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George And Cindy Anthony At Odds About What Casey Did to Caylee Which May Eventually End Their Marriage

Friday, September 16th, 2011

George Lies About River

As George Anthony appeared on the second installment  on  the Dr. Phil Show,    he lied once again, about his relationship with River Cruz (Crystal Holloway).  Dr. Phil asked him point blank  Did you have a romantic relationship with River Cruz? George  says No sir  and smiles his goofy fake Stan Laurel of Laurel and Hardy fame smile. He also swallows hard,  which is a major signal of deception, especially  in the context of what was asked.

Dr. Phil then told him that he didn’t want to play the semantics game and asked George if he had an intimate relationship with River. Once again he swallowed hard and blinked a lot indicating deception.

Dr. Phil then showed George the video of River’s testimony. He clearly looked very uncomfortable. Phil did not let him get away with it.

After speaking to River (Crystal) for several hours I strongly believe that she and George were sexually intimate based on the details of what she shared with me. Yes, she initially lied to law and  didn’t want their affair to be made public. Just because she lied initially, that does not mean she lied subsequently with regard to their affair. I questioned River extensively and she was always consistent  with what she shared. Her voice and speech tells showed no signals of deception whenever I spoke with her about that issue.

The jury even felt George was lying about not having an affair with River.And he was obviously lying now based on his tells of deception.

 

George Gets Real For Once

 Even though George was a liar about River, he did reveal the truth at one point during the interview with Dr. Phil. He said I blame my daughter for Caylee not being here.

In my view that is huge. He is not in denial. He did not bullshit. He told it like it is. He said that he couldn’t grasp  the fact that his daughter put Caylee in a laundry bag and put her in the woods. He said I can’t comprehend my daughter doing that to my granddaughter.

So George clearly has open eyes here. He gets it.  In essence, he is saying between the lines, that he knows Casey killed Caylee.

He asks how Caylee could have ended up at the end of their street.

Dr. Phil bluntly says You know what happened to Caylee don’t you! (yay Dr. Phil) George says that Casey may have given her too much Xanex or choloroform and he is convinced  Caylee was in the back of the car. He even mentioned that Casey may have used these substances as a chemical babysitter.

It is interesting to note  that when George is alone without Cindy he seems to tells the truth. During the police interview he said how he could never forget the smell of a dead body and smelled it in the car. He seemed forthright. He also seemed  to be afraid of Cindy as he told police that he didn’t want his wife to know he was there an talking to them.

Now when he was alone with Dr. Phil who was not going to let him get away with lies and spin, he appeared to come clean and did not show signals of deception.

This means that George is more of himself and more honest when he doesn’t have Cindy around.

George also comes clean about Casey shovel and realizes that Casey would have used it to bury Caylee in the woods and mentions the neighbor’s testimony.

 

Cindy Is Full of It!

Cindy is another matter. She is NOT in denial. She is in severe guilt as she knows she is the reason Casey did something to Caylee. After she told Casey that she would throw her out and keep Caylee, Casey left with Caylee in tow.

Cindy bullshits that she believes Caylee drowned while George was making faces as she was talking indicating that he was sick of her lies and was no longer going  along  with it and that  he refuses to drink the Kool Aid any longer . He knows Caylee didn’t drown and let it be known.

Cindy then says that something happened to Casey and she was different after her pregnancy and after Caylee was born. DUH!!  Of course Casey was different. She didn’t want Caylee in the first place and didn’t  even tell Cindy she was pregnant until she was in her last trimester. Of course she was different. She wanted to party hearty and didn’t want a baby cramping her style. She even wanted to give the baby away to a friend. But Cindy would have none of that and forced her to have the baby  and keep it. And even worse, Cindy forced Casey to care for Caylee like a real mother.

Cindy tries to spin it about the shovel. First she said how Casey used the shovel to break into the shed. Then Cindy goes on to spin how she herself  shovels in the summer. WHAT???? She shovels all right- she shovels bullshit!!

Then Cindy says something that is despicable! She trivializes Caylee’s death by saying when Casey was judged  not guilty, so  it was Caylee protecting Casey for something she didn’t do. She says how God wanted Casey to be free and  the verdict meant  Casey was innocent. WHAT??? This made no sense! It is clearly Cindy’s obvious sick spin.It is maddening that Cindy actually thinks we are that stupid to believe this nonsense.

It is obvious that Cindy is as messed up as Casey if not more in my view. I hold her accountable for Caylee’s death for a number of reasons. She was an enabler and she pushed Casey over the edge when she threatened to throw her out and keep Caylee. In my view this was the beginning of the end. Casey was pushed into a corner. She was the little princess all her life (even Cindy’s brother Rick Pleasea said this) and now Caylee  took over that role. Casey was jealous. Caylee was a burden and a competitor . So I believe she did Caylee in either consciously  or subconsciously .

 Cindy and George’s Miserable Future

As time passes and it is just George and Cindy looking at those four walls, it may be the end of their marriage in my view. When two people don’t agree on a very serious issue like what really happened to their granddaughter, the marriage will usually have a hard time surviving.

As George has more time on his hands to mull over what really happened and becomes more honest with himself as he showed on Dr. Phil, he may end up hating Cindy more and more as she spins the spin to protect Casey and make excuse after excuse. Being honest with himself will make him stronger and less likely to be as henpecked , bullied, and controlled by Cindy. He may get really angry at her attempts to boss him around and even violent towards her.

We have already seen glimpses of his violent side.

Apparently/ George wanted to leave on several occasions but finances held him back. Now that they both share the spoils of the millions that will be coming their way, George will have half of that money when and if  he leaves her. He can now support himself and finally get away from Cindy, who was supporting him financially through her nursing career.

It was fascinating to see how meek and weak he was when he was in Cindy’s presence during the Dr. Phil interview and how much stronger and more honest be became when he was not around her and when it was just he and Dr. Phil.  

While I am repulsed by George for a number of reasons, I do believe that if he leaves Cindy and   gets a lot of therapy, he may have a chance at a  more decent and livable  life. Of course the money will help but it won’t solve all his problems. He needs to come clean with a therapist and with himself and examine his role in why  this Casey nightmare happened. Maybe there will be hope for him to start a new life.

As for Cindy, I see no hope. She is s Toxic as they come. The continuous lies and spin and obvious lack of therapy will come back to haunt her in a huge way. For one, she has lied in a court of law. She has lied repeatedly. I hope that justice will be served and that she will have to pay the same  price that everyone else pays who perjures themselves on the stand. If not, there is karmic justice.

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George Anthony Stops Putting Money In Casey’s Commissary Account. Angry About Sexual Molestation Accusations And Angrier About Investigation By Defense. Are Lee and Cindy Next?

Monday, July 26th, 2010

GEORGE’S ANGER MEANS NO MORE SNACK OR TOILETRY MONEY FOR CASEY

George can’t use the “I don’t have money” excuse as to why Casey may now go tamponless, cookieless, or shampooless. Apparently it has been documented that even though George hasn’t made a 785 dollar mortgage payment since April of 2009 and his home is in foreclosure, he has still managed to cough up hundreds of dollars on a regular basis to place into Casey’s commissary account.

But now all of that commissary money that should have been used for mortgage payments has come  to a complete stop. Why?  It is because George is no doubt furious at Casey and this is his way of punishing her and showing her how angry he is at her.

Just by this action alone, you can see where Casey learned about irresponsibility and not doing the right thing in terms of priorities and paying  bills. The more and more we learn about the Anthony’s and how they raised, or shall I say didn’t raise Casey, the more we see why she turned out the way she did. She had no boundaries and was completely enabled by both her parents.

WHY DID GEORGE  ALWAYS SEEM TO KOWTOW TO CASEY AND PUSSY FOOT AROUND HER ?

I always wondered why George  seemed to kowtowed to Casey. You could hear it in his voice in  the jailhouse tapes where he spoke to her like he was speaking to her with kid gloves. I always wondered why she was able to run him like she did and speak to him so disrespectfully.

When he asked her questions about missing Caylee and the car, she even said to him to act like a father for the first time in his life and not like a cop.

Now that her allegations of sexual abuse have surfaced, if they are true, perhaps that explains why George  always seemed to walk on eggshells around her.

Did he do that in order to not upset her so that she would never  reveal the possible ugly family secret of sexual molestation if it was true?

Did George allow that disrespect and did he  bend over backwards in order  to assuage any guilt that he  perhaps  may have felt for the actions of which she allegedly accused him?

Did her comment act like a father” have a deeper meaning, now that we know of her accusations?

GEORGE’S BODY LANGUAGE SHOWS HE WAS ANGRY IN THE COURTROOM  AND WILL NOW BE  ANGRIER THAT HE’S BEING INVESTIGATED

George cannot be too happy now that he knows now being investigated by the defense. They  no doubt want to explore Casey’s accusations about sexual abuse even further.  Perhaps they are tying to impeach George  over this allegations that he made against her. That may be why they want to make whatever he says about Casey not sound credible.

Perhaps they can now use  sex abuse as part of their defense to spare Casey the lethal needle. Perhaps they will say   that  since George allegedly  molested Casey and that Casey, in her disturbed mind,  killed Caylee to spare her daughter the  horrors of what  George might do to her as he had allegedly done to Casey in past. Perhaps she may even accuse George of having sexually molested Caylee as well . If she does that, his comment about  missing “the smell of Caylee’s sweat” may definitely come back to haunt him.

Perhaps they may even insinuate that George may have has something to so with Caylee’s death. Maybe they will say that he was the one who moved the body.

By the way remember when Cindy was shooting off her mouth and calling  Sargeant Allen on her own and left a message that   that Casey had help in moving he body.Was that someone George or was it Lee or was it Cindy? Will the defense try to say that it was one of those three who moved the body and obstructed justice?

Will George be questioned as to why he and Cindy wanted an immunity deal early on? Will George be questioned about what River Cruz reported that George told her- that Caylee’s death was an accident gone bad?  Will they show that George knew Caylee was dead all along while he sent law enforcement and concerned citizens on a wild goose chase?

Maybe they will try to say that George was so mentally unstable, that he could have taken Caylee from Zanny the Nanny’s house  and sexually molested and  killed Caylee himself. Maybe they will show that the duct tape was his and came from his home.  After all, they may tell jurors,  this is a man who tried to kill himself.

Maybe they will question him to death about why he personally never searched for little Caylee? Will they ask him if he already knew she was dead?

If all of this sounds far fetched, it’s not as far as the defense is concerned. Jose and Cheney will  do everything possible  to try and create reasonable doubt in order  to save Casey’s life.

WHY NOT GO AFTER LEE TOO?

If the defense is going to investigate George, then  why not do the same with Lee?  After all Casey accused Lee of sexually molesting her on two occasions.  She told it to  former fiance ,Jesse Grund who in turn shared it with law enforcement and she told it to her jailhouse pal.

Was it Lee who Cindy was referring to, when she told Sergeant Allen on the taped message  that Casey had help in moving the body?

Is the reason that Lee has not shown up in court for Casey for all these years due to the fact  that he may possibly have something to hide?

And what was all the CMA  screaming passion about during Caylee’s memorial service? Who was  his CMA directed at? Surely the defense will grill him on that as they delve deeper into his relationship with his sister.

AND WHY NOT  DEFINITELY GO AFTER CINDY WHILE THE DEFENSE  IS AT IT?

If the defense is so intent on investigating George, then why not go after Cindy as well? Why not show how volatile her relationship was with her daughter?

Perhaps they may say  that Casey killed Caylee because she was pushed to the wall emotionally by Cindy. After all,  they may  reveal that Casey was so scared of Cindy that she didn’t even tell her mother that she was pregnant until she was long into her pregnancy.

They may go on to say that Casey was so afraid of Cindy’s wrath that she couldn’t share with her own mother that she dropped out of school, got fired from her job.

They may try to show that Cindy was the one who took control  of  Caylee as she was the first to hold Caylee. Perhaps they will say that  Cindy wouldn’t allow Casey to bond with the baby and that was why she didn’t have any maternal feelings towards Caylee Perhaps they may try to show  that Cindy  tried to create a wedge Casey and Caylee and tried to instill feelings of jealousy and worthlessness in Casey.

They may even try to show  how it was  Cindy who wouldn’t let Casey name her own baby and how Cindy  most likely came up with the name for the child herself   Caylee- a combination of Cindy’s two children Casey and Lee. Perhaps they will show how Cindy  saw Caylee as her third child and refused to acknowledge  her as   Casey’s child. After all they may say, Cindy clothed and fed her  and paid for her medical expenses, so she may have seen Caylee  her as her own baby, rather than Caylee’s baby.

Maybe they will show how Cindy continued to torment Casey to  make her feel inadequate and how she may have  created  jealous a situation to make Casey jealous of the attention she was giving to  Caylee. Perhaps they will show that Cindy continually made Casey feel inadequate like a bad mother so Casey acted out her bad mother role and partied hearty.

Perhaps they will s try to show that Cindy may have actually encouraged Casey to be out of the house and away from Casey so that Cindy could act more freely and without disturbance  in her  self appointed role of Caylee’s mother.  Perhaps they will try to show that Cindy didn’t care  if Casey came home late or early in the morning or spent all night ou at someone else’s house.

Perhaps they grill Cindy about her  tumultuous  relationship with Casey . Maye they will try to  show that it was the last straw for Casey when Cindy threatened Casey’s  already low and damaged esteem by saying that she would throw Casey out and keep Caylee.

Perhaps the defense will say that it was Cindy’s actions that made Casey feel so threatened that she did away with Caylee to punish her mother without thinking of the consequences.

Perhaps they will say that Casey’s death was an accident but Casey feared Cindy’s wrath so much that she didn’t tell her for 31 days. They may also say that Casey was so petrified  of her mother that  she still wouldn’t come clean until her brother Lee tried to pry what happened to Caylee out of her.

Perhaps they will say how Casey was a victim of violence,  since it was documented that Cindy punched the bed and allegedly tried to choke Casey.

In any event they will try to make Casey out to be the poor little helpless victim while Cindy looks like the bad mean horrible monster.

They may also bring up Cindy’s faux pas where she spoke of the woods to reporters when Caylee’s little body was yet to be found.

They may even accuse Cindy of helping to move Caylee’s  body. After all Cindy seemed so sure in her call to Sargeant Allen that someone helped Casey and she didn’t move the body alone.

They may even ask her why she attempted to throw innocent people like Amy Huizinga and Jesse Grund and others under the bus? Was it because she was feeling so guilty and wanted to wash her own hands of any guilt she felt?

And finally they will ask Cindy why she asked for immunity? Did she know something happened before it did? Will they try to create further reasonable doubt by saying that her changing her claim from smelling a dead body to Caylee still being alive even when bones were found as indication of something she knows or was hiding ? Will they continue to grill her about who moved the body?

JOSE BAEZ WILL DO HIS BEST TO SAVE CASEY FROM DEATH WHILE CHENEY MASON  WILL HAVE TO SWALLOW HIS PRIDE AND EAT HIS WORDS

I have no doubt that Jose Baez will do absolutely everything possible to spare Casey a very premature and uncomfortable death. He knows she will most likely be locked up for life and that is why he is trying to now focus on the next phase of the trial  so she doesn’t die by lethal injection.

That is why he will most likely do everything to explain away Caylee’s death and why, George, Cindy or Lee  or all three pf them drove Casey  to do it.

Overly confident Cheney Mason will have to do something that no doubt galls him. He will have to eat the  words he initially spoke where he said  he would walk out of jail arm and arm with Casey as a free woman.

No doubt that is what he  strongly believed  before he saw how dismal the case really was as sunk his teeth into it. No doubt after meeting Casey up close and personal he had a change of heart.

CASEY WILL NEVER GO SNACKLESS, BRALESS, PENLESS OR PAPERLESS BEHIND BARS

For those of you who are concerned about Casey’s  not being able to buy goodies behind bars, because her family has cut off her commissary funds, don’t worry. Casey will be well taken care of by others.

There are a lot of men  out there who obviously agree with  George and Cindy’s  physical assessment pf their “beautiful” daughter. These are also men who feel the intense  need to help out  a damsel in distress.

Thus, as records have shown, they have deposited money in Casey’s commissary account so she will still be able to ingest flour tortillas, jalapeno nacho chips, hot peanuts, chocolate chip granola bars cheese crackers, cocoa butter cream cookies and other culinary delights that were listed on her commissary purchase report. Maybe that is why George, in one of his jailhouse letters to her warned her about her  getting fat  behind bars.

Based on her bleeding heart off balance male fans who say they want to date  and even marry her, Casey doesn’t appear to have to worry about going  tamponless,  shampooless or conditionerless.

She will always look her best as she continues to groom herself both in and out of the courtroom. She will also never go penless or paperless so she can always write to  her suitors to ask then to put even more money into her account.  www.drlillianglass.com

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River Cruz Upset That Bloggers Speculate Mystery Hair May Be Hers. Says It’s Impossible As She Never Met Caylee. If Hair Is Hers, Did George Set “Zanny the Nanny Prototype” Up And Put It There?

Tuesday, April 27th, 2010

RIVER UPSET OVER BLOGGERS ALLEGATIONS

I received a call from River Cruz this evening around 5 pm PST,  who was very distraught.  Apparently someone sent her an email where a blogger said that the mystery hair that was apparently found was River Cruz’s.

According to River, it would be impossible!  First of all  she  has never seen or met Caylee in her life. Secondly she has never been to  the woods where Cayley’’s body was discovered.

If she took a lie detector test, no doubt she would pass it with flying colors attesting to the fact that she never laid eyes on Caylee.

If she took a voice stress analysis test, she would pass that as well as they would no doubt hear no signals of deception.

And with my expertise as  a body language and voice expert, I personally asked River is she ever saw or  met Caylee or if she  was in the woods  and I heard no signals of deception whatsoever. River sounded forthright and I could hear that  was telling the truth.

GEORGE ANTHONY WAS IN RIVER’S HOME AND HER BED THROUGHOUT THE YEAR ACCORDING TO HER

But River  said that she  WAS with George Anthony for a year. George Anthony was in her home for a year and according to River, in her bed throughout the year. Having said that, George no doubt  had access to many of River’s stray hairs. He was all over her home and used her bathroom. He may have very well had access to her hairbrush.

So if the hair turns out to be River’s, like some blogger speculated, the question is, Did George put it there?  Was he the one who moved Caylee’s body which Cindy mentioned to Sergeant Allen in her phone call to him ?

George  is the same man who mind you, who NEVER searched for his own granddaughter.  Did he already know she was dead? This is the husband of Cindy Anthony ,  who mentioned WOODS when  the WOODS wasn’t even a consideration. This is also the husband of Cindy Anthony , who adamantly told Sergeant Allen that Casey had help in moving he body.

So ANYTHING is possible!

DID GEORGE PURSUE RIVER WITH THE PURPOSE OF USING HER AND SETTING HER UP AS THE ESCAPE GOAT?

One thing we know for sure is that George had his sights set on River. He pursued her. It was not the other way around according to River.  Initially, she didn’t want to get involved with him because he was married. But he let her know that he was not happily married and planning on leaving Cindy.

He sold River a complete bill of goods, tugging on her sensitive nature and heartstrings.  He even talked her into giving him a large sum of money as he told her he didn’t have enough money to eat and buy food. She felt sorry for him, so she gave him the money that she herself needed.  

What she is devastated about the most is that she now sees how he completely used her. She mentioned through her tears and sobs that  that she now sees how she was used and how she strongly believes he was trying to set her up.

GEORGE DESCRIBED ZANNY THE NANNY IN TOO MUCH DETAIL, ESPECIALLY SINCE HE ALLEGEDLY NEVER MET HER

I can  definitely see her point, especially when George  knew so much about the physical appearance of the “Zanny the Nanny” character, right  down to her  Asian tattoo. George in his depositions reported that he never met Zanny the Nanny, yet her knew so much about her, even describing her as a 10 with perfect teeth.

To me, it seems like a little too much description of someone you allegedly never met. Also women don’t usually describe other women as a 10, Men do that, which leads me to believe that all of this detailed Zanny the Nanny description no doubt came from George.  

GEORGE SEVERELY WARNED RIVER TO SPEAK TO NO ONE ABOUT THEIR AFFAIR WHICH FRIGHTENED HER WHEN POLICE CAME TO VISIT HER

For those of you that say River lied to the police when she was asked if she had an affair with George, she openly admits that she lied because she was terribly embarrassed and extremely frightened.

 Apparently, George strongly warned  her to NEVER say anything to anyone about their affair no matter what! River said that she was prepared to take it to her grave and tell no one.  So when law enforcement  unexpectedly came to her door and later  interrogated her about her affair, she didn’t know what to do or say so she tried to cover as she no doubt remembered George;s words to NEVER say anything to anyone about their affair no matter what!

 Eventually she admitted that she did indeed have an affair with George, s for which she  is deeply ashamed.  She also didn’t have a lawyer advising her at the time, which she does now.

RIVER IS NOT HER TWIN SISTER SKYE

 Also to set the record straight, River is not her twin sister Skye. Skye is reported to allegedly have somewhat of a checkered past, unlike River. Skye has the one  was talking to the press, not River. River has not spoken to the press or done any interviews with anyone except for the one she did initially and the interviews she has done with me personally.

 RIVER IS DEVASTATED BY THE FALLOUT THAT HAS AFFECTED HER CHILD

River is a single mom who loves her young  child deeply. She is distressed that her child  has been teased at school and that there has been name calling about River. She was most devastated by the fact that her child has been beaten up while trying  to defend River’s honor.

Her child doesn’t deserve this and it is what upsets River the most. No parent would want their child tormented and bullied by other kids because of their involvement with a married father of a daughter who is facing death row for killing her child..

MUCH  MISINFORMATION ABOUT THE HAIR

Thus far there has been a lot of misinformation about the hair that was found. Earlier, reporter Cathy  Belich of Channel 9  had reported that the mystery hair was on the duct tape found with the toddler’s remains. WESH-Channel 2 also reported that the strand was “on the duct tape across Caylee’s skull.”

But the documents released today say NOTHING  about a mystery hair on duct tape. So Cathy  Belich updated her initial report by later saying: ”A 5-inch-long, fine, dark brown strand of hair from a Caucasian was found with a piece of plastic from the scene where Caylee Anthony’s remains were found.”  

WKMG-Channel 6’s Mike DeForest  reported that   the mysterious hair was found in the woods near the toddler’s remains.  Mike DeForest also reported that “The origin of that hair remains unknown,”

Casey ’s defense team could  use that hair to suggest a stranger was out in the woods near the toddler’s body, but prosecutors  no doubt will  argue that detectives collected lots of  items in those woods, including garbage , that is  not related to the murder of Caylee.  

RIVER CRUZ’S HAIR IS NATURALLY CURLY NOT STRAIGHT LIKE THE HAIR THAT WAS FOUND

The hair that was found was five inches and was straight. River’s hair is longer than five inches and it is not naturally straight. She said that when she washes her hair it comes out curly and she has to straighten it. So my question is that with all the Florida humidity and rain, wouldn’t that straight hair that was found, eventually turn to it’s natural state- curly?

 If it remained straight, it very well may not be River’s hair.

RIVER CRUZ CANNOT BE USED TO CREATE REASONABLE DOUBT

Casey’s defense team will look at everything to try and create reasonable doubt for their client so that she doesn’t end up with a lethal injection coursing through her veins .

 But there is way too much that points in the direction that she may have killed Caylee.  Jose Baez and his band of lawyers  can try all they want to create a reasonable doubt with a Zanny the Nanny or a hair, but the bottom line is that it will be very difficult to convince a jury that Casey Anthony didn’t have anything to do with her young daughter’s death.  

River Cruz is NOT Zanny the Nanny and whether the hair is or isn’t hers, she has NOTHING to do with Caylee’s death.

She only wishes she had NOTHING to ever do with George and never bought into his poor me victim routine where he used her for sex, for relief, as a refuge  to get away from Cindy, as the prototype for Zanny the Nanny ,and now possibly for her hair. http://www.drlillianglass.com/

 

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George Anthony’s Courtroom Gum Chomping, Affair, Alleged Prior Knowledge of Caylee’s Death and Casey’s Alleged Sexual Molestation Claims Paint Him as a TOXIC MAN

Thursday, April 8th, 2010

NO GUM CHEWING IN THE COURT ROOM!! THAT MEANS YOU GEORGE AND CINDY !!

Aside from Casey Anthony’s disgustingly inappropriate smirk  that we see on her face whenever we see her enter the courtroom lately,

and her smirk while hand rubbing, the other thing I find most disgusting is looking at her parents George and Cindy  vigorously chomp away on their gum.

We all saw Cindy’s obnoxious cow-like cud chewing during her filmed deposition during the  Zanaida Gonzalez Zanny the Nanny case.

Now both she and equally  obnoxious cow like cud chewing George continue to show their lack of class in my estimation.

 As they sit in the courtroom their gum chewing behavior shows complete disrespect. It speaks volumes about them. It says that they have no manners and less respect for a US  courtroom.

THEY ARE NOT WATCHING A BALL GAME

While I am all for gum chewing as a way of curbing appetite, releasing stress and adding a pleasant flavor to your mouth, I am NOT for  chewing gum in places where it is not appropriate like when you are up on stage getting an Emmy or Academy Award, if you are in  a church or temple or any religious institution, or if you are in a courtroom.

George and Cindy are not watching a baseball game or at any other recreational event where gum chewing is accepted and welcome.  They are not  watching a movie or being entertained.

 Instead they are in a courtroom watching their daughter who in my view be convicted of murder and face the death penalty.

 In my view,  especially in light of the jailhouse letters which have now emerged there is no reasonable doubt in my mind as to what Casey did to Caylee.  

 BRAD CONWAY NEEDS TO DO A  MUCH BETTER JOB REGARDING THE ANTHONY’S IMAGE   

The Anthony’s attorney Brad Conway is clearly NOT doing right by his clients George and Cindy if he doesn’t tell them to spit the gum out of their mouths when they are in the courtroom.

Part of the job of any attorney is to help their client with their image so their  client lookS their best in the eyes of the public.

 Their horrible and disrespectful gum chomping  adds to the already poor public perception about them. Translated, that means it makes them even less likeable!!

DIFFICULT TO EVER BE SYMPATHETIC TO GEORGE BASED ON RECENT ALLEGATIONS AGAINST HIM

Watching George’s bovine like  chewing just adds to my further disgust towards him and his bullshit “Mr. Nice Guy Please Like Me Victim Blamer” Image that he so clearly displayed on his exclusive Fox 35 interview.

He is even more repulsive to me  now that I am convinced that what he told River Cruz was true- that Caylee’s death was an accident gone awry.

This also means that this “loser” in my mind, no doubt, had the knowledge that his granddaughter was already  dead.  Yet, he  allowed millions of people to suffer emotional pain about Caylee. He allowed people to waste their precious  time searching for her with the hope that she was alive when he may have very well known she was lying dead in the woods being ravaged by wildlife and insects.

  How dare him! If this is the case, he no doubt should be sued by everyone who searched for the little girl.

But his house is conveniently in foreclosure. I wonder if this was all pre-planned. It seems to me like it very well may have been in light of all of this emerging information.

 LAW ENFORCEMENT COULD INVESTIGATE GEORGE IF HE HID PRIOR KNOWLEDGE OF CASEY’S DEATH

Even if he can’t get sued because he claims he has no money, perhaps law enforcement can come after him for fraud and giving false information if he has done so.

If George thinks that giving chloroform to a child was an ACCIDENT he is beyond STUPID, not to mention repulsive!

Casey gave the child chloroform on purpose if what she says in her jailhouse letters is true. And I believe that what she says in her  expansive letters IS true.

George knows this was NOT an accident. I am sure he believes as I do that his daughter killed her unwanted granddaughter!!!

After all he was the one who told law enforcement and even the FBI that the car smelled like there was a dead body in it and how one never forgets that smell.

Casey  didn’t want Caylee when she was pregnant and didn’t want Caylee around when she was alive. Casey resented her mother Cindy for her avid attention towards Caylee so she destroyed the baby’s life to punish Caylee for being born and standing in the way of her social life and to punish her mother Cindy.

If it is discovered that George knew of this, then I believed that he needs maximum jail time for his egregious behavior in colluding with Casey. There is  ABSOLUTELY no excuse for this. If George loved Caylee as he said he did, his behavior desecrates her precious life.

 DID BROTHER LEE AND FATHER GEORGE MOLEST CASEY ACCORDING TO CASEY’S JAILHOUSE LETTERS?

Even more repulsive to me is the recent allegations we learned about George  based on Casey’s jailhouse letters where she accuses her brother Lee and her own father George of sexually molesting her,

While I haven’t believed anything Casey has told us until now, I do believe that What Casey says in her jailhouse letters are true.

The reason I believe her information is  because she has so much time on her hands and the letters are a free flow release of her inner thought consciousness.

 WHILE SPEAKING MAY NOT ELICIT THE TRUTH, ONE’S WRITING MAY DO SO

She is in isolation. She speaks to no one and she has no one to bullshit to and spin her tales. So she no doubt has come clean to herself in these letters. There are no boundaries and she is not editing what she is communicating.

When paper meets a pen and someone begins to write ,  a different area of the brain operates than when someone speaks to another person. There are less filters and  often less manipulation.

It will be interesting to look at Casey’s handwriting as well. Oftentimes handwriting clues and semantic cues  and the specific  words she chooses, cross outs etc will give us tremendous insight as to what is really going on in her mind.

 IS SAYING “HI GORGEOUS” IN A JAILHOUSE MEETING WITH HIS DAUGHTER A CLUE THEY MAY HAVE HAD MORE THAN A FATHER DAUGHTER RELATIONSHIP?

 Having said this, Casey writes that George molested her. I wouldn’t doubt what she wrote was true about George.

We already know from her ex boyfriend  Jesse Grund’s interview that Casey accused Lee of molesting her. So her written accusation clearly reflects Jesse’s statements that he was told by Casey.

George greeted Casey with “Hi gorgeous!” during his jailhouse visit with her. At the time I heard it I was taken aback. I  definitely thought that it was inappropriate in light of Casey’s circumstances.

One  would usually say “hi gorgeous” to a lover a girlfriend or spouse. It isn’t something a father would not usually  say to his daughter unless she is dressed for prom night or in a wedding dress.

So if it turns out that Casey’s allegation that her own father sexually molested her is true then he needs to be held accountable for those actions as well.

CASEY’S JAILHOUSE LETTERS SEEM TO CONFIRM WHAT GEORGE TOLD RIVER CRUZ

 Based on Casey’s jailhouse letters,  she no doubt chloroformed the child and may have accidently given Caylee too much chloroform which killed her.   

Perhaps the  giving Cayleee too much chloroform is the “accident” to which George was referring to when she disclosed this information to River Cruz.

I am still reeling at the notion that  George had the time to cheat when everyone was so worried bout little Caylee. I am even more appalled that he went after River with a vengeance because she seemed to fit the bill for the description of the fictions Zanny  the Nanny character whom he no doubt likely to throw under the bus in order to save his precious “gorgeous” Casey  by creating a reasonable doubt.

And finally I am completely disgusted by his gigolo- like actions in manipulating a sweet vulnerable soul like River Cruz into parting with close to 5 thousand dollars to be used for his own selfish and personal needs.  Who knows what he promised River?

The bottom line is that  George,  this gum chewing poor me victim-like blamer appears to be very much like

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River Cruz Apologizes to Dr. Lillian Glass and Supporters for Her Suicide Attempt

Thursday, April 1st, 2010

River Cruz was just released from the hospital  and thank God she is doing well and all  our prayers were answered.

EMAIL APOLOGY FROM RIVER CRUZ

I just received the following email from River  which she wanted me to share with so many of the wonderful people out there who prayed for her and showed their concern, compassion,  and support.And YES, she can walk with her head held high!

Here is what she wrote:

Dr.Glass,

I first want to apologize for letting you down. Things got so bad and I think that because I hadn’t been sleeping for days, I  finally snapped.  I truly am sorry for disappointing you.

YOU HAVE STOOD BY ME FROM THE BEGINNING OF ALL THIS AND THAT WAS NOT THE WAY TO RETURN  MY SINCERE GRATITUDE~~SO FOR THAT I AM SO SORRY~”

ADDITIONAL EMAIL FROM RIVER CRUZ

HELLO DR.GLASS~I WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW I JUST LOOKED ON YOUR PAGE AND READ WHAT YOU HAD WROTE. I CANNOT STRESS TO YOU ENOUGH HOW MUCH IT MEANS TO ME IN THE MANNER OF HOW YOU HAVE STOOD BY ME THROUGH THIS WHOLE ORDEAL. IF ANY I CAN WALK WITH MY HEAD UP AND KNOW THAT I HAVE GAINED A TRUE FRIEND WHO NOT ONLY STOOD BESIDE ME BUT NEVER ONCE JUDGED ME FOR MY ACTIONS. YOU ARE THE TRUE MEANING OF A LADY~THANK YOU DR. GLASS I WILL KEEP IN TOUCH WITH YOU AND I PRAY YOU HAVE A BEAUTIFUL LIFE~THANK YOU.  RIVER~~                                               
P.S. YOU ARE MORE THEN WELCOME TO POST THIS TO YOUR READERS~SO THEY IN TURN KNOW THE KIND OF PERSON I THINK IS THE TRUE MEANING OF A FRIEND!!!!!

MY THOUGHTS

I must say am touched and humbled by River’s email to me. I believe now she has learned that she has many other options available to her besides the final  option of suicide.

In my view,  River  has nothing to worry about.  She has new legal counsel with a top of the line Miami based criminal  attorney .

And most important of all she will never have to worry about being used or  thrown under the bus by the Anthony Family in case they may have wanted to create a reasonable doubt scenario about a Zanny the Nanny to get Casey off .

RIVER IS NOT ZANNY THE NANNY

Even though River  may have  somewhat resembled their fictions  Zanny the Nanny description, the reality is that she is NOT Zanny the Nanny.

Casey’s description  in her police interview  really does not describe River  at all. River did not attend the University of Florida or live with her mother and sister and  have no children as Casey said. RIver never lived at the Sawgrass Apartments.

Casey managed to leave the door open as she interjected in her police interview that she and ” her parents were trying to figure out oi Zanny went by another name.”

The operative and key word in Casey’s statement is “parents. ” Perhaps after seeing River, George and  Cindy  concocted  their description of  Zanny the Nanny.

Isn’t it odd that George, Cindy,and Lee  were able to describe a  Zanny the Nanny who was  25 years old, had no children,  a 10, with straight teeth and long dark hair, who  George said weighed  125 , Lee said weighed  130  and Cindy said weighed  140  pounds when they never saw this nanny Casey allegedly described to them?

Apparently River’s twin sister Skye told reporters at one time that George even described the nanny as having an Asian tattoo- a tattoo like her sister  had.

Perhaps the Anthony’s  may have tried to use River  as a prototype to describe  Zanny the Nanny, but they didn’t succeed.  On close inspection, there are too many discrepancies.  For instance , River has children and is not 25.

RIVER’S INFORMATION MAY BE INVALUABLE IN THE CASE

River is not a bad person at all. She made a mistake, which she clearly admits  in that she got involved with a married man who pursued her- George Anthony. She is ashamed of what she did and knows it was wrong.

Still, she did provide valuable  information about the case in that George told her  that Caylee’s death was an accident gone awry. That means George  knew that Caylee’s body was in the WOODS  decomposing while open hearted,  loving,  generous people went searching for little Caylee.

I completely believe that George told this information  to River when they had their affair and that River is telling the truth about this, based on River’s body language, voice and speech analysis and my having spent time speaking with her over the phone.

I also think that it takes a big person to admit their mistakes and to sincerely  apologize to another person.

I wish River all the best and pray for her strength.

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River Cruz Reaches Out to Dr. Lillian Glass To Thank Her For Exposing Her Credibility Through Voice and Body Language Analysis

Friday, March 26th, 2010

WHY I AM SHARING THIS I

I debated whether or not to release the information I am about to share with you in this blog.  I decided to do so because  I believe that it is essential that the public should know everything related to the Casey Anthony Case and anyone that has any association with it.

George Anthony’s alleged mistress,  River Cruise called me up two days ago to thank me for writing the blog I did where I discussed how her body language and her voice and speech content appeared to  credible to me.

Because  I am not River Cruz’  licensed therapist, psychologist, psychiatrist, or any one else’s for that matter, and have never met or treated River,   I am not bound by any confidentiality. So there is no issue here.

But as a voice and body language expert and a media personality, I am bound by the truth. I have no special interest  or agenda  as to  why I support her statement,  other than to state that based on my years of experience as a body language , voice and speech analyst,  it seems to me that she was and is telling the truth. The circumstances of  how she revealed the information also adds to her credibility in my view. She didn’t seek it out. Instead, she was sought out by law enforcement, so she felt compelled to come forward with all that she allegedly knew.

 I also wanted to let the public know about the devastating effects of  what can happen when people are suddenly thrust into the limelight unprepared and having to fend for themselves. Listening to and reading all of the hostile feedback can be devastating as River discovered and wrote on her twitter page.

                                     A PHONE CALL TO ME  FROM RIVER CRUZ

Last Wednesday, I received a phone call in my Beverly Hills office from River Cruise. We spoke at length and she thanked me sincerely for being the only one in the media for coming to her defense in believing that she was telling the truth about George Anthony, who allegedly said to her that Caylee’s death was an” accident”.

 A few days earlier,  I had written a comprehensive blog based on River’s interview which   she had done in the press. I stated that in my view, as a body language and communication expert,  River  was definitely telling the truth and was not lying when she discussed what  George Anthony has told her.

 In analyzing her interview, I  saw no signals of deception.  Furthermore,  I saw a woman who was reluctant to come forward until she was forced to so  by law enforcement. I saw a woman who did not welcome the media attention and who was not out to make a quick buck off of the Caylee Anthony tragedy. These factors also added to her credibility.

My phone conversation with River validated that she was indeed credible and had nothing to hide. I found her to be a very warm and sensitive person who was in a lot of pain over the public’s skepticism.

HOW THE MEDIA ATTENTION AFFECTED RIVER

During our conversation,  River  revealed how difficult all of this media attention has been for her in terms of no one believing her and  the  public’s  being very harsh on her over the internet.

She even mentioned that people in her community were particularly  mean to her and pointing the finger at her  and how her child was even affected by all of this in school.

She felt embarrassed and ashamed that she every got involved with George and felt very bad about it.

RIVER NOT WANTING TO LIVE

She then mentioned to me that she didn’t want to live and began to cry. I told her that she had a lot to live for and that the truth would prevail. I also told her that she did a wonderful thing by coming forward  because she presented information that may be very important in terms of  seeking justice for Caylee.

I also told her that she had a lot to live for because of the people that loved her like her sister and her children and the rest of her family.

 I asked her if I needed to call her sister and let her know she had these thoughts of not wanting to live she said no. I asked her if she had someone there so she wouldn’t be alone. I encouraged her to contact her sister.

I asked her if she was serious about not wanting to live and she assured me that she was not going to do anything to harm herself or to take her life.  Based on the tone of her voice which she exhibited at that particular time, I believed that she did not appear to be in imminent danger at that moment.

She then shared how terribly difficult this has been with people making horrible comments about her over the internet and being so mean to her. She was upset that people accused her of lying when she was being honest.

 I encouraged her to not  take these comments to heart because these people  didn’t know what they were talking about and that she knew the truth and that is all that counted.

ENCOURAGING RIVER TO GET PROFESSIONAL HELP

I then told her that she did not have to suffer through this alone and I strongly suggested  that she see a professional – a therapist to help her during these very difficult emotional times.

She told me that she didn’t want to do so because the attorneys might use it against her to destroy her credibility.

 I told her that she was more important than what any lawyer thought and that she must definitely get some help. I told her that she didn’t have to suffer in silence and that there were people who could give her some help and provide emotional relief.

I also asked her if there was a church nearby and she mentioned that there was one. I  suggested that she contact the minister immediately as he could offer her some immediate  emotional support. She said she would look into it.

To reassure her that she was not alone, I  told her that  appeared to me like a warm and wonderful person and had a lot to live for and encouraged her  to not read these nasty internet comments from “haters” or take them to heart because they don’t know what they are talking about. After all, they didn’t know what she allegedly  knew.

TALKING ABOUT GEORGE

River opened up to me about what she shared with the press and reiterated what George had told her about Caylee’s death being an”accident”. Apparently  according to her , he knew Caylee was dead all the while. As she said this no me over the phone her voice sounded forthright and there were no signals of deception which I picked up.

I was livid when she told me this. I said to her  “ If he knew Caylee was not alive all along, how dare him prey on the hearts of beautiful people out there who took their time and effort to go out and search for Caylee! He should be investigated and be held accountable for his actions if he did in fact know Caylee  was alive all along!”

THE”  ACCIDENT”

Maybe Casey told George it was an “accident”  and George told River. Obviously George  chose to believe his lying daughter. Perhaps  the thought of  George thinking it was an “accident” rather than Casey actually smothering her child  to death and placing duct tape over her mouth and nose  was easier visual for him to handle. So that is why he may have shared ridiculous “accident” story with River, in my view.

Maybe Casey held Caylee under the water in the pool for too long until she drowned. Or maybe she pushed Caylee in the pool and let her down or maybe she gave Caylee too much chloroform which put her to seep for good. In any of these scenarios, I personally  fail to see any “accident.”

 Perhaps convincing himself that it was an accident is George’s way of  being able to live with himself and not seeing himself as some sort of freak who spawned a monster who killed his granddaughter on purpose. Since he was now in the arms of another woman, River,  he wanted to look his best in her eyes.

So,  he may have told her the “accident” story so that he could be viewed the “victim” who’s  granddaughter who died in an “accident” as opposed to being murdered by his own daughter. Perhaps he thought that this scenario would make him seem more palatable  to River  Cruz.    

   Personally I don’t see that Caylee’s death accident. The fact that George could even think that what Casey did is an accident is completely distorted thinking in my view.   No one puts duct tape over a baby’s nose and mouth and a little heart shaped sticker over it in an “accident”.  But I do believe that this is what he told River –that Caylee’s death was an accident.

GERORGE’S PREVIOUS ACTIONS BEGINNING TO MAKE SENSE

To me, based on River’s comments about George , all of this now started  seeming to make sense as to  perhaps why George wasn’t out there “beating the bushes” and  searching for Caylee like everyone else was.  Most parents and grandparents would be the first ones out there searching and leaving no stone unturned.

It also started to make sense to me as to why perhaps Cindy was so awful to Tim Miller of Equisearch, who along with his army of volunteers  tried his best to find Caylee and how Cindy essentially threw  him out.

 All of the contradictions and body language “ tells” that I observed  over these years regarding George suddenly began to appear to  make more sense to me in light of River’s allegation.

All of George’s overreacting and lunging towards someone in anger and wanting to hit them for merely asking George why he wasn’t searching for Caylee. Now it made sense to me why he possibly got so upset and shouted in anger  that” Caylee was alive”  when a protestor said Caylee was dead.  Was George’s reaction like what Shakespeare referred to when he wrote in one of his plays “ me thinks thou dost protest too much”? Anyone who worked in law enforcement as George did early on would know that the longer a child is missing, the greater the possibility of their not being alive. Why would he get so upset by this reasonable comment?

CINDY’S SLIPS OF TELLING EARLY ON CAYLEE WAS NOT IN THE WOODS AND BACKTRACKING

Then  River shared with me the fact that Cindy had a Freudian slip on camera on a news show  where she spoke about Caylee being in the WOODS. River then emailed me the link to a video which documented this. This was at the  time when the WOODS  weren’t even a consideration because everyone was out searching for Caylee everywhere possible.

As I watched  the video, in light of what River said about George and Cindy knowing what happened to Caylee , it appeared now make even  more sense to me.  There as Cindy talking about WOODS when people were just searching for Caylee and wondering where she was. Then Cindy backtracks with “uhms” and  “like you know out there”.

 Then  I listened to the audio  of Cindy  leaving a  massage to Sergeant Allen and saying how she was sure Casey got help ..Cindy’s voice sounded sure and definite. How could anyone in the early days of Caylee going missing sound so sure of anything, let alone getting help! Why was she so sure? Was she so sure because she may have possibly been the one helping Casey? Was she shop sure because  it may have possibly been  George or Lee that helped  Casey? Why was her voice so definite sounding?

I raised these questions in my blog yesterday (Thursday) as I shared this new insight based on the link to the press interview that River sent me, which by the way she also said was on her twitter account as well.

RIVER GIVING GEORGE MONEY

As we continued to speak River shared how she gave George money because she felt sorry for him. This made me even sicker hearing about George. Based on how he came off vocally, speech wise and body language wise  as  Mr Victim, Nice Guy I Want to Be Liked on his Fox 35 interview, where he  seemed to wan everyone to feel sorry for him and blamed the world,  I could only imagine the sob stories he told River to get her to cough up the money. Now hearing it from River’s mouth,  my thoughts of George being a TOXIC MAN are confirmed.

ZANNY THE NANNY RIGHT DOWN TO THE ASIAN TATTOO

We also discussed the fact that she looked so much like the fictious Zanny the Nanny character description  that Cindy and George and Casey referred to . River agreed and even said that she had an Asian tattoo like the one they described.

We even talked about her hair and I told her that one time when I was on Nancy Grace’s show, Nancy was saying how Casey kept saying  that Zanny had curly hair and then she had straight hair and how it was all confusing. Then River told me how she had curly hair but usually wore it straight.

I then  mentioned how descriptive Cindy had been in her deposition and was so sure Zanny was a 10 as she cut down the woman named Zanaida Gonzalez and told her she was not a 10 like the real Zanny. I   River asked if she had ever met Cindy and she did and that she knew Cindy .

Then I started feeling even more nauseated as all these thoughts raced through my mind.    Everything now really seemed to make a lot more sense to me.

Since George and Cindy BOTH  knew River, in my view,  they both obviously used her as a visual  for the prototype of the fictions Zanny the Nanny. That may have been  why Cindy sounded so confident and didn’t skip a beat when she described Zanny to a tee and verbally beat up the innocent Zanaida Gonzalez telling her in such a condescending tone that she was definitely not a 10 like the real Zanny. 
I told River that she  did the right thing in telling all that she knew  because it seemed to me  in my opinion that she may have very well saved her own life, which she agreed.

FINAL WORDS

I assured  River that she was not alone and there were people out there like me who did believe her and not to worry about the naysayers. I told her to stop reading the nasty comments over the internet . I also made her promise me that she would seek out some professional  help and at the least call the minister. I told her that she was free to call me anytime.

 POSTING OF MY BLOG AND POSTIVE COMMENTS

The next day, I posted my blog about looking  at  George and Cindy’s past behavior in light of what was revealed by River. The feedback I received from those who read my blog  was extremely supportive of River.

MY REACHING OUT TO RIVER

Because I knew how upset River was by people’s negative comments, the day before, I called her up to reassure her and to give her some positive feedback. I wanted to  let her know that there were people out there who were indeed supportive towards her. I wanted her to read some of the  positive comments on my latest blog post so that she could feel reassured that she wasn’t alone.

RIVER’S SUICIDE ATTEMPT

But when I called, it wasn’t River who picked up the phone. It was Skye, her twin sister. I told Skye that I was Dr. Lillian Glass and that River had reached out to me the day before.  I  said that I was calling to let her know that I posted a blog where the comments about River were positive so she wouldn’t feel that the whole world was against her.

Skye informed me that it was too late because River  was in the hospital and attempted suicide. I was absolutely shocked! I relayed my prayers to Skye to give to River and told her to tell River that there were a lot of people in her corner and to hang in there, which she appreciated. She said that she woulkd relay the message to River.

As soon as  I got off the phone I received numerous emails from people  who sent me River’s twitter message which said the following:

SUICIDE PACT!!!
I CANT TAKE THIS ANYMORE NOONE UNDERSTANDS WHAT ITS LIKE TO B CONSTENTLY CALLED A LIAR AND B TORN APART BY THE MEDIA
about 8 hours ago via web that whole family knew what happened with caylee~IM TIRED OF ALL THIS I NEVER WANTED AN OF THIS~~~SO NOW ITS TIME

Another person sent me the following messge

“ Dr.Glass you need to contact this woman personally ..she has said somethings regarding suicide..she seems to be exrtremely depressed about all the negative comments being said about her, and the shame she feels for getting involved with geo . I think river could benefit grealty from hearing from you”.

I was so upset the entire night that I could barely sleep. I wished River would have called me. I wished we would have spoken before she made a suicide attempt. Thank God the suicide attempt didn’t work.

THE NEXT DAY

I called River’s phone number  the next day morning and her sister Skye  answered. She told me that  had has visited her sister in the hospital and said she may be  released. I then relayed my prayers and good wishes to both Skye and to her sister River.

 In addition I emailed River and  wrote  her what I  initially wanted to share with her in the phone a day earlier.  about how people were supportive of her and  in her corner. In my email I encouraged her to  hang in there and not pay attention to the negativity and to the haters out there.

MY PRAYERS AND SUPPORT FOR RIVER

River had nothing to gain by coming forth.   In fact she chose to take this information to her grave.  It was only when law enforcement contacted her that she reveal the information she was told by George.

She has not been gallivanting around in the press since she gave that initial interview,  which is further indication that she isn’t out to make  a quick buck off of Caylee’s death. After my conversation with her I found her to be a very lovely  and sensitive woman and  I am even more convinced that she was telling the truth.

I continue to pray for River. Maybe this suicide attempt is a blessing in disguise. Maybe it afforded  her the help she desperately  needed  including  possible medication to help her cope with this trying situation.   www.drlillianglass.com

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River Cruz Reaches Out to Dr. Lillian Glass To Thank Her For Exposing Her Credibility Through Voice and Body Language Analysis

Friday, March 26th, 2010

SHARING MY EXPERIENCE WITH RIVER CRUZ

  I decided to share my experience via a phone conversation with River Cruz because  I believe that it is essential that the public should know everything related to the Casey Anthony Case and anyone that has any association with it.

George Anthony’s alleged mistress,  River Cruise called me up two days ago to thank me for writing the blog I did where I discussed how her body language and her voice and speech content appeared to  credible to me.

Because  I am not River Cruz’  licensed therapist, psychologist, psychiatrist, or any one else’s for that matter, and have never met or treated River,   I am not bound by any confidentiality. So there is no issue here.

But as a voice and body language expert and a media personality, I am bound by the truth. I have no special interest  or agenda  as to  why I support her statement,  other than to state that based on my years of experience as a body language , voice and speech analyst,  it seems to me that she was and is telling the truth.

The circumstances of  how she revealed the information also adds to her credibility in my view. She didn’t seek it out. Instead, she was sought out by law enforcement, so she felt compelled to come forward with all that she allegedly knew.

 I also wanted to let the public know about the devastating effects of  what can happen when people are suddenly thrust into the limelight unprepared, and have to fend for themselves. Listening to and reading all of the hostile feedback can be devastating as River discovered and wrote on her twitter page.

    A PHONE CALL TO ME  FROM RIVER CRUZ

This  Wednesday, I received a phone call in my Beverly Hills office from River Cruise. We spoke at length and she thanked me sincerely for being the only one in the media to come to her defense in believing that she was telling the truth about George Anthony, who allegedly said to her that Caylee’s death was an” accident”.

 A few days earlier,  I had written a comprehensive blog based on River’s interview that she had done in the press. I stated that in my view, as a body language and communication expert,  River  was definitely telling the truth and was not lying when she discussed what  George Anthony had told her.

 In analyzing her interview, I  saw no signals of deception.  Furthermore,  I saw a woman who was reluctant to come forward until she was forced to so  by law enforcement. I saw a woman who did not welcome the media attention and who was not out to make a quick buck off of the Caylee Anthony tragedy. These factors also added to her credibility.

My phone conversation with River validated that she was indeed credible and had nothing to hide. I found her to be a very warm and sensitive person who was in a lot of pain over the public’s skepticism.

HOW THE MEDIA ATTENTION AFFECTED RIVER

During our conversation,  River  revealed how difficult all of this media attention has been for her in terms of no one believing her and  the  public’s  being very harsh on her over the internet.

She even mentioned that people in her community were particularly  mean to her and pointing the finger at her  and how her child was even affected by all of this in school.

She felt embarrassed and ashamed that she every got involved with George and felt very bad about it.

RIVER NOT WANTING TO LIVE

She then mentioned to me that she didn’t want to live and began to cry. I told her that she had a lot to live for and that the truth would prevail. I also told her that she did a wonderful thing by coming forward  because she presented information that may be very important in terms of  seeking justice for Caylee.

I also told her that she had a lot to live for because of the people that loved her like her sister and her children and the rest of her family.

 I asked her if I needed to call her sister and let her know she had these thoughts of not wanting to live  and she said no. I asked her if she had someone there so she wouldn’t be alone. I encouraged her to contact her sister.

I asked her if she was serious about not wanting to live and she assured me that she was not going to do anything to harm herself or to take her life.  Based on the tone of her voice which she exhibited at that particular time, I believed that she did not appear to be in imminent danger at that moment.

She then shared how terribly difficult this has been with people making horrible comments about her over the Internet and being so mean to her. She was upset that people accused her of lying when she was being honest.

 I encouraged her to not  take these comments to heart because these people  didn’t know what they were talking about and that she knew the truth and that is all that counted.

ENCOURAGING RIVER TO GET PROFESSIONAL HELP

I then told her that she did not have to suffer through this alone and I strongly suggested  that she see a professional – a therapist to help her during these very difficult emotional times.

She told me that she didn’t want to do so because the attorneys might use it against her to destroy her credibility.

 I told her that she was more important than what any lawyer thought and that she must definitely get some help. I told her that she didn’t have to suffer in silence and that there were people who could give her some help and provide emotional relief.

I also asked her if there was a church nearby and she mentioned that there was one. I  suggested that she contact the minister immediately as he could offer her some immediate  emotional support. She said she would look into it.

To reassure her that she was not alone, I  told her that  appeared to me like a warm and wonderful person and had a lot to live for and encouraged her  to not read these nasty internet comments from “haters” or take them to heart because they don’t know what they are talking about. After all, they didn’t know what she allegedly  knew. They weren’ t there. Instead, she was there.

TALKING ABOUT GEORGE

River opened up to me about what she shared with the press and reiterated what George had told her about Caylee’s death being an”accident”. Apparently  according to her , he knew Caylee was dead all the while. As she said this no me over the phone her voice sounded forthright and there were no signals of deception which I picked up.

I was livid when she told me this. I said to her  “ If he knew Caylee was not alive all along, how dare him prey on the hearts of beautiful people out there who took their time and effort to go out and search for Caylee! He should be investigated and be held accountable for his actions if he did in fact know Caylee  was alive all along!”

THE”  ACCIDENT”

Maybe Casey told George it was an “accident”  and George then River.

Obviously George  chose to believe his lying daughter. Perhaps  the thought of  George thinking it was an “accident” rather than Casey actually smothering her child  to death and placing duct tape over her mouth and nose  was easier visual for him to handle. So that is why he may have shared ridiculous “accident” story with River, in my view.

Maybe Casey held Caylee under the water in the pool for too long until she drowned. Or maybe she pushed Caylee in the pool and let her down or maybe she gave Caylee too much chloroform which put her to seep for good. In any of these scenarios, I personally  fail to see any “accident.”

 Perhaps convincing himself that it was an”accident” s George’s way of  being able to live with himself and not seeing himself as some sort of freak who spawned a monster who killed his granddaughter on purpose. Since he was now in the arms of another woman, River,  he  noi doubt wanted to look his best in her eyes.

So,  he may have told her the “accident” story so that he could be viewed the “victim” who’s  granddaughter who died in an “accident” as opposed to being murdered by his own daughter. Perhaps he thought that this scenario would make him seem more palatable  to River  Cruz.    

   Personally I don’t see that Caylee’s death accident. The fact that George could even think that what Casey did is an accident is completely distorted thinking in my view.   No one puts duct tape over a baby’s nose and mouth and a little heart shaped sticker over it in an “accident”.  But I do believe that this is what he told River –that Caylee’s death was an accident.

GERORGE’S PREVIOUS ACTIONS NOW  BEGINNING TO MAKE SENSE

To me, based on River’s comments about George , all of this now started   to make sense as to  perhaps why George wasn’t out there “beating the bushes” and  searching for Caylee like everyone else was.  Most parents and grandparents would be the first ones out there searching and leaving no stone unturned.

It also started to make sense to me as to why perhaps Cindy was so awful to Tim Miller of Equisearch, who along with his army of volunteers  tried his best to find Caylee and how Cindy essentially threw  him out. Did she already know Casey was dead?

 All of the contradictions and body language “ tells” that I observed  over these years regarding George suddenly began to appear to  make more sense to me in light of River’s allegation.

All of George’s overreacting and lunging towards someone in anger and wanting to hit them for merely asking George why he wasn’t searching for Caylee. Now it made sense to me why he possibly got so upset and shouted in anger  that” Caylee was alive”  when a protestor said Caylee was dead.

 Was George’s reaction like what Shakespeare referred to when he wrote in one of his plays “ me thinks thou dost protest too much”? Anyone who worked in law enforcement as George did early on would know that the longer a child is missing, the greater the possibility of their not being alive. Why would he get so upset by this reasonable comment?

CINDY’S SLIPS OF TELLING EARLY ON CAYLEE WAS NOT IN THE WOODS AND BACKTRACKING

Then  River shared with me the fact that Cindy had a Freudian slip on camera on a news show  where she spoke about Caylee being in the WOODS. River then emailed me the link to a video which documented this. This was at the  time when the WOODS  weren’t even a consideration because everyone was out searching for Caylee everywhere possible.

As I watched  the video, in light of what River said about George and Cindy knowing what happened to Caylee , it appeared now make even  more sense to me.  There was Cindy talking about WOODS when people were just searching for Caylee and wondering where she was. Then Cindy backtracks with “uhms” and  “like you know out there.”

 Then  I listened to the audio  of Cindy  leaving a  massage to Sergeant Allen and saying how she was sure Casey got help .Cindy’s voice sounded sure and definite.

 How could anyone in the early days of Caylee going missing sound so sure of anything, let alone getting help! Why was she so sure? Was she so sure because she may have possibly been the one helping Casey? Was she so sure because  it may have possibly been  George or Lee that helped  Casey? Why was her voice so definite sounding?

I raised these questions in my blog yesterday (Thursday) as I shared this new insight based on the link to the press interview that River sent me, which by the way she also said was on her twitter account as well.http://twitter.com/RiverC01

GIVING GEORGE MONEY

As we continued to speak River shared how she gave George money because she felt sorry for him. This made me even sicker hearing about George.

Based on how he came off vocally, speech wise and body language wise  as  Mr Victim, Nice Guy I Want to Be Liked on his Fox 35 interview, where he  seemed to want  everyone to feel sorry for him and blamed the world,  I could only imagine the sob stories he told River to get her to cough up the money.

Now hearing it from River’s mouth,  my thoughts of George being a TOXIC MAN are confirmed.

ZANNY THE NANNY RIGHT DOWN TO THE ASIAN TATTOO

We also discussed the fact that she looked so much like the fictious Zanny the Nanny character description  that Cindy and George and Casey referred to . River agreed and even said that she had an Asian tattoo like the one they described.

We even talked about her hair and I told her that one time when I was on Nancy Grace’s show, Nancy was saying how Casey kept saying  that Zanny had curly hair and then she had straight hair and how it was all confusing. Then River told me how she had curly hair but usually wore it straight.

I then  mentioned how descriptive Cindy had been in her deposition and was so sure Zanny was a 10 as she cut down the woman named Zanaida Gonzalez and told her she was not a 10 like the real Zanny. I   River asked if she had ever met Cindy and she did and that she knew Cindy .

Then I started feeling even more nauseated as all these thoughts raced through my mind.   Everything now really seemed to make a lot more sense to me!

Since George and Cindy BOTH  knew River, in my view,  they BOTH obviously must have used her as a visual  for the prototype of the fictions Zanny the Nanny.

 That may have been  why Cindy sounded so confident and didn’t skip a beat when she described Zanny to a tee and verbally beat up the innocent Zanaida Gonzalez telling her in such a condescending tone that she was definitely not a 10 like the real Zanny. 
I told River that she  did the right thing in telling all that she knew  because it seemed to me  in my opinion that she may have very well saved her own life, which she agreed.

FINAL WORDS

I assured  River that she was not alone and there were people out there like me who did believe her and not to worry about the naysayers. I told her to stop reading the nasty comments over the internet .

I also made her promise me that she would seek out some professional  help and at the least call the minister. I told her that she was free to call me anytime.

POSTING OF MY BLOG AND POSTIVE COMMENTS

The next day, I posted my blog about looking  at  George and Cindy’s past behavior in light of what was revealed by River. The feedback I received from those who read my blog  was extremely supportive of River.

MY REACHING OUT TO RIVER

Because I knew how upset River was by people’s negative comments, the day before, I called her up to reassure her and to give her some positive feedback.

 I wanted to  let her know that there were people out there who were indeed supportive towards her. I wanted her to read some of the  positive comments on my latest blog post so that she could feel reassured that she wasn’t alone.

RIVER’S SUICIDE ATTEMPT

But when I called, it wasn’t River who picked up the phone. It was Skye, her twin sister. I told Skye that I was Dr. Lillian Glass and that River had reached out to me the day before.  I  said that I was calling to let her know that I posted a blog where the comments about River were positive so she wouldn’t feel that the whole world was against her.

Skye informed me that it was too late because River  was in the hospital and attempted suicide.

 I was absolutely shocked!

 I relayed my prayers to Skye to give to River and told her to tell River that there were a lot of people in her corner and to hang in there, which she appreciated. She said that she woulkd relay the message to River.

As soon as  I got off the phone I received numerous emails from people  who sent me River’s twitter message which said the following:

SUICIDE PACT!!!
I CANT TAKE THIS ANYMORE NOONE UNDERSTANDS WHAT ITS LIKE TO B CONSTENTLY CALLED A LIAR AND B TORN APART BY THE MEDIA
about 8 hours ago via web that whole family knew what happened with caylee~IM TIRED OF ALL THIS I NEVER WANTED AN OF THIS~~~SO NOW ITS TIME

Another person sent me the following messge

“ Dr.Glass you need to contact this woman personally ..she has said somethings regarding suicide..she seems to be exrtremely depressed about all the negative comments being said about her, and the shame she feels for getting involved with geo . I think river could benefit grealty from hearing from you”.

I was so upset the entire night that I could barely sleep. I wished River would have called me. I wished we would have spoken before she made a suicide attempt. Thank God the suicide attempt didn’t work.

THE NEXT DAY

I called River’s phone number  the next day morning and her sister Skye  answered. She told me that  had has visited her sister in the hospital and said she may be  released.

 I then relayed my prayers and good wishes to both Skye and to her sister River.

 In addition I emailed River and  wrote  her what I  initially wanted to share with her in the phone a day earlier.  about how people were supportive of her and  in her corner.

 In my email I encouraged her to  hang in there and not pay attention to the negativity and to the haters out there.

MY PRAYERS AND SUPPORT FOR RIVER

River had nothing to gain by coming forth.   In fact she chose to take this information to her grave.  It was only when law enforcement contacted her that she reveal the information she was told by George.

She has not been gallivanting around in the press since she gave that initial interview,  which is further indication that she isn’t out to make  a quick buck off of Caylee’s death.

After my conversation with her I found her to be a very lovely  and sensitive woman and  I am even more convinced that she was telling the truth.

I continue to pray for River. Maybe this suicide attempt is a blessing in disguise. Maybe it afforded  her the help she desperately  needed  including  possible medication to help her cope with this trying situation.   http://www.drlillianglass.com

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Did George’s Defensive Body Language and Cindy’s WOODS Comment Early On Indicate That They May Have Known Caylee Was Already Dead When People Searched For Her?

Thursday, March 25th, 2010

If what River Cruz says is true and truly I believe it is, then George and Cindy may have wasted our precious time, our prayers, and the good will of humanity.

 If what River Cruz says is true, then I believe Cindy and George should be punished to the full extent of the law and serve a  prison term along with their daughter.

Lets go back and look at George and Cindy’s behavior and body language, vocal, and speech patterns while Caylee was allegedly missing.


DID GEORGE LASH OUT EARLY ON BECAUSE A PROTESTER GOT TOO CLOSE TO THE TRUTH?


During the time when people were searching for Caylee, George got violent and  was ready to hit a protester who merely asked George why he wasn’t out searching for Caylee?  George apparently  lunged  towards and tried to push the protester for  merely asking a legitimate question.

Is it possible based on  what we allegedly know from River, that  this question got him right where it counts?  Was it too much truth for him to bear? Was he not joining the search because he in fact knew his grand daughter  was already dead?

There was also a time when a protester yelled out that Caylee was dead and George got overly  upset saying that she as not dead, even though she as missing for over a month at the time. Being in law enforcement, George knew quite well that the longer a child is missing, the less the chances are of her being alive. Was he protesting too much because he in fact knew Casey was indeed dead?

In retrospect, was his reaction a signal of his guilt? Did he have something to hide?  Did he already know Caylee was dead and didn’t want people to go down that road? Did he want to build a case that Cayleee was alive by sending people on a wild goose chase to find her, when he may have known something different?.

It seems to me that this  makes  more sense now that River’s information has become public.

The fact that Cindy orchestrated all of George’s movements and comments on television is also a red flag to me. We saw by her grabbing his arm and signaling him. Did Cindy not want George to say or do anything that would indicate Caylee wasn’t alive,  so they their programmed verbal plan?

The fact that they would fly here and there using  who knows who’s money on Caylee  sightings is also sickening, especially if they did indeed know this little girl was dead all along.

I always thought it was odd when I saw the photos of the Cayalee look-alikes, that these grandparents  who lived with her since day one wouldn’t immediately  recognize that it wasn’t their grand-daughter.

CINDY’S SLIP  IN TALKING ABOUT THE WOODS AND TELLING SERGEANT ALLEN CASEY GOT HELP


Early on Cindy was  very convinced Caylee was alive and even knew where she was and where she wasn’t.  She says something that now may make more sense, now that we  know that Caylee was found in the WOODS.

Out of the blue Cindy says “ George and I don’t believe Caylee is in the WOODS … you know out there.”  Why in the world would she be talking about THE WOODS of all things during those early days? Her “you know” is an attempt to backtrack, verbally.   Why would ANYONE suspect Caylee was in the  WOODS when people were looking everywhere  for Caylee? Did Cindy know when she gave that interview that Caylee was already dead  in the WOODS?

The above statement Cindy made is also peculiar as was her looking up and to the right and left- signals of deception. How does she know they are getting close ?  Is this more of her  BS because she mayhave  known Caylee wasn’t alive at that point?

During that time Cindy made a call to Sargent Allen and left a voice mail where she said “  Casey had to have had help no matter what you think the scenario might be.”

Cindy’s voice quality reflected that she was very sure that Casey got some help. Was she the one who was helping Casey? Was it George or Lee? How was Cindy so sure Casey got some help?

WHY I BELIEVE RIVER IS TELLING THE TRUTH


River Cruz coming forward and revealing what she did, albeit reluctantly, may have possibly uncovered real truth in The Anthony saga.  It may have possibly  even saved her from “ being thrown under the bus” or “sold down the river”  by George and Cindy.

I say Thank goodness River Cruz’, George Anthony’s alleged mistress’ information is now on record stating that George told her Caylee’s death was an accident gone awry.

WHAT WAS THAT ALLEGED ACCIDENT?

I wonder if that” accident” was Casey giving Caylee too much chloroform when she put her  to sleep in her trunk and Caylee never waking up. I wonder if that “accident” was Casey putting duct  tape over Caylee’s mouth to stop her from crying or getting on her nerves and then putting it over Caylee’s nose as well until she stopped breathing.  In any event, the fact that George would think any of these egregious acts was an “accident” speaks volumes about him.

Anyone who doesn’t believe River Cruz is grossly mistaken in my view.  My body language and voice analysis of her shows no signals of deception in her spontaneous unplanned interview. Since she had no time to prepare or formulate her answer, her behaviors were raw and genuine.

SO WHAT IF SHE HAS AN ALLEGED ARREST RECORD! IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH HER TRUTHFULLNESS IN THIS SITUATION!

To anyone that tries to impeach her by saying she has an arrest record and used another name and that River Cruz is her alias, I say “So what”? It has absolutely NOTHING to do with her communication with George. The Anthony’s attorney Brad Conway has mentioned these things in the press as an attempt to punch holes in her credibility.

Bounty Hunter Leonard Padialla says he doesn’t believe River either, but he doesn’t know for sure as it is just speculation on his part.  

Keep in mind that when a person voluntarily comes forward they may have  another agenda like their 15 minutes of fame and getting that fame whether they tell the truth or not. But in Rivers case she did NOT want to come forward. She was forced forward by law enforcement and to me that is a big part of the truth equation,

Also both Leonard and Brad Conway were not privy to George and River’s bedroom talk!

Brad wasn’t there between the sheets with River and George and neither was Leonard, so they would never know for sure. Intimate talk happens when all of your defenses are down and when you usually naked. So that is another reason I believe River.

HER PAST HAS NOTHING TO SO WITH HER PRESENT

Also if someone gets arrested for let’s say a DUI or a doing something stupid when they were younger like shop lifting that doesn’t necessarily make them a liar. That doesn’t impede their credibility in my view. A liar is someone who is constantly caught in lies over and over again like Casey Anthony.

LOTS OF PEOPLE CHANGE THEIR NAME

As far as her name change, lots of people change their name when they become adults for a variety of reasons. Look at Hollywood actors and actresses. Along with their head shots  comes a change of name for many as they head into show business.

 Not that River is in show business, but I wanted to point out that  people do in fact change their names for a number of reasons. Psychologically it may be that someone wants a new start in life so it is a symbolic reason they may change their name- legally or not.

GEORGE MAY HAVE SOLD RIVER A BILL OF GOODS REGARDING THEIR RELATIONSHIP

And for those of you who point the finger at River because she had an affair with a married man, remember that SHE  was single. HE was married, not her. So if you are going to point the finger, point it at George before you point it at River.

We don’t know what bill of goods George sold River. We don’t know if he told her he would leave Cindy or even marry River or at least be with her for the long term. I suspect that may have been the case. She definitely, in my opinion, was told something about their relationship having a long future, otherwise she would have NEVER forked over 5K to him. Women  ususally do this when they think there will be a future with a man. They don’t often fork over money to any man with whom they think they won’t haver a future.

George was exceptionally needy from what we have seen. So he may have pursued River with  vengeance and promised her things he knew he had no intention of delivering,  just to get some TLC and some loving.  I wouldn’t  put it past him after seeing his Fox 35 interview where he portrays himself as   the perennial victim.

Since River is so adamant about not being in the public and seems like a reasonably intelligent woman, so  I doubt that she would have pursued a man with such high visibility. So that is what leads me to be believe that he was no doubt the pursuer.

Many women especially real  nurturing types of women, will open their  hearts an pocketbooks to men they think are in trouble to help them out.  Unfortunately it is a HUGE mistake as River found out.

MAKING MONEY FROM AN INTERVIEW

If River was interested in making money off the case then she no doubt would have come forward by  herself and not waited for law enforcement to track her down from George’s phone records. ‘

She would have  been all over the media capitalizing on her association with George and her secret information.

Instead, she was reluctant to come foreward.  We all saw her practically  in tears as she walked away from the interview saying that she didn’t ask for this and didn’t want all this publicity. That is a HUGE signal that someone is NOT into this for the money or for the fame.

As far as the Enquirer goes and whether or not she got paid, from what we know it was her sister who may have approached them. The Enquirer like many media publications,  does offer to pay for exclusive high profile stories.

In fact,  for a magazine spread they did on Rachel Uchitel, OK Magazine paid a lot of money to Tiger Woods’ sex partner. Most high profile actors and actresses are paid huge sums of money by magazines  for exclusive wedding or baby photos. So what is the difference here?

The Enquirer may jack up a headline or two to whet reader’s appetites. But the content of their stories are checked and fact checked for the most part. Sometimes they do fall through the cracks and when they do, they are often sued. No one wants to be tied up in litigation so they are very careful. Since this is such a high profile case, you had better believe they were careful. You can be sure they had their team of attorneys just like most magazines have, checking things over.

Also we just learned that ABC paid Casey 250 K for photos and licensing of materials. So why get upset because River or her  sister may have possibly  received some money  for an exclusive article?

RIVER MAY HAVE SAVED HER OWN LIFE

There is another reason I am happy River came forward. She may have saved her own life. From what I understand she is a mother and she in essence saved her life for her children’s sake. How did she save her own life?

We know from Cindy’s past and ruthless   behavior that she tried   to throw several people under the bus  to save her Casey.  Look at what she tried to do to innocent Jesse Grund, Casey’s early on boyfriend, and to his family. They tried to accuse him of being involved in Caylee’s death. Look what they did to Amy Huizinga.

Did George tell Casey about River and describe River to Casey? Did they both collude to make up a  Zanny the Nanny  character who looked exactly like River? Was Cindy in on it?

I found it odd in her deposition that Cindy had such a detailed description of  Zanny the Nanny when she said she  never saw her. In fact Cindy obnoxiously said that Zanaida was a 10 and that the  Zanaida who sat in front of her was definitely not a 10. This cruel statement   devastated the poor innocent young lady. How was Cindy so sure how the real Zanny the Nanny looked?

George followed suit in his description, as he described Zanny as well.

Casey said Zanny the Nanny was a  Latina, had dark skin, wore her hair curly and then straight, had kids of her own, had a sister, had a mother, was about 5 foot 6,  had nice teeth,  had an Asian tattoo, and was a 10!

That is the exactly the description of River Cruz!

Now that this detailed description Casey gave of  “the last person who saw  Caylee” was documented to law enforcement   and validated in the depositions of George and Cindy , what is to say that George and Cindy could not have come forward during Casey’s criminal trial and  pointed the finger at River Cruz?

After all River has the same identifying characteristics as Zanny the Nanny, right down to her Asian tattoo.

What would  prevent them from saying that River was the real culprit who kidnapped Caylee and killed her? What would prevent Casey from saying that River falsely told her that her name was  Zanaida Gonzalez and that she was a babysitter who babysat for Caylee for years?

While it may seem like a  far fetched scenario, anything is possible with Cindy and George in my opinion. Always remember what Cindy tried to do to innocent Jesse Grund.

Could River have been used to create a reasonable doubt so that Casey could get off scott free?

Well now that River’s affair with George  it is out in the open this could never happen. But what if it wasn’t out in the open? Could she have been used as an escape goat for Casey?

WHY CINDY AND GEORGE NEED A LAWYER

The bottom line is that George and Cindy need to be investigated to the point that there is no stone that is unturned. If they knew that Casey was dead while others tried their best to find her, then they should be given no mercy in a court of  law.

I always wondered why George and Cindy had a lawyer. It didn’t make sense to me  that innocent grandparents would have to have an attorney. But after River’s statement which indicates that George may have known Caylee was dead while he allowed others to search for Caylee,  I now see why they definitely need a lawyer.

CINDY AND HER BRA


In my last blog I said that Cindy needed to invest in a bra. I was not being petty. I was being honest and observant. The way a person dresses and comports him or herself is also a  part of body language analysis. Just as Cindy’s gum smacking during her deposition showed disrespect, her lack of wearing a bra or one that fits properly, speaks to her lack of self- respect in my view.

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George and Cindy Anthony’s Body Language Shows Trouble in Their Relationship

Tuesday, March 23rd, 2010

PHONINESS  IN HAND HOLDING

 George and Cindy Anthony can hold hands all they  want and even smile as they  pretend everything is fine between them, but THE BODY DOESN’T LIE AND NEITHER DOES THE FACE OR THE VOICE. They can get all the image consulting they want but eventually the truth will leak out in the way they move and speak.

I know this for a fact as I have spent over two decades helping people how to improve their image, the way they speak  and their body language. While it may work for a movie role and even for a job interview, in order for it to stick on a long term basis and become a part of you there has to be a significant change in your psyche. It takes considerable  time and effort.

So, when I see this  photo of George and Cindy holding hands and Cindy smiling like she doesn’t have a care in the world, she and George are NOT fooling anyone. I see right through them.

In this photo we see too much physical distance between them. When a couple is connected even if they are an old married couple who have been married for decades, the physical distance between them is not as great as we see with Cindy and George.

George is stiff in his body language as you can see by the rigidity in  his muscles. When people are that tense looking around one another it usually means that they don’t really like one another that much.

Also George is looking down ands she is giving a phony smile for the cameras. When a couple isn’t looking in the same direction, it means that they are not like minded. George”s facial ecxpression shows a phoney smile as well. His lips are tight and pursed  which actually shows anger. The furrowed brow and tension in his eyes also show upset. So this is NOT a happy man around Cindy.

When people really like one another they tend to gravitate towards each other like magnets. In this case George and Cindy’s upper and lower  bodies  appear to repel one another.

50 SOMETHING YEAR OLDS NEED TO WEAR  BRAS 

On a side note, Cindy should really invest in a bra. To me it doesn’t look as though she is weraring one and  if that is the case it speaks volumes. She is not  a teenager or a woman in her 20′s who may not need one. She is in her late 50′s and definately needs one.

 If  by chance she is wearing a bra, she needs to stop putting money into Casey’s monthly jail account so Casey can buy herself snacks and spend that money on buying herself a proper fitting bra so she doesn’t look so sloppy.

THE COLD SHOULDER

We have all heard the expression “giving them the cold shoulder.” It is not just an expression. It is a reality. This is exactly how it looks. When people’s shoulders are raised around another person, it means that they are distancing themselves from that person. In essence, the are forming a barrier betweenn themselves and the other person.

In this photo we see George  literally giving  Cindy  the cold shoulder as they walk together. Once again they are looking in different directions which  shows that they are not in synch with one another.  George looks down and he looks pained.

The cold shoulder senario continues in the  courtroom. Only this time it is Cindy who is cold shouldering George as you can see. George seems to be in his own world and isn’t even aware of  Cindy as you see.

Cindy  looks upset and disconnnected from George. Her upset can be seen in the tension around her jaw area.  

TURNED HER BACK ON HIM

In the courtroom, Cindy turns around to speak to the person in back of her. In doing so he turns her back to George. This is extremely rude and is a hostile act.

We have all heard the expressed “he turned his back on him or her.”There is a lot of truth to that. When you literally turn your back to someone it means that you reject them and are blocking them out.  That is what Cindy is doing to George.

 Then Cindy had to leave the room and didn’t tell George that she was leaving. She just got up and walked it front of him as though he wasn’t even there. This is yet another indication that she is turned off with George.

FACES DON’T LIE

Cindy is pissed off at George and it shows facially as well. She is angry. Now that we know about his alleged affair with River Cruz, it makes a lot more sense as to why he didn’t return her ‘I love you too.”

When Cindy mouthed the words “ I love you” to George when she was sitting next to him in the courtroom the time Casey was giving her lame and phony apology to Amy Huizenga. George sat there like a bump on a log and ignored her.

All of this sudden hand holding is clearly for show. George has been outed for his alleged affair with the Zanaida prototype River Cruz and he and Cindy are trying to BS everyone and make like they are so in love and together. But it is clear BS  and it is not working !  

GEORGE MAY BE AS TOXIC AS CASEY

If it is indeed true that George had an affair with River Cruz, the Zanaida prototype during the time everyone went frantically searching for Caylee, I feel like to vomit on him. HOW DARE HE!!! 

And if what River and her sister Skye say is true that George knew that Caylee was dead and that it was an accident gone awry, then he needs to be prosecuted to the full extent of the law and  be put into a cell forever.

I don’t buy the Anthony’s attorney Brad Conway’s statement that River and Sky had rap sheets and aliases and that is what makes them non credible. That has nothing to do with anything in my view.

Skye and River did not come to the press first. Law enforcement came to them and that is how they were found out. If they were after money they would have come foreward ahead of time.

If this is true, can you imagine how much time and effort George WASTED? People are genuinely good and beautiful.They want to help. They give of their time, their pocketbooks, and or their hearts.

Millions of people all over the world gave of their hearts. They  wanted Caylee to be alive. They prayed for her . They held vigils. The prayed she was alive but  were even  prepared if  Caylee was no longer  alive.

They  prayed that her little body would be found so that she could have a proper burial with respect and dignity.

So if  George was that TOXIC to toy with the public’s heart and good humanity, I say punish him to full extent of the law. There is NO excuse for this! This weak spineless hypocrite who worked in law enforecement and said that he knew the smell of a dead body, knew EXACTLY was was going on.

Cindy and her pizza box theory is no better! She too must have known something. She  was pretty descriptive when she put that poor real Zanaida Gonzalez down and told her she wasn’t a 10. Her behavior has been horrible throughout this ordeal.

One one level I can understand why George may have wanted to get away from Cindy and her constant harping and control. We certianly saw how she controlled him like a puppet during the Larry King interviews.

But George needed to man up and walk away from Cindy. He didn’t need to lie and cheat and have a mistress and act like a spineless wimp if what River says is tue.

CASEY HAS MOVED ON AS FAR AS CINDY AND GEORGE ARE CONCERNED

  There is no question that Casey has moved on as far as her parents are concerned. And who can blame her. How could George and Cindy claim they love Casey and NOT visit her. Who cares what the public thinks!  Who cares if Casey is scrutinized by me or anyone else?

They needed to go into the jail and tell her they loved her and leave . They didnt have to speak about the case.

Casey doesn’t even acknowledge them when they are in the courtroom. It was actually sad to see George and Cindy standing up and trying to get Casey’s attention as she left the courtroom. Casey could care less. She completely ignored them. She has no use for them and is no doubt upset that they never came to visit her.

Maybe George and Cindy not visiting  Casey in jail  becuase they are afraid they will be scrutinized  is just an excuse.

 Maybe they really don’t want to see her up close and personal becuase they know in their heart of hearts what she did to their beloved grand baby.

GEORGE AND CINDY NEED TO GET REAL

In any event, I think that George and Cindy  need to get real and stop playing games and trying to pull one over on the public that all is well between them and they are so lovey dovey when they are not! Their  body language says it ALL!

They are better off showing up in court separately becuase no doubt  when this is all over and Casey will be sitting in her new prison cell on Death Row, both George and Cindy will no doubt, go their separate ways. 

They will most likely write their separate books and do their separate TV appearances.

 Since he wouldn’t be with Cindy anymore, George  wouldn’t have to sneak and lie and hide and have a mistress. Instead, he could have a bona fide girlfriend. Perhaps he might even start a new family and learn some valuable lessons from what he did to this family.

The one lesson he should have learned is that when you raise a child you need to set boundaries and not let them get away with their crap. Otherwise you create another Casey Anthony.

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George Anthony’s Mistress’s Body Language Shows She Is Telling The Truth

Tuesday, March 16th, 2010

CHEATING GEORGE

When a conservative  middle aged man makes significant changes to his physical  appearance like getting a tattoo or getting his ears pierced, it is often a red flag that something may be up in terms of  his cheating on his spouse.

When I heard George Anthony’s interview months back saying that he got his ears pierced for “Casey” something didn’t sit right with me, especially since he hadn’ t seen Casey for quite some time.

Then when George was in court during Casey’s latest appearance where she gave her fake teared apology to Amy Huizenga, I noticed another red flag. Wife Cindy leaned over to George and mouthed the words “I love you.” George essentially ignored her. He didn’t respond at all. He didn’t  say ” I love you back.” He didn’t even smile. Body language wise this is a very bad sign for his relationship wit Cindy. It  says to me that their relationship is in big trouble- at least from George’s standpoint.

LYING GEORGE

So when it has come out that George has had a mistress- River Cruz, and has been lying to and  cheating on his wife Cindy ,  it did not surprise me at all. Itcertainly did give me some more insight into Casey’s lying and promiscuous behavior and the “apple not falling too far from the tree” as the saying goes.

The only truth George has told was early on when he spoke to law enforcement and confirmed that he smelled a dead body in the  car. Since then he has been living a lie in protecting Casey. He as wasted everyone’s time and energy early on who searched for Caylee, while no doubt knowing that she was not alive all along, if what mistress River Cruz says is true. 

I always wondered why George and Cindy would need an attorney. They didn’t have anything to do with Caylee’s death. But now it makes sense to me . If what this mistress says is true and he knew that Caylee had died becuase of an accident and yet telling everyone that Caylee was with kidnappers, he may be in serious legal trouble.

RIVER CRUZ OPEN AND SINCERE BODY LANGUAGE

There were certain things George Anthony’s mistress River Cruz did that indicate to me is telling the truth about George. The first thing I noticed when she was speaking to reporters was her open hands and showing her palms when gesturing. When people do this they usually have nothing to hide and are telling the truth.

  Whern  she said that she not have any money motive, I believe her.When people put their hand on their heart and spread open their fingers as to cover their entire heart, it shows that what they are saying is heartfelt and that they are being sincere. She said that she has only come forward when people knocked on her door and that if she wanted to cash in, she would have done it two years ago.  That makes sense to me.

                                         SIGNALS OF DESPAIR

If you closely examine this  photo of Cruz after she was asked if George said that what happened to Caylee was an accident, her facial expression leaks out a signal of despair. You cannot fake that emotion.  She is showing despair at what happened to Caylee .”

NOTHING TO HIDE WITH OPEN EYE CONTACT

She also looks directly at reporters with wide open eyes  indicating that she has nothing to hide and does not waiver as she says that she  stands by her statement.

SIGNALS OF ANGER AT GEORGE TAKING HER MONEY

Here we see River’s anger when discussing George with her  furrowed forehead and pursed lips as she says how she is not trying to cash in on anything. She states that in fact George took money from her.

HURT AND EMBARASSED ABOIUT BEING USED AS THE ZANAIDA PROTOTYPE

Whenasked if  she felt she was the prototype n for “ Zanaida Gonzalez,”n she bowed her head in shame and embarassent. There was a look of hurt that leaked across her face as she no doubt felt that she and her physical  was used  in the whole Zanaida Gonzalez debacle.

She couldn’t even speak at this point. All she did was nod her head ”
yes.”She clearly had the hurt expression one has when they find out they have been “used.”

 When Casey  said Zanaida was beautiful and she had a sister and Zanaida’s hair was dark and curly and she had brown eyes, it certainly seems to be a carbon copy of River Cruz. Did George feed Casey the description of  “Zany”? Did Casey know George was having an affair? Is George and accomplice?

GEORGE’S ATTORNEY POO POO’S  THE NATIONAL ENQUIRER WHO  ALSO BUSTED JOHN EDWARDS

Then George’s attorney Brad Conway was interviewed. What he didn’t say was more important that what he did say. He did’t say George was innocent and was not having an affair, he didn;t say that the woman was lyoing.

What he said was that the woman went to the National Enquirer and that the motive of anyone who went top that publicaiton would have to be suspect.

That is not necessarily true. Ever since the Enquirer busted John Edwards, their credibility has gone up in the eyes of the public. While they may sensationalize a headline,  the content is often accurate as they don’t want to get sued.

And if they paid her for an exclusive interview, so what? In fact  many celebs are paid for exclusive interviews or wedding or baby spreads in most all  magazine .So what;s the difference now that law enforcement came to her door to interviwe her and the cat is out of the bag.

Since Goerge has been such a liar, perhaps she and her sister wanted to go public with one of the most visible publications to get her truth  out there. Perhaps they were afraid of the spin and what George and his attorney would do, so they decided to tell it all speak openly.

River’s lasts statement was very telling. She said that if it was about money, she would have cashed in years earlier. I believe that, She also said that she doesn;t want her face in front of the camera and didn;t ask for this. Law enforcement came to her door so she was now involved. She was now setting tecord straight from her perspective and who can blame her? 

After this latest revelation, I am completely sickened by George. His ‘Mr. Nice GuyPoor Me Victim  Act  which I desribed in my blog during his Fox 35 interview is what I said all along—an ACT!  

 Now we have seen George up close an personal. We have seen manipulating, , lying, and  cheatining – the same traits we have seen his daughter Casey. www.drlillianglass.com

 

 

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