Each year around this holiday time I like to share my thoughts on what special gifts to get yourself, your family, friends, loved ones and even those whom you may not know personally ,who could benefit from your love and kindness. You can give or get these gifts all year round as well.
1. The best Body Language gift to give anyone you care about is a genuine sincere uninhibited heart to heart hug where your chest (outside where your heart is located) is on the other person’s chest where their heart is located . Oftentimes, you can feel your hearts both beating together as you hug. Most people don’t give good and meaningful hugs.
They stand too far away or they are at an awkward angle because they feel uncomfortable or inhibited. As a holiday gift to yourself and someone you love, get comfortable real fast and get rid of any hang ups. This hug takes between five to 10 seconds to do as you continue your hug for that long. This hug will be remembered forever. Its a hug you need to do with your husbnd, wife, lover, kids, parents and best friends.It speaks volumes. It says that you really LOVE that person with all your heart. While it may be free, it is actually priceless.
2. The warmest and plushest blankets. Get several for and yourself, your family and friends so you will keep cozy as you are tucked in your bed all year round.
I often keep several of them in the trunk of my car so I can pass them out to those I see in the street who may happen to be homeless. Seeing them smile makes me smile and that is the best gift of all.
You can get them at any drugstore or discount stores in you area for a very reasonable price.
3.Not Just A pillow By Suzy Smith

2. 3. Its Not Just A pillow by Suzy Smith
Suzy Smith is an amazing artist and she will custom make ANY pillow for you that you want. Whether it is your pet, family member, love of your life, you or anything else you like, she will use her amazing creative skills to make something special. She will match your décor and make it in any materials or colors you like.
5 .UGGS Slippers. For men and for women I love the way they look and feel. The cool thing about them besides the fact that they cuddle your feet all day long, is that you can wear them indoors and outdoors.

You can get black and grey and tan for men and women and there is also a really cool pink purplish pink color for women which I own and which you can see above .
They are around a $100 and you can wear them all year round as well.
So you get the real deal and so you won’t get ripped off with knock off’s go to the official UGG site at
http://www.uggaustralia.com/on/demandware.store/Sites-UGG-US-Site/default/Search-Show?q=slippers
6. Anythng Polka Dot and I mean Anything!

It does’t matter if it is a coffee mug, sheets, underwear, pillows, a keychain, a shirt, pajamas, a dress or a tie , polka dots make you feel happier. If they are colorful they especially put you in a better mood.
Maybe it is the contrast of circular shapes that brings us back to our childhood. Maybe it is the fun we associated with polka dots as children like when we saw clowns or played with toys in that pattern.
Polka dots say fun and playfulness. They usually make me smile.
7. My Best Selling Book TOXIC PEOPLE
This book can change your life. I wrote it back in 1995 and the information applies to this very day. It has literally helped millions of people around the world as it is translated into practically every language around the globe. Learn how to deal with the people who make you miserable. Learn the techniques to use that actually work and can change your life and turn it around for the better. Never be a victim again. Now you will learn you have choice.
Whatever you do I would not recommend your ordering copyright infringer Marsha Petrie Sue’s version of the book with my same title . She had the audacity to not only call her book by the same name as mine Toxic People but she had the audacity to copy my actual material word for word. Last year I sued her in US Federal Court in California and won .
So nowMarsha Petrie Sue is officially a bona fide copyright infringer. She has suffered the repercussions of her actions as this Arizona public speaker was kicked out of the National Speakers Association and she was stripped of honor as a Certified Speaking Professional this year.
My biggest gift last year was seeing justice served in a US Federal Court against Marsha Petrie Sue for her egregious behavior. It is also a gift to all of you who are in any creative field of endeavor. No one has a right to take your materials and claim them as their own. You never have to be a victims as the law is on your side.
To get the real TOXIC PEPOLE and not Marsha Petrie Sue’s copyright infringed version, clck her ego order from Amazon
http://www.amazon.com/Toxic-People-Ways-Dealing-Miserable/dp/0312152329

8. Everlast Cardio Punching Bag
To go along with my Toxic People book, get an Everlast Cardio Punching bag. They stand upright and you can punch away as you use my fantasy technique which I describe in my book Toxic People.
Just fantasize who’s head you would like to punch off. Never use actual physical violence on anyone because you don’t want to ever get yourself in any trouble. But you can certainly fantasize about what you would like to do to that person. Just don’t ever carry out your fantasy in real life. The bag is enough to get out all of your frustrations. It sells between $61 to $100 and you can get it at various places on the internet.
Beth Bath and Beyond has also sold them so that validates that it is a useful item to have around your home.
If you are a flower giver or getter orchids are the best flowers ever because they last a very long time if you care for them properly. You have to water them and keep then out of the direct sunlight. I love them. the purple ones are gorgeous and there are others a well with all kinds of beautiful patterns.
They last all year long if you care for the and they create an elegant addition to any room in any home or in any office. But they aren’t cheap and can run up to $100 with a nice vase attached but they are worth it. I have several orchid plants around my home and one in my office. They make me happy to look at as they are so visually pleasing.
1o. Colorful Wall Clocks
The best way to add some fun and excitement to any room is with a colorful wall clock. They don’t have to be expensive. They just have to be colorful. Ikea one of my favorite stores and favorite places to eat ( I love the Swedish meatballs and lingen berries and mashed potato lunches for $5) has them in various colors. You can put different colored clocks in very room and the colors will make you happy.
A lot has been written about the psychology of color and I am a huge supporter of this theory. I have experienced it on a personal level. That is why my office and my home are decorated in specific colors to bring out the various moods I want in each living and working area.
Here is a little color gift for you. If you are dieting or don’t want to eat a lot, keep your kitchen blue . If you have a red or orange kitchen it tends to stimulate your senses as well as your appetite.
So there you have it. The best gift would be to get yourself all of these gifts I suggested. Maybe you can get yourself one each month so every month is a holiday for you except for the real holiday months of November and December.
Have a great one and I want you all to know to I love you and thank you from the bottom of my heart for all of your love and support on my blogs. And for all you haters– well there is that Everlast Cardio Punching Bag! (LOL) Merry Christmas and the Best New Year Ever!
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