist. My co-author, is Vincent Sullivan, a  former Special Agent with the FBI and former member of the Joint Terrorist Task Force. The book is awesome with a lot of original research and new data about how to recognize terrorists. I am certain It will help save a lot of lives and we are so proud of this venture.

Next, I have been working on another book where I will tell you everything I possibly know about reading body language and voice and speech tells so that you can use the information to gain that added advantage in your life. I will give away all the secrets so you will know it all.

Then I  participated in several television pilots. Hopefully the one for my own show will come to fruition, so keep your fingers crossed.

So now I have some more time to give you  more blogs on  my views about news makers from my body language , voice. speech  and psychosocial perspective. Eventually I also plan to do some video blogs for you in the future and I am working on making that happen. I seem to do much better with the spoken word than the written word.

For those of you who complain about my spelling and grammar, my apologies. I got a new Mac book Pro, so hopefully there will be less spelling errors. As far as grammar goes, I purposely write these blogs exactly as I speak, so you will feel as though you and I are having a personal conversation. I don’t apologize for that.

As you know from reading my previous blogs, I am quite direct, candid and hate spin, phoniness and BS. I also have no issue with anyone who disagrees with me or shares a different view. But I do take issue with those who do it disrespectfully and in a Toxic and nasty  and hateful manner as they  hide behind their moniker of anonymity. I do understand that a lot of topics generate a lot of fierce emotion like hate. But don’t collapse your hatred about those who are featured in these posts on to  me. Instead put your hatred where it really belongs- not the messenger.

Now  I would like to say some final words about the Casey Anthony  case.  I have to admit that reporting so intensively on the Casey Anthony trial and analyzing all the players involved took its toll,  especially after the verdict was read. I was beyond shocked when  I saw justice not served. When I recently read that Judge Perry  released the jailhouse videos of Casey  upon discovering that Caylee’s body was found and that he did not allow jurors to  see this, it confirmed my view that Perry in essence  was more concerned about himself in not having to re-try the case.   I also believe that the jury liked Jose Baez a lot better than the prosecuting attorneys and that was a large part of why the verdict turned out as it did in my view. I also believe that the jury wanted to go home. It was 4thof July and they wanted out! Analyzing the body language and speech and voice patterns of Cindy and George Anthony on Dr. Phil repulsed me. I adore Dr. Phil. I know him personally and think the world of him and felt that he asked great probing  questions which allowed us to see who these Toxic people really are. He gave them enough rope and they hung themselves for good.  He was a lot more diplomatic with them than I would have been.

I would have let them have it. But then they probably would have walked off the show and there would not have been an interview. I detest liars and these two liars lied in these interviews based on the tells I observed, just as they lied on the stand. That is unforgivable! Why aren’t these people held accountable? Anyone else who lied on the stand would be in jail. Why aren’t these people in jail. And YES I hold them as responsible for Caylee’s death as I do Casey. They knew who their daughter was, yet chose to enable her.

I am boycotting the Anthony’s along with a lot of other people out there. I don’t care what more they have to say. I hate that the despicable Cindy and George have made millions off off this poor child’s death and have manipulated and used the media to their benefit.  They said it all with their body language.

Now people are asking me to weigh in about the baby Lisa case. After the Casey Anthony case, the last thing I want to since do is spend time analyzing a mother and father of a missing baby. But since so many of  my precious and loyal readers asked for it,  I will share my views about Baby Lisa’s parent’s body.

While I will always discuss the body language of news makers who happen to be in high profile criminal cases, I don’t plan to make it my focus. fact I stopped doing over the top sensational crime oriented shows which appear to be  designed for” entertainment”. The “bombshells “ rudeness” “unleashing” and “ugliness” are too manipulative and too disturbing. So, along with the criminal cases, you will be reading a lot about celebs politicians, sports  figures and world leaders as they  will  all be put under the Dr. Lillian Glass Body Language microscope. Good to be back.  www.drlillianglass.com

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Dr. Phil Interview Part 3-George Anthony Divorces Casey, Cindy Defends Molestation And George Wimps Out Again

Wednesday, September 21st, 2011

In Part 3 of Dr. Phil. George Anthony has essentially said he has divorced Casey as he said he  believes it is impossible to reconnect with Casey.

 Shocked by the verdict, said he shook when he heard it. That means that his body language revealed that he was so  angry that he physically could not control what his body was doing. 

 He also said   he  believes Casey  should be held responsible for Caylee’s death.  This powerful statement to  Dr. Phil shows that George has finally taken off his blinders.

 

His statement  also confirms the body language that he showed in court  towards the end of the trial as he was leaving the  stand . As you see he  clasped his hands together and he vigorously  rubbed them as though he was  literally washing his hands of Casey. In my view this was the turning point for George and there was no going back.

His words during the interview  with Dr. Phil  where he stated  that he feels he was “played” by his daughter’s lawyers over the past three years of  thr trial mirrored his past body language  when he finally went eyeball to eyeball with Jose Baez at the end of the trial andliterally glared Jose down while  he walked off the stand.

As George was being interviewed  by Dr. Phil in the presence of Cindy his posture was different than it  had been in the past. He showed more of a self confident posture as  though as he was beinging to finally  stand up for himself against Cindy and notallow her to bulldoze and railroad his thinking.

 If this is the case , it  may very well be the beginning of the end of their relationship as Cindy Continuest o deny and defend.  If  Cindy welcomes Casey in their home George could never set footin that  home again as I see it. His strong conviction concerning Casey and opening his thoughts about the matter to Dr. Phil is a step in the right direction if he ever wants a chance at an inkling of happiness in his life as I see it. It was also a first step in his independence from Cindy and being under her thumb as I see it.

But if he does leave Cindy, chances are high in my view he will  most likely end up with another Cindy like character as he doesn’t seem to have enough moxie (balls for those of you who don”t know what moxie means) to be a real man in my estimation. As you read on you will see why I say this. It has everything to do with his statement to Dr. Phil where he doesn;t voice HIS opinion about Casey as a baby sister and leaves that opinion up to his son and Mallory.   

Was George a liar in the past in his interviews and on the stand when he spoke of River Cruz and their affair? The answer is YES. But did he lie to Dr. Phil now as he was discussing Casey? The answer is NO. 

There  is the  misnomer that “once a liar, always a liar.” That is simply not true. One can lie about one thing and tell the truth about about something else. While George lied about River Cruz as the jurors even stated, he was not lying about his feelings to Dr. Phil.

And please don’t waste your time and write me that you don’t believe River Cruz and George had an affair. I spoke to River at leangth. After learning the very very graphic details from speaking to her personally,  I am  completely convinced that they did have sex. Maybe George didn’t see it as a romantic relationship, but River  certainly did.  He came to her condo as surveillance tape confirms,  during an emotionally needy time. River began to care for George as he unloaded about Cindy and about the accident snowballing out of control.

 George now  said the same thing to Dr. Phil as he said that what happened to Caylee was the result of a chemical babysitter gone awry. So it is highly plausible that he told River th same thing. Actually when I spoke to her a year before the trial she told me  George said what  happened  Caylee was an accident that snowballed out of control. She used those same words to me that she used on the  stand. So while River lied  to police about her affair out of fear, she did;’t lie about the snowballing as George is now admitting it to Dr. Phil.

CINDY’S AMBIVALENCE ABOUT MOLESTATION ACCUSATIONS

When Dr. Phil asked Cindy if she is sure that  George did not molest Casey, while she spun it  verbally and said all the right words. Something about George’s demeanor was disconcerting.

As Cindy tried to defend him, George looked  away. He appeared disconnected as he and Cindy looked  in opposite directions. His  micro expressions as Cindy spoke  were also disturbing to me . Usually when someone is defending you when you have been accused of something so  serious, you tend to look at the person attentively. But George does not do so. He seems to be thinking about something else.

Now READ THIS CAREFULLY!  I am NOT saying he molested Casey NOR  am I saying that he did not molest Casey. I am sayingthat  ONLY CASEYAND GEORGE KNOW FOR SURE!  Even Cindy knows this deep down as her body language reflects this during Dr. Phil’s questioning.

 As Cindy tries to explain away why George could not have molested Casey,her  body language does not seem reflect her confidence in what she is spouting forth. Her rounded shoulders and bowed head and looking away says that deep inside she may be  unsure.

She then tries to spin it that when she was seprated from George it was Casey’s opportunity to tell her what happened, and to keep George away for good.

WHAT??? Casey NEVER told  Cindy anything about herself that was personal. She never told Cindy she didn’t graduate, that she no longer had a job, and most important of all that she as pregnant! So why would Casey tell her George molested her? Since Cindy appears to have ” selective believing”, she most likely wouldn’t believe Casey anyway.

According to reports,  Casey was apparently disturbed by her parent’s breakup and separation  and wanted them back together. So why would she add fuel to the fire and tell Cindy George molested her?  It does not make any logical sense. So once again Cindy’s spin and distorted reasoning shows.

As  Cindy says she is convinced George did not molest Casey, George does not look at her. That bothers me. Once again, I am not saying he did or he didn’t molest her , as only he and Casey know the answer to that.

And for those of  you who want to be contentious and say how you don;t beliveGeorge molested Casey, I say to you You do,not know and neither do I. But we both know that there are  people who were molested by a parent and you could swear that this seemingly  upstanding person ot pillar of society  could never do such as thing to their child, when in fact that did and are now  incarcerated for their actions.

However,  I will say that it is known in the psychological literature that when  a person is as promiscuous as Casey had been, chances are  they have been sexually molested . Casey not only accused her father of  sexual molestation, but accused Lee as well.

Cindy clearly has her head in a pipe when she says that she is convinced Casey feels remorse for  what she put George through. WHAT??? Remorse! Cindy needs to go back and look at the jailhouse tapes to see how much remorse Casey had for anyone other than herself. Throughout these three years she only cried and sighed when it was about HER  and never about CAYLEE!

  CASEY AS A BABYSITTER!  HIDE YOUR CHILD!!

Then  Cindy says she would have no issue if Casey was  babysittingLee and Mallory’s child. Dr . Phil was stunned! So was the world.  The thought of letting this irresponsible and  selfish creature alone  witha baby   is chilling. I am sure that even Jose Baez, who defended her staunchly would never leave his baby with Casey to babysit.

Then when George is asked this question he goes back to his wussy wimpiness as he said   it would be up to Lee and Mallory as to whether they would let Casey babysit the child.

What a passive agressive  TOXIC creature!   Here is a man who just told the world  he has cut Casey out of his life, yet he has NO opinion that he can voice like a real man. He suddenly cannot take a stand against his OWN future grand child and say “I would not like that to happen“or I would not feel comfortable about it. Instead,  he is back acting  like the clueless   little boy with no opinion of his own.

This is what sickens me about George. He is a TOXIC wimp with no spine in my view based on  his behavior. He reverts back to this behavior and smiles his goofy  Stan Laurel of Larel and Hardy fame stpid and goofy smile.  Whereas s ironic is that Stan Laurel’s character always would always cry  becuase he never knew what to do.  In Stan Laurel fashion, George doesn’t know what to do or say either.

That is why I believe that even  if he does leave Cindy which I hope he does for  his sake , he most likely could  not function in the world without a controlling  task master Cindy type . Let’s hope that George engages in  a lot of solid therapy so that he does not end up gravitating to the same TOXIC type of woman. I a m sure Dr. Phil can recommend some good therapists for George so George can man up for the first time in his life. Apparently he hod behind the badge of the law a police officer for all these years. He hd behind Cindy.  Now it is time he man up and hide behind no one.

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George And Cindy Anthony At Odds About What Casey Did to Caylee Which May Eventually End Their Marriage

Friday, September 16th, 2011

George Lies About River

As George Anthony appeared on the second installment  on  the Dr. Phil Show,    he lied once again, about his relationship with River Cruz (Crystal Holloway).  Dr. Phil asked him point blank  Did you have a romantic relationship with River Cruz? George  says No sir  and smiles his goofy fake Stan Laurel of Laurel and Hardy fame smile. He also swallows hard,  which is a major signal of deception, especially  in the context of what was asked.

Dr. Phil then told him that he didn’t want to play the semantics game and asked George if he had an intimate relationship with River. Once again he swallowed hard and blinked a lot indicating deception.

Dr. Phil then showed George the video of River’s testimony. He clearly looked very uncomfortable. Phil did not let him get away with it.

After speaking to River (Crystal) for several hours I strongly believe that she and George were sexually intimate based on the details of what she shared with me. Yes, she initially lied to law and  didn’t want their affair to be made public. Just because she lied initially, that does not mean she lied subsequently with regard to their affair. I questioned River extensively and she was always consistent  with what she shared. Her voice and speech tells showed no signals of deception whenever I spoke with her about that issue.

The jury even felt George was lying about not having an affair with River.And he was obviously lying now based on his tells of deception.

 

George Gets Real For Once

 Even though George was a liar about River, he did reveal the truth at one point during the interview with Dr. Phil. He said I blame my daughter for Caylee not being here.

In my view that is huge. He is not in denial. He did not bullshit. He told it like it is. He said that he couldn’t grasp  the fact that his daughter put Caylee in a laundry bag and put her in the woods. He said I can’t comprehend my daughter doing that to my granddaughter.

So George clearly has open eyes here. He gets it.  In essence, he is saying between the lines, that he knows Casey killed Caylee.

He asks how Caylee could have ended up at the end of their street.

Dr. Phil bluntly says You know what happened to Caylee don’t you! (yay Dr. Phil) George says that Casey may have given her too much Xanex or choloroform and he is convinced  Caylee was in the back of the car. He even mentioned that Casey may have used these substances as a chemical babysitter.

It is interesting to note  that when George is alone without Cindy he seems to tells the truth. During the police interview he said how he could never forget the smell of a dead body and smelled it in the car. He seemed forthright. He also seemed  to be afraid of Cindy as he told police that he didn’t want his wife to know he was there an talking to them.

Now when he was alone with Dr. Phil who was not going to let him get away with lies and spin, he appeared to come clean and did not show signals of deception.

This means that George is more of himself and more honest when he doesn’t have Cindy around.

George also comes clean about Casey shovel and realizes that Casey would have used it to bury Caylee in the woods and mentions the neighbor’s testimony.

 

Cindy Is Full of It!

Cindy is another matter. She is NOT in denial. She is in severe guilt as she knows she is the reason Casey did something to Caylee. After she told Casey that she would throw her out and keep Caylee, Casey left with Caylee in tow.

Cindy bullshits that she believes Caylee drowned while George was making faces as she was talking indicating that he was sick of her lies and was no longer going  along  with it and that  he refuses to drink the Kool Aid any longer . He knows Caylee didn’t drown and let it be known.

Cindy then says that something happened to Casey and she was different after her pregnancy and after Caylee was born. DUH!!  Of course Casey was different. She didn’t want Caylee in the first place and didn’t  even tell Cindy she was pregnant until she was in her last trimester. Of course she was different. She wanted to party hearty and didn’t want a baby cramping her style. She even wanted to give the baby away to a friend. But Cindy would have none of that and forced her to have the baby  and keep it. And even worse, Cindy forced Casey to care for Caylee like a real mother.

Cindy tries to spin it about the shovel. First she said how Casey used the shovel to break into the shed. Then Cindy goes on to spin how she herself  shovels in the summer. WHAT???? She shovels all right- she shovels bullshit!!

Then Cindy says something that is despicable! She trivializes Caylee’s death by saying when Casey was judged  not guilty, so  it was Caylee protecting Casey for something she didn’t do. She says how God wanted Casey to be free and  the verdict meant  Casey was innocent. WHAT??? This made no sense! It is clearly Cindy’s obvious sick spin.It is maddening that Cindy actually thinks we are that stupid to believe this nonsense.

It is obvious that Cindy is as messed up as Casey if not more in my view. I hold her accountable for Caylee’s death for a number of reasons. She was an enabler and she pushed Casey over the edge when she threatened to throw her out and keep Caylee. In my view this was the beginning of the end. Casey was pushed into a corner. She was the little princess all her life (even Cindy’s brother Rick Pleasea said this) and now Caylee  took over that role. Casey was jealous. Caylee was a burden and a competitor . So I believe she did Caylee in either consciously  or subconsciously .

 Cindy and George’s Miserable Future

As time passes and it is just George and Cindy looking at those four walls, it may be the end of their marriage in my view. When two people don’t agree on a very serious issue like what really happened to their granddaughter, the marriage will usually have a hard time surviving.

As George has more time on his hands to mull over what really happened and becomes more honest with himself as he showed on Dr. Phil, he may end up hating Cindy more and more as she spins the spin to protect Casey and make excuse after excuse. Being honest with himself will make him stronger and less likely to be as henpecked , bullied, and controlled by Cindy. He may get really angry at her attempts to boss him around and even violent towards her.

We have already seen glimpses of his violent side.

Apparently/ George wanted to leave on several occasions but finances held him back. Now that they both share the spoils of the millions that will be coming their way, George will have half of that money when and if  he leaves her. He can now support himself and finally get away from Cindy, who was supporting him financially through her nursing career.

It was fascinating to see how meek and weak he was when he was in Cindy’s presence during the Dr. Phil interview and how much stronger and more honest be became when he was not around her and when it was just he and Dr. Phil.  

While I am repulsed by George for a number of reasons, I do believe that if he leaves Cindy and   gets a lot of therapy, he may have a chance at a  more decent and livable  life. Of course the money will help but it won’t solve all his problems. He needs to come clean with a therapist and with himself and examine his role in why  this Casey nightmare happened. Maybe there will be hope for him to start a new life.

As for Cindy, I see no hope. She is s Toxic as they come. The continuous lies and spin and obvious lack of therapy will come back to haunt her in a huge way. For one, she has lied in a court of law. She has lied repeatedly. I hope that justice will be served and that she will have to pay the same  price that everyone else pays who perjures themselves on the stand. If not, there is karmic justice.

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Will Cindy and George Anthony Continue to Lie and Manipulate Dr. Phil?

Saturday, September 10th, 2011
As you know by now I despise lies, manipulation  and spin. And this week, what we will  likely be getting is spin and manipulation and lies as Cindy and George Anthony appear  on the Dr. Phil Show to reveal “the truth” about Casey  and what really happened in Caylee’s death.
Apparently the  same Cindy  who lied on the  stand, manipulated the press, and mislead law enforcement by destroying evidence by washing Casey’s pants and Caylee’s doll has now asserted Casey suffered from an epileptic seizure while Caylee was drowning.
If is was the case why didn’t it come out immediately? Why didn’t Jose Baez or Cheney Mason  mention it during opening or closing arguments? And why was Casey seizing? Was she on illegal drugs ? If she  seized, why wasn’t rushed to the hospital and  given a brain scan and subsequently monitored   or put on anti -seisure medication like Depakote, which she should have been on during the trial and should be on to this day?
I don’t care if Casey had a seizure in the past. I do care that  now Cindy  conveniently  says Casey had a seizure just when Caylee drowned. I am not buying it! In fact this bogus  explanation  in my view,  to explain away Caylee’sdeath and to make eveything  hunky dory with Casey makes me angry.
Why didn’t  these two liars didn’t reveal this when they were on the stand in a court of law? Cindy’s body language and communication showed she lied repeatedly on the stand. The same is true for George.
After seeing them on the stand, one can understand why Casey turned out the way she did. At least Dr. Phil, whom I know and respect, will demand they tell the truth and will not put up with any of their nonsense.
It is despicable to me that these two liars are now making a reported half-a-million dollars  to be grilled by Dr. Phil. It has been reported that the money will go into the Caylee Anthony Charity Fund for Missing Children.
Who do you think controls the purse strings of this” charity?” Is it  George and Cindy?  Most likely! How are the monies from this charity being spent? Does the money go directly  into George and Cindy’s pockets? Are all of the legal procedures and standards  for having a charity being met?
It also  disturbs  me that  the charity for Caylee is for being a missing child. She was NOT a missing child. She was a murdered or drowned child. Take your pick. We were all duped and lead on a wild goose chase by Casey and then by Cindy and George. I resent that.  I  now resent their being on Dr. Phil to continue to lie.
These two liars made out like bandits as they capitalize on Casye’s death.They are much  better off  financially now that Caylee is dead.Before they could barely make ends meet. Now they are millionaires or close to it. I wouldn’t doubt it if they manipulated some scheme to put any money Casey may earn from books or media interviews  in their “charity” so that  it cannot be attached.
You can bet I will be watching Dr. Phil’s show to look for signals of deception from George and Cindy. The only redeeming factor for me is that Dr. Phil will be doing the interview and will be honest and ststraightforward and not kissing their behinds like Nancy Grace or others who sympathize with these “poor parents.”
In looking at the body language of the promo, Cindy looks like she is  a deer in the headlights when Dr. Phil appears to put her on the spot. She looks wide-eyed and physically turns to George with her hunched over shoulders, indicating that most likely she has been busted by Dr. Phil.
Also in the promo, Dr. Phil point-blank asks, “Do you think Casey was involved in Caylee’s death?
” Cindy hunches over and turns to George who purses his lips together as you can see. This indicates that he doesn’t want to answer the question. No doubt this former policeman knows exactly what happened to Caylee and Casey’s involvement.
Dr. Phil appears to be very direct with Cindy, who is beautifully made up complete with fake lashes in an attempt to make her look attractive, her body language is anything but attractive. She has turtle posture, where she hides her neck and hunches her shoulders like a turtle. People who have something to hide usually demonstrate this posture.

Then in the promo Dr. Phil asks George, “Why did you sit on this information?” George is in his  wimp form where he continues to not man up, turns to Cindy as he looks over at her in hopes she can rescue him from Dr. Phil’s direct line of questioning.
It will be interesting to see if they lie to Dr. Phil or they tell the truth.I believe they will continue to lie because once a liar always a liar in my view
I will be looking for tell-tale signs  of lying such as lip licking, excessive eye blinking, stammering, lip pursing,  stammering, repetition of words, hemming and hawing, looking away, and scratching, to name a few.
As you watch the  show I  encourage you to look for these signals of deception as well. www.drlillianglass.com
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Dr. Lillian Glass 2010 Ten Top Favorite and Inspiring Gifts

Monday, December 27th, 2010

With  Christmas over and the New Year approaching, it is time for me to look back on this year and to reflect on what were some of my best gifts. These best  gifts  are  my happiest  moments for which I am so grateful. As you will see from my list, the gifts of communication, being able to express myself, and being proactive, are some of the most important gifts for which I am grateful. Here is my list for 2010:

 1. The gift of Truth and Justice and the knowledge that  the American Justice system works as I  won a copyright infringement trial against Marsha Petrie Sue who not only copied my materials word for word but who also had the audacity to call her 2007 book Toxic People, the same name as my 1995 book Toxic People.  It was the best gift in the world to see that people like her cannot get away with this and that they must be held accountable for their actions and that everyone must know it.

2.  The next gift was  the enormous outpouring of the  public response, support  and touching comments of how I inspired so many people by going the distance and  fighting for my rights against people like Marsha Petrie Sue who take what you created and claim it as their own and how it inspired them to fight for their rights as well. The gift of their beautiful words are forever in my heart .

  3. The   powerful and healing words Eric Bjorgum,  my wonderful intellectual property attorney so  eloquently spoke in the US Federal courtroom is another gift I will carry with me forever.

 4. The gift of seeing how many people have already been impacted by reading my TOXIC MEN book is also a huge gift to me. The moving feedback of so many readers along with the support of Patti Stanger, BRAVO’s Millionaire Matchmaker, Dr. Laura,  Dr. Robi Ludwig,  and  Robin Sax, and of course  SNOOKI have meant so much to me.

 5.The gift of working with Nancy Grace and being a regular contributor  to her HLN show as well as to her Swift Justice Show. Being around Nancy  Grace, a woman with a mission who’s dedication to justice and to helping crime victims continues to inspire me.

6.  The gift of working with Adams Media and F and S Publications and  in particular the  wonderful people who have been so supportive of me and  my books and allowing me the forum to express myself so that I can get my message across to others.

 7.The gift of being able to regularly  express my thoughts and share my knowledge throughout the media from having my own body language column in Cosmopolitan Magazine to appearing  as a resident body language expert on such shows as  Millionaire Matchmaker and Dr. Phil as well as other television, radio , magazine, and internet outlets on a regular basis. I count my blessing daily.

 8. The gift of giving back is one of the things for which I am most grateful. Every week my family members and I travel around town to find those in need and provide them with a few things which can make their lives a little easier on the streets , from fresh warm blankets, to warm socks,  and tee shirts and sweats . Seeing bright eyes and smiles on faces that haven’t smiled for a long  time,  makes life worth living and is the best gift I can ever receive.

 9. The gift of new friends who seem like old friends ( ie.  Michael, Cat, Deborah,  Ree, Lois, Art, Jim, Steve,) and my old friends who have been renewed ( ie. Jan and Dave,  Reba, Martha, Elis, Chopsey, David,  Bob and  Stacy,  Susan, Shar , Ilsa, Robert, Teri, Nancy,  Donna , Jennifer,  Gloria, Rolanda, Carrie,  Mark, Bob, Phyllis, Suzy  Connie, Chris, Donna, Katiem Kerry,  Janet Victor David W, Motty, Shadoe, Brian, John, Gail)    and to FB for now allowing me to keep in touch.  I am grateful for all of my FB friends and friends on Twitter and most of all my very close and special  friends who add to the beauty of my life.

 10.And last but not least I am grateful for the gifts that my beautiful family has given me throughout my life and continues to give me- their  integrity, honesty, sincerity, continued love and support which I truly cherish.

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    Lindsay Lohan’s Lying Body Language to In Hollywood.com Interview Shows Defensiveness and Anger

    Tuesday, May 25th, 2010

    As a body language expert being able to read between the lines can be very upsetting when you see someone who was once so gorgeous and talented headed for destruction. Lindsay Lohan’s one on one interview with Hollywood.com was very sad and disturbing to me.

    As Lindsay answered the very blunt and direct questions posed to her, there was nothing about it that rang true except for one part.

    That was the part when she spoke about how negatively she feels about her father and how she can’t stand him.  She called him a convicted felon and said with regard to her father  that “enough is enough.”

    You can see this in the above photo. That was the only time that her body language showed that she was direct. She faced forward and leaned out and looked directly at the interviewer.

    Her facial expression was congruent with what she said. She looked pained and angry based on the tension in her lips and jaw area and on her forehead.

    It makes one wonder whether  father Michael Lohan’s negative  actions stimulate Lindsay’s very disturbing and destructive behavior.

    If she does have an alleged alcohol and or drug problem, is his going to the press and sharing her private conversations adding to her aberrant behaviors?

    What rings very true is when she says she has nothing to do with him.

    LINDSAY’S “ TELLS” WHICH INDICATE   LYING

    The rest of her interview was filled with signals of deception, which indicated that she was lying about almost every one of the issues about which she was questioned.

    Here were the lying “tells” which were observed throughout the interview :

    1. Shoulder shrugging

    2. Pulling back

    3. Looking down and away from the interviewer

    4. Looking up to indicate that she was manufacturing answers to the questions

    5. Excessive eye blinking

    6. Repetition of words and phrases

    7. Repeating the question at the beginning of the sentence

    8. Using “uh” um’s a lot

    9. Telling way too much information

    10. Going off on tangents

    11. Making countless excuses for actions and behaviors

    12. Pulling the head and body back

    13. Squirming in her seat

    BODY LANGUAGE ANALYSIS IS DEFINITELY NOT “PSEUDOSCIENCE” OR “JUNK SCIENCE” . INSTEAD IT IS BOTH AN ART AND A SCIENCE

    And for those of you who are:

    a. contentious,

    b. die hard Lindsay Lohan fans who can see nothing wrong with her behavior, or

    c. who just plain like to argue, please take your fight somewhere else . ‘

    Don’t waste your time or mine or show your lack of knowledge by telling me that body language analysis is a pseudoscience or junk science.

    I can assure you that it is not. It is based on science and behavioral analysis.

    Look at the work of one of the greatest body language researchers of our time, Dr. Paul Ekman, of Stanford University. who’s work on facial tells and micromovement  analysis is showcased in the Fox hit television show “ Lie to Me.”

    While body language analysis is based on scientific evidence , there is also an art to it. It takes a long time to learn it and an even longer time to be really good at it.

    I liken it to what a surgeon does. Based on his education, knowledge and experience, the surgeon, knows exactly what to do during an operation. But the success of the operation depends on his skill as a surgeon and how well he uses and manipulates his hands. In that respect, it is an art.

    The same holds true in body language analysis. Anyone that tells you differently that it is a junk science or that it is a pseudoscience is completely ignorant and/ or has a personal axe to grind like a certain self proclaimed Tourette syndrome psychologist named Leslie E. Packer PhD who writes the blog called pogowasright and  “ Chronicles of Dissent” with the operative word being on her moniker “dissent.”

    DR.LILLIAN GLASS HAS NEVER BACKPEDDLED, AS ” PSYCHOLOGIST” LESLIE E. PACKER AUTHOR OF “CHRONICLES OF DISSENT” AND POGOWASRIGHT, ERRONOUSLY STATES.

    I first encountered this psychologist, Leslie E. Packer Ph.D , author of the blog “Chronicles of Dissent” and  pogowasright , after I read a very nasty and defamatory blog where she wrote an internet headline that I backpeddled  in relation to my series of blogs about Britney Spears . Britney if you remember, had  had some issues at the time.

    I wondered who would anonymously write such untrue and defamatory comments about me, be such a hater towards other media psychologists, in show cowardly behavior by not signing their name, and even go as far as admitting she wrote to the Board of Psychology (who by the way ended up ignoring her hostile efforts).

    This blogger continued her personal vendetta by attacking my work as a body language expert, thumbing her nose at it and calling it junk and pseudoscience.

    But what she didn’t count on was how I ironically used my scientific skills as a body language expert to uncover this formerly anonymous blogger’s identity. In doing so it completely refuted  her ignorant claims that  body language analysis is  junk or pseudoscience.

    DR. LILLIAN GLASS’ BODY LANGUAGE ANALYSIS WAS USED TO UNCOVER THE IDENTITY OF ANONYMOUS BLOGGER, TOURETTE SYNDROME PSYCHOLOGIST LESLIE E. PACKER.  AUTHOR OF  BLOG CHRONICLES OF DISSENT AND POGOWASRIGHT

    After analyzing various “tells” in her blog writings, I discovered that all of  this  Toxic verbal venom towards me and my profession came from a 70 something New York based psychologist ( a non- media psychologist) who in my view had a definite axe to grind.

    In fact, to me it seemed like nothing else but a clear case of professional jealousy. Based on my analysis of her specific “tells” I discovered her name was Leslie E Packer a PhD who reportedly dealt with patients with Tourette’s Syndrome . She was also the author of  a  blog called Chronicles of Dissent” and pogowasright. When I punched up her name on the internet it appeared that she was no stranger to her activity as there were numerous allegedly derogatory headlines over the internet  which several others made about her.

    So, the bottom line is that anyone who calls body language analysis a pseudoscience or junk science is to be ignored.

    They may  allegedly have “issues” or a personal axe to grind.

     WHAT LINDSAY REALLY SAID

    ANGER. DENIAL AND DEFIANCE

    When Lindsay was asked point blank whether  she should be in rehab , the most telling  signal was that she looked away, In a defensive facial move, she  slightly wrinkled her forehead as she lifted her shoulder (as in giving the cold shoulder)

    In an angry clipped staccato tone stated “ I don’t see why I have to go.” Her answer clearly indicated that she was in denial. She was angry at the question and even more angry at the notion that someone would think of sending her to rehab .

    As she looks away her face reflects her defiance as she continues on making lame excuses.

    SIGNALS OF DECEPTION AND VULNERABILITY WHEN DISCUSSING “MISSING” PASSPORT

    When someone repeats the question you asked and manipulates one of your key words, chances are they a re not telling you the truth.

    The interviewer bluntly asks Did your passport really go missing or was it an excuse.?”

    Immediately you notice a shoulder shrugs she repeats the same sentence. These are two definite signals of deception.

    Then she continues , as she touches her neck. “ and says “ other thing a piece of jewelery and items that were in my possession, so I thought.”

    The volunteering of that much information which was not requested, along with her shoulder shrug were two more signals of deception, making it a total of four signals in just a sentence .

    When Lindsay denied that her passport didn’t go missing but rather was stolen, this change in semantics shows that she has definite problems with getting things straight. She had no proof the passport was stolen.

    In the photo above you can clearly  see that notice that Lindsey  holding onto her neck and chin. The neck is one of the the most vulnerable parts of our body

    So when someone holds onto it it usually reflects that  they are indeed feeling vulnerable. Lindsay may very well have felt vulnerable after being asked this question which she most probably knew was not true.

    Finally her shifting her eyes to the side as soon as she was asked the question is further indication of  deception.

    WAY TOO MUCH INFORMATION ABOUT MISSING PROGRAMS’

    When someone gives you too much information and makes excuses and gets into excess detail, they are usually not telling you the truth.

    Lindsay is full of justifying her behavior and that is a huge signal of deception.

    LYING ABOUT TAKING DRUGS

    When Lindsay was asked if she was still taking drugs the telling signal of deception was a shoulder shrug and her looking away as though she didn’t want to face the truth. The muscle tension in her forehead  indicating that she as angry she was asked this question.  d

    Her cocking her head to the side and looking own to the side indicates that she is attempting to manufacture an answer.

    DEFENSIVENESS

    Perhaps the most telling thing throughout the interview was Lindsay’s defensiveness,. This was really evident when she was asked about missing her programs.

    Instead of a simple yes or no answer as to whether she attended all of her programs she looks worried and terrified and is full of excuses about how she stayed in NY and did another class and something about a funeral.

    THE INDIAN EMBASSY ???

    When people lie their excuses often get more and more creative. They make no sense whatsoever min terms of their decision making process.

    When Lindsay said she   tried  everything to get back to LA for her court date she said she even went to the Indian embassy.

    This makes no sense  at all. An  American has no business going to an Indian embassy. They can only help their Indian citizens not American ones.

    ANGRY CHIN JUT WHEN ASKED ABOUT HER PARTYING IN CANNES

    In this photo above we really see a very angry Lindsay Lohan who looks very defiant as she juts her chin forward and glares at the interviewer who asked her about her partying in Cannes. She completely denied it stating that she was working.

    She was extremely defensive body language wise with  a raised shoulder indicting that she was ready for a fight. It;s much like an aggressive animal does with raised hackles when they are ready to attack.

    The odd thing was that the movie that she was allegedly promoting a movie  on which she says she was working hasn’t even  been made. So in essence she was there to promote an idea for a movie that has  no production date

    LINDSAY AND HER  NEW ADDITON – A   SCRAM BRACELET

    The whole thing is so sad. It was so sad to see Lindsay looking so devastated in the courtroom as she was sentenced to wear a SCRAM bracelet to determine if she would be free of alcohol in her system.

    She was then told that she would be subject to random drug testing. I certainly hope that Lindsay can accomplish these two things. I hope that she will not drink or take drugs. I hope that  if she is addicted to either of these substances that she take advantage of this situation to get herself sorted out in a 12 step program or get herself to an addiction specialist who can help her. Rehab may also be a good choice for her. Even though she failed at it in the past, she just may succeed this time around. Oftentimes it may  take many stints in rehab to get clean of drugs and alcohol.

    FAMILY DYNAMICS

    I pray for Lindsay. I would love to see her succeed and become an inspiration to others. I know that this talented and beautiful young woman has suffered a lot of emotional distress due to her relationship with her TOXIC father.

     Instead of taking it out on herself and self  destructing,  she needs to get some professional help so that she can turn her pain outward and not inward.

    DAD

    Personally, I believe that the damage between Lindsay and her father is irreparable. When he shared her personal audiotapes with the world and allegedly received payment for doing so I believe that was the ultimate betrayal. There are some things which are unforgivable and in my view  that is one of them.

    I believe that she needs to continue to unplug from her father and continue to keep him at arms length from her. He does not need to be in her life. I believe that there are some people who are so TOXIC to others that they can wreak havoc on their psyche and restimulate self destructive behaviors.

    MOM

    While Dina her mother is clearly an enabler based on her actions and denial of Lindsay’s issues, there is no doubt that Lindsay loves her mother. You can see her love for her mother when she talked about her mother in the Hollywood.com interview.

    You could even see the affection the two have for one another in the latest ET interview where Lindsay surprised her mother with having her mother’s house cleaned by a professional organizer. I think that their relationship could be a lot healthier if they both had some  joint counseling together and Dina learned about boundaries and not enabling her daughter.

    SIBLINGS

    There is also a lot of affection between Lindsay and her siblings. In fact she became teary eyed when she talked about not being able to attend her younger brother’s graduation because she was going to be in court .

    I believe that Lindsay can turn this negative experience into a positive one and use the time to get herself sorted out.

    I hope that she gets counseling to help her deal with the pain that appears to be gnawing inside of her.  Nothing  would be more inspiring than to see  a positive  comeback for this beautiful and gifted actress. www.drlillianglass.com

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