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Casey Anthony New Mug Shot Shows Physical and Emotional Tranformation

Sunday, May 22nd, 2011

This photo is the latest mug shot of Casey Anthony. It reveals her extreme stress complete with pallid complexion, broken out skin especially above her upper lip  and temple region , puffy  bags under her eyes and a somewhat dazed look. Because her eyes do not seem as bright an alert as they once were, it makes one wonder if she is on some type of anti anxiety medication to help her deal with all that lies ahead of her. We have never seen her look this sad before.

Prior to this jury selection ordeal, she may have believed and trusted Cheney Mason in terms of their “walking out of  the courtroom arm in arm” as he repeatedly told the press. Perhaps that is the reason Casey felt confident and had a swagger and a cockiness about her, which we all observed.

But after her hearing her charges read out loud numerous times during the jury selection process, things finally sunk in. What made it sink in even more was hearing Judge Perry, Ann Finnell, and Jeff Ashton constantly speak about her two options if she is convicted – life without parole or the possibility of a death sentence. This was repeated over and over again.

Additionally, hearing potential jurors  say on the stand   that they think she is “guilty” must have had an  added  impact on her psyche.Based on the evidence of  this mug  shot  photo, it is clear that she is no longer in denial. She is beginning to face the grave reality of what may happen to her in two months time.

Prior to attending the jury selection  process, she felt fear. It showed on her face. She didn’t know what to expect in her new environment. You can observe the whites of her eyes (sclera) and her  wide eyed look of fear. You can also see the tension around or lips and mouth area. The puffiness and eye bags also reflect her level of deep  stress.

Her previous mug shot at the Orange County jail  reveals a much more attractive and angry Casey. You can see that anger in her lower jaw as her muscles are tight and lips are drawn downward.  The bags under her eyes showed  early signs that she was stressed by the whole ordeal.

In her 2008 mug shot, Casey looks very sad and  glassy -eyed as though she was crying real tears. Her expression was victim- like which seemed to say “Why are they doing this to poor me?”
If you compare  Casey’s first mug shot above with her latest one , you can see the dramatic change that has taken place over the past three years. Casey looks  pretty bright eyed  and there appears to be somewhat of a very slight  smirk on her face. Her muscles are smooth indicating there was no tension or worry at that time. At that  time she no doubt, believed in her mind that she would get out of jail quickly.

There seems to be a smugness in this photo where she may have been thinking ”Nothing will happen to me because they won’t be able to find the body. They will just keep looking for Zenaida Gonzalez and never think I had anything to do with Caylee’s disappearance.”  Prior to this photo Case always  used to get away with something.  so why wouldn’t this time be any different?”

But Casey didn’t realize at the time that things would be much different, especially when the remains of Caylee’s body was found.

If Casey is convicted and depending whethe she is sentenced to life without parole or to the death sentence, we may expect to see yet another expression in a  mug shot of  Casey Anthony. www.drlillianglass.com

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Netanyahu and Obama’s Body Language Show Mutual Disdain For One Another

Sunday, May 22nd, 2011

 

After looking at the body language of  President  Obama and  Israeli Prime Minister  Benjamin Netanyahu,  it is safe to say that there is no love lost between them as they show signals of mutual disdain for one another.  We usually see world  leaders act more diplomatically and  hide their true inner feelings when they appear in public. But this is not the case with the American and Israeli leader.  

The expression” if looks could kill ”certainly applies to the above photo.  Obama’s  veins are literally popping out of his forehead in anger as he gives Netanyahu a steely gaze with furrowed brow.  Obama also has his hand on his lower jaw. He  contorts his lip in a snarl, much like an animal does when they are angry and ready to attack.  This facial expression  is an expression of intesnse disdain towards another person. 

The visible  persperation and shiny skin  quality to  both the President and Prime Minister’s  forehead and midface  also  reveal the intense negative emotion they must both be experiencing.

In the above photo you can see the shiny persperation on Netanyahu’s forehead indicating the emotional toll this is taking as he hears President Obama speak. The fact that Netanyahu’s head is cocked to the side indicates that he is in doubt of what Obama is saying and doesn’t agree with him or believe him. The slight jutting forwrd to Netanyahu’s lower jaw indicates that he is angry.

Obama’s curved fingers as she expresses his thoughts signify anger. His lowered  eyelids continue to  reflect  his anger when he speaks as well.

When it is  Netanyahu’s turn to speak we see that his open handed gesture and wide eyed look  indicate that he is being open and communicative. Obama on the other hand is not receptive to what he has to say as he hold on to his lower jaw in anger . You can see the degree of  Obama’s anger as you observe the indentation in the skin made by Obama’s pointer finger.  He also  literally gives Netanyahu the “cold shoulder”  as the shoulder is sharply  pointed in Netanyahu’s direction.

Obama’s finger point is an extremely hostile gesture.  His cupped and shows  continued anger as does his steely eyed gaze. You can also see evidence of Obama;s outward anger as you can observe his vein and muscles s popping out on the side of his neck. Their heads are mirrored towards one another, indicating that they are literally going “head to head.”

Netamyahu returns the steely glance but tries his best to contain himself  by holding on to his hands. But his anger leaks out as he subconsciously points his pointer  finger towards Obama as if to mirror Obama’s admonition.

This photo reveals the most awkward handshake two leaders have ever given one another. It is an angry  handshake which indicates that neither side will budge. Ther is a stiffness of the hands and fingers and the upward thumbs indicates that they are both vying for power.

 Neither one wants the other’s  thumb on top, which is an indication of power. Netanyahu’s curved fingers and extended pointer finger on his other hand indicates how he really feels about having to shake Obama’s hand. He is angry and  cannot stand to do  it.

The same holds true for Obama who stares down at his hands in anger and hostility. Both have tight jaws and forced smiles with lots of tension in the jaw region which screams of anger towards one another.

This photo says a lot about posturing as they attempt to gain their composure. They both are seen grooming themselves, straightening up their pants and pulling up their belts and buttoning jackets, This  is often a signal of  discomfort.  They have so much animosity towards one another that they cannot even look at one another. When people look in opposite directions it usually means that they are not like minded. This is definately the case here. these two are clealy not like minded.

They can’t seem to get further away from one another as they are turned away from one another . Netanyahu even turns away his head in disgust and gives Obama the cold shoulder  as Obama tries to contain himself by clasping his hands together. However  Obama’s  rage leaks out through his extended   thumbs. Obama’s feelings are clealry mirrored in his his tight lipped sneer as he gazes downwards.

Body language wise these photos are extremly disturbing. They show the intense hostility each one of these world leaders  feels towards the other on a very personal level.  This will make any discussion  between them extremely painful  and  most likely  fruitless. It is difficult to communicate, let alone  negotitate with anyone whom you simply cannot stand.  www.drlillianglass.com

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Casey Does Not Shed Tears As Reported By Press Ans Wears Black For First Time In Court

Sunday, May 22nd, 2011

 

The defense team finally dressed Casey in black. Now  in my view,  the jury won’t be distracted by her manipulative outfits in baby colors to give the illusion of innocence. Black  says she is in mourning( even though it is not for Casey but for herself) and says she is taking this  seriously and is no  longer the little party girl. But they missed the fact she needs black pants not gray. Gray is a horrible color for someone to wear who is  on trial for their life. It is drab and depressing. So her teams  needs to go get her black pants to go with the black top .

She also needs to lose the swishy butt swager when she walks into of  and out the courtroom especially if she wants to rid herself of the part  girl image.

Also she needs to loose the Snooki do.  Snooki do says party girl and subconsciously that will be picked up with her hair do in my view so she needs to stop with the  hair teasing in front.. She needs to stick to one hairstyle and leave it at that. When a jury sees her changing up her do they won’t like it and think she is being too self absorbed with her appearance.

As soon as the proceeding began for jury selection on Day 9, Judge Perry was very friendly to Jose Baez. He seemed very happy to see him and had a warm lilt in his voice and a smile directed towards Baez. So any talk that the judge doesn’t like Baez  and is being biased isn;t accurate. He seemed genuinely happy to see Baez.

As soon as Baez opened his mouth he didn’t sound like his peppy self on Day 9.  He seemd a bit monotone which was out of character for him. When attorney Fryer got up in court and told Judge Perry that he couldn’t swear in the jury separate  from the alternates, he let her have it with his brilliance and knowledge.He was very polite to her whens he finished and complimented her on having done a good job.

While Jeff Ashton is an accomplished attorney, he needs to slow down when he speaks and flow out his tone and  stop speaking in such a staccato tone.  Even the judge tells him to slow down all the time. When he sounds so choppy it is alienating. That is no doubt why one of the perspective male 42 year old  jurist,  got so defensive with him. The juror  did not get defensive towards Linda Drane Burdick. If Jeff Ashton doesn’t want to alienate jurors and witnesses,  he needs to change his tone and only use his staccato and hostile sounding tone when he wants to stress a point. Otherwise it does not make him likeable. He needs to use that tone  with Cindy Anthony when she starts her shenanigans or with George ans Lee.

Personally I think there may be a dramatic change in Cindy and George and Lee’s testimony and in their demeanor. I do’;t think they will allow themselves to be used as mitigating factors. I can’t imagine that they will admit to sexually molesting or abusing Casey or Caylee. After George and Cindy hear the details and the other;s testimony as they sit in the courtroom they may have a different perspective.

Casey appeared to have more of  a wide eyed  distant stare today as she listened to the jurors. I don’t know if she is on medication  or not but she appeared to look a little zoned out. At least she was not having an anxiety attack.

While we have all seen the hair of Casey playing with the front of her hair, she has now graduated to playing with her very long pony tail. This may very well we out of nervousness. That is why she needs to keep her hair back in a bun so she can stop fiddling with it an distracting jurors. When she plays with her hair it makes jurors think that she is self absorbed and  superficial as she seems to be overly concerned about her appearance. As we discovered,  that will be one of her mitigating factors- her  being raised to be concerned with outward appearances. If that is the case maybe all the hair grooming will work in her favor. But it can go either way. Jurors may or may not not buy it.

And last but not least Casey was NOT crying  as reported by mainstream media. She simply touched each respective eye  for less than  second after  she stood up when the court was recessed. There were no tears at that time.

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Casey Anthony and Attorney Enjoy Jurors Negative Responses to Nancy Grace, While Courtroom Stress Increases on Day 6

Sunday, May 22nd, 2011

 

JOSE  AND CASEY LOVE NEGATIVE COMMENTS ABOUT NANCY GRACE

Jose Baez shot back  at Nancy Grace by referring to her show as “Nancy Grace Entertainment” whenever he questioned  any of the  prospective jurors.

He appeared to be  loving  the multitude of  negative  answers and  comments  by jurors about Nancy and her show. Comments included that they switch channels  as soon as she comes on, they can’t stand  her, leave the room whenever she’s on,   or they think she is nonsense and ridiculous.  

With a  mischievous grin Baez kept chuckling as he was unable to contain his pleasure as he heard  all the negative comments towards Grace, who has been a thorn in his side, dissecting every inch of the case  since the beginning .

 As we see in the photo above, Jose looks the happiest we have ever seen him with his raised cheeks and open mouthed toothy  smile.

Even Casey Anthony was loving the  multitude of unsolicited  negative comments about Nancy Grace. She smirked when a prospective juror discussed how Nancy talked about Casey’s tossing her hair and pushing her pen and thought it was “nonsense.”

                                                                                   SIX DAYS OF PASTELS

 

Case appeared to be less bouncy and animated on Day 6 than she was on Day 5 when she was interacting with her mitigator Rosalie Bolin. She wore a pastel grey cowl  necked  type top covered by a white cardigan reminiscent of Cindy’s ” white sweater over every outft” attire.

Clothing does have an impact on people’s perceptions of you as research has found.Casey has been dressed in Pastel tops which by the way,  have been much better fitting than the tops she wore in the pre trial hearings. The tops which have been

                                                                     Mint Green

                                                                                      pastel blue

                                                                                 Pastel lilac

                                                                               Baby Pink

                                                             Pastel  yellow

                                                     and Pastel Blue/grey  complete with ruffles

have all  been chosen to no doubt,  give Cy set a softer childlike  sweet and innocent look during the jury selection process. I personally think this will backfire,  especially with the women on the jury,  who will  tend to pay more attention to her clothing. They will most likely see it as an attempt by the defense  to  manipulate then in showing  a softer Casey.

Casey’s courtroom attire  does not reflect what jurors will see when they view her party photos in her skimpy attire. When they see a complete contrast in terms  of what she is wearing on the courtroom, adding to their sense ot manipulation. 

 Wearing a variety of clothing in various pastel  colors, instead of the navy  blue prison outfit she has been in for three years,  may make Casey feel a lot  better. After all, it is  only time she gets to  dress up.  But I don’t think her variety of pastels  is such a great idea. 

 As I have said all along,  I think she would be better off wearing a black suit. It might possibly  give jurors the impression Casey actually feels bad about what happened and is in mourning. But that will never happen. Casey is not in mourning and the only thing she feels bad about is that she is locked up.

                                                              CASEY’S TENSION IN THE COURTROOM

 Casey is definitely not faring well emotionally s we can see in her photos. It is easy to see all the tension signals occurring throughout her body language.

She often touched  the back of her neck and her shoulders where her body is most likely is carrying a great deal of muscle tension. No question that fighting for her life is  a pretty heavy weight to have on Casey’s  shoulders and it shows.

Casey often does  a lot of hang wringing. She is free of handcuffs for hours at a time, so  it is not the the cuffs that block her circulation. When we see her manipulating her hands over one another,  she is literally wringing her handsough she is worried.   This is an indication that she is tense and nervous. The reality of hearing what she is accused of doing is no doubt getting to her.

We also see a lot more of Casey exhaling large breaths whereby she is heaving her shoulders as she breathes out large puffs of  air. This also indicates tensiona nd nervousness.

 When she hears a prospective juror say that she felt  Casey was guilty by omission,  Casey shows a flash of anger. Look at how her  lower jaw juts forth , her eyes are narrowed, and her head is cocked to indicate anger towards the woman juror.

We have seen these flashes of anger whenever a potential juror says that they believe Casey is guilty. As Casey hears  the word “guilty” by so many different people, the reality is  beginning to sink in that she may ever be free again.  .

Also helping things sink in are  the repetitive comments made by attorney Finnell, the death qualified attorney.  As Casey constantly hears the words death sentence and dying by lethal injection it appears that is it  becoming clearer to Casey  that her life may be cut short,  just like Caylee’s life was cut  short. http://www.drlillianglass.com/

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Jose Baez Corrects Mainstream News Reports, Concerned About Body Language, As Casey Seems Focused in Court

Friday, May 13th, 2011

 

JOSE BAEZ SAYS HE  DID NOT TELL CASEY TO STOP ACTING LIKE A TWO YEAR OLD

On day four of jury selection, Jose Baez got up in court today and said that he did not tell Casey to stop acting like a two year old which was previously  reported throughout the mainstream  the press. If that is the case I accept that and feel that he is owed an  apology as mainstream media reported this as a fact.

JOSE BAEZ BODY LANGUAGE CONCERNS

Jose was also  mentioned that he was concerned about body language experts and  body language analysis.  No doubt he must have read my analysis and viewed my interview on Orlando’s Wesh 2

http://www.wesh.com/casey-anthony-extended-coverage/27875055/detail.html

Whether he likes it or not he must realize is that the jury will be looking at every single body language nuance when it comes to him, Mason, and Casey. His every move is under the public microscope whether he likes it or not Casey will be under the microscope and he needs to make sure she presents herself in a way that gives her an equal  advantage. That means he needs to stop her grooming and fidgeting  and crying and flirting, laughing, giggling,  and touching and carrying.

It also means in my view they will be looking at his interaction with Casey and at Cheney Mason’s interaction with Casey and ter and  the rest of the attorneys interaction with Casey. They will notice laughing and  playfulness, touching and even perceived  flirtations .

The body doesn’t lie! People do form opinions by what they see and what they think they see. Whether they are  accurate or not, people make assumptions based on how others come across body language  wise and communication wise.

CASEY APPEARED MORE FOCUSED AND IN CONTROL

Today Casey appeared to be in a better mood. Her hands seemed to be working  much better than they were on Day 3. In fact they appeared to be working rather well and she used her hands in an animated fashion while speaking to a woman in red outfit and when she was writing.  She was all smiles. It seemed that she and Jose were also  in much better spirits with one another as well. So any  negative looking  issues which may have appeared to be between them appear  to have been resolved.

 

WAS CASEY COACHED  BODY LANGUAGE WISE ?


Casey was less fidgety and didn’t groom herself as much. So someone  must have finally set her straight. She looks much better when she sit  up, focuses and pays attention without the extraneous body  movements.

This is a drastic change in what we have been seeing of Casey during the past few days  It will be interesting if Casey can keep this up. If so, she has a much better chance of being perceived more positively and thus get a better chance at having a fair trial. www.drlillianglass.com

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Is Casey Anthony’s Body Language Manipulative As She Claims Illness or Has Reality of Her Situation Set In ?

Friday, May 13th, 2011

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Besides her alleged non- tearing crying behavior,  which appeared to me to manipulative and will not work in her favor with regard to the jury pool, Casey has now drawn even more  attention to herself by claiming illness.

Yesterday she was lead away by deputies after she was seen showing one of her female attorneys, Ms. Simms, what was wrong with her hands.

Casey kept opening and closing her hands and  looking at them.  Ms. Simms appeared to be very concerned as she leaned over to Casey and tried to give her some helpful hints and comfort her as we can see in the photo above.

Her illness  even garnered her some additional physical contact with another attorney in Baez’s office Ms. Ruiz  as  she placed her hand on Casey’s shoulder to comfort her.

 This is obviously the only physical contact Casey received throughout the day. She certainly did not receive any of her usual touches from Baez or Mason as she has received in the past. 

Not only were Baez and Mason focused on the very important jury selection process, there appeared to be  some  tension between Casey and Baez in my view. Baez appered very disturbed about her crying in front of the jury pool and allegedly according to the press  told her to not act like a two year old .

The withdrawal of  his affections may have possibly affected her greatly and added to her anxiety levels. Casey has never before seen Jose so serious faced towards her and so unresponsive. This may  no doubt be  upsetting her internally and having an affect on her motionally and physically.

Previously we have seen Cheney Mason continuously touch her and place his hand on her back and give her lots of attention. There has been  a lot of  back and forth whispering going on as he addressed her every question and concern. But in the jury selection process he has been ignoring her. He is preoccupied and completely focused on picking the right jurors for her trial.

There is no doubt that she misses the physical attention from her two male lawyers. Thus, she may have acted out in hopes that they would come to her rescue and comfort her with a physical touch. Instead, they essentially  ignored her.

The only physical touch she received was when the two officers gave her physical  assistance to lead her into the back room.

 We can see in the above  photo that Casey does look a bit pale and she is blowing out large puffs of air as she exhales through her mouth. She does this in order to oxygenate herself.

The furrowed forehead leads me to believe that Casey may very well be in some sort of physical discomfort. But that physical discomfort may have been brought about by the emotional discomfort she is feeling because of her alienation of  attention from Baez and the lack of focus on her by Mason.

While Casey may very well  have been crying out for attention, I believe that she may have also been having a genuine anxiety attack.  With Baez and Mason focused on other things, there is no longer anyone  there to coddle her emotionally. From Casey’s perspective , it may have been a huge mistake  to turn away the only person who has continually shown her emotional support her own mother.

 After rejecting her mother’s Mother Day visit, the one person who could now  help her cope with her high  anxiety levels. It is very possible that we may be seeing more of this physial manifetion of her emotional  state as she has no one to turn to for attention and support.  We may be seeing more and more of  her  physical manifestations brought about by her emotional state. There may very well be continued  numbness in her hands and trouble breathing. She may very well feel light-headed and dizzy with a rapid heart beat  with  sharp pains in her heart as her levels of anxiety skyrocket throughout the trial.  www.drlillianglass.com

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Fake Tears While Casey Anthony Hears Charges Against Herself Once Again As She Fails To Look At Potential Jurors

Friday, May 13th, 2011

 

Casey looked a lot better today as she entered room , appearing more refreshed. This indicates that she must have had a shower and more sleep. pont She also spend mort time grooming her hair coiffed into a split ponytail with hair around her face.

  Once again she was  not seated between  Jose Baez and  Cheney Mason .  Instead  she was  situated between Ms. Finnell and Baez’ attorney Ruiz with whom Casey has developed good rapport. 

While it was reported in the press that that Casey was crying, Casey was  clearly NOT crying real tears! They were not genuine tears.  Instead,  they were her usual manipulative fake non liquid tears we have consistently seen her use for manipulation . The reason I say that they are fake is because there is no liquid coming out of her eyes and that people do not cry one eye at a time.

Yes her nose was red but anyone’s nose would be red if someone wiped it consistently. As the first few charges were read,  Casey does not put her Kleenex up to  her face. She does breathe heavily as she pushes out a burst of air through her mouth. She also shakes her head “No” as the beginning charge is read.

 Ms. Ruiz is disturbed about Casey’s alleged crying behavior as she writes frantically on her notepad with her red pen. Casey finally reads the note and stops her fake crying as she continues to look down, away from the jury pool.

Jose Baez gets wind of what Casey is doing as well. He turns over to look at  her and he is clearly annoyed about it.

What Casey does not realize is that she has already began digging her own grave with her negative first impression. She has made all the jurors feel  uncomfortable. They feel uncomfortable enough just being in a courtroom and now seeing Casey look like she is boo hooing it makes them feel even more uncomfortable, therebty adding to their stress levels.

What is even worse is that  by her behavior of not having any eye contact with the jury pool as the charges were read, Casey has essentially told potential jurors  she is” guilty” by not looking at them. www.drlillianglass.com

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Casey Anthony’s Phoney Crying And Cheney Mason’s Lengthy Touch

Tuesday, May 3rd, 2011

As Casey Anthony entered the courtroom even though she tried to stifle it the obnoxious raised eyebrow  smirk was still there.  As she was walking into the courtroom she was even grooming herself and making sure her shirt was tucked in to her pants at the back. Cheney Mason pulled out her chair for her and pushed it back in.

Casey did her ritualistic grooming where she dusted off her hands ike people tend to do when they are lying about something or guilty of something, In essence it is a subconscious move to dust away the “dirt ” of the problem that is on the person.

It continued on to her lap as she dusted off herself.

CASEY DID NOT CRY REAL TEARS AS  WRONGLY REPORTED IN THE MEDIA-  THEY ARE FAKE TEARS

Before Judge Perry had something significant to say and actually denied the press’ request, Casey was  fake boo hooing it for the cameras.It was  clearly  a fake boo hoo, so when I read the headlines from the media covering the trial it is obviously reported by someone has no clue about body language and deception.

Perhaps Casey thinks she will find her fake tear in the palm of her hand.  Usually, tears do not  form in the palm of  a person’s hand. If a person is  really crying, their tears would be dry by the time the palm of the hand was even a consideration.

CHENEY TOUCHES CASEY’S BACK FOR THREE  FULL MINUTES

 

  •  Casey shows no more tears or any indication that she is crying or upset. Her facial muscles indicate that there is no crying behavior whatsoever, Yet Cheney Mason continues to hold on to Casey’s back as if he is comforting her. Maybe he is comforting her in a sense considering she has had no human physical contact for the past few years. Maybe he thinks he is doing her a service just by holding her back and touching her.

Casey has absolutely nothing to cry about and she doesnt feign crying or do any real crying for that matter for the rest of the time Judge Perry speaks. Casey looks on in all seriousness with undivided attention.By the way, Jose has never looked so serious in th courtroom as well.

Judge Perry said that this case  has garnered more attention than the OJ case and he wanted nothing in the way of picking a jury for Casey as that was his number one concern.

But Casey can’t seem  to help herself as Judge Perry speaks. here we see her grooming herself once again as she straightens out her collar.

At this time, there are of course no tears, Casey is now busy grooming her hands and brushing them off.

Right before Judge Perry ends his speaking, there is Cheney Mason’s hand on Casey;s back. Why is he feel so compelled to touch her all the time? Jose steers clear of her and keeps his hands to himself and rightfully so.

As we see in this photo Casey needs no comforting for her fake crying so why is Mason still comforting her? It seems very inappropriate in my view. It makes no sense body language wise. You touch and comfort someone when they appear to be in emotional need which was clearly not the case here. Cheney was touching her just to touch her it seems.

Also in this photo Casey reveals her true emotion as a flash of anger appeared on her face as you can see by the leakage fo the furrowed muscles in her brow area.

If we are all wondering why Cheney is touching Casey so often and  supposedly comforting her when it appears she needs no comforting a jury will wonder the same thing. Also a jury  who will spend every day with Casey for the next three months or so will definitely  pick up on her fake tears and ritualistic  and aberrant behaviors. www.drlillianglass.com

 

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Royal Newlywed’s Body Language Is Refreshing Amidst Toxic World Events

Tuesday, May 3rd, 2011

In these days of tsunamis, earthquakes radiation leakages, tornadoes, fires, wars, killings, kidnappings and murder, and a world filled with Toxic hate from bullies who make others lives miserable until they commit suicide  there was nothing more welcoming to refuel our souls than to see two genuine people in love  Kate and William Wales. It was so touching to see them exchange their vows

What made most of us shed a tear or two was knowing that the last time William and his brother Harry  walked into that cavernous Westminster Abby they were filled with  with pain and loss. Even though it was different now, they must have had waves of emotion when they thought of their mother and how she could not join them to see this joyous occasion.

Seeing Harry  with his head bowed down as he entered the church  made me think that he must have had some mixed emotions at that moment.

William  was excited and nervous as one could tell from his lip licking due to his  “cotton mouth” when he first entered the church. But his nervousness subsided when he approached friends and family and felt   their warm embrace. He complimented some of the female guests and told them they looked lovely. Seeing people he loved and who loved him back was the best thing that could have happened to him as he headed  down the aise  of the church to wait for his bride.

 

As soon as Kate stepped out of the  Queen’s Rolls Royce and  on  the red carpet to begin her journey,  you could see immediate signs of a future Queen with a straight and regal posture. Even though she no doubt had twinges of  nervousness, one would never know it. She seemed like a seasoned professional royal.

As she walked down the aisle with her father it was the most beautiful sight. No casting agent for a Hollywood movie could have done a better job picking the right Princess or father of the Bride than the reality we were seeing thunning people in front us. As soon as Kate walked in, Harry looked back to give his brother a rerassuring thumbs up.

William obviously  agreed as he saw his bride in her gown for the first time as he told her she looked  stunning- beautiful. She was beaming when her almost husband acknowledged how fabulous she looked – words which most every woman would love to hear from their man.

During the ceremony there was lip licking  on both of their parts indicating nervousness. But as soon as they were pronounced man and wife all of that nervousness subsided.

This photo above speaks volumes . As soon as they became man and wife we can  see how loving and supportive William  is towrds Kate . Look how he leans in towards his towards his bride. He is protective and helps guide her through the day with all of its specific royal requirements. No doubt he will help guide her through her duties as the newest member of the royal family.

 Kate’s question to William, “ Are you happy? as soon as she entered the carriage spoke volumes. It showed that she was concerned about her man and his emotions and feelings. It was not all about her. It was very telling in terms of their relationship and how genuine it is. It showed how caringand loving she is towards him.  When a couple matches their facial expressions  as you see here, it means they are in total synchrony and like-minded.

 Then there was the most important moment of the entire wedding- the kiss. At first William gave her a very short millisecond unexpected kiss,   which was much of disappointment to those who waited and waited to see the expression of their love and romance. Later on, he turned to her and said “OK now let’s kiss.”  as he gave her a much longer and heartfelt kiss which was more like what the public was waiting for and  wanted to see. Right after William kissed her, he began to turn a different shade of pink as blushed after  his public sharing of what was usually their private moments.  One could feel the love between them.

Apparently, it was reported that the two of them never left one another;s side for one moment during the celebrations which took place afterwards.  It clearly indicated that they were now a team.

That is how  a successful marriage must be in order to survive in this day and age. The couple must be best friends and they must be a team.They must take time to really get to know one another as William and Kate did. They learned about one another through the seasons,  through their highs and lows and they know what they can expect from one another in the future.

William’s brother Harry said it best during his speech as best man. He said that brother William had inspired him. He showed him what true love was all about. I think that both William and Kate both inspired the world with their mature and genuine love and marrying the right person for the right reasons. www.drlillianglass.com

 

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Casey Anthony Didn’t Respond for 31 Days and a Dysfunctional Family Is No Excuse

Tuesday, May 3rd, 2011

The defenses’ argument that Casey Anthony didn’t respond for 31 days due to “family dysfunction” and that Casey  feared her father’s violence and mother’s wrath is completely lame in my view. No jury will buy it in my estimation. Even if that is the case, they will wonder why she didn’t go to brother Lee or to one of her friends or boyfriends.  

They will especially not buy that “fear of coming home and telling her parents because she feared their wrath” excuse. After  looking  at the Jailhouse tapes of Casey and her parents, they will clearly see  that it is SHE who runs them, not vice versa. She is the one in control.

Her father George even point-blank tells his daughter she is in control. If they read his jailhouse letters he sent to her, they will see him literally begging for her to see him. This once again indicates that it is Casey who is in control.

GEORGE???

George has been an absentee non- involved father it appears,  based on her comments to him “ Act like a father for the first time in you life.”  If she feared George’s violence, she would never have spoken to him like that.  

Yes, George may very well have a temper when pushed to his limit as we saw him on the lawn of his own home when he reacted violently. But under the circumstances, it is not difficult  to understand his outbursts when people were on his property and name calling. All of the shame, embarrassment and trying to keep it all together finally got to him.

Just because he may have shoved a few protesters does not mean he beat up on Casey and that she feared his violence towards her. If that were the case, as soon as she was in the home, he may have let her have it when she refused to say where Caylee was located.

Did he molest her? That may very well be a possibility. But that still wouldn’t account for her waiting 31 days to come home or to tell what happened to Casey. Apparently, when her father encountered her and spoke to her about the gas tanks she said something vulgar to him. If someone fears you, they don’t mouth off to you because they are petrified of what the person  may do to you.    

If Casey claims that George beat her and also beat Caylee and she was saving Caylee from George, this will be the lamest thing she can ever say.

Caylee was the one who brought joy into George’s life. He has been the one who has grieved the most for Caylee it appears.   From the tattoo of Caylee over his heart and the sincere body language and communication in terms of how he discusses her, he clealry adored her.  It doesn’t make sense that he would do Caylee any harm. There is no motive in my view. Why would he destroy the only one thing in his life that brought him joy. Since he had no job, it wasn’t his work that brought him joy. It certainly was not Cindy that brought him joy  based on what we have seen of them and what we have heard of their past troubles.

 CINDY???

As far as fearing Cindy, there was no question that  Cindy would no doubt  yell and scream and carry on as we have all seen her do. But Casey was the one  in control in that relationship as Cindy enabled her as Cindy  constantly covered for her,  just as she is doing  now .

Casey  was so in control over Cindy that she manipulated her by not telling her she dropped out of school and didn’t have a job and that there was a Zanny the Nanny . It was a “cat and mouse”  type of game Casey played with Cindy  for years to “get one over” on her.

There is no doubt that Casey detested Cindy for trying to control her and Caylee. While you can see that controlling behavior of Cindy’s  in the jailhouse tapes when Cindy says to Casey to look up so she can see Casey’s eyes. But then you can also see Casey’s hatred and sadism towards Cindy when Cindy was crying and Casey was laughing. Caey  says to her father, “What is this one crying about?” Casey was loving that she got Cindy upset. She was loving the control she was having over Cindy just as she loved the control by punishing Cindy for threatening to throw her out and keep Caylee.

Casey made sure that she would have the final control over her not being thrown out and cindy keeping Caylee by taking Caylee from the  home and never returning with her. Casey knew this would devastate Cindy. Caylee had never been away from George and Cindy for less than a day, so for Cindy to not make calls  to law enforcement and try to find Casey and Caylee after 10 days, let alone 31 days speaks volumes. It speaks to Cindy’s  stubbornness and pride and her own disdain towards Casey.

Having said all of this, even though she and Cindy had a dysfunctional relationship, there was no excuse for her to not tell Cindy right away. In fact,  the sooner  she told Cindy, the sooner she would havesadistic joy at seeing Cindy in pain over the loss of Caylee. But it  was Casey’s attempt to remain in control and to figure out what to do to explain away what she allegedly did to Caylee.

LEE?? FRIENDS?? BOYFRIENDS????

 Even if she detested and feared her parents, what about good old brother Lee? Apparently she loved him. After all, as she said on her facebook page, he was the coolest brother one could have. Why couldn’t she tell him during those 31 days?  She certainly didn’t fear him as we can see from the jailhouse tapes. Until recently, when she discovered that he had manipualted her for law enforcement, she thought he was her biggest ally.

And then there was her best friend Amy Huizinga and her other friends and the myriad of men. Why couldn’t she confide in them?

It was because she was  in the process if concocting her kidnap Zanny the Nanny story to explain what happened to Caylee and not have anyone point the finger at her allegedly doing away with Caylee.It was to work on the  story that it was someone else’s fault Caylee went missing- not hers.

There was no doubt that Casey  was in her  own world of denial and passive aggressiveness.This wasn’t the first time Casey displayed her denial and passive agressiveness. She definately displayed it when she was pregnant with Caylee and didn’t  tell her mother until she was well along in her prgnanacy. Cindy had no idea Casey was pregnant and even told her own brother Rick Plesea that Casey was a virgin, after  he confronted Cindy about Casey’s weight gain. Casey obviously does not deal with things right away and apprentlhy hopes the problem will just disappear on its own just like she did in this case with Caylee.   

 The longer that Caylee was  not around, the  longer Casey didn’t have to think about her parents or Caylee . The longer she could spend partying and having fun in the moment. We saw it when she partied and got” Bella Vida”  tattooed without thinking of Caylee.

After all, why should she?  In Casey’s abberant thoughts , Caylee was nothing but a huge burden to her. She didn’t even want Caylee  in the first place and allegedly thought so little of her, that  when she allegedly did away with Caylee,  she threw her  dead body into a garbage bag, just  like a piece of trash.

  Her motives to do away with Caylee were strong.

  1. Caylee kept her bonded and connected to her mother Cindy whom she detested.
  2.  Caylee interfered with her social night  life.
  3.  Caylee interfered with her daily life of doing whatever she was doing when she wasn’t working.
  4. Caylee interfered with her sex life, her boyfriends and spending time with them.
  5. Caylee interfered with all the attention that was supposed to go to her.    
  6. Caylee was a vehicle to be used to  hurt Cindy.
  7. Caylee was a source of competition which she resented.
  8. All the money that was spent on Caylee. her clothes and toys could have been spent on Casey.

The bottom line is that the defense will not succeed  if they present their theory of Casey’s fear of her parents to a jury. They  will  simply wonder why she didn’t get help from someone else if she was  so afraid of her parents. www.drlillianglass.com

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