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Omar Sharif’s Toxic Body Language Typical of An Abusive Man

Friday, October 28th, 2011

When I saw the video of icon and leading man heartthrob back in the day, Omar Sharif of Dr. Zhivago fame ,I was beyond shocked. He abusively slapped  a woman simply because she wanted to have her photo taken with him. It was appalling. What was more appalling was looking at the video frame by frame and seeing how he gets enraged, slaps her, goes off on her, feels guilty about it, tries  to make nice but he is still  angry as he considers her the catalyst  for making him angry.

Meanwhile, like many abused women, she smiles through it all an accepts it. But the smile is tense and a smile of embarrassment.  Her body language reveals fear. As he tries to make nice, she backs off. He agrees to take a photo with her but his body language shows that he still habors resentment towards her.

Several years ago a study was done which showed women in Qatar tend to overlook when they are abused. That is devatsating news. The woman Sharif slapped seems to demonstrate this .

Below are the shocking series of events.

Sharif’s body language shows he is enraged  as he slaps this poor woman and yells at her that she needed to wait her turn to have her photo taken with him.

The woman fears him and his rage as she holds up her hand defensively.

The woman smiles and continues to smile throughout the ordeal.This is typical of abused women who may believe that they “deserved” it. No one deserves this kind of treatment-EVER!

He continues to berate her.He gestures wildly to ask her what he was thinking. All she did was try to get a photo with  him. An Egyptian, Sharif is considered one of the biggest  Middle Eastern  actors of all time. So for this woman to get a little excited and perhaps not wait her turn to get his photo is understandable.

He continues to berate this poor woman unmercifully. It is so embarrassing that the woman standing next to him who is most likely a handler bows her hed in shame as she wears an ambivalent smile.

Sharif now has a sudden change of heart as he realizes what he has done in front of the cameras. Can you imagine what this Toxic man must do when there are no cameras present ?

You can actually see him thinking about what he just did as the expression on his face  dramatically changed. His handler on the right has now distanced herself from Sharif as she looks downa nd away. Meanwhile the abuse victim continues to wear a mask like smile of embarrassment in order to save face..

As he has second thoughts as to what he did he bows his head in sham and walks over in the slapped woman’s direction. The photographer in the corner appears to be nervously amused and surprised . Hence the tense  ambivalent smile. He wonders what Sharif will do and whether there will be some more berating or slapping.

He comes over to her and this time the abuse victim cannot even beaar to look at him as she holds up her hand with the palm of her hand showing in an defensive gesture. He looks at her with hate and disdain. She creates a barrier between them with her hand as she looks away , yet continues her ambivalent smile. In essence she is guarding herself from another potential slap and or verbal abuse from Sharif.

He tried to “make up” by allowing her to have a phot with him. She obliges as that is what she wanted in the first place. She continues smiling her mask like smile as she did throughout the entire ordeal.  Meanwhile he turns his body away during this photo op as he really doesn’t want to have his photo taken with her but he does it to make himself feel better in trying to right his wrong in slapping her.

He now turns to look at her and says something in Arabic which causes her  to have a genuine smile. Look at the crinlking around her eyes. It is no longer mask like. She is  clearly taken aback as you can see by her retracted chin. This leads me to believe he may have even apologized to her. This is tyoical behavior of so many abusers. They las.h out, feel guilty and try to make things right.

Now they get ready to pose for the photographer. The woman is back to her mask like smile. He leans in for the phoo and looks at her to see how she is reacting to all of this. There is a look of  remorse  on his face  as he leans into her and looks directly at her. She does not look at him. Instead she looks in the direction of the photograher. Even though she has a slight smile on her lips, her eyes reflect sadness.

The photo is snapped and the woman is elated. Here she wears a genuine smile. It was a huge price to pay, but she finally got what she wanted- a photo of her with Omar Sharif. He leans in but does NOT smile. He is not happy with himself that he acted like a complete jerk for the world to see. His hunched over shoulders show embarrassment,  He feels even worse that this woman seems so happy now that the photo is taken, despite her slap.

The woman is so pleased and says thank you to him several times. In true Toxic Man form he turns away from he  and doesn’t even acknowledge her  thank you. He can’t wait to get away fast enough.

This is HORRIBLE! He is lucky the slap took place in Quatar. had it happened in the US, this woman would be very rich and he would be facing criminal charges as he would be hauled off to jail.

Having written the book Toxic Men which was released last year, I can assure you that Sharif shows all the characteristics of an abusive man. Here we all saw it frame after frame. Having seen the real Omar Sharif, there is no way I would even consider viewing any film he was in. This image of him slapping a woman is in my mind forever and that is the image I would see every time he would come on the screen for his acting scene.

This incident shows up a lot. It shows us how we idolize people for no good reason. We idolize them simply because they were in a film or on TV or they played well in a sport we like. If we admire and look up to  someone we should know a lot more about them-like their character. Apparently this was no an isolated incident.

Apparently Sharif has a long history of  getting physically abusive  with people  . In fact less than a decade ago, he attacked a policeman in a Paris casino and four years back, he pleaded no contest to” misdemeanor battery” for beating up a Beverly Hills parking attendant.

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Ex Presidental Candidate John Edwards Selfishly Threatens Suicide If Sent to Prison -Organ Donation Should Be His Final Unselfish Act

Tuesday, April 12th, 2011

   

Former Senator and VP and Presidential Candidate John Edwards may  face criminal charges for  violating   Federal campaign laws. He allegedly removed some of his  campaign  funds  to pay for  mistress Rielle Hunter and their baby’s expenses. There is evidence put forth by his  former assistant Andrew Young who confirms what he did, saying   he lied for Edwards in a cover up where he claimed to be the babydaddy.  The FBI and IRS have done extensive probes, leaving no stone unturned.

That was why Edwards kept denying that he was the babydaddy. But I figured out he was the babydaddy anyway and was the first to call it publicly in the media. 

 

WHY DID HE HAVE TO USE CAMPAIGN FUNDS WHEN HE COULD HAVE DONE SOME SPEAKING AND RAISED THE MONEY?

I don’t know what this Toxic Man didn’t sell some of his assets or do a few speaking gigs to pay for his mess. He made millions and millions of dollars when he was an attorney. He could have spoken to his money manager and worked things out. But in sick mind he may have believed that the mess he got himself into occurred while he was campaigning, so why not have the campaign funds take care of this!

 He  could no doubt get  50 to 100 thousand dollars  per talk and a few talks could have taken care of his financial woes instead of  his doing something illegal.

If a jury finds Edwards  guilty, could end up being cellmates with Bernie Madoff. It might not be such a bad thing since he is one of few people in the world with whom Edwards shares so much in common. They sociopaths in my view-  both liars, heartless, cheaters, soulless creatures who have no feelings of remorse. They even  both lost their  sons.  

CRYING AND SCREAMING SUICIDE BEFORE HE WOULD GO TO JAIL

Apparently, last month, his , legal team told him there was a strong chance he could be indicted. According to sources he “completely lost it” and sobbed non stop and said  .”I won’t go to jail. I’d kill myself first.”

Edwards has allegedly mentioned it over and over again that he would rather do  himself  in than go to prison. This wimp would probably get a maximum of five years and he would be 62 when he got out. He would probably do less time for good behavior so he might even be 60 when he got out.

PRISON MAY NOT BE SO BAD FOR HIM AFTER ALL WITH A MEA CULPA BOOK TOUR TO SATISFY HIS EGO AND POCKETBOOK

 Also I am sure they would isolate him so he wouldn’t have to worry about being shived or beaten or being someone’s girlfriend.

 He would have plenty of time to relax, work out and exercise, and write his” mea culpa I found Jesus ”  book in prison . They might even give him  a prison job like picking up trash, cleaning toilets or picking  weeds just to humble him a bit. He may even do some jailhouse consulting with other inamtes on their cases. But he has to never have their legal papers in his cell or he will get additonal jailtime.  

 Since he has no conscience, he wouldn’t be spending anytime crying over Elizabeth or the past. His tears would only be for himself and his predicament. His anger would not be at himself but rather at those horrible people who did this to him.  He could never accept any accountability for his actions.

POST PRISON FAME

Also when he got out, there would be the mea culpa tour to feed his ego and put him back in the limelight to promote the book he would have written in prison. He will no doubt have found Jesus and become a minister of sorts and  preach the gospel of forgiveness on his media tour.

Then could  convince himself that he is loved  by the public and that all is forgiven. Even though the reality is that most  will hate him, his kids – legitimate and illegitimate will probably forgive him and love him. It might be harder for the oldest daughter though as she was old enough to see what torture he put her mother through.

He could get 50 to 100 K a pop for lectures on the  lay speaking circuit  or the religious  speaking circuit, He could be  speaking about how bad he was and  how he destroyed so many lives by his cheating and how Satan made him do it. He can say how Satan made him break Elizabeth’s heart which killed her. He can then say how now that Jesus is in his life full-time  he is a changed man . He can tell us how being in prison made him take a  good hard look at himself and see the light.It may sound repulsive but there are many public speakers out there who have been cheats and swindlers who have written books on how bad they  once were and  ended up in prison and now make a good living at telling the world to give them a second chance int he world. 

Characterwise they are often still the same and just found another way to manipulate people. Edwards is no doubt the same type.    

HE MAY EVEN GET A REALITY SHOW – WHY NOT? OTHER BADLY BEHAVED PEOPLE HAVE IT SO WHY NOT JOHN?

Who knows, he may also be offered a reality show. Look at how bad behavior  appears to be rewarded  these days from Charlie Sheen to Kate Gosselin.  The teen moms can beat up on their babydaddys and all sorts of drama can occur complete with jail time and they still have a show.

 Kate Gosselin  can beat up on her husband, verbally abuse her kids and lie all over  the airwave,  be obnoxious and still gets rewarded with a show, a DWTS appearance, and co-hosting the View. The same thing can happen to Edwards. Having a show would feed his ego and his pocketbook. 

POLITICAL ADVISOR?

Since he has had so much experience as a politician, he could be a political advisor to some up and coming candidates and share his knowledge with them.

READ HANDS ON DAD AND NOT JUST A PHOTO OP ONE

Most important of all when he gets out, he could be a real hands on father not just a photo op for political pictures dad. He can go to  recitals and plays and ball games with his kids, who will still be of ball game  and recital age. He can make amends and do right by them- especially with his oldest  and already grown daughter.

 He could help the kids with their homework and watch them grow. He may even decide to have more babies with Rielle or with someone else he finds more fetching and more “Christian” now that he has a new image to uphold.

NEEDS TO THINK THROUGH  HIS FINAL ACT

But obviously Edwards is too small minded to think these things through. He obviously  has a pattern of not thinking things   through like his cheating with Rielle and how it would devastate Elizabeth and  his not admitting the baby was his, which will have last repercussions on the baby as she matures.

 Clearly he is not thinking through his suicide plan either. Suicide is not the answer. If he is depressed then he needs to get some antidepressants and a good shrink to work things out.

He actually could turn his life around. While it will be an embarrassment for his kids to have a dad who is a convicted felon, who fell from grace, if he lives they can at least say they have a dad.

It will be even more heart wrenching for them to know that they had a weak coward of a dad who was so selfish that he did himself in  during hard times, rather than have a future with them.

Edwards may want to meet with Reverend Jim Baker  of  Jim and Tammy Faye fame, who had a similar fate. He went to prison, came out, got  remarried, started a new family, lectures and is doing quite well these days.

IF HE KILLS HIMSELF HE NEEDS TO LEAVE HIS ORGANS TO OTHERS

But if Edwards insists on being his selfish stubborn foolish TOXIC self and makes good on his  suicide threat when he is indicted, I hope that at least he will do one unselfish act for once in his life-give his organs to others.

Each of his kidneys , heart, lungs, corneas, pituitary gland, ear bones, jaw bone, facial skin, body skin, heart, and other organs can be used to save or better someone’s life.

 Maybe then can he not only get some of the respect back from others but some self-respect, if there is any after a person commits suicide. www.drlillianglass.com    

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Chris Brown’s Body Language on DWTS Screams Anger As He Punches With Spiked Glove

Thursday, April 7th, 2011

As the Body Language Expert for Dancing With the Stars   on Season 8 and doing analyses for Entertainment Tonight and various magazines, all I can say is that I am appalled that Chris  Brown was allowed back into the ABC Family after his window punching incident last week.

I am not alone in  my disgust that he was allowed on DWTS  as host Tom Bergeron and top female dancer Cheryl Burk were equally disgusted. Although Tom tried to be the pro that he is, his stiff body language and half smile gave away his displeasure. He even mentioned publically that he wasn’t thrilled about Chris being there and it showed in his  ambivalent half smile and  in Tom’s tight  body language on the show.

Cheryl who publicly spoke of her own abuse was disgusted that an abuser would appear on the same show are herself. She said that even though she could do nothing about it she wasn’t happy  but did what she could do to in speaking out and expressing her displeasure.

CHRIS BROWN- THE ANGRY PERFORMER

His anger not only appeared off the stage it appeared on the stage as well with his punching dance moves that looked like he would be better in a boxing ring than on a dance floor. In the photo above you can see the anger in his clench fists and extended knuckles.

Before Chris appeared in his devil red and black suit with chains on the  there was what I thought a very contrived and cheap shot. A little boy in a white suit yelled out “ Hey it’s Chris Brown” as the little boy  began to tumble on to the stage and break danced.

That disgusted me that a little kid was being used to promote  Chris Brown. I think associating Chris Brown with the little excited kid was a  disgusting ploy to enroll other kids. The fact that a kid essentially introduced Chris Brown’s performance and then began to perform himself was merely used as a distraction to help mollify Chris’ negative perception. After all who can;t feel warm and fuzzy towards a little break dancing kid in a suit?

As Chris took to his singing and dancing he began what I thought was indicative  of who he is as a person– an angry hostile man.   His punching moves in his first dance were a complete a turn off  and highly inappropriate .  If he was there to rectify his image he certainly didn’t do it with his dancing moves.

While his acrobatics were impressive I still couldn’t shake the photos etched in my brain of Rihanna’s face  that was pummeled by him.

As I recalled what he did to the window at ABC I got even more disgusted by him. To  think of the  force he used in breaking this sealed and reinforced  window was also repulsive to me. Anyone else would have been arrested  and put in jail but celebrity justice is no doubt what kept him free. I kept thinking of that and it was maddening.  He was even invited back to GMA to explain himself which further sickened me as anyone else would NEVER have been invited back to GMA or to any show ever again for that  hateful and dangerous antic.

Thus, it was impossible for me to appreciate any of  his talents. When I heard the audience clapping loudly and standing to their feet , there was no doubt in my mind that this was choreographed as well. It further disturbed me as to why this nasty violent creature was being celebrated in any shape or form.Why he was allowed on the DWTS stage in the first place was beyond my comprehension.

But clearly, someone high above made sure that Chris would be successful in spite of himself. It no doubt appears to be  all about  dollars and cents.

But to me, this violent out of control creature simply looked   like a  mean devil dressed in red and chains. I would never purchase anything  with he was associated. In fact I would encourage others to boycott him as well. We simply cannot showcase and honor those who  are violent. There is enough world violence out there and we certainly don’ tneed it in our artists who’s aim is to entertain and bring us joy.

Then he was introduced for his second song set as he wore a white suit with lights on it that changed colors designed to  distract people . I did like the lighted suit that changed colors as I did like the  backup dancer’s neon looking outfits and the choreography. But that still didn’t change the reality. To me he is still a  Toxic Man who happened to be wearing a lighted suit that changed colors.

Then Chris was done performing and  I saw Chris Browns face drenched in sweat as he held  his  silver metal spiked fingerless  glove up to his face as he as in a praying hand position with his hands clasped together. I found this incongruity of  prayer and violence sickening  and hypocritical. Brown was thrilled the  DWTS audience received him well and pressed his praying hands together as an act of humility and forgiveness. But to me it said cockiness with is head even cocked to the side. He ”got over” on everyone.  His mindset was that even though he was violent and out of control, he was  still loved and revered !

As a violent creature who beat up Rihanna a beat up a window, in my view Chris Brown should not be wearing  that glove as it could prove to be a lethal weapon if used  inappropriately on someone.

His handlers  who were so concerned about his image forgot a crucial element. They forgot to not allow him to dress in a spiked  metal violent  glove. So their image makeover with his hair back to black and his DWTS appearance backfired as the boxing like punching dance moves , hostile hands and  hateful and hostile weapon- like glove said it all!  www.drlillianglass.com

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TOXIC MEN Chris Brown, Michael Lohan, Mel Gibson, and Charlie Sheen Continue

Saturday, March 26th, 2011

 

 

Chris Brown  has a tantrum  breaks a window at GMA  and  freely walks away as he leaves the studio shirtless. He performs at a concert that evening as though nothing happened and is  even scheduled to perform at DWT. Michael Lohan allegedly holds his ex fiancé hostage, get arrested and then walks away with a misdemeanor. Charlie Sheen acts nutty and as a result  makes  even more  millions . Mel Gibson knocks off his baby mamma’s dental veneers and smacks her only to get  a slap on the wrist , no jail and only community service to work  children.

 What do each of  these TOXIC MEN have in common?  They have all physically and emotionally  abused women. They have disrespected women, They  have never beenb held accountable by the public.

 Is it because they are rich  celebrities ?

It is unconscionable  to allow these Toxic Men to get away with such horrible behavior  and to not be held accountable. It speaks volumes about what we tolerate when it comes to women being abused and degraded.These men need to be ostracized and not be regaled as heroes in my view.

 I would NEVER see another Mel Gibson film again and I encourage everyman and woman to do the same. The fact that actress Jodi Foster, who  has supported women’s causes for years,  supports Mel speaks volumes whn it come sto her own needs and pockebook.  She is his producer of his Beaver film  and obviously her investment in the film and the money spent means more to her than not supporting a man who abuses women.  

Just seeing photos or videos let alone a film of Mel Gibson  repulses  me  becuase of  his abuse towards women and his racist rants. There   is no way that I would ever  patronize anything  in which  he was involved with unless it had to his giving money to abused women’s shelters,  the Anti Defamation League, the NAACP, or La Raza .

 I would never  but let alone listen to a Chris Brown song because just knowing who he is and how he behaved outweighs any talent he may have. There are too many other well behaved talented people I could listen to . Chris did the whole interview with Robin Roberts without incident. There was body language signs which indicated his  annoyance , He let her know he wanted to move on and discuss his album byt he never looked at her when he said it. Instead he gave a nervous smile so it may have semed that he was cool  bout it. Instead, he carried that anger with him and it escalated. Thus he became a SILENT BUT DEADLY ERUPTING VOLCANO which is the most dangerous of all Toxic People.

 Chris Brown can’t be trusted in my view as I seem him as a wild animal who is out of control.

 
 

As for Charlie Sheen, just knowing what he did to so many women turns be off to him completely. The fact that he put a knife to the throat of his two  babies  mother is enough to make me never want to see his face ever again. The fact that he physically and emotionally abused so many women and knowing how he  manipulated the public with his“crazy like a fox” act  makes me  tuned off forever as  I can’t see anything  appealing or entertaining about him.  

 

  And as far as Michael Lohan goes, whenever I find him  yapping away on any show I  turn the channel. To me he continues to  ride on his daughter’s coat tails of fame. I find that he has nothing to offer. His latest stunt of going on Celebrity Rehab for his alleged anger management needed to be dealt with in a specific anger management program not on a program  featuring celebs going through rehab. First of all he is not a celbrity and secondly he willnever succeed in any rehab in my view.

 Personally, I also think  that Michael Lohan may turn out to be a  physical danger to others to the point that he may be eventually be spending a great deal of  his  life behind bars. To me he is a train wreck waiting to happen.

NO FREE PASSES

I am not going to give these TOXIC MEN a free pass by saying that they have  alcohol or substance abuse issues and that is why they behave so horribly. Many have these same issues and don’t abuse women.

Alcohol and drugs are not the underlying reason they are  angry and violent towards women. To think so is to think naively. becuase their   anger issues are  deeper , Their  alcohol and drug use is clearly only  a symptom of the real problem – self hatred, mother issues, and other psychological constructs.

The more the public  refuses to support these  four TOXIC MEN, the more the publci  will be sending them a clear message, that their behavior will not be tolerated.  They must be held accountable for their awful behaviors- celebrity  or not ! www.drlillianglass.com

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Dr. Lillian Glass First to Discover Charlie Sheen’s” Crazy” Acting Scam As He Finally Reveals to Press He’s Been Playing A Game All Along

Monday, March 14th, 2011

  

Charlie Sheen has  been goofing on everyone and I picked it  up through his body language and communication patterns early on. In fact my blog that Charlie was ” Crazy Like A Fox”  said it all.  Today, it was confirmed that Charlie Sheen is indeed “crazy like a fox”  as he revealed in a candid interview  to the press that his “public meltdown” is merely  a “performance art”  thanks to his acting skills.  

When I first appeared on CBS’s  The Insider, I remarked that Charlie was angry as we could  see by his body language. The furrows on his forehead and knitted brow were genuine. They revealed that he was furious about not getting his way and coming back to the “Two and Half Men” set to resume working. He was furious that someone else, namely Chuck Lorre, his producer  was controlling what he could and couldn’t do.  

Then his anger started to escalate. However, the anger he reveled on his videos  seemed rather controlled. Real anger gets out of control quickly in most cases and this was not the case with Charlie. His Sheenisms seemed contrived and planned. The physical transition from his anger to non anger and even pleasantness was too quick , which was  the first signal to me  that something wasn’t  quite right.  

While Charlie may very well be bipolar (only he and his psychiatrist know for sure)and while he may very well have been on drugs (only he, the medical lab  and his physician know for sure) he was doing some excellent acting as he raged on in his videos in order  to get public attention.  

In his second video, if you weren’t  listening to his words, but rather paying attention to his physical movements and the tone of his voice and to his  delivery, you could have sworn he was reciting Shakespeare. In other instances on the tape as he quoted his poetry,  he was quite brilliant and wonderfully entertaining.  

There was no question in my mind that he was acting. As I said in my previous blog about Charlie- he was crazy like a fox” By acting crazy he got a Funny or Die commercial to bring even more attention to him. He has now  teamed up with companies and has a tee-shirt line  with his new catch phrase  ”Winning”. There are  even Tiger Blood alcoholic beverages.  

   

 One Sheen fan even had  a tatoo made of Charlies head on a tiger with red blood dripping out from the tails .      

Here is what Charlie told the Austrailian radio network Nova:  



. “It wasn’t like I was really believing that if you take a drug called Charlie   

Sheen your face will melt off and you’ll weep over your exploded body!”

  

He said he has been playing a game with the media.   

“They love me,” he said  

  

“It’s a big, warm hug. It’s like a nude Jacuzzi,” he added   

.

  

    

CHARLIE WON THE WAR AGAINST TWO AND A HALF MEN  

The bottom line is that Charlie won the war against “Two and a Half Men”. So what if they fired him and he won’t get two  

million dollars an episode. He still gets a hefty sum in residuals when the re runs of the show occur all over the world.  

Most likely there will be some type of settlement with CBS. He will NEVER come back to the set to finish the remaining  

episodes. Chuck Lorre would rather poke pencils in his eyes and sit on hot coals than work with Charlie Sheen ever again.    

CBS can never go back on their word and unfire him and rehire him or they will look like weak wimps to the world. Besides  

the ego of the “suits”  would never let that happen.   So Charlie will make even more millions in a settlement more than  

the remaining two million per episode. There was apparently  no” moral clause” so CBS in my view doesn’t have a leg to  

stand on, much to their chagrin.  

Charlie is more popular than before and no doubt his film career will be HUGE! In polls that have been taken men LOVE him  

and it is men who will go and purchase tickets to see a Charlie Sheen movie. Lots of people will want to see his films or  

anything else he does because they want to see what he will do next.!  

Charlie IS very entertaining and he IS the consummate actor and  now we have  

discovered IS the consummate manipulator and marketer. So now we don’t have to take Charlie Sheen’s home made  

videos  so seriously. It is all an act as we have seen.  

CHARLIE SHEEN MAY BE  HAZARDOUS TO A WOMAN’S MENTAL AND PHYSICAL  

HEALTH  

Having said that, the man in my view is still TOXIC  and has serious issues especially  when it comes to women .He may  

very well be a danger to women in my view.  

  

 I believed he was a TOXIC MAN  when  my book TOXIC MEN book and described Charlie Sheen;s patterns with women.  

Iam even more convicned of his toxicity than ever before as it realtes to women.  

Any man who beats up on a woman like he has done in the past with Brooke Mullerand other women including John  

Travolta’s wife, Kelly Preston whom he shot in the arm when they were dating back in the day is a danger.  

 His only relating to women  who are porn stars and  prostitutes speaks volumes about his inner feelings about women and  

his clear disrespect for them. I am glad that Denise Richards is doing her best to keep her two young daughters awar  

from Charlie as it is my view that he deep down he does not like nor respect women. If he  disrespects women, what  

messages will be transferred over to his daughters  and what impact will that have  on them  as they get older?  

While Charlie may be entertaining and amusing and a great marketer of his own brand, he is still a danger when it comes to  

his relationships with women as no woman is safe in his midst.  

 Recently, even one of his low self esteemed “Goddesses” couldn’t take him anymore and walked away, only to  return after  

being wooed  back by him, Unfortunately her returnin to Charlie was the unfortunate typical response of an “abused  

woman’s” psyche. Studies show that this back and forth brak up  between the abused and the abuser can occur seven to  

eleven times until the abused has finally had enough and walks away for good. Hopwefully the “goddess: will see the light  

before it is too late.  

 So to any woman who gets involves with Charlie Sheen,  know that he will  never changeand that you can never change him.  

Know that you can get seriously hurt!  So think twice before you enter Charlie’s  Tiger’s den because that blood you may see  

willnot be the fictional  Tiger blood. The blood you see may be your own.    

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Body Language Charlie Sheen Indicates He’s ” Crazy Like A Fox” And a TOXIC MAN

Saturday, March 12th, 2011

 

After watching Charlie Sheen  on his recent  home videos and on CNN with Pierce Morgan I am more convinced than ever that he has  “ gotten over”  on everyone. Yes, there is no doubt that he appears as though he is in some type of manic  phase with his constant movement , high level of anger and agitation,  and pressured  speech  rate.  But if you listen carefully between the lines,  Charlie knows exactly what Charlie is doing, And  no doubt Charlie will come out ahead of this as far as making money goes and being even more popular than ever before.

Having said that, if he is in his manic phase and if he is drinking  and drugging along with it, there is a super high risk he may get even more angry and violent and either do himself in or do physical harm to others.

CHARLIE AS A “TOXIC MAN”   MAY POSSIBLY  END UP  HARMING OR EVEN KILLING HIMSELF OR SOMEONE ELSE

‘In my latest book Toxic Men, I write about Charlie Sheen being one of the most Toxic Men based on his alleged history of violence towards women. He was accused of beating a woman up back in the 90′s. He shot Kelly Preston- John Travolta’s wife in the arm once when they were dating. He threatened and abused  ex wife Denise Richards. His Christmas fiasco with holding a knife to Brook Mueller’s throat also shows his extreme violent tendencies .

So based on this,  there is a high probability that Charlie may physically harm or even kill someone out of  his  uncontrolled anger and rage . Another possibility is that  he may accidentally kill himself by ingesting either too much of something or a combination of something.

DELUSIONS  OF GRANDEUR ARE NOT DELUSIONS AT ALL- THEY ARE REALITY – HE PROBABLY WILL BE AN EVEN BIGGER STAR THAN EVER BEFORE AS A RESULT OF ALL OF THIS

The reason I say” accidentally”   is that there is no question that Charlie appears to have narcissistic tendencies.  While delusions of grandeur  often accompany a manic phase,  what is really confusing is that Charlie’s delusions of grandeur are a reality.

He thinks he can get millions of followers to rally behind him and guess what?  He can!

 He thinks he can make million and millions from representing product and guess what? He can!  

 He thinks he will be a huge film star. And guess what ?  He will be!  People will flock to see his movie just to see how he turned out.

Can he get insured? Absolutely! He is so cleaver that before any physicals or  drug tests  are conducted he will make sure he is clean just like he did when he took the test in front of   cameras.

The fact that he is in such great shape  complete with ripped abs,  at his age and with all the partying he has done is also impressive to many fans and non fans alike.  

HE PROBABLY WILL WIN HIS BATTLE AGAINST THE CBS SUITS

CBS absolutely  knew who they hired  when they hired  Charlie. They knew he could do the role but what he didn’t know was that he could do it so well and make the show such a hit and a cash cow for them.

That is why they let him get away with so much for so many years and turned a blind eye.They felt that his personal life was his personal life and as long as he showed up on the set and did what he was supposed to do- no problem!

In fact they were of that mindset when Charlie had his latest binge in the hotel  in NYC and caused a lot of public embarrassment. While most companies would  fire an employee immediately after that fiasco or after the  fiasco in Aspen at Christmas  when Charlie put a  knife to his wife’s throat, CBS turned a blind eye.

In show business bad press may be good press. It keeps you name out there.  His bad boy behavior certainly didn’t hurt his image or CBS ‘s ratings. So they kept him on.  A long as he made money  for them, they did not  care what he did in his off camera life.

Charlie knew that  and he kner he was safe with his 2 million dollar income an episode . So he had no worries.

During this last binge, the only reason he was given a break in production is that CBS knew Charlie was their cash cow and wanted him to take care of whatever ailed him.

They were willing to wait until he sorted himself out. They were willing to give him 30 days or longer to dry out in a rehab facility and put the show on hiatus until he returned. Charlie  WAS the show so they were willing to wait for him.

But Charlie didn’t want to wait. He didn’t want to be in rehab.  He didn’t think he needed to have anything rehabbed.  

He loved his life. 

 he loved that he could get away with anything.

He loved that he could have any woman or as many women as he wanted.

He loved the hookers and prostitutes and having two women at once .

He loved the fights and high drama inside and outside of his life.

He loved his his kids.

He loved the drugs and drink.

He loved getting whatever he wanted at the snap of a finger.

And  most of all He loved Charlie as we have all seen on his many interviwes. The common theme is  Charlie loves Chrlie and Charlie thinks he is omnipotent.

CHARLIE’S CARDINAL  SIN IN SHOW BUSINESS THAT GOT HIM FIRED

 

CBS knew he was getting out of control and believing his own press as being the greatest and even God-like as we have all seen in his on camera musings.

When Charlie wanted to get back to work a day or so later instead of taking off the  30 days or whatever it took to get “well” CBS for the first time in Charlies life said NO! They really wanted him to sort himself out and at the same time wanted to show they were the one who were  in control and had the power- not Charlie.

So Charli , like any spoiled child who doesn’t get his way went on a tirade and threw a tantrum. He took his tantrum to the airwaves tell everyone how bad and awful  the producer Chuck Lorre was to him.

This no douBt  freaked out  my dear friend, PR maven  Stand Rosenfeld,  who no dount  said NO WAY! You can’t do that! This is career suicide to trash your producer in public! I am having nothing to do with this! I am out of here!

This didn’t phase Charlie in the least as he certainly  didn’t need a PR person to get  press . Everyone  in the media clamored to get some airtime or press time with him. In a few day period he generated major league press  all by himself  by appearing on every major morning and entertainment show including CNN Pierce Morgan.

While he was an angry mess on every morning show and shocked viewers with his rhetoric and outrageous sayings,   the ratings went through the roof. People never saw this Charlie Sheen before. They always  saw a clean and funny watered down version of him on Two and a Half Men.  Now they saw him raw and angry!

  I even commented about him on  CBS’s the Insider saying how angry  and hostile he looked body language wise.

When Charlie arrived at the CNN Studios to do Pierce Morgan’s show, there was tension in the air.  I was even at the CNN  studio shooting the Nancy Grace Show  and everything there seemed to be on lockdown.

There was a heaviness and nervousness  in the air and people were walking on eggshells.  You couldn’t roam around freely as usual and there were  only certain rooms you could be in.  Secuity was everywhere and in full force. It was becuase  Charlie was on the loose and no one kne what would happen. Would he fly off the handle?  Would he harm someone? So as a precaution,  they wanted to keep everyone away from him and out of his path.

  THE PAPPS AND ME AND CNN

When I walked out of the  CNN studio to get into my limo, a throng of paparazzi  three feet deep were waiting outside for Charlie to take his photo as soon  he emerged from doing  Pierce Morgan’s show.  Because they were so anxious and camera trigger happy they immediately  began flashing away at me when someone yelled out That’s Dr.  Glass –

 Then the  multitude of questions and cameras  came at me as I was asked  what I thought about Charlie Sheen on CNN as I was getting into my limo.  Since I dint see the show at the time because I was busy filming Nancy Grace I hadnothing to say except that I didn’t get to see it .  

CHARLIES CHARM ON CNN AND  WHAT GOT HIM FIRED

I did manage to see the show  while I was in an airport in Salt Lake City that Sunday .Charlie was not as angry on the show In fact he was hilarious at times!  He was bright and sharp and clearly knew what he was doing and saying. He did not seem  crazy at all. In fact Peirce  also remarked that he didn’t think Cahrlie  was crazy and actually thought Charlie was great AND CHARMING.

But those who did not find Charlies interview charming was CBS! Charlie committed the Cardinal sin in Hollywood- Biting the hand that feeds you!  He was discussing money and whether or not he would come back and the negotiation process . This is a HUGE NO NO!  That is why there are agents and lawyers . You cannot discuss this on the air. It made CBS look bad as well as all producers.

Because of Charlies popularity, he used his forum to in essence badmouth his employers and put them in a bad light. They could have none of that and rightfully so.  So they fired him on  Monday.  They clearly had enough of him making them look like the bad guy when all they did  was try to give him a chance to sort himself out.

 

SHOCKED CHARLIE TAKES MATTERS INTO HIS OWN HANDS AND COMES OUT AHEAD

Charlie was shocked and no doubt went on a binger as he ranted and raved and looked even mor out of control and manic than ever on his  home made reality show.  He looked awful as there was no makeup and hair stylist to make him look good. It was just raw real Charlie.

When his kids were taken away it was sad and horrible.  Nut the right thing to do as kids cannot be anywhere near this man now. He seemed to take it in stride but when the reality sets in, that  he will not be seeing his kids when he wants to it will no doubt have a huge emotional impact on him.’

Maybe that will be the catalyst for him to sort himself out.  One thing is for certain he truly loves those kids and that was evident on the video.

CHARLIE WILL FIGHT HIS CBS FIRING AND WILL PROBABLY WIN

Charlie;s legal battle with CB S is far from over and no dount a settlement will take place. Noone wants a drawn out trial which would kee this ugly situation alive. It won;t look good for CBS as Charlie;s growing populaity would make them look like the big bad wolf even though they were not.

Marty Singer, a great contracts attorney who also specializes in defamation against clebritiers  will make sure Charlie comes out ahead and no doubt he will from sa financial point of view.

I think CBS would rather settle than see the likes of Charlie on the set of Two and a Half Men. I am sure that producers would rather stick hot coals in their eyes than see Charlie show up on the set again. No dount they will replace him. There is talk of replacing him with Rob Lowe, whoim I have known for years. That would be a grat move in my view. Besides being funny, he is defianately  easy onthe eyes and would attarct a lot of female viewers.

CHARLIE CAPITALIZES ON HIS INFAMY

On his latest home reality show he was funny. I even laughed out loud.  He gets under the table and takes a swig of something and says he isn’t going to tell us what it is because he hasn’t goTten paid for it.

 So now it is all about money as we hear how he is getting this offer and that offer. Charlie will no doubt make more money than ever and make more of a name and a brand for himself than ever before.

He will probably make so much that he may end up producing his own movies and end up one of the biggest moguls and powerhouses in Hollywood. Since he is such a porn star afficionado, perhaps he may even produce some porn as well.

The money machine has started the sound of ka-ching   already, There is a  WINNING Tee shirt line and a Tiger’s Blood drink and I’M ON A DRUG CALLED CHARLIE SHEEN  tee shirts . “Pulling a Charlie Sheen” will no dount become part of our vernacular.

I am sure that TROLL tee shirts will be on the way. Maybe there will even be a cartoOn series and a reality show or even a  film called “Charlies Trolls. The point is that Charlie has reached the tipping point in a good way and his money making machine has become viral with his Charlieisms.

With social media and good old marketing Charlie doesn’t need CBS . If he doesn’t kill himself with drugs or end up in prison for  hurting or killing someone,  Charlie has a very lucrative future ahead of him.

 Even though CBS gave him the boot, Hollywood being what it  is and seeing how much he can make will give him yet  another chance for sure. Someone else will offer him a show-either cable or  NBC or ABC.  No dount it will be  a hit. Film offers will come in and people will flock to see train wreck crazy Charlie.

But as I said Charlie is not crazy, He may  be  manic and angry and hostile. But Charlie is still  funny,talented, the consummate actor as we have even seen in his over the top ratings on his own reality show.  Charlie clearly  knows what he is doing. Charlie is bigger than ever and is here to stay… unless he does himself or someone else in.  www.drlillianglass.com

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Charlie Sheen‘s Body Language and Communication Patterns Show Danger! Narcotic

Wednesday, March 2nd, 2011

or Psychotic ?

 

AS the body language expert for the Insider and  ET on CBS  I analyzed  Charlie Sheen’s body language   It is evident to me that Charlie is  consumed with  rage  and hostility which I believe will eventually consume and destroy  him unless he gets out of his denial and gets some professional help. The main  question is whther his behavior is due to drugs or  some type of  psyhiatric issue. In any event he needs help immediately. 

 His hostile  attacking  rebellious  comments and  narcissistic self-aggrandizement  reflect that he has become out of control not only in his ego but in his actions.  The rapid staccato speech patterns,  hard glottal vocal tones,  agitated facial expressions with  his furrowed brow and wide-eyed buldgingt gaze, and  constant abrupt body movements where he could not sit still ,  reflect a man who in my view will end up a tragic  statistic  unless he finally sees the light and gets help.

 Unfortunately I do nto see that happening at all. Based on  his body language we can see that his  arrogance will never allow him to reach out to those who can help him. While he said that people like Sean Penn and Colin Farrel reached out, he said they supported him . Perhaps he didn;t hear their message or behaps they never gave him a message. The message is that he needs help and he needs it now.

 His expansive movements with his hands and arms flailing indicate that  he thinks he knows best. It reflects his perception of being in control.But unfortunately it is quite the contrary as it is accompanied by his bravado and outrageous statements.

 His dirty looking  un coiffed  hair  and  cigarette smoking  show that he could care less about himself and how he appears to others,.  Speaking with a lit   cigarette  half burned  resting in his parched lips reflects Charlies defiance  and rebellion and no longer caring about his  public  image.

 His outrageous  rhetoric  which was clealry  intended for  shock value as he spoke of his “Goddesses” - living with two women , his being proud of his drug taking and partying as well as  his sayng things to show that he was above everyone else indicate his inner rage.

Very  disturbing  was his vocal  patterns as they verified his inner turmoil. What goes on in ones psyche often is reflected through their voice . The tones were severely hoarse and  attacking ans sounded   raspy. This is clearly an  indicator that a person may be doing self-destructive behaviors  to his vocal apparatus, like   smoking, drinking and excessivekly taking  narcotics.

His open  wide-eyes which looked as though they were buldging out as well as heis   furrowed brow and forehead as well as his pursed lips revealed  his constant  anger  as well as a haughtiness and a sence of arrogance . The constant  lip licking and  shoulder shrugs reflect that he is most probably  spewing forth his ridiculous rhetoric as  he clearly cannot  believe everything he  is  putting forth publicly .

This was  clear  when he said that CBS could have to pay  him 3 mill an episode if they wanted him back on the show . Obviously he  knew this demand would never be met , but it was his way of instigating and  pouring verbal fuel on theintense  fir he was creating.  

  Charlie Sheen appears to be   so  out of control that he is  not only a detriment  to himself but to those around him- especially his children.  His poor judgement and  pent-up anger could  cause bodily harm to someone .

After seeing him in full force it is not surprising to see what he alledgedly did to  abuse his  his ex wife Brooke Mueller and the countless other women who have accussed him of physical violence throughout the years. 

 

While he didn’t yet  commit   physical violence  against his Two and a Half Men  producer Chuck Lorre , he definatelky coommitted verbal violence towards   him by outing Lorre’s  Hebrew name which he apparently changed  from Haim Levin.

Many believe this was an anti Semitic gesture  on Charlie’s part which Charlie  denied.  But ther eis no question that the dig was meant to let people know Chuck was Jewish in a demeaning manner .  It does nto matter if  Charlie denies it, many feel that it was hitting below the belt and spoke volumes in trying to   brining up personal ammunition against   Chuck  like  changing a Jewish sounding name for a more Anglo sounding one .  Charlie was in essence calling the kettle black so to speak. He  did the exact  same thing Lorre did  in  changing his  name  from Carlos Estevez to Charlie Sheen  to make it sound less Latino and more Anglo.  

 

No one knows what destruction  Charlie is  capable of doing better than his seven year  publicist  , Stan Rosenfeld. I  have known Stan for decades and consider  him a dear friend.  In my view Stan is one of the greatest  men with a lot of  integrity and  and  for whom I have a great deal of respect. For Stan to suddently  eliminate a client from his rosters speaks volumes .  It is a  HUGE deal in the Hollywood community! He obviously saw which raod Charlie was going down and wanted no part of it.

 Stan Rosenfeld remained the  diplomat he is,. he did not  embarass  Charlie. He merely said in a press release ,

“I have worked with Charlie Sheen for a long time and I care about him very much. However, at this time, I’m unable to work effectively as his publicist and have respectfully resigned.”.

Charlie in turn told the press that he fired Stan and that Stan did not quit after calling Stan a perjorative term beginning with a p and ending in a y.  His parting with Stan  didn’t stop him as  he = secured his own publicity. He showed up on ABC the Today Show TMZ and on  CNN;s Pierce Morgan.

In each interview he appeared  more and more upset leaving no one save from his wrath from   his father to CBS, to Chuck Lorre to John Stamos, who may possibly be rumored to take over his role to his realtive Joe Estevez who may also take over the role if the show continues. HBut that is not the case since the show has definatekly been cancelled by the CBS powers that be.

Now he has teamed up with bulldog attorney Mary Singer and is  going to sue CBS for  320 million dollars “mental anguish.” Based on what I have seen of Charlie’s actions , it seems  plausible that CBS could  file a countersuit against  Charlie  who  has caused them equal  “mental anguish.”

There is nothinbg sadder than to  observe someone at the top of  their career  fall so rapidly. Charlie;s  arrogant and hostile words and bizarre statements  have aliented fans  whom he is under the illusion will support him. When one degrades their fans as Charlie has sone, no one will ever support  this behavior.

No fan likes to see entitlement and arrogance and  hear themselves degraded and minimized as Charlie has done.

His  overinflated opinion of  Charlie will be his greatest  downfall. He will quickly learn that he is replaceable  and that he is not a powerful as he thinks when it comes to battling a network. While he may wina  legal battle or two he will have clearly LOST the war.

 It will be a rude awakening when he will be found unemployable and when fans will run the other way. Everything in showbusiness is based on fans and if you lose them you lose everything.  

 Based on my view of his  speech,voice, and body language  I am not  confident   Charlie’s future willk be a good one  . He has said  duringt the interview that he would never take medication after he was bluntly  asked if he was bipolar.

He claimed  he was not bipolar but rather  bi-winning as she subsequently bragged about his drugging  and partying.  This is not a good sign. Couple that with all the bridges he burend and all the people he alienated and  Charlie’s future is a sorry one. He has clearly shown that he is indeed a TOXIC MAN  as I referr to him in my latest book TOXIC MEN.   www.drlillianglass.com

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DR. LILLIAN GLASS WINS COPYRIGHT INFRINGEMENT TRIAL AGAINST MARSHA PETRIE SUE

Sunday, December 12th, 2010

  On December 9, 2010, a jury in Los Angeles, California unanimously found in favor of media personality Dr. Lillian Glass in her copyright infringement trial against Marsha Petrie Sue, an author and professional speaker from Arizona.

  In the trial, Dr. Glass had alleged that Petrie Sue’s 2007 book “Toxic People” had wrongfully copied from two lists in Dr. Glass’ 1992 book “He Says, She Says.”  The jury of eight agreed.  

 Dr. Glass had also written a book in 1995 called “Toxic People.”  She stumbled across Petrie Sue’s book of the same title on Amazon.com and learned that it contained material from “He Says, She Says.”

 The author of fourteen books, Dr. Glass said: “I’m so happy, so proud to live in this country where we can send a message about improper copying.  My books are my life’s work.  They are full of  valuable and helpful information. If a person wants to use something, contact me.  But don’t copy my work without giving me credit and hope I won’t find out, because I will stand up to anyone who does this.”

 “I not only fought this legal battle for  myself,” added Dr. Glass,” I fought it on behalf of  everyone who creates something.” 

 Dr. Glass was represented by Karish & Bjorgum, PC in Los Angeles. 

 Late last month, Dr. Lillian Glass released a sequel to her best- selling book “Toxic People” about relationships called “Toxic Men- 10 Ways to Identify, Deal With and Heal From Men Who Make Your Life Miserable” from Adams Media (2010). Dr. Glass is also a regular contributor to the Nancy Grace Show and has a monthly column in Cosmopolitan Magazine.  Her commentary is regularly seen through the news media.

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Toxic Father Michael Lohan Claims Attack Night Before He Stalks Lindsay at Courthouse As Lindsay Speeds Away From Him

Monday, November 1st, 2010

The good news about Lindsay being in Betty Ford until January is that she won’t have  to worry about her  Toxic father  Michael stalking her like he did at the courthouse the day she was sentenced to rehab by Judge Elden Fox.

Lindsay arrived looking  professional in a chic black suit with her hair pulled back in a pony tail. Trailing begin her  was her enabling   manager mother wearing essentially the same outfit with her hair pulled back in a pony tail as well.

Lindsay seemed happy and in good spirits upon her arrival at the courthouse in Beverly Hills. Her mom was there to support her . Lindsay looked back at her  mom and smiled as   she was several steps ahead of her.  She then  faced straight  ahead, making her way towards the elevator to the third floor to the Judge Fox’s chambers.

Suddenly some high  drama happened. As she  took a few steps  past the  the metal detector,  she turned her head to the left as  soon as she heard  her name being called. She looked and it was the one person she was not interested in seeing. It was her estranged Toxic father, Michael Lohan.  He promptly gave  her a thumbs up sign.

She immediately turned  away and  ignored  him as she sped up her walk towards the elevator . This is the last thing she needed. Michael was the last person she needed to see with everything else that was on her mind.

Dina didn’t notice what happened. Perhaps if she did, she would have enforced her restraining order and had him arrested on the spot.

Poor Lindsay has so much to deal with just getting past her withdrawal symptoms and dealing with trying to be sober.  Seeing Michael so unexpectedly,  after she repeatedly told him to get out of her life is not helping her. In fact it is hurting her. If Michael claims he loves Lindsay so much he needs to leave her alone and get out of her life. She has unplugged from him and does not want hm around her because he is TOXIC! He needs to get that and respect her wishes.

But he is not taking her NO for an answer. This is very disturbing. Michael cannot be trusted. A day before her sentencing Michael claimed that he would no longer be discussing Lindsay publicly. But as soon as she was sentenced he managed to speak to a New Zealand radio station and yap about Lindsay. That illustrates that this man cannot keep his word an has no respect for his daughter or her privacy.

His urge to be famous and to be the star seems much greater a pull for him  than his respect for his own daughter.

It seems that he can’t leave her alone because  he loves the attention and appears to love  himself a whole lot more than he loves and respects Lindsay in my view.

Just the night before Lindsay had to go to court, Michael claimed he was attacked by a man with a pen knife as he  exited his car was going to get cigarettes.  Pleeeez! Look at his alleged wounds. These are not defensive wounds. To me these  superficial wounds are too precise on his neck to be the act of a random attacker.They look  too parallel to one another to look like random wounds. Did Michael put them there?  Did he cut himself in this organized fashion to once again bring attention to himself? Did he call the police and file a false report? Did he refuse medical help because he really knew what he was doing? Was this once again one of his ways to manipulate the press and keep his name out there?

These wounds are not jagged as you would think they would be if someone was moving  and allegedly fighting back as Michael said he was after being attacked. The straight line slices  are to close to one another.  They don’t make sense to me.  If someone came around from the back  of him as he said, why would they put two straight line superficial  slices the side of his neck?  Why wouldn’t they slice the front of his neck at his throat is they were out to attack and kill him?  That would seem to make more sense. And why would they use a tiny insignificant  pen knife?  Why wouldn’t they use a larger knife if they were really  out to hurt him or kill him? If a person is out to attack you it seems they would use a more substantial weapon than a pen knife that one puts on a key chain.

Also what did Michael do to stimulate the attack?  Since nothing happens in a vacuum, did he cut someone off in traffic or shout obscenities at them to make them want to commit bodily harm towards him?  It is odd that a random person who didnt;t rob him or who had no motive would want to kill him for no reason.

If there was a defensive wound on his arm it would be on the back of his arm not on the front in my view. Did he cut himself on the front of his arm as well ? Why would anyone want to  put a knife to him? The fact that he allegedly refused medical treatment is a red flag as well.

If someone cuts you then you go for treatment just to dress the wound so an infection won’t occur. If  a random stranger cut you with a knife, you would have to wonder how sanitary the knife  was that they used. What if they had used the knife on themselves or on  someone else  who had HIV or HEP C and there was a drop of blood on the knife already.

Lohan  said he allegedly fought off the attacker and the attacker ran away. This was obviously his  attempt  to show how tough and macho  he was. Pleeeze!  If someone is intent on attacking you, they would put up a fight as well. Does this sound kike the plot of a B movie ?

How did the alleged attacker look?  Michael has yet to describe them in detail. What was their motive? While there are a lot of homeless people in Santa Monica out on the streets,  most are gentle and harmless. Their aim is not to slice people up.

As Lindsay gets healthier in her treatment program she will be able to see am even  clearer picture of Michael whom I believe is one of the most TOXIC MEN.

While forgiveness may be a good thing in many cases when one is going through treatment, sometimes  forgiveness of someone who continues to casue havoc on your life is a bad thing. Sometimes the only alternative for such a person is to unplug. This is what Lindsay has been doing up until now and I believe it is one of the healthiest things she has done.

I think he has shown what a TOXIC MAN he is time and time again. She has forgiven him  time after time and he still remains abusive hostile, hateful, disrespectful a complete embarrassment to her.

This behavior can never be forgiven for what he has done to his daughter  in the past and continues to do to her in the present. His stalking her and his  not respecting her wishes is the latest example of why he cannot be trusted or forgiven in my view.

He has shown he has little or no character as he hides behind his Born Again Christian routine and AA rhetoric . Abusing people verbally as we have seen him do on the Insider, the  ugly hatred and ugly verbiage that  usually comes out of his mouth, his Judas behavior of betraying people by taping their personal  conversations from Jon Gosselin to his ex fiance, his constant whining and badmouthing of Dina, his contorted pinched, ferret- like nasty facial expression  and hateful body language makes him one of the most TOXIC MEN out there in my view.  

In my latest book Toxic Men 10 WAys of Identifying, Dealing With and Healing From Men Who Make Your Life Miserable which will be out in a few weeks, I say that you don’t have to forgive. You can unplug and never have anything to do with a Toxic Man like Michael Lohan,  if they continue to make your life miserable.

Lindsay needs to heed this advice and never  deal with Michael so she can heal from all the abuse he created in her life and the havoc  he continues to create in her life. To order a copy of TOXIC MEN click the link below

http://www.amazon.com/Toxic-Men-Ways-Identify-Miserable/dp/144050007X

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Chilean Cheater Miner Body Language Shows A Conflicted Man As Lover Greets Him While Wife Is A No Show

Sunday, October 31st, 2010

When miner Yonni Barrios emerged from the capsule after being rescued from his 70 day stay in a cramped mine shaft, he  actually thought he would be greeted by both his wife of close to three decades and his mistress of a decade.

 There as a great deal of tension seen in his jaw as he was anticipating this awkward reunion where he assumed all would be forgiven and overlooked  simply because he survived.But he was mistaken.

 Only his lover Susana Valenzuela showed up to sob into his neck as she held on to him and hugged him for dear life.

She was there to reputedly kiss him on the lips.

But Yonnie Barrios did not reciprocate her affection . His body language was stiff  as he showed no emotion. In fact he whispered something to Susana which may have been for her to back off with all the hugs and kisses. As a result,  their embrace was quickly  broken and she went into the crowd while Yonnie greeted others and no doubt searched the crowd for his wife.  

His  mind must have been was preoccupied with wondering when his wife 56-year-old Marta Salinas, would now come forward.  But that was not to be the case.

THE GALL  OF A TOXIC MAN  

Marta  discovered  that Susana was also holding a vigil for her husband at the Camp Hope site. It was actually  mistress  Susana who broke the news to Marta  that there has been an accident at the mine. Apparently after Marta discovered her husband’s infidelity with Susana,  it was reported that they came to punches and had to be pulled apart.

To make matters worse, as Marta,  the wife started to get involved in his affairs on Camp Hope, Yonnie  instructed teams on the surface to only  deal with his lover Susana instead of his wife.

This no doubt devastated Maria. It must have taken her all of these days to wrap her mind around the situation that she was betrayed  and now discarded.

Then as the day of the rescue approached,  Yonnie asked Marta to greet him at the site. She was prepared to forgive him. She was planning to go, until she heard that he also wanted his mistress Susana there  to greet him as well.

MARIA IS A CLASS ACT

She refused to do so.  She even had some kind f words for him as she managed to tell the press  “I’m happy because he was saved. It’s a miracle from God. But I won’t attend the rescue.”

She let the other woman show up so there would be no problems. In fact the First Lady of Chile applauded her decision.

After the rescue took place, she was once again questioned by the press.  She is quoted as saying: 
‘I’m glad I didn’t go to the mine, it was the correct decision. It would have been wrong if the two of us were there – I have children and grandchildren. That kind of situation wouldn’t have been good for my family, and my sons come first.

Then she  gave him a well deserved zing  by stating  He is crazy and cocky to think I would do such a thing. I have a sense of decency.’

She m also said she would not be visiting him at the hospital. ‘If he wants to see me or talk to me he can come find me. Otherwise we will talk through our lawyers.‘I have his belongings and all these gifts people have sent him – he is welcome to have them.’

She said she is not bitter but had words of wisdom  for her husband and the other miners.

‘This is historic but soon it will be over to the next thing. People move on – in a few years everyone will have forgotten about this.‘They think they will all be millionaires overnight but it’s not like that. Only the skillful ones will make something from this.’

While Yonnie Barrios may have survived this ordeal as a hero, the real hero is Marta his wife. She serves as an inspiration to all women.

 She will not allow herself to be disrespected or humiliated.  At first, she was willing to forgive. But when she saw that Yonnie  was continuing to be disrespectful towards her,  she could no longer forgive. She is not bitter and  appears ready to move on with her life. She knows what is important in life- her children,  grandchildren and her self respect. www.drlillianglass.com

 

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