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Gingrich Straightforward Body Language Calling CNN “Despicable”and Lack His of Deception When In Denying Allegations

Friday, January 20th, 2012

Gingrich won over a lot more voters in South Carolina  by telling it like it is and speaking the truth against CNN and not candy coating it. He called them “despicable”  as he pointed his finger and spoke his mind. In this day and age people respect straightforward talk and saying it like it is. So that is why Newt was so well received.

After his ex wife  Marianne went on camera a day earlier  to say how he cheated on her and wanted an open marriage, CNN’s first question to him was about her allegations. Gingrich chastised  CNN Chief National Correspondent John King for asking that  as a first question in a Presidential debate . Hegot even angrier when King tried to pawn off the reporting of the story on another network.

His  response elicited loud applause from the audience as they showed their disapproval of CNN’s questioning.If you would ask most ex spouses or ex boyfriends and girlfriends about a sour relationship very few would have good things to say. So one cannot take as gospel what either side says. It takes two to have a relationship and obviously something went terribly wrong in their communication and in their relationship.

Gingrich denied the allegations and reported that his daughters contacted ABC to pull the story. But the low point was when King tried to cover his back andf protect his network by saying that they werent the ones to first report the story.

The fact that they are perpetuating the story by asking the question says it all . The public is not dumb and not buying the “blame game” so they look clean.Newt in essence busted them and called them out and people loved it!

Relationships fail as people change and  communication disintegrates. The heartbreak can be unbearable- worse than any possible physical pain. No one Knows what happened in Newt’s and Marianne’s relationship except them. They obviously have different perspectives . With time their perceptions and perspectives  often take on a whole new meaning, especially if one of the parties has done better than the other, healthwise, careerwise,finacialLy or socially.

On the other hand we as voters  do have a right to know all sides (the good and the bad)  of our candidates and give the ma chance to adresss allegations to see if they are tellingt he truth or not.

In my view, Gingrich did not show any signals of deception when he denied the allegations made by his ex wife, He looked confident and straightforward as he confidently  denied what was said about him. There was no leakage of deceptive tells and he spoke in a voice indicative of someone telling the truth. He did not deny that he had an affair when he initially listened to the question as she shook his head yes in agreement as John King made a statement about this before asking  his question. Gingrich’s body language confirmed that he did indeed have an affair and was not denying it. But he was denying the allegations about an open marriage.

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Jennifer Lopez and Marc Anthony’s Body Language Show They’re Faking It For The Camera

Sunday, January 15th, 2012

Marc Anthony  Jennifer Lopez’s body language told the real story even though the divorcing couple tried to smile and act as though there was no problem between them during their press conference for their  Univision show “Q’Viva.”

Even though Marc and Jennifer appeared  affectionate during the photo shoots,  there was no sincerity  detected body language wise as you can see. In the photo above  Anthony  leads J Lo as he holds her hand. But the giveaway is that they are both looking in different directions.That is not a good sign for a loving couple.

The next giveaway is that neither of them are smiling and J Lo looks directly at Anthony with tension around her eyes in the form of a glare. This is not how a loving couple looks at one another.  Anthony on the other hand, shows a lot of tension in the lower jaw region  ads you can see in the photo, which is another sign that things are not good between them.

To try to show the press that there was intimacy between them, Anthony even held onto J.Lo’s waist as  men  commonly tend to do when their partner’s are pregnant with their child. The pose here is completely contrived and painful to look at. First of all look at the pressure of Anthony’s finger muscles on J’Lo’s abdomen. They are pushing in and the fingers arte not relaxed and open. Instead they are close together and tight. He is pressing too hard to indicate affection.

Next, look at their faces. They are looking in opposite directions which is another bad sign and Marc looks tense and pained. His eyes look sad as they are narrowed where he is also leaking out anger. No doubt deep down he must be feeling angry that he has to perform this charade in order to promote their project together. Look at the muscle tension on the side of his lower jaw. That spells- anger.

J Lo is not doing any better int he anger and sadness department. Even though she appears to be smiling, it is a fake smile. Cover up her lips  int he photo with your hand and you will see sad eyes which are not smiling. This indicates that there is ambivalence on her part. There is tension in her cheeks and  a great deal of muscle tension in her neck region as you can see. This indicates that she is not comfortable being around her ex and is feeling tense and unhappy about the situation, even though she is trying to mask it.   Finally her head is bowed down indicating that she is feeling insecure and less than herself when she is  in Anthony’s presence.

Reporters who attended the press conferences stated that  there was an awkwardness between them. The press conference was so controlled by  press handlers so stop reporters from delving into  J Lo and Mark Anthony’s realtionship issues and detract from promoting their project, that the reporters were barely given time to ask questions.

The tension in J Lo’s face is remarkable. She is clenching down on her back teeth in anger as she leans her upper body away from her ex. He is extremely tense facially and his shoulder is up indicating that he is literally giving her the “cold shoulder.”

They were asked by a member of the press hat it was like working together .  JLo   merely mirrored back the question in a monotone voice as she responded “We have a great time working together.” When someone parrots back phrases rest assured they are not being forthright. When people are going through a split, you can bet they are not having a great time working together. Also the choice of her word “great” is used by her  to overcompensate for the opposite feelings that she really has towards Anthony and towards their current situation.


At one point,  Marc looked at all the rings on Jennifer’s left hand and looked very sad and surprised  as you can see that his jaw is more slack as he did not see the wedding ring  her gave her on her finger. J Lo looks angry and tense as you can see the tension in her neck muscles along with a sweaty shiny forehead to further indicate discomfort anxiety, and tension.

This photo is  further indication that there is indeed hard feelings between them.

In every photo they both look miserable in one another’s presence.

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Dolphin Communication to Help Military Keep Strait of Hormuz Open

Saturday, January 14th, 2012

Iran is threatening to close the Straight of Hormuz and if so the military will send in their best allies- dolphins who have been trained to detect mines with their unique communication skills.

Dolphins  have sonar  that is so advanced that  they can discern specific coins from hundreds of  feet away . The  US Navy have many  bottlenose dolphins in the who are taught to hunt for mines and drop acoustic transponders nearby.In the above photo you can see dolphins with a  tracking device attached to its fin

The the dolphins only detect the mines, they don’t destroy them and they are unharmed according to the military.

These  US dolphins are being  trained and used for peace purposes unlike the Iranian dolphins which were purchased 12 years ago from the Soviets who’s navy initially trained them  kill and attack warships and frogmen. All of these killing dolphins who were  trained to attack enemy frogmen with harpoons attached to their backs, or to drag them to the surface to be taken into captivity were sold to Iran, because the trainer could no longer feed them after they were sent to an aquatic attraction in Sevastopol.

Many of these killer dolphins are capable of undertaking  kamikaze strikes against enemy carrying mines that would explode a ship on contact with its hull. In fact the

dolphins were allegedly trained to  distinguish foreign and Soviet submarines  use just by the sound of their propeller. Dolphins were allegedly trained to  distinguish foreign and Soviet submarines  use just by the sound of their propeller.

According to research by the Whale and Dolphin Conservation Society, numerous ex-Soviet military dolphins have been sold to aquariums around the world. The aquarium in Sevastopal was one of them, who in turn sold them to the Iranians for nefarious purposes.

Then seven hers later  in 2007, 152 dolphins were washed up on Iran’s southern coast  when Iranian fisherman were  said to have beaten the animals who got entangled in their fishing nets. While the Iranians accused the US of being behind this , there is no documentation or proof of this. Some even say that these massive dolphin deaths were due to electromagnetic waves from various military vessels in the gulf, including Iranian vessels.

It is unconscionable that any animal is treated inhumanely or used for evil purposes. By nature dolphins are not violent creatures so to use them in this capacity  towards violent acts is a  major sin against nature.  Unlike the Iranians, the US has only utilized the help of these amazing  dolphins for good  and not evil.

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Joran Van Der Sloot’s Insincere Body Language During Courtoom Confession Lands His 28 Years In Prison

Saturday, January 14th, 2012

We see a very different looking Joran Van der slot when he was first  arrested and frightened after being arrested for killing Stephanie Flores in Peru and paraded around.  Then we saw a wide eyed frightened Joran. Today we see a heavier and more cocky Joran. The cocked head to the side and the tight lipped appearance indicate his insincerity.

His shoulder shrugs as you can see int his photo when he spoke the words  Yes I want to plead guilty. I wanted  from the first moment to confess sincerely. As he states these words you can see many signals of deception. The statement analysis indicates deception as well based on the words he chose. It is not true that Joran wanted to plead guilty from the first moment to confess.He was adamant from the beginning that he was innocent and then claimed he was coerced into a confession by the Peruvian authorities. Also the word sincerely is also significant as there eis nothing sincere about his confession.

Also the repetition of  the  word  ”wanted” speaks to yet another issue- his seeing himself as a victim in all of this. In essence he says that he wanted to do so at the beginning but no one would let him. We clearly know that this is not so based on reports of his actions early on during his arrest and subsequent incarceration.

His monotone voice along with his cocked head belie his words as he continues to say  I am truly sorry for this bad act. He shrugs his shoulders looks up,  away from the three judges  as he cocks his head. Not only does he shrug his shoulder, he keeps it in the same raised position which indicates that he is literally giving the “cold shoulder” to match his cold monotoned voice pattern.

His words indicate the opposite based on his body language behaviors. He is not sorry at all and does not consider this a bad act. he has no feeling and no remorse  whatsoever and it shows.

Then he immediately switches up the words and says  I am truly sorry for this act. I feel bad. The fact that he repeats his apology as he alters the word order confirms that he is lying about feeling sorry for his “bad act”.

But now he is actually showing signals of honesty when he makes this latest statement. He now focuses his eyes back on the judges as he l looks directly at them as he now bows his head in sorrow. Yes he is sorry, but NOT for killing Stephanie Flores. He is sorry for getting caught . In fact he is truly sorry he got caught. Now he does not call it a bad act as he did initially. Now he simply calls it an act .In essence he is saying that he is sorry he was caught for his act of killing Stephanie Flores which he does not consider  bad , but merely an act.

Then he says I feel very bad. This is true based on his body language. He feels very bad because he was caught doing this act that he did not consider bad. Note how the  position of the words  bad and act have changed in his statement. It is not longer a bad act. Now he feels bad he was caught in the act.

He is still nervous and anxious as she shows signs of this rocking back and forth freighting movements which his legs constantly moving as he sat and waited to speak,  through his profuse sweating  and itching as you can see int he photo above.

However he cannot help but leak out his arrogance and self righteousness through his erect posture and raised shoulder literally giving the judges a cold shoulder via his insincere confession . He does however feel vulnerable as you can see  by his hands clasped over his private area. While he believe he was justified in what he did to Stephanie and feels forced to confess for the reward to a lighter sentence, he is still nervous and frightened by what the sentence will be. Also if you look at the muscle tension of his hands as he clasps them over his groin area you can see that he is indeed exhibiting a lot of nervousness and tension as he is holding on to himself for dear life.

Another change in Joran is that there is a lot of puffiness under his eyes which may indicate he is not getting a lot of sleep in prison and/ or possibly doing drugs. It has been said that for the right amount of money one can get just about  anything in this prison.

Joran’s legal defense was that he had Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome from the Natalie Holloway incident because  he was hounded by the press for her alleged killing. Perhaps this was the best defense that his attorney could come up with because there was certainly no other defense as to why Joran would kill a lovely Peruvian girl with a bright future ahead of her.  This lame defense got him two years less than the maximum 30 years he would have received had he not confessed.

As we see from Joran’s photos, prison life has not been good to him. He looks bad and as he lingers in prison for the next  close to three decades, he will look even worse and prison life will be worse to him. Based on his actions during  his court proceedings he knows this as well.

His slovenly appearance shows that he did not care how he looked or came across. He may have been told by his attorney that his confession would result in less prison time. because of his arrogance he may have interpreted this less prison time to be  only a a few years. That would explain why he was visibly angry when the judge ordered him to 28 years in prison. He was reported to have  cursed  out loud as she was also ordered to  pay $75,000 in reparations.

But Under Peru’s laws, however, van der Sloot could get out after serving half of his sentence. This means the 24 year old  could be out when he is 38. That means he would have a long life ahead of him to live freely. With book, film and TV interviews he could be a very wealthy man, continue his gambling lifestyle and life like nothing ever happened.

But that will not be the case if the US has anything to do about it. He may be extradited to the US for extortion in the Natalie Holloway case.  If found guilty, he would be put away for more time and serve it in the US.

It is unclear  to date whether Joran will stay at Castro Castro prison where he has been isolated from the other prisoners or whether now that he has been sentenced, he  will be among the general population there. it is unclear as to whether he will be transferred to a more harsher prison in Peru and placed int he general population.

If placed the general population Joran will be a walking dead man as there is fierce loyalty even among prisoners when it comes to a national hero- Stephanie Flores’ father.If another prisoner does not kill him, disease such as TB and AIDS may do it, thus making it doubtful that we will see Joran on the streets of Aruba, the Netherlands or any other place int he world.

If by some fluke of nature he does come out of prison alive at age 38, he will no doubt suffer the same fate as OJ and so many others where they commit  another bad act to land themselves in prison for life.

While nothing can bring back Stephanie Flores, justice was  finally served as she can now rest in peace. Let’s hope the same justice can be served for Natalie Holloway so she too can rest in peace and so her loving mother Beth can also have some peace.

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Kim Kardashian’s Botoxed Facial Language Alienating People?

Tuesday, December 27th, 2011

Look at Kim  Kardashiasn’s facial expression.  She is sitting on Santa’s lap and is supposed to be happy. But her facial expression says something entirely different. While her lips are parted and teeth are  teeth showing to indicate a  smile, there is something odd about the lip area as there is  no muscle movement seen. When you smile, there is muscle  movement in the lower jaw and at the side of the lips .

In this photo taken earlier in Kim’s life, you can see what I am talking about. There is a slight lower jaw tension and lines at the sides. The naso-labial folds course downwards as they should be. She looks natural and engaging.

But now there is none of that.In addition absolutely no other facial movement in her Santa photo. Her upper face is essentially frozen in a manaquin like position.

In a normal genuine smile there would be a crinkling of the forehead  and definite crinkling around the eyes  or some slight wrinkling under the eyes. But in the Santa photo you see none of that which makes her look wax-like. While she is pretty, there is an unnatural  non-human quality to the look.

Asa body language expert it is disturbing , because you cannot read anything from Kim’s face other than BOTOX. I am not sure Kim has used botox as I haven’t seen anyone shoot it into her face. But in my view, it sure looks like she has been heavy on the syringe lately.

Personally I find the natural look (wrinkles and crinkles) more beautiful  in people. There is nothing wrong with plastic surgery or  enhancing your appearance in my view. But there is a lot wrong when it interferes with your nonverbal facial  communication.

The repercussions are that people tend to turn off to you and they don’t relate to you. Facial expression and body movement are essential for good communication, especially of you want to relate to others. That is why I am not a fan of Botox.

Back in the day, Botox was used on patients who had vocal cord problems and muscle spams in the vocal cords where they could not speak without loosing their voices mid sentences. In that case Botox was a good thing.

It has also been used with cerebral palsy patients to release the muscle constrictions. In fact, I know of a prson who has cerebral pasley who uses Botox for this purpose and it is now difficult to tell if she has Cerebral Palsey as the Botox helped her previously uncontrolled head movement.

But when too much Botox is used to eliminate facial activity it is a bad thing in my view. While Kim’s wedding was a joke as you could tell it was not genuine from  her body language,  fans have rebelled. They have even called  to boycott Kim and the Kardashians all together. But perhaps  they may be rebelling  against Kim in particular for an additional reason as well. Perhaps they can no longer relate to Kim. Perhaps they  find her lack of facial animation unrelatable and a turn off.

Her monotone, nasal, non animated voice matches her now matches  non animated face and that is a very bad thing in terms of image, like ability and relate-ability.

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What Kind of Leader Will Kim Jong Un Be? North Korean’s Body Language Show They Are Afraid

Tuesday, December 20th, 2011

Now that Kim Jong-il, has died his youngest son Kim Jong Un is the new Successor. The above photo says it all.As you can see Kim Jon Il is clapping with his non genuine  mask -like smile with teeth clenched together. If he was living in the US many would deem it to look like a socioopathic smile.

The soldiers in the photos are clapping along with the Successor  and looking at him and doing exactly as he does,  but none of them are smiling. In fact they are looking quite scared. They don’t know what to expect and neither does anyone else. The older soldiers dressed in uniform show a great deal of tension in their faces which indicates nervousness and uneasiness.

The truth is that they  should be scared and we should be scared as well . After all these are soldiers of the Korean People’s Army, where they no doubt have spent a lifetime being soldiers. Now their  28 year old new leader, who never served in the army and was only home schooled in Computer Programming  has risen to the rank of what is equivalent to a  Four Star General. To the Korean military and to everyone else , it is scary that someone who never served in the military is now  running the military.

In fact he was only carted out publicly a year ago when he attended a political party meeting and sat two seats away from his father. Photos were taken which were  designed to give the public spin that this youngest son was important politically.

Before he died Kim Jong Il made people swear an oath of loyalty that they would support his son, but now that he is dead, will they carry out that oath? Apparently he also encouraged citizens to support his son by singing a newly composed song of praise to his son.

SIMILAR TEMPERAMENT IS A BAD THING

Based on reports of his personality traits his younger son has the same temperament as his father, which is not a good thing.

That means he most likely will rule as his father did with an iron fist.

SHYNESS –  MAY BE  A DETRIMENT

But unlike his father he is reported to be of very shy  temperament and not very social. Apparently he has been like this since childhood according to sources.  As he grew older his shyness became more evident as it was reported that when he was in school in Switzerland he has little to do with other students and has his own chaperone all the time.  Since one does not always outgrow their shy behaviors, his alleged shyness may be a  very bad thing on the world stage.

It is a bad thing because there is no room for shyness and non communication  when dealing with world leaders. It is also a bad thing in that his shyness ( if he still has it) will continue to keep him and his country isolated from other world leaders which will interfere with the peace process.

On the other hand, he may be verbally shy or socially shy but not computer shy perhaps he feels more comfortable communicating online. As a person who was educated in Computer Programming his shyness may be irrelevant, especially if he communicates via the internet. This may serve as  a shield to mask his shyness and thus enable him to communicate with others more freely.

FLUENCY IN ENGLISH  AND LOVE FOR NBA MAY BE A GOOD THING

On a  positive note,  besides being internet aware, unlike his father he

  1. speaks fluent English as he was educated  at the English-language International School of Berne, Switzerland,
  2. is a huge  basketball fan and loves the NBA Michael Jordan and a few other players and even allegedly had his photo taken with certain players.

These two things, along with his internet awareness  may have positive affect on how the views the world . It may makes him less isolated and more connected to the outside world and the people in it.

Because he is fluent in the international language- English he is much   better equipped communicate  directly with international leaders  than his father was and not lose the impact of what he and other leaders are saying because of any loss of meaning in the translation process.

The fact that he that he loves basketball and certain players is also an excellent thing. If things get tough the US in particular  can send over Michael Jordan  and the NBA  as an ambassador to make to make things right. One often listens more readily to those they trust, like and respect.

NOT BEING  SOCIALIZED IS A BAD THING

But on the negative side, even with his English he does not seem socialized or equipped to deal with those in the West. In fact it has been reported that while he was In Switzerland studying English, he  was not social and  did not associate with the other students, In fact it was reported that he  was constantly chaperoned by an older student throughout his stay.

BEING A BIG DRINKER AND NEVER ADMITTING DEFEAT IS A BAD THING

According to his late fathers personal chef named Fujimoto, Kim Jong un has superb physical gifts, is a big drinker and never admits defeat.”

Perhps the physical gifts he is referring to is Kim Jon un’s size as he is big and tall and apparently strong and athletic.

But even so , it has been reported that he too suffers from the same health issues as his father- diabetes and hypertension.

The fact that he is a big drinker is very very bad for any world leader. It can affect his judgment and perception. His anger can be induced via alcohol which would be a disaster in terms of his international decisions. It may make him more aggressive and irrational towards other countries he perceives as enemies. If someone is a big drinker at 28, unless they stop drinking or get help for their drinking they will most likely continue to drink. This is also not  good sign as his drinking may get worse as he ages.

When someone on the world stage cannot admit defeat or cannot see the other side there is no room for growth or compromise. That is a bad thing. In fact it is a very, very bad thing in terms of never being able to compromise or to work towards world peace.

HE  ONCE REVEALED COMPASSION WHICH IS A GOOD THING.

Even though it allegedly happened ten years ago when when Jong-un was 18, Fujimoto, his father’s chef  described an episode where Jong-un questioned his lavish lifestyle and asked, “We are here, playing basketball, riding horses, riding Jet Skis, having fun together. But what of the lives of the average people?”[29]

If this is true  and he did actually make this statement , it shows that Kim Jong un  may have much more compassion than his father. On the other hand, it was allegedly said a decade ago and much can change in a person’s viewpoints during that period of time, especially of they are indoctrinated.

He was obviously indoctrinated by his father as he was hand picked to become the Successor when his father realized his failing health.

In 2009, however he was elevated to a mid-level position in the National Defense Commission, a branch of the North Korean military and a year later elevated to the equivalent of a Four Star General when he in fact never served in the military.

POSSIBLE MUTINY?

To further promote his son as  a leader he made his son’s birthday a national holiday. Also in 2010 he made sure his sone was named as the Vice Chairman of the Central Military Commission and appointed to the Central Committee fo the Workers Party which was a sign he would be the successor.  To conform his son’s position on the political stage, his father mad sure a lot of press was present to document his son’s presence at the worker’s Party’s 65th anniversary where he was seated near his father.

But none of that may matter now that his father is dead. His extreme inexperience may be a huge detriment in his leadership which may cause a mutiny of sorts or  it may cause him to make some very wrong decisions in leading a country as volatile as North Korea has been in the world.

Since North Korea is a highly militarized state, Kim Jong-eun faces the  Herculean task of holding  everything together and maintaining it as it was. But since he is inexperienced militarily, the big question is how can he even think of running a highly militarized state? No doubt there will be resentment at his never having served in the military or knowing much about the military which could lead to internal struggles within the country.

THE CITIZEN’S  ANGER AS PART OF THEIR GRIEVING PROCESS


There is also the psychological issue that the citizens will face in grieving the loss of his father whom they loved and reveared.

Statements  heard on video reports made by the citizens  such as  Why did he leave us like this?” or “How could he leave us now?” may reflect the anger stage in the grief process that the citizens will go through. In mass, this may  possibly create a rebellion and  mutiny among the citizens of North Korea.

Stephen Bosworth, who was the US envoy for North Korea policy until  this past October said “The young man will not take office with the same authority his father had,”.

That is a hugely significant statement from someone in the know. It means that his son will not have the same  respect of the people or the military that his father had which may translate into a weaker leadership and a rebellion.

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Producer Scott Sternberg’s All Time Low Peddling Casey Anthony Interview for Three Quarters of a Million Dollars

Thursday, December 15th, 2011

I can’t think of anything more repulsive than hearing anything out of  liar Casey Anthony’s mouth besides producer Scott Stenberg trying to cash in on the action and make a quick  buck off her back and the back of a dead baby. If he sells it I am boycotting it and him to boot.

Acquitted or not, no one deserves to make money off of  a dead baby- Caylee Marie Anthony. We have wasted enough time  dissecting this case. We have heard ALL that Casey Anthony has to say with her body language and repeated verbal and vocal  lies.

We have  even heard her repulsive mother  Cindy lie repeatedly  on the stand and in the media. We have heard the same lies from her father and brother.  It is over! Let this precious baby rest in peace.

If Scott  whom I happen to know personally sells this sleeze for the quarter of  the quarter of a  million he is asking for  it, Casey doesn’t deserve to get a cent and neither does he. As far as I am concerned it is nothing more than blood and death  money. Scott obviously knows its sleazy  otherwise he would be pitching the show openly and not” quietly” as  the Hollywood Reporter quoted.

While Scott asks for his hefty sum of up to  $750,000  for a promised no holds barred Casey Anthony interview, thankfully no  network is touching his offer. They know  that it will be a disappointment  mainly because the know  Casey will never tell the truth and they will receive severe backlash from the public and national outrage news

In fact, according to the Hollywood Reporter Anthony’s pariah status has already spurred divisions to publicly disavow the common and age-old practice of licensing personal photos and home video from interview subjects as a fig leaf to paying outright for interviews. And ABC News, CBS News and NBC News all have stated adamantly that they would not pay for an Anthony interview specifically.

Any advertiser who would put their product in a show featuring Casey Anthony would run the risk of having their products boycotted as well just by the negative association.

And what does  Scott Sternberg have to say about all of this?  As the Hollywood Reporter quotes “He declined to comment. ” To me that says it all!

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Did Kim Kardashian’s Body Language Smell Contribute To Her and Kris Humphries Breakup?

Thursday, December 8th, 2011

Body language wise when two people just get married and are in the Honeymoon phase with one another they can barely keep their hands off of one another. When you see photos or videos of them, there is no physical space between them as they are joined together like Siamese twins.

So when I watched Kim Kardashian and Kris Humphries take their vows on television some 70 something days ago and saw too much space between them, and an awkwardness, I knew something was way off. When I was asked to analyze their body language by the media I knew something was seriously wrong and they would NEVER last long as a couple.I was clearly right in my assessment as they soon announced that they would be divorcing.

But when Kris Humphries, on the second installment of Kris and Kourtney take New York, said to Kim as they were horsing around on the bed “Your armpits smell like a combination of fish and hot garbage.” it revealed a lot.

In so many photos Kim literally seemed repulsed by Kris as I even mentioned this on Hollywoodlife.com But Kris’s statement about Kim’s smell reflects that he too may have been repulsed by her and her smell and her pheromones.

PHEROMONES SPEAK VOLUMES

Research has shown how powerful pheromones can be in terms of physical attraction. If you have ever been madly in love with someone you can’t get enough of them. When they are not around you miss everything about them- even their smell. You may even resort to sleeping with their tee shirt just to get a blast of their pheromones they left behind. Pheromones are what is referred to in common terms as “chemistry”. You have it or you don’t. And Kim and Kris obviously don’t have it.

And please don’t write t tell me Kris was only kidding. He could have kidded by saying something else. But to actually describe the smell of Kim’s pits so graphically also giving choices – “fish” or “hot garbage” it is clear that it was a smell thing. That does not mean that Kim stinks or has a body odor.

Obviously Reggie didn’t think so, or maybe he did as they are obviously not together. But it does mean that Kim’s pheromones were not compatible with Kris Humphry’s pheromones. There relationship or lack therof, shows us that there is a lot more that goes into a relationship than money, power, looks, or status. It involves smell. Animals know it better than anyone. They either like ort dislike another animal based on their smell. We are just the same, only we try to disguise it with all of the other things mentioned above.

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Groom’s Body Language During Wedding Before Committing Suicide Says It All

Wednesday, November 23rd, 2011

Fernando Brazier , 28 committed suicide just a few hours after his marriage ceremony to the mother of his two children Trudian Hay.

This photo of the two of them walking down the isle is haunting. Look at Fernando’s body language. He is stiff. He leans away from his bride. There is no smile on his face. He is wide-eyed and there appears to be an enormous amount of tension around his mouth and shoulder area a he awkwardly hold his bride’ hand. He does not look like a man who is happily in love or happy to be married.

Trudian Hay, who is also the mother of his two young daughters has no clue what he was about to do a few hours later.In contrast, she appears to be elated and in a world of her own. She is laughing. Her head and body  is turned away from Fernando as she  has no clue that he  looks extremely uncomfortable, upset  and  almost on a state of shock as he completed  saying his vows and walked down the isle.

No one seemed to notice Fernando’s misery as he and the bride kissed as they all looked on , sharing in what they thought was the couple’s mutual joy. If you look closely at their post marital kiss he is stiff and non responsive.

It is Trudian who appears to be more dominant in reaching up to kiss him as indicated by the way she is straining and elongating her neck. He doesn’t bend down to meet her kiss. He is ridged  in his posture and there appears to be no joy expressed in his face. It is the complete opposite facial expression that his bride has on her face.

Trudian leans into fernando but he looks pained . he looks as though he is about to cry- and not from happiness. He looks terribly sad as he shows no affection and does not reciprocate the leaning in towards Trudian. His shoulders are slouched and he looks severely depressed.

Apparently Fernando was so upset over feeling forced into getting married by Tudian , according to his sister, Shawna Weeks that hejumped into the Harlem River  and ended his life.

According to his sister, Fernando came to her home every week after work to talk about his concerns – and stated his eyes were eyes “blood shot” and in a state of despair. She said he shared with her that he and Trudia “had nothing in common and .”That’s why they postponed the wedding a year ago. He was being pressured into it.”

And that  Tudia was a to be a “great person,” but “just not for him.”

HE  WENT THROUGH WITH THE MARRIAGE

But  unwillingly he went through with the wedding anyway.Perhps he didn’t know how to say no to Trudia, that he didn’t want to marry her. Perhaps the fact that he reportedly dated her since they were teenagers made it more difficult to break it to her that he didn’t want to spend the rest of his life with her. Maybe he felt obligated  to go ahead with it because they had a two and a five year old together. Maybe he didn’t want to upset their families who knew one another for so many years.

But Fernando’s tragic act has now ended up hurting EVERYONE- his bride, his family, her family, their friends and most of all their babies who now have to grow up fatherless.

He was  clearly depressed. His sister confirmed it. He reached out to his her but unfortunately he wasn’t equipped to say No. He took the cowardly way out  in my view. He did a very TOXIC and  passive aggressive act. He went ahead and married and gave Trudian what she wanted but then he in essence said, I’ll show you, I’ll marry you but that’s it. There is no living happily every after with us.

LESSONS TO BE LEARNED

This tragedy upsets me on so many levels. It upsets me that poor Fernando didn’t see a professional who could have saved his life by either giving him needed medication or by teaching him how to stick up for himself and his needs and say NO to the marriage.

It upsets me that Trudian will  now be traumatized for the rest of her life as will her children.

All Trudian  most likely  wanted was happiness and the dream of having her man. Who knows if she gave him ultimatums like so many women and men unfortunately do-  marry me or you won’t see the kids or marry me  or……. (fill in the blank).

I don’t know if Trudia did this but Fernando; sister seemed to imply that she as the one who pressed him into marriage. If that is the case it upsets me on yet another level.

For decades , there have been  books written on how to get your man to marry you. SO many of them are filled with techniques of how to manipulate your man to get them to marry you  ( they can apply to gettingyour woman to marry you as well). I have always been in opposition to these books and the authors who write them .

While you may very well get someone to marry you by following their cookbook approach. But will you get that person to stay married to you? The answer is a resounding NOOOO!

Fernando’s story  is one  tragic way out but there are others- from violence to abuse to living separate lives to cheating to being miserable.

If one of the parties does not want to marry you, you can’t manipulate or force them. It HAS to be mutual or chances are it won’t end well. You can’t clap with one hand and you can’t marry with one partner being all for it an the other one being unwilling.

I am sure there are stories out there of the reluctant bride or groom who ended up being married for 50 years But were they happily married?  Most likely they were not and for whatever reason the reluctant bride or groom adapted.

The bottom line is that you can’t manipulate for force anyone to do anything- especially marry you or it might end up like Fernando and Trudian’s tragic story. And most important of all JUST SAY NOOOOO if you feel something isn’t  right and TALK to a professional. If Fernando did this he may have been alive today.

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Cain Accuser Bialek’s Body Language Screams Signals of Deception

Friday, November 11th, 2011

As you know by now I cannot stand SPIN, fakeness, phoniness, lies and manipulation. I hate  it when people think that the public is dumb and will buy any story put in front of them.

As someone with no  political agenda I am able to see things objectively and clearly . So no matter who the candidate is,  I don’t like what is being done to them.  That is the case with candidate Herman Cain and his latest accuser  Sharon Bialeck. Her accusations were made at the side of  strong Demoratic supporter Gloria Allred, who made sure she stood breast to breast with Sharon, to insure she got  into every photo op shot of the two of them together.

So what is wrong with this picture (besides the fact Gloria Allred is in it)? What is wrong with the picture is that

  1. Bialek’s  body language , speech and voice scream multiple signals of deception and
  2. her  story makes NO sense whatsoever as she inadvertently ends up painting herself as the aggressor  and not the victim

BIALEKS’  BODY SAYS OF TELLS OF DECEPTION

Body language wise, as I watched her over the top recitation at the presser,  it wasobvious  to me that she was  most likely in my view making this stuff up. If she is telling some truth then she is disgruntled because

  1. she hit Cain up for a job when she was fired and he didn’t come through for her,
  2. and or someone put her up to this (like perhaps Gloria Allred who may possibly have solicited her as a client) ,
  3. and or she is desperate for her 15 minutes of fame in hopes that it will help her career.

The fact that this allegedly happened 14 years ago is suspect in itself . Why did she not come forward then? And don’t tell me she  is a victim of sexual harassment who suffered from Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome.

She didn’t look much like she had PTSS when she smiled and showed the most incongruent elated facial expression at the end of her speech as she  implored Cain to make things right. Then she gives a political speech about the times we are in and the leaders we need. People with PTTS don’t talk like that. There is clearly an agenda here in my view.

Look at Gloria, who can’t even look at her client.  In fact, she  doesn’t look at Bialeck throughout the whole presser. Allred clearly  knows the drill and has obviously orchestrated all of this public zoo like drama as looks down making  sure Sharon is following the script she most likely  wrote for her.

Bialeck Initiates and Instigates By  Flirting and Flattering Cain

Bialeck  begins by saying  how she met Cain and how he sat next to her at the National Restaurant Association convention . She slips up by saying’ During the conversation” and then corrects her self by saying “ the convention “ rather. When someone stumbles like this it is usually a signal of deception. She is reading words which are not heartfelt and most likely not from her directly.

Then she  relays she thought  that Cain was an inspirational  speaker. She said to him “When are you running for President?” As she relays this, she shakes her head “No “ and purses her lips and looks down which most likely means that she did not say that. So there is another signal of deception here.

If this occurred 14 years ago as she said, the thought of a Black man running for President was not even a consideration as it is now. So that means if it did happen she was merely flattering him, toying,  and flirting with him becuase she knew quite well that during those days,  a decade and a half ago, a considering a Black man for President was not a reality.

She then says he invited her and her boyfriend to attend an exclusive party and says she felt “honored to be included.” That means she didn’t deserve to be included  and knew deep down she didn’t belong there, but felt grateful  she could attend. Also the use of the word honored means that she allegedly held Cain in high esteem.

Fired From Her  Organization, Allegedly  Manipulates Head of Organization , Cain To Get Her  Job Back

Then she said she was let go (FIRED) by the Foundation and was  devastated. WHY was she let go? That is the burning question. She said she was devastated. Why was she devastated ?

She then puts blame on the organization by stating that she felt she was doing well in the short time she was there in terms of fundraising. Well maybe her definition of well and her bosses deinition of  “doing well “well were two different things.

As she describes her personal story of being” let go” FIRED , there is a marked difference in her delivery. She is fluid and fluent and isn’t reading from the script. So it rings true she was  indeed fired and that she was indeed upset by it.

Allegedly her “boyfriend”  said for her to reach out to Cain, as she, he  saidHerman seems to think kindly of you. WHY would he think so kindly of her after sitting next to her at dinner for a few moments?  Is it  because she was flirting and flattering him to death. Most likely.! It’s called kissing up to the head of the organization- the  boss.

She said she called Cain and he took her call and she told him she was let go and he said he was not aware if it. Don’t you think that if the head of the organization heard their employee was let go, they would want to know WHY that person was  let go?

Don’t you think that after he found out  what she allegedly did, he would want nothing to do with her?  Cain was a political person back then, so why would he make waves in the politics of his own organization and re hire a fired person? It does not make sense. Also it is suspect to me to call someone for  a job and just happen  tell them the name of the hotel you are staying at.

SHE Instigated The Alleged Meeting- NOT Cain And Shows Many Signals of Deception.

SHE then explains since she was unemployed,  her boyfriend booked a room for her at the capital Hilton. Isn’t that a bit piggy of her? If you are unemployed and have no money and someone else pays for you to stay at the most expensive hotel in DC, wouldn’t you  let them know you couldn’t accept it because it was too pricey and

Relaying to the public that she took the room so freely sounds like she feels entitled to it and smacks of  a “gimmie gimmiegold digging” mentality

She asked where they should meet,  another aggressive act. She relays he said they meet at the hotel lobby bar. This means that he was not having hanky panky  or ulterior motives on his mind as he allegedly suggested   an open  public place.

When she discusses the suite  that she was arranged by Cain she shows deception as she explains that she thought it was her boyfriend trying to surpsise her That is too much information and indicative of deception.

Body language wise she he looks down and lip purses, further indicating signals of deception.’

Being in the restaurant hotel business, herself,  she could have finagled an upgrade all by herself. What would be the motivation of a man whom you met once upgrading you when he allegedly doesn’t know what you want or why you are coming to see him.

She says he  took her to dinner  and  he promptly said WHY ARE YOU HERE? Isn’t that odd that someone would ask you why you are there when you yourself set up an appointment to meet them and they meet you for a drink? Also if HE asked why  she was there, it indicates that he did not have any ulterior motive with her. He had no idea what she wanted from him.

Thus, we have seen  yet  another aggressive pattern by Bialeck. Did  she finagle him to buy her a dinner saying how hungry she was?  Did she flatter and flirt. Was she flattering and flirting  so much at dinner that he had to say WHY ATRE YOU HERE ?  Was he thinking, what in goodness sakes do you want from me? Are you a hooker or something?

If she wanted a job all she had to do was call his officemeet with him in his office and ask him for a job in his office. The operative word here is office .Done and  completed!  But her drink and dinner BS may have been leading him on to make him question her as to why she was really there.

HARRASSMENT SCENARIO MAKES NO  SENSE AND SHOWS MANY  SIGNALS  OF DECEPTION

Then she says she asks him to help her get her old job back  or get a job in a different department as she allegedly hits him up for a job.

So did he say, yes or no or maybe? The fact that she doesn’t relay what he said is suspect in itself.

She then reports he  allegedly takes her in his car and drives her to the National Restaurant Association and sexually harasses her WHAT ??????????

If he allegedly upgraded her to a suite  as she said earlier, don’t you think he would harass her in her upgraded suite he allegedly secured and NOT in a car.

She described what she wore and said he had a suit with his shirt open. WHAT??? What happened to his tie? And why was his shirt open? Did did she open it? Was she flattering and flirting  and unbuttoning his shirt?  This sounds like BS to me. If a man is interested in having sex with you, he di going to unbutton his PANTS not his SHIRT? And did he do this when he was driving her around DC when they were stopped  at traffic lights ?

She does NOT say he parked in front of such and such building and attacked me. This is nonsense.

This  most likely NEVER happened as she stutters on her words while she relates he had with his shirt with his shirt open ,, When people repeat  significant words they are usually lying .

She looks down as she said he was going to show me around the offices . She touches her nose just like she did in the above photo when discussing the hotel drinks they most likely did NOT have.  Look at Gloria flowing the script along with her client.

As  Bialek describes  what she wore , she interjected UM’s  ( a huge signal of deception. As she said  instead of going in the office he reached over and…..   she SWALLOWS HARD- another huge signal of deception . As she says that he reached over and he put his hand on my leg , she has a shoulder shrug which screams LIE!

Also as she discusses how they met for a drink, she covers up her mouth as you can see in the photo. That is a signal of deception. Cain claims he never met the woman, let alone met her for a drink. Her tell certainly  may indicate this.

Also her response to Cain’s allegedly putting her hand up his crotch sounds bogus.

She asks him “What are you Doing ? You know I have a boyfriend? WHAT???????? Does that mean if she didn’t have a boyfriend it would be fine to touch her crotch?  Her response sounds very off. One would say STOP, DON’T , NO! One would not give the reason to not continue  as to their having a boyfriend. It makes no sense .

She also showed no anger or upset as she relayed this moment and in essence relived it.  That is another HUGE signal of deception.

She said she told her “boyfriend” and  a mentor and that she was embarrassed. Of course she didn’t tell them the details because nothing probably happened because she told them nothing.  If  something sexually inappropriate  really happened and your alleged boyfriend was the one who supposedly suggested you set up the meeting, don’t you think you would tell him everything?  And who is this “boyfriend”?

Then she leaks out the above facial expression which is inconsistent with what she is saying. Her eyes needed to be open wide and eyebrows raised as she spoke of ‘surprise”. Instead she makes a closed off disgusted look with head cocked to the side which is another huge signal of deception.  Also she minimizes what she says by saying  “kind of normal”.

Bialeck  Beams and Smiles At Her ALLEGED  “Harasser” 14 Years Later?

Her face literally   lights up whens he said she saw him again. She said in an upbeat voice  as she said you remember me? He obviously didn’t remember  her  among the  hundreds of thousands he has met over the past 14 years.

As she describes his speech, he says as he spoke he had the same infectious presence when she first heard him. She lights up and  beams a huge smile as she says this. Here is a HUGE clue of deception in my book. When  you have been sexually harassed by someone,  he last thing you do is flatter them publically or even go to see them.

The last thing you would do is light up and beam a smile. Instead your brow would furrow and you would have a look of disgust and anger on your face. Bialeck had a beaming smile instead.

Does This Smack of  A Political Agenda  or Setup?

She said that when she asked if he remembered her,  she wanted him tocome clean for HIS SAKE AND FOR HIS CANDIDACY When someone is harassed they are not thinking of the other person’s sake ortheir candidacy. She also self corrects which is another signal of deception.

Then she gives some altrusitc BS by saying she is the face  and voice behind women who are afraid to come forward voice.  Puhleeeze!!!!!!  Now I am convinced that this must have been written by  by Gloria  or her minions as the rhetoric sounds way too familiar. It sounds like what  many of her other clients have all said in their pressers as she sttod breast to breast with them in front of the microphones.

When she starts her final statement with a political message of  how America is in turmoil and what kind of leader we need, I am even more  convinced someone put her up to this. If you are harassed you are not thinking about your country in turmoil.  She  also smiled as she said this. This is incongruent behavior with someone who was harassed.

In the above photo she scratches her face and looks down at significant points in the speech. This usually indicates deception.

She claims it happened 14 years ago . Why come out NOW when he is running for office? It is because she and those who most like likely wrote this speech want to smear up his candidacy.

Based on her body language, voice and speech tells this is NO shrinking violet. She seems like a strong willed aggressive woman who speaks her mind.  She is no shrinking violet or some little victim.

On the contrary, she is a woman who LOVE, LOVES, LOVES the media attention!!!  She was beaming on all the morning talk shows


In these above photos this look like a sexually harassed woman who was traumatized by what Cain did to her 14 years ago. To me she is the voice and face of someone who finally got her 15 minutes of fame or infamy.www.drlillianglass.com

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