I just drove by the Beverly Hills Courthouse  on Burton Way  my way to my office this morning  only to see a string of TV mobile units  from every network lined up outside the courthouse.

I recognized some of my cameramen buddies from the various news outlets who were gathered around in a circle for what looked like was a presser. One of the cameramen walking near my car  told me that all of the press commotion  was for none other than Lindsay Lohan.

Apparently Lindsay did not show up to her court hearing  so there was a bench warrant issued for her arrest. Lindsay was full of excuses for not getting back in time, like losing her passport in Cannes, even though French police had no report of a stolen passport.

My first thought is why didn’t someone help her out?  Why didn’t her own mother /manager make sure Lindsay would be back from Cannes in time for her daughter’s court date? But that was just a fleeting thought. Lindsay isn’t the only one who is full of excuses. It is her number one enabler  her own mother/manager Diana who doesn’t seem to realize that she is not helping her daughter when she is not allowing Lindsay to take responsibility for her actions and face the truth.

Dina and Lindsay were recently featured on ET and I was appalled at Dina’s  excuses making for her daughter’s disturbing behavior. Dina’s laughter and  casual interjections and dismissal of her daughter’s serious issues was appalling.

LINDSAY’S DEFENSIVENESS SAYS SHE’S NOT BEING TRUTHFUL

Samantha Harris asked Lindsay point blank whether  she had any problems with drugs, alcohol or prescription medication, Lindsay defensively stated , “No, I don’t. I work.”

” What??  What does work have to do with whether she takes drugs?

Then she adds way too much information with a very defensive sounding toine attached to it. She says “ And if I go out with my friends, I’m 23 and I’m allowed to do that. I don’t go out when I’m working.”

When someone sounds that defensive and when they give out additional information that has nothing g to do with the question being asked it usually means they re not telling the truth.

Another “tell” that indicated Lindsay may not be telling the truth was her constantly looking away and diverting her eyes as she was unable to literally face and look at the truth.

CONTINUED DEFENSIVENESS TOO MUCH INFORMATION AND EXCUSES

When asked about recent tabloid photos of Lindsay  falling in the street, She replies  “I’m the most clumsy person in the world. I do trip a lot. I fall. I walk into walls sometimes.”

She says in in an anry and hostile tone. There was also shoulder shrugging as she said this- a classic signal of deception that occurred as she consistently diverted her eyes and looked away.

Then she adds “When did I stop being okay?” “I am fine. I am happy and I am working. And I’m good. And I’m surrounded by great friends now. You know, I have weeded out a lot of people in my life.” As she says this she doesn’t look very happy. Instead, she looks angry and hostile.

Once again when someone gives you that much unsolicited information, chances are they are not “good” and that something is very wrong with them. When someone is “very happy” as Lindsay says she is, their facial expression usually matches their words, which was not the case as Lindsay spoke these words.

DINA LOHAN-  THE  NUMBER ONE ENABLER OF HER DAUGHTER

If anything tragic happens to Lindsay like OD’ing on drugs  or alcohol or getting onto an accident and hurting herself or worse killing someone,  I will hold her mother Dina equally responsible.I will hold her responsible for making statements like this when discussing her daughter:

“But everyone does that,”. “That is like normal growth; she’s 23.”

A 23 year old girl repeatedly falling down is NOT normal growth! Unless she has a neurological problem  or running in six inch heels, 23 year old girls do not typically fall down unless they are drunk or high.

If she does have a neurological issue, then her mother needs to make sure she is  medically checked and treated appropriately . If she doesn’t have a neuromotor  issue, then she needs to get sorted out in terms of her alcohol or drug use.

“We are just very misunderstood,” adds Dina. “And, when I read it, it breaks my heart because it is not true. I am going to cry. I’m really going to cry. … She has the biggest heart of anyone on the planet.” Dina says as she praises  Lindsay.

Dinal will really be crying when something tragic happens to her daughter because of her enabling Lindsay and not facing the truth about her daughter.

LINDSAY IS   ALSO IN  DENIAL ABOUT HER MOM  AND CAREER

In her ET interview Lindsay says that she and her mom   “We fight like friends do. “ She says Not every mother has to read false stories about their daughter. It’s nice to know she has sat by me through all of that. She knows what is really happening in my life.”

First of all , Dina  is her mother not her friend , She is her  mother needs to act like a mother  of a daughter who is in desperate need of help.  She needs to take charge and give Lindsay a reality check.

If she really knows what is really happening in  Lindsay’s  life as Lindsay says, then her mother needs to be supporting  an intervention and getting her daughter into rehab as fast as her feet will carry her.

Dina does not need to be laughing into the camera and making a joke that herr daughter falls a lot. It was sickening to hear her say something like that. No doubt, her words will definitely come back to haunt her.Her daaughter’s falling is NO JOKE!

LINDSAY CANNOT SEE  IT IS NOT THE BAD PRESS THAT WON’T LET HER BE HIRED, IT’ IS  HER OWN DESTRUCTIVE BEHAVIOR

Then Lindsay continued to put her head in the sand and to not look at the  reality of her problems. She makes excuses for people not hiring her.

She says that she doesn’t  pay attention to the bad press,but adds “. … The only problem is that it distracts from me getting jobs, and that is when it hurts me.”

Well here is a reality check Lindsay. It is not the bad press that  prevents you from getting jobs. It is the fact that no one will hire you until you clean up your act because now you are  not insurable.

No one wants to hire a drug addict or an alcoholic who will create problems on a film set  and who  may not be  complete their filming under  the terms of their contract.

BEVERLY HILLS JUDGE  MARSHA REVEL   MEANS BUSINESS

While the  judge mentioned that she believed that Lindsay had a substance abuse problem, it di not stop her from issuing a bench warrant to Lindsay for not showing up this morning.

This  means  that as soon as Lindsay Lohan arrives on US soil, she will be detained by US Customs authorities .  Because she now has a bench warrant  for her no show, LAPD or the LA Airport Police will haul her off to jail.

PERHAPS THE 180 DAY SENTENCE WILL HELP HER SORT HERSELF  OUT

I don’t think that Linday will be getting out of her 180 day sentence so quickly.  I think that she may very well have to server her full sentence.

Perhaps the 4 12 moths behind bars will give her the time to straighten herself out and get off of the drugs she is allegedly  on. Perhaps the situation will also give her enabling mother Dina a reality check as well. Perhaps  now she won’t be laughing  and making a joke of the  fact that “Lindsay falls down a lot.”

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 Misty Croslin’s father Hank Thomas Croslin Sr., 41 clearly has troubles of his own. Last Thanksgiving he was arrested and put in jail, charged with withholding information from a doctor and fraudulently obtaining prescription drugs. He is due in court in February so his future may be as bleak as his daughter’s.  Soon, he too may be behind bars if he is found guilty.

Investigators said Hank Croslin obtained about 300 Oxycodone and Hydrocodone pills from three different physicians between April and May 2009 and none of the doctors knew about the other prescriptions.

Since Hank knew the drill in terms of what to expect behind bars, he openly shared  his fatherly advice when he visited daughter Misty in jail .

 Misty was recently arrested for trafficking prescription drugs. During the emotional jailhouse visit, Hank gave Misty some sound advice about what to do and not do in jail.

 Hank  Clearly Loves Daughter Misty

 Despite Hank’s obvious issues, there is no doubt after watching the video visit with Misty, that he truly loves his daughter.

 What Misty is accused of doing is egregious, not to mention that she was the last person to see Haleigh and not coming clean about what happened to that precious child. However, after watching the jailhouse tapes of her father, you could really feel his pain and see his anguish in dealing with  the fact that his beloved daughter is behind bars.

 He said “I love you” to her  over a dozen times during the call and used terms of endearment even calling her his beautiful baby girl, ”  He indicated that he has deep affection for his daughter. You could hear the love he has towards her in his voice and it was consistently gentle and kind.

 “I Told You So”

 

He also used a bit of tough love  during the video visit.  He said “ I  told you to stay away from that shit.”  No doubt he may have been referring to his daughter’s drug usage  or drug dealing when he used the term “stupid shit.”.

 Then he says to her “You never should have been with Ronald in the first place. Tried to act all grown up.”

He did not minimize her actions either He gave her a reality check. He said that she knew better and made a big mistake. He also warned her that they are going to blame it all on her and say that she got Ronald into this “shit,”

 You could hear the heavy breathing and the sighs of exasperation as he spoke throughout the video. At the end he was so devastated talking to his daughter behind bars, that he broke down and began to cry.

 Hank Taking Responsibility for His Role ,Truthfully Admitting He Doesn’t Know What
To Do, and Knowing Deep Down, He’s Lost His Kids

 The one thing that impressed me while watching the video visit was that Hank manned up and admitted his role in  Misty and her brother’s predicament.

He said  “I wish  I would done better keeping you guys out of this shit.” He even says how he wishes he never “ brung you here.”

 Hank was also truthful when he said “ I  don’t  know how to help either one of you. I don’t know what to do, I don’t have a clue. ”

 He also realized the consequences of his actions as he repeatedly says “I worry about you and your brother. I can’t lose either one of you.”

 You can her the anguish in Hank’s voice as he says “ It’s hard for me to have you both locked up.”

 The truth of the matter is that Hank knows that he has lost them both and that is why you hear him sigh and breathe so heavily as a signal of distress, throughout the video visit.

Fatherly Concern and Fatherly Advice

 Hank showed fatherly concern by as he asked her if she was taking showers and what she was eating. He also told her to exercise so she would get tired. He even asks her where her jail cell is located ( at the end) and asks if anyone is hollering things at her.

 He doesn’t candy coat things. He tells her the truth that her can promise her that they are not  going to be easy on her. He tells her to not trust anyone and to only talk to her lawyer.

 Towards the end of his video visit, he tells her to sit up,  so that he can see her. That is when he begins to cry.

 Hank Warns Misty Not to Lie About Haliegh 

 In the video, He tells Misty that she must not lie with regard to Hailey and that all of this must Hailey stuff must stop. He says to her ” The Haleigh case is a whole different ballgame. I didn’t understand why you didn’t come forward before.”

 He tells her to tell the truth and don’t talk unless she is with her lawyer. Hank says to Misty “  You don’t be lying about nothing, It will bury you deeper.”

 Hank Says He’ll Always Be There for Misty

 There is no doubt that Hank wants to do right by his daughter and visit her as much as he can. But he is in a predicament as well. He will soon be minus a place to live because Lindsey, his son’s wife is moving out. He doesn’t have a job and realizes that if he doesn’t get a job soon,  he will be in a worse situation than he is in  already. He doesn’t even have a car “ wheels” to get around.

He also has his own court date coming up later this month. His wife also has legal troubles of her own as she was in jail for forgery six months earlier.

 Even though Hank’s life is a complete mess, he is sincere when he tells Misty “ I will always be there to support you.  I don’t know what will happen I don’t know what we will do either. I will always be there as much as I can.”

 No matter how much Hank loves his daughter, will have  to deal with the sad  fact that he may have lost his daughter for good. He will never be able to tell Misty that he loves her to her face or kiss her or give her a warm fatherly hug because most likely she will never get out of prison.

On a subconscious level, even Misty is aware of this. In her jailhouse visit with her mom Lisa, she  leaked out “ It sucks man I hope I don’t have to be here forever.” This leakage of information reveals that deep down, Misty knows that she may very well be in prison forever.

 Misty is Going Through Various Stages of the Grieving Process

 

Throughout her jailhouse tapes, you hear her going through various phases of the grieving process.

In her denial phase, she says she didn’t do anything wrong and plays the victim as to how they are keeping her in this little cell and not letting her do anything.

Then in her bargaining phases she tells her brother Bubba (Tim) “If I get out I’m not doing nothing anymore. I’m not smoking cigarettes. I’m not smoking weed. I’m gonna be good. If I go to prison I’m gonna be good and get my GED  and do what I have to do. When I get out I’m gonna do the right thing I’m gonna stay with my mom and dad and I’m not leaving them ever again.”

You hear her in the reality phase or the acceptance phase when she admits to her brother that she will be thirty something when she comes out of prison in 21 years.

There is no doubt that as Misty learns she will most likely never come out of prison, she will go through her anger phase and other phases until she finally accepts her fate. In the meantime, I hope she comes clean and tells what really happened to Haleigh. www.drlillianglass.com

Misty Croslin’s father Hank Thomas Croslin Sr., 41 clearly has troubles of his own. Last Thanksgiving he was arrested and put in jail, charged with withholding information from a doctor and fraudulently obtaining prescription drugs. He is due in court in February so his future may be as bleak as his daughter’s.  Soon, he too may be behind bars if he is found guilty.

Investigators said Hank Croslin obtained about 300 Oxycodone and Hydrocodone pills from three different physicians between April and May 2009 and none of the doctors knew about the other prescriptions.Since Hank knew the drill in terms of what to expect behind bars, he openly shared  his fatherly advice when he visited daughter Misty in jail .

Misty was recently arrested for trafficking prescription drugs. During the emotional jailhouse visit, Hank gave Misty some sound advice about what to do and not do in jail.

Hank  Clearly Loves Daughter Misty

Despite Hank’s obvious issues, there is no doubt after watching the video visit with Misty, that he truly loves his daughter.

What Misty is accused of doing is egregious, not to mention that she was the last person to see Haleigh and not coming clean about what happened to that precious child. However, after watching the jailhouse tapes of her father, you could really feel his pain and see his anguish in dealing with  the fact that his beloved daughter is behind bars.

He said “I love you” to her  over a dozen times during the call and used terms of endearment even calling her his beautiful baby girl, ”  He indicated that he has deep affection for his daughter. You could hear the love he has towards her in his voice and it was consistently gentle and kind.

“I Told You So”

He also used a bit of tough love  during the video visit.  He said “ I  told you to stay away from that shit.”  No doubt he may have been referring to his daughter’s drug usage  or drug dealing when he used the term “stupid shit.”.Then he says to her “You never should have been with Ronald in the first place. Tried to act all grown up.”

He did not minimize her actions either He gave her a reality check. He said that she knew better and made a big mistake. He also warned her that they are going to blame it all on her and say that she got Ronald into this “shit,”You could hear the heavy breathing and the sighs of exasperation as he spoke throughout the video. At the end he was so devastated talking to his daughter behind bars, that he broke down and began to cry.

Hank Taking Responsibility for His Role ,Truthfully Admitting He Doesn’t Know What To Do, and Knowing Deep Down, He’s Lost His Kids

The one thing that impressed me while watching the video visit was that Hank manned up and admitted his role in  Misty and her brother’s predicament.He said  “I wish  I would done better keeping you guys out of this shit.” He even says how he wishes he never “ brung you here.”

Hank was also truthful when he said “ I  don’t  know how to help either one of you. I don’t know what to do, I don’t have a clue. ”He also realized the consequences of his actions as he repeatedly says “I worry about you and your brother. I can’t lose either one of you.”You can her the anguish in Hank’s voice as he says “ It’s hard for me to have you both locked up.”

The truth of the matter is that Hank knows that he has lost them both and that is why you hear him sigh and breathe so heavily as a signal of distress, throughout the video visit.

Fatherly Concern and Fatherly Advice

Hank showed fatherly concern by as he asked her if she was taking showers and what she was eating. He also told her to exercise so she would get tired. He even asks her where her jail cell is located ( at the end) and asks if anyone is hollering things at her.He doesn’t candy coat things. He tells her the truth that her can promise her that they are not  going to be easy on her. He tells her to not trust anyone and to only talk to her lawyer.Towards the end of his video visit, he tells her to sit up,  so that he can see her. That is when he begins to cry.

Hank Warns Misty Not to Lie About Haleigh

In the video, He tells Misty that she must not lie with regard to Hailey and that all of this must Hailey stuff must stop. He says to her ” The Haleigh case is a whole different ballgame. I didn’t understand why you didn’t come forward before.”He tells her to tell the truth and don’t talk unless she is with her lawyer. Hank says to Misty “  You don’t be lying about nothing, It will bury you deeper.”

Hank Says He’ll Always Be There for Misty

There is no doubt that Hank wants to do right by his daughter and visit her as much as he can. But he is in a predicament as well. He will soon be minus a place to live because Lindsey, his son’s wife is moving out. He doesn’t have a job and realizes that if he doesn’t get a job soon,  he will be in a worse situation than he is in  already. He doesn’t even have a car “ wheels” to get around. He also has his own court date coming up later this month. His wife also has legal troubles of her own as she was in jail for forgery six months earlier.

Even though Hank’s life is a complete mess, he is sincere when he tells Misty “ I will always be there to support you.  I don’t know what will happen I don’t know what we will do either. I will always be there as much as I can.”

No matter how much Hank loves his daughter, will have  to deal with the sad  fact that he may have lost his daughter for good. He will never be able to tell Misty that he loves her to her face or kiss her or give her a warm fatherly hug because most likely she will never get out of prison.

On a subconscious level, even Misty is aware of this. In her jailhouse visit with her mom Lisa, she  leaked out “ It sucks man I hope I don’t have to be here forever.” This leakage of information reveals that deep down, Misty knows that she may very well be in prison forever.

Misty is Going Through Various Stages of the Grieving Process

Throughout her jailhouse tapes, you hear her going through various phases of the grieving process.

In her denial phase, she says she didn’t do anything wrong and plays the victim as to how they are keeping her in this little cell and not letting her do anything.

Then in her bargaining phases she tells her brother Bubba (Tim) “If I get out I’m not doing nothing anymore. I’m not smoking cigarettes. I’m not smoking weed. I’m gonna be good. If I go to prison I’m gonna be good and get my GED  and do what I have to do. When I get out I’m gonna do the right thing I’m gonna stay with my mom and dad and I’m not leaving them ever again.”

You hear her in the reality phase or the acceptance phase when she admits to her brother that she will be thirty something when she comes out of prison in 21 years.

There is no doubt that as Misty learns she will most likely never come out of prison, she will go through her anger phase and other phases until she finally accepts her fate. In the meantime, I hope she comes clean and tells what really happened to Haleigh. www.drlillianglass.com