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Disturbing, Deceptive, Self Absorbed and Manipulative Body Language of a Monotoned Casey Anthony on Her Self Video

Friday, January 6th, 2012

TMZ just released a video blog of Casey Anthony discussing her favorite topic- herself!  As sickening as it is for me, I managed to sit through it and analyze her body language and voice and communication patterns.

In general we see Casey with her new image which mirrors her mother Cindy’s  image complete with blond bleached  hair and that short hairdo. Isn’t  it interesting how subconsciously she emulates Cindy- the very person she hates. Still true to form, Casey does her hair tossing habit as you can see above.

Casey has a monotone and sounds as though she is depressed.  She has a victim like “poor me” tone to her voice as though he was the victim in all of this- not Caylee. Look at her victim like  half smile ambivalent expression and body language with her rounded shoulders as she says this.

You would think that in her first video blog she would at least mention Caylee and say how sorry she was for what happened or how she missed her and discuss the tragedy of it all. But no!. Instead, she is on camera to tell us. how she finally has something of her own (note key the word  she used- something as though Caylee was a nothing ) as she tells that she has adopted a dog. (Where is PETA when you need them?)

If you look at Casey’s body language there is a lot of shoulder shrugging and lip pursing which indicates anxiety and deception. She knows she shouldn’t be doing a video blog because she knows what people’s reaction will be. But she does it anyway and feels awkward about it because no count the money was right.

And yes I say money. This was on youtube. Depending on how many hits a youtube post gets,money is made. When you see a commercial before a video that means there were a lot of hits and now there is revenue sharing.

In her non emotion filled voice she says Casey says This has been a blessing in so many ways! WHAT???? A dead child is no blessing to anyone but it obviously is to her. Getting off  and out of jail is a blessing for sure only because of Jose Baez’ charming the jury. I believe that and always will. She is out because the jury liked Jose a lot better than they liked Ashton. In her sick mind no doubt not having Caylee around  to compete with her, must also be a blessing.

Why is TMZ putting this on their website?  I will tell you why?  It is for ratings. They know they will get millions fo hits with anything Casey Anthony. I think it is repulsive! Why give this woman any airtime or internet time?

Casey tells us that she’s adopted a dog and she loves  the dog. But as she says this she shakes her he’d NO. The reason her words don’t match her body language is reflected  in that Casey isn’t capable of loving anyone but herself in my view.

And he’s as much my dog as any of the other pets I’ve ever had as she dies off at the end of the sentence and purses her lips. Maybe the dying off at the end of her statement and lip pursing has something to do with perhaps the demise of her other pets. Was she thinking about the other pets she had that were wrapped in plastic bags and duct taped and buried? Remember how many pets died in the Casey Anthony household when Cindy described it on the stand?

This narcissist’s  main concern  on this video is I don’t know whether to look up or at myself as  she conducts her self video. She feels insecure as her main focus is looking good. We saw that by all of her grooming behavior in the courtroom. If she was so interested on looking good she shouldn’t have worn those torn jeans with her  boney knee sticking out  as she caressed it .Her low cut top screamed of the sexual attention Casey craves and once had in abundance.

Then she says, without a smile “Things are starting to change in a  good way. As she looks sad as she says this. While she isn’t getting prison slop three times a day and living in a cage, she will get  a harsh reality when she leaves her halfway house or secret facility. She will see that change may not be in such a good way after all. She will see how hated she is in the outside world. But perhaps the change in a good way that she  was talking about   maybe how much money she  perhaps received from TMZ putting this on their site  or a video broker to air her video blogs. No doubt  this was not done for free. Someone made money from this. Maybe Jose put it up as a way  Casey could pay his hefty legal fees.

Then she says wistfully, I hope things stay good. She looks away and has her had on her neck and makes a doubtful look. Placing her hand on her neck indicates a feeling of vulnerability , high anxiety and fear as she knows  deep down things will not stay good for her.  She  then says that she hopes  that they only get better. She knows there is a long hard road ahead of her with no protection in the real world. She knows the public hate will be severe. 

And of course there is the  usual Casey Anthony hair toss hair toss as she says he will do another video later.

Now here is where she continues hr lies and manipulation. She says she hates doing  (the video blogs) because she hates being on camera  ?????This little narcissist couldn’t get enough camera time. And a stint in jail didn’t change that. This is who she is- an attention seeking self absorbed human being.  She LOVES seeing herself on camera. Look at the countless photos we saw of her mugging for cameras with her tongue between her two fingers and eating a taco in a disgusting manner.

Then she has the audacity to sat she has a fear of being on camera and is  conquering her fear by starting now.WHAT????

This clearly shows deception and manipulation as she is now doing it on her self video blogs.Her facial expressions are an anttempt to get you feel sorry for her like saying Poor me.I’m only doing this to be brave and conquer my fears. Puhleeeze! WE are not stupid! We see right through this stupid nonsense.
In the clip – which Anthony says was taped on October 13, 2011 — she says, “I’m extremely excited … that I’ll be able to Skype and obviously keep a video log … How can one be extremely excited and then hate to be on camera. In essence she is saying she loves that she can be in the public eye and get attention through her video blog and on the other hand she says in her whiney tone how she doesn’t like to be on camera.

She says It’s been a long time since I’ve been able to call something mine.”These words are  HUGELY revealing in my view, She could not call Caylee hers. Caylee was her mother Cindy’s. Cindy was the one who forced Casey to keep Caylee and  not put her up for adoption.Then Cindy took over with the mothering and raising of Caylee so Casey never bonded with Caylee and felt she was hers. After all Cindy was the one who allegedly first held Caylee, not Casey.

Also in the video she says about her  location , “I’ll be here for many many months … even if  I  get off probation early.” Well lets do the math here. Casey did the tape in October. She says he will be out in February (which is fast approaching). In my view this was a way she could get some money to begin her new life out of the facility she is in.

She sounds vapid and unemotional and completely disconnected as she speaks.

It was very disturbing o watch this video when you are well aware of the motive behind it- MONEY! Producer Scott Sternberg’s low life venture  did not pan out as no one wanted to give Casey 3/4 of a million dollars to talk so now they went to Plan B- the internet.

Perhaps they think that  if ratings are so high, someone out there in media land will offer her a book deal and/or a TV interview. They were obviously testing the waters with this self video. Isn’t it odd that it was released only a few weeks after Scott Sternberg failed to deliver financially?  Now with the amount of hits that this video generated, Casey  and or her handlers are  no doubt making money anyway.

It is all so sickening. A baby is dead and people are profiting from it. Cindy was in the courtroom scribbling her notes. No doubt she will be next on the circuit promoting her book. I hate this. I also can’t stand  that Jeff Ashton is profiting from this. He doesn’t deserve a cent from this tragedy in my view.  He is one of the key  reasons in my view the case was lost. The jury  simply didn’t like him. They found him arrogant. The case was won because the jury liked Jose Baez a lot better. When he laughed at Jose in the courtroom the Jury detested him. It was guy behavior and unprofessional and the jury got it.

Casey has gone to great lengths on this video to show us her changed up image from brunette to blond and  from no glasses to glasses. Why would she do this if she wanted to remain protected and stay under the radar? The answer is simple, M O N E Y!  Don’t be surprised if her image changes again. I hope this is the last video we see.

I think it will only make the public more and more angry. Casey has NOTHING to say. NOTHING! We heard it all through her lies and her body language. And George and Cindy have nothing more to say either . They lied on the stand and are still free which is also a travesty of justice. Anyone else would be behind bars. They needed to be prosecuted for their lies.

Caylee is dead while Casey is out making money and Grandma Cindy and George will  no doubt  soon follow in her footsteps perhaps with a video blog of their own.


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Since the Beginning of Their Relationship Maria and Arnold’s Body Language Showed Differences

Sunday, May 22nd, 2011

 

If you look at the earliest photos of Arnold and Maria and follow  them to throughout the years to the present day, you will see a common theme. That theme is that they are completely not like minded. They never appear  to be looking in the same direction, which reflects the fact that they were never on the same page. Look at the photos below and you will see how they consistently look in different direction,

Maria is looking towards the camera while Arnold looks off to the side when they were first dating.

It continued when they got married as you can see in their wedding photos. And it continued throughout their marriage as you can see int he many photos of them below.

They never appear to be in synch with one another as they look in two distinctly different directions in practically all of their photos.

In many photos of the two of them together,  there is a great deal of physical distance between them, which is a very  bad sign for any relationship.

There are also countless photos where Maria trails behind Arnold. They are not on equal footing. He always seems to be stepping out ahead of her. It indicates that it is all about him and that she is a  mere appendage. She is there to make him look good.

In their later years together,  it appears that  could Arnold doesn’t even seem to acknowledge Maria. He essentially ignores her. It appears as though it could be anyone standing next to him. Body language wise, they  continue to look in different directions which mirrors what they have done throughout their lives together. 

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Maria clearly adored  Arnold as can be seen in so many of the photos. She looked at him with love and affection, but he rarely  if ever, returned her affections publicly.

When she would reach out to him as you can see in this photo, he would  essentially ignore her.

She was often the aggressor  in their public displays of affection as she initialed kisses and other  displays of affection,He continued to  appear awkward and non responsive as he did not reciprocate  her affections.

He continued to ignore her throughout the years which rendered her looking very unhappy.

In fact, in their later years together ,  she looked absolutely miserable whenever she was around him.

No doubt, when  she learned of his constant alleged womanizing, she became increasingly  unhappy.  So when it was announced that Arnold had an affair and impregnated his mistress while there  was an initial shock,  it is no surprise. Rumors of affairs and harassmentswirled around him for years. 

But what did come as a surprise and spoke volumes about Arnold was that his and Maria’s housekeeper was the mistress and lived and worked  under the same roof as they did for two decades.To me that is the ultimate in Toxic Behavior.

Apparently the housekeeper  told Arnold that the baby was his when the baby was a toddler. Arnold did the right thing and  financially supported the boy and the mother. But who knows if he supported the boy emotionally.  Now the boy is ten years old and it is said that he looks exactly like Arnold as reported by TMZ. In the pixeled out photo above, you can see how the boy  resembles Arnold especially around the mouth and jaw area.

My main concern is   about the psyche of this young boy who has had to keep his father’s identity a secret until now.  Who knows if he even knew Arnold was his father until now? I do hope that Arnold has the sense to put the boy in therapy to help him cope with  the  public’s  now  knowing that he is Arnold’s illegitimate son.

There is no doubt that some agressive  journalist will out this innocent young boy and not respect his privacy. After all there is a lot of money in paparazzi photos of a young newly discovered mini-Arnold. Perhap the mother and the boy will expose themselves publicly on their own. Whatever the case, the boy will need a strong support system for what lies ahead of him.

The pain Maria must be experiencing must be excruciating. She has been humiliated,  betrayed and used in a very public way. Arnold sought her out and married her as a vehicle to help him achieve the American Dream. What better way of achieving the dream than by marrying into the Kennedy family. Her Kennedy family immediately  legitimized him. It transformed him from a caricature  of a muscle head  bodybuilder   to member of America’s  most  a respect and revered clan. It  gave him even more contacts and pushed him up the social ladder until he became Governor  of  California. After achieving his goal, it appeared that  he had no more use for Maria. He had nothing to lose by coming clean ten years later when he was finally out of office.

But now he now, he claims  that he   wants her back. It may be  because of the negative repercussions on his ego and on his reputation and not because of anything else. Arnold was the untouchable Golden boy ever since he landed int he US. He was an action hero on film and an hero to some  in real life. Now he has quickly gone from hero to   zero. 

But if he does happen to  wins Maria back and does a mea culpa, things will look up for him once again as he does the Media Forgive Me tour.

While many feel that Maria should never allow him back into her life, love is stronger than anyone’s opinion, There is no doubt that  she clearly loves him. That is one of the main reasons she has not rushed to file for divorce.  Her strong Catholic faith may also sway her in the direction of keeping him. In the end,  is her decision alone as to what  she needs to do for herself. Will she follow in the footsteps of her grandmother and the other Kennedy women who were constantly cheated upon, yet  grinned and bared  it? Or will she be the first of the Kennedy women to actually leave and show  some self respect ? .

Even though she has asked for people’s advice and feedback during her transition period, ultimately, she has to listen to what is in her heart.

The woman has  recently gone through the loss of her uncle Ted who had brain cancer , her mother who had cancer, her father with Alzheimer’s, th ending her reign as First Lady of California and all that the position  entailed, her kids maturing  and headed for lives of their owny and eight  years of being away from a high profile media career .

The last thing she needed to  add to her  already existing pain was to discover that her husband of over two decades fathered an illegitimate child with a housekeeper, who worked for her. The woman added to her pain fo betrayal by  carrying  on an affair with Arnold right under her nose and under her roof.  If the housekeeper worked for Arnold and Maria for two decades, no doubt that Maria  must have felt she was a loyal employee. So to be  betrayed by a  husband and a trusted employee is enough to send anyone over the edge. www.drlillianglass.com 

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Lindsay Lohan’s Mug Shot Gallery- How Many More Will Be See Now That She Has Bailed Out of Jail? Lohan Mom and Dad May Be Source of Her Self Destruction

Saturday, September 25th, 2010

 

When you look at the above composite compiled by TMZ  of Lindsay Lohan’s current  mug shot and the shots  from days gone by, we  cannot help but wonder when we will see more  mug shots  of her.  While Lindsay has  now gone to an appeals court which granted her  bail to get  out of jail for 300,000 dollars until her sentencing on Octber 27th.

 I believe that  until she works out her inner demons that have a lot to do with her mom and dad issues, we will most likely see more of these unflattering headshots of her,  with her eyes gazing upwards as she looks directly at the jail camera lens.

And please don’t say that she is now an adult  and shouldn’t blame her parents.  I say until she works out her deep-rooted issues that involve a hostile and betraying father and an enabling mother, who both try to eek out yet another 15  minutes of  camera time and fame on her coat tails , Lindsay will continue to spiral down the path of self-destruction.

In looking at the above photo, where Lindsay is seen peering out the car window after she was whisked away from the Lynwood Correctional facility, it appears that her few hours behind bars took a  physical  toll  on her. You  can see the bags under her eye and stress in her facial muscles.

 Maybe the fact she initially received no bail and was  sent directly to jail sent her a clear message. Maybe she will be grateful now that she has a few weeks of freedom. On the other hand her reaction may be the complete opposite.

 Lindsay has been told that as  part of the conditions  of her being  bailed out, she  is  not  allowed to be in bars or clubs, she will be  subjected to random drug  searches  and tests, and that she wear  a SCRAM bracelet. If he violates any of these rules she goes back into her cell.

Apparently Lindsay has told her friends that she needs to  be in rehab- not jail. So she may very well attempt to prove that point and mess up once again so that the judge will send her to rehab and not jai the next go around. For Lindsay’s sake I hope that is not the case because her distorted  thinking will backfire on her.She will be  back in jail sooner than she thinks and for much longer this time around.  

JUDGE FOX SAID “NO” TO CELEBRITY JUSTICE AND DID THE RIGHT THING TRYING TO SAVE LINDSAY FROM LINDSAY

I happen to know Judge Eldon Fox, of  the Beverly Hills Superior Court who sentenced Lindsay  to jail without bail . I think he did the right thing. She not only broke the law once but twice with a dirty drug tests. 

A week ago  it was reported throughout the  news  that while Lindsay was driving her car, she  clipped a baby stroller  with the baby in it. She drove away and the baby was unharmed. But what if her reaction time and driving abilities ares so distorted because of her drug use that she ends up seriously hurting someone while she is behind the wheel?

 Just for that reason alone,  I think Judge Fox made the correct decision to take Lindsay off the streets and put her away for her own safety and the safety of others. Perhaps in the time she would have been  jail awaiting her sentencing, she would have been at least  30 days off drugs and alcohol and cocaine and more clear-headed to deal with her future. No doubt he would have then most likely sentenced her to rehab only.

But now that he will be sentencing her next month , I wouldn’t be surprised if he makes her serve the entire 60 days, If she can get more than 60 days,  hopefully he will give her the maximum sentence. This would show her that she can’t manipulate the system no matter who she is.  I also hope  that he  sentences her to a year of rehab that she has to pay for it out of her own funds.     

I hope that  Lindsay takes this golden opportunity to really straighten out her life once and for all. She needs time to do that. I hope she doesn’t get to skirt the system like she has done in the past just becuase of her celebrity status. If so, it will destroy her in the end.

WHY SHOULD LINDSAY, A ONE TIME CHILD ACTRESS WHO CONTRIBUTED  NOTHING OF VALUE AS AN ADULT, GET ANY SPECIAL TREATMENT ?

 Why is Lindsay s special?  In such  a crowded system, why was her appeal heard  so quickly when anyone else would have sat in jail for days if not weeks  until they were et free on bail? 

Why did Lindsay get such special treatment? She has not developed a cure for cancer, She did not give her time and effort to raising finds for a charity to help others. She has done  NOTHING of value on this earth as an adult. Only when she was a child she starred in a remake of Parent Trap and a film called Freaky Friday where she sang a tune.

She was an animated  red-headed,   freckled-faced   kid who’s pushy mom got her into showbusines. That is it!   She had talent, but so do a lot of other kids who weren’t lucky enough to be chosen for  the role. The films were moneymakers but they would have been moneymakers whether Lindsay starred in them or not. Case in point is that the  original Parent Trap made a star out of Haley Mills. Freaky Friday was such a cool concept of a parent and child changing roles that any singing teen  could have become its breakout star.

Having worked with some of the world’s best actors and actresses I am not overly impressed with Lindsay bcuase I have not seen enough of her work as an adult actress. As a child actress she was  animated and could  deliver the right emotions to  the role. So can other young actresses.  But Lindsay was made  popular by the press because of all of her off screen behaviors, drug use and   her TOXIC family members. She is NOT known for being a  great actress who can deliver her skills to any role.

STARRING IN A FILM ABOUT A  FAILED PORN STAR FAMOUS FOR ORAL SEX WILL NOT RESSURECT LINDSAYS FAILED CAREER OR ENHANCE HER IMAGE

Word has it that the producers of her Linda Lovelace film will wait around until Lindsay is available  for the film , This is in order for  them to  reap the spoils off of the enormous PR she will get after her release from jail, rehab, or both.  There are hundreds of actresses who could do justice to the role but they are waiting for Lindsay only because people will be curious to see Lindsay’s work after her jail term.

 In all honesty, who cares about an unglamrous,  former porn with a troubled life. who  was  known for having oral sex in a movie called Deep Throat some  4o years ago? Back in the day oral sex and deep throating may have been a bid deal. Today it’s old news thanks to Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky. 

 Without the big studios  behind the film,  audiences who  simply don’t care about Lindsay or are fed up with her and her shananigans, and those with a strong religious conviction who would never want to see a film about a porn star, one doubts how successful the film will be in the end.

 Also this is not a great career move if Lindsay wants to resurrect her reputation or her career. On the other hand this may be her ony option since she is uninsurable for other films and no one want to take a risk with her.

LINDAY’S  FATHER IS A MAJOR PART OF HER PROBLEM

Lindsay’s  father Michael Lohan’ behavior  was egregious as  he spoke to reporters  while Lindsay skirted off to jail .  His  angrily yapping and  shouting out hostile threats  to Lindsay’s Lawyer  like there was some sort of  a showdown was appalling.

 This time instead of bringing his  lawyer Lisa Bloom  to court as a prop, he  now had another prop- a  clown of a minister whom he paraded in front of  the cameras. It was like watching a bad actor playing a badly cast  minister in a bad movie of the week or in a bad episode of Jerry Springer.

This TOXIC MAN will stop at nothing to get press and to get in front of cameras as she uses his daughter as the vehicle to do so. No wonder, as esteemed televison  reporter Jim Moret revealed , Lindsay walked by Michael Lohan  and ignored her father  as he said the words “I love you” to her. 

 What doesn’t Michale  understand about Lindsay’s not wanting anything to do with him?  Having zero to do with him is the best thing she is doing in my view. However, she has apparently taken all of her  inner anger  that she harbors towards her repulsive and disgusting father and turned it inwards.

Normally I believe that it is a good thing to heal all kinds of rifts, especially those involving ones parents.  But when ultimate betrayal has taken place,  like a parent sharing your personal information in the form of secretly  audiotaping  yourpersonal  conversations and sharing them with the world,  the rift can NEVER be healed. That TOXIC person must be  out of your life forever!

I hope that Lindsay never lets her father near her under any circumstances, especially if  she gets off of drugs and alcohol. What he has done to her is unforgivable. He may end up trying to regain her confidences only to tape record his  conversations with her  and sell those tapes to the press  to make some money. He has done this to so many people in the past. Who is to say he won’t do it in the future?  Lindsay does not need to interact with him to find out the answer.

LINDSAY’S MOTHER IS ALSO A HUGE PART OF THE EQUATION AS TO WHY SHE IS IN TROUBLE

Besides her Toxic dad, her Toxic and  enabling mother who thinks everyone is wrong except for Lindsay should be out of Lindsay’s life if Lindsay finally gets well.  

Dina Lohan has been riding  on Lindsay’s coat tails for years, to get some fame of her own .No doubt she tried to put that deal together for  her and Lindsay to do a national radio show. It was done for  her own good, not Lindsay’s good. Neither of them has the ability or bring anything to the table. So it would just be for PR sake. Once again, it is yet another parent (under the guise of manager)  making  money off  their  daughter and using  her  like they have done her entire life.

Hopefully as Lindsay gets sober , she will clearly see Dina’s negative role in her life and not allow her in her life to run her career or her businesses.

THE ONLY THING THAT CAN HELP LINDSAY STAY SOBER, DRUG FREE, AND MENTALLY HEALTHY IN THE LONG RUN

The bottom line is that all the rehab in the world isn’t going to help Lindsay until she gets to the root of her issues Mom and Dad.If not, she will continue to relapse and have mug shots of her arrests taken over and over , until it will be too late

Fulfilling every day of her up coming jail sentence along with a year of rehab and a year at sober living facility with NO contact with her mom or dad could finally straighten Lindsay out. Look at how well Redmond O’Neil is doing now that he is away from his dad and is not permitted  around him. The same thing could happen for Lindsay.

She would learn to respect herself and serve as role model to others. She would let people knwo wthat you have to unplug or  cut anyone from your life who uses or abuses you even if they happen to be  your parent.

So she is free for now. On Oct 27th she will be sentenced . I hope she gets the full 30 days for each crime- 60 days  if not more and doesn’t  get out for any good behavior or for  time served. I also hope she in the general population where she gets  a dose of reality.

When she does go into rehab and hopefully a sober living home, she  needs to have a restraining order against her father and mother  so that they  don not speak of her publicly and try to make money from her. Personally I think every media outlet should boycott Michael Lohan and Dina and  never allow him any face time because they are the main reasons she is such a mental mess.

SISTER ALI NEEDS TO GET A REAL EDUCATION IN A REAL SCHOOL AS SHE MAY NEVER BE A FAMOUS CHILD ACTRESS OR SINGER 

instead of focusing on Lindsay as her meal ticket, Dina needs to find her own way in life and focus on doing something constructive that doesn’t involve her kids. She also needs to send Ali  back to school to get a real eduction and not continue with her bogus home schooling. She needs to do it asap so Ali doesn’t end up like Lindsay.

And Dina  also needs to get a reality check when it comes to Ali.

Ali  is an OK looking girl, average,  not  pretty,  but OK. She   looks out-of-place  and awkward   as a 16-year-old when dressed  up in Lindsay’s freebie designer clothes and makeup. She has nothing to bring to the table no education, no brilliance, and no overwhelming acting talent and no spectacular singing ability.

She is simply OK and  OK does not cut it in Hollywood.  I am not  being  mean, but Ali doesn’t stand a chance in the competitive world of show business looks wise or talent-wise . There are too many others who surpass her and Dina needs to spare this child tis emotional trauma.

  If she was a good singer she would have already been  signed to label, cut some hit songs,  and gone on tour. InsteAd, I believe she needs to go to school and find something to do with her life other Than show business  and trying to follow in Lindsay’s footsteps as a child star. It’s too late. 

 Lindsay was at the right place at the right time with the right child’s  look  in the right roleS . She grew into a very attractive young lady who had a shot at stardom in her transition from child actress to adult actress.

 But that  window is short-lived as any non working actress who was once an always working 20 something actress will tell you. Lindsay has wasted away a large part of that crucial window of time, where the momentum could  carry her from one role to another.

At the press conference, Lindsay’s sickening father mouthed the AA rhetoric of  people,  places and things. As far as the people part goes, he is clearly one of those people whom I believe Lindsay should  never allow into her  life is she if she  to heal. There is no hope for him in my view. 

 His issues seem to involve  serious character flaws that are scary and dangerous -from his violence verbal and physical,  to his secretly betraying others by taping them or taking nude  photos of them while they are sleeping like he diD to his former fiancé Kate Majors. 

Dina is also one of those people Michael mentioned, who Lindsay needs to stay clear of , if she finally heals.

The bottom line is that unless Lindsay gets some great therapy to deal with her underlying pain involving her  mom and dad issues to along with her rehab she  is doomed. If not, we can expect to see more photos in the  gallery of Lindsay’s mug shoots www.drlillianglass.com.

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Ocotomom Nadya Suleman’s Body Language Shows Double Message and Manipulation

Tuesday, September 21st, 2010

If you showed the above photo to 100 people and asked “Does the person in this photo look like a  porn star, a large percent may very well answer  “yes. ” They would answer ” yes” because physically the person in this photo above fits the profile of ladies who may be porn stars attractive, toned figure, large breasts, good makeup,  long lashes, and wear a lot of low cleavage showing outfits.

But the photo is not the photo of a porn star(yet). It is  Nadya Suleman known as  who practically  beard her breasts for all to see with her very low cut cleavage enhancing top as she speaks to TMZ about how she will be kicked out of her home.

In the above photo we see Nadya in an interview  with RadarOnline where she  flaunts her cleavage and sticks out her chest for all to see in a provocative pose. She says she   worries 24 hours a day that she can’ t pay her mortgage  and that she is destitute. Yet  her facial expression doesn’t show a person who is too worried about her future as to  whether  or not she can pay her bills.

  

Then  Nadya is asked how  long will she be able to  last financially. She gives a sly smile and looks down. To me that is a clear signal of deception. Nadya knows exactly what she is doing . She is trying to get everyone to feel pity for her so someone will step up to the plate and help her out. The photo leaks out what she is really trying to do in these sudden interviews.

She flips her hair which is a huge signal of deception. She clearly knows her intentions in doing these interviews  with the popular TMZ and RadarOnline. It is to get people to rally for her and step up to the plate to make a donation  so she won’t  be homeless.

Then Nadya gets a case of the itchy scratchies. When people suddenly scratch after they said something like they are destitute when  in fact they are really not destitute , their autonomic nervous system will get their blood vessels to expand. This  in turn creates an itching sensation. Nadya also cocks her head to the side which is  a signal of being coy and also a signal of deception.

Then Nadya is asked about the 500,000 dollar offer from Vivid to make a porn film for an hour of her time. She makes a face as though she was going to throw up. Now here is a person who has no qualms about practically bearing her entire breasts publicly, yet  she wants  to give the impression that she is so offended by this offer.

But why would she act so offended? After all, the people at Vivid  are the people who have stepped up to the plate to save the day so her children wont be homeless or live under a bridge as she says.

Finally the truth comes out! There is righteous indignation which is often a signal of deception as she leans forward and leaks out a smile. She says that she finds it ironic that a PORN company film her  would want to film her naked   showing her naked breasts and privates having sex on camera for an hour when she has been celibate for 11 years.

Personally I think she is more upset that she has not been in a relationship with anyone for all of those years and that she has not had sex in close to a decade. Perhaps doing this porn film might kill three birds with one stone. 

 1) It will finally give her the opportunity to have the sex she misses  and caves after being celibate  for all those years  .

2)  It will allow her to pay her  bills so her kids  be homeless .

3)  And finally it will give her the attention she craves  in showing off her body.

No one dresses with such low cleavage and  in such tight-fitting tops, short skirts, and form-fitting pants,  unless  they want to show off their body. So by doing the film Nadya can carry out all three of her basic needs.

In this photo we see a wide eyed Nadya with a manipulative Cheshire cat grin as she tells that she still has some money for a little while because she borrowed some. She says  that it will last her a month. She then tells how long it will take for the foreclosure to go into  effect which is several months n by that tine she will hope to have money to pay her mortgage.

In essence she  she is   trolling for a handout  from a public  savior   as she attempts to garner public sympathy. She says how she never wants to go on welfare and will only do so if she has to live under a bridge with her kids. These words are the words to conger up an image of a poor helpless creäture with 14 kids braving the elements without a home. She is expecting someone to  save her from the potential of her  living  under a brige with her kids , so she doesn’t have to go on welfare or do porn.

With her head bowed and eyebrows raised Nadya  knows exactly what she is doing. She is playing cat and mouse and toying with the public’s sympathy.

Nadya has done nothing more than try to manipulate public sympathy as she even dragged one of the babies into the fray by holding the poor child,  who may one day be living under a bridge with her.

Now we see her signal of deception as she licks her lips and ends up giving her raucous nervous laugh   when she is asked about her book which she is writing.  She tries to show what a dedicated mother she is and how she writes the book only when the kids are napping or asleep for the night. If she is writing a book she must have received an advance for th book. Where is that money? Why doesn’t she use it to pay her mortgage? If she doesn;t have a book deaal, why doesn’t her attorney get her a deal?

From th length of her eye lashes, she has obviously spent some of the borrowed money she has spoken about on a product to  increase lash growth or used the money to purchase  a pair of false lashes. She has spent that money on manicures and makeup. So now she is indirectly asking everyone for a handout.  asking them to pitch .She is subtley asking them to pitch in to help the kids.

I find this disgusting. Instead of begging the public,  she needs to be begging a production company to film her kids. She needs to get a company like TLC behind her.

She once said publicly that she wouldn’t put her kids on TV because  she believe that was abuse. Well I think it is abuse  to have your kids living under a bridge. She made this  comment  to both TMZ and Radaronline. She needs to get her attorney to speak to every single TV venue and beg them to put her on  the air like they did with Kate Gosselin.

Kate will never be living under a bridge. In fact because of TLC she is probably able to buy the bridge. Nadya needs to follow suit and take Kate’s  example. At least Nadya wouldnt be abusing a husband if she had a show like Kate did.

 If people are already watching one emotional self absorbed mess-  Kate Gosselin, why not watch another self absorbed  emotional mess-Nayda the Octomom.  Her kids are still young and  ther eis an audience for people who like watching the babies  grow like they watched the Gosselin babies grow.

And if Nadya is so adamant  about not putting her children on camera then she needs to buck up and  put her  naked body on camera  where she can make the 500, ooo  dollars so the the kids can have a home. There is nothing shameful about that in light of her predicament. What is more shameful than doing porn is sounding like a poor me victim and trying to manipulate the public for money. By finally getting naked  and doing the porn film, Nadya can  satisfy her need for exhibitionism as well as her need for sex,  once and for all. www.drlillianglass.com

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TOXIC MAN MICHAEL LOHAN’S LATEST VINDICTIVE ACT IN SALE OF NUDE PHOTOS OF MAJOR CONFIRMS WHY LINDSAY REJECTS HIM

Thursday, July 29th, 2010

 

Each time I hear about the sickening  antics of  Lindsay Lohan’s Toxic Father, Michael Lohan, my heart goes out to poor Lindsay.  His latest antic of selling naked photos of his ex fiancé Kate Major while she was passed out  sleeping  to an online website shows how despicably TOXIC a human being Michael Lohan is in my view.

His even more recent shameless publicity seeking act of releasing a song to Lindsay because she refuses to have any contact with him is also repulsive in my view.

LINDSAY DOES THE RIGHT THING- UNPLUGS  MICHAEL AND NEVER LOOKS BACK

There is no doubt in my mind that Michael is the main reason that Lindsay is in the situation she is in.  She is absolutely doing the right thing in my view to cut off ALL communication with Michael Lohan for good.  

There are some things which are unforgivable. Riding on your daughter’s coat tails to improve your own lot in life and betraying your daughter  by revealing taped conversations of her in public  are just some of these unforgivable things.

This is why Lindsay needs to UNPLUG from Michael forever and never look back in order to live a healthy life.

While there are other options available to help and heal relationships between people,  as I say in my latest book TOXIC MEN, which will be out in November, there are times where a relationship can never heal, no matter what.

Michael Lohan’s relationship with Lindsay is one of those relationships. After seeing him up close and personal mouthing off under the guise of “helping” Lindsay get sober and even  showing up in court with a letter to the judge, it is clear to me  that  for Michael, it is about  Michael- not Lindsay

While it may look like he is a concerned father, in my view, this hostile, angry ,and TOXIC  man  is more concerned about himself and his own fame than about his daughters welfare. In my view it is all about him riding on Lindsay’s coat tails to establish his own fame. Without Lindsay Lohan no one would even care what Michael Lohan  did or said.

MICHAEL RELEASES  LAME  SONG FOR LINDSAY IN ORDER TO   KEEP HIS NAME IN THE NEWS

Michael’s recent  shameless antic was to release  what I think is a ridiculous and  lame song to Lindsay, which  he supposedly wrote during one of his jail stints a while back. In order to keep his name in the news he has released it now.  

The fact that he wrote it long ago and is releasing it now and his using the excuse that the song is how he can get through to Lindsay so that she will fianlly hear  him is disgusting.

He needs to get it through his head that Lindsay doesn’t want to hear from him and as she gets more sober she never will want to hear from hm.

After listening to the song on TMZ I wanted to throw up, especially after hearing lyrics like with lame lyrics “always daddy’s little girl”  

Michael clearly  needs to get it through his head that Lindsay is not daddy’s little girl. Instead, she is a    young woman who is in the satte she is in becuase of daddy and the havoc he created in her young life.  

Hopefully when she gets sober after being released from jail at the Lynwood facility and release from her 90 day  stint in rehab, she will continue to see that  her “daddy”  has been and is a large part of her problem. With good therapy she will come to learn that she never should allow this TOXIC MAN back into her life to use her and to ride on her coattails .

MICHAEL’S ISSUES WITH WOMEN IN HIS LIFE

Michael clearly has issues with women as we have seen him become quite vicious and vindictive. His on going He Say She Says battle with Dina where  released personal audio tapes of their conversations was egregious.

His ugly and  public fight with an ex fiancé Erin and now what he did with Kate Major is the ultimate in toxicity and speaks to how vindictive and dangerous a person Michael Lohan

Kate Major accused Michael of being physically violent with her, That would not be hard to believe considering his  hateful and harsh and hostile tones we have heard throughout the years.  

The courts of New York also believed that he was abusive as well and filed a second degree harassment charge against him.

MICHAEL’S VICNDICTIVENESS TOWARDS KATE MAJOR- RELEASING VULGAR  NUDE PHOTOS OF HER WHILE SHE WAS PASSED OUT SLEEPING

So in retaliation, Toxic Michael Lohan released naked photos of his fiancé  as you can see in the above photo, which was published on the website kikster.com of a Kate Major  completely passed out.

He most likely pulled her top town while she was in a state of sleep as you can see from her body language.  He then  took very unflattering photos of not only  her breasts, but of her  vaginal area to no doubt use against her at a later date, which he obviously did.

That later date was after Kate accused him of domestic abuse. It was then that Michael saw fit to immediately retaliate against her by using these embarrassing  photos against her  and most probably receiving  a handsome  fee for doing this despicable act.

MICHAEL CAN NEVER BE TRUSTED AND LINDSAY MUST ALWAYS KNOW THIS

If Michael could do such an egregious thing  to someone he allegedly loved and  was going to marry, there is no telling what else Michael is capabale of doing  to betray someone else he allegedly  “loved.”

Michael has revealed his character as a Sneaky Backstabber  type of Toxic Man which I mention in my upcoming book Toxic Men -10 Ways to Identify, Deal With and Heal From Men Who Make Your Life Miserable  .

If Lindsay were to try and repair her relationship with her father, it would never work in the long run, in my estimation.  Eventually, there would be a rift between the two or some type of altercation.  Lindsay would do something he may not like or vice versa.  

What is to say that Michael  would not  revert back to his known Toxic Pattern of behavior that he has always seemed to call upon- “ betrayal “?

He may even show his anger and hostility like he did on The Insider when Ney Ney one of the Atlanta Housewives said how he was riding on Lindsay’s coat tails.  Michael then  became verbally violent and attacked Ney Ney yelling and telling her on camera that she had a ” fat ass.”

What is to say that he wouldn’t  pull out a video or an audio of Lindsay revealing something she would not want the whole world to know.Anyone who could  reveal compromising  photos of  a person in a passed out state is capbable of anythimng on my view.

Since Toxic  Men usually follow  patterns fo behavior, what is to say that Michael would not continue his betrayal of  his own daughter Lindsay?  He has done it before and chances are good that he might so it again.

 So my bottom is for  Lindsay is to always stay away from Michael for good, He has demonstrated time and time again that he  is a TOXIC MAN and cannot be trusted.

While the press appears to indulge  Michael  only because Lindsay is relevant in the news becuase of her  train wreck   behavior, as soon as Lindsay no longer becomes a train wreck Michael will be yesterday;s news.

He will be irrelevant in my view. If Lindsay gets healthy and gets aknowleged and respected  for her talents for specific films,  Michael will not be relevant .

 On the other hand, if Linday remains in the state she is in or OD’s, thre is no doubt Michael Lohan will be all over the news reminding us on a daily basis that there are TOXIC MEN out there.

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Gary Coleman’s Wife’s Voice on 911 Shows Self Centeredness And Harshness Towards Gary And Her Body Language on TMZ Interview Shows No Love Lost for Gary

Friday, June 4th, 2010

WHAT DOES SHE KNOW?

The tone of Gary Coleman’s wife Shannon, his live in ex wife whom he married in 2007 an divorced in 2008 was cold and harsh. It seems that she is  more concerned about herself than Gary and has all kinds of excuses as to why she can’t help him. ” She seems to repeat the phase” I don’t know what happened” as she gets the operator know this several times throughout the call. This is disconcerting as it makes one wonder if indeed she does know what happened.

SHANNON IS FULL OF EXCUSES

She doesn’t even go over to check on Gary as she screams out “Gary, are you OK?” She sound completely self absorbed. Her husband is lying on the floor with the back of his head bloody and all she can say is that she can’t help him because there was blood around,,She says she can’t drive him because she was an epileptic.

But she could manage to yell at him as in a harsh angry and nasty tone as she screamed”Gary, don’t move. Gary Stay there, OK? You have to keep pressure on your head, You got to put pressure on your head.” What happened?

SAYS SHE CAN’T HELP HER OWN HUSBAND

Then she bluntly tells the operator “I can’t really help him” She goes on to say how there is blood in the back of his head. For the umpteenth time she says “ I don’t know what happened.” He hit his head , I don’t know, It’s all bloody you know.”

There were way too many “I don’t know what happened’s” to make you wonder if Shannon did indeed know what happened. It was as the saying goes, “though dost protest too much.”When someone volunteers that much information that wasn’t requested it often can be a very revealing signal of deception and they may possibly know a lot more than they are saying.

‘YOU KNOW?”

Also when someone keeps interjecting the phrase “you know” it means that they are looking for your approval and looking for you to believe them. Shannon spoke those words where she asked for reassurance from the operator several times.

IT’S ALL ABOUT SHANNON

The 911 tape continues to be very disturbing as it continued to be ALL about Shannon. She continues with reasons why she can’t help him by saying “I’ve been sick. I can’t do anything right now,” I don’t know what happened He hit his had I don’t know. Its all bloody and you know”.

She continues with” I don’t know if he had a seizure or hit his head and fell.”

The operator tells Shannon to at least give him a towel so he can put pressure on his head. She then says with atone of annoyance ,”if I can find one for him.”

One would treat an animal better than she treated Gary. You would rush to find a towel or anything to help stop the bleeding.

Then she goes back to herself and say “I;m panicked. I don’t know what to do. I’m freaking out,” The operative words here are “ I” and “ I’m.”This should have been about Gary not her!

YELLING AT GARY IN A MEAN TONE

Then you hear her yelling at Gary in a very mean tone. As she screams at him “‘Don’t move! Stay there put pressure. Hold this thing. Don’t move! I don’t know what Sit down! Sit down!, Gary sit down! “ She speaks to him worse than anyone would speak to an animal.

She is harsh with him and very unloving. It seems that all of her humanity has gone out the window when it comes to Gary and his needs.

Then she goes back to talking about herself and how this has affected her as she says “Im gagging. I got blood on myself.”

What I want to know if how did she get blood herself when she couldn’t bear to touch him let alone be near him during his moment of crises. The whole thing sounded very odd.

TMZ INTERVIEW SHOWS DEFENSIVENESS AND DETACHMENT

Shannon looks down as she said that there has been a lot of speculation that she pushed Gary.

Then she gets very defensive and says “Why would I hurt my husband?” As she says this she gets super defensive in her vocal tone and in her facial expression as he furrows her brow and  contorts her mouth in anger.

DID THE DOCTORS REALLY SAY WHAT SHE SAID THEY SAID?

Then she looks down and as she says the following that the doctors said that even if they would have done surgery on him he would have died and bled to death, that even if they took a chunk of his brain he wouldn’t have been the same, and that he would be basically like Muhammed Ali.”

None of this rings true to me, Her body language also says it doesn’t ring true as she looks way up and then looks way down and does not look at the interviewer,This is  indicating signals of deception .

If Gary had an intra cranial hemorrhage, he wouldn’t necessarily have bled to death. Look at Brett Michaels. They also would not take a chunk out of his brain for a hemorrhage and finally no doctor would bring up another patient as an example. Muhammed Ali has Parkinson’s disease, not what Gary had.

So what she is saying is ridiculous. It is obviously her self justification for pulling the plug  on Gary so soon.

SHANNON DOESN’T  WANT PEOPLE TO BE HARD ON HER

She then blames Gary’s heart as the reason for his not making it anyway. As she says this she shows no compassion and seems heartless herself.

She says she doesn’t want people to think she is a bitch “and I didn’t care about him.

Then it continues to be al’ about her as she says be in my situation “Look at Terry Shaivo”

THE ONLY EMOTION SHANNON SHOWS IS ANGER.

Then she gets really defensive and tries to justify her action of pulling Gary’s plug by saying
I always think of her when it come to this.“That was a very odd comment to say the least. She  continues to justify her pulling the plug on Gary as she says Gary was gone . His eyes were dilated. She shrugs her shoulders in saying He was just gone as a way to further justify her actions.

The shoulder shrug is that she isn’t sure that he was gone but she as trying to convince herself that he was gone. Also her raised eyebrows mean that she is trying to convince  the interviewer as to what she is saying, It also means that she is trying to convince  herself that she did the right thing in pulling the plug so soon.

ALL ABOUT SHANNON

There is absolutely NO compassion when she talks about Gary as she says how he bought her a car. She  adds “which he chose to do“, indicating that she wants everyone to know that she didn’t demand that he get her one. She makes it a point to a add “which I never asked him for for.”

When someone volunteers that much unsolicited information  chances are that it isn’t true. She most likely asked him for a car and he bought it for her.

SHANNON- THE MATERIAL GIRL

She talks about how Gary took her to Vegas because she loves shopping there and loves getting pampered there and how obviously she would but the high end stuff. No wonder she and Gary had money issues!

 

Then she says how they alwaYs had to stay at Caesars palace but also stayed at Bellagio because they  were obsessed with the fountain view room, Shannon coyly looks away form the camera, indicating that she clearly knows whats he was doing. She is letting everyone know that she has  a certain lifestyle and now she will no longer have it now that Gary is not there to support her.

SHANNON HITS THE PUBLIC UP FOR MONEY

Shannon now raises her shoulders in victim  like fashion and says how she doesn’t know how she will pay for funeral costs .  She leans forward for emphasis as she says this and says she doesn’t know how she will survive.

Then she says what a rough time it has been because Gary hadn’t had much work because of his health’ Then this cold,  heartless sounding woman with no ounce of compassion in her voice has the audacity  to says how Gary worked a lot so her finances were great when they first got married  and how now she has nothing.

This clearly  indicates how she obviously married him for his money. Then she says how he was  never able to have life insurance which could have helped with funeral costs.

She says how now she is hoping people will” pour  out to us and show their compassion with money, as they have been sending letters and emails.

WE NOW SEE WHO TO WHOM GARY WAS MARRIED- A  HARSH,  NOT COMPASSIONATE  SELF CENTERED OPPORTUNIST

Is this woman for real?  Now that Gary is no longer here to take care of her financially, she has the nerve to tell the public to send money along with their letters and emails.

What about her getting a job and stop looking for  handouts like  she obviously  did by marrying Gary.

This woman in my  view has shown in her 911 call and in her TMZ interview that she is obnoxious, cold, and heartless, greedy, selfish,materialistic,  and downright unlikable.

Knowing this, I feel terribly sad for Gary. Now I see why he continued to walk around so miserable with a chip on his shoulder. I can see how  the dynamics of this TOXIC relationship  escalated into domestic violence. There is no doubt that both of them pushed one another’s buttons.

What makes me the saddest and brings me to tears is the fact that poor Gary had to die with no one loving him and holding him. Shannon who lived in the same household didn’t have the human decency to even bring him a towel when he was bleeding to death.

All I can say is Rest in Peace Gary.  You  are finally free of it all. First it was your parents who used you and betrayed you by taking your hard earned money as a child and now it was Shannon who in  a different way,  essentially did the same thing.

They both took your loving  heart and made you an angry person. After meeting Shannon via her 911 call and TMZ  interview, all I can say is who can blame you?

Once again my dear Gary, you no longer have to be angry or fight with anyone. May God Bless you and may you always rest in peace! www.drlillianglass.com

 

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