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	<title>Dr. Lillian Glass Body Language Blog &#187; Michael Jackson</title>
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		<title>Emotional Pain of Seeing Michael Jackson’s Dead Body Language During Opening Arguments</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Sep 2011 03:59:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Seeing Michael Jackson’s dead body language in this shocking photo which was  presented by the prosecution  on the first day of the  Conrad Murray is beyond devastating and painful for me. The photo says it all. In my view, it will also  have a lasting effect on jurors just as it has an indelible effect [...]]]></description>
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<p>Seeing Michael Jackson’s dead body language in this shocking photo which was  presented by the prosecution  on the first day of the  Conrad Murray is beyond devastating and painful for me. The photo says it all. In my view, it will also  have a lasting effect on jurors just as it has an indelible effect on me and anyone else viewing it.</p>
<p>It shows a helpless Michael Jackson  lying on a gurney covered with a sheet on the lower half of his body. It shows the results of the actions of a doctor who irresponsibly administered propofol when he should have known better than to give it to his patient.</p>
<p>So what if was reported  Michael demanded to have it.  So what of Michael allegedly had a drug problem and drug addiction issues. It was not Michael’s call. Michael was the patient and not the doctor. But unfortunately as we see here,  there are doctors who will do whatever a patient wants  simply because they are a star and can pay big money and they know they will get a lot of perks. Unfortunately this  goes on all the time in Los Angeles doctors who cater to the Hollywood community. In fact there is a vulgar name for these type of doctors who are often referred to as “STAR F***ERS. Unfortunately , this was clearly the case here.</p>
<p>Seeing Michael lying there so helplessly with his mouth agape brings forth a myriad of emotions. For me it brought forth a torrent of tears. It stimulated a personal memory of how sweet Michael was to a homeless woman just days before he died. Having my office on Bedford Drive in Beverly Hills, I was well aware of a sweet  woman who used to hang out in the street.  Many passers by, including myself often watched out for her, giving her food and money.</p>
<p>One day Michael spotted  her after he left Dr. Arnold Klein’s office  a block away on Roxbury Drive. He had his driver stop his black SUV and  summoned the woman to come inside his car where  she later shared that  Michael gave her words of  encouragement and inspiration and was so loving and generous. with personal gifts and money.</p>
<p>Seeing the above photo continued to make me cry as I thought of Paris and Prince having to see their beloved daddy this way for the last time. I thought of Blanket who is still as  traumatized now  as he was since the funeral.</p>
<p>The photo also brought forth anger in me . The anger is directed at Conrad Murray, a doctor Michael  trusted. That trust was betrayed as the doctor left the room to chat up his girlfriend while  Michael was in crises.</p>
<p>While Murray should have never administered the lethal drug outside of the operating room, let alone in Michael’s bedroom, the fact that he wasn’t there to monitor Michael with proper equipment and left Michael all alone is unconscionable.</p>
<p>Had he been there and he seen that Michael was in physical trouble, he could have quickly  revived him or he could have done  immediate  CPR measures to save his life. Michael died because of this doctor’s negligence in my view. Whether or not Michael had other issues or health related issues is irrelevant. In my view Murray’s negligence is what  put the final nail in Michael’s coffin.</p>
<p>Yes, everyone deserves a fair trial but what is fair about leaving a person alone to die by not monitoring them? It screams of incompetence, lack of humanity, selfishness, and sheer greed.</p>
<p>Watching all of the nuances and the verbal gymnastics by the defense is a waste of my  time and emotion. It hurts me deeply to watch this trial on a very very  personal level as well.</p>
<p>I know firsthand  what it feels like to lose a loved one at the hands of an incompetent negligent  doctor who  committed malpractice. My  own very beloved brother  Manny was killed at the hands of such an incompetent doctor who intubated him wrongly so that he became a vegetable and died. The doctor was only a doctor for seven months when he recklessly  and incompetently ended my vivacious brother’s life.</p>
<p>Thus,  I feel very deeply for the Jackson family (except for mercenary and obnoxious Joe). I feel for Michael’s kids the most and for his mother Katherine who not only  had to put up with Toxic Joe all her life, but now  continues to deal with the death of her  precious and loved son.</p>
<p>The doctor who actually  killed my brother due to his malpractice was found liable. Yet this miserable cold emotionless creature who showed no compassion  is still alive and well practicing in New Jersey at the same hospital where his incompetent hands ended my brother’s life. Whenever I think of  this fact, I am livid.</p>
<p>If I allow myself to think of the possibility that Conrad Murray may possibly  get away with Michael’s death and be allowed to resume practicing medicine as though nothing happened, I get sick to my stomach.</p>
<p>Just as my brother did not have to die, Michael did not have to die either. I hope that Conrad Murray is NEVER allowed to practice medicine anywhere ever again and that he spends time in prison for his actions.</p>
<p>If  Murray manned up and said he did wrong and was prepared to deal with the consequences I perhaps  would have a bit more respect for him ( not much  but a smidgen more than I do now). But instead he is blaming everyone else. Sure there are other doctors who enabled Michael. But it was Murray who left him alone to die. That in itself  is reprehensible!</p>
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		<title>Michael Jackson&#8217;s Blanket Still Devastated By Michael&#8217;s Untimely Death</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Aug 2011 17:59:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When I saw the series of photos of Blanket Jackson, Michael&#8217;s youngest child, I felt like to cry.   I felt as miserable as he was feeling, just from looking at the photos of him near his father&#8217;s artwork. They were taken at a ceremony to unveil Michael&#8217;s drawings to be auctioned off to raise money [...]]]></description>
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<p>When  I saw the series of photos of Blanket Jackson, Michael&#8217;s youngest  child, I felt like to cry.   I felt as miserable as he was feeling, just  from looking at the photos of him near his father&#8217;s artwork. They were taken at a ceremony to unveil Michael&#8217;s drawings to be auctioned off to raise money for Children;s Hospital in Los Angeles.</p>
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<p>The photos showcased his amazingly talented father&#8217;s work as an artist . Here were see poor Blanket so sad faced  and holing his hands together for self comfort. He may even be holding  on to something for self comfort as he watches his auntie Latoya and  brother Prince smiling as they unuveil the pictrure. He looks so terribly sad as this reminds him of how much he misses his daddy.</p>
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<p>Here Blanket&#8217;s body language is very telling in terms of  how terribly disturbed he is by this unveiling of Michael&#8217;s works. He  covers this stomach area with his entire arm  and his fingers are cupped  on that hand. It reveals that he is very upset by having to deal with  looking at his father&#8217;s drawings.It may literally be making him sick to  his stomach. His body is turned away from the drawing and his shoulder is raised. In essence he is literally giving a cold shoulder to the drawing. He could care less  that the Mayor of LA is there next to him, The look on Prince&#8217;s face is  heart wrenching. Here he looks at it out of the corner of his eyes but  he really doesn&#8217;t want to look at it   so as he pulls his head away to  the side. This indicates how much he painfully misses his father.</p>
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<p>With his head bowed  down and is spread  out stiff fingers which are a subconscious attempt to literally push  out the pain, he feels terribly sad. he Big sister Paris watches over  him from the side as he knows her baby brother is having a hard time.</p>
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<p>Blanket seems to be  in a world  of on his own. He stands in the foreground and self  comforts with his fingers up to his mouth. He looks very disconnected  and very sad.Even though he is with his family he sill draws no  comfort  from them. Auntie Latoya is concerned about  him and has a watchful eye on him to  sure he is OK. She knows that this has been very hard Blanket.</p>
<p>After  seeing these heartbreaking photos  of Blanket  it shows the profound  loss of Michael and the severe effect his death had on his son. As the  trial of  Dr.Conrad Murray approaches it will be this image of Blanket  it  will stick in my mind.</p>
<p>Yes Michael had a drug problem. I know a very professional   physician refused to succumb Michael&#8217;s insistent requests for  substances he had no business having. He told  me that   he told  Michael  point blank that he  could not  a part  of his drug problem and that he needed to get into  rehab and would help do so. Michael did not do so. Instead he found a  doctor who would do whatever he said and do whatever he wanted.</p>
<p>And  please don&#8217;t write to tell me Michael was not on drugs. I realize you  are just being a loyal fan, but you do not know.You have not seen him up  close and personal. You have not seen him  high. I  have  seen him  acting high in Beverly Hills , as have others, including those who have  treated him.  Hifs family knew he had drug issues and repeatedly wanted to do an intervention but Michael would not let them near him.</p>
<p>He found an in debt doctor, Conrad Murray who would do anything for the money, even give Michael the drug he wanted- propophol.  No doctor in their right mind would do this outside of an operating  room. But desperate doctors do desperate things. What bothers me the  most is Murray didn&#8217;t care about  Michael. If he did he would never have  left him alone while he was chatting up his lady over the phone.</p>
<p>Even though Michael was killing himself all along with the drugs, I believe.  Dr Murray put the final nail in  Michael&#8217;s coffin. They both played a part in this terrible death. By   Michael&#8217;s drugging and Murray&#8217;s acquiescing  , they  failed to realize  that they also killed the spirit of a precious little boy, Banker who  will never get over this and who&#8217;s life will forever be shaped by  his  artist and singer father&#8217;s untimely death  <a href="http://www,drlillianglass.com/">www.drlillianglass.com.</a></p>
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		<title>Michael Jackson’s Children’s Body Language During Oprah Interview Show They Are Guarded, Protective, and Ambivalent as They Continue to Respect Dad’s Privacy</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Nov 2010 14:52:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The above photo of Michael Jackson’s eldest  children, Prince and Paris says it all. They were clearly not comfortable being asked questions about their father by Oprah. They knew how their late father valued not only his privacy but theirs as well. That is why he made them wear veils when they went out of the [...]]]></description>
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<p>The above photo of Michael Jackson’s eldest  children, Prince and Paris says  it all. They were clearly not comfortable being asked questions about their  father by Oprah. They knew how their late father valued not only his privacy but  theirs as well. That is why he made them wear veils when they went out of the  house. In fact Michael’s daughter Paris addressed the fact that while the veils  were uncomfortable, she knew they were for her protection.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #993300;">PRINCE IS NOT  TOO HAPPY!</span> </strong></p>
<p>In the above photo, observe Prince standing up with crossed arms as he looks  on facing Oprah as his sister is interviewed. His eye is clearly on Oprah as he  leans back in a defensive mode.  He has a protective stance with both of his  arms  his arms tightly interlocked crossing over his torso.</p>
<p>His protective stance is further indicated as he stands  in the background  looking directly at Oprah with one foot out, pointed in Oprah’s direction. It is  though this protective older brother is ready to step in if the questioning gets  to be too uncomfortable or too much for his younger sister. His other foot  protectively  points in Paris’ direction  as if to step in in case she needs  him.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #993300;">GRANDPA JOE  JACKSON LOOKS UNCHARACTERISTICALLY  SUBMISSIVE AROUND PRINCE</span> </strong></p>
<p>Joe Jackson, Michael’s father and Prince’s grandpa  knows Prince means  business in this photo. Joe looks uncharacteristically submissive around Prince.  His head is down with his hands in his pocket  as he looks in Prince’s  direction.  We have rarely seen such a photo of Joe in terms of  his body  language. In the past,  Joe’s posture and demeanor has usually had a super  confident cocky non-humbled undertone.  But this photo was very different.</p>
<p>The distinct  physical  distance between Joe and Prince show that they are  not close at all.  Joe’s submissive stance reflects this as well.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #993300;"><strong>PRINCE’S  AMBIVALENCE</strong></span></p>
<p>When it was Prince’s  turn to be interviewed by Oprah, his eye contact with her was less than  optimal as he consistently looked away. When describing his favorite experience  walking with his dad on the beach in Bahrain eating snickers, he looked up and away. While he wanted  to be polite and answer Oprah’s question, there was clearly a part of him that  did not want to share this special moment between he and his late dad with the  world.</p>
<p>As the person who spent  the most time in his life with father Michael, Prince knew  deep down that  Michael, who valued his privacy with his children would not be pleased at this  revelation.  His body language  clearly  reflected his ambivalence.</p>
<p>In the photo, it is clear that Prince is not happy and something must have  happened for him to get up from his chair after the interview and leave the   table and stand in the background.  Perhaps he had enough of what he considered  Oprah’s invasive questioning about his father. Perhaps it got to him. He  definitely  knew Michael would not  like this line of questioning about his  private life with his children. So it seems in my view that Prince finally had  enough.</p>
<p>Look at Prince’s crossed arms over his torso. It means that he is closing  off. If you look down at his sister sitting in the photo as Prince looks on, she  too has her arms crossed over her torso in a protective mode.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #993300;"><strong>PARIS’  AMBIVALENCE </strong></span></p>
<p>She too knows that this discussion about Michael is inappropriate based on  how she was raised. She knows to the core of her soul that discussing her father  is a violation of what he was all about- extreme privacy. Yet she wants to be  cooperative and compliant during the interview.</p>
<p>Paris’ BODY language  reflects her ambivalence as well. as well. Not only  are her arms interlocked and crossed in a protective mode like her brother, she  also   leans back in her chair. It is in marked contrast to Oprah’s body  language, who leans forward in her attempt to engage Paris.</p>
<p>Paris does not engage Oprah in leaning forward , She is polite verbal,  articulate, pleasant and poised. But the spokeschild of the family  is clearly   in control as she speaks measuredly  but  lovingly of her father.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="aligncenter" title="Paris Jackson" src="http://drlillianglassbodylanguageblog.files.wordpress.com/2010/11/paris-jackson.png?w=426&amp;h=276" alt="" width="426" height="276" /></p>
<p>She opens her eyes widely and raises her eyebrows  as we see in the photo  above This look of surprise reflects what she is verbally revealed – a surprise  to the world that  her daddy could make the best French toast n the world.</p>
<p>Oprah was surprised by this revelation as she and most of us would think that  Michael who was surrounded my maids and cooks would not be the one to hole up in  a kitchen making breakfast. From what we have heard about Michael’s eating  habits in the past, no one would have associated Michael with food, much less  being involved in the preparation of it.</p>
<p>While it was personal information, it was information that was benign enough  that Michael would not have mind if it was revealed. Paris clearly thought about  this and played the interview game of sharing just enough information to respect  her father;s wishes and his memory.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://drlillianglassbodylanguageblog.files.wordpress.com/2010/11/jackson-2.png"><img class="aligncenter" title="Jackson 2" src="http://drlillianglassbodylanguageblog.files.wordpress.com/2010/11/jackson-2.png?w=426&amp;h=263" alt="" width="426" height="263" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #993300;"><strong>EVEN BLANKET  IS PROTECTIVE </strong></span></p>
<p>Even little 8 year old Blanket is protective during the interview as you can  see in  the above photo.  His  knees are bent and in front of him as they shield  and  protect him as he sits in his chair. His one leg dropping down from the  chair says that he really does not want to be there. It says that he wants to  leave.</p>
<p>His hands cover his  mouth, indicating that he doesn’t want to speak.  Paris  and Prince clearly have his back so to speak. They are protective of him as well  and pay a lot of attention to him.  Paris reaches out to him as we see in  the photo with her hand extended towards him. No doubt big sister Paris has a  hands on role with Blanket in helping to care for him. Her extended hand is  there to comfort him.</p>
<p>Paris’ extended cupped hand reflects tension and ambivalence at the same  time. It’s a closed hand that perhaps reflects a subconscious anger that her  little brother has to be there and be subjected to this uncomfortable  situation.</p>
<p>The gesture reflects that she knows Blanket  clearly does not want to  be there, subjected to Oprah’s questioning . Interally,  she is angry and  upset about it.  It even reflects in Paris’ smile as she looks in Blanket’s  direction.  While her lips are smiling, her eyes are reflecting the opposite.  She is not happy about being forced to be in this situation.</p>
<p>She knows deep down that her father would not be happy about having his  children, whom he went to all lengths to protect in terms of their identity to  now be so publicly exposed. While she wants to comply, she is being very  protective over Blanket, her  gestures and body language reflect her inner  conflict.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #993300;"><strong>MICHAEL’S  LEGACY </strong></span></p>
<p>Besides his beautiful music the best legacy that Michael left behind was his  beautiful children who continue to respect their dad’s privacy. Their actions  and body language showed it.</p>
<p>There is no doubt that Michael would be proud of them and how they handled  this very uncomfortable and conflicting situation where they were forced to  reveal personal information about their lives with their famous and now deceased  dad. They complied, but continued to be guarded as Michael’s message which he  ingrained in them since birth was  evident- “ <strong>watch what you say and don’t say too  much!”</strong></p>
<p>There is no doubt that if Michael is up there is heaven, he was looking down  at his children and smiling proudly from year to ear, He was proud that they  were polite and cooperative, yet set boundaries as they honored and tried to  protect their dad’s wishes for privacy as best as they could. <a href="http://www.drlillianglass.com/">www.drlillianglass.com</a></p>
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		<title>Michael  Jackson’s Bodyguards Body Language Shows Signals of Discomfort  Discussing  Michael’s  Love Life  as They  &#8221; Set the Record Straight”  For Their Own Personal Gain</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[ TRUSTED BODYGUARDS? I am very troubled by three ex body guards  Bill Whitfield, Mike Garcia ,and  Javon Beard, whom Michael Jackson  entrusted with his most intimate secrets, now  revealing  very personal information about Michael and his children  after his death.  Based on all that we know about  Michael’s desire for privacy and protection for his [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://drlillianglass.com/body-language-blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/Michaels-Body-Guards-buig.png"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-207" title="Michaels Body Guards buig" src="http://drlillianglass.com/body-language-blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/Michaels-Body-Guards-buig.png" alt="" width="642" height="369" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"> <span style="color: #993300;">TRUSTED BODYGUARDS?</span></p>
<p>I am very troubled by three ex body guards  Bill Whitfield, Mike Garcia ,and  Javon Beard, whom Michael Jackson  entrusted with his most intimate secrets, now  revealing  very personal information about Michael and his children  after his death.  Based on all that we know about  Michael’s desire for privacy and protection for his children, here is no question that Michael would have been 100 per cent  against what these bodyguards are doing .</p>
<p>orThey openly admit they plan to write a book which they plan to call “In Defense of the King.” So they are apparently out there now fishing for a publisher in their attempt to cash in big time on Michael’s death if their book is sold.  Based on how they came across body language –wise  and what they said“setting the record straight” in  speaking out on Michael’s behalf, it seems to me that it is  merely a ploy for them to fill their pockets and cash in on Michaels death.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #993300;">THEY ARE NOT  TELLING US ANYTHING WE DON’T ALREADY KNOW FROM MEDIA ACCOUNTS</span></p>
<p>They are not really telling us anything we don’t already know. We know a lot of the information they have divulged, like how polite and smart Michael’s kids are  based on media accounts and by the accounts of those who have interacted with the children. </p>
<p>They admit that they only worked with Michael for 2 years. So there are things which may or may not have taken place prior to those 2 years which they are not privy. Therefore, they may not know everything they are claim to know about Michael. </p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #993300;">THEY ARE TELLING US  IS THAT THEY ARE UNPROFESSIONAL AND CANNOT BE TRUSTED</span></p>
<p>Who are these “bodyguards” to set the record straight about Michael?  Who made them Michael’s spokespeople. I am sure that Michael would be livid if he knew they were doing this. These men were paid employees who needed to keep their mouths shut about Michael and his family whether he was alive or not.</p>
<p> I have no doubt with Michael’s intelligence and savvy, not to mention his  having been burned by others in the past, that he would have made them sign some type of confidentiality  agreement. I hope that those in charge of his estate will come across those agreements and stop these three in their tracks. </p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #993300;">TROLLING FOR A PUBLISHER</span></p>
<p>The only reason they came forth  now and put their faces in front of the media is in my view to troll for a book deal. They even have  a title picked out for the book before it is written. They want to see how much interest there is. That is they spilled the beans now.</p>
<p>But obviously they aren’t  that savvy or as clever as they think.  They told way too much already.  No publisher in their right mind would give them a book deal and expect the book to fly off the shelves. Why? Because  they already revealed everything  already in Ashley Banfield’s  very thorough ABC  interview where she left no stone unturned. left no she unturned. So who needs a a book? We know all they have to say.  You get your face in front of the media AFTER you have a book deal and have written it in order to PROMOTE it.</p>
<p>So if they did get  a book deal, wrote the book or had someone write it for them,  and then  appeared on TV again to promote it would be OLD news. No one is interested  in what they have to say anymore.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"> <span style="color: #993300;">WERE THEY TELLING THE TRUTH?</span></p>
<p>Although I found each of them despicable for getting on front of the media and sharing Michael’s personal  life which he guarded so privately, to the point of wearing masks and disguises and having his kids do likewise,  I wanted to  scrutinize any  “tells” which may have given away their true  motives . I also wanted to see if there were any” tells” of deception or nervousness or discomfort.</p>
<p>It was interesting to watch all three of them sitting together as they were interviewed. It was also interesting to watch them separately  in order to see if one or more showed signals of deception .</p>
<p>For the most part, they were in all synch. Whether it was rehearsed or not, they were all on the same page.  For the most part it seemed like they were telling the truth.  But I think they told way too much of the truth. They had no business revealing the details about the kids and their behavior, especially the description of Princes behavior when he tried to manipulate cookies out of them.  This was not setting the record straight. This was setting their sights straight on to a potential book deal to make money for themselves.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #993300;">RED FLAG TELLS OF DISCOMFORT   ABOUT MICHEAL’S PEDOPHILIA ALLEGATIONS  AND REALTIONSHIPS WITH WOMEN</span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #993300;"><a href="http://drlillianglass.com/body-language-blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/Michael-Jacksin-pedofile.png"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-209" title="Michael Jacksin pedofile" src="http://drlillianglass.com/body-language-blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/Michael-Jacksin-pedofile.png" alt="" width="632" height="339" /></a></span></p>
<p>There was one area where they were clearly uncomfortable and it showed in their body language. It was when they were discussing  their views on Michael’s alleged pedophilia. Their body language showed that they  over compensated by giving way to much information. They were asked if Michael was a pedophile. Then bodyguard  Bill Whitfield  says that he’s a man and he knows that Michael is interested in women just like he is. You can see his facial expression change as he looks away and his forehead get’s furrowed. He also pulls his head back and there is a shoulder shrug . This indicates signals of discomfort.</p>
<p> Mike Garcia also shows signals of discomfort when the “pedophilia” question comes up. He shakes his leg indicating “I want to get out of here.”</p>
<p>The three gave way too much information as Bill speaks about curtains in the limousine being  drawn in the back of a limo, and sucking noises being made.  To say this was inappropriate on their behalf is an understatement. The question was about pedophilia.  All they needed to say was they didn’t witness any acts of pedophilia or that it was their opinion that Michael wasn’t a pedophile. But their going off on a tangent and talking about Michael’s  girlfriends was a red flag.  One had nothing to do with another. Their over compensated answers in giving too detailed information made it seem like they  both “doth protest too much”.</p>
<p>I am not saying that they think Michael is or isn’t  a pedophile. I am saying that they showed signals of discomfort when this topic was brought up by Ashley Banfield.</p>
<p>Other than that, there body languages showed that they were open and they seemed forthright. When they answered, most of the time all three of them appeared to answer in unison. With the exception of the time they discussed Michael’s  intimate life, where they showed major signals of discomfort, they   sat  confidently with their legs apart in an open position with upright straight posture with their  heads  erect.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #993300;">MICHAEL VENTED TO THEM  PRIVATELY NOT PUBLICALLY</span></p>
<p>Bill Whitfield said that there were times that Michael vented and “vented loudly” I cringed. Michael  may have vented loudly but he did it  privately. Michael  projected an image of a person who was always kind with a loving soul.  He never showed anger in public. He worked hard at getting that image across. So to hear them say Michael “vented loudly” is to take away from the public image that Michael worked so hard to cultivate. If he “vented loudly” he did it only for their ears- not the public’s  As Bill  said this I automatically cringed.</p>
<p> While these men  are not doctors or health or legal professionals who have to abide by the  law to keep secrets ( unless they signed a non -disclosure clause before working with Michael) technically they don’t have to keep quiet about Michael. But  ethically I believe  it is a different matter. I believe that they should keep things about Michael confidential in his death just as they did in his life.</p>
<p>Michael trusted them with his life and his kids and as Bill Whitfield said, they became more than security.  Javon Beard interjected that they were more like personal assistants and Mike Garcia said that it was not their job but since there was no entourage it was just them, they hand to handle everything.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"> <span style="color: #993300;">IF MICHAEL HATED HIS VEGAS HOME BECAUSE OF PAPPS, WHY DIDN’T THE BODYGUARDS DO ANYTHING TO STOP THE PAPPS AND FANS ?</span></p>
<p>I think that it was way too much information to reveal that Michael hated his Vegas mansion because of all the papps. If these men  were HIS  bodyguards as they claim to be,  why didn’t they keeps the papps AND FANS away? Why didn’ they do whatever it took to make sure Michael had the best security so that the papps and fans wouldn’t  invade his home ? That statement alone turned me off.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #993300;">THEY ALL BELIEVE MICHAEL AS AN AWSOME DAD</span></p>
<p>When asked if he was a good dad, they all replied in unison awesome!  Their body language  showed that all three of them strongly believed that Michael was a great dad.  Mike Garcia shared how the children would constantly say I Love you daddy and that they were like the four buddies as  Bill Whitfield appropriately shook his head yes and smiled a huge genuine smile.</p>
<p>They also spoke of how protective he was of his kids seeing his bad press as he turned over newspapers so the kids wouldn’t see negative headlines about him. It showed that Michael’s first and foremost concern was for  his kids.</p>
<p>They also nooded and spoke in unison as to Michael’s being successful at shielding his kids from the media.  Each one’s  body language were in synch as they appered to be  in agreement that Michael didn’t think what he did was weird. In fact Javon shook his head “no”   as confirmation while Bill Whitfield explained this. </p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #993300;">REVEALING  INAPPROPRIATE  INFORMATION ABOUT THE KIDS</span></p>
<p>They spoke of the kids with pride as there were genuine smiles as they said that the kids were regular kids and how they  were very polite and well mannered, something we have all herd before. All three of them shook their heads  “yes”  in agreement as this information was relayed.</p>
<p>But then when they showed a note Paris wrote to Bill thanking him for getting cat food, I though that was a bit too invasive. Even if it was a polite gesture, I don’t know how Paris would feel about having her personal handwritten note to Bill  exposed for the world to see. It was for Bill not for the world to see with her little heart over the “I” as she signed her name Paris.  I didn’t think that was necessary to do.</p>
<p>Then Javon also revealed WAY too much information as he shared how Prince would say “ Daddy wants you to get some cookies for us, indicating their mischief  in tricking the bodyguards into getting them cookies. I dounnt these kids or Michael would want that information exposed.  This is exactly what Michael hated. He didn’t want anything personal about these kids revealed and there is no doubt Michael would deem  this story about Prince as being WAY too personal in nature.  </p>
<p>Then he added that he asked Michael (the client) if he wanted him to go get some cookies for the kids and in a loud voice, Javon  mimicked what Michael would say “ Prince get up here!” “Why are you telling them that?”</p>
<p>While it showed that Michael set limits and boundaries for the kids, it was still way too much information  about the kids that we don’t need to know. Unless the kids decide to speak about their experiences with their dad or write a book, no one has any right discussing them.</p>
<p>If these kids were paraded around like some others have been by their parents  and publically expoised and exploited as  many have mentioned. Then perhaps they would be fair game, but not in this situation. Michael went out of his way to  shield his kids from the press at all times.  Therefore,  I believe these body guards have broken the confidence of their client by sharing intimate personal stories about the kids like this one which may not put Prince in the best light.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #993300;">FAST FOOD RUNS WITH MICHAEL</span></p>
<p>They also shared how Michael liked to go through the drive through at fast food places  with the kids. I found that unacceptable as they shared what Michael said  as he ordered the meal which was” If these people only know who ordered the meal.”</p>
<p>Both Bill and Javon said it in unison so there was no doubt based on other body language signals as well that this  was definitely  a true incident. But maybe Michel didn’t want the word to know that he fed his kids fast foods or that he even ate fast foods. Maybe he wouldn’t want his private comment shared.  Maybe it was his one personal moment to feel like a normal person and order fast food without anyone knowing. Maybe that was his personal little thrill . They had no right to share this personal moment with anyone in my view..</p>
<p>What the bodyguards said was true as they once again spoke in unison that people “never knew that Michael Jackson was the one ordering  the food.  In fact Javan imitated Michael ‘s high voice as said “ One cheeseburger please” While there is no doubt they were all telling the truth, there is even less doubt that Michael would have wanted this information revealed to the world.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #993300;"> PEDOPHILE RUMORS</span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #993300;"><a href="http://drlillianglass.com/body-language-blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/Michael-Jacksin-pedofile1.png"><img class="size-full wp-image-211  aligncenter" title="Michael Jacksin pedofile" src="http://drlillianglass.com/body-language-blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/Michael-Jacksin-pedofile1.png" alt="" width="632" height="339" /></a></span></p>
<p>Something really strange happened body language wise when Ashley Banfield asked them if they thought Michael  was a pedophile?  They were clearly uncomfortable with this question as each one of them squirmed and had various body language tells which illustrated their discomfort with this area of questioning.</p>
<p>Why did they show such signals of discomfort? Only they know. Michael  may or may not have been a pedophile and Michael was the only one who could attest to those allegations. Just for the record a person can still like women and have girlfriends and  still be a pedophile. Look at how many married men with families who are even pillars of their community. Look at all the married pedophiles with their own families who have been caught on NBC’s “To Catch a Predator.”</p>
<p>They very well may  or may not have seen any evidence that Michael was a pedophile during the two years they spent with him.  I am not saying that Michael is or isn’t a pedophile but these body guards may not know for sure. Their discomfort was very visible in their body language as this was the first time throughout the entire interview that they weren’t as confident verbally, vocally or body language-wise.</p>
<p>As examples of what I am saying, bodyguard Mike Garcia pursed his lip and moved around more, Bill Whitfield looked down, and Javon Beard  had a tight  ingenuine smile, unlike his previous smiles throughout the interview.  </p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #993300;">MICHAEL’S NOISES  IN BACK OF THE LIMO WITH A WOMAN</span></p>
<p>How dare them discuss that there was a curtain in the backseat of the limo and that Michael was with a girlfriend back there.  Rule number one of any limo driver, let alone any body guard is shut up about your client’s intimate goings on.</p>
<p> As this story was revealed there was an observed shoulder shrug. That is a signal of deception. There was also a nervous smile- another signal of deception as well as discomfort, In their attempt to set the record straight, they gave way too much information that I am sure Michael would have objected to. If he wanted anyone to know he was with a woman at any time, he would have shown her publically. If the curtain was allegedly drawn he obviously didn’t want anyone to know who he was with or what they were doing.</p>
<p>Then Ashley being the great interviewer that she is remarked “it’s like  you were chaperoning two teenagers back there making out ”. She was simply probing to see where they would go with it.  They shook their heads and agreed as it was a way out for them. Then the unconscionable happened. Bill  revealed that he heard loud sucking noises as his eyebrows were raised. This made me suspicious as to whether this incident really happened? Since  Michael was as  shy and paranoid about anyone knowing his business in a limo I am sure that he would have a limo with a sound proof glass partition. I have never seen a limo with only a mere curtain and I have ridden in many limos in my lifetime.  </p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #993300;">MICHAEL’S BANAIDS WERE NOT HIS  DISGUISE AS A”BURN VICTIM”</span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #993300;"><img title="Michael Jackson Burn VIctim look" src="http://drlillianglass.com/body-language-blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/Michael-Jackson-Burn-VIctim-look1.png" alt="" width="511" height="342" /></span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">When  Bill said that Michael’s bandages were worn for him to be disguised as a “burn victim” I knew for sure that they were full of it. Even Bill knew that he was full of it  as his body language showed his head jerking back and eyebrows being furrowed and looking away.</p>
<p>Michael wore many bandages around his face because of the numerous office surgeries and Botox and Restalyn treatments he had at Dr. Klein’s office, his dermatologist that often left bruising on various areas of his face. The band aids were to cover up the bruises. If Bill was around Michael as much as he said he was or escorted him to the doctor in the limo, he would have seen the brusing and  the redness and swelling.</p>
<p>They were not worn as a disguise for him to appear as a burn patient. If that was the case Michael would have wrapped his whole head in gauze or worn a silicone  burn mask.  </p>
<p>Then when Ashley proved and asked why they didn’t ask why Michael was “disguised like that,” Javon said “How can you tell him that?” He’s coming down with the kids, how can I say,  What the hell have you got on sir?”</p>
<p>Javon’s statement as well has his referring to Michael as “sir”  shows that he respected the boundaries with Michael as his “client” which he referred to earlier. This means he respected his “client” to not interfere, judge or question what he was doing. In my view he needed to show that same respect now and not reveal anything about his “client” no that he is no longer with us.</p>
<p>In my view one has to treat someone who has died with the same respect they treated them when they were alive. If they kept their confidences when the person was alive they need to do the same thing now that the person is dead and no longer here to defend themselves or to sue for defamation.  </p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #993300;">TALKING ABOUT MICHAEL’S DRUG PROBLEM</span></p>
<p>When Bill revealed that it appeareard that Michael was on something indicating that  Michael was on drugs I thought this was out of line.  If this was the case and he was his body guard, why didn’t he do something to help his “client?” After all he was supposed to protect his client at all costs. If Michael was drugged up as Bill said, how could Michael function properly as the  “good father? ”If his client was so out of it, why didn’t he try to get his “client” some help? Why didn’t he encourage his client to get help?</p>
<p>The answer is obvious. He needed the job and the money  didn’t want to make waves so he turned a blind eye. The operative word here is “money.” To me this is what this is all about. It sickens me that anyone who was entrusted to caring about a person and protecting them  in life, would now peddle that same person’s dead flesh in hopes of scoring a  book deal and making money off of them. <a href="http://www,drlillianglass.com ">http://www.drlillianglass.com </a></p>
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		<title>Jermaine Jackson Shows Many Signals of Deception While Trying to  Cover Up for Son Jafar in Dutch TV Interview</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Mar 2010 03:42:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Jermain Jackson’s interview on Dutch TV showed numerous signals of deception. These these signals included lengthy pause time,  out of sync phrasing, shoulder shrugs and long pauses between words, breathing,  upper  chest breathing, shaking his head “no” when he should be shaking it “yes,” mask-like pulled back nervous disingenuous smile, and  “um’s,”” ang uh’s”,  head jerking. [...]]]></description>
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<p>Jermain Jackson’s interview on Dutch TV showed numerous signals of deception. These these signals included lengthy pause time,  out of sync phrasing, shoulder shrugs and long pauses between words, breathing,  upper  chest breathing, shaking his head “no” when he should be shaking it “yes,” mask-like pulled back nervous disingenuous smile, and  “um’s,”” ang uh’s”,  head jerking. and drawn out vowels.</p>
<p>Therefore,  it appears to me that Jermaine Jackson is clearly showing signals of deception in an attempt to cover up for his 13 year old son Jafar. Allegedly Jafar was chasing  Michael Jackson’s youngest son Blanket around the house with a Stun Gun which he purchased online.</p>
<p>In Jermain’s attempt to cover to Jafar, he implicates himself by saying that Jafar was buying a Stun Gun for him and that he knew about it!  I doubt that was the case ? What kind of parenting is that? How in their right mind would let their 13 year old son but them a Stun Gun over the Internet?   </p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #993300;">JERMAIN&#8217;S EXACT WORDS AND DR. GLASS&#8217; COMMENTARY </span></p>
<p>Here are Jermain’s exact words from the interview. In parentheses you will see the  signals of deception that he exhibited</p>
<p><span style="color: #993300;">“</span><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="color: #993300;">That’s not true there was no accident.” </span>“<span style="color: #993300;">That was my son.”</span> (upper chest breathing- signal of  deception ready to take place next). “<span style="color: #993300;">He was,  he</span> <span style="color: #993300;">was</span> (repetition- signal of  deception) <span style="color: #993300;">getting this , this</span> (repletion, signal of deception)  <span style="color: #993300;">little  thing</span> ( minimization of not saying what this “”little thing” was&#8212;-a STUN GUN!!!) As Jermaine says this he has a tight mask-like smile indicating deception.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">As Jermain says he was getting this little this little thing forME. His voice gets louder to emphasize the word ME and he suddenly jerks his head down into his chest which indicates deception. It is no doubt that the “little thing (STUN GUN) was NOT  purchased for him but for his son.  </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Then Jermain turns away as he tries to blame put the blame on the press and says in a very slow labored speech pattern,  “<span style="color: #993300;">Some how some one</span> <span style="color: #993300;">alerted the press and it got out of hand  and there was no encounter with Blanket or anything</span>” ( said with a mask like smile indicating deception). What does he mean by “ no encounter with Blanket ( a person)  or any thing? “ The fact that he added the word “any THING” after mentioning Blanket is yet another signal of deception. It is too much information. If someone was being forthright they would have stopped after the word “Blanket.” They would have said without a mask-like smile “ Nothing happened to Blanket.”</span></p>
<p>Then Jermain goes on and gives way too much information, clearly another signal of deception.</p>
<p><span style="color: #993300;">“ But my son feels very very bad</span>  (repetition as a signal of deception)  (upper chest breathing indicating deception), <span style="color: #993300;">because he told me</span> (  his pitch of voice suddenly goes up) <span style="color: #993300;">that he was going to get me something online</span> ( shoulder shrug – a signal of deception along with shaking his head “no” as he says this indicating yet another signal of deception)”  <span style="color: #993300;">that  before we left to come out here and uh</span> (signal of deception along with  upper chest breathing indicating further  deception)  <span style="color: #993300;">it got out</span> (drawing out the vowel for longer than normal indicating deception)  of hand ( THIS MAKES NO SENSE!!! When something makes no sense the person is most likely not telling the truth) </p>
<p>Also why was Jafar feeling very very bad? You say it is because he told you that he was going to get you something online.&#8221; Was he feeling bad because he used your gift  which you  claim  he was getting you on line to scare his baby cousin?  Was he  feeling &#8220;very very bad&#8221; becasue his gift was a surprise for you and after he used your alleged gift to chase around his cousin, it was no longer a surprise- that you learned your gift was a stun gun?</p>
<p> Then Jermain continues “<span style="color: #993300;">Somehow it got out  out”</span>   (repletion  indicating signal of deception as he is also  shaking his head “no” when when should be shaking it “yes” as another signal of deception) of hand. But but ( repletion) Blanket is fine….”<br />
What got out of hand? Was it the fact that Jafar was allegedly chasing Blanket around with a stun gun and frightening this innocent child? Was it the fact that Dept., of Child Services Spent 6 and ½ hours at the home? And what in the world was a 13 year old doing buying you a STUN GUN? Why in the wqorld would you need a STUN GUN? Who were you planning to STUN with your GUN? And  the fact you said you KNEW that Jafar was buying you a “little something” like a STUN GUN online and you allowed it is unconscionable and speaks to your parenting!!!</p>
<p> You, Jermain, would have been much better off to tell the truth instead of your BS spin.</p>
<p>Why didn’t you just come out and say” I am appalled at what happened. I am appalled that my 13 year old son bought a STUN GUN on line. I have discussed this with him and he has been reprimanded and dealt with for his unacceptable behavior.</p>
<p>But to say that he bought this STUN GUN for you and that you knew about it is completely  ridiculous.</p>
<p>Little Blanket has been through so much that the last thing in the world he needs is to be traumatized by his cousin, your son. The last thing he needs is to experience fear of being STUNNED by A GUN!  No child should have to experience this. It is abusive behavior! If this is the case, I say he and his brother Prince and sister Paris should not be living in the same household as you or  Jafar. <a href="http://www.drlillianglass.com/">http://www.drlillianglass.com/</a></p>
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		<title>Paris and Prince Jackson’s Body Language Show Great Self Confidence and Michael’s Love. They were NOT Exploited By Appearing At the GRAMMY’S</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Feb 2010 11:49:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Michael Jackson not only left a legacy of phenomenal music and entertainment but he left beautiful children with so much love and self-confidence as they appeared on stage at the Grammy’s to accept their father’s Lifetime Achievement Award. As soon as Paris and Prince Michael came on the stage accompanied by their very handsome cousins, [...]]]></description>
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<p>Michael Jackson not only left a legacy of phenomenal music and entertainment but he left beautiful children with so much love and self-confidence as they appeared on stage at the Grammy’s to accept their father’s Lifetime Achievement Award.</p>
<p><a href="http://drlillianglassbodylanguageblog.files.wordpress.com/2010/02/jackson-paris-heartgelt-hug.png"><img title="JAckson Paris heartgelt hug" src="http://drlillianglassbodylanguageblog.files.wordpress.com/2010/02/jackson-paris-heartgelt-hug.png?w=313&amp;h=296" alt="" width="313" height="296" /></a></p>
<p>As soon as Paris and Prince Michael came on the stage accompanied by their very handsome cousins, for moral support, they each gave Lionel Richie a very warm, loving and heartfelt hug, with their arms fully embracing Lionel as they wrapped them around Lionel’s shoulder and neck.</p>
<p><a href="http://drlillianglassbodylanguageblog.files.wordpress.com/2010/02/jackson-prince-heartfelt-hug.png"><img title="Jackson Prince heartfelt hug" src="http://drlillianglassbodylanguageblog.files.wordpress.com/2010/02/jackson-prince-heartfelt-hug.png?w=209&amp;h=286" alt="" width="209" height="286" /></a></p>
<p>This loving gesture indicated that Michael definitely gave these two a lot of affection throughput their young lives.Otherwise they would not be able to demonstrate it and give it so freely to others. You can fully give what you received and these two clearly received love and affection.</p>
<p>PRINC’E&#8217;S  SPEECH</p>
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<p>Prince spoke eloquently. His tones reflected self the confidence that would make Michael proud. Paris reflected the same self- confidence through her body language- her impeccable straight and solid posture. As Prince spoke, he embraced the award as lovingly as he no doubt embraced his dad when he was alive. What was even more impressive was that Prince spoke from the heart, without using a teleprompter. By thanking God for watching over him and his siblings for the past 7 months, reminded us how long Michael has been that Michael has not been with us. He also let us know that he was well taken care of by adding the special thanks to his grandparents.</p>
<p>When she first acknowledged his grandmother, his cousins nodded in agreement, indicating their love for her as well. He reiterated Michael’s message – “love” and said how he would continue to spread his father’s message and help the world as he further embraced his award as though he was symbolically embracing his father. After Prince was finished speaking, he went back to the loving arms of his cousins who embraced him, showing him their support for a job well done.</p>
<p>PARIS’ SPEECH</p>
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<p>Then beautiful young lady, Paris with her impeccable posture and equally eloquent, rich, resonant voice, which depicted self- confidence and self – awareness spoke. She added a more personal touch in the few seconds she had to speak. She reminded us indirectly that although Michael won a Lifetime Achievement Award and was a great performer- he was still” daddy.” Her impromptu message came from the heart and was not teleprompted. She let us in on how “daddy” was supposed to perform last year but couldn’ t (and obviously couldn’t perform this year either due to his untimely death).</p>
<p>THE CHILDREN WERE NOT EXPLOITED FOR THE GRAMMY’S</p>
<p><a href="http://drlillianglassbodylanguageblog.files.wordpress.com/2010/02/grammy.jpg"><img title="Grammy" src="http://drlillianglassbodylanguageblog.files.wordpress.com/2010/02/grammy.jpg?w=200&amp;h=197" alt="" width="200" height="197" /></a></p>
<p>When I read the following headline on the Drudgereport, GRAMMY EXPLOIT: THE KIDS MICHAEL JACKSON PROTECTED SO MUCH– PUT OUT FOR SHOW… I was very disturbed by this headline.</p>
<p>Having served as a Governor of the Grammy Organization for four years, I know exactly what goes on in that Grammy Organization – or NARAS as it is formally called. I have seen  in it up close and personal and they would not exploit anyone. Their aim is to fairly and properly honor those who have shown exceptional talent.</p>
<p>The Lifetime Achievement Award was NOT given to Michael Jackson because he died and to exploit his children to garner ratings. The decision as to who would receive the award was made well before Michael’s death seven months ago. In fact it was made well over a year ago. Therefore, this headline is ridiculous.</p>
<p>Initially, The Grammy Organization had no intention of having his kids up on stage to accept the award. They intended to have Michael accept the award for his exceptional talent throughout his life. Since he was no longer with us, who best to receive the award on his behalf other than those who were an extension of Michael- his cherished kids whom he loved and adored more than anything in the world. It made the moment very special.</p>
<p>As far as being protected when they were young children and not being exposed, the operative words are “ young children.” That is no doubt why young “Blanket” was not up there with these two mature “tweens.” Michael’s 11 year old daughter and 12 year old son were NOT exploited. They came there willingly and spoke willingly, based on the tone of their voice and content of their speech and their body language.</p>
<p>I am sure that they cherished the opportunity to speak those beautiful and loving words about their father. I am also sure that since Michael was not there to accept the award, that along with his mother whom he loved dearly, he would have been proud to have his offspring accept the award on his behalf and speak the words they spoke. www.drlillianglass.com<a href="http://www.drlilliangass.com/"></a></p>
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